>fiance admits to doing anal with previous sex partners >doesn't want to do it with youWho's in the wrong here?
>>84819803I'm not reading all that. But to comment on what you wrote, I'd just say that it's fair for her to not want to do that anymore, but I don't want to date someone who makes me feel less-than, so I'd break up with her, because we are incompatible. She can go date someone else. We live in the age of the cuck, so there are probably many of them champing at the bit to enter a relationship where they are made to feel like a sad consolation prize after years of fun and excitement. I'd rather be the guy a girl has the fun, experimentation, and excitement with. But hey, that's just me.
>>84819889you will never be that guy, none of us will
>>84819803>Who's in the wrong here?the vaginamaxxing retard that spends his money on rubberbands
>>84819803he's wrong for wanting to marry a whore and wrong for wanting to do anal
I'm ok with a bitch never doing anal with me since an anus can't actually handle sex, but you have to give me companionship, massages, cuddles, pussy, throat, general affection
>>84819803i've been with girls like this. there's basically no point dating these kinds of women if you expect any kind of intimacy or love. they just want a provider after having had their fun phase in college. they will never see you as equal to their previous sex partners. the best thing you can do is just immediately break up when you find out your gf had a promiscuous phase if she won't do that kinda shit with you.
>>84819900If a relationship emotionally detracts from my life, then I'd rather not have it. That's a reasonable stance.
>>84819803They should compromise and do it at least once.
>>84819803Taking this fully seriously, she should at least have been honest about her past when he first asked. If you say I have done anal before but it feels degrading and I don't want to do that anymore maybe he would understand, but it sounds like she basically hid it.
>>84819803The whore iswrong for not killing herself after throwing away her virginity.The betacuck is wrong for becoming used up after a bunch of relationships and simping for used up whore.>>84819980
>>84819803I'm not going to read all that but anal really sucks for the woman so it makes total sense that she doesn't want to do it. she tried it with her ex and found out that she doesn't like it so now she doesn't want to do it that's normal and I think that's most people's experience with anal it's something you try because men see it in porn and want to do it but then it's painful and uncomfortable to actually do so once you did it once then you don't want to do it again. and so he shouldn't be pressuring her and getting upset when she doesn't want to do it. I don't want to exaggerate but that can literally be considered rape and emotional abuse>>84819889I mean that's fair but is anal really that important to you that you would end a relationship for it? it's gross and uncomfortable and even guys don't really like it that much>>84820036I didn't know she hid it and ya she probably should have said>>84820041that's exactly what I was saying that it's rape and emotional abuse. he forced her to do it when she didn't want to and that's rape and her reaction proves it so she should break up with him and she definitely shouldn't marry him
>>84819803In the same situation but I'm fine with it. Why? Her ex's dick was much smaller than mine. It can still hurt when she takes mine in her pussy if we don't do enough foreplay. Her ass is so tight I can't even fit one finger in and my dick is at least the equivalent of seven fingers around. I'd rip something if we tried, and I don't really wanna hurt her by splitting her asshole open.
I honestly feel bad for her and i feel for guy who's jealous that women who he settled down with was willing to be vulnerable with other men but not him. I myself wouldn't force her to do anal but knowing others did but i cant would hurt
>>84820279>I mean that's fair but is anal really that important to you that you would end a relationship for it?I think it's less about the anal and more about the idea someone else has experienced a kind of intimacy with your partner that is forbidden to you. That someone else knows more of your partner than you ever will, that there's a side of them that's for other people but not you.You need to keep in mind, to men, sex, intimacy, and even acceptance tend to be synonymous. This is the primary way we experience connection to our partners, and he's being told 'Oh I was fine having a deeper connection with some random asshole than I'll ever have with you'.The foid equivalent would be something like if your husband talked to his ex about his feelings and opened up to her but refuses to do it with you.
>>84819900Maybe not, but none of us have to be the cuck either
>>84820036>If you say I have done anal before but it feels degrading and I don't want to do that anymore maybe he would understandNah, if she's done it with every other partner the only thing there is to understand is who she's going to go fuck on the side because she sure doesn't respect or sexually connect with you.
>>84820279>she tried it with her ex and found out that she doesn't like it>she should break up with himLazy bait
>>84819803Its a very common thing for women to be very sexually open whores before marriage and acting like prudish religious fundimentalists while with a betabux
>>84819889>I'd rather be the guy a girl has the fun, experimentation,Go after young college girls or be epstein.Because now as soon as they turn 25, or 22 on extreme cases, they become like OP, that or claim they were raped to "cope" they regret what they did on their "experimental" phase lol.
>>84819803John for dating someone with a pastlmao what a retard
>>84819889A good grown up response to the horseshit that is modern reddicuck reality of dating women in 202X.
>>84820279You really should read things fully before commenting. She didn't just try it once with an ex and never again because she didn't like it. She had EIGHT previous partners that she did anal with and said she enjoyed how it made her feel degraded, especially when they'd call her names or do other things to her while fucking her ass.
I used to drink alcohol. I would occasionally drink with people when out. I no longer drink alcohol.My decision to no longer drink alcohol has nothing to do with my present company.When I read posts / stories like that I can't help but think it's similar.By all means, if alcohol drinking is important to you we'd surely not be a good match. That's okay.But you're not entitled to make me drink alcohol just because I used to.>>84821213Were you to read it, it would actually validate her preliminary feelings on the matter as well.>didn't want to be seen as some slut / degraded woman by her fiance>agree to do anal sex with him reluctantly >he says that learning of her past made him change his perspective on her>the two eventually broke up (on a civil note)So she was absolutely correct that letting that past detail slip up would have changed / ruined things. And he was correct that it was not good or fair of her to A: do it in the past and then refuse to do it now (or at least try) B: try to keep it a secretThe bigger thing that would have saved their marriage, instead of deception or never talking about your past, would have been to not do it in the first place.For all people shit on Christianity the whole admonition against premarital sex is pretty damn important.I can not image ever marrying a woman who had anal sex with 8 men (and probably oral or vaginal with more). Absolutely disgusting.
>>84820366>Feeling bad for a worthless used goods Simpddit 10 blocks down
>>84820366It might be time for you to go back
Its like this "box" thing that is thrown around by pyscaritists (i cant write, fuck you) with how mens boxes are all isolated and disconnected and females all like some giant spiderweb. Putting that one backwards, it also means whatever is inside in one male box is inseperable - as in: romance and sex inside the box with the label "Bonding". Since its inside the same box, its of equal value for whatever is on the label. In the OPs case that man can not seperate love and sex since its in the same box unlike the womyn who can be like "That doesnt define me" or "thats not importatn" since she has many interconnecting boxes to draw from as she pleases.
>>84822192>she has many interconnecting boxes to draw from as she pleases.Horsepussy. That's just regular female accountability dodging.
>>84822192what the hell are you talking about man
>>84819935>hey just want a providerall women want that, even without kids involved. they're lazy as shit and entitled
>>84820279>rape and emotional abuse>he forced her to do it when she didn't want toshe literally agreed to do itpost better bait
>>84822404exactly. It was just about how they justify their dodges because since thing A & B are not in the same box, connections can be cut or drawn between them at will by womyn.
