now fight your way through the dominant members of the shitcords and try not to be ignored all the time
all the discords have a top clique of members that make up 90% of the activity because they bullied or ignored everyone else into inactivity
good luck

frienship is a female tech
claude and spicychat is all you need, we live in present year

who the fuck suggested the soc discords? are you stupid?
if you're trying to find friends that way, you'd have better luck on reddit (i'm not joking). soc people are fucking retarded

>>84708380
ive been on this site forever and never used /soc/ and just took the other anons here for their word
looking through the 'cords i am in fact starting to think that /soc/ people may be retarded

>>84708422
sorry, i didn't mean to say "are you stupid" but "are they stupid"
but yes, i am glad you noticed. anon. soc people are largely narcissists, people looking to sext (which i assume is not what you're looking for), or BPD women. if i might ask, what things do you like doing? do you have any hobbies? what would you expect from a friend?

Haven't tried it but try meetup.com for interests or find a local gamestore that holds events where one can drop in. I plan on trying the second one at some point. Maybe try making a post on reddit for your city.

>>84708355
Did successfully meet a guy off soc who was retarded and boring online but pretty fun to talk to irl. Joining discord servers to make friends doesn't really make sense to me. Never knew what to do in them. It worked to join discord servers for multiplayer games and asking someone to play with you

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>>84708355
You've started, nice.
>now what
I spoke in general chat a few times a week, people got to see over the months that I'm level-headed, inoffensive and know how to have fun. Apparently this was enough to earn inordinate amounts of trust and have people send me friend requests.
Point is that it could take time, but maybe you'll click with people on one or more server to the point where you're talking in general chat every day (beyond good morning and good night + funny gif)
Remember a lot of others are shy about opening up so they may need time to see that even if you do click and have a lot in common, it doesn't just fizzle out over the next few months due to your schedules or as you learn more about one another
Wasn't aiming to make friends but wasn't rejecting advances either and some months later after meeting this girl who's very shy she just opened up one day, didn't even know how popular Chiikawa is with girls when she started sending stuff like this

>>84708355
soc discords are cesspools
imagine all the most narcissistic people of 4chan getting together to form circlejerks, people who can't handle being anonymous because they want to play reputation games, people who groom their profiles and who make all of their interests a social game
looking at them made me remember why i started using 4chan in the first place, social aids people i don't know how else to name it

and adding people for 1-1 is an entirely different shitshow, based on the hope that someone right for you might, just might add you but the reality is that you're really just playing the lottery and the same psychological effect of false hope is what keeps you trying.

i suggest anon, that you just go out. and if there's nothing out there, you need to move to a place where there is something. and if you can't you should work towards it. good luck.

Join servers focused on your interests (a fictional series, a hobby, a channel, etc.) not one that's centered around /soc/