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I have had like 4 different people tell me im gorgeous or beautiful the past 2 weeks.
But im having a hard time believing it since I dont like my face much.

Should you just take people's word for it when they give you such compliments?
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>>84811449
since the beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and you do not see yourself as beautiful then yes, you're ugly
>should I believe
are you asking anonymous posters if you should trust unspecified people?
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>>84811485
>are you asking anonymous posters if you should trust unspecified people?
Im asking wether one should take such compliments at face value.
Which can be hard if youre not especially fond of yourself or if you suspect they are just being nice
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>>84811501
>Im asking wether one should take such compliments at face value.
as I've said, there's no some universal beauty that someone can be 100% sure is universal
if you're thinking you're not pretty then you're right, other people can have different reasons to say that so it's hard for a bystander to decide if you should pay them attention or not
now that I think of it, if you want somewhat measurable rating of your looks you can try selling your pics online, the free market decides
tl;dr: no way to really know
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>>84811523
Alright.
Thanks, this reply was quite soothing. Sometimes I remind myself that im not supposed to be the one that thinks I am attractive, rather it should be another.

There really is no way to know
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>>84811449
Two options really
You're either actually good looking
Or youre so uggo that people feel the need to say that to make you feel better
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>>84811575
>yes or no question
>two options really, either yes or no
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>>84811449
If you're a woman and men are saying this to you then it's true from their perspective. Not saying you are objectively beautiful, you are probably a 6/10 on a good day. Men just have low standards and sctuslly find their looks match more attractive than some supermodel.
On the other hand, if these compliments are coming form women they are either making fun of you or feel bad for you.
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>>84811746
>Men just have low standards and sctuslly find their looks match more attractive than some supermodel
I don't understand why women have such a resentment towards their looksmatch that they will always look down on men for finding their looksmatch attractive, sometimes even making up theories about how it's a cope because it's the only thing they could attract.
Women are so hateful in their hearts, it makes me sad.
But yes, everything you said is true, women say empty platitudes towards people they feel pity for, men are much more honest about someone's looks, especially when it's unprompted.
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did you change something about yourself or grow into your features?
I was always considered fat and unattracted because I'm short and have a terrible babyface
once I finally grew into my body at ~25yo people started treating me way differently and women compliment me
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>>84811746
Both men and women. Then again I live in a place where people are ridiculously good looking and that's why I am having a hard tome believing it. Like >>84811575
Is saying, it either means I look good or they're fucking with me. You're right though im probably a 6/10 on a good day.
>>84811882
Yeah i suppose I dress differently. One day when I was 17 I just suddenly lost baby fat and my cheek that were already a bit sunken became even moreso. Im pretty much insecure over my slightly crooked nose and asymmetrical jaw.
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>>84812247
>Im pretty much insecure over my slightly crooked nose and asymmetrical jaw.
Some asymmetry is needed for attraction, no one is perfect, perfect symmetry creates and uncanny valley response in most people.
You likely exaggerate the asymmetry you see in the mirror because you're so used to seeing it, your brain hyper-focuses on it, but know that everyone is asymmetrical whether you can tell or not.
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>>84811599
Meds lmao
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>haha omg I'm so gorgeous haha pay attention to me
Yawn, this thread gets a femdump too
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>>84811449
Make a post on /soc/.
But if you get any mixed answers then you're not attractive.



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