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>get into a relationship
>she's absolutely in love with me
>I did too when we first started out
>Over time, my love for her wanes
>But hers is stronger than ever
I tried to break it off one time and she got so upset she crashed her car

I can't do this shit anymore
I feel like a loser
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I'm a Ioser baby, so why don't you kill me?
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>>84788580
whats the problem with her? ugly, too clingy, etc? lay it out anon.
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>>84788977
are her tits too small OP?
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>>84788977
>>84788982
All of the above +fat
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>>84788977
>>84788982
There's nothing wrong with her
I just feel like I need some time off
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>>84789041
When a woman loves the man more than the man loves the woman, the relationship will be strong and last. The other way around? Misery and suffering for all.
You've gotten lucky, don't let this get away from you.
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>>84789089
>You've gotten lucky, don't let this get away from you.
I'm like a dog that chases after cars
Now that I've got hold of one, I genuinely don't know what to do
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>>84789225
idk lol, I'm a KHHV. Just going off of my observations of friends/family/other anons.
But I think it is normal for passion to die down after awhile. As long as you don't resent her, I think you should stick with it.
But what do I know?
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>>84789033
so she obviously knows you're her high water mark
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>>84788580
the way i handle with being the unrequited love guy is i just slowly break it off

you still need to reciprocate but just gradually less and less

it sucks but it doesnt hurt her as much
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>>84789225
>I'm like a dog that chases after cars
>Now that I've got hold of one, I genuinely don't know what to do
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>>84788580
You're a lucky bastard. Why would you break off a good thing?
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>We went from having mostly virgins or one time only people to have a lot of failed normalfags to now having a self sabotaging normalfag that tries to ask for pity.
This place gets worse daily.
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>>84791010
A lot of us are the same people, just a few years later
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>>84788580
>I tried to break it off one time and she got so upset she crashed her car
Bruh you gotta stick to your guns. Next time just ghost her, she's proven she can't handle relationship issues like an adult.
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>>84788580
>she got so upset she crashed her car
Yeah, that sounds like a legitimate reason to not want to be in a relationship with her.
I've had a few run-ins with abusive girls like that. If you have the inner peace, you can just ignore their acting out and possibly break them of this pattern of abusive behavior and possibly have a pretty good relationship.
But if you can't help yourself and are reactive to her provocations, it will probably just keep getting worse.
Deciding to end it sooner rather than later minimizes the blow up and meltdown.

You can also just grey rock her until she gets bored and looks elsewhere.
Do not fall into the trap of degrading yourself trying to find some boundary that's a step too far for her, hoping she'll break up with you.
Some of these girls will do anything if they thing you want it. Anything.



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