Why are a lot of you guys so unbelievably hateful toward single mothers? What is the point? Whenever I post on 4chan about being a mom who is trying to date I get a lot of really nasty comments, and its like...what is the POINT?Does it make you feel good to trash one of the most discriminated groups in the USA? Are you trying to make an example of single moms so other women don't become single moms? Trying to hurt me for some reason?I always try hard to be a good person and take care of my daughter and yet it feels hopeless because guys always judge me in the worst ways possible.>"Single moms' kids are more prone to crime!"Thats because single moms are also more prone to poverty because of anti-mom discrimination in the workplace. Look up motherhood penalty. Either way WHY ARE YOU TELLING ME THIS? All I can do is raise my daughter the best I can and I don't need you throwing stats at me. You aren't doing it to help me.>"No man wants to raise another man's child you are unlovable"Thats not true, no one is unlovable. What is the point of telling me this? All I can do is hope that I find a guy who is not prejudiced.
>>84836513>Are you trying to make an example of single moms so other women don't become single moms?Yes. The only single mother it's acceptable to date is one with a dead husband (that she didn't have murdered for insurance money)
>>84836513Two questions, was he black and do you recognise you have poor taste in men?
>>84836513>Why are a lot of you guys so unbelievably hateful toward single mothers?I was raised by a single mom.
A lot of anons were raised by single mothers
>Are you trying to make an example of single moms so other women don't become single moms?Single mothers are the number one reason for mental illness/criminality in young adults.
>>84836513I used to respect single mothers. Then I tried dating them. They tend to be shittier than other women, mostly just looking for a strong male provider, extremely demanding, pickier than the average woman, and so on. Basically they tend to get bitter over things not working out with their baby daddy and take it out on men in general, demanding a true prince charming from the world as compensation. And I'm not going to be that perfection they want, I'm just a regular guy with no aspirations to be better than 99% of men or whatever
>>84836527>anon was raised by a single mom>now he's a robot posting on a Mongolian basket weaving forumthis should be all the evidence anyone needs that children raised by single mothers have disproportionately worse life outcomes than those raised by a two-parent household.
>>84836513They tend to be ruthlessly exploitative and extremely ungrateful, far more so than regular women. They're basically alpha widowed and have a physical living reminder of that fact in their lives forever.You will always be a betabux, and you will have a physical reminder of that fact forever if you marry one.
>>84836513Because they are insufferable retards with inferiority complexThey see a single mother and think of Stacy who told them they are filthy faggots so they get pleasure in seeing her suffer.Ignoring the fact being a single mother (if done with care for the child) is one of the biggest sacrifices a woman can make and very respectable.
>>84836556I see a single mother and see a woman who makes poor life choices.
>>84836537>demanding a true prince charmingExcept they'll never ever ever let this Prince Charming actually guide, influence, or discipline the child.
>>84836513based mother, you are very cool
>>84836556>the biggest sacrifices a woman can makeyeah they sacrifice men and children on the altar of their bad decisions
>>84836568Unless he's abusive towards the child. Then he can get away with it for some reason. Can't guide a kid unless you are being fucked up about it
>>84836566They usually have tattoos as well. Meaning that even during their struggles with poverty they had no issue spending several hundred dollars on pictures instead of necessities, poor decision making.
>>84836587>tattoos>several hundred dollarsMore like several thousand for anything that's not a tiny one-off. I've seen tatted-up women on dating apps that basically have the equivalent of a decent used car on their bodies.
>>84836513You picked wrong. Shrimple as, you don't get a second chance.
>>84836513why did baby daddy leave?
>>84836619You are correct of course. They make insufferably bad decisions.
Id only date a single mother if I myself was a single father and the children were fairly young and not mix raced.
>>84836556>being a single mother is one of the biggest sacrifices a woman can makeit's not like you have a choice about it, let alone a say in what you became.>very respectableit's embarrassing actually. it signals you couldn't keep your legs closed (for some reason) in a risky scenario, and now you're paying for it.
>>84836709In modern time 99% of retard foids kill their unborn childrenSingle mothers are the ones who accepted to carry their cross. Neither aborted nor put it up for abortion but carry immense sacrifice due to the love for their child.If she made a mistake with a wrong man who didn't show any remorse or care for his children, that's his sin, not hers
>>84836525The race of my daughter's father is irrelevant to this conversation, and frankly, it's a disgusting question that exposes your own prejudice. A relationship that didn't work out doesn't define my entire worth as a person or a mother. I'm trying to move forward, and bringing up my ex's race or my past judgment doesn't offer any meaningful insight. It's exactly the kind of toxic, judgmental attitude I'm talking about.>>84836535>Single mothers are the number one reason for mental illness/criminality in young adultsThis is a gross oversimplification of a complex sociological issue. The mental illness and criminality you cite are overwhelmingly linked to poverty and systemic discrimination, which single-mother households are far more likely to face. A child raised by a loving, supportive, but poor single mother is not inherently more likely to be a criminal than a child raised in a wealthy, yet abusive, two-parent household. >>84836537>used to respect single mothersI'm not looking for a "prince charming" to fix my life. I have a job, I take care of my daughter, I am independent. I'm not looking for a wallet. I'm looking for a companion. Why is that so threatening to you?>>84836548You have no idea who I am, what my relationship was, or what I've been through. My daughter is my greatest success, my reason for getting up in the morning. >>84836566>I see a single mother and see a woman who makes poor life choicesDoes that mean I deserve to be hated? Does that mean my daughter deserves to grow up in a world where her mother is constantly judged and attacked?
>>84836587A tattoo is an aesthetic choice. It doesn't define a person's character or their ability to be a good mother. I have a friend who is a single mom of two, and she has a beautiful sleeve tattoo. She works as a nurse, a job that requires immense dedication and care.
>>84836855>This is a gross oversimplification of a complex sociological issue. The mental illness and criminality you cite are overwhelmingly linked to poverty and systemic discrimination, which single-mother households are far more likely to face. A child raised by a loving, supportive, but poor single mother is not inherently more likely to be a criminal than a child raised in a wealthy, yet abusive, two-parent household.You're retarded.
>>84836855>You have no idea who I am, what my relationship was, or what I've been through.nobody was talking about you or gives a shit, you dumb pathetic narcissist
>>84836863>She works as a nurse,That makes her even more mentally deficient. Tattoo ink is migrated into the lymphatic system where it stays. This makes cancer screening less effective and increases the risk of lymphoma.
>>84836855>The race of my daughter's father is irrelevant to this conversation, and frankly, it's a disgusting question Nigger confirmed
>>84836855>constantly judged and attackedare you sure its 100% due to (You) being a single mother?or...other traits or characteristics that may or may not have also contributed to (You) becoming a single mother lmao
>>84836513>Whenever I post on 4chanthats your first problem
>>84836959Being a single mother is a symptom not the problem
>>84836855>Does that mean I deserve to be hated? Does that mean my daughter deserves to grow up in a world where her mother is constantly judged and attacked?bro I wasn't thinking about you at all until you made this thread.
>>84836855>I'm not looking for a "prince charming" to fix my life. I have a job, I take care of my daughter, I am independent. I'm not looking for a wallet. I'm looking for a companion. Why is that so threatening to you?You want a man who meets your standards and that still means "trad conventionally masculine Chad" even if he doesn't need to be wealthy (but you'd probably find a way to get the ick from a guy if he wasn't as educated or wealthy or successful as you, many women say otherwise but then find some reason to justify throwing the guy away anyway). Y'all are too picky and single mothers are pickier than other women (which is already a really high bar)
>>84836556kinda agree with this, but its basically just stating the obvious especially on this board.imo i wouldnt date a single mom mostly cause i'd be a shit father figure, dont necessarily look down on them either, some of my family were single parents and were alright
>>84836513I just don't want to pay taxes to support single mothers, your body your choice, my shekels my choice, the government forcing men at gunpoint to redistribute men's wealth is contrary to natural selection, naturally you should have found a betabuxxer to sell sex to or die from starvation like throughout all of human history.
>>84837005I agree with this. Women can do what they want as long as I don't receive the consequences for their decisions. But I do receive the consequences. My salary is 90k but 50k goes to me. The 40k stolen before I'm paid goes to women.
