How can I reject a boy without breaking his heart?
>>84803282you can't. You probably lead him on, so it's likely your own fault anyway
>>84803282The more you pussyfoot around it the more hurt you inflict, be clear and straightforward. Dont do the bs of 'oh im sure theres someone out there' or 'you are such a great guy' because thats just gonna frustrate him "if im such a great guy why arent you giving me a chance" for example.>no thanks, i appreciate your company but youre not what i want romanticallyIs a good rejection. Again, do not try to sugarcoat shit, dont be overly mean either. And if he throws a hissyfit he was never worth any attention in the first place
>>84803291He was supposed to have a girlfriend, he told me about his experiences, I didn't give him false hope :((
>>84803347Thanks, this helps :))
What >>84803347 said but give him a few cookies, chocolate chips are an awesome option but any kind will work
My lines:>sorry you look way too much like my brother>I just don't feel enough chemistry>my mom has cancer I just can't do a relationship right now never been bothered all are effective
>>84803347>And if he throws a hissyfit he was never worth any attention in the first placeEhh... I'm a guy and people have gotten mad when I didn't want to go out with them and that's fine. Shit happens. Emotions exist. It's a little scary how people are so unforgiving.
>>84803282You can't, it's same as removing a bandaid, you either do it fast and hurt for a bit or do it slow a d hurt for longer
>>84803353"Supposed to have a girlfriend" you stole his chance and then went to reject him? Damn that's cruel
>>84804216Adults should have control over their emotions, and if they throw public tantrums they should be strongly shamed.
>>84804816Not sure a private conversation is a public tantrum, and I think 4chan is the last place I would ever go to for lessons on morality. I did the right thing by being tolerant of them.
>>84803282Just tell them you're trans, that seems like a fan favorite.
>>84803282Sometimes you can't. A lot of dudes are super lonely and play this game of building a woman up in their head without ever actually getting to know them. He'll be sad, but he'll move on eventually.Realistically, just treat him with respect and as a human being. Imagine that you're in his shoes and you have to deal with the loneliness, the trauma, and the rejection. Say what would make you feel human in that moment but make it clear that you don't feel that way about him, and wish him well on his way.If he reacts like an asshole then he was never really a friend, he was a dude that was desperate for puss and now resents you for not opening your legs to him so sparing his feelings ain't even worth it.Good luck, hope it isn't too awkward.
