I am a stay at home wife (not by choice) and I dont like it. I do not know why so many people envision it as the idealistic life
hey you massive retardhave you considered that different people enjoy different things in life? that maybe some people x, and don't like y, and other people like y, and don't like x?
>>84849314Okay then why aren't you working for Mr Silverstein then?, unless someone forced you into marriage and reproduction then you have no excuses for spawning a sentient bean into existence to suffer because you were too lazy of a nigger to get a job.
Local foid whore poses as a housewife to try and put house wives down because she's so jealous of them.Yeah, not interesting.
>>84849319I think people are naive especially young women who want it>>84849334I said wife, not mother. I dont have kids. And I am trying to find a job but I moved countries and my degree doesnt have much value here and the job market is already shit so even if I speak the language ok I will never be the first pick>>84849355Male jealous because a woman gets what he can never have and doesnt want it
its a male ideal, they want to come home to a clean house and dinner and then bang you before bed. Never mind all the work you do or the fact you're bored out of your skull. fucking moids.
>>84849355Checked, wrecked
>>84849314I'm a sahm/housewife and I like it. I guess I'm lucky
>>84849314Absolutely loved picrel. So cute
>>84849367This sounds nice if you really like your husband. The problem is: women dont marry men they love
>>84849363>Male jealous because a woman gets what he can never have and doesnt want itI don't know what that means. You're saying I want to be a housewife? Or that I want a housewife but I'm jealous you don't want to be a housewife? Doesn't really make any sense.Oh good, it's gonna be one of THOSE threads where OP replies to multiple replies at once to feel special. Definitely a female seeking attention made this thread.
I LOVE being a housewife. No more bullshit drama from angry libs hunting me down irl for stuff I said on my private profile.
>>84849367This is my life currently, I dont think men know how much work it can be to keep the house clean and cook every day. The big thing is I do not like to be financially dependent on my husband because I feel like I owe him something >>84849373Maybe its different when you have kids but I feel like a princess who is locked away in a tower >>84849390I love my husband more than anything in the world>>84849391How else am I supposed to reply people, and I meant a lot of men on here wish to be house husbands
>>84849367Right, and the female ideal is... working and coming home to a house that's messy or something? Or the female ideal is having a boyfriend be a slave for you and treat you like a pretty princess. MANY women want to be homemakers, the idea that's not one of if not the most common female fantasy is ridiculous. Stupid.And neither ideal is to be alone, the majority of people want to be in a relationship.
>>84849409>a lot of men on here wish to be house husbandsMost men here want a submissive youthful girl to have sex with whenever they want. And maybe about 1% or less want to be "house husbands".
>>84849409House work is not a lot of work, don't even try. The man has to do real work. Every female home job is nothing anymore, when dishwashers were invented people were worried what women would do all day. You don't have to get water from a well you don't have to tend to animals, you do not do real work. And cooking is unbelievably easy with technology too.And yes, you do owe your husband something, you owe him your body for all the work he does. That is all, get over it. Stop being a baby. You're not a "princess" you're just another human on this earth and not everyone gets to live in luxury, you have an extremely fortune life, stop complaining. So pathetic.Even though this is all fake obviously, but whatever, still stupid.
>>84849409The outside world is horrific and terrible. I hate going outside to drive my kids places. If I could never go outside again I would. I don't even know what you want to do, like i can't even conceive on ever wanting to work. Some jobs seem fun but most of them seem boring and tiring. But I hope your job hunting goes well.
>>84849441Don't act like it's that bad a deal. I've washed clothes, cooked, done dishes, and vacuumed for myself my whole life; it's not that bad compared to working 8+ hours a day plus a commute. And getting laid constantly, oh so horrible! I think more guys would be into it if most women didn't find men who aren't breadwinners unattractive.
>>84849314If you have time to post here then you don't have enough children, and that's the isssue.
>>84849474Don't talk to me you disgusting simp loser. Being a woman's bangbutler is disgraceful and unhealthy. don't look at me, don't breathe my air.
>>84849481I have 2 kids and I still find time to shit post. The 4chan grind never ends
>>84849481It's just further proof "she's" lying. If they really were a proper housewife they'd need permission from their husband to even post here. To which he would say no if he was a good husband. And then tell her to go watch some wholesome entertainment on the television.
>>84849314Some people don't understand that some would literally rather become a soldier and kill people even if they're a peaceful person, rather than let some non chad who controls their life sweat over them every night and endure boring pointless mundane work for decades with another human on their tit constantly crying and shidding. But I guess most women who think this way have had their genes culled from the gene pool due to triggered men.
>>84849466I am thankful he doesnt feel entitled to my body like you think he should be>>84849469Education and work for women is super encouraged where I am from so I have always wanted to work. Its odd men are still expected to provide but you are told to be independent too. As mentioned I moved to my husbands country and I think its a similar case here with how women are viewed in working >>84849489I said I didnt have kids, I think a stay at home mom is different than just stay at home wife because raising children is full time work
>>84849314do you shave? do you do anal? do you swallow cum and piss? how often do u get fucked? do u cum? does he eat you out? do you deepthroat?
>>84849512So he's the slave then and you wear the pants? Okay.Because if he's doing the real work and providing everything and you're entitled to stay with him and not be abandoned but he's not entitled to your body? That's some bitchmade stuff right there, pathetic, and unloving from you.
>>84849526Woah haven't seen you in so long
>>84849534I enjoy having sex with him because he doesnt expect or demand it. It is something men dont get. A woman will want you if you dont pressure her.
>>84849549It's not about what you want, so I don't care about that.You owe him your body, you cannot withhold sex from him. Just as he cannot kick you out of the home. Does he have any right to do that? No. Obviously not, if you've given over your whole life to him he has to take care of you your whole life, and that's a lot of work.He is entitled to enjoy your body.
>>84849549how does he have sex? do you let him rape you in your sleep?
>>84849579>>84849575We have sex like a normal married couple there isnt weird trad bull shit where I must submit and let him have my body. What is hard to understand about this? If i didnt feel like having sex that is ok just as if he didnt
>>84849591No one is saying you don't have normal sex. I'm saying he can have sex with you whenever he wants.
>>84849591okay when was the last time? describe it in detail
>>84849591Well if your husband doesn't feel like going to work I guess he just won't then either. That's okay with you then obviously? You're not entitled to his labour.
>>84849606>>84849636Is this some weird american view of sex or just 4chan I swear burgers are so retarded about it. I usually have sex whenever he initiates because I want to and dont feel forced. That is it. And I initiate too as is healthy and normal for married couple
>>84849512How did you even end up in this country married to this guy? You sound Indian. Did you move over just for the green card he gives you or what
>>84849655You can ignore the question if you want and keep talking about "we have sex like normal."You said you hate being a house wife because he has all the finances and you feel like you owe him something.You do owe him something: YOUR BODY. That's what he gets. So if you accept that, you won't feel guilty anymore. He is satisfied with your body, he doesn't need more than that. And you cannot withhold your body from him.At least I know now you really are a female, because you are very slow and incapable of understanding simple things.
>>84849512It's just so weird to me. I can't imagine a world where you're a female and you want to work idk I've been a shut in since I was a kid though so maybe I'm a freak
>>84849678It's just a cultural thing, women are told they need to work and that if they rely on a man that's bad because men are rapists and abusive and you won't be able to escape.
>>84849661I do not need a green card we are both EU. I wanted to stay at my home but he just could not learn my countries language which is needed for majority of jobs and daily life >>84849663I didnt ask for this and am trying to find a job so how do I owe him for this? I would be ok if he was temporary out of work and I had to earn the money
>>84849713Oh I'm sure you'd be fine with getting a job and making money while he stays at home. You should try that. Or maybe BOTH of you can work. Afterall the meaning of life is to slave away for an evil society. Oooh but it's not evil to normies/women, I always forget that part, they want to and love working for society because it gives back to them.This is the problem I'm talking to these kinds of people I think I'm talking to the kinds of people who used to use 4chan 10+ years ago. And that is my fault.
>>84849512there's literally no such thing as a "stay at home wife", staying at home means you are spending time raising children and watching after them. There's nothing keeping you home as just a whore wife looking for a visa/passport and you're not even a real woman. Jobless freak retarded men are not called "stay at home bachelors" they are just called morons. Get a hobby.
>>84849727I mean yes we both will work that is the point and normal?? I am actively looking for a job >>84849736lol again we are both EU dumbass american I do not need a passport or visa to be here
>>84849759what countries in the EU? Where did you meet? I can't find a single euro fembot who is actually kind and modest and wants to be my wife.
>>84849655It's just tradpillers.
>>84849759being unemployed and marrying for a visa doesn't equal being a traditional housewife. you don't understand normal family life because you are degenerate and probably just larping. there's nothing inherently wrong with both working for someone else or both being unemployed, but men and women are not the same and you're not escaping any sort of boredom or risk of financial abuse if you go work for a stranger instead of making and maintaining a home, raising a family, and giving directly to your community - with rare exceptions. "i feel like i owe him something" bitch you would owe your employer something too, but unless your skills and labor scale very well you (and even most men if they could) would be far better off just spending your time efficiently and for yourself directly.
>>84849940Discord and I am polish he is western/central euro depending on how you view regions. I also view myself as central euro but he says im eastern so whatever >>84849950Yea I dont think people can fathom a stay at home wife not being trad but even American trad is different women from my country have always had different roles than just a bang maid>>84849984How many times do I need to tell you I dont need a visa to stay here because I am an EU citizen and I am not unemployed by choice you fucking retard
>>84849363>I said wife, not mother. I dont have kidsThen you're a glorified roommate. Tell your man he needs to put a baby in you or dump your useless ass
>>84849363 And I am trying to find a job but I moved countries and my degree doesnt have much value here and the job market is already shit so even if I speak the language ok I will never be the first pickWhy not try to start a small business? t. self employed because job market is trash
>>84849409>I dont think men know how much work it can be to keep the house clean and cook every dayNo shit it's a full time job, you know, just like the one he works to provide for you>I do not like to be financially dependent on my husband because I feel like I owe him somethingHe's your husband of course you owe him something. Just like he owes you things because you're his wife. How did you make it past grade school without this information dumb foid
>>84850034Luckily we both agree on waiting for kids until we are stable and he loves me for more than a womb>>84850042Staring a business is a very bureaucratic and difficult process here
>>84849466You should talk at feminist meetups anon. Op couldn't convince me domestic life with a man would suck but if I had to marry a man like you I'd rather just leave the oven on before bed
>>84849314>why so many peopleThat's your answer: tastes vary greatly for almost any aspect of life - even if you only consider the healthy paths. There are girls and guys who want someone else to take the lead, ones who don't mind either way, as well as ones who want to take the lead. Heck, there are people who could be given gold and would trade it for silver and vice-versa. Anyway, since you're smart enough to earn a degree, once you get a job of some kind consider applying your mind to investing. It's just another form of taking time to read and understand stuff, just like you had to do to understand the concepts for your degree and make correct choices during assignments and tests.You'll probably find something part-time before you find something full-time, and even then it'll take a while before you find a job your like/where your degree is relevant. Nothing to rush into, I'm just suggesting multiplying your money via markets since more money would allow you to do more. You may not start today but I can tell you from experience it's a rewarding path that keeps you busy and feels good as you grow more competent at identifying opportunity and of course making gains.
>>84849314>I am a stay at home wife (not by choice)you can get in the wage cage any time you want
>>84849363>no kids>useless degreeYou're just unemployed. No need to glam it up with dumb internet terminology.
>>84849409>I dont think men know how much work it can be to keep the house clean and cook every dayEvery single person has to keep their house clean and cook daily while working>I feel like I owe him somethingYou do>I feel like a princess who is locked away in a towerProof that foids hate getting what they want no matter what
>>84849441>NOOOO MEN SHOULD WANT ASEXUAL OLD HAGS
>>84850064Thank God you people are eurocucks, please don't ever come anywhere near the States or I'll send my state-sponsored gang of niggers and hoodlums to cap yo assess
>>84850073Thank you for the actual input anon, I will! Right now we budget monthly and set some aside but all we do is keep in savings. I will talk to him about researching it together >>84850082Im trying>>84850088My degree isnt useless the main problem was the country I earned it in
>>84850000>he is western/central euroso german lmaodid you meet on r9k? i want a fembot bangmaid from europei wanna have limitless endless sex on demand from low standards women! FUCKSAKE
>>84850131>togetherBeautiful ~ here's to a healthy, happy future for you both!Also I'll add: don't doubt your capacity to learn - when I started I had ZERO finance knowledge nor the highest level of high school math. In the end it comes down to the time and diligence you put into learning and does not require watching charts 24/7.
>>84849489Yeah but despite your disgust I would love to be a woman's bangbutler, IF any of them ever actually wanted this and did not view it with equal disgust. So I just abuse them, pump and dump and so on since there is no hope of the kind of serious relationship I want
>>84850034>Then you're a glorified roommateroommates pay rent
Being a housewife sounds like a good deal. You get a house for free. I mean yeah you have to cook, but everyone already has to do that and if anything it's easier to cook for multiple people than it is for one. You still require food whether alone or married. You have to clean, but again you'd still be doing that alone. There's literally no downsides to it. If you really have no agency and can't think of anything to do outside of the five minutes a day that chores and cooking takes then I don't know that you even count as human. If you aren't happy with ideal conditions you wouldn't be happy as a wageslave either. Literally too stupid to find meaning or fulfillment in life.
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>>84849314You ever considered some work from home? If you have skills you could try it.