Any rape survivors here? If so how did you initially deal with the attack?
reminder that you did this to yourself and you deserved it
>>84866073i think i was technically raped.male here, was e4 in militarymy commander, o4, used me as a nonstop sex toy for a whole deploymenti was actually groomed into it, didnt know what was happening until she had leverage on me.i dont trust women at all, is the only real result from it.
>>84866091Tell usss.. did she have nice tits, suck your dick? She made you fuck her bareback over her desk? Did you cum in her slut mouth?
>>84866129it was on a deployment so we were in these like iraqi type barracks kind of thing on a base near baghdad, eventually we moved into VBC where we had our own two-person rooms and officers had single person private quarters.it was the whole deployment, so a year, we fucked regularly and did basically everything.it was mostly either in her room or she would have to go do paperwork or need me for something and would take us to some place on the base nobody goes and would fuck there too.basically everything, oral, anal, regular sex, yes no condoms cause that would leave evidence trail she was having sex since we were both married at the time it was illegal under ucmj. lots of creampies, basically everything. she had me by the balls because i was getting out of the army and didnt want paperwork problems. so once she initiated i was basically trapped due to my rank and literally nobody would believe it.she was even EXTREMELY possessive when we got a female LT at one point, punishing her for interacting with me since we had to interact due to our overlap in stuff we did.maj was about 32ish i think at the time. she was in shape, one of those black girls that looks like she only fucks white guys. fat ass and big swinging tits though.she actively kicked out anyone who outranked me in my area in her unit so i wasnt accountable to anyone but her.
>>84866212How TF would a condom leave a trail? You can just pick it up, put it in a pocket and throw it in some garbage can on base somewhere.
>>84866212based majoralso that doesn't count. coercion, maybe, but not the real thing since you consented
>>84866073>how did you initially deal with the attack?ran away and got addicted to heroin.
>>84866326well first off securing condoms has eyes on.just that in itself leaves a trail on a basesecond, toss them in the trash can get them seen by lower ranked people in the unit taking out trashthird, taking it out yourself can get you see tossing them awayfourth, if someone inspects you on the spot you can be caught with used condomsfifth, depending on the layout there isnt really any way to get rid of them unseen if you are of certain ranks requiring friends/buddies with you which is a constant thing on deployments.its actually not as easy as you think. youve got a single unit, 5 troops, 4 of them are ALL MEN, then 1 support troop is 1/4th women.this stuff is HIGHLY NOTICED and very carefully watched for at all hours of every day.
>>84866333i couldnt consentfirst, shes an officer, so that implies statutory.second, she actually leveraged me into a position of compromise. i was in a position I had no escape in any way, without ruining my entire life of her doing. getting kicked out with a dishonorable as you are about to ETS is life destroying and suicide tier.not to mention, i was also married so it would have destroyed my relationship and my future in one single shot. thats what made me the perfect target to put pressure on.even IF i tried to find a way out, ultimately, it would have been pyrrhic at best.
>>84866367she didn't physically force you to do anything though. you made the decision to cheat on your wife lmao
>>84866333this implies that a 10 year old that says yes to sex is consenting and it isnt really rape.
>>84866073I was like 5 so it didn't really hit me till I was older. ended up beating the ever loving piss out the person who defended my attacker by victim shaming me into silence. It was a first offense and the courts new what happened so I got off kind of easy. 2 months in jail and some probation.
>>84866376OP was a married adultretard
>>84866375she physically did force meif I said no, she would have ruined my marriage, ruined my career, got me a dishonorable so i couldnt do anything the rest of my life and lose all my benefitsand all under the guise of the fact all she has to do is BURN ME WITH HER. as in if I say no or try to turn her in, she can just say I participated and id automatically be burnt alongside her.she was willing to burn her life to the ground to control me. so no, i had no choice.not only that, shes a major im an e4. she could have ruined my life at the snap of her fingers and theres NOTHING i could have done.you really dont understand anything about the military, loser.
>be me>dumb and young at the time>befriend older guy from grocery store>turns out he's 19>asks me out>he picks me up in his car>touchy the entire time>fondling my breasts and kissing me during the movie and red light stops>asks me sexual stuff like what bra cup size i wear>tell him im 36DD>says im lying so my dumbass presses my boobs up and shows him cleavage>make even bigger mistake telling him im a virgin>drops me off home and i end up ghosting him>still messages me non-stop and only respond when im bored>one night he starts sexting me out of nowhere and asks what i would do to him>decide to tease and torture him and tell him "how about i show you">forgot he knows where i live>he tells me he's outside and won't leave>afraid of neighbors seeing this and telling my mom the next day after she gets back from work>open door and he practically bursts in>completely go limp>begins stretching and pulling my clothes apart>eats me out and then rapes me>does violent shit like actually bite my breasts>comes inside me>tells me afterwards that he recorded the whole thing>paranoid he leaked it
>>84866384an officer inducing sex from an enlisted for any reason is statutory rape.this is considered similarly to being an adult and asking a child for sex. the lower enlisted CANNOT CONSENT to sex with an officer.
>>84866388Why would she do that? And as always you could be larping
>>84866388dont bother anon; its absolutely rape but>lol raped manbullshit is real
>>84866384civilians truly are retarded
>>84866412yeah, youre right. retard is gonna retard to the max.its wild how truly dumb some of these people are, especially jealous virgin losers and dumb whores.
>>84866388Does your wife know and did you enjoy it?
>>84866388>she would have ruined my life if i said noso like any woman on planet earth can do? you willingly slept with her and cheated on your wife dude>>84866398this doesn't sound true at all>>84866414>muh civviesok lmao
>>84866411because she was crazy? she ended up getting dismissed from her post a year after I ETSed, because she was caught in garrison clapping some e3.she had a history of doing this from what it seemed. military women, especially minorities who have command, are very very different. they do all kinds of crazy shit when they feel they cant be touched once they hit a rank like major.
>>84866432i had no choice, i was unwilling.if you consider suicide as a choice, then all women choose to be raped.my options weredo what she saysmy life is over forever, marriage ends, dishonorable discharge, lose all benefits, cannot work almost anywhere in america for the rest of my life.
>>84866432"The military does not recognize a subordinate's consent as a defense to fraternization because of the inherent power imbalance. The UCMJ presumes that an officer's position of authority makes it impossible for an enlisted service member to give the kind of "freely given agreement" required by military law."officers are held to a different degree, as if they are adults managing nonadults, and thus are incapable of being given consent regardless of circumstances.and any attempt at giving consent with any form of coercion is a form of statutory rape or sexual assault.
>>84866212I'll take "Things that never happened" for $800, Ken.
>>84866485well say what you want, it was proven to happen and its part of why I get such a huge VA check every month.so 'things that did happen for 4490 USD a month' alex.
I was 10 and got groomed by 14 year old women. They started out as being physical bullies. Pushing me, forcing me to do embarrassing things. They had male friends who were in on it too. They forced me to eat dog shit and recorded me and threatened to share the video if I didnt do explicit acts infront of them. If you are one of them reading this I still hope you burn in hell.
>>84866494Whatever, Family Feud is better anyways...
>>84866494you should apply to go on financial audit with caleb hammer. you got a real juicy story on yer hands
But, uh, how did a black WOMAN manage to become a major? She attended WestPoint or something?
>>84866512hed probably be bored because my finances are fine, i only live on about 1500 of that a month in a midwest small town.hed just see a big pile of savings, no debt, and then have nothing really to say. maybe complain about getting VA benefits, but part of being in the military is being taken care of if you get fucked up.
>>84866527at this point in time, minorities and women were all put on accelerated promotional tracks all across the army.they would get first looks, more options for increasing points, and giving them bad reviews would hurt your career as an NCO or Officer.
>>84866530at this point the show is less about finances and more about drama farming. your juicy buttery story would take up at least half the episode time
>>84866592i honestly would be afraid to do iti am happy just living a minimal life in obscuritylast thing I want is to be that pussy fag bitching about something 90% of guys would be jealous of.i barely leave my house as it is, only leave a handful of times a year for the last 8 years.
>>84866084How? You're just not a good person. Keep it to yourself next time.
>>84866626I gotta ask though Did you enjoy it?
>>84866391Did you get aroused from it? That sounds extremely humiliating they way foids talk about getting wet as fuck when raped
>>84866073Fucking gross.You whiney trauma dumping bitches need to go talk to a paid professional to listen to your whining.
>>84866626interesting. could still be a way to make your life more interesting, make some money off your juicy buttery succulent storyare you still married?
>>84866091Don't worry, private Jody made sure your girl at home was taken care of.You may thank him for his service
>>84866091>I think i was technically rapedDie faggot
>>84866391Fucking disgusting. No one wants to hear this gross shit you nasty bitch. Go tell a paid professional, not internet strangers!
>>84866084This is what I was wearing when I was raped! Tell me I was asking for it!
>>84866668no, not marriedrelationship fell apart due to ptsd stuffwe didnt work because the me after the military wasnt the same as the one before or during. we were together a few years before i joined.and no, traveling far away or doing random shit outside of my barely existing pattern wouldnt be interesting, it would be stress already added on top of other stress i constantly try to dodge.
>>84866702what a shit photoshootget that cum in yo guts playa
>>84866712What's got you so stressed out? Va checks sound comfy
>>84866673my wife at the time wasnt capable of even leaving our house, she was glued to grinding WoW and Star Wars Galaxies and any other spare time was spent grinding through One Piece.I doubt she even talked or seen another human being the whole time I was deployed. Which ultimately isnt really relevant, because it didnt work. After the military and when I was in college she went full crazy feminist retard and went from being a 9/10 in shape, to being a 200lb shaved head slob. Her life is basically completely shit now, she has TDS and is only getting fatter.current GF is ultra chill
>>84866733all the associated problems that come along with being a handful of people who can get full big boy checks.nightmares, inability to sleep, always exhausted, violent outbursts around strangers, etc.a lot of days i would trade the paycheck for not having the problems. if i didnt have problems and had the check then life would be comfy.however the nature of the beast doesnt allow good things like that to happen.
>I would like to point out more women lie about rape than were actually raped.>They refuse any accountability not cause they care about the trauma of the victim but because they want to have the excuse ready and available in case they ever want to use it.>More men know women who lie about having been raped than were actually held down and forced to be penetrated >Even most girls examples of rape are expanded definitions of rape that boil down to "I got drunk and this drunk guy fucked me but my boyfriend found out and got mad so I was raped">They will get upset with the men attempting to protect them from getting raped telling them what to do to avoid rape, then get mad when they don't act as their personal army when they claim "rape" or tell them what to do after "the rape"
>>84866774i actually believe more men are raped than women are.more women falsely report than men truthfully report.female rape is genuinely truly rare.
>>84866752If you could change anything past or present would you?
>>84866743Private Jody makes house calls. Don't worry.You're welcome for his service
>>84866778Honestly you're probably right Female rape boils down to "I got fucked up and me and some guy fooled around"Most of the time women put themselves in the situation by getting fucked up. Roofies aren't exactly given out or slipped into drinks undetected, and the fear and Hysteria around it is unfounded.The actual rapists using that shit are your Diddys and Epsteins, and the police probably gave them the fucking roofies.Oh but I'm the asshole for telling my girlfriend don't go to a Diddy party or I'm breaking it off.
