Can someone explain the appeal of sex and how attraction works to me?Idk, I'm probably autistic but when I see a conventionally attractive lady, I don't think "wowie, my penis is hard and I'd like to put it inside her vaginal canal and pull it in and out really fast until I ejaculate!" I don't really get hard when I see women (or dudes either for that matter). The only time I get hard is either seeing trannies/crossdressers but I don't think/desire to have sex with them. When I do get off, it's to the idea of imaging myself crossdressing or as a chick, or it's like, to the idea of myself doing weird sissy/submissive/fetish shit. Unfortunately, it's been that way forever. Even when I was 12/13, I couldn't get off to normal stuff when I first found porn, but I easily could to fetish stuff....So I guess my main questions:>What is it like to be attracted to women?>What is the appeal of sex?>Similarly, what is it like to be gay and what is the appeal of gay sex?>What is wrong with me?>Can I be fixed?
>>84695848Nah I'm not gonna waste my time sorry
When I see someone attractive, I either get turned on by their beauty itself, without any particularly penetrative notion, or by the idea of tying them down and tickle torturing them all over while they beg and plead uselessly for mercy
>>84695848>Idk, I'm probably autistic but when I see a conventionally attractive lady, I don't think "wowie, my penis is hard and I'd like to put it inside her vaginal canal and pull it in and out really fast until I ejaculate!"You are overintellectualizing. Sexual attraction doesn't happen in the conceptualizing part of your brain, it happens in the lizard brain. You need to allow yourself to feel it, it can't be thought. It doesn't happen for a logical reason you can figure out; evo-psych is post-hoc rationalization of *why* something irrational had a beneficial selective effect.Go meditate. Shut your conscious mind the fuck up, it's keeping you from hearing what your body tells you.
>>84695902>tickle torturing
>>84695870>I'm not gonna waste my time>although I did waste my time creating this postLmao retard.
>>84695848i dont get it either, but i know pp go in hole, it feel good, i shoot shoot
>>84696201I will track you down
>>84695848>The only time I get hard is either seeing trannies/crossdressers but I don't think/desire to have sex with them.So you're a fag then. Book closed.
>>84696280I'm not ticklish anymore so you'll be deeply unsatisfied by the result.
>>84695902What is it like to be turned on by the beauty?>>84696192Interesting...What happens if I just don't "feel" it though?>>84696340:(
>>84696411>What happens if I just don't "feel" it though?Go to the doctor, there are various vitamin deficiencies that can cause libido loss or anhedonia.
Actually OP are you on SSRIs or SNRIs? If so you probably already completely poisoned your brain and will never feel true pleasure again.
>>84696456I am on SSRIs...But I was like this before them too
>>84697322Did your mother take SSRIs while breastfeeding you?
