I hate when Im in the femdom community and the guy is always portrayed as feminine and weak. I want to treat a guy like a baby and dominate him but I dont want to date a woman.
>>84708820>I want to treat a guy like a baby and dominate him but I dont want to date a woman.You have no idea what you want. The only men who are into femdom are men who are mentally women. You can't even grasp your own stupid degen fetish correctly.
How does homelander shave? Is his hair as indestructible as the rest of him, or does it decompose into normal keratin when it grows out of his skin or some shit? He'd either have to carefully shave using a MW laser or something, or just shave normally but he'd be so invulnerable to the razor that he could do it dry chris chan style.
>>84708850I still have hope that one day I'll find a masculine man who'll let me baby him when he gets home from work.
>>84708820>>84708871WHAAAAAAT, maternal acting women are real??? i'm gonna go do back breaking hard labour real quick so y'all can hold me in ur arms and kiss my forehead
There is not and will never be a single woman in this thread.
>>84708820realest thing ever, i like fem guys but theres so little masc guys into soft femdom
>>84708820I am basically a submissive alpha male
>>84708820>why cant submissive men just be chadevery time
>>84708900The anon asking for masculine men is much more likely to be a real girl than the one asking for femboys and guys who take HRT like this one: >>84708868
>>84708820Neville Chamberlain seemed pretty submissive compared to the German Bull
>>84708950Im more of an amon goth nona
>>84708930Women who like femboys and transwomen exist. There are plenty of them. I was a femboy unknowingly in my early 20s and I had no shortage of women lining up to want to fuck me.The catch is that almost all of them are mentally ill losers, ugly to mid, and have poor hygiene.
>>84708930Practically, the probability is much the same (zero)
>>84708820I appreciate all forms of submissive men. They're all good boys. Unless they're black.
>>84708965I've been learning more about Polish occupied Germany recentlyhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/General_GovernmentIt's interesting stuff. They used it as a dumping ground for the Jews, Gypsies and other problem children. Vichy French were structured differently
>>84708992Thats why polish men are ugly (except jeremy fragrance)
>>84708820Babying a big burly man must be heaven ngl.Wouldnt do it full time though I also want to be babied.
>>84708820>teehee i want le gentle giant chadthats all this post is. stop reading into this shit anons
>>84708820Being submissive requires being vulnerable to the other party. Being vulnerable is feminine. You are asking for an oxymoron. You do not know what you want.
>>84708820>the guy is always portrayed as feminine and weakbecause its fucking hot to be feminine and weak dumbass
>>84709347>because its fucking hot to be feminineNot to 99.9999% of straight women
>>84708820switch men are both of these things. plenty of masculine men who are curious about dipping their toes into being submissive
>>84709336shut up retard you have no idea what she's talking about. vulnerability in itself is not feminine. it's how you portray vulnerability
>>84709446Vulnerability is incredibly feminine. That's why when men display it to women, the women get the ick and leave or berate them. Because it makes the woman feel like they made the mistake of being attracted to someone who is mentally a woman.
>>84708820Majority of men cannot separate submission from femininity, especially those doing/watching porn
>>84709523actual dom women do not get the 'ick' from it, you've evidently never interacted with a real dom woman because i am telling you that it is literally a large majority of the appeal to dominating a man. getting to witness the vulnerable side that others dont get to see and knowing you've created the kind of safety that lets him stop guarding it. there are different ways to portray vulnerabiltiy, a lot of submissive men suck at it. they become unable to regulate themselves and borderline performative and literally blend their entire personality into being a sub.
>>84708820anyone that has a penis at birth is masculineplenty of manly looking sub guys if you focus on the right keywords, which are d/s instead of feminization and other homosexual shit.
>>84708862I've never seen that show but Superman shaves by reflecting his heat vision in a mirror
>>84708820>Why cant submissive men be masculine?Because masculinity is rooted in dominance.
>>84708820What if he's a regular guy but ugly in the face
There are 0 dominant women outside of lesbians and prostitutes.
>>84708900Right here anon. inb4 tranny. I think you can be submissive and still secure in your masculinity.
>>84708820I am submissive. Not just kink submissive.I am also muscular/have a dad bod depending on where I am at in my cutting cycle, have a home gym with a full power rack, hairy, and I work on cars. But my main interests are in technology.I am extremely sensitive. Maybe I have a mental illness that makes me this way, but I'm an extreme people pleaser. I was a virgin until I was 25 years old, and I guess she didn't respect me because of this all, sometimes crying, and I ended up finding her with another guy sneaking around getting out of his car.You could almost call it supernatural. Something just didn't feel right, the lies she was telling me. So I found her where I thought she'd be, outside of her work.I balled my eyes out for a second chance, that I just wanted to know what I did wrong. She instead took the time to berate me mainly things that I felt were because I'm not neurotypical. I feel that it was all my fault. I was going to propose to her.Maybe you could call me an overly emotional, loser, maybe that's true.But I know that I'm a good person and I just want to feel like the woman that I marry is my only purpose, I exist to serve her, and I'd want to always make that woman happy.But mainly, yeah, I'm a masculine overly emotional loser.
>>84710897>I think you can be submissive and still secure in your masculinity.Pretty sure you have to be to sub at all. Suppose if you ain't you go for the sissy angle instead? As in fleeing from the masculine to the feminine to be able to submit, since they've conflated the two so severely.
>>84711064Even if a man is into feminisation, it doesn't affect how I view his masculinity.
>>84711133It does for me lol. I dont want my future husband to be a tranny
>>84708820How submissive are we talking?
>>84711169I'm submissive and don't enjoy the idea of things in my assYou can keep your fetishes to yourself, faggot
>>84711133Well why should it? How're you to know what anyone else masculinity is or isnt?Not quite what I was getting at though but a good point. I think most people need (or perhaps it just really helps) to have some sort of trigger for submission, for a lot of men it's women's clothes and/or being 'feminine' in some way(s) up to as much as possible.
>>84711182A rare sight you are. Must have a lot of trouble finding good male sub porn.
>>84711222Pretty easy actually. Facesitting, giantess, feet worship. I dunno, cowgirl position. I don't really look at porn much anymore anyways.
>>84709117Contact info? Big burly switch here
>>84710901Youre absolutely not a loser, its completely normal to cry. That girl was a bitch, and getting cheated on tells more about her than it does you.I have a little brother who is much younger than me, he is also neuro divergent and very sensitive. He cries alot, and i fear that he too will be hurt for showing any weakness. I always tell him that it's ok to cry, because it is okey, but the world is a very cruel place where people ridicule you if you ever show any weakness. But crying is human, its just that people are often inhumane.>I know that I'm a good person That's the only thing that matters. You'll find a better girl, anon.>>84709336Vulnerability is the best part. Its the whole fucking point. A relationship where you trust eachother, and know you have someone that will support you and want what's best for you.It's not a real relationship if you can't be Vulnerable.
>>84711801>Youre absolutely not a loser, its completely normal to cry.It's normal, but men shouldn't cry. I'm not trying to be some boomer enforcing the cycle, but it's just how the world works. If you cry as a man nobody will take you seriously and see you as manly, it's a fact of life. If you absolutely have to cry then do it when you're alone and away from anyone who can see you. Breaking down is a sign of weakness whether you like it or not and encouraging men to be weak is only going to make things worse for them.You partially admit this, but the thing is that encouraging crying isn't going to do anything good for guys. Call it cruel but you have to learn to do it. I know from experience. I'm an extremely emotional man, bordering on woman amounts of emotion. But I never show it to anyone because it can and will only hurt me.
>>84711847To add to my point. Telling guys its good to be emotional and more specifically cry is on the same tier as "just be yourself"It's a soft feel good sentiment that sounds good on paper. But in reality it often won't make a difference or even actively make the problem worse. Being yourself will only serve to drive others away and outcast yourself unless "yourself" happens to fit into what society considers normal and acceptable. Likewise being emotional as a guy will only lead to others never respecting you as a man, especially around women. Crying as a man around anyone other than close family members is committing social suicide. Your gf/wife/friends/coworkers etc will never see you the same if you be too vulnerable around them. You'll be a wimpy pushover who is overly sensitive even if otherwise you're the toughest guy around.I only want the best for my fellow guys. It's never a good idea to show strong emotions for your own sake.
>>84712007>>84711847Albeit i agree with you that men will be at a loss for showing vulnerability, I dont think crying makes you a loser. Really, i believe this notion that men dont cry is a fairly modern concept. In christian tradition, crying and being emotional was a central part of many stories. Prophets, saints even Jesus was reported to cry. My question is when this idea that men dont or cant cry came?What i said earlier, i wasnt really trying to come off as a "feel good" preacher, but i see that i might have.I was just trying to paint the picture that crying is human, its normal, and its not shameful at all, unless your emotions are in the way of you making good choices or being a good person. I find it completely abssurd that emotions such as hate and anger are painted as masculine, but crying and being sensitive/empathetic are femenine. Realistically speaking, this idea is probably going to prevail long after i am dead, but by actively challenging the view, we have a shot at changing things>I'm not trying to be some boomer enforcing the cycle, but it's just how the world works.But we kinda shape the world we live in desu. It takes decades, centuries even, but we can still make it better for the generations after us.I do know that alot of women look down on guys from crying, geting the ick and whatever. But not all women are like that. Many wont ever hold crying against you. Though i know generally our culture frowns upon men that cry, and people who dont fit the norm. But we can change this, so that people after us may not suffer the way we have. As for sensitive men in our present time, like yourself, I think forging relationships where you can cry is the best solution. Though I know its just a band aid on a bulletwound.
My girl is an empath and she loves me because im a male that can talk about my feelings while I think that its a good thing to do it. We have very small amount of arguments but if we do we just talk about it and I dont behave like a typical male with her in this regard.I really care for her, to the point that I get plasure from being sub to her and just try to make her life easier and happier.She loves me for it to the point that she started to femdom me because I enjoy her taking the charge (it just in bed mostly) so I can just switch off, relax and serve.Stuff like CD, toys, RP, bondage ect came sort of naturaly just because we like to explore.Most male subs get it wrong. Searching for a new femdom partner/relationship is just a fouls errand in 99% of cases because you wont find a stable relationship. You should focus on basics, find a good partner thats not a 100% starfish sub. Get into relationship, really embrace the other side and love eachother. With given time the femdom thing can grow and florish.I know that not all girls all like that, but many of them really appriciate sweet and caring guys, just show her beforehand that you can perform aswell as a male, just as you can be her femboysub. You dont need a domme, you need a loving partner that would just care for you as much as you do for her.Mind that its not healthly/possible to develop femdom into hentai-like lifestyle 24/7 relationshop. Its a fetish, you should still be a man/leading the relationship in some other aspects of said relationship. Its not a porno, its a union of two individuals that love and respect eachother resulting in trusting and caring for eachothers needs.
