How are you supposed to get a girlfriend with nerdy interests and a good sense of humour that isn't also a complete loser? Is it possible? Do such women exist?
>>84697531You'd be lucky if she was just a complete loser and not a BPD basketcase
>>84697531i'm nerdy but also a neet loser got me. i know that someone's ex gf was what you describe, but also evil, she left him for a known pedophile . the rest of the women i know or personally know of aren't into nerdy stuff in any way.
>>84697531Uhm you can find them at uni or work but that requires you to be social
>>84697531Anon you're a loser why do you not want a loser gf
>>84697546Being a total loser, I've found, is usually the primary cause of such mental issues. I can deal with crazy, can't deal with having no real aspirations/drive
>>84697531What kind of priorities are these? You want a woman who is into your animes and videojames, funny, presumably at least somewhat attractive, and this isn't enough, you want them to be ambitious and highly driven? Are you out of your mind? You can barely find women that are into nerdy things of the seinen spectrum to begin with, what you want is like one in a million at best, likely one in 10-100 million.
>>84697561Go out with one and you'll find out real quick. A loser woman is 10x worse than a guy.
>>84697584Yeah you've got the right idea! Where are they!!!
>>84697586This is why you'll stay alone though
>>84697531>complete loserExplain why a not-loser girl would be in any way as good as, let alone better than, a loser girl. This is the same retard mindset of career women thinking theyre on par with more attractive women because they have money
>>84697603By "complete loser" I mean someone (doesn't have to be a woman) that has no hopes and no dreams for the future, just going through the motions. Most girls I meet and talk to these days fall into this camp. They don't want to work, they don't want to try. Just living to live.
>>84697603Because they're extremely insecure. At first it manifests as being really clingy and loving. Then they get tired of you and when their ego gets bigger they suddenly think you're beneath them and leave you.
>>84697562>no real aspirations/driveWhat counts as a valid aspiration/drive? most jobs don't have much to them other than being a source of income so not being a complete loser doesn't guarantee having aspirations
>>84697671I guess that depends person to person, I'd consider it as wanting a certain role or profession that requires skill, patience and practice, all of which are usually things "losers" can't/won't work on or do.
>>84697631So exactly like a not-loser woman, except you at least get a brief period of pretend non-transactional love instead of none at all?
