>>84680222
>Where do shy shut-in fembots look for a bf?
They don't, that's part of being shy shut ins.

>>84680222
I've known several over the years, they look for them in small communities, if they're in any, otherwise they don't.
And these women always go for attractive men, the only ones that don't are just desperate to move out or want stuff bought for them, and these latter relationships always fail.

>>84680236
So what are your options then? Just dating the same kind of retarded cunt that turns out to be an attentionwhore? It's all so tiring

>>84680252
>So what are your options then?
There were never any options to begin with.

>>84680232
They must want some kind of male interaction surely

>>84680232
There HAS to be some way

>>84680222
I cant find a bf because i don't go outside. And r9k is full of awful evil moids so I'd rather be single

>>84680748
>evil moids
define evil kek
you arent going to find anyone if you assume everyone's shit

>>84680898
>define evil kek
Youre definitely one of them

>>84681045
>tfw you realize that every fembot who isnt an attentionwhore is paranoid and untrusting
what a world
anyway didnt answer the question. based on the stories ive heard from others, i can guarantee im not one of them lol

>>84680748
Have you considered dating apps, or even soc?

>>84681373
>soc
i think shes better off not on soc
if she thinks guys on r9k are evil, soc is on a whole other level

>>84680222
>shy shut-in
>women who don't seek out constant male attention
>but still wants a boyfriend (you, the special unicorn)
Lmao

>>84681401
I don't seek out constant female attention and still want a special unicorn girlfriend though.

>>84681401
Op here, what this guy said >>84681412
sadly most women who seek guys out will seek out another guy after they get bored of you, if you dont give them what they want

>>84680222
i'm pretty much like this and my sister is too. she has been in an on off LDR for 5 years with some random math major. neither of us use social media or have any kind of online presence, and not much of irl presence either at all. in my case i had major oneitis for a guy i used to know many many years ago (but would never want to be with for reasons, conflicting i know) and kinda haven't been able to experience attraction to other men since. so that's why i don't seek to date or anything.
>t. shy + neet

>>84681412
>I don't seek out constant female attention
That's why you don't have a girlfriend. Seeking out the opposite sex's attention is how dating works. If someone isn't engaging in that behavior it's because they aren't interested or they're retarded and think it'll just fall into their lap one day.

>>84681472
But I don't want a woman who wants guys who seek out attention from women, I want a woman who wants a shy shut-in nerd.

>>84681465
so basically extremely picky, have certain standards for what you want
I mean its fair, just sucks that the average woman isnt willing to actually put in the work to maintain a relationship anymore and the ones that do are extremely hard to find

>>84681465
Please clean your room and look for some form of employment, even if it's just streaming your video games to nobody for a few years

>>84680222
>look
LOL the amount of people I know who acknowledge they want a relationship but also that they don't put in the time to meet others and approach people first is wild
>shy
lots of shy people on the net whether here, twitter, discord but a lot of them are shy because they're very cautious now or try to be even if they'd love for things to work out
sometimes they only open up after weeks or months of seeing what your qualities and interests are like and if you might be receptive towards theirs and suddenly a new level of enthusiasm is coming from them

>>84681529
yeah and like ive said, most of these people are extremely picky. there's a reason why so many younger people are single now. its over

>>84681562
it's unfortunate that there's not a lot of guidance or at least not a structure culture of where people can turn to
good news is some of those people I've mentioned who acknowledge they need to put in more effort actually have after many reminders and much encouragement
despite her hinting I have a feeling that girl who opened up to me will be a better match to me as a friend and once we start hanging out IRL I'll be the first in-person friend she's have in a long time
DESU not even sure how many of these people are actually ready for a relationship yet given how unaccustomed they are to the process of being friends with people in real life

>>84680222
most of the women to ever seriously use r9k are either autistic or BPD. either way, they tend to look either A. for men easy to control via manipulation or B. men who will ruin their lives and make it easier to convince themselves to die. and yes, its an oxymoron. just in the way that men tend to constantly seek out female attention.
>>84680748
everywhere is full of awful evil moids and awful evil foids, people in general tend towards selfish use of others.
>>84681509
women who want this are extremely insecure and feel this is the only way they can experience control within a relationship. SOME of them are still ultimately not trying to do harm, but for the most part this is the ultimate set up to get mindraped by a BPD sufferer.

>>84681630
>women who want this are extremely insecure and feel this is the only way they can experience control within a relationship. SOME of them are still ultimately not trying to do harm, but for the most part this is the ultimate set up to get mindraped by a BPD sufferer.
My BPD ex actually hated the fact that I genuinely didn't give a fuck about socializing despite being controlling like that lol. It was an "eat cake, still have cake" thing where I needed to have a genuine social drive AND direct it entirely towards her, not realizing that if it's not a normalfag who goes out and meets people, it's a shut in loner like me who needs space.

>>84681660
>My BPD ex actually hated the fact that I genuinely didn't give a fuck about socializing despite being controlling like that lol.
you will never be enough for a sufferer of BPD, ever. they will always find something to throw in your face and despise about you no matter how perfectly you treat them. never, ever forget this.

>>84681630
>either A or B
try both. my experiences with women off here are that they want you to both non-confrontational when it comes to relationship issues, but also want you to be a dom that gets them off. its fucking tiring i just want a normal relationship
its an oxymoron absolutely, but they want you to "ruin" their lives and yet will end up ruining yours if you care about them too much.
>>84681660
>>84681700
just reading this shit gives me some sort of ptsd
>>84681627
yeah well ive given up trying to find someone i can actually hang out with often irl

>>84680222
I only have access to a guy because my roommate shares her bf. Otherwise I wouldn't have or be seeking male attention

>>84680222
>Where do shy shut-in fembots look for a bf?
personally, I don't want a bf. I like being alone 90% of the time, so it's not worth it for that remaining 10%

>>84681746
this thread is meant for relatively normal people, not freaks like you
>>84681786
wonder at what age you're going to regret that

>>84681728
giving up or at least not seeing things changing in the foreseeable future is understandable
at one point I reached a "take it or leave it" mindset because I was really disappointed by how a former best friend burned the bridge
sure I would go on to meet wonderful people and it was a huge surprise since I wasn't looking to make friends but I know things can change and am at peace with that since there's a lot out there to enjoy and one can never hang out with friends 24/7 anyway

>>84681630
I wish I wasn't a magnet for evildoers. I don't want to be a fucking victim. All I wanted was love and a simple cozy little life, but this world and the people on it are wicked beyond belief

>>84681746
>my roommate shares her bf
How did it start? What do you do?

>>84681797
Neet shut-ins are not remotely normal people

>>84681728
>my experiences with women off here are that they want you to both non-confrontational when it comes to relationship issues, but also want you to be a dom that gets them off. its fucking tiring i just want a normal relationship
disgusting, me personally, due to mental illness i am completely disinterested in this dynamic to the point where I do not bother.
>normal relationship
that IS what's normal.
>they want you to "ruin" their lives and yet will end up ruining yours if you care about them too much.
such is the way, treat all relationships as a temporary shared experience. no one is perfect for another person, and broken people don't just get fixed. you have exceptions to this but no point in betting yourself on being so lucky.
>just reading this shit gives me some sort of ptsd
natural, BPD relationships are a traumatizing event for both parties.
>>84681786
stop replying to bait.
>>84681813
>I wish I wasn't a magnet for evildoers.
you aren't, you specifically pick out these people due to your own mental flaws. though predators do seek out prey, you are not prey. you have every opportunity to select for individuals who will not bring harm to you intentionally. try to get a grip, anon. no one is a victim in this way.

>>84681797
>wonder at what age you're going to regret that
regret what? being asocial? it's not like it's my choice

>>84681849
nah, being a shutin is normal these days. being a weird whore that shares a dudes dick isnt

>>84681845
She felt bad for me and offered it if I wanted. It's a pretty straightforward arrangement, I get to be intimate with him and try not to step on her toes. It's good for me who never leaves our apartment and has no social life

>>84681857
oops, intended to reply to this guy. >>84681797
this new captcha is fucking annoying.

>>84681883
Literally the opposite is true retard. Have you even met normies? Go outside and touch grass.

>>84681857
>you specifically pick out these people due to your own mental flaws
I didn't. I mean literally just talking to anons off of here for the possibility of a relationship is insane because so many of them are evil. I didn't enter a relationship with them

>>84681885
So do you make out and suck his cock or go all the way? Threesomes? How does he feel about it?

>>84681899
sorry, misinterpreted you. can you define what exactly evil means to you in the context of another person?

>>84681902
All of the above, whatever I'm feeling like. No threesomes, it's just his time split between her and me when she isn't around. I get the sense that he doesn't like it or would prefer just being exclusive with his gf, but he also feels bad for me like she does and goes along with it

>>84681931
Do you care at all what future relationship prospects might think of that? What if you really spice things up by stopping your birth control without telling them and getting pregnant?

>>84681786
>personally, I don't want a bf. I like being alone 90% of the time, so it's not worth it for that remaining 10%
I have the same problem as a man tbqh, I do want a bit of intimacy but I want to spend most of my time alone and if I had a gf I'd rather mostly just talk to her online.

>>84681916
Ulterior motives, wanting to cause harm, lying, making posts wanting to expose me/gather information, wasting my time when they don't truly want a relationship and probably just nudes.

>>84681958
He's the only guy I've been with. Not like I'm expecting to ever have a future relationship but I'd hope another guy could tolerate it. I know normies don't give a shit about body count. Getting pregnant could be funny but I don't want to fuck up a good thing. Unless I knew for sure that he'd leave her for me

>>84681996
>Unless I knew for sure that he'd leave her for me
Jesus, she's way too nice and needs to learn how people really operate and dump her boyfriend. You're wicked

>>84681996
He probably won't leave her but he'd be obligated to stay with his child and their mother

>>84681993
the issue is that there are a lot of men from /soc/ who use this board, and then a lot of people are so disenfranchised with their own worth that they think there is absolutely no shot for anything real in the first place so they go for whatever they think they can actually get out of it. i don't think the way you view things is wrong, really.

>>84681893
porn =/= touching grass, stop gooning femoid

>>84682029
She's clearly getting off from her cuckquean fetish.

>>84682029
It probably wouldn't happen so I wouldn't do it anyway. Not like she couldn't just get another bf anyway

>>84682063
If I was going as far to have a kid with a guy I wouldn't want to be sharing him

>>84681996
please see yourself out of my thread, disgusting whore
>>84682029
this. this is the cunt telling people that this is "normal" lmao. most normies arent like this. maybe a large chunk of them, but thats not "most"

>>84681996

>Unless I knew for sure that he'd leave her for me

Well, at least you're honest. That's a homewrecker's mentality though. I don't understand why you'd want a guy to jump ship from a committed relationship over to you because then you put yourself in the same position that the girlfriend was in where he can leave you too if someone else perceived as better comes along.

>>84682100
>teehee im ok with him sticking my dick in me but if he gets me pregnant he HAS to be mine alone
again, this cunt wants you to believe that this is normal. this thing isnt normal, ignore it.

>>84682105
I didn't say it was normal, you're talking about different people responding to you schizo

>>84682108
Which is why it's not a serious consideration. Are we persecuting thought-crime now?

>>84681863
>its not like its my choice
it literally is your choice to try and not talk to people
also how is this thread bait? im sure a lot of shutin women just dont want to get ran through or are just shy. being shutin doesnt mean that someone doesnt want some sort of social connection

>>84682112

lmao youre arguing against yourself here and dont even realize it retard

>>84680222
Here, there are plenty of similarly shut in dudes. And no, not all are complete wastes of life
>>84680748
Everyone is evil and manipulative in some way, you need to find some kind of evil you can tolerate otherwise nobody will tolerate yours.

>>84682064
It's a shame because I really was naive enough to think I could find my male counterpart here because we'd have things in common. Instead I'll probably just become an agoraphobic cat lady.

>>84682176
to look for a counterpart inofitself is a bit misguided. romance media has poisoned the minds of the populace full stop. what this >>84682173
anon said is more or less true. we all are a bit terrible in our own ways, romance is about either finding something interesting enough about someone to stick around awhile or connecting on some real level and seeing how well you can tolerate their actual person, or a combination of the two.

>shy shut-in fembots look for a bf
They don't. They're shut-ins for a reason.

>>84682173
>>84680748
That said, this didn't work for me in the end, she found mine intolerable after a while despite my best efforts, and then hers led her to betray me in the worst way. Still though, 5 years is the best I've done with a relationship so far, so I'm making some progress I think.

>>84682200
I don't think looking for a counterpart is misguided. You're just needlessly playing devil's advocate. Anyone practical wants to find someone they would be compatible enough with to have a long term relationship with

>>84682255
it is 100% misguided, it's not going to pan out for you that way, and over the course of history it has never panned out this way. if you mean a relationship of convenience, then it had better stay convenient for the both of you because the factors that lead to women staying within relationships they didn't care for have mostly been removed from modern society, and most men don't want to be in a relationship the woman doesn't like as well anyhow.
>Anyone practical wants to find someone they would be compatible enough with to have a long term relationship with
I guess it depends on what you mean by longterm, in my mind "counterpart" == "soul mate" == "life partner". pursuing something like this is ABSOLUTELY misguided, for men or women.

>>84682255
>>84682255
Define "compatible". If you mean shared interests or values, those can change over the years. If you mean emotional compatibility and understanding, that takes time to acquire and work from both parties to maintain, and of course as men and women's brains function somewhat differently will never be perfect.

>>84682307
IMO long term relationships can work, it just has to be something both partners give a shit about, which in this era of apathy and selfishness (especially for women) is very hard to do.

>>84682434
to be honest, i think 5 years is already quite, quite impressive. i believe the average length of relationships is shortening, people seem less and less willing to deal with other peoples shit given the shartening of existing in general. this goes for the west, anyway. you're just hard pressed to end up in a scenario that isn't glorified co-dependence.

>>84682173
>there are plenty of similarly shut in dudes
sure, but the problem is that women either date around a ton or dont date at all. its tiring

>>84682459
Codependence is kind of the point of relationships, if you don't need your partner in some way there's really no reason to keep things going. Ultimately that's what sank mine, she got a better job, lost weight, got confident, and despite my quitting alcohol and starting my own decently paying job, obviously that wasn't enough to stop her seeking out an upgrade. Really dumb move on her part IMO considering she's already 32, doesn't want kids and is still fairly asocial most of the time, but women and logic, hey?

>>84682140
>it literally is your choice to try and not talk to people
I tried it; I didn't like it because, again, I'm asocial. how is that hard to understand? I guess normalfags just don't get it
>also how is this thread bait?
? why are you asking me? lurk for at least 2 years, newshitter

>im sure a lot of shutin women just dont want to get ran through or are just shy. being shutin doesnt mean that someone doesnt want some sort of social connection
>start my post with "personally" so people don't think I'm speaking for every person in the same situation
>still get some moron thinking I'm generalizing

>>84680222
>shut-in fembot
Only ever had a bf because of Discord. I know its over. Im only into abusive twinks. Im a sigma. Im going to be alone forever .

>>84682555
>Codependence is kind of the point of relationships, if you don't need your partner in some way there's really no reason to keep things going.
digits, and while I do agree, i am talking specifically on the mental aspect. these kinds of relationships without real bonafide connection are truthfully just as transactional as those based on the material.
>Ultimately that's what sank mine, she got a better job, lost weight, got confident
i think most of us have been here before, i'm sorry you went through that friend. always a wake up call being reminded how fragile these things are.

>being a shut-in in 2026
Yikes!

If you haven't been raped then you have no excuse for being a shut-in, and if you have been raped then you still shouldn't allow it to define your life.

Shy people who AREN'T shut-ins, I see you and I love you.

>>84682645
as someone who has been raped more than once, by more than once person, i am going to assume that i am therefore allowed to be a shut-in and for it to define my life. thank you for your support.

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>>84682654
Nope, not gonna do it, not gonna let you reduce your whole life to be defined by rape.

You are a person whose life matters, whose life is worthwhile, and whose life deserves to engage with the world at large.

>>84682676
basically the only way i can enjoy my life is removed from society for the most part tho. not! suicidal, but if i were forced to live normally i probably would be.

>>84681993
nta but kek when you automatically assume men are evil but then give evil fucks a chance, maybe youre just choosing the wrong people
shitty dudes act extra sweet and nice at first, havent you figured that out yet?

>>84682606
are you assuming that anyone who isnt asocial is a normalfag? how convenient for you

>>84682645
Home is comfy, outside is not.

>>84682704
>are you assuming that anyone who isnt asocial is a normalfag?
no, but telling someone that stated that's an asocial shut-in to "just talk to people lol" is peak normalfaggotry

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>>84680222
i have a tumblr blog for art and i skitter around discord servers and chat with lotsa people. whenever i meet somebody new i make sure to bring up that im dating someone long distance so they know i'm unavailable, but i'm just lyin. i just dont like people trying to be flirty and weird. anyone who does flirt i know is rotten since they would want me to cheat, and people who dont are more loyal and stuff. one day i tell myself i'll meet someone really special and maybe take a chance and confess to them. otherwise i stay cooped up and nobody bothers me!

>>84680222
Be abusive
Be a rapist
Be a pedophile
That's about what I have gathered from observing them. You dont even have to be attractive or successful at all.

>>84682891
>give someone who is abrasive at first a chance, he ends up being evil
"Lol you should've known"
>give someone who is sweet at first a chance, he ends up being evil
"Lol you should've known"
>give someone who is neutral and nonchalant a chance, he ends up being evil
"Lol you should've known"

>>84683181
unfortunately for your warped world view, interacting with someone, especially a male considering you are a female, one on one in a private environment like DMs is inofitself a cheatful endeavor. people like to say things, but in reality you are already giving certain signals just by participating this way. truthfully, your outlook in general is pretty repulsive, despite how you are trying to frame yourself as light-hearted and waiting for your special someone. it is a bit pathetic, anon.

>>84683321
what the heck are you talking about? you just made up a bunch of stuff in your head to be mad about for no reason? what mean things are you imagining about me?

>>84683344
he's right though, if you were dming random dudes while in an ldr i would think you're cheating or looking to cheat

>>84683344
digits, and
>you just made up a bunch of stuff in your head to be mad about for no reason?
its frustrating when people do this. ok.
>whenever i meet somebody new i make sure to bring up that im dating someone long distance so they know i'm unavailable, but i'm just lyin.
gross outright lie that you do regularly that you seem to think is okay because.
>i just dont like people trying to be flirty and weird
there is actually no help for this because most people will do it if they want to regardless of if you are single or not, and the vast majority of men are interacting with a woman primarily on the core motivation of the POTENTIAL for something. not that they wouldn't if they thought it was really unlikely, but try telling guys you meet that they have ZERO chance, no need to be rude but being very clear. they will either lose all interest or become extremely upset.
>anyone who does flirt i know is rotten since they would want me to cheat
by interacting at length with someone in private who is the sex you are attracted to, you are giving signals that you are unsatisfied in this fake relationship you made up yourself to make judgement calls on people that are in-turn behaving entirely reasonably.
>and people who dont are more loyal and stuff.
just an absurd point of view to have.

does that make it more clear?

>>84683361
am i not supposed to have friends?

>>84683374
yes it does, but your argument basically is like
>its messed up to lie about being in a relationship when you're not
which i disagree with because it's nobodys business but mine. you seem to believe saying "I DONT WANT TO DATE YOU" is equivalent, but it's not. men don't like to take no for an answer, and respect the idea of another man's possession of me more than my own boundaries. can you tell me what harm this lie causes in literally any way to anybody?
and
>being friends with men implies you want to cheat
which is so goofy! i think you spend too much time around people who are hypersexual or something. me and my friends chat and have fun every day. i play one on one sometimes but we usually hang out in groups because its more fun. even if you date someone that doesn't mean you should socially isolate yourself.

i think you might have the idea that i'm just burning through guys where we spend a lot of time together but then they flirt and i ghost or something, and it's just constant, but i'm not meeting total strangers every other day, im just hanging out. the side of the internet you spend time in sounds scary and lonely and dark.

>>84683463
i mean, i was friends with a girl for years online and i didn't see her as anything but a friend but then she asked me out and ruined the friendship so personally i don't believe or trust that men and women can be friends
>people who are hypersexual or something
that's most people, they just hide it especially from the opposite sex
>the side of the internet you spend time in sounds scary and lonely and dark.
pretty much

>>84683290
the thing is, something as dumb as "he watched porn once" is evil to you
i hope you realize that you're the reason for collapsing birthrates

>>84683586
>the thing is, something as dumb as "he watched porn once" is evil to you
Yeah, because I totally said that. If you're not going to actually try to engage or get a clear picture, don't bother replying to me with made up nonsense.

>>84683596
alright then, care to explain what evil you're referring to? I've talked to people who have dealt with shitty guys on here. I've met guys that have weird obsessions, are constantly on a cocktail of drugs, and are generally messed in the head. I've also met women that are constantly on drugs and get ran through, so maybe that's the kind of person you're referring to

>>84683536
im really sorry that happened anon. that is upsetting for sure. for what it's worth, i have guy friends and have for a couple of years, and it's nice. it's definitely possible. i hope you get the chance to learn that for yourself.

>>84683716
>alright then, care to explain what evil you're referring to?
I already explained here >>84681993
which is where you started replying to me to argue for seemingly no reason. Can you leave it alone now? Otherwise it just makes me feel like you're guilty of one or more of those things and trying to downplay it and I'm actually exaggerating or something. I don't want to argue and I was pretty straightforward

>>84683759
ah you're the same person. sorry there's a bunch of people in this thread
>i assume you're like that because you asked me questions
jeez i wonder why you dont have a boyfriend
anyway what you said wasnt really specific, but yeah people on here doxx others and fuck with others for no reason. sorry that happened to you

>>84683463
>which i disagree with because it's nobodys business but mine.
so-called friendships where you feel like you have to lie. definitely very valuable and real!
>respect the idea of another man's possession of me more than my own boundaries
if this is your perspective, why would you even want to have friends like this?
>can you tell me what harm
i didn't say it was harmful i'm just saying its pathetic, which it is.
>being friends with men implies you want to cheat
not in every situation, but as a general rule, if you become close with a man who you have established with that you are in a relationship, there are obvious signals here socially.
>but we usually hang out in groups
could have guessed this much
>even if you date someone that doesn't mean you should socially isolate yourself.
this is a weird conclusion to draw from what I was saying. i can at least promise you that I would not be extensively one on one in what would consider an actual, connected friendship with another woman, were i commited to one. it's dishonest behavior. there are obviously reasonable levels of interaction to have with the opposite sex regardless though. I don't think thats what you're doing since you can't actually cheat, so you're not in actual constraints.
>the side of the internet you spend time in sounds scary and lonely and dark.
i talk to everyone, from r9k fellow freaks to people who work full time and have a family to anything else. no point in trying to draw conclusions about my character based on the observations i'm providing you.

>>84683843
also how do you know who i am? two people replied to you, but anyway my point stands - you seem like an insufferable cunt to be around.
my one condition for women now is that they can talk about issues like a normal human being, and so far almost none pass that test

>>84683882
meant to reply to >>84683759
its late

>>84683536
why are you replying to the part of their post that was directed at me? anyway.
>i didn't see her as anything but a friend but then she asked me out and ruined the friendship so personally i don't believe or trust that men and women can be friends
same thing has happened to me, shit sucks but it is reality. you have to engage in willful delusion mutually for this not to be the case, especially if you got along well. it is natural for the vast majority of people to desire more and more as a relationship progresses.
>they just hide it especially from the opposite sex
very true.

>>84683843
>>84683882
>Jumping to insulting me for no reason
You should've just done that from the start so I wouldn't have even bothered engaging with you. Typical evil person. You can have a change of heart before it's too late. And if you still somehow want to convince yourself that you're actually the good guy here, go back to the start of the reply chain and read everything out loud and consider if that's how someone who is not malignant or evil would talk to other people.

>>84683918
im not insulting you for no reason, im insulting you because you're an insufferable paranoid cunt
>waaah waaah evil
ah there it is, anyone who upsets you is "evil"
what'd i do? leak your nudes? try to use you? be fake with you?
nah, none of that. I just got annoyed and called you out for being vague and paranoid.
get over yourself

>>84683961
Hopefully you're just an angry teenager that grows up to become a better person. Take care anon

>>84683918
also
>would talk to people
again, assumptions.
Like i said before, you end up tricked and used and abused because you think people that are "nice" arent being fake to you. Guys that abuse women and are rotten pieces of shit know how to mask themselves and often appear extremely sweet at the start.
if you're such an idiot that you cant detect fake-nice people, that's on you (and I know you're that kind of idiot because you automatically jump to me being evil for an insult)

>>84683965
>le im the bigger person
honestly your words mean nothing considering that you're a dumbfuck that got used and leaked by abusechad on here lmao
I mean you most likely are a good person deep down, but god are you stupid. Once again, you jumped to me being a bad person for an insult. You dont know me or anything about me. Enjoy being used and abused by overly nice narcissists for your entire life

>>84680222
they're usually not very smart either tho, see here:
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>>84684043
yeah we've established that she isn't smart.
gets leaked by the narcissists she trusts, and then assume anyone slightly rude to her is le evil
I'm slowly giving up hope on finding a woman with any sense in her head

>>84684071
>I'm slowly giving up hope on finding a woman with any sense in her head
well, if you go off any of the people here who professed to be women it is a sorry sight. to be honest, i have met plenty of smart women though they all are extremely aware of their value and are very unlikely to ever entertain a man who knows what robot9000 is lol.

>>84684109
you make a fair point
i'd love to meet a woman who was as much of a loser as me but also not retarded enough to hop from guy to guy, or trust scumbags like the idiot in this thread
one can dream

>>84684140
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>>84683977
most normal bpdfag

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>>84684152
peep the file name and grow up. i feel like the way type/talk is pretty recognizably not the same as the person i was replying to, but schizos exist everywhere.
>>84684140
>as much of a loser as me
don't exist, the male idea of a loser is uniquely male and alien to the female experience. just mentally ill men fantasize about being dainty, attractive women, so too do mentally ill women fantasize about being nerdy, loner men. its real, and i've seen it many times.

>>84684172
>fantasize about beign dainty attractive women
am i losing my mind or are you just talking out your ass? i dont want to be a fucking troon and i dont care about any of this shit
i just want a loyal woman that isnt some retarded bpd cunt who actually likes me for who i am

>>84684268
i'm not saying YOU do, i'm saying that some men fantasize about the unattainable as a man, some women do the same even though the BENEFITS may not seem equal, the reality is similar. basically, there is no such thing as a loser woman. even being drop dead hideous as a woman is simply an entirely different experience to being a loser as a man. not really comparable.
>i just want a loyal woman that isnt some retarded bpd cunt who actually likes me for who i am
that is tough man.

>>84682218
jesus christ I can't believe you are still here. you're the long haired guy, right?

>>84683897
>why are you replying to the part of their post that was directed at me?
cause i can
>you have to engage in willful delusion mutually for this not to be the case, especially if you got along well.
pretty much, i was just very naive and had no experience with women so i never even considered it happening

>>84682627
My whole point is that real, bonafide connection is something which has to be built and maintained over time, immediate connection is a decent way to start a relationship but it never lasts. If you chase that constantly, you will never be happy with anyone for more than a few months tops.
>>84684291
Yeah, I left for quite a while but now I'm back. DESU I am low-key trying to still leverage my infamy to get laid again, but I seriously doubt that has any chance of working in current day.

>>84684362
Aren't you an alcoholic and probably bald by now? I don't like when tripfags come back, please go away or be anon

>>84684378
No, I still have all my hair, and as I said earlier in the thread, I stopped drinking a few weeks ago, and this time I genuinely believe it's permanent. Alcohol stopped doing what I wanted it to do, and now drinking by myself in my mum's house just seems like a way to waste money making myself fatter and sadder. Maybe some day I will drink again if it's a genuinely celebratory occasion with friends, but that's not something I want to experiment with anytime soon.

>>84684401
If you're on r9k and back tripfagging, you're definitely going to pick up drinking again dumbass

>>84683181
Imagine playing these sort of games just because youre bored and because you know you have endless options. They can just relax and pick n choose at any time. Little does she know the number 1 reason they even engage with her at all is because shes a woman, and then she tries to vet boys by saying she has a ldr and judge them based on their reactions lol. The fact theyre speaking to you at all means theyve failed. Guys dont randomly focus on and interact with other guys they find online unless theyre gay or theyre playing a game together

>>84684515
you can look at it as lavish or pathetic, i tend toward the latter. ultimately, this individual will never know the experience of male brotherhood and friendship, and the brings me comfort.

>>84684433
No, like I said drinking doesn't work for me anymore. Closest I came to relapse was the night I stopped at a motel in Nevada on the way here, I felt like total crap so I went to the casino, thinking I'd go to the bar, have a drink and maybe try to chat with a lady or something, but when all I saw were my fellow sad old alcoholics I just left in disgust.