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ITT: post your specific issue in life at the moment, and other anons provide advice
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>>84763879
My anxiety about the future is causing me lose my mind
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>>84763879
I'm horny and need to goon to femanons
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>>84763879
I'm horny and need to goon to moids
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>>84763915
what if we talked >_<
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>>84763879
I need a job and money and to move out hopefully
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>>84763879
I work two minimum wage jobs and they don't provide me enough hours/pay enough for me to afford anything. I make like 1k a month. I get turned down from minimum wage full time positions despite my credentials and experience. I'm stuck working shitty cleaning/retail jobs. Is there any way to solve this or just ldar?
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>>84763917
I guess we could but I'm ignoring my horniness and going to sleep
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>>84763935
tragic goodnight then
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>>84763942
goodnight think about me while gooning ;)
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>>84763956
I'm going to find u
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>>84763960
I'm in your walls babe, dont you remember?
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>>84763970
I'm going to paint my walls then prepare
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The foid I like will not reply to my dms.
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>>84763879
Not a single subuhman here can give out good advice, you all have low iq slave mindset. I know what I have to do and do it atm.
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>>84763879
can't find a job and I'm anxious about going back to school
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>>84763920
Just keep applying. Some job somewhere has to be real instead of yet another fake job ad. I'm rooting for you.
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>>84763879
I'm unteachable. It's like information I need never sticks but I remember unimportant crap easily
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>>84763920
>Is there any way to solve this
Yes. If you don't get interviews then your resume sucks and needs to be improved. If you get interviews but no offers then your interviewing skills are bad and need to be improved.
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I'm atheist and poor(making more money than most people here but still) in a poor muslim country, I just want to but an apartment to fuck some bitches but I don't have enough yet
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I don't care about myself, being alienated since I was a kid, nihilism and internet/vidya addiction has led me to achieve ego death, and I don't like it

If I had reason to be, I would do all my chores, I would sell things on ebay, I would try to start a business, I would do all sorts of things, but I don't deem myself worthy of anything.
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>>84764045
are you seamonkey?
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>>84764050
No, I'm not even a monkey, I wish I was born in monkey countries like Malaysia or Indonesia yes they are monkey countries but at least they are not shitholes
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>>84764067
if you think malaysia or indonesia aren't shitholes, where on earth do you live?
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>>84764087
Try and make a guess
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>>84763879
autism original post desu
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I just turned 43 and Im having more and more trouble coping with the fact that I missed the boat when it comes to kids and marriage. I dont think I can take another 20 to 30 years of being alone and dying an old man with no family
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>>84764099
by any chance, do you live in south asia?
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>>84764099
In a war torn area like Yemen?
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>>84764112
you can still sire children at 43 if you're a reasonably healthy male who's not infertile, gotta hurry though dude.
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>>84764113
No thank god
>>84764118
No worse than that, Egypt
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>>84764134
eww egypt is bad bad.

why don't you just move to southeast asia then
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im 18 and didnt graduate (i have to do one class in brief summer school), got accepted into a nice college but me and my family cannot afford it, also i have two entire friends, one of which ive been in love with for 4 years but has no interest in me at all
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>>84763879
long term neet but want to get a job but dont know how ill explain or be competitive with my years of unemployment
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>>84764140
It's okay, will get an apartment in a year or two and fuck some brown pussy here before leaving this shithole
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Is 27 really too old to find a job on a cargo ship/tanker as a deck cadet?
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I'm simply tired and I'd like to die
I don't really see the point
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Gib me mone
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>>84763879
I'm 18 and I like an older man but he thinks I'm too young for him
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>sold 10 put options for NVDA on Monday with a $210 strike price
>I was in the green until Friday when the stock market took a shit and now I am $10k in the hole
>I have a rental property with an AC unit that failed
>was quoted $6k to repair it. I'm getting other quotes but still, it's going to be expensive
>I am a high-functioning alcoholic with no motivation to stop drinking or improve myself. I drink 6-8 drinks a day
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>>84764207
You are. Find someone your own age. Take this from another femanon.
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>>84764157
>>84764134
>>84764099
>>84764067
>>84764045
do you at least have an average looks?
i've heard that muslims in sea look up to people from arab countries
and that has nothing to do with your country being poor
i live in south korea
turkish immigrants living in south korea or japan have no trouble dating
turkey is poor, and turkish people are brownish, you know
however, some women here consider middle eastern guys to be sexy
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>>84764246
Yes, I'm average looking and 6'2 so I'm pretty much in the top 90% here, but I don't have an apartment that's my problem
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>>84764263
Sorry top 10% I'm retarded
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>>84763879
Have tried to push for the life I wanted all my life but was too undisciplined to make it happen, fell into a job I hate that will also provide security if I started to take it seriously, getting older, wondering if I should give the wild dreams of my life one last chance
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>>84763879
I don't feel safe or free
I constantly feel threatened and powerless because all the "people" who run the world are evil bastards

I am constantly paranoid of losing even more of my rights or safety
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>>84763879
Anticipating talking to a cute latina after my class I share with her tomorrow. That's my biggest problem. I don't really have much that I want out of life. I'm 20 years old and go to college, still living with my parents. I need to find some better hobbies because all that I do all day is walk around my neighborhood or play vidya
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just have to work up the courage to call costumer support
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>>84763879
I am bad at remembering things. I keep thinking about how I know things that I'm certain about or where I first heard about a concept. I know that I used to know these things but I have a hard time recalling it. And even worse is how I'm not sure if it's schizophrenic or not since I'm diagnosed with schizophrenia so I keep thinking it might be something my mind has made up like delusions. Meds have only made it worse.

Also I feel like my libido is much lower than I like it to be and idk if it's meds or age.
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>>84764289
What are the wild dreams?
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>>84764362
It's very juvenile, but I always wanted to go out into the world, take crazy jobs meet new people see new places, get into some trouble. Like everyone I knew has something except me
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>>84764459
Can't you ask your work for a 6 month sabbatical?
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I have really bad acne scars and I'm extremely self conscious about it. Every time I go to the gym I feel so sad, so many cute teens with juiciest asses, I will never have that.
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My neck is fucked, one of the vertebrae is slightly out of place which causes constant discomfort and pain, can barely focus, been like this for 3 years because I don't have enough money to properly treat it. I'm getting a new mattress soon which should help. But yeah it's preventing me from living my life, can't work like this and haven't tried dating for those years as I imagine it would be awkward as fuck while I have this shit going on. Life feels so meaningless now that I can't really do anything of value.
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I'm lonely and in need of a real conversation.
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>>84764557
For my company is unlikely to get sabbatical unless you've already did your years and are higher up, but yeah maybe I should just stay and do a sabbatical instead, life is getting more expensive anyway
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>>84764236
Take it from another femanon that dating older men is fine as long as hes sane and you're not making life altering decisions around him.
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>>84763879
I'm a 4th year medical student (wanted to drop out but family wouldn't let me) and I have an exam tomorrow. I spent the last two days spiralling and I've forgotten basically everything I studied.

I also punched myself in the leg out of frustration and it made my wrist injury much worse.

Even though I'm completely exhausted I can't sleep and I don't know what to do.
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Ketamine uropathy.
I have been drifting in and out of consciousness from the intense pain it brings.
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>>84764328
I called cs and got my new phone set up with my old number I have a smart phone now I have modernized I used to have a flip phone
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>>84763879
I dont have a specific problem I just want to escape neetdom, but I can't seem to make myself do anything that would help.
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>>84764961
Literally just don't fucking go anon, it's what I did when I knew that I would fail an exam if I took it. Go to bed and turn your alarms off, get a nice big sleep in, fuck it. Stop beating yourself up so much over every fuckup, in this case the exam is already over for you so just completely give up on it mentally and move on. It's okay to give up if it's fucking over before it even began. Lie to your parents and tell them that you took the exam, tell them it was difficult and that you probably won't pass. You can probably retake the exam at another time anyway.
This might not be the best advice but it's what I did when I found myself in your situation.
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>>84765120
Honestly I'd do that if I could but there's not really any option of retaking this specific exam and if I don't graduate I'd probably get disowned.

I failed an exam last year that I had to resit it over summer and when I told them I hated the course and didn't wanna go back they refused to speak to me for a week.

Mind if I ask what you studied?
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>>84764621
That sucks, I have a bad spine, 2 bad discs on my lower back so I'm always in pain and disabled at 30. I'll probably be in a wheelchair by 40. I have 2 bad discs on my thoracic spine, and might have a back disc on my neck too because my neck hurts sometimes. My life ended at 27 when my spine started going bad.
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My oneitis lives in a different continent. For various reasons, he and I will never happen, despite the fact that he likes me back. I love talking to him, but it's painful. Should I keep talking to him? I'm afraid it's just making things worse.
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>>84764961
Take some sleeping pills and just try to get some rest at that point. Whats done is done, your family can't blame you as long as you've tried. At least it'll be over
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>>84765166
>there's not really any option of retaking this specific exam and if I don't graduate I'd probably get disowned.
Well then you're completely fucked anyway so you might as well go and test your luck by taking it. Maybe try cramming but I don't think that that will help you much if you're already at the stage where you are asking 4chan for help, you'd just be causing extra pain to yourself for no benefit. Can't you maybe resit it over the summer like you did the subject from last year?
I'm not sure how your uni functions exactly but the absolute worst scenario in my country would be that you would have to graduate a year later with only one subject remaining. I'd tell my parents that I'd work a student job the entire year while studying the remaining subject to get them off my back.
>they refused to speak to me for a week
Lmao, are you asian by any chance?
>Mind if I ask what you studied?
Nautical science, it's what the students who are forced to get any degree by their parents pick in my area.
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>>84765432
I don't think I could get any sleeping pills this late on a Sunday unfortunately, thanks for the suggestion though (:
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>>84765465
Different exams here have different rules for resitting them. If I wanted to redo the exam it'd require me to do the entire year again. I think I'll go and sit the exam anyway in case I get extremely lucky and pass, thanks for the advice anon

Nah not asian but my grandmother was a pretty high ranking professor so basically my entire family have their standards set by her.

Did you end up doing anything with your degree?
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>>84765498
Best of luck anon, retaking the entire year would suck major dick but you are a 4th year medical student so you aren't dumb by any metric, you could probably do it if you had to. I hope that they will at least let you transfer to another uni if you do fail, being forced to study shit you don't want is torture. Many students here were forced by their parents to go into IT and never did anything with their diploma, it's sad to see.
>Did you end up doing anything with your degree?
Not yet sadly
I only got it last year, I haven't really been searching for jobs because I wanted to get my drivers license before I entered the field. Once I start working on a ship I will rarely be home for more than 4 or 5 months in a year so it's best to do it while I still have the time.
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I am severely homicidal



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