I am in dire need to talk about this with someone but I don't feel like I can open up about this to anyone.>Be me, 23 year old male. >GF is 21 year old. Very cute girl, mildly funny, and very smart>We have been dating for a bit over 2 years now>We first started having sex about 4-5 months into the relationship as we were both virgins>At first things were great, we both enjoyed it and did it regularly, using just condoms for protection>Eventually GF starts worrying about the condom accidentally breaking and getting pregnant so she also wants to be on the pill>I tell her it is very unlikely that the condom could break, but since I am not the one who can get pregnant by mistake I respect her decision>We continue having sex as normal but as time goes by I notice she gets considerably less wet and she starts hurting when I penetrate her>The situation only worsens, to the point we stop having sex altogether because it became painful for her>Had to try and convince her to go the doctor to ask about this for months because she was too embarrassed>Turns out the hormones from the pipll have affected her body and so she does not get wet as easily>It has now been a bit ove a year since we last had sex. She blows every now and then and jacks me off sometimes but not only is it not the same, but it is clear as day that I enjoy it way more than she does>I am hereI am desperate for sex. I feel like a loser when I have a girlfriend and I still do not get any pussy whatsoever. I want to hire an escort but I also don't wanna cheat on her. I don't know what to do and I could really use some advice
ask her to get off the pill or break up dont be a fucking retard
>>848755393 options: LubeDifferent birth control Break up with your gf
>>84875561>>84875572Sorry, forgot to add the important detail that she has since dropped the pills, but her body has yet fully recovered. I had to basically beg her to see a sexolgist and she has been doing so. We have been trying different excercises to start having sex again but the progress is minimal and I'm getting desperate. It also feels like I'm the only one actively trying to get us to have sex again, she always puts up the excuse of "being to embarrassed" to avoid tackling the issue. I fucking want to have sex man, but I also know this girl is a great investment for the future so I dont want to break up
Just a quick reminder this is bait don't get too mad about it.
>>84875539My gf's birth control makes her pussy dry. To the point that sometimes it hurts my dick especially when I'm not in the mood for sex. The solution is lube, lots and lots of lube. Or maybe your gf could speak to her provider about switching to progestin-only birth control. My ex-gf was on it for a short while and her pussy was noticeably more juicy.
how the fuck do people even find the time to cheat on girlfriends, that shit is a full time job wtf
>>84875539I don't even have to read your bullshit story to say FUCKING YES YOU SHOULD ALWAYS but I will read after posting this
>>84875539>It has now been a bit ove a year since we last had sexOh dude you shouldn't even just cheat, you should leave her wtf. But if not then definitely cheat
>>84875539Just eat her out to get her juices flowing retard.Or buy lube.
>>84875539>>84876110Additionally: you are a huge fucking dickhead if you break up with a girl over something like this. You both gave each other your first times and telling from the rest of the post you clearly enjoy being with her. Do not be a fucking retard OP.
>>84876124>you are a huge fucking dickhead if you leave a girl for not fucking you for OVER A YEARYeah nah man if this was like 2-3 months tops and she's going to the doctor to get her cunt sorted with a panic because she wants to fuck but can't then maybe. She doesn't care at all and he needs to get the fuck out before he wastes any more of his prime on somebody who does not even like him.
>>84875539Yes, you should cheat on her. Tell her that you did it too, maybe that gets her jealous enough to fix her pussy.>>84876124Her pussy aka the thing he's dating her for in the first place doesn't work anymore and she doesn't want to fix it. He has every right to dump her, stop being a foid worshipper.
Hey guys OP here. Thanks for the insight. I should add some more details, I didnt do it for the first post because I didnt want to make it too long. She has been off the pills for some months now and she has (finally) been going to the sexologist and whatnot. I know the situation affects her deeply and she has cried many times in fear that I will stop liking her because of this. The truth is I like her just as much, but I sadly dont enjoy my time with her as much and when she is not crying about the issue it looks like she does not care about it at all. I feel like she doesnt really care about my sexual pleasure and overall ignores my desires most of the time. I imagine this must be a defensive reaction due to the fact that she cant have sex, but even then Im desperate because I crave it and I feel like a loser, but I also love her.>>84875665We have tried lube but it hasnt really helped. Back when we still tried to have sex and failed she would, in anticipation of the pain, be unable to loosen up enough for my penis to go in (mind you my penis is a bit smaller than average so its not like my schlong is the issue). And its not like we didnt do foreplay, her pussy just cant take it and so we stopped trying at all.>>84876124I know and I love her, but I need sex man. As another anon said, this should be my prime, I am 23 years old. Ill be a fat ugly retard when I get to 30 and when Im 60 I will have erectile dysfunction or something like that. I want to have sex now, moreso knowing that as a somewhat average dude I can get it (and because I have a girlfriend for fucks sake)>>84876169A bit too drastic perhaps
>>84876261>I sadly dont enjoy my time with her as much and when she is not crying about the issue it looks like she does not care about it at all. I feel like she doesnt really care about my sexual pleasure and overall ignores my desires most of the time.have you talked to her telling her these things?
If she isn't putting out then she's not your gf and it's not cheating if you have sex with someone else. You wouldn't pay rent for a house you used to at one point live in. Same thing here
>>84876286We have talked about the fact that we both want to have sex again and that I still love her even if she can't do it, but we havent really touched the fact of how I feel other than "I believe we will be able to do it again eventually".I don't tell her how I feel about this because there is really nothing she can do immediately to deal with it. She's been doing the stuff the sexologist told her but even then progress is slow. It's a mix of her actually trying and her not moving forward because it's too embarrassing to talk about these things with a medical professional for some reason. She is, like most women, a sensitive creature and I don't want to make her feel even worse, hence why I feel like cheating. She clearly cannot answer my sexual needs and I don't wnat to break up, so cheating without having her know would appear to be the logical decision to make, but I deeply question the moral of my own actions so I need to talk with someone else about it. I just don't really have anyone I feel comfortable telling this so I share it with anons on 4chan like the chud I am.
>>84875539This is what every relationship quickly turns into for a sub-8 man.Be happy the good sex lasted as long as it did.
OP have you even gotten to hit raw yet? That's literally the whole point of birth control.Cheat on her, hit it raw with the side bitch and pull out, that shit works (for me). You haven't even experienced real sex until youve hit it raw
>>84875539I think you should jump off a bridge.
>>84876570i feel like those things are too important to not bring up, even if it is true there's nothing she can really "do immediately" about it. this whole thing clearly is probably not going to magically resolve itself overnight, so i would figure if you don't say that stuff you feel now, it'll just come out later, and probably more explosively in a far worse way or context. but at the same time i get it. there's a fear that maybe it is more logical just to keep the peace even if you have to withhold things, maybe she will take it badly, maybe it will tear things apart when otherwise it would be fine. but i don't know, just in my opinion it's precarious enough either way that you might as well just be honest about that stuff since it could become it's own huge problem like i mentioned.
>>84876570>there is really nothing she can do immediately to deal with itShe could be giving you a blowjob at this very moment.
