genuinely explain how just being yourself DOESN'T work.
>>84650752I'm 30 years old and don't care for music and aesthetics.
>>84650752My parents never allowed me to be myself, to this day i still wear the mask
Incoming incel theories from the basement, not realizing that it's simple, he was just a decent guy to her
>>84650752Isnt that tuv? Some queer youtube creator? He has a platform so bitches want to fuck a nigga with some status
>>84650752I pray this love finds all of us. We're gonna make it bros
idk who i am, i have no sense of style and little to no hobbies, it is hard for me to form my own opinion without absorbing somebody elses, i am perceived as a weird big scary man who is probably autistic
>>84650752Myself is not merely physically repulsiveI am, most importantly, repulsive on a character level. Even worse, on a soul level. I would like to call myself the scourge of god or something edgy but truth is, the situation is just pitiful and pathetic, I can't even villainmaxx.
>>84650752Myself can't talk to chicks I'm attracted to for shit
>>84650752I can't relate to anyone and vice versa. Hence, no gf.
>>84650770oh wow how convenient I get a youtube recommendation for a "tuvington" not an hour after clicking on this thread reading your reply.this tracking technology is way too advanced, I dont remember this kind of stuff happening in 2020.
>>84650752i'm a piece of shit
>>84650752left is male, right is female
>>84650911have you tried taking interest in others?
>>84650766I feel you anonto this very day they can never take responsibility for how they acteverythings "in the past" until i have a huge fucking meltdownim sick of being raised by these disgusting narcissists. sure they put food on the table, but they use that as an excuse to be genuinely trash people. Every reaction of theirs is some sort of anger or entitlement, at this point i just wish i was never born
>>84650752I'm a far right nazi chud
>>84650752Being yourself genuinely works...If you're Chad Thundercock
>>84651446Just date a chinese
>>84650752>Dislike music.>Uninterested in clothes.>Dislike most people.>Strongly dislike politics.>Dislike most modern entertainment.>Dislike most of modern society.>See no value in shallow or superficial friendships.>Value authenticity, no interest in acting or faking to get people to like me.>Unwilling to lie to or take advantage of people.>Uninterested in climbing social ladders>Not really bothered by minor discomfort and don't try to avoid it.>Recognized early in life the futility of the cycle of want and grew disgusted with it, when most people are ruled by mindlessly persuing 'wants' that they think will make them happy, while failing to notice that these things never actually make them happy, because happiness is transient and cannot be 'obtained'.>Don't see much value in having money as long as my immediate needs are met, so no interest in hoarding it.>Definitely not interested in amassing wealth or the pointless tokens of it like 'nice' cars or 'fancy' clothing.>Am not offended by much and don't understand why other people are, so constantly offend people without understanding why.>Don't understand why people value material things or social status so highly and have little interest in either.>Basically I am just completely disinterested in the soulless and superficial modern world in it's entirety and feel no reason to actually participate in it, nor am I particularly bothered by things others fear and try to avoid like hunger or loss of social status.>The only things I really value are learning, morality, deep conversation and connection, empathy and understanding, honesty, truth, and fact.Myself is wholly incompatible with the modern western world, let alone what women want.All I really want is to escape the corruption and greed of society and build some shitty shack in the wilderness to read books in while hunting for and growing food.No woman wants to be with myself, I am the antithesis of everything women value.
>>84650752Wow she's fine. Happy for them
>>84650752Reminder that these kind of dudes are complete cucked simps and allows the chick to do literally everytnig including sleep overs at the bestie guy friends where "nothing happens" kek.
>>84652199Stop watching so much porn.Not everyone is a cuck.
>>84650752It's fucking stupid. Most people spend their lives trying to NOT be themselves, learning to smile when it's polite instead of when they feel the urge to, dressing up in cooler clothes, getting not the more efficient vehicle but the coolest one. Nobody is being themselves; they're actively altering their "self" to become more acceptable. What you have to do is learn to manage boundaries and lie better so it looks authentic. The only way "bee urself" works is when applied to goals: find out what you truly want or you'll be a puppet. t. did not find out until it was too late
>>84650752Because thats an eceleb
>>84650752Sometimes being yourself means saying insane shit, breaking social norms and ignoring the vibes of the group. Everyone masks. Everyone should mask enough to let people around them be comfortable. No one likes a spaz. No one likes to be around unpredictable people. No one likes being around constant negativity. Sorry to break it to you but this is reality.
>>84650752"Myself" is a timid unmasculine undominant unconfident autistic male feminist incel. No women want that and no women ever will.
>>84650914I just get generic ads for food and other generic products, usually in Dutch or German since that's where the exit node is when I'm browsing private on tor
>>84650752I don't like strangers. I don't like meeting new people. I don't like going to restaurants. In America, everything is centered around purchasing and food. I don't like concerts. I don't like being around lots of people. I about myself and other people annoy me.Questions?
Will women really fuck anyone who has a youtube channel these days?
>>84652607>these dayswomen fucking minor celebs has been a thing since forever. back in the day, it would be the loser in a band that plays to maybe 10 people
>>84650770The guy in op looks nothing like that guy, other than being brown.
>>84650752It doesnt work because I am a 27 year old KHV.
>>84651923Besides the music one I think those are all pretty common these days so you're not as much of an outcast as you think you are
>>84650752Myself rarely does anything on his time off that is conducive to meeting new people.
>>84652568>male feministSo you're a rapist?Sounds like "be yourself" should work.
Why is everybody here pretending this guy is ugly, if he's ugly I'm hideous
>>84650752Explain to me mathematically why you have the exact number of anal ridges that you have.
>>84651246>have you tried taking interest in others?Yes, but it's difficult. I want to live a completely different life to most people. It doesn't sound as bad as I'm making it, but most people aren't interested.
>>84650752The green hair reminds me of Sympathy for Mr Vengeance, that's a great movie, I should watch it again
>>84650752I've been myself my whole life and literally everyone thinks I'm fucking retarded
>>84650752Because i have the pereonality of a fish and no girl likes boys with personalities of a fish
>>84650752It genuinely does work, the thing that holds most guys up is that they lack the confidence. If you truly be yourself and don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks, there will be women out there that will take notice and be into it. Granted, having confidence is harder than it sounds but it's not impossible.
>>84650752how is this being yourself this guy just nichemaxxed to pull herwomen with that style are severely mentally ill and progressive so they date guys of other races (usually Asians) to look progressive for a while before breaking upyou can tell the relationship is strained because he's leaning into her instead of the other way
>>84655171>It genuinely does work, the thing that holds most guys up is that they lack the confidence. If you truly be yourself and don't give a fuck what anyone else thinksYou have absolutely no idea what it feels for your true self to be abhominable, weird and unlikeableThe only times I had success was by pretending to be someone else. When I actually was myself, that's when it all failed.
>>84650752being myself makes me a recluse with concerning fascination in martial arts
>>84655299>with concerning fascination in martial artsThat's like, the best fascination you could haveAt least you'll get fit and learn how to fightMy fascination is refreshing different 4chan tabs to see if I got any (you)s
>>84650752I am autistic. My brain doesn't work the same way it does for most people. And I don't like autistic girls (nor guys).
>>84655171>If you truly be yourself and don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks, there will be women out there that will take notice and be into it.That only happens if you're a normalfag
>>84650752I've been myself my whole life and not larped. Didn't work.Those people are trying to be a particular style they learned of. Not being themselves and they found each other. You are making a good point for not being yourself.
>>84650752Because they're both porn addicts who have weird kinks and probably are into ENM and the more normal you are the more fucked you are with women if you're an introvert who spent their childhood online. If you're some dark triad abusechad it still works because they imagine a 4chan guy as some sort of crazy stalker with degenerate fetishes but if you talk to them and you're plain you're fucked because it ruins the fantasy. My existence is one that women don't find palatable, even the girls who post about not wanting 4chan guys will still seek out the equivalent irl.
>>84650796Which aspects of your personality do you feel are unpleasant?
>>84655492On a character level goes far and beyond personality, but>Boring, completely uninteresting in conversations>not funny, at all>cowardly>insecure>want to always be right in discussions>lazy>hyperfocused on absolutely retarded stuff>My music taste is century old propaganda music (of all politcal kinds), or edited versions of random songs>no hobbies >enjoy self pity>I vehemently hate those around me, probably out of envyAnd this is just my personality, without getting in my personal failures that add to all of this, such as the fact that I don't have a driver license at 24 years old because I failed the exam 5 timesBeing myself at a date is possibly the worst thing I could do.
>>84650752being myself makes me beta bux material for batshit insane bpd hoes
>>84655228>you can tell the relationship is strained because he's leaning into her instead of the other wayInsanely powerful TRVTHNVKE.I know its truth because I've been the guy leaning into a woman who isn't in love with them. When it comes to women, never ever give more than you are getting
>>84652228Women's default state is to cuck betabucks.
>genuinely explain how just being yourself DOESN'T work.Foids hate manlets, especially bald ones who are hermit NEETs.All I'd want to do is fuck; and foids love going outside for some reason.I can't even get an old foid or granny who just wants me to fuck them.
>>84650752Hes brown, she wouldnt date his white equivalent
>>84656475I thought white men had an advantage in the sexual marketplace?
>>84656829they do but this type of girl will date them as 'charity work' to larp as progressive, they won't marry
>>84655299are you at least good at them