Dear BPD women (90% of women today). Can you please put the abuser dick down for one minute and start giving men who don't beat the fucking shit out of you a chance? Yes I know. Men who don't beat the fucking shit out of you are "creepy" to you. But trust me it's not that bad. Contrary to the stereotype, the men who keep beating the shit out of women are not "weird creepy strangers with no friends". They're popular men that women keep picking over and over despite them having 20 felonies, domestic violence convictions, and 15 baby mamas with kids they don't take care of.
This is reality according to BPD women. The complete opposite of real reality.
>>84830911The brain seeks familiarity. If a woman was beat as a girl, she'll unconsciously follow this pattern without knowing why, unless she either goes to therapy or works on herself alone. Men fall into and stay with BPDemons for the same reason.
>>84830911>"weird creepy strangers with no friends"My abusive ex was a weird creepy stranger with no friends. I didn't know that he was abusive. He seemed sweet at first. Nerdy. Needless to say he permanently ruined my preferences for nerdy timid guys lol
>>84830977Thats not wrong. I was physically and mentally abused when I was a child. My two biggest relationshits were with BPDemons because they mirrored my parents behaviour.
>>84831001Can you go down how you found out he was abusive/toxic ? Like what were the first signs of it and what did you do following up that ? Because when it comes to abuse, I rarely ever hear women put their foot down on the first obvious red flags that this guy has something malicious going on. Instead it's more like "Well my bf hit me and he apologized how immature and dumb that was from him, so I'm going out with him tomorrow" then it being them just out-right ditching the guy after the first red flag
>>84830911But they make me smile
>>84831061>Can you go down how you found out he was abusive/toxic ?When he wouldn't let me see his brother because we were friends. He physically blocked the door and tried to stop me from leaving and seeing him.>Like what were the first signs of it and what did you do following up that ?I would say that jealousy were the first signs. He wouldn't let me talk with other men or have male friends and then he became more controlling. He would hide the car keys so I physically couldn't leave the house without begging him for the keys.>Because when it comes to abuse, I rarely ever hear women put their foot down on the first obvious red flagsBecause men could really hurt us if they wanted.Needless to say I'm dating someone much better rn who isn't abusive.
>>84830911If she cannot handle you at your worse, KANG....THEN SHE DON'T DESERVE YOU AT YOUR BEST NIGGER
>>84831001why do you have a preference for nerdy timid guys? Are you insecure, low self esteem?Nerdy and timid = low value signals
>>84831477I no longer have a preference for nerdy guys, mostly because of shared hobbies.
>>84831552That's surprisingly pragmatic. Shared hobbies? What hobbies, you mean, anime, vidya, similar music taste..? drawing?
>>84831583I really like writing and painting, but also anime. I also liked nerdy men because I thought that athletic men could never prefer fat girls. The guy that im with now is the opposite of my ex.
>>84831616Oh, fuck you fat bitch. Height obsessed stupid bitch.
>>84831685I'm not height obsessed. I've dated shorter men in the past, I've even dated fat men before.
>>84831707NTA but jeez, just how many people have you "dated"
>>84831707It seems like your earlier non-standard preferences were actually just a manifestation of your (rightful) insecurities (of being a fatso). Not true interest.
>>84831729Like four? >>84831736I'm not insecure at all and never have been. Everything that I eat goes to my hips, thighs and ass. Before I just dated fat men because i thought that athletic men weren't attracted to fat girls but im not picky.
