>Be loner autistic girl>No friends as a kid or teenager>Meet husband at a family friend's wedding>Start dating>Okay awesome I'll make friends with his friends and stop being so lonely>His male friends don't care for me>His female friends are ice cold to me>Okay that's fine when the baby comes I can make friends with other mums>Iced out at mum groups>Stop going to those because of it>That's okay I can make friends when the kids start going to school >Iced out by mums that go to your kids school>They don't want to talk to you or invite you to things>Now it's affecting your outgoing social butterfly kids life because they gets invited to things less>"Sorry anon, we just can't invite too many people to his bday party. We have a big family and we want to keep it small" >Fml>Still be as lonely as you were when you were as 16 I just want friends. I don't know why it's so hard for me. It's so unfair. It's always so easy for everyone else. I thought that it would get better but it's all the same shit
at least you have your husband
Uncle basheer grind the wifi router into fine dust
Do what the other lonely housewives do, play friendslop games on steam and get a disproportionate amount of attention and validation from random 20 year old men by simply being female. I can give you a step by step guide if you want and a brief coaching session on how to make friends.
>>84826849>Meet husband at a family friend's wedding>*leaves and hides thread*
>>84826874Meh. I can't be bothered with online friendships anymore, especially with men. I just want female friends and to be in a group. It's corny but when you've never had that and you see other women all the time being like "10 years with my bestie, going to her wedding as Maid of honour!!!" And it's like omfg im going to die alone in some old people's home and not even make friends to play mahjong with there. I'm just sick of putting myself out there and getting absolutely 0 return from other womenYou really think this gets easier as an adult and women get less cliquey but they don't
>>84826854Who doesn't understand what it's like for me at all. I tell him about it and he's like ayehwoeoirneiskwkwiwkwais act more normal then be nicer or something. I TRY OMG
>>84826889Everybody wants a foid don't they? I get it we're too easy to befriend so we're worthless and so is our effort and kindness. Bleh, no wonder why people don't like you.
>>84826923As an adult woman you can't really have male friends. Idk if the men of 4chan know that husbands and boyfriends get jealous and it becomes a big whoop about it. It's not like men are any easier to befriend, just less outwardly exclusionary. They're still dogs that will follow their wives and girlfriends social orders of not liking a female
>>84826889Why would it get easier as an adult woman, exactly? What do you have to offer potential friends that isn't insanely generic? Hard to really pin down why other women hate you without seeing you in action, you might just be annoying as hell.
>>84826849Try out autismo hobbies. I watch a female youtuber who does speed puzzling and everyone there seems very nice to each otherMaybe you could make some friends like thatAvoid sewing stuff though. The women involved in the hobby are notoriously catty.
>>84826944I assumed it got easier as an adult because we'd put aside the teenager/childhood type of arguments and fights and be more level headed. I don't know why I have to "offer" something to make friends when everyone else offers nothing that I don't. Like I should give them money or something to be my friend lol? They probably don't hate me they just find me kind of off putting or something. I do all the autist don't make eye contact and be blunt kind of thing. They're also all older than me by a bit so maybe that has something to do with it
>>84826958>women>be level headedPick one.But yeah maybe you're annoyingly attractive or something or the other moms thirst for your man and consider you in the way, but you do need to come to terms with the reality that all relationships are transactional, just not with cash. Motivation ALWAYS has a source, the motivation that someone has to be someone's friend does require a source. You do actually need something to offer that they desire -- think about it, every action you take has opportunity cost, they could be doing anything but they would be spending that time associating with you at the cost of everything else. It has to be worth it in some way. It may be hard to accept but the bandaid has to be ripped off at some point. If you weren't a woman your husband would not love you. Everything has a condition implicitly. If you have questions I can expand on any part of this if you want.
>>84826993>If you weren't a woman your husband would not love youYeah obviously. I would hope he's not a homosexual. Idk it seems like most women are just friends with other women because they want friendship. Maybe I'm naive or something and everyone has ulterior motives
>>84826953I need to have more hobbies, or interests. I think this is one of the plights of the housewife, once your kids are in school you don't have anything to do anymore. Just have another baby lolz. Ngl going to things like that scares me, maybe I'm too undersocialised or something. I just hate going to places alone. Idk probably a good suggestion though
>>84826999Friendship is too nebulous and loaded of a word. What does it actually mean, without using that term? From your perspective what would you picture an ideal friendship with one of those other catty housewives, what would you want from it and would they want the same things from you, or can you even provide the same things you desire, even if they're just vague feelings?You wouldn't want to be friends with any random brown migrant off the street, they can only offer violence.
>>84827011Funny about the migrant thing that some of the women excluding me are legit 38 year old Indian immigrant women. Can't make this up God. Man i don't know. An adult to talk to that isn't my husband. Someone to go places with and do shit with. I guesd its clear that I don't even know what a friendship entails
>>84826938>As an adult woman you can't really have male friendsThat really sucks, are you sure you're the adult and I'm the 20 year old the way you describe your life sounds more like being your husbands housepet more than anything...In any case it's not up to me to judge your values and lifestyle I guess, still find it weird you're not allowed to make male friends. Maybe you have no interest in doing so. Female validation only has value after all since male validation and attention is abundant and therefore worthless right?
>>84827028Gosh I'm only 5 years older than you!!! Lol. Female validation is important for all women, even more than male validation. That's why women have deeper friendships than men supposedly. It's also not that unusual, most people in relationships don't want a girl/guy best friend around that might potentially sleep with their partner and ruin their whole marriage.
>>84827023Best not to mingle with the 60iq indians anyway. If you don't like online stuff then go to whatever normie in-person gay activities you probably like and try to find other autists there. That automatically satisfies at least two of your inherent requirements which is proximity and shared interest, maybe that will be enough for whoever you meet.As a word of warning, be sure to sound them out and don't talk to people that are opposite of your beliefs. If they like starmer for example just pretend they don't exist. There's just too many indoctrinated trashcans out there that buy into the cult of hating white people because their parasite overlords told them to do so.
>>84827060I'm not british I'm Australiannnn
>>84827110Different island same shit, Aus is cucked as all hell too. Replace starmer's name with whatever parasite is helping ruin the place further currently.
>Be loner autistic girlCool. Wha's tha problem then?>so lonelyAhh, shieet.Loner typically means someone who avoids social interaction on purpose. Like me.The rational thing to do would be to try to make sure this doesn't get in the way of your kids' social life. In other words, if you can't have it, at least don't sabotage shit for them.Is there really no autismal adults you could hang out with? Seems like all you've done is brush against a couple of normie spaces and are surprised that relationships didn't stick.>>84827005Boils down to either making the effort or continuing to suffer (and it becoming more difficult over time).
>>84827136I feel bad for my kids because it's not their fault that i can't be a normal person and be friends. My mom was like me too when i was younger and it did me absolutely no favours in making friends. They're both pretty social though so I hope that will override me fucking up. I don't want them to notice it either or me being hurt about it. Weird to have normal sociable kids when I was so different at that age >Is there really no autismal adults you could hang out withI'm basically wall to wall to normies its like everyone here's worst nightmare x1000. Youre probably right though and that i don't get out enough or whatever
>>84827134IT WONT BE EASY UNDER ALABANESEY
>>84827198They don't really need their mom helping them socialize anyway, if anything you're helping them not be taken over by stinkjeet ideology. Pretty much all media and tiktok are all attempting to groom your kids by the way at all times, the tranny and self-hatred ideology is baked into it. Account for it or wait for them to hate you later, and themselves.
>>84827229Meh I'm not concerned. They're both way too young for tiktok or devices. Also if you look at kids shows like 90% of them don't even have people in them, they're always animals or inanimate objects. I always wonder if there's a reason for this like kids enjoy the look of animals more than animated human children. Weird
>>84827246You not being concerned is honestly pretty concerning, it means you are unaware of the EXTREME rate of brainwashing. The themes in children-facing content are overwhelmingly gay/tranny/anti-white and at this rate they're going to make it their core identity. The best way to destroy a people is to corrupt their children while the parents aren't watching in schools by the overwhelmingly dominant majority of gay/MAP/tranny "teachers", advertisements between cartoons, and the plot of the cartoons themselves.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C2l2k2NtenMOVERWHELMING majority are like this. Put a recorder on your child and listen to a whole day of their schooling if you want to be safe.Also, this is pretty ahead of the curve but autism is caused by a folate deficiency in your brain due to synthetic folic acid restricting the ability to absorb it, you need to completely cut out folic acid (it's in a lot of processed food/some supplements and in any enriched grain product) and take high dose folinic acid or folate if you can't get that (sounds same, very different), one name for it is leucovorin, it is partially reversible. Folic acid is effectively a silent neurotoxin.
>>84826914Lmao I bet you are american
>>84827285>Using the spelling of mum>Third worlder retard >AMERICANS ARE SO DUMB HAHAHA
>>84826849>Call self lonely>Has husbandThis place really is full of normies today, huh
>>84827294Lonely to normies is not getting the usual 1800 texts from their 150 contacts but instead just a sad 123 texts.
>>84827294The husband probably works and does other things, she's likely sitting around for long periods. She's just a foid that got picked up randomly, she likely has no hobbies or talents. She's just a girl.>>84827287Thanks for posting this so I don't have to. Third worlders really are hilariously stupid.
>>84827302I still envy her. It means she experienced love and has someone to go to if she wants. Can still plan cute outings and watch fun movies together. Living alone for many years has just made me jaded and bitter. I'd rather have someone who pretends to love me.
>>84827320I understand that it's something you want, but also consider that it may have it's own issues and concessions. Once you have that desire satisfied your desire will shift along the hierarchy of needs, you will always want the next thing after you get the current thing.I love you, anon. Has the pretending satisfied you? Are you complete now?
>>84826849I'm in the same boat. I just don't have a child.
>>84827332Thanks anon, I appreciate the pretending. Can we go on a pretend date?
>>84827272I really don't think the small catholic primary school my kids are going to are talking about tranny genocides or something to them. It's not that hard to monitor the stuff your kids watch and ask about what they did in school that day. I'm also not extremely far right and I don't have a problem with my kids knowing gay people exist soz
>>84827302Man i used to be so pre-occupied with my kids I didn't have time to be lonely. If a sad thought ever creeped into my head I'd be like "okay let's all go for a walk and see birds" and the darkness would go away for an hour. But now they're both at school and I'm just like okay what now. I think this is pretty common. I'm just going to have this other baby to stop the loneliness
>>84827343I only pretend to date light skinned girls and I have a girl right now or I would, sorry! If you want some godly advice though I'm happy to oblige as I am bored and up at ungodly hours.
>>84827333GET ONE NOW
>>84826923Lmao you're a faggot dude
>>84827302>no social stimuli>no intellectual stimuli>likely eats quite poorly>very likely sedentaryThis is how you end up with dementia in your sixties. Or with some assortment of neurological oddities beginning as early as your late thirties. God, to anyone who's anything close to this, please live your life. Bother people if you have to. Denying yourself these things will come to destroy you in the future and burden anyone who's there to witness your inevitable decline.
>>84827539Dementia and other neurological disorders are generally diet based, sometimes caused by common OTC meds.
>>84827556One of the few good things about being born in this era is seeing all the gut brain bullshit be looked into than chalking it up to bad luck and le that's life
After a certain number of failures you have to start assessing the option that it may be you and not everyone else.
>>84827556then there's also things like Parkinson's, which seems to be caused by some form of chronic dopamine deficiency, which in turn can be caused by a variety of lifestyle/genetic factors. so dopamine-affecting ADHD meds can also literally prevent Parkinson's.
>>84827607I KNOW ITS ME THATS THE WHOLE THING IM SAYING U RETARD
Not a single tits or gtfo, and it's full of circl8ng betacucks hoping for a drop of femoid approval. What happened to this place?
>>84827657tits or gtfoyou have ONE message to comply
>>84827657Nobody wants to see my saggy post breast feeding and pregnancy boobs. I'm saving them the horror
>>84827374Thanks anon, can I have your wisdom on this? Should I go to the gym on 4 hours sleep?
>>84827675Fuck that is super true, this one single mom I banged was super skinny but had pregnancy give her little half-empty water balloon tits that were both flat and saggy and it was awful. She was hot besides that though. Bras are such fraud.
>>84827680Hmm, no. Train at most 4 days a week with a different section of muscles each time, your recovery period matters and needs adequate nutrition or you won't even build anything. The resting is part of the process, you need to sleep more. I recommend getting a big bag of glycine to improve your sleep quality and general health, don't forget to hit your protein goals as well. I also recommend unflavored beef gelatin powder as an alternative to collagen that's cheaper and in some ways more effective due to the inclusion of other more niche substances you need. Just add it into liquid and drink it quickly (or it will gel up) and take 5g glycine to start and up to 10g and see how you feel, you should notice a sleep quality increase and a sleep boost will echo improvements throughout everything else. Avoid folic acid like the plague. It's in all grain products that say "enriched", you want actual folate only from any B-complex supplements.
>>84827682Tbh it's not that bad. She probably had super small breasts before pregnancy and then they got larger to make milk then deflated again, it happens a lot to super thin women. If your boobs are medium-large before they will still hold weight and buoyancy after breast feeding. I'm preggo again tho so the whole process is gonna start again and I hope they aren't too wrecked after
>>84827110Australians tend to shun weirdos unfortunately, i know cos im from perth lol
>>84827670Tits are preferable to whatever wholesome.chungus garbage this thread has devolved into. Retard normalniggers with actual children and access to the internet that can't spend time figuring out basic topics like nlp, or invest time in learning a skill and stsrting a business. I'm surrounded by braying retards and clueless animals. I dislike this existence.
>>84827701>no titsYou know the rules, and so do I. Get the fuck out.
>>84827704 The robot stripped my image. That said, eat shit, you unfunny retard.
So from what I learned women from being extremely social from being very young, in adulthood are extremely efficient at scoping out who someone is and what their intentions are, just through sheer practice. They hit that ball 1 million times. They understand what autism is and they see it as something to avoid, whether it's a trait in women or men.So that explains why you have trouble with women.Men though, decent men usually don't care about things like that if you can engage with their interests and make them laugh or something. Men don't require apparent perfection from their friends like women do.(this is also true from observation - women will hone in on and destroy another woman for just minor imperfections. They care too much for things that matter little.)This is my best guess. You're boring and really have no interests. I know a girl in uni who always complains she has no friends, but all she seems to do is... study her subject, apply for internships that she'll probably never get into, eat food, and watch instagram reels. No actual interests. Used to be into drawing and art, but the school machine has almost destroyed that genuine pleasure from her sadly. So my message to you.And anyone reading this. Is. If you want a friend; be interesting, because friends bond over shared interests. TLDR you're boring. Bonus Marge SimpsonJust had to do captcha 3 times fuck this website
>>84827757I'm not boring I'm just off-putting and autistic!!! I do shit. I know shit!!
>>84827723>no timestampContinue with your getting the fuck out, unfunny retard.
>>84827776That's quite a reaction I see. Knowing shit isn't enough. What are your hobbies? What things can you do to have fun with other people? I'm also autistic but not necessarily off-putting. That depends on the person and more on what you think of yourself actually.
>>84827806>Play foidslop games on laptop>Watch movies with 200 reviews on letterboxd >Read like once a month>Gym I'm a zoomer at heart fuckkk
>>84826849idk but fix it before you get suicidal and inflict trauma on your family
>>84828003I'm not suicidal I didn't even have ppd gosh can't a gal just complain on a complaints board
>>84827023Indians and asians are a heavily in group people , best to not mingle with them, go talk to other white moms.
>>84827693This is very different to my current approach. I do the same compound exercises 3x a week. I'm going to look into the glycene stuff to see if it improves my sleep though I think my poor sleep is caused by my overbiteFunnily, I once got prescribed folic acid because my b9 levels were weirdly low.
>>84828088I don't know why but there's so many Indians around like holy shit. Like 50% of my kids classes are Indians and it's a pretty regular school. Probably cause Indians have a bunch of kids or whatever. Not even that racist but i can see how people are worried about the white race lawl. It's an urbanite area tho so idfk. all the teachers are white atleast. The white mothers are all like ten years older than me as well. If you're wondering what an urban catholic school in Australia is like
>>84828128>white mothers are all like ten years older than me as well.Thats the problem , indian and asian women know it's best to have kids young and have lots of them, whereas as white women usually wait it out after spending their young life in clubs and bars partying then shat out one kid at 30-40 years of age. I was surprised you already have 2 kids in your twenties. Also yes statistically it's not looking good for the white race in Australia considering indians surpassed whites demographically recently.
>>84828174Old women are known to avoid young women, women your age you could talk to are all partying. If you go to church you can try talking to women over there ig.
>>84828174It's crazy how judgemental and fucking rude some other women are. I got that all the time for my first because I was technically a teen mom (19 about to turn 20). Sentences I heard the most during that time>Oh you're so young I don't know how you're doing it>Didn't you want to do more things first??????>That's a lot to handle for someone your ageLIKE I PROMISE YOU IM FINE. anyway pregnant with number three right now. I just want this one to work out, I had a miscarriage last year fml It's not like I'd ever comment on how old they were when they had kids so i dont understand why they feel the need to do it with me. Just really makes me mad
>>84826849>be worthless, uninteresting, low IQ foid>get a boyfriend and get married with 0 effortPretty believable story, actually, nicely done.
>>84828664Idc I have a happy life and you don't lol. Should've been born with a vagina
>>84826849Maybe get a part time job?Trad housewives used to work too, staying at home 24/7 just homesteading was incredibly rare and is very mentally unhealthy for you.
>>84826849Autists belong with other autists. Neurotypicals will always treat you like this. Your husband would treat you like this too if he didn't get to fuck you.
>>84829025Don't encourage the reproduction of autistic people. By 2070 everyone will be autistic and then humanity will die. Will be best if the gene dies out
>>84829032Autism is only loosely genetic due to the MTHFR gene causing issues processing folic acid, however folic acid is a NON-NATURAL SYNTHETIC TRASH PRODUCT that should not exist and all issues only happen from consumption of this optional abomination that is being funneled into the food supply. You can partially reverse it by avoiding folic acid entirely and getting folate.If the mother with the mthfr gene consumes folic acid during pregnancy it's insanely risky though, especially since the child might have it too.
>>84829032>By 2070 everyone will be autistic.Yes, I hope so. Even NT+NT can result in the tism. We are slowly replacing them, and nothing of value is being lost.Look at how the psychopaths treat OP just based on their thin slice judgements. The sooner we replace them, the better.
>>84826849That's so sad nona. I'm like this too and I realized I can never have a normal life as a result, and if I had kids it would negatively impact them too. I really feel for you. Have you ever thought about finding or creating a local group for autistic moms? There are groups like that on Facebook that may give you a sense of belonging.
>>84826849Good. Means you can't cheat on him
>>84826849Didn't read>BBBBBBBBBBBRRRRRRRRRRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRPPPPPPPPPPPFFFFFFFFFFFFFF
>>84829896I've seen this post so many times i don't even click on it anymore
>>84829903Need to find a new one in that case, thanks for the heads up
>>84827657God forbig people be nice to each other. You go back to your genderbait threads. Shoo.
>>84829920>God forbig people be nice to each other. That's not why OP posted though, they posted because they're an attention whore who wants to be affirmed for solely for being female, and this is very obviousIn a more civilised age, attention whores at least provided something valuable in return
>>84826849op do you wanna be friends. your fate is probably gonna be my fate at this rate so we are the same.>t. 26f, no friends for 11 years, probably autism and that makes other women not that receptive to me trying to make friends bc everyone has goddamn 1000+ friends already apparently
>>84829957She will neglect you or purposefully say things to hurt you. And if it's not her, it will be you. This is how these types always are, they're alone for a reason, and if someone gets close, they will eventually realize why that is.
>>84829945(and announced themselves openly, for that matter)
>>84829973>male handsonly bitter males are like this, begone xer.
>>84827723If that's really you, women don't want to be friends with you because you super mog them and they would instantly classify you as a threat. You don't have the social skills to dispell that threat level so you are inherently intimidating to women, and lustily dangerous to men. If you were a dumpy frumpy chungus you probably wouldn't have as much trouble If you're still here OP have you thought about trying nerdy hobbies like DnD or mtg or something like that? With dnd you can find just a few friends and you can socialize incorrectly with rping and shit idk.
>>84830403That's not me unfortunately i think my h would kill me if i posted my naked body here. I lean more dumpy frumpy chungus :(.I don't have much interest in male kind of nerd hobbies, I was pretty into taxidermy a while back so maybe I'll find people that like that. Mehhhhhh. Why am I waking up now and checking 4chan what the hell. The problem with a lot of autists is they don't want to meet and connect with other autistic people because they only want to fit in with nts. This is especially true with autistic women like its almost seen as giving up in a way. Shrug
R9k so gentrified there's people with families on it
my gf has the same problem, she struggles a lot making friends even though she's nice and tries her best
>>84826849Be the MILF every boy wants to see naked in the shower.>my saggy post breast feeding and pregnancy boobInstaboner. You also have it easy if most of your children's classmates are pajeets who fetishize white women. Your children will become the most popular kids with your help.
