Can anyone else relate to this? I don't actually mean rejection itself I mean coming to terms with the true nature of women and the fact that none of them are interested in me at all.I did well at school, I am a bit autistic but I am pretty good at making friends, people tell me I'm funny, I'm probably average looking. I have a decent job, I have my own place.But in my early 20's when I approached a couple of girls I'd known for a while to ask them out and in return saw them A) show absolutely no interest in me at all and then B) go on to date completely broke, drug addicted losers some part of me inside just died.I know this is probably cliche as fuck yada yada yada but up until that point I thought all the redpill stuff on women was just internet nonsense. When I actually came up against it in real life and it hit me in the face I just felt completely lost. Up until that point I had a pretty good idea of how I wanted to live my life and how I could be successful but after living all that and then having women just completely show 0 interest in me I felt like I didn't even know what to do anymore. Like I couldn't even trust my instincts anymore. Like part of me was obviously completely boring and repulsive to women and I needed to start disowning parts of myself.I just carry this constant dull pain and tension in my body around with me now. Like I can't trust myself to enjoy my hobbies or follow my instincts in life anymore. Like I need to constantly be on guard because if I'm not careful a woman is going to mock me for reasons I just can't understand.
>>84762377work on not allowing yourself worth to be measured solely by the woman who rejected youself validation is key to overcoming this type of feeling. Self loathing is bad for your soul.
For every woman Ive had sex with, Ive been rejected by probably 20 or more. Its just how it works.The dudes that fuck the most arent necessarily the hottest, theyre just mildly delusional and have zero issue with rejection
>>84762377Return when your at least 25 before saying that shit.
>>84762377>in my early 20'sYou mean 20sWomen will never like you if you make mistakes like that
>>84762402I agree with you 100% *on a conscious level*, I think happiness comes from within and the only person we should live for is ourselves. I enjoy my own company. I don't really consider myself to be "lonely". But subconsciously it still hurts. Living feeling like half of the population has no interest in you, for reasons you can't understand, is not a good feeling.>>84762421I'm 28 now. This has been brewing in my subconscious for a few years
>>84762484>I agree with you 100% *on a conscious level*, I think happiness comes from within and the only person we should live for is ourselves. I enjoy my own company. I don't really consider myself to be "lonely". But subconsciously it still hurts. Living feeling like half of the population has no interest in you, for reasons you can't understand, is not a good feeling.as false as this sounds when you are hurting a handful of woman does not represent 50% of the population xd
>>84762484Your early thirties then not 20s, regardless in light of this new info i agree with you and cant really give more than my utmost sympathy. As a 24 yo myself i can only really say get used to it.
>>84762484So to clarify, you got rejected twice presumably years ago and just gave up?
>>84762567I mean yeah, pretty muchI don't fall in love with women that often. I asked out the only girls I've ever met that I could really picture myself dating and both rejected me in such a cold way that I just lost confidence in my own instincts and felt like there was clearly something wrong with me. One of the girls (that I had known for years) would always get drunk and start holding hands with me and hugging me whenever we hung out and then when I asked her out she just completely stopped talking to me. When we met in the same social circles after that she would make a point of pretending I wasn't there. I asked her if we could talk and she just snapped "I don't want to talk about it" in my face.I just left the pub, walked home and started crying after that. Maybe this sounds fucking pathetic, and I guess it kind of is, but opening yourself up to someone and then getting treated like a subhuman who doesn't deserve any kind of conversation or explanation really did mess me up. I just felt deeply flawed after that. I don't want to feel like that again.
>>84762544Thanks for the support bro, all the best
>>84762377If you do a bunch of self improooooving you can upgrade to getting traumatized by women using you by trapping you in a relationship for their personal financial gain
>>84763474YeahI think I could resist being financially abused but I do think women in relationships get quite emotionally manipulative, shaming and controlling
Self-improvement doesn't work. The only thing that does is lowering your standards. I'm not saying you should date a fattie or a whore, but removing this "she's so hot, that means I MUST date her" will help you.In short, get a black/latina gf
>>84762377Somewhat similar boat here. Asked a girl out when I was 11, whom I was friends with and only got pressured into asking out, and got rejected. I felt swindled, but didn't know what to do, so I never spoke to that girl again and told myself I'd never ask a girl out again, which I didn't for 20 years. Then I asked a girl out that I worked with after it seemed like she liked me, and she gave me kind of a fearful look and declined. That one I handled better on the outside, but it sent me into a mental spiral. She and I are fine after the fact, but I don't really feel like trying again.
>>84762377yes.getting rejected by women traumatized me, actually getting with women that ive had sex with (much later on in life) traumatized me, trying to find love traumatized me. im just sick of this
>>84762377People are crazy. Women are crazy too. I see men that I'd never want to be and women I'd rather be dead than be with. By god is this world fucked up. Don't take it personally OP. You shouldn't trust the random words of a random woman so much. No matter what social media tells you. Did you know that AI bots now constitute over 50% of internet traffic by the way? Look it up. Keep meeting people. Keep doing new things. Or else your life will pass you by in an instant. There's always going to be a woman who mocks you. And a man who mocks you. And a woman who kills you. And a man who kills you. And a non-binary demigirl boymoder who mocks you then kills you. This reality is CRUEL. I only want a woman who's as degenerate as I am. I am not compromising for anybody but don't listen to me OP as I may die alone. Who knows. Live your life. You'll always have enemies no matter what you do. Don't live in service of the people that don't care to understand you.
