>Every online community, discord server, forum, etc I join I am heavily disliked, referred to as a retard, troll, etc, usually banned or exiled from most online communities, except one that generally prides themselves on free speech but I am heavily disliked there alsoWhat is the reason for this exactly? I dont even say anything bad, sometimes I sulk about sad things in my life but overall I am just talking what comes to my mind. Why are people so upset at me all the timeTrans people generally really dont like me also, which I find a little sad because Im not really transphobic at all
if i had to guess, people dont generally enjoy listening / reading about other people talking about themselves unless its a really good story. if you are sad/vent posting then people will get fed up
>>84829548You probably have a personality that doesn't mesh well with modern internet cattle. I'm the same way. Every now and again I'll meet someone I click them heavily but for the most part people think I'm an asshole and a annoying retard.
>>84829566So i should stop talking about myself, Ok I can do that. But it is nice to vent sometimes. But I understand i shouldnt do it.I guess the only places I dont receive hate all the time is 4chan and the incel website. Which perhaps says a lot about my character
I'm going to turn you into a worm and supply you the most comforting soil.That or put you in a jar, take your pick.
>>84829603yeah we are too 4chan conditioned and just blurt out whatever we like. people generally like listeners. and if they like you they will listen to what you say
>>84829620I guess I understand it. Im talking to people who arent like me at all. This is a problem.I think I am going to quit discord altogether, would be more productive to spend this time talking to people I actually like, drawing, reading, making incelcore or something
>>84829678sure, isnt that the whole ongoing process of living, figuring out what we like
For me, I don't want to circlejerk, so I only poke my head out when I want to argue, and I'm never going to back down. This usually leads to people dogpiling me and then I get banned if I say something slightly offensive after becoming public enemy #1. 4chan has a hivemind for 99.7% of users, but then the remaining can easily hijack threads and mass-reply argue for hours on end, which is good for me.I think you'll find suppressing your natural urges will actually make things worse. People will accept you, but NPC interactions aren't worth having. It's depressing and lonely acting fake and having people like that version of you, but normalcattle have been accustomed to it for decades. You literally have to just b urself until you find someone who actually likes you.
>>84829693Yes I think so anon :)>>84829730Helpful, thanks anon :)I think Ill continue being myself and stop trying to appeal to normies
>>84829843You probably still want to understand more so what exactly is wrong with your interactions. I think venting is fine and normal for most people, but if all or a significant portion of your conversations become you talking about how sad you are, mentally healthy people will cut you off. It could be something different, though. As long as you're not just a complete piece of shit you probably won't have to change anything about yourself.
>>84829548well you're posting hamasabi so i guess that has something to do with it
