You meet a girlfailure in her mid 30s. She says she loves you.Do you try to rescue her from her disaster of a life?
>>84881177I invite her over to my disaster of a life
>>84881177Why is her life a disaster ? Does she simply view her life as a disaster or is it actually ?
>>84881177and I'm a 24 yo neet save fuckin who and how?
>>84881253She's broke, works at a dead end job, lives with her parents, has no marketable skills, and zero ambition except to mooch off you.
>>84881264No, and I don't even offer her the opportunity to touch my penis
>>84881262you have to try, anon. do you want to stop being an incel or not?
Fuck that mid-30s girl, would you do the same for a 40s total girlfailure who is breaking down in her car, though?
How much does she love me? Can she follow a fair and civil set of rules concerning chores (shared) and getting a job?If she earns far less than me I don't mind paying the rent, but she has to make some token payments like paying for groceries and one of the utilities.Also I expect sex after a month.>nooo you heckin' creepIf she's not attracted to me sexually then the relationship is going nowhere. If she is, then a month is plenty of time to get ready for something she wants to do.
>>84881264>She's broke,That's fine, I can support us.>works at a dead end job,That's fine, I can help her find a career more in line with her passions.>lives with her parents,That's fine, I can arrange a place for us.>has no marketable skills,That's fine, we can work on that.>and zero ambition except to mooch off you.NOPE.Get ambitious.
>>84881273>do you want to stop being an incel or not?not really I'm not concerned about my cel status
>>84881299>That's fine, we can work on that.What makes you think someone who is in the 30s wants to work on it? >That's fine, I can support us.You'll be doing that indefinitely. She wants to be a kept woman.
>>84881177yes, we can support and help each others lives together
>>84881487She doesn't like doing chores and doesn't want to work.
>>84881264Yea thats totally fine, we can neet together
>>84881525That doesn't sound like love to be honest she should at least learn to cook...
>>84882102>we can neet togetherhow?and what happens when you get older?
>>84881177Yeah-no girlfailing is for petite 20yos with cute bangs who make anime noises when we fuck and cosplay as Futaba for me. Some BEAT, dried up 36 year old? Nah. It doesn't hit the same way. Maybe if she doesn't have kids, aged super-gracefully, and doesn't have a bunch of stupid tats and shitty millennial boss-bitch attitude, but we're talking about something that doesn't exist.
>>84881177A few months later, she's going to act like you don't exist. How do you think she got to that state? Not by being a normal human being.
>>84881177>Says she loves youTo a woman words are just utterances that she can use to decieve you. To her the word love is a magic word that will get you to open up your wallet and house to her. Always remember that they are liars and decievers.
>>84882355idk how he expects to double NEET unless one of them gets disability, I know a shit ton of people who live like this. Lucky ducks. I've honestly thought about trying to pick up women at the social security office just to pull a lady who gets a check. It's not a shit ton of money but you can definitely live work free off it, like I said I know a million people who do.
>>84881177I nearly had this. We had an odd trajectory. She has BPD (of course!) and right after I bought tickets to see her she 'switched' on me and gave me a litany of insults and blocked me. Weeks later she texted me all-apologies and wanting to sext and cam all the time, tons of nudes. Wanting to possibly see me instead. No. No... I decided against. She was definitely a girlfailure though:>lived at home>didn't work>domestic against her mom and petty larceny mugshots>went to a Marla from Fight Club amount of group therapy sessionsMaybe round 2 would have gone better, maybe we would have done okay, but I just had terrible feelings about her and can only imagine what her bad side's like if you're in a relationship with her in real life. She was hot, anyway. Bit of a butter-face, but hot. Had a very cokey, on uppers way of speaking.
>>84881525does she have a big butt? that is my only requirement
>>84882355>howSocialist country+autism disability >what happens when you get olderWe'll grow grey hair ? I mean, everyone gets older not much anyone can do about that, it has nothing to do with neeting
>>84881177>She says she loves you.How the fuck is she going to 'love' me when we literally just met?
>>84881177Yes but it would not be a rescue, more like 2 shipwrecked persons trying to comfort each other as the sharks come
>>84881177No woman would ever tell me she loves me without lying and she would have no reason to lie as I'm a mid-30s failure too so overall I just don't see that situation occurring to begin with
>>84881177As a girlfailure in her early 30s, I think at this point I just a need a man to be with me and protect me, to (want to) build a family with me. I feel really pathetic admitting this. (at least I have a job and my own money but I wouldn't date a NEET unless he can support himself too)
>>84884527>at least I have a job and my own moneyCan you afford rent anywhere in your area?
>>84884527NOTE TO ANONS: NEVER TAKE WOMEN UP ON OFFERS LIKE THISThey will drain you of resources and monkeybranch to the next guy, or they will make your life hell with their feminist bullshit.
>>84881177>Do you try to rescue her from her disaster of a life?NoNever, ever, ever 'rescue' women.>WhyJust trust me, dude.
>>84881177No, I wake up
>>84881177Yes give me my 30s girlfailure gf now!
>>84884570>Never, ever, ever 'rescue' women.why? they'll be grateful for it and love you even more.>Just trust me, dude.no, you need to explain yourself.
>>84884527I feel the same towards a gf. I just want life long love and someone to try to enjoy life with.
>>84884575>why? they'll be grateful for it and love you even more.They won't. You'll bring them to your level and then they'll feel like you're not enough, and they'll forget all you did for them. Why? Female hypergamy. It's embedded in themThink of crutches. What happens when the patient using them heals? They're discarded or collect dust in some closet. Do not take on a female project
>>84884562Yes, I rent a studio apartment in a nice area.>>84884565I'm not even a feminist. Not anti-feminism either, just whatever.>>84884577Yes agreed, it feels like everyone around is in a (presumably) loving relationship and it seems so nice.
>>84884638Would you ever consider a guy from here?
>>84884585>then they'll feel like you're not enough, and they'll forget all you did for themhuh? women never forget anything.
>>84884649Yep I would, it'd actually be ideal and make things easier. But I live very far from most robots, unfortunately.
>>84884670>huh? women never forget anything.They do, selectively. You've yet to learn
>>84881525Is this nightmare based on a real person
>>84884673>But I live very far from most robots, unfortunately.My hopes were shattered in an instant. How far are we talking?
>>84881177No. Somebody probably tried already. Foids are still foids after all she'll just ruin your life instead.
>>84884684Third world... what about you?
>>84884782>what about you?In the US
>>84881177>o you try to rescue her from her disaster of a life?who am I to judge
Why would I want to have an annoying female around if I have to deal with her emotional swings and childish temper tantrums just to maybe get sex once a month when I could just...not do that and pay a prostitute if I want sex bad enough?
>>84884782Which third world?
>>84881177>I tell her I love her back>We plap plap plap>I ghost her the next dayThe only objectively correct sequence of actions to take, her default state is being a failure so its best to just pump and dump.
>>84884829>Anon im pregnant
>>84881177I would never try "rescuing" any woman even in her mid 20s let alone mid 30s. This is the minimum I'd expect in a relationship- obviously not looking to steal from me, divorcerape me, etc, genuinely loves/respects me- good hygiene, good breath, healthy smelling vagina- can do 30 minutes of chores daily around the house- spending allowance of ~$1000/mo assuming she has no job/income, excluding basic food/utilities/housing expenses which I'd cover fully- slightly overweight at worst and if I notice her going beyond that, she gets on the treadmill or a diet and works it off- 6/10 face if she's a bit depressive/sullen, 4/10 face if she's enthusiastic/happy/smiles a lot- hour long sexual sessions most days, doesn't have to be sex per se and it includes foreplay/cuddling, but if I can't rely on her to let me grind against her and tongue kiss her and cum to help me relax and/or sleep after a long day of work, then it's not worth it; ideally she should be receptive to me buying her sexy/fetish clothes as well to walk around the home in (separate from her allowance; if she has good taste I can increase it to buy more clothes she wants)
>>84884826Don't really wanna answer but you made me laugh lol Where are you from?
>>84884782>>84884789Following up, would you ever wanna leave your country to come to the US?
>>84884889I am sea monke
>>84884866>- spending allowance of ~$1000/mo assuming she has no job/incomecringe simp shit
>>84881264This is highly preferable to a woman that has everything figured out. I only met girls in their 30s who have their own place, a stable job and pay. They have no real incentive to find a man because being a provider is a staple that makes men attractive. Had they not been as well off, it would be easier to get into a relationship with them.
>>84885697>Had they not been as well off, it would be easier to get into a relationship with them.Why do you want to get into a relationship with a useless bum whose only life plan is to be a burden on some simp (you)?The pussy can't be that good.
>>84884866This nigga wants a personal maid/whore for 1k a month LOL
>>84886030>women should get paid for having sex with their male partnersbig yikes
>>84881177>>84881264I let her be alone she is clearly not ready for a relationship
They'll ruin your life. Consider that women of that age are probably single for a reason. This is coming from a severely mentally ill mid-30s neet woman
That depends on her body. Does she have big tits?
>>84886350>Consider that women of that age are probably single for a reason.They're rarely single because they have a lot of time on their hands and an urgent need to find and lock down some simp>>84886353Overweight, decent but floppy tits, nice hips
>>84886379But when we are single it's for a very good reason. That was my point. Some people are broken enough that trying to fix them is pointless.
>>84886404>But when we are single it's for a very good reason.yeah because you're looking for the next victim since the last one either bailed or got depleted. not sure what kind of profound knowledge you're trying to share here
>>84886428>not sure what kind of profound knowledge you're trying to share hereI literally said it in the post you just responded to. Are you ESL or something?
