Why do you even want to have sex. What exactly is it even gonna do for you.
it feels nice and i like to feel nice
I want to feel not disgusting and like I am capable of being loved.
>>84834537pretty sure if you want someone to really love you you have to love yourself buddy
>>84834542I love myself as in who I am, the person.I do not love myself as in what I am, the flesh. Sodden, used flesh.
>>84834523Why do you even eat dessert? What exactly is it even gonna do for you?
>>84834523Why do you even listen to music? What exactly is it even gonna do for you?
>>84834523I don't want sex. I want to be accepted, reach normal milestones at a normal age (too late), and be genuinely desired by women (not possible).
>>84834523Why do you even order from restaurants when you can make your own food? What exactly is it even gonna do for you? Why do you even drink soda? What exactly is it even gonna do for you?
>>84834577dessert provides nourishment music heals the soul sex is just dumb pleasure that's gross, shameful and leads to mistakes like you
>>84834607You should probably get some help for your sexual hang ups. It's not normal or healthy to view sex iin that light. I hope that you're able to get better
>>84834607You could get nourishment from meals only, yet you indulge in that disgusting hedonism. Music is not needed to exist yet you indulge in this hedonism. You are lowly.
>>84834607Sex should be with someone you love.
>>84834607You could put everything that the nutrition facts say you need in meals yet you choose to have those fancy things called dessert, why are you not trying to be efficient by not wasting time eating dessert? Why do you buy dessert when you can make it yourself?
>>84834607Why do you eat different meals every day when you could just have a set of ingredients that fufill your needs to survive?
>we just need to be more pedantic and obnoxious to get him to understandfucking redditors
>>84834618What's actually lowly is how you're trying to compare sex to art and eating dessert makes it pretty obvious that you are a sex haver that carries a lot of shame.
>>84834645Dessert is necessary because it provides us with energy and psychological benefits. Sex provides psychological benefits as well but comes with all the risks and complications. Did I mention its fucking gross?
>>84834669You could be spending this time working instead of doing this pointless exercise, Do you need a list of problems that need to be solved? You have no reasons to be such a degenerate. You don't need pleasure.
>>84834523I don't, it's work,and I'm waaaay overweight. Guarantee I'd be sweaty and out of breath and then have dehydrated breath even while doing missionary.Nobody wants that.Not even I want that.Sex is for young people.
>>84834685>Sex provides psychological benefits as well but comes with all the risks and complications. Did I mention its fucking gross?Skill issue, its called getting tested at a clinic the solution to that, and disgust is a feeling which you can control if you are somewhat civilized. Is it a high bar?
Why is it that people need anything but the bare minimum to survive? We should ban cars, music and any recipe and food that does not constitute only the bare nutrients needed to survive.
>>84834710The amount of metal required for a bus is much less for a bus than the equivalent in cars and the gas consumption is also lower per capita.
>>84834523I get horny and want it, so reason 1 is to satisfy that crave. Reason 2, it feels good even alone and with my toys, so the real thing is probably insane good. Reason 3, romantic and love aspect. I want to do it with the person i love, because of the emotional aspect of it, and it would feel amazing to share that intimate love moment. But it would also probably hurt him and destroy our relationship, so it's not gonna happen. Still, in fantasy it's something amazing, and that makes me want to have it.
>>84834696Yeah if everyone were as smart as you and got tested every time they were about to have sex we wouldn't have stds but guess what we do because people are promiscuous and people lie and the last time I checked getting tested for stds after getting stds doesnt prevent you from getting stds and yeah, feelings of disgust are easily controllable but wouldnt it be pretty stupid to put yourself in a disgusting situation in the first place that way you wouldnt have to feel disgusted at all. I think thats the most civilized course of action, to not be disgusting.
>>84834710We should also ban beer and all alcohols, this thing damages you liver, it is inefficient to consume compared to water as beer need to be fermented and stored while water can be purified and you can drink it instantly after that.
>>84834727>feelings of disgust are easily controllable but wouldnt it be pretty stupid to put yourself in a disgusting situation in the first place that way you wouldnt have to feel disgusted at all. I agree, you parents made a mistake having you. Prudes should act on what they preach and never have kids.>Yeah if everyone were as smart as you and got tested every time they were about to have sex we wouldn't have stds but guess what we do because people are promiscuous and people lie and the last time I checked getting tested for stds after getting stds doesnt prevent you from getting stdsAnd thats why civilization should go extinct, there is a risk something can go wrong so we should do nothing, great analysis Sherlock.
>>84834745No, there is risk so we should do less. The majority of sex that is had is casual. Besides the fact that its disgusting animalistic behavior, there are quite a few reasons why that is a problem. The next time you're out, assuming you go out, and you see some black woman with her 5 bad ass nappy-headed kids running amok or a mexican family of 10 packed into a van like a can of vienna sausages maybe you'll remember this little conversation and if thats not something you see at least semi-frequently then congratulations on not living in america.
>>84834777Well, having no sex at all would solve the STD problem and your anxieties with those races. There is no proof those are unwanted and just casual sex, also no proof that they aren't taken care of. Why do you suddenly think its casual sex if you think it makes kids that are uncivilized? Wouldn't having sex to not have kids then be better than that? So you should approve more of it, you contradict yourself.
>>84834777>>84834812and don't tell me abortion is murder, there are plenty of anti-contraception means that do not involve abortion in its rigourous definition.
>>84834523Fulfill a base need in mazlow's higharchy so I can move up the rung to get closer to self-actualization.
>>84834812>Why do you suddenly think its casual sex if you think it makes kids that are uncivilized?Because casual sex makes kids that are uncivilized. If you really think that the majority or births are planned then you seriously need to wake up.
>>84834837You have no proof that they are mostly unplanned. Just because you dislike those races and you feel they are turbulent doesn't make them unplanned. Anti-contraception methods have a very % of success when you honestly consider that you can use multiple at the same time.
>>84834860This has nothing to do with race you're just getting hung up on two examples I used and you are either ignorant or in denial of the reality of sex culture and the relationships between people plus you type like an actual child so this conversation is over. You are a moron but I applaud you for sticking to your dumbass opinions
>>84834885>you are either ignorant or in denial of the reality of sex culture and the relationships between peopleSays the guy that wants all sex that is not for reproduction to stop because of risks of unwanted pregancies, you're not very experienced at that subject or you don't do what you preach and you're an hypocrite. ill take advice on how often anti-contraceptive means fail from anyone else, ill throw away your suggestion that casual sex should stop as effortlessly as you made your arguments, thanks.
>>84834523Its not about sex, its about connection. A lifetime of nothing has left me feeling excluded and hated, i just want 1 person i can be intimate and vulnerable with. I want to be accepted and valued
because i need to thrust and i want to know i am making a woman feel goodi dont really care about love or connection or any of that gay shit
