Do people just accept the fact that they are very likely going to die alone? I see plenty of coping menchanisms around me. people try to improooooove to increase their odds, people simply accepting they die alone and so on. But I don't think I found my way of coping yet
Videogamesespecially the busywork endless ones
>>84808369by doing literally anything else other than thinking about it. Easier said than done I know but practice makes perfect
>>84808369Well first of all i can't say if this is an advantage or a disadvantage, but in my case the loneliness is caused by a mental illness, and so i'm literally incapable of preventing it. Others still technically speaking have the option to get out there and make friends. Maybe they are just bad at it, but the small chance they will unlonely themselves still exists. For me, i don't have that option, so i'm just realizing that it will never change. Weather that helps to come to terms with it or is just more depressing, i don't actually know.Other than that, distractions. Videos and movies, one or multiple hour+ long gooning sessions a day, as much contact with my Dad as i can get and trying to learn to draw as a hobby.Other than that, being fryed on meds actually helps to not think about it a lot.
I plan, I think about my options. I was one of those kids who learned not to cry because it only delights n*rmies and similarly when faced with trouble I know the only option is to think and act.>copeThere is a chance one of my plans might work someday, I am not under any delusions about my chances though.
>>84808369jerking off to pornwatching romance anime and experiencing love vicariously through the mc
>>84808369Porn, until they banned it.
>>84808369I do it by playing vidya, watching movies and posting here.
>>84808575seeing cute girls or romance makes me even more miserable
>>84808369I see women as primitives who can only feel lust so their affection towards you is fleeting and meaningless unless your an ape that needs an ego gratified
>>84808369Stay happy until death due to the fact that I didn't mate with a bitch and brought a new life just because who was going to be condemned to poverty and hell on earth worse than what we are experiencing right now.
>>84808369Idk: vidya, good food, books, movies...there's a lot of entertainment/escapism in the modern age to ignore reality.Also: after a certain age, your work and the stress it generates will make up a lot of your troubles, so the lack of love and sex will barely matter in the big scale of things.
>>84808369Cope? I'm supposed to cope with it? Shit, I just let it eat away at me constantly and hope the stress will negatively impact my health enough that I'll die of a heart attack at 30 something.
>>84808369step 1: make some decent friendsstep 2: become a great person in your own right so that you don't necessarily need people around you all the timestep 3: enjoy bothhow 2 do step 1 you ask? idk it's pretty hard lolol. gotta find some fellas similar to you who are in a similar boat, then enjoy your common interests together.
>>84808369I came here to talk with you guys, my friends.
>>84808369There are worse things than just dying alone you know.
>>84808713Same. I cant fucking stand it
>>84808369Hate is your salvation. When you realize that people are disgusting and you hate them with all your heart and soul, is when you'll finally be free of your instinct to connect.
4chan and vidya are my copes.
>>84808722 (checked)>>84808866 (checkers)Guys.. I don't hate women.>>84808914Twinninggg
idk i like to browse here a few other shitholes on the internet and do drugs frequently
I obsess over e-whores and Japanese idols in a parasocial way, it's very unhealthy but at least the e-girls I'm actually getting to talk to them every so often when they message me (inb4 those are dudes, trust me I know who is who which is why there's only three I talk to and why I mostly go without replies). When my favorite egirl messages me back and our conversation thread continues it makes me feel so alive and happy, for days after. But then I crash back down when I realize she isn't going to reply for weeks again. It's just a reminder of like, I can be her favorite simp or whatever but I will never be a priority to her the way she is me.Still it helps cope with the loneliness, I get to enjoy her cute and hot pictures and videos, get to chitchat, hear a girl laugh from something I've said... When we aren't chatting I can try and fill my life with media, I obsess over sports for this reason, there's always something on and something happening I can live vicariously through. Now, the touch starvation? The desperate desire to FUCK something? That never goes away, I don't think.
>>84808369Dissociation. If you don't feel anything at all you won't feel lonely.
>>84808369>Do people just accept the fact that they are very likely going to die alone?Ya, getting sad about it won't change anything
>>84808369I rarely feel loliness.
>>84808369As easy as imagining me actually living with a woman
>>84808369the solution is simple, play eroge
>>84808369I tend to intellectualize my problems, as to form a protective layer between them and me. Get into philosophy, read about real problems.
>>84808369I live with my family so I am not lonely
