>>84879540
Have you tried being straight? Jk I know you haven't

at some point you need to recognize

>>84879666
Im a woman

>>84879681
Errrrrr what?

>>84879540
What makes you think they can't love just you? Assuming they didn't leave you for someone else.

>>84879683
Sure you are.

I'm thankful I don't feel anything for c. My feelings and love were never meant for him and I only feel relief now that he is gone.

>>84879540
how long did you two date?
I hate that sort of feeling, sadly i feel like im the one who experiences it more and that the women i date tend to try and forget about me quick
pretty much given up on finding a woman that could love me as much as you love this guy
>I know going back will cause me more pain in the long run.
why do women act like this? how do you know it would always be worse? unless he was straight up physically or verbally abusive a lot of the time (not just swearing a bit when you have fights or swearing when getting really frustrated while trying to talk to you) i dont see why you cant try and communicate with him
and him ignoring you to play a game when you have some issues isnt "emotionally abusive" i dont want to hear it

robot9000 user once again talks about experiencing love and heartbreak

I am not even reading the narrative you are creating. I'm done with you.

>>84879899
mike spotted again
ignore this guy

>>84880069
I ignore you because Mike has nothing to do with your bullshit

Fembot cries for chad again

>>84879878
I feel like its more common for girls on r9k to date abusechads than you think, the guy probably did beat the shit out of her

>>84880967
No just op being insecure and only feeling better if he puts others down to massage his narc ego. Its pathetic

>>84879540
How do you know he doesn't feel the same

Im going to ignore anything regarding c or m since it has NOTHING to do with me or this thread. Please shut up

>>84879795
He loved someone else, and loves another again now. These were his words, not any speculation on my part, so pretty straightforward

>>84879878
We didnt officially date, but what we had was intense and meaningful. He wasnt abusive, but that doesnt mean the relationship was healthy. I tried to stay and communicate, or just swallow my feelings, but it ended up causing even more hurt. We kept hurting eachother, and I know from experience itll happen again. The worst part is, his hatred for me (and women more generally) is affirmed if I leave, and affirmed if I stay. I dont want him to hate me I want him to view me as a human and love me how I love him. I thought it was just me being lonely and bored, but I went out with another guy on Wednesday and I STILL love him. I cant move on as quick as him. So take some consolation that youre not alone

>>84880949
Ive left him, so I dont know what you want from me really

>>84881029
He already loves someone else. Not that Im angry at him for doing so, of course he should move on (took a day lol), but thats how I know he doesnt feel the same

No woman will ever like me i hate seeing threads like this

>>84879540
I feel that way too I cant seem to forget about him even though I only knew him for 3% of my life

>>84881039
Alright so he wasn't abusive, you care for him, etc. cool.
>His hatred for women is affirmed if I leave and if I stay
>>I went out with another guy
Lol fuck off, and here I thought you were truly hurt over this guy
I'm someone who thinks women have their own issues that men don't face or go through, but really, if you can't just be single and process your feelings in a healthy manner, fuck you.
Dealing with women and their bullshit has made me dislike them more than any of the nonsense misogynists post on here.
Have some fucking shame lol.
The problem is you can get male attention extremely easily and thus have no real loyalty to the guy you supposedly love. You've affirmed my distaste for your kind too, I shouldn't have expected any better
Piss off

>>84881039
>>84881058
>>84881213
Okay tbf I didn't see the part where he moved onto a new woman in a day, so I guess I can blame you a little less for trying to meet new people
But whatever, like most here I'll never have a woman truly actually love me. I'm not even a virgin, it's just depressing atp

>>84881224
>>youre a piece of shit for trying to meet new people instead of doting on a man who loves a different woman
>>oh, whats that? he moved onto a new woman in a day?
>>okay, well, Im still going to justify my angry outburst at you using unrelated shit other women have done to me

Even if he didnt move onto another woman in a day, its still not unreasonable for me to try and move on to another man because as I said, he was ALREADY in love with a different woman behind my back BEFORE I even left. Youre a hateful, irrational asshole

>>84881977
alright maybe I didnt read that part, my bad.
And yes that's called emotional cheating; if you're not exaggerating this then im on your side here.
But of course foids only really feel love and attraction for men who get around and have other women chasing them
oh well

Was packing a box truck where someone had scrawled inside "SHE DOESNT MISS YOU" on the wall
like fuck you nigger

>>84881213
>>84881224
Like, he was in love with his ex whilst claiming to love me, and then he says hes falling in love with a third woman the day after we stopped talking. But Im the bitch for going on a date days after the fact to try and help me move on instead of wallowing in misery?

If our sexes were swapped, youd have no problem recognising who cared more for who in this relationship. No problem at all. You sound as hateful and biased as him. I know he uses this board, so you may well be

>>84881986
No, I developed love and attraction for him when I thought he loved me and only me. When I found out he didnt, I was upset and ended things. Obviously my love and attraction didnt immediately and completely disappear, hence this post. If they did, youd have an issue with that too (ohhhh, see, you werent REALLY attached to him since you stopped loving him so quick!!). As I said, I cannot win with you guys

Im going thru the same thing but im stuck i dont know how to move on shes a whore and she hates me but I still love her god im such an idiot I hate myself

>>84882128
Im sorry, anon. I really dont know what to do. I would say find someone new to distract yourself or gain a feeling of control, but it really doesnt help. All we can do is wait it out. Time heals all wounds

>>84881039
It's me, I love only you nona.

This is boring, you're boring, this bores me you bore, show tits