This place is the emotional equivalent of BDSM where people come to spend hours arguing with people and saying the worst things ever, don't you guys get tired of it? Some of you do this daily and I don't know how your nervous system doesn't burn you out.
>>84700447I don't know how to solve my IRL problems so I come here begging for advice. In a way, we're all here against our will because we're lost and have no other place to go
Negative posts are designed to be addicting but it's terrible on the body tbdesu I just come here to shitpost sometimes, the niggas here who unironically spend all day on r9k will get health problems galore from chronic stress.
>>84700447Thank you for posting a cute asian girl. She lifted my mood.
This is the closest thing I can get to socializing that I'm comfortable with. Everything else feels too direct and personal
>>84700463How about you go on the actual advice board instead of asking people who will just call you a fag and tell you to kill yourself? I'm confused.
>>84700486why would people magically have better insights just because they're on the advice board?
I like to constructively (and sometimes unconstructively) shit talk people as painfully as I can make it. In doing so I advance my understanding of the workings of the human mind and at varying levels of depravity you can find on here. It's like how mankind had to cut apart the bodies of humans to understand the inner workings, but I cut open minds.My understanding is already at an incredible level. I also freely give out premium advice, knowing that even though the target of my advice may refuse the truth others that see the post and never reply may benefit, as I had once lurked and received the benefits. I'm passing it along.
>>84700447This place is just a punching bag for me. Somewhere i can scream my frustrations without a bunch of normal fag retards to screen shot it and try to ruin my life for it.
>>84700447i don't, its mostly at certain points of my life that i've decided to spend awhile here. i eventually do something else and then come back.>>84700486ADV posters are fucking retards, either the most braindrained normaltard you've ever met or some variety of irl faggot.
>>84700610People have done this with me (I'm autistic) for a large part of my life, and all it did was fuel my self-hatred and developing a fear of making mistakes. Those who were compassionate were way more effective and gave me room to be a developing human.
>>84700664nta but that's not just an autistic thing, overly hostile criticism puts the brain into a defensive state and stifles personal growth whereas compassionate criticismmakes people feel more confident and willing to learn from mistakes. can people learn from it? maybe. but the recipient is more likely to be worse off.
>people are willing to listen to you when you aren't calling them a retarded nigger faggotYou don't need a biology lesson for this
>>84700622Unfortunately I'm addicted to browsing here and end up feeling the physical effects of being other people's punching bags. But my actual skills are largely ignored so I neglect them.
>>84700447I feel sad and tired all the time with or without this place. At least i can talk and see others in a similar situation, the occasional blue moon thread or reply sometimes makes it worth it
>>84700486>How about you go on the actual advice board instead of asking people who will just call you a fag and tell you to kill yourself?because /adv/ does that even more than here, they think it's knee-slapping funny
>>84700610>I like to constructively (and sometimes unconstructively) shit talk people as painfuIIy as I can make it. In doing so I advance my understanding of the workings of the human mind and at varying levels of depravity you can find on here. It's like how mankind had to cut apart the bodies of humans to understand the inner workings, but I cut open minds. >My understanding is already at an incredible level.
