How can someone fuck it so bad like this? I'm so fucking done. I met a beautiful chick a while ago and somehow managed to fuck it all up, so now she's not interested and probably hates my guts like WHY?!?She was cool, nice, funny, said nice stuff to me, and I still managed to fuck it all up. Why is this happening to me? This is the first time I clicked with a female and it feels even worse. She kept flirting with another guy right in front of me, she even hinted that she's not interested and doesn't like me no more.Fuck my life, how worst can it get than this?
>>84827747Save up the whining and tell us what you did to lose the foid>She kept flirting with another guy right in front of me, she even hinted that she's not interested and doesn't like me no more.Kept? You're getting cucked bro, no offense but if it ain't working just move on with your life. I've been there tho so I know how it feels
>>84827766>Save up the whining and tell us what you did to lose the foidIt was an online thing and I got kinda upset cause she kept ghosting me so I unfriended her I also got a bit carried and told her about me being suicidal and whatnot>it ain't working just move on with your lifeI don't care about women that much but this genuinely hurt me I'm already at my lowest and then this shit happens
In any case you'll only get her if you move on, if you still even want that.And I will tell you this right now, and there'll be a thousand screeching banshees and simps that'll say it ain't so but it is: they're all like that. The sweet girl next door type? She'll do that to you. Every single one will do it. The only way to deal with it is to be strong in the first place to prevent it and to move on when it happens. They're dogs, they've no core and they can't consciously regulate their own behavior. They're not like you and me and their whole persona is literally that, a mask their deeper natural strategy uses. And they'll never be aware of that because it wouldn't serve their nature. Just try and stop caring. Never run after them. Especially when they try and humiliate you like that. There's a much higher chance of them wanting you when you just cut contact or even when you go psycho on them and then cut contact. They will seek you out again eventually because there's ambiguity and that turns them on. But you oughta ask yourself if you'd really want that? Because the shit tests will never, ever stop. And when you've allowed them only just once to walk all over you that's the precedent and that's what you'll always be measured against. So there's really no use taking them back when they come crawling.Just move on, bro.
>>84827799:(Do you think I will ever meet a girl who will treat me nicely and not like this It was already draining talking to her taking ages to reply very shallow and dead like I'm talking to a robot and it pissed me so I just unfriended her but couldn't stop thinking about her... but yeah you are right I should just move on, I just can't take it anymore all of it and then this
>>84827813If she doesn't show enthusiasm from the start you need to simply move on. When you entertain her lackluster chatting it's already over because she's testing you and you're failing the test. The only way to win is to walk away in that case.And you'll know when a girl genuinely likes you, she'll make time to talk to you, go out of her way, literally beg for your attention. And that shit's like a drug and it's even worse when her hormone-raped brain suddenly tells her to sabotage it and fuck it up because you'll literally be on withdrawal. But I guess you need to go through that a few times to simply realize that's how it is and there's no changing it. They're retarded, they can't handle freedom and they'll invariably, always fuck it up. Always. Doesn't matter if it takes 20 years, she will keep testing you and the tests will get increasingly retarded.But you seriously need to kick this whole woe is me angsty personality, what are you, 18yo? Grow a pair. Life is suffering, it's all suffering. You'll find your pleasures here and there and that's it. Either you deal with that or you kill yourself.
>>84827799not OPi fucked it up, not as bad as OP because holy shit, but still got my feelings completely disregarded and made out to look like the asshole for not getting stepped all over, and i'd still take her back because she's a like 145 IQ educated and very romantic woman.i don't care that she'll suck the life out of me, imagine our children.
>>84827785Online relationships never work, and the women on the internet are some of the worst people you'll ever meet.I honestly gave up completely on women. I'm 21 already and I'm pretty sure shit ain't changing ever, I'm introverted, nerdy and don't know any girls atm
>>84827829Women can't handle their own intelligence. I know this for a fact because unfortunately I'm only attracted to highly intelligent, stubborn women.Every single one of them has been at least >135 and every single on has been so fucking difficult that it's just not worth it. They can't handle seeing what they are and are constantly at war with their own nature. They fiercely hate themselves. The self-loathing is insane. And then the mindgames they play resemble war crimes.You can't win with them and they will genuinely try to destroy you. You can't win against an animus complex like that.
>>84827828>If she doesn't show enthusiasm from the start you need to simply move on. When you entertain her lackluster chatting it's already over because she's testing you and you're failing the test.do girls do this to specific guys or what?cause she seem like she flirts with the guy same way she did to me at first she did show enthusiasm but it was kinda hard talking to her she wasn't the talkative type and very shy >. But I guess you need to go through that a few times to simply realize that's how it is and there's no changing it.I don't wanna get hurt I don't want anybody anymore >But you seriously need to kick this whole woe is me angsty personality, what are you, 18yo? Grow a pair. I'm very sorry I just can't help it I don't know how to feel or how I should feel towards stuff I don't know what's wrong with me>>84827829I thought of how cool it is to be ruined like this by a woman but now I experienced it doesn't feel nice >>84827839there is no other way for me to find people other than being online you know I also was never into the whole relationship thingy until recently but I can't stop thinking about women I don't want anything to do with them now but this just didn't made feel good at all
>>84827864So very shy she jumped right on the other guy to flirt with him with you right there, yeah? There's nothing wrong with you, you should simply take your own side and show some self-respect. You'll get hurt, it's inevitable. But it won't kill you. Just try and be good to yourself and realize that affection isn't worth losing your dignity over. In fact, you'll swiftly lose the affection because they can't respect and desire you if you let them do that to you.
>>84827878>So very shy she jumped right on the other guy to flirt with him with you right there, yeah?Well first time we talked she mostly asked random questions, flirting in a weird way but she wasn't that talkative even with the other dude>Just try and be good to yourself and realize that affection isn't worth losing your dignity over. In fact, you'll swiftly lose the affection because they can't respect and desire you if you let them do that to you.you are right... it's just it felt nice I got no one so her showing me this kinda of affection felt very nice cause nobody really likes me aside from my family maybe
>>84827864>I thought of how cool it is to be ruined like this by a woman but now I experienced it doesn't feel niceit's cool because that specific woman was cool.many have tried to take advantage of my obvious loneliness since, disappointing is all i can call it. they think they're doing something but compared to what i've experienced at the hands of the one i actually dated they're like cavewomen.
>>84827747relatable I also fucked thigns up with a nona recently. I'm coping by smoking a pack a day and drinking. She was like you describe your girl to be. feelsbadman
>>84827907>it's cool because that specific woman was cool.the girl I was talking to was cool too but being love bombed just to get ghosted and having that dead energy I don't like that>>84827912I'm very sorry anon I wish life was just like anime or something having a woman who will fix me or some shit I may as well end my life like other anon said instead of dealing with all this bs
>>84827747>She kept flirting with another guy right in front of me, she even hinted that she's not interested and doesn't like me no more.Wait wdym? Like she told you she's talking to someone else and prefers him? Was it some girl you added on soc or how you met here? In case of former, if you didn't face-leak or anything else sensitive just try and add with a new account and try again from new if you are committed enough. Tho if you are this fucked up over it, you might seem needy in a way that women often dislike
>>84828740>Wait wdym? Like she told you she's talking to someone else and prefers him?it's not like that I unfriended her then I rejoined the discord server I met her in then I noticed she was flirting with another guy the same she did to me at first >Was it some girl you added on soc or how you met here?it was a random discord server don't wanna say which one >didn't face-leak or anything else sensitive just try and add with a new account and try again from new if you are committed enough.I only sent one pic of myself then quickly delete it she is the one who sent me multiple pictures of herself they are still there in my other accountas for adding her back I'm very scared and it feels pathetic doing that no? she probably already think I'm a loser which I am lol>Tho if you are this fucked up over it, you might seem needy in a way that women often dislike:( yes I am what I'm suppose to do this is just me
>>84828802yeah, i think at this point it's kind of over and only by getting over it you'll even have a feasible shot at getting her back -- and even more so becoming normal about this all. trying to add her back etc. will just expose you in your current state and ruin any future chances forever and humiliate you in the process.
>>84827747The paiun is partially due to recognizing how good a bond with someone can be, it's proof it's something worth making efforts for. Sometimes one person messes it up, sometimes it's the other. Look forward to the next time you click with someone and think about how you can grow between now and then, so it can be an even better bond than this one.
>>84828979I already was in server and talked to people there for few days talked with her too but she does seem like she hate me and said nothing about it she is not the type to do so I'm kinda glad I can easily remove myself like that without anything cringe happening and me being all forgotten by everyone and her I really fumbled fuck >>84829268I know right I'm such an asshole for fucking it up all like that I don't want to get hurt or hurt anyone I guess it's for the best for me to be all alone instead to be with someone
>>84829325It's okay to feel you need to stay away from that stuff, but having been there I think we sometimes misinterpret the feeling of "I need a break" for "never again".Just like we need sleep to come back to various activities in a more healthy state, sometimes after exercise so that we get the rest we need to see the resulting gains, so it can be with social matters.After a long, long time of not reaching out to people and stopping people from getting closer, I found I had rested enough. It wasn't boredom or longing, I just felt I had healed from past disappointment and was willing to engage with people again.That's when I encountered a number of people who I had a surprising amount in common with, and for the first time in a long while I accepted their friendship, but I took it slow. Even now we don't talk every day but it's more of a quality than quantity kind of bond for now, even if we may spend time together more often in the future.So you just may be surprised who you meet and connect with in the future. There are so many types of people out there we just don't know about considering a population of billions. For now, rest. One day you'll have your strength back, I'd say.
>>84829388I took countless breaks from people all the time it never helps I always end up getting disappointed over and over again and one thing about me is that I hate getting disappointed I'm really done... I just want to be left alone but at the same time I don't want to I want somebody to love me and love them back
>>84829622Some people do just leave it to "if I meet someone good I meet someone good". It's an understandable way after being disappointed over and over when you make the first move. Yet life goes on and you'll encounter people through various means, really, sometimes I've been the one who's been found despite not looking. So I hope the same happens to you in time.
>>84829848most of my friends are ones who came to me actually even this chick she is the one who wanted to add me but I had my requests disabled lol I just miss people a lot but everyone I liked comes and disappear or just don't stick around it makes me want not to have anyone so I don't end up hurting or them hurting me by leaving
>>84829868There's always a chance people can leave, or circumstances can cut you off. Could be an accident, a disaster, etc. Anyway, before I met this latest friend, someone who's even invited me over, I had reached a point where I saw bonds as "I could take it or leave it". Nice as a good bond is, it's also nice not having to coordinate your schedule with anyone and being able to enjoy your hobbies at your own pace. That appreciation grows over time as you focus on that upside. To an extent, the reason I decided to accept this new friend is because I knew they were low on friends. So I'd say it's possible to put romance aside and appreciate other aspects of life. If you meet someone worth giving a chance, cool. If not, still cool. So hopefully you can reach that same peace in time too.
>>84829943you are right but something I don't understand why do some people act all interested then don't seem to make any efforts to be with me I don't get it why adding or showing interest knowing damn well you not gonna commit that's what I hate if you got your own group and you don't want any other friends don't waste time getting to know and keep me wondering it's not cool When I make a friend I want that friend to be with me I want him to stick around and spend time with me I make time for everybody even if I was busy but they get to that's selfish
>>84829985With everything going on these days thinking things through and thinking ahead is becoming less common. I learned in an unpleasant way to be open to the best, but to try to be mentally prepared for the worst. Plus if someone reaches out to you first, it can be easy for them to assume there are others who will find you compelling and so you don't need them. Sometimes people do feel bad about mismanaging time or starting new shows/games/bonds despite knowing what their time management is like, which results in them sometimes feeling they shouldn't waste your time further after failing to keep in touch. So even if, like me, you come across someone who has more in common with you than anyone you've met in your life (so far), enjoy it if you'd like but remember it the communication could fade out. It's just one more reason to increase our appreciation for the joys in life that are far more accessible whenever we want them.
>>84830459man why everything got to be so complicated *sigh*just you saying this makes the whole thing of getting into relationship with people draining and lame is it even worth it
>>84830656Typing and more so reading is kinda boring to everyone compared to actually living/doing what's being read about. Same way reading even your favorite game/show/film's script doesn't compared to experiencing it.In reality it's quite enjoyable to meet someone you share interests with and see where it goes. Enjoy it and I'd even say I enjoy it more now that I'm prepared for how it may not last. It means I'm not as concerned with quickly replying or wondering if I'm doing the right thing, knowing that sometimes it's on the other person or life just happens.But I also enjoy it more now after that long break mentioned before, because I know not everyone's the same or has the same circumstances. It's now fun to see if someone is the type who'll go the distance and I can never find out if I never give the bond a chance.
>>84830828>Typing and more so reading is kinda boring to everyone compared to actually living/doing what's being read aboutnot for me hehe I'm chronically online and the only valuable connection I got was mostly online it was never irl those silly texts mattered to meI wish everything was easier
You're unexperienced. Learn to embrace their femininity and lure them into more personal stuff. Play it like a chess game (i.e. wait for her turns).And stop self-loathing. Some bitch's opinion doesn't define your manhood.
>>84830850I get what you're saying. I really meant reading about getting to know people pales in comparison to actually experiencing the makings of a good bond, whether that communication is in-person or via messaging.
>>84830895I'm done at this point anon I don't wanna do anything fuck women and everybody it's not just about her it's... everything>>84830933it really doesn't matter it's just me and the voices now
>>84830895This is correct, but pro tip never play an actual chess game with a woman.Not allowing her to win will make her mad and allowing her to win makes you a simp. Trust me I'm VERY experienced.
>>84830958I suck at chess...
>>84830956You think there will be no opportunity in the future? I was just like you when I was 19 - I was rejected by 10 different women and it hurt like several blades slashed through me. But what happened at my 11th attempt? She reciprocated, because it started clicking in my head. I learned to talk to women with her.After her everything was so easy. I felt confident in myself. All because I hit the bare minimum.
>>84831033>ou think there will be no opportunity in the future? I was just like you when I was 19I never tried anon I have always been a religious dude and hated the whole relationship bs cause it's all drama and gonna end up very lame which is true like what happened to me with this chick I just can't help it when talking to women thinking about myself I'm a loser I don't deserve to with one in first place I only want to be better to actually be with one
I wanna be myself whenever I talk to women it's just that it doesn't feel right I say the most unhinged dumb shit all the time without filter cause I'm with my friends but I can't do that with a woman it never felt right talking to a women casually just like that I somehow click with chicks when I talk to them on discord vc and they seem to like me but it never felt right
>>84831080Nobody will know that you're a loser if you won't tell them about it.Self-improvement won't help. You will never be someone that you aren't. Learn to play around your personality and outlook. If you're fat - be that cool looking fat guy. If you're shy - be cute shy. If you're dumb - be a funny dumb guy. Adapt, don't change.
>>84831118that's fake and lame I don't like that I wanna be honest and true I always hide the fact that I'm a loser or want to kill myself and it usually works but it's still.... doesn't feel right
>>84831132I didn't know that you were a "loser" before you told me so. Your problem was mundane and normal, not something that would happen to a loser.Then, what is a "winner" to you?
it will be really cool if a girl can actually fix me but no one will grim>>84831172a winner to me I guess is someone who is smart, confident, attractive, fit, rich, healthy, well educated and informed
>>84831184That's a lot of things to clear out. I only had "smart" from your list. Nobody hits all of those points.What are your stats?
>>84831200Chads hit all those points though >What are your stats?0 at everything I guess I suck at everythingI was never good at thing to come up with btw cute pics you are sending hehe
>>84831218I'll give you 4/10 in communication.And thanks, she's one of my favorites. Your pics are nice too
>>84831246>I'll give you 4/10 in communication.whaaaaaaaaat!?!?was I really that bad it's okay I always sucked at that anyways
>>84831260It's average, anon. 4 is good, it's like getting an average car or an average toast. Nothing special, but not bad either.
>>84831279average is lame I want perfection but perfection is not possible no matter what and I hate that
>>84831284What is perfection?And in your case it's actually good. I don't want you to be perfect, you are fine as is
>>84831312perfection is to do everything accordingly without ever fucking up some people go to be so good at something they perfected it I want that too I wanna be perfect but I can't I barely can wake up let alone be perfect we humans are not meant to be perfect anyways cause what's the point it's all pointless and meaningless if everyone is perfect>. I don't want you to be perfect, you are fine as isit's for me I wanna be perfect for myself aren't girls this days very demanding too if someone is not a blue eyed 7ft jacked blond beast they don't date or somethingI just want 2d girls to exist it will be really cool if they were real imagine if Albedo was real anon
>>84831332It sounds like depression to me, rather than will to be perfect. What are you going to do with that? What is your end goal with "perfection"? What is the point of continuing a beaten game?Albedo would be nice. Imagine her smell, her lust and her body shape. Nothing will match her. Who is your waifu?
>>84831373>It sounds like depression to me, rather than will to be perfectI'm not depressed> What are you going to do with that? What is your end goal with "perfection"? What is the point of continuing a beaten game?I wanna be nicer and better so god will like me and stuff so when I die I go to heaven where it will be eternal peace, no suffering and no pain and it's endless life better than the current world I can probably ask god too to create 2d anime girls for me and make them real being nice and better is nice for the other humans too being nice means people may get influenced it will be a nice society if everyone was cool >Albedo would be nice. Imagine her smell, her lust and her body shape. Nothing will match her. Who is your waifu?SHE'S SO HOT I WANT A MOMMY TOOhmm my waifu I'd say Mirai Kuriyama but that was back in the day when I was in middle school cause there was this chick on my class who liked a lot like her very beautiful girl she is very cool but now I think it's bianca from dq5 a cute blondie who is humble and very talkative and innocent
>>84831408It's a nice goal, anon. I wish you luck in achieving it. But I like my earth life too. Isn't it nice to go to the nature and enjoy the view, look at the vibrant blue sky and enjoy it's reflection in the river? I often times go out of the city just to be blissful alone.Don't be greedy! Your waifus will be dissatisfied with your slut behaviour.
>>84831431>It's a nice goal, anon. I wish you luck in achieving it. But I like my earth life too. Isn't it nice to go to the nature and enjoy the view, look at the vibrant blue sky and enjoy it's reflection in the river? I often times go out of the city just to be blissful alone.I never said you don't have to enjoy earth life, earth life can be cool it's just I don't like it's all suffering to me>Don't be greedy! Your waifus will be dissatisfied with your slut behaviour.lmao cmon now I don't want one waifu I'm gonna make a large harem of women from all kind hehe
>>84831487Suffering is part of the pleasure. It lowers your tolerance to good things.If I was your waifu I would be upset with you! Baka~
>>84831526>Suffering is part of the pleasure. It lowers your tolerance to good things.I'm not a masochist I wish I was normal like others and can tolerate pain and suffering but I can'tany slight discomfort makes me wanna die esp small stuff those are the worst>If I was your waifu I would be upset with you! Baka~of course you would :( sorry I'm a bad personI was thinking of joining some discord servers from /soc/ like I did before I'm kinda scared
>>8483157Suffering makes people feel alive. Your negative emotions drive you to action. Suffer makes you stronger.> of course you would :( sorry I'm a bad personNo! You have to make up for it now...Don't be scared. You're talking to me just fine without any hesitation, and even sharing your worldview and preferences. I didn't do anything to gain your trust, and you still went for it.
>>84831604why did you reply to >>8483157??>Suffering makes people feel alive. Your negative emotions drive you to action. Suffer makes you stronger.exactly that's how it should but it's the opposite for me it makes me tired and makes me horrible>No! You have to make up for it now...w-what how?>Don't be scared. You're talking to me just fine without any hesitation, and even sharing your worldview and preferences. I didn't do anything to gain your trust, and you still went for it.I get this episodes where I don't want to talk to anyone and get scared but somehow it just clicks and I join multiple places and speak with people it's fun sometimes it isn't I don't get it
>>84831688I'm replying from my phone, sorry if you didn't get the sound> exactly that's how it should but it's the opposite for me it makes me tired and makes me horribleMaybe try something else. Not searching for suffering, but searching for pleasure? It's possible to live stress-free life.> w-what how?Mmm... maybe treat me to a nice dinner? I would appreciate that.> I get this episodes where I don't want to talk to anyone and get scared but somehow it just clicks and I join multiple places and speak with people it's fun sometimes it isn't I don't get itMaybe we click with each other then? Or you like it when someone is kind to you
>>84831717>Maybe try something else. Not searching for suffering, but searching for pleasure? It's possible to live stress-free life.I don't enjoy anything anymore desueverything is pretty lame>Mmm... maybe treat me to a nice dinner? I would appreciate that.I'm straight anon but if you are my waifu sure I will reserve a table at dorsia hehe >Maybe we click with each other then? Or you like it when someone is kind to youI like people who are kind to me but I always push them away cause it feels way too good to be true for someone to treat me in such way esp if it was a female
>>84831765> I don't enjoy anything anymore desueverything is pretty lameDon't you enjoy socialising here?> I'm straight anon but if you are my waifu sure I will reserve a table at dorsia hehe Baka!~ But thanks...> I like people who are kind to me but I always push them away cause it feels way too good to be true for someone to treat me in such way esp if it was a femaleI think it's mainly because most of the women are unhappy with their lives, so it's difficult for them to be nice to others. Especially considering what social media does to their brains. Pure rotting from the inside out. But a Christian woman, who never touches social media, might be perfect for you.
>>84831796>Don't you enjoy socialising here?I kinda like 4chan yeah but still pretty boring and lame it's been quite a while since I posted here cause every one was just spamming the same shitty thread literally one fag kept spamming threads how about women seethe cause they don't have a penis or some other anon who kept spamming threads about not having a gf it pissed me so I stopped using it for a good while however I went into another forum which is not so nice I don't wanna socialize anymore I wanna do shit I miss days where I sit and play a video game for hours without getting bored>I think it's mainly because most of the women are unhappy with their lives, so it's difficult for them to be nice to othersWtf no one is happy how their life is turning but you don't see them being bitter about it women are just retarded at this point>Especially considering what social media does to their brains. Pure rotting from the inside out. But a Christian woman, who never touches social media, might be perfect for you.oh man good christian women are very cool I have never met a religious girl once throughout my life well I did but all of them were horrible I wish more religious women existed https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ef-HSffECL0
>>84831912"Lingerie" is pronounced like that?> I don't wanna socialize anymore I wanna do shit I miss days where I sit and play a video game for hours without getting boredYou grew up anon, your tastes probably have changed. What else do you like to do? Building? Designing? Writing?> women are just retarded at this pointIt's true as well. You can't blame them for that, it's just the way they are. They can't survive otherwise.> I wish more religious women existed I wish I could support you on that cause, but I'm non-religious, I just deeply respect religious people.Will you continue looking for religious women, or a modest non-religious girl would be fine as well?
>>84832022>"Lingerie" is pronounced like that?what?>You grew up anon, your tastes probably have changedit has nothing to do with being grown desu I really like video games and media in general I just don't seem to enjoy it anymoreI don't really like writing or designing I hate them same for building stuff>It's true as well. You can't blame them for that, it's just the way they are. They can't survive otherwise.I like them being retarded but acting like a smartass pisses me off >Will you continue looking for religious women, or a modest non-religious girl would be fine as well?hell yeah non religious modest girl are cool too not sure if I'm gonna find that though I really can't look for anyone irl so everything is just online
>>84832048> what?I always pronounced it "lin'-ge-ree"> hell yeah non religious modest girl are cool too not sure if I'm gonna find that though I really can't look for anyone irl so everything is just onlineYou have potential. Now imagine if I was a girl all that time. Would you respond to me differently, or would you keep being yourself? Because your true self is beautiful as well. I like you for being real.
>>84832076>I always pronounced it "lin'-ge-ree"I'm esl but I think it's pronounced lan-ge-rai>You have potential. Now imagine if I was a girl all that time. Would you respond to me differently, or would you keep being yourself? Because your true self is beautiful as well. I like you for being real.it will probably be the same responses
>>84832120That's what you have to do. Now go for it, anon. You have to try. I wish you luck.
>>84832131THANK YOU FOR THE ADVICE ANON WILL DO
>>84832151Good boy! That's the spirit
>>84832170DON'T GOOD BOY ME LIKE THAT...
>>84832180You did good today, anon. You deserve the praise
>>84832197s-shut up!that's gay >>84832170>picrelatedcute that's how I want to be treated
>>84832227You have to start somewhereThere are so many opportunities to flirt with you, but I pass on each and every one of them, because you are straight. You see, if you act upon those opportunities - people will like you more, and it will turn your relationships into something bigger. Even you are giving into me.
>>84832264I really don't care at this point I'm feeling a little better than I was in morning so it's fine I don't wanna be with anyone for now it's kinda fucked up though a female friend of mine is about to kill herself right now she probably already did it>Even you are giving into me.that's gay shut up this is an anonymous board you are an anon unless we met before and you know me but I highly doubt that
>>84832304You were supposed to stop her, anon.> that's gay shut upDon't be rude to a messenger
>>84832318>You were supposed to stop her, anon.she lives in latin america I sent an email to the police they replied back I give them all info I could sadly she is not replying to my text I feel really bad I hope she actually didn't do it god please>Don't be rude to a messengermessenger what do you mean?
>>84832328> sadly she is not replying to my text I feel really bad I hope she actually didn't do it god pleaseThat's terrible to hear, anon. I hope she's fine and everything will be alright. You did the right thing.> messenger what do you mean?You can flirt with people just to know them better. It doesn't mean it has to be explicitly sexual in nature. I didn't mean it as "you're gay".
>>84832346>You can flirt with people just to know them betterisn't that a bit weird? what if the other person takes it the wrong wayI felt weirded out when that chick start flirting she literally asked me what's my favorite position is once in vc like what's that suppose to mean we just met
>>84832387It means she's interested. Just go with it, you'll see for yourself how good it will turn out
>>84832399TF YOU MEAN GO WITH IT I ALREADY FUCKED IT ALL UPshe is the same chick I was talking about actually come to think of it wasn't just her there was another chick on same server but I didn't wanna add her cause I was scared and didn't wanna add anybody fuck if I didn't add her none of this would have happened why did I do it
>>84832430She wanted someone explicit and sexual, and you were unfit for her. At least you know what to do in the future.Experiment more, try out new things. You are likeable and you have every chance to win. Just don't humble yourself like that in the future.
she never liked you, dude. It was all in your head
>>84832470>She wanted someone explicit and sexual, and you were unfit for her. At least you know what to do in the future.NO SHE DIDN'T I'm freaky and I can be freaky and I assure you if I did act sexually with her it won't end well I'm not even sure if she wanted sexual talk in first place she doesn't seem the type >Experiment more, try out new things. You are likeable and you have every chance to win. Just don't humble yourself like that in the future.man...>>84832478MAYBE YOU ARE RIGHT ANON SHE NEVER LIKED ME SHE WAS PROBABLY GETTING RAILED BY A CHAD WHEN SHE WAS GHOSTING ME OR MAYBE IGNORING ME BUT WHY WOULD SHE ACT ALL THE WAY LIKE THAT I'M I JUST A TOY FOR HER GET USED THEN THROWN AWAY JUST FOR SOME CHEAP ATTENTION WHY!?!?!fuck it I'm tired and it's midnight I'm going to sleep
>>84832536Be moderate for starters. Know the measure for everything. You don't have to go all-in from the beggining, but you don't have to hold off either. Find the balance that she would like and escalate accordingly.You won't know until you try it out. If she's not the sexual type - she will tell you to stop, and it wouldn't ruin anything between you.> RAILED BY A CHADConsidering that everything went on Discord - they're kitten-talking and sharing sexual images at best. No real intercourse involved.
