For the second time, I tried to hookup with a girl and I couldn't get an erection when it mattered. This is despite the fact I get a boner when I saw her in person or looked at her photos.I'm starting to think maybe there's a difference between horny (I want to jerk off) and horny (I want to have sex). Either that or there's something wrong with me.Still a virgin btw because I never got my dick wet.
>>84805486Easy fix, develop a femdom fetish next, establish a sexting thing with her before the IRL sex where she's dominant, now if you can't get it up in person she can start mocking you about it until you get horny and hard.
>>84805486I am a horny guy but I can't do hookups. I get nervous and there really isn't that good chemistry with a random hookup. Totally different with a gf where you love each other
>>84805486>>84805504>>84805540The three muskafaggots
>>84805540Yeah I think the lack of chemistry was the problem. She was very nice, but we weren't really flirting or anything until the very end of the evening.
>>84806353That'll do it, its not the same without the buildup and the effortless connection of someone you actually love
>>84805486What you need is some henny, a honey pack, and a jbl speaker. Real talk it sounds like you have a mental block, you get nervous and anxious so it causes you to lose wood. You may not consciously be aware of it or admit to it because to acknowledge it would mean having to look at yourself and ask yourself why you're losing wood. If you are a healthy blooded male then you shouldn't be losing erections unless you are gay or have some actual issue.
>>84806353You let it drag on too long if you just wanted to hook up you should've just kissed her and started touching >.t hooks up with men
>>84806512Another problem I noticed is that I was trying to help get her into the mood by fingering her, but the repetitive motion made my finger and arm muscles sore and that physical exertion caused my dick to shrivel up more than usual. I otherwise exercise regularly, so is this something I can train? Or maybe I just had a bad position that was making me more sore than necessary? (I was to her side, so the arm I was using went around her)
>>84806599yes fingering girls for a long time is physically difficult. you could always eat her out. and yes if i do it for a long time i will get soft. so i wouldnt worry about that.i dont necessarily have your problem so the following might not be the best advice. but does she touch your dick during foreplay? when ive gotten soft after fingering a girl usually i'm just like "hey i really want to fuck you can you help me get hard?" if shes actually into you she will also want to fuck and will definitely help you out by giving you a handjob or blowing you.idk i think you might just have performance anxiety. accept that she wants to make you hard, that it's not only on you to just be hard.
