Women pretending to enjoy video games should be just as offensive to people as men trying to hang out at rape shelters

>>84843185
I have not given up I am just of wholesale because I do not care. I jerk off I browse 4chan I go to work I exercise and I repeat I will get back into the dating game in like a few years probably I just enjoy my peace and solitude just enjoy my peace and solitude

>>84843185
I didn't get a stacy.

>>84843185
Wasting five years of my life on a girl who legit ghosted me irl with no explanation. No such thing as a good woman

>>84843185
Chad here. After a lifetime of growing to hate women due to exposure and experience with them, the final nail in the coffin was something my grandmother said to me on her death bed when I was like 32. I won't even type it out because it feels disrespectful, but just imagine some generic detectable foid thought like something that would have a thread here if a female tweeted it. Just something really grossly foid brained that proved you can't trust them at all coming from my trad old country big family having grandma. That was the final nail that it's actually all women. Even when you look at paintings from 800 years ago of women in headscarfs on a farmstead, it's them too. Have not spoken to a female romantically since, I'm done bros.

>>84843246
A hint please anon, I can't think of anything an old woman could say on her death bed that's even remotely similar to anything here

>>84843185
The realisation that almost all women are not real people and just instinctual NPCs still running neolithic software.

>>84843185
Having my ex-gf of 5 years turn into a turbo normie resource extracting hoe. She was the 'introverted nerdy gf archetype', who said she just wanted to lead a quiet peaceful life

Overall, I've just had negative experiences with them. They are not serious people. They lack virtue, honor, loyalty, commitment, good will. I've had around 12 years of relationship experience

They all have the same programming: extract resources from men, use them as fashion accessories if good looking, use them for status. That's it. They can't and won't love you in the way you envision it

>>84843220
It hurts, doesn't it? The ghosting. It's such cowardly behavior. Most practice it rather than facing people

>>84843269
Learned a valuable lesson on what type of woman to pursue and how to do it at least

>>84843255
Essentially insinuated she had an affair, did so with a twinkle in her eye like she truly enjoyed it. My grandfather spent his whole life with her before he died first

>>84843336
Damn that is dark...

>>84843264
>Having my ex-gf of 5 years turn into a turbo normie resource extracting hoe. She was the 'introverted nerdy gf archetype', who said she just wanted to lead a quiet peaceful life
My brother I had almost done he same experience except I got off a bit easier only wasting a year and a half with her.
>be together a year and a half
>actively applying for houses together
>even planning for children in the future
>she gets a new job
>guys at her new job hit on her
>instead of just saying "I have a boyfriend" she just tells them "It's complicated"
>eventually cheats on me, dumps me, dyes her hair roastie blonde and becomes a turbo club whore fucking any guy that will have her
So yeah that was fun...

There were several but I always think back to this one.
>have to catch a bus in the morning
>wake up next to female
>process of leaving the apartment and being ready for the day is complicated by presence of female
>have time to grab a coffee before bus arrives
>pour my coffee into my shitty diaposable cup in a hurry, burn myself, slap the change down for the coffee, I'm ready to fucking go with minutes to spare
>she wants a bite to eat
>this shop has a large selection of pastries, chips, granola/energy bars, fruit, salads, snacks, and premade sandwiches
>she wants one of the sandwiches off the menu, the kind they have to make
>she's taking her fucking time with that process but the sandwich is at least assembled in time
>we're gonna make the bus
>this fucking jackoff in the apron actually asks her if she wants this thing toasted
>aw, fuck
>look at her like, "Holy shit, PLEASE do not pile on an additional step in this process, let alone one this one"
>"Yes, please," she says excitedly
>sure enough we miss the fucking bus
>think back to every annoying moment like this I have ever had with a female and to several instances of my dad or other men complaining
>realize that this is interaction is holographically the same as every other iteration of itself
>realize in this moment that being with a female will always entail missing the bus because she wants to have her extra-special cutesy little sammy made just right, and toasted
>it won't always be a sandwich, and it won't always be the bus, but it's always gonna be this shit

>>84843246
>Even when you look at paintings from 800 years ago of women in headscarfs on a farmstead, it's them too.
Also this

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>>84843336
That's shit I'm sorry man. Titanic is a warning to men

>>84843452
>because she wants to have her extra-special cutesy little sammy made just right
Let the poor girl have her sammy the way she likes it, nobody wants to be around an uptight loser neurotically obsessing over shit like that all the time

>>84843470
See, this kinda shit is why men who want to do important things break hearts or become celibates or just treat harems of women like broodmares.
The missed opportunity is not always a bus, and the whim you're missing the opportunity for the sake of humoring isn't always an extra-special warm and toasted sammy just the way she wanted it.
But women will always fuck you over on a plan you both ostensibly agreed on because something she saw in the moment looked oh so yummy. And you'll always be the mean old jerk if you've got a problem with that.

>>84843505
Some people just don't get it ig, more for the rest of us

>>84843449
Jesus fucking Christ. I'm sorry that happened

If it's any consolation, nothing is never enough for any of them. You could be a good looking multimillionaire with a 'good personality', fit all their quicksand-changing foid standards and they would get bored anyway at some point.

It's all a matter of opportunity for them which is why I'm never getting married

>>84843185
>get my life in order
>get apartment, job I don't hate, own car, etc
>decide life is stable enough to try a relationship
>get autistic gf a few months later
>she seemingly loves being with me
>3 months into the relationship she ghosts me
>I'm concerned because we have messaged everyday since our first date
>leaves all my messages asking where she is, asking her to let me know if she is okay, on read
>finally 4 days into ghosting saying she wants to meet up
>we meet and she says she wants to break up
>treats me with utter contempt the entire time, looks at me as though I just shot her cat
>doesn't give me a definitive reason she wants to break up
>"There are just some small things and if you can't get those right how can I trust you with important things"
>this is the first time I'm hearing she had any issues with the relationship
>she gets up and without looking at me says "I wish you the best" and leaves
The fact I actually got my shit together, thought everything in the relationship was good but then she drops a bombshell telling me I'm actually not doing good really messed me up. Even when I think I'm making it I'm actually not

>>84843512
I don't want a fucking ball and chain and I'm earnestly not jealous of the guy who has five.

>>84843198
My sister played Sims 3 to death.
I still remember her talking about a bear.

>>84843518
Your woman can't be your purpose anon. If you'd have just waited for her to respond, and when she mentioned breaking up you hit her with "sure ok" she would've stayed 100%. It's all a shit test to see how you respond, and you failed the test

>>84843538
He hasn't failed anything

Expecting communication from the person you're sharing your life with is not a flaw.

>>84843544
Expecting communication is a fruitless endeavor because they do not communicate

>>84843550
Ok, then a relationship is pointless.

dated a fat neet asian girl from here, things were going well but she then said she wanted to talk to more people too and ghosts me

>>84843558
If you don't know how to keep a woman then you are correct

>>84843569
You think you're a player for engaging in power games, but you are a fool.

>>84843576
Not a player it's just what you have to do these days if you want your bloodline to continue

>>84843185
I beat a guy in a fight, and his wife cheated on him with me. I was done with women after that

>>84843608
Damn it's that easy? Pick a fight with losers dating out of their league anons do the world a service

She stole from me so I assaulted her she called the cops I did 7 months in prison. Women are just pain. They just cause immense pain. Romantic pain, loss, weird possessive jealousy feelings within me, wanting then to love me, just all these insane intense emotions and when the relationship is over, it's just more pain. I have a court ordered zero contact with her until my trial, where it's like 50% I go back to prison for like 3 years. Just all this stress and pain and worry.. for what? To feel a sense of connection and love and happiness in this hell world, and then it's just ripped from you. And maybe I caused it and it's my fault and I'm a bad person. So then what does that mean? I should stay away from females to protect themselves from me, and I should stay away from females because all my relationships have just caused me immense loss grief heartache and sadness. Having sex with a woman you love is so fucking intense and meaningful two people thrown into this world being so utterly intimate. And then it's like you didn't even meet and never talk again? Or you get thrown in a fucking cell and suffer for 7 fucking months and the relationship just gets cut instantly. You get arrested and its no contact for like 10 months now. None of this is worth it. I rather be alone than risk this kind of suffering again.

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>>84843608
In high school this girl at a party was aggressively hitting on me and literally grabbed my dick and wrapped her legs around me in the pool, but the whole time I was thinking "hmm you have a boyfriend". I mentioned it to her and said he added me on facebook since we have mutual friends, and she scoffed and said "ugh of course he would do that". What an eye opening moment that was. Anyway I didn't reciprocate but eventually fucked her friend a few times. She wasn't great looking but was cute, still several people gave me shit about it. Because I went down on her they said "did you sterilise your face". People are truly insufferable.

>>84843185
A mix of missing out on teenage love (an life), having a job + paying taxes and that not rewarding me with a gf and the realization that I did not win chad genes when born.

>>84843665
Survival of the fittest anon

>>84843603
> your bloodline to continue
Nice joke, anon! You're on a stage

>>84843652
>>84843518
>>84843449
The modern state of r9k. These "people" have not even experienced the horror of being a khhdv beta male nice guy virgin gamer.

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>>84843679
I haven't had sex, been on a date, had any kind of social life for about 9 years now, so I'm allowed to be here. Even when I was getting laid I was a loser for the most part.

>>84843185
actually dealing with women, esp the ones that wanted to fuck me / ones that i did fuck. plus noticing my own mothers behavior over the years and how every conversation with her turns into a frustrating slog
>>84843198
some do, but they dont act like this

>>84843185
I'm a 19yo virgin and these comments are making me sick. I wouldn't say I've completely lost hope, but probably the biggest thing would be when I asked my father why him and my mother got a divorce (I was around 5 when that happened, and 18 when I asked him) and he said my mother wanted an open relationship, so he initiated a divorce.

>>84843185
Realizing my mom is just my dads servant and won't do anything to protect me and is content just being a helpless servant who cares more about husband than children.

>>84843185
Figuring out that in order to date women you have to concede the point that you WILL be slapped with some kind of spurious assault charge or cheated on or shittested until you're suicidal and that's just how it is now; the past and the women who live there no longer exist and the future is more of the same so send it at every woman you can regardless of how well you vibe or what you have in common as how big of a piece of shit she is or where you are or how creepy it is because the only thing you should be concerned about is having pussy on tap and being ready when IT eventually happens.

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>>84843185
When I was 30 (I'm 38 now) I got into a """""relationship""""" with one of these BDP ho's that lurk on r9k. I didn't even want to be involved with her, I was trying to set her up with one of my friends because he was also an incel. But talking to her almost daily on Discord, SHE, and I emphasize this point, SHE started chasing ME. At this point I had already mostly consigned myself to permanent incel status but this felt at the time like one last chance to maybe course-correct my life. Anyway like all long-distance e-relationships, after that initial burst of enthusiasm from her end she got cold feet and it ended up in a little mini-drama that I egged on out of desperation for some closure. I should have known better and at some point I had that kind of epiphany that I see in media that alcoholics and other addicts have where they take a look in the mirror and see what a slob they've become. I told her something to the effect of "you're right, this is pointless" blocked her and just sort of stopped caring. Things ended for me in a deflated whisper not a dramatic bang, as they tend to.

>>84843803
Sounds like a good wife what's the problem here?

>>84843185
>dad was cheated on by his with wife (not my mother)
>Step dad was cheated on by this first wife
>cousin was cheated on by his wife who he had only been married to for 6 months
>I was cheated on by an ex as well
Seriously why would I even try at this point? I come from a long line of cucks

>>84843518
>get autistic gf
Confirmed for jackass. If male spergs do stupid shit, why do you think a woman would? You deserved your stupidity for such a retarded action. Mentally ill women are worth only a quick fuck n chuck, at best.

>>84843185
Turning 30. I gave up long before that, but this was the final nail.

>>84843815
I can't imagine being this immature at 30. You did the right thing not caring and blocking her. But edating period is retarded, especially giving the least bit of attention to an eslut on this site.

>>84843518
>get autistic gf
This is where you fucked up anon, hopefully you'll meet someone decent some day.

>>84843185
it's not something they did personally, it's more about how much of a waste of time it all is. My life literally takes a turn for the worst when I start interacting with women because they SUCK upallmytime.

>>84843185
When I could no longer blame nurture.
The descent into total misanthropy is a procession that starts with
>women are great, it is just that our culture churns out objectively bad ones
and then you think about being an expat and lusting after traditionally feminine women in other cultures that haven't lost the plot.
But you have just described several guys you know and each and every last one was still divorce raped by a faithless slanty eye'd or Hispanic hooker.
So you have the really dark thought
>It is just that they're full of emotional baggage where if any man ever mistreated them they take it out on every man they'll ever be with, most likely the result of an absentee father
>Alternatively a crazy amount were spoiled rotten by their dads and now any man who doesn't do the same is a lesser entity in their mind than their own dad
>Daddy issues are practically unavoidable, but maybe, if you just-
And then if you really dig deep enough you come face to face with the fact that they're born evil.
They were deprived of freedom throughout time for a very very good reason.
Many evils of this world exist purely as a result of knowing this infohazard.

>>84844124
>they're born evil
Trvke. All cultures throughout history acknowledge that femininity is associated with chaos and evil. They are born evil and must be made good, something our world is currently incapable of doing during these dark times

>>84844124
>all of womens shitty behaviour is the fault of a man
I love this line of thinking. I'm not even sure if it was intentional or you're aware of it but this is another point for misanthropy. A whole species with hardcoded simping lol

>>84843803
Anon is 12

>>84843185
comm jobs aka bullshit jobs

>>84843185
'luv me warframe hags

>>84843185
this chick i was into implied she was only interested in nick gurr

>>84843185
I haven't given up on women I just think they won't change until they are physically forced to by men and that won't happen as long as men are comfortable and well fed on goyslop every day.

>>84843679
>the horror of being a khhdv beta male nice guy virgin gamer.
ah friendo, the ignorance was bliss, I remember
your dream of your disney princess is just that, a dream
Seeing a massage parlor girl is probably better I'd theorize, since it's clear what everyone is there for.

>>84844866
Happy birthday Nick Gurr :D

>>84843452
Have you wondered if you truly loved that person in the first place anon

>>84843185
When she had her herd pull a home invasion on me, I called the filth, and was told "we don't want to get involved"
Fucking guarantee if id pushed one of them out the door they'd have gotten involved real fucking quick

>>84843185
There wasn't a final nail. Everything about dating and interacting with them was terrible and made me want to die, so I stopped doing it. Scrolling profiles would make me sick to my stomach. Once beautiful women holding black babies, or covered in tatoos, or just being a 5/10. All demanding a supermodel chad who made 6 figures.
With the way divorce laws are, marriage was never on the table if you have any sense at all. But you still might want to have a gf. So you try to date them and you comb through hundreds of profiles, finally get a match with a 5/10. She ghosts you. Or you do actually set up a date, she's a no show. It's a shit show, and there's no stable endgoal. You are insane if you think building a family in this society is going to work out well for you. So there's no real point to any of it. Then you realize fuck it, this onahole cost $20 on Amazon and it feels pretty damn good.

turning 30

Realizing I've always disliked their nature and the biological niche and behaviors and preferences they fall into. I don't want to make women happy and any form of attention is validation towards that. I definitely wouldn't allow a divorce rape or infidelity situation and would be a murderer if that ever happened and I always knew I was wired that way.

>>84843199
>I will get back into the dating game in like a few years probably I just enjoy my peace and solitude just enjoy my peace and solitude

Fair warning what you're doing is kind of like not working out skills are often use it or lose it and your solitude can make you alien to the world. It also proves to you that you can be alone and your ego will use that to protect you from rejection/expending any energy in that direction.

Framium garabolos

Dating and passing on your genes is a pay to win game, but you can play a different game where you don't have to support any parasites and can be free to do whatever you want in life.

>>84843185
Women and their performative nature.

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>>84843185
I don't know if "given up" is the right term.
Stopped trying is far more accurate.
I'm just tired of getting burned constantly by women who do stupid shit then get mad at you for their fuck up.
I also got sick of everyone trying to bait me into their cause by using women being victims as some sort of emotional stimulus to push me towards action.

So now I don't care unless you are a friend, family or gf. You may say that is sexist but it really isn't that hard to be a friend to me... And women are not entitled to me being their personal army or therapist.

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>>84843198
There was a time when girls actually enjoyed videogames. Not faking it JUST for attention (although attention was always part of the equation), legit played them even when no one was watching.
>Those days are behind us thanks to social media
>I see female video game streamers as failed onlyfans whores.
I swear, can women do fucking anything now a days without broadcasting it for attention and money?

>>84846951
The fact you even knew they were girls says otherwise
Jesus contrarians just be saying anything

>>84845034
I was watching when that happened, I was like eh what did she just say? and then she repeated it a bunch of times iirc lmao

>>84843185
how the fuck would I even remember that was at least 20 years ago

>>84846951
>There was a time when girls actually enjoyed videogames.
There was never a time this actually happened

I want to mercilessly pound Rebecca Roberts' ass, on and off for 24 hours -- as in, we are stuck in a hotel room during a hot day and there's nothing else to do but fuck. Is that too much to ask?
>>84843185
Living with three women under the same roof ever since I was 4. Their bitching, their periods, their victim complexes and more taught me that I shouldn't engage with them beyond the usual pump and dump.

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>>84843185
My ex. I wasted 5 years trying to help her and all she did was take advantage of me, refusing to work and acting entitled to my money. I wanted to marry her but she wanted to be a sugar baby.
Afterward she acted like I was somehow at fault that she wasted every opportunity then tried to demand more.

All I want now is death.

>>84843198
>men trying to hang out at rape shelters
as someone who graduated from the Rape Academy with top 20% grades i've never had the privilege of being sheltered. what a sick society.

>>84843336
>did so with a twinkle in her eye like she truly enjoyed it.
https://www.paulekman.com/blog/duping-delight/

>>84843264
>Having my ex-gf of 5 years turn into a turbo normie resource extracting hoe. She was the 'introverted nerdy gf archetype', who said she just wanted to lead a quiet peaceful life
>>84843449
>My brother I had almost done he same experience
Was this due to Tiktok? HOW DID SO MANY OF US HAVE THE SAME EXACT EXPERIENCE?

>>84843679
>the horror of being a khhdv beta male nice guy virgin gamer.
We all experienced that, too. Then when we thought we finally escaped that fate, these women wrecked us.
It's why I posted >>84846516 as a warning. It was not a shitpost.

>>84843470
>uptight loser
gainfully employed
>neurotically obsessing
wants to keep his job, because if he loses it she will leave him

>>84847705
It's just women's nature. Maybe it's been dialed to overdrive due to social media, but they have the same behavior

>>84843637
>To feel a sense of connection and love and happiness in this hell world
The sooner you realize it's all in your head, the better off you'll be.
Men are the real romantics. We have a sense of duty and loyalty. We project all that onto women, but it's very foolish to do so. Women are not capable of the things we ascribe to them. They might talk about them and mimic us, but they can never embody these virtues.

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>>84843185
Mankeeping + The Cambridge Study

>>84847975
these and probably also atoga

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>>84846961
What the fuck did anything you said have to do with what I wrote you brain dead faggot retard?

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>>84847116
Nigger are you 10 years old or something?
Everyone uses to know that anime girl or goth girl that loved playing videogames in the 2000s. Even the 2010s first half had women who loved playing Xbox live.

>>84843185
when i realized i couldnt marry my crush when i was in kindergarten and have a mate for life and i discovered love is not real. i just use porn girls now since that day because dating is obsolete and women are obsolete since theres so many whores now. now im just waiting until i have enough money to buy a an OF girl and pay her to stop being a slut and just live in my house and be my personal slut. i have no hope that an ugly virgin autistic girl is going to be there for me. thats all i want. i am a sigma chad who is voluntarily virgin and even the bottom barrel of women are psychotically narcissistic and slutty

Getting a gf and trying to make the reIationship work for five years. Even sex grew tiring in the end

>>84847705
Think back to the state of the world 5 years ago. That doesnt excuse their behavior, but it explain why so many people got shacked up in relationships they shouldn't have.
But also yes, women are extremely susceptible to hive mind social pressure, so social media isn't helping either

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>>84848720
You are full of shit. It was a complete sausage fest.

>>84843185
I have not given up on them, i dont hate them or anything its more like i have given up on myself.. i think they never really like me and i always ends up getting ghosted

>>84843336
It's so over... There's no point is there?

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>>84848720
>posts fake pic
This woman LARPs as a millennial on Instagram. You don't understand the pic is fake because you are a dumb child.
>>84848798
This anon was actually there and remembers what a LAN party smells like

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>>84848798
>iT wAs A cOmPlEtE sAuSaGe FeSt
Bro, you either weren't alive then are are coping big-time.
It was always male dominated, but they existed

>>84848798
This pic looks 90s. Absolutely more of a sausage fest back then.
>>84849006
This looks early 2000s. Can confirm a small number of women in nerd hobbies back then. Some were genuine, some were larping for a bf. But it wasn't as soulless as Twitch gamergurls now.
The equivalent would be you taking up a gardening class because the girl you ran into at the grocery store said she was in one and invited you.

>>84843185
Realising that while a 5 inch dick is perfectly normal and average, women will ALWAYS want something bigger. All I needed was literally ONE more inch to be in "boyfriend" dick territory and could rest easy knowing I am good enough. But I'll never be good enough. My partner will always be wishing that I was ONE inch bigger. I dont need a pornstar dick, but average is no longer good enough. I just needed ONE more inch bros :( Now I'll never find true love, because I know my partner will always be resenting me for something I cant change

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>>84849140
>This looks early 2000s. Can confirm a small number of women in nerd hobbies back then. Some were genuine, some were larping for a bf. But it wasn't as soulless as Twitch gamergurls now.
Correct!
That said, the ones doing it for their boyfriend usually got into a game.Hell my fashion design ex unioronically got into Portal and Diablo cause of me, and she is far from a gamer.
But they existed.
They were genuine.
They weren't souless husks.
As for the analogy, I find it accurate but I would add one more thing to it.
>He then starts growing his own hydroponic weed.
Sometimes a guy can do a hobby for a girl and apply that to a non girly hobby.

>>84849006
Lmao, you have to search "lan party women" to get that image to show up. It's probably the only picture in existence where women outnumber men.

Why would someone do this? Just go on the internet, and tell lies?

>>84849268
Good addendum, it absolutely happens like that. And there was nothing wrong with either sex getting into hobbies like that, even for a short term.
But nowadays? women realized the potential for infinite simpbucks to play up the gamergurl aesthetic. God I hate this time line...

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>>84843185
Pattern recognition.
I don't want to get mad about it, suffice to say
> marriage is considered an insurance policy for women.Because what if she gets sick and the man leaves her?
Following that logic, what happens when the man gets sick and the woman leaves him?
>It's not a consideration to women what happens to the man
>women are selfish to their core
>they even MDK their babies, kind of often
>Women are selfish to the point they can never be accountable for their actions. Mentally they are never at fault. They'llne in prison for murdering their family, and legitimately feel they are the victim.
>to wit, they constantly lie
>thus aren't trustworthy
Every woman has at least these traits.
Would you even want anyone like this to be your neighbor? let alone your friend? Against your better judgementa girlfriend? or God forbid a wife?
Not I.
It's pattern recognition.
I broke the pussy spell.
All I had to do was have over 30 girlfriends, bettering myself along the way from abusive Chad-lite to a Chad-lite who actually cared about my girlfriend.
I changed for the better. For the best.
I've had women refuse to date me saying I'm a catfish, I'm TOO good.
ok.
And the few that have had the best of me,
they are still the same piece of shit women I treated like shit when I young.
I've changed.
The women haven't.
Turns out women aren't nice to be around until maybe they are 60 or so.

>>84843185
Turning 38. I'm not dating/having sex/managing a relationship for the first time in my goddamn 40s.

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>>84843185
I had a relationship and she abandoned me at my moment of greatest weakness, so I realized I can't be a fully realized person with weakness if I want to be with a woman. I'm not into pretending everything is fine, so I'm not doing this shit anymore.
>she was a bitch anon you just need pickme-chan teehee
She is a woman I've had long, productive conversations with about all kinds of topics, from politics to emotional connections. She is empathetic and smart, and understands the value of supporting others and being vulnerable.
None of this psychobabble helped. She dropped me when I had trouble at work, over the phone. She saw me as a failing asset and lost exposure to it, simple as.

>>84843185
I didn't give up because I never started. I have two sisters so my misogyny began early in life and throughout my life no woman has ever disproven it.

>>84843185
There was nothing in particular just a long sequence of disappointments until I eventually realized they're unfixable

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>>84847116
lol.
It was the 90s.
I have thought about this recently.
I was SURROUNDED by Gamer Girls in the 90s, but didn't realize how awesome it was.
Neigh ir girl had 5 brothers, they all played vidya. She played vidya too, just not with us it turns out.
Her friends played vidya, pretty sure she introduced them to it.
Oh, she was hot, too.
And so were her friends.
Like, all of them.
AND she was nice. Cool. Smart. We use to fo grade school homework together and watch lightning storms with popcorn on the porch.
Jenny.
I played video games by myself in my room most of the time, but would play Goldeneye with her brothers.
Another friend had brothers and a sister. We'd use her room to play NES games.
ALSO smoking hot. Her name was Lisa.
Another friend had an adult sister. We're like 7 at the time. She played vidya.
Hell, my Mom's friends, also in their early twenties at that time, played Doom and would put God Mode on for 5 year old me and they were always playing cool games I didn't know the name of.
I went to an internet cafe like twice. Counterstrike Cafe basically.

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>>84849672
An absolute HOTTIE sat next to me and was chatting me up. I was 14? And didn't think to ask for her AIM because I thought my sweatshirt smelled bad or something and was embarassed... Tall, thin, dark red hair, amazing body, tits too, axtually nice to me, gamer girl, seemingly into ME (I was absolutely molestable at that age, VERY good looking... "boy band" good looking, so I've been described)
Jenny's friends played vjdya, and she invited me over to a friend of hers' house to beat a level on a snes super mario all stars?/lost levels?
I'm as socially autistic, obtuse, as I was back then...
only now I'm not surrounded by bot gamer chicks.
Gamer chicks now, when they exist, are grody, or in 2026, MtF transvestites.
The 80s, if my mom's girlfriends playing Doom etc.. are any indication, and all the girls I grew up with in the 90s
Good God, there was Sara who lived across the street. She was an older sister. She let me suck her tittles. And I screwed up the one chance to be left along with her... her mom asked if we wanted to go on a road trip, and I left the answer uo to Sara, instead of asking if I could stay at their house and play video games... Sara would have stripped me naked and rocked my world if we finally got a chance to be alone and lock the doors. Her little sister (my age) ALWAYS cock blocked us.
Sara played some vidya too.
I miss the 90s so much bros.

>>84843452
It's your fault for not driving her there yourself in a Ferrari.

>>84843185
When I got married, I mostly stopped dating other girls.

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>>84849680
Sara fumbled the answer.
Sara and I were in the back of a capped pickup with her parents in the truck
She said something along the lines to me
"We could be at my house fucking right now."
She was mad about it.
SO WAS I.
UUUUGGHHHHHHH.
FUCK.
Now I jack off to whatever.
Women selfish and mean by and large.
Not that I could get one these days anyway. But why would I want a 2026 zoomette, alpha, or used up & walled millenial.
The 90s were peaking gaming years, and a little into 2006 as well, where we played old, quality games, at megabit speeds.
Like getting a new gen graphics card and playing your old games at max settings.
the 90s was like a next gen console 3 or 4 years, 1988(?), 1992()?, 1996(?), 2000, 2004
Always doubly better graphics
Always brand new types of games
Always new chips and engines and creators trying new and fun things
I'm bet the 80s were pretty cool but I think the 90s were PEAK gaming years, which coasted into the 00s.
4 player split screen.
I was poor but I heard middle class kids had xbox LAN parties with 4 tvs, 4 xboxes, and 16 kids/multiplayer at a ssleepover. One friend of a friend had like 8 - 12 computers in his basement - his house was the LAN house. Everyone parked their desktop there. Anybody could log onto anyone's PC too for the most part - super high trust.
I did find some porn, same porn I had, but I pretended I didn't find it, not my biz, was just queued in the Kazaa downloads and zi wanted to see what was being DLed.
God damn that was THE decade.
2000-2010 coasted om the 90s. Did some cool stuff. But mostly coasted.

>>84849560
Same experience here. The thing is, you can't never ever be without weakness

Women are incompatible with reciprocal relationships. It's all about satisfying an endless black hole of consumption, which no mortal can do

Wife died in a car accident on her way home from work. Haven't really been the same since.

>>84850037
LOOOOOOL shes banging chads in heaven.

>>84843185
I gave up after my ex did a 180 one day and woke up with a bunch of paranoid thoughts
That's how it looked from my perspective but it may have been many days of those thoughts piling up
Normally we'd talk about those irrational thoughts but this time she decided on her own
So if someone kind like her could throw it away even with the tough times I was by her side during then it could happen with anyone you know?
Some upsides: later learned BPD can develop at a certain age and this happened when she was around that age, plus she later apologized multiple times out-of-the-blue for how she treated me at the end and even said she took it all for granted
So developing BPD or some other mental condition is more or less out of one's control but it still means something could come end any good relationship much like a physical freak accident could
Years later I've met this cutie who not only reached out first to be outright friends but also invited me over some months after that but she's also a humble person and I think it'll be best to stay as friends
The more interesting part is that I didn't realize how much I healed until I met her and a part of me is even fine with taking the chance that this all goes well because now I know to be mentally prepared for a bad end and just move on... but a part of me still sees the wiser course as being friendship

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>>84849416
I hate how fake every girl is now. They are constantly performing like they are the main character in a shitty reality show no one is watching.
Social media ruined their brains.
>The other thing girls used to do
>They all played the sims
>Pic related

>>84843185
"I like you but you're poor. I'm going to cancel our marriage and date this old rich ugly manlet instead."
I will NEVER trust a woman again after that.

>>84850749
>a shitty reality show no one is watching
well in a way we are all watching them. Watching them send humanity into a death spiral.
And you are right, social media has ruined everything.

>>84850749
Sims girls aren't all bad. A female friend of mine had a pregnant harem and filled the house with stoves and burned them all to death.

>>84843518
>this is the first time I'm hearing she had any issues with the relationship
lol they all do this shit
if you get pissed at their behavior, they'll call you abusive
foids are fucking children you cant truly treat them with respect or you get burned

>>84843550
this, and then they blame you for not communicating
the last girl i was with wanted me to read a book on abuse titled "why does he do it?".
looked up a summary of that book and it basically just turns every single uncomfortable situation in a relationship into "the mans controlling and evil!"
of course, when we ran into issues she reserved the right to run away and come back as she pleased, but the couple times i really tried to get back to her and start a dialog i was accused of being abusive, shamed publicly in front of her friends, had my personal info shared, etc.
this literal whore at one point told me she had to reach out to an advocacy group because i wouldnt stop trying to contact her - I made it clear that I didnt want to get back together and that I just wanted to discuss what happened.

when a woman shows you signs like this, move on and dont look back

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>>84851208
>>84851194
Same patterns. They're hard to deny. It's a harsh reality that you can't invest in that special woman and cherish her as your heart desires, because that'll be your downfall...

>>84850317
Kys subhuman

>>84850037
I'm sorry man. I hope you can heal and eventually find someone to share life with, even if your wife will never be replaced.

>best bro of 12 years tells me we should get gfs
>don't even try because I'm a skinny big-nosed fugly anon
>somehow he lands one anyway
>same dude who drove through 4 towns to bring me meds starts ghosting me because his gf doesn't like me
>replaced by a girl
>it is what it is.flv
>months later phone rings at 2 AM
>it's him
>"anon I fucked up"
>won't elaborate over the phone
>meet him at a cafe
>dude looks like the Brendan Fraser fallout meme incarnate
>what_the_fuck.jpg
>says he tried moving the relationship to the next level
>she panics and pussies out
>he felt betrayed and dumps her
>break up was bad
>she hits him with a false SA accusation
>life instantly enters nightmare difficulty
>job gone
>friends gone
>reputation gone
>ends up sleeping on my couch for months
>slowly gets his life back together
>but he's not the same guy anymore
>one night breaks down crying in my arms
>keeps apologizing for pushing me away
>tells me I was right and smart for staying celibate
>he thinks my celibacy was a choice
hell on earth

>>84843185
Getting cheated on as soon as my back was turned (we had to live apart for only a couple months due to moving/uni circumstances).
Absolute toddler-tier self-control.

>>84843185
nothing i just stopped caring lol
i guess getting a job and having to worry about finances made me realize i can't afford a gf anyway

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>>84850037
I cannot even begin to imagine what that must feel, anon, that's brutal. I hope this new version of you can grow into something good, somehow.

I kinda have a girlfriend since 2014.
She comes, sweet talk me, then ghosts me.
It's always the same. We never met.
Whenever I manage to finally meet her, she vanishes.

>>84851820
what kind of weird ass arrangement is this
are you schizo and just imagining this?

When I started hitting on twinks and they kept telling me Im attractive and how they dont understand that Im single

>>84851861
I wish I was.
She comes and goes, always saying how perfect I am to her.
And I always fall for the same tricks

>>84843185
I gave up on women by like age 12 when I realised even pursuing a relationship is wasted efforts. I knew even as a kid I would not want children therefore there would be zero reason to bother with foids. I have given up on humanity as a whole because it is irredeemably poisoned. Why does anyone bother with others? Others are a cancer to my existence.

A multi year marathon with a bpd

Been a few years and I still haven't wished for a relationship once in that time

>>84843185
whats the point of these threads except to repeat the same shit

Tattoos everywhere. Any women could have them anywhere, you have no idea unless you've seen them nude. I don't know how "normal" straight men experience physical attraction, but for me it was always based on skin lust, only ever crushed on girls after seeing their upper legs showing. Seeing tattoos on a woman's skin completely ruins the visual appeal, so much so that I feel know physical attraction, it's pure do not want.

>>84851924
>whats the point of these threads except to repeat the same shit
Solidarity

>>84851924
Venting
Solidarity with your fellow men
It's one of the few places on the internet where you can freely vent about the state of things and even then you still have normies like you complaining

>>84852074
men aren't allowed to vent, they are supposed to keep everything bottled up til they open fire on the school craft market then the next few months are news stories "Friends and family said their were no signs"

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>>84852078
Pretty much

If you vent you are a bitch who is not looking for solutions (there are none to female nature), and if you don't vent then you're a victim of "fragile masculinity". You can't win an argument against people who just hate you and don't want you to be well

>>84843185
Moved into a new area, very close knit. After about a year women started approaching me, went on a few dates, shagged one of them over a few days. Go on another date with her friends and a few work colleagues, go to the bathroom, come out and shes licking some random blokes tonsils at the bar.
Tell her i'm done thanks.
She throws a giant shit fit that apparently went on for hours.
Hear from a work mate some of the details, she's painted me as a pedo who wanted her to act like a kid during sex, have bricks thrown though the window, angry banging on the front door at 2,3 and all that. I'm a large man who most sober men wouldn't take a swing at.
I have to quit the job and move, the dirty looks and "accidental" bumps in bars are relentless.
I meet a woman from that town who's moved, we go out a few times not as partners, we decide to go on a holiday she'd already booked with her ex, just as two adults.
Thousands of miles from home and no way of leaving (an island) she starts calling me a faggot all day long for a week, it's non stop, i snap and yell at her to stfu, she cries and calls the policia making up shit.
The hotel give me another room that i have to pay for.
After that i just can't be bothered. Fly home sitting next to her, immediately move 300 miles away, avoid women for the next 15 years.

Just dating them really

When did r9k become full of normies?

>>84853356
Do you have any idea how old this website and board are now? The original robots are close to 40 now. Shit has happened in our lives.

>>84843185
I have hated women since I was 5 even though most women I have met treat me nicely and dozens to potentially hundreds have been interested in me sexually, Im still cynical of them.

I just dont appreciate the nature of the female

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>>84843185
>Anons who have legit given up on women, what was the final nail in the coffin?
Whimen: STOP OBJECTIFYING WHIMEN, YOU WHIMEN HATING MISOGYNIST!
Also Whimen: *gawks at attractive men with fucked up criminal records like they are imagining sucking their dicks*
Also Whimen: *reads a book titled "Glory Hole Creampie Farm: Sexy Encounters With A Wild Capricious Man Eating Rape Beast"
Man: Hey can I get your nu-
Also Whimen: Eek! Omg! Rapist! Police! Police!
Man: *MENTALLY DISTURBED LEVEL 69 SEX OFFENDER SERIAL KILLER NIGGER STRAIGHT OUTTA COMPTON *music blaring in the background* STAB STAB, STAB DAT HOE IN THE NECK, STAB STAB, STAB DAT HOE IN THE NECK(x gorillion-times)*
Also Whimen: OMG! SO HAWT! COME BACK TO MY PLACE!
Also Whimen: *famous last words* I can fix him.
Whimen are just fuckable children. Just degenerate sadomasochist fuck monkeys that go into danger like a moth goes into the fire.

>>84851924
Some of these stories are truly horrifying, and from my personal experiences it just isn't safe to give a woman any power over you.

>>84853903
I could fix a minotaur

>>84848798
I've been to a LAN party exactly once when I was a kid and there were a couple of girls there, but it was all girlfriends from the guys there because back then getting a girlfriend wasn't an impossible task. If you were to host one now it would 100% be a sausage fest with maybe the opportunistic e-whore.

>>84843518
They're clowning on you, but I don't know why. I don't think you did anything wrong here. Women are evil. I hope this never happens to me.

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>>84849288
>You had to search lan party women for this image to show up
>Do the search, image doesn't appear
Holy fuck you the gayest related nigger faggot on earth.
>But no girl on earth in human history ever played vidya....
Nigger look at the picture, it's not even a "lan party". Some are gaming, some are talking, some are showing each other shit on the internet.
Also no one claimed THE MAJORITY OF GIRLS were like this, only they existed.
Retarded niggers like you spread faggoty crab in the bucket "it was never like that ever" cause you are a bitter faggot who has never had a woman touch his penis and never will

Yeah, the 2000s had girls who were into tech, a lot of girlfriends who tried gaming with their boyfriends and a tech culture that was more social than now.
It's not some retarded fantasy

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>>84850950
True, but we aren't tuning in by choice. Algorithms force feed them, search functions are broken, and being mean to them is reported and censored.
>Tech has found the perfect recipe to create low IQ narcissists who believe and critique is abuse.
>Actually worse, they believe with holding unconditional support is abuse.
At least back in the day you could make fun of an attention seeking whore.
>>84851005
All girls are sims girls.
Problem is EA ruined the sims and women are such suckers for branding they wouldn't even give an alternative game a shot. They also have no concept of the value of a dollar so they all buy dlc dog shit to no end and have lead to the sims 3 & 4 being unplayable micro transaction slop factories.

>>84843185
This dumb whores ruined the game. It was perfect before they ruined melee. Raijack was the final nail in the coffin. Legit will lock them in my basement to torture them to death if I can.

>>84855756
I haven't played since around then, that tracks. Actually I maybe played once since, but it was such a forgettable experience I don't even remember the update.
But I would marry that hag Reb in a heartbeat. I still love my spacemommy

>>84855793
Watch a vod where they play like some 100h noob. Bitch, this is not destiny. There is no gunplay, if you aim down the sights you are legit retarded. By the time you aim the sight to hit 5 mobs 100m away you can bullet jump kill them and go back. Even faster if you operator jump. Everyone who played the game for at least 500h and it is not absolutely retarded build 3 weapons - one for effects, one for damage, one for cleaning the trash. Aiming down the sights - you are noob. touching the floor for more than 0.2 seconds - you are noob, runing out of energy when you have operator - you are noob. They play legit like someone who started yesterday. They why everything was made slow and stupid in the last 6-7 years, the kind of bullshit that can only be enjoyed by trannies who collect color palettes. Venus was terrible compared to Earth, half backed open world bullshit and they added another set of materials. They did it again with Deimos.

Then you have linear power creep with adding just straight up stronger mods like the amalgam ones, same with the arcane power creeps on everything. But having some fun with effect stacking elemental shotgun and then cleaning with condition overload lesion was too much for this retards because they can't use brain. Aiming down the sights of soma prime is peak gameplay for them.

>>84851408
Bro how old were you guys? When you say he tried to move their relationship to the next level do you mean he tried to fuck her? Are you telling me they dated for what sounds like weeks or even months and they never had sex? Wtf

>>84843198
Hottest of the takes

>>84855969
DEIMOS, that's what it was. Shit, it's all flooding back... ahhh, you unzipped me, aghh, you bitch...
Yeah, I watch some of those dev streams back in the day, just shameful. Woulda figured by now they would just hire people to play for them while they yap and maybe have another nipslip or two.

>>84843198
even worse are tiktok/OF thots cosplaying genshin impact and the same 4 anime characters. everyone who actually likes anime/vidya/visual novels should hate gacha games for ruining all these industries.
this performative behavior by women is the worst. you do have enough football watching fags now talking about how they are a gamer or a weeb but all they do is play warzone and watch jujutsu kaisen but at least they are actually enjoying these things unlike women who just cosplay in hopes of men lusting over them.

>>84843185
With dealing with my mother

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>>84843518
>>treats me with utter contempt the entire time, looks at me as though I just shot her cat
>>doesn't give me a definitive reason she wants to break up
Sorry brah, had that happen to me once.
She probably found another guy or opportunity, felt you were a millstone, and wanted to shift the blame towards you instead of just accepting what she was doing
A month our breakup before I literally ran out of work to help save her sister from her abusive dad (she was out of state and he found their apartment) and helped be a witness for his arrest after he nearly broke the door down, but out of nowhere "I don't think I can trust you." Less than a year later she was married to a new guy. What weird timing...

>>84843185
I had hook ups in college and then after college was still able to pull college girls and this chick I was banging and wanted to date had a secret open relationship with her ex the entire time and I was just another person she had been having sex with in the meantime. After that, I just got older and not in college circles anymore and gradually lost interest.