>dinner table convo without parents and uncle that is visiting>topic of marrige comes up>i have known my dad wants another young wife for a while>mom says she will find my dad a new wife>the new wife will be younger than me (20)>she says its because she can take care of him>i disagree with her, saying its ridiculous >dad has previously married another woman behind my moms back, caused lots of trouble and hurt my mom immensely and lied to the other woman>mom mistreated the child that came from that short lived marrige>mfw all the sudden she switches up.>mfw my uncle (whos wife is in africa because he thinks the west will corrupt her and their daughter) is shocked that I disagreeI'm not blackpilled on men by choice.
>>84707338>Wife in Africa because he thinks the west will corrupt herWho's gonna tell him?But yeah that sucks dude
>>84707370>Who's gonna tell him?Nah i have met the woman, she is incredibly sweet.
did you ever ask why he felt he needed another wife
>>84707437It ultimately boils down to the personality of the person, no matter the circumstances. But if you fear her becoming corrupted you aren't better off sending her to Africa.
>>84707338What an interesting schizo episode your having
>>84707338we should have just killed all the muslims and niggers and jeets as soon as the west obtained nukes. imagine what the world could be like without any of the brown garbage.
>>84707457It was because he didn't think he'd make it to Europe. But he did, so the other woman divorced my dad since he told her she would be the only girl and that he would divorce my mother.My mother took quite a heavy blow due to his selfishness. Mind you my mom was raising 2 kids alone in Europe at that time. And he was litteraly planning on divorcing her.My father was a good dad to me, but a terrible husband.
>>84707467what on the world do you meando your think africa is more corrupted?
The optimal number of wife in modern day for a guy is 5 if they have unlimited resource and don't have to go to work. I did a deep dive with AI on this.For regular guy with enough time, 2 is the limit.For women, their sexuality is incompatible with multiple males at a time. But they are also meant to switch after 2 to 3 years with new partner. No matter how great/hot/amazing current husband is, their baseline will go down to nothing. Genetic diversification drive should make them want to pair up with a new one.
>>84707492No, but the chance of being corrupted/her cheating on him would be as high or quite near it. Like you said yourself, she wouldnt because she is a nice person. If she werent, it wouldnt matter where she would be sent. Insane behavior to me nonetheless.
>>84707488that doesn't really answer why he wants another wife
>>84707538Oh yeah, I thought you ment the previous wife. Cause my dad had 2 wives at a point.I'll go ask him.It's probably gonna be some generic "i want a pretty young girl" or whatever
>>84707538>>84707457why would a dude ever want a hot 20 year old wife, it's a great mystery. we may never know
>>84707510OP here.I wouldn't be shocked about this if it was true I think that due to my father having multiple wives the notion that true monogamy exists was disproved in my mind. Especially when it comes to men, they will want other women, younger women, even if their wife does everything right. Blackpilled me incredibly hard on men, I dont believe a man would genuinely stay loyal unless he has alot to lose.We little just have to accept that true love like that doesn't exist.
>>84707605>stay loyalLoyalty framing isn't perfect since guys will want to add more women if allowed to, where women will want to switch their man after 2-3 years if situation is permissive. Both will want to be 'disloyal' eventually on average.
>>84707472Honestly I'm a little angry there is so much muslim spam all of the sudden, because it makes it seem like I'm bullshitting when I'm not.>>84707686>women will want to switch their man after 2-3 years if situation is permissive. Really? I mean i have heard about men wanting many women/harem but women want to switch partner every couple of years?
im sorry but muslims dont count as human so blaming this collectively on men because some desertmonky behavior, its simply unfair
LOL WTF? Middle easterners are backwards goat fuckers. What a cursed and doomed part of the world, even India and Africa is better.
>>84707510>For women, their sexuality is incompatible with multiple males at a timeReally? I don't think it's a guarantee at all.in a scenario where your husband's faithfulness is out of the window they could still casually date or have fwbs while their husbands are busy with other women. 4 years is a really long time. But this is just fantasy because in his wildest dreams the average guy wouldn't get 2 women, let alone those who wouldn't cuck him almost immediately
>>84707488Can you fucking mudshit barbarians go back to where you came from please? I don't care about your retarded barbarian issues, I can't relate to that. Please just go back to Africa or shitistan or wherever you come from, you don't belong here. Thanks :)
>>84707770India is worse than everywhere. North Africa basically is the Middle East. Subsaharan Africa is definitely worse than the Middle East, but the Middle East is still a barbarian shithole.The only worthwhile societies that have ever existed have been in Europe or spawned from Europe (America, Australia etc) or in East Asia (Japan, South Korea, high tier Chinese cities etc). It's a big blackpill that most of the world is an irredeemable shithole.
stop cockblocking your dad retard, if you had siblings your life would improve massively
>>84707987I have 7 siblings.And im a woman bro ofcourse I have a problem with this.>>84707758I'd say they are more honest about it because the culture doesn't shame it.So it think it goes for most men, it's just that alot of wm can't express it.
>>84707576I hope you continue to learn and grow because you're quite dumb
>>84707556that's so fucking lame, why can't older men get into some hobbies instead of wasting time and money on young girls who hate them
>>84708003>I have 7 siblings.not enough>And im a woman bro ofcourse I have a problem with this.sorry sis but you need to just respect that your dad is still a man and he needs to have his needs met even if you don't like thinking about it. I'm assuming your mom is menopausal at this point, so it's either he leaves your mom and gets a new wife anyway, or he stays with your mom and also marries his new wife. Do you really want to deal with a dad who's going nuts cus he's sexually starved?
>>84708033>not enoughIt's enough. They aren't the best parents. Definitely not as bad as when I was a kid.I would be more fine with it if he wasn't lowkey a deadbeat.But yeah if he is marrying another wife that would mean he has 2 wives again.My dad isn't the main contributor to the household, but he's getting another wife???It's hard to not resent him for it all. But am I being a bitch here? Because he can't work much due to an accident and he is in constant chronic pain. I have been telling him to get educated and get his shit together, but he doesn't really listen. I dont know... maybe he is depressed. I think he is. And I keep telling him to get help but he doesn't really listen.The negativity has been affecting everybody badly for years.I dont think he is in the condition to get another wife and treat her well. >>84708030I've been telling him to get hobbies. But yeah he does what he wants. I'm still going to try to be kind, though we disagree.
>>84707338>openly cuck your wife and daughter at dinnerdamn white men need to step their game up
>>84707510>I did a deep dive with AI on this.Massive eyeroll hours.
>>84708306you should get back with your ex
