It feels like most women today are just passive and just... existing, even if you are in a relationship with them. And the guy is the one who is supposed to play the jester all the time to maintain her interest and keep her from being bored, lest she leaves you for someone else who is more "interesting". On the other hand, I want a gf who'd be feral and wild, who will pin me against a wall and bite my neck when we come back home because she missed me. And I would softly hug her and kiss her back, letting her relax into my touch from all the hardships of the day. I want someone who is fiery and possessive, who knows exactly what she wants, but also isn't afraid of being vulnerable and letting me comfort her when she is stressed or anxious. Someone who will remind me everyday how much she loves me, and will allow me to express my love and affection for her in return. I want someone passionate about life, about her hobbies that are not scrolling TikTok or shopping. Someone whom I can support and cheer on as I listen to her gush about them.And I feel this doesn't exist today, especially once you are past high school. Everything is just so soulless and boring and transactional.
>>84887390Women are retarded and try to fill the empty gaping holes in their souls with sex and one-sided relationships where they expect the men to magically give their lives meaning.
>>84887390Why would women put any effort into being with a man when it just happens for them and they can replace you in the snap of a finger?
Men are the only ones thinking things like relationships are "transactional", reducing traits of our social nature to utilitarian termsMen are shit.
>>84887390what do you mean "today" that has never existed, if anything you have more chances of that happening now over a time in the past where people just got partnered to start families or because they had to.also kek at not wanting to entrain her while you'd like her to be some sort of freak
>>84887429>not wanting to entrain herwell it's one thing to entertain someone while they also reciprocate, I absolutely don't mind that. But it's just pointless if I have to initiate everything all the time and the only source of anything interesting in a relationship
>>84887457but if she tried to cheat or do anything to create that spark you'd lose your mind
>>84887511How is cheating creating a spark? It's literally the opposite of it. A partner can be interesting and create sparks in a relationship without creating pointless drama.
>>84887511stop being a cuck anon
>>84887390I am 100% like the women you described but I would really like to change, I just don't know where to start or if i can. I have lost my excitement for everything.
>>84887412In all honesty and please do tell me if its just a me thing but Ive been single for my whole life. Its genuinely not easy to find a boyfriend. Most and damn near all of these retarded ass men out here dont give a damn about interests or nothing they just wanna fuck. thats all it is all the time. I know theres guys with personality other than sex 24/7 but atp it feels like im more likely to see an alien than that.
>>84887390if someone is playing jester that is their faultthere are billions of potential partners for everyone
>>84887390It feels like you don't know what the fuck you are talking about
>>84887585Yeah and you have to play jester for vast majority of them because social media fried everyone's dopamine receptors.>>84887591How so?
>>84887579Don't know, without knowing you I couldn't point to anything specific being the reason you haven't gotten a boyfriend. Otherwise yeah, there's men out there who don't make sex everything in a relationship. If it doesn't happen at all that's a problem but me personally I wouldn't even ask for nudes, I think that's trashy.
>>84887608maybe so but theres always someone out there looking for love
>>84887643And they say the people on here suck. I appreciate you anon. Instantly better than any man ive spoken to over the years because yall have functioning braincells for anything other than DICK DICK DICK
>>84887390Actually a lot of women are like this i am sorry but if this is not your experience you are not attractive enough. For women to behave this way you need to be appealing enough for them to break out of the socialization of being the prize and letting men come to them. They also are more subtle about it so you might not be noticing
>>84887668if there are billions and so much opportunity why has no woman approached me?
>>84887791cause what do you expect? women to know how to approach you? they have zero game
>>84887579do you have disc? are you in europe maybe
>>84887733These guys are just lonely, I can't blame them for being brain broken. I'm also lonely but I cope pretty well with it.
>>84887809they don't really need any game though. If they find a guy cute, they could probably just say hi and smile, and the guy would take it from there. It's 0 effort
>>84887579>Already got an offerYeah sucks that youve never had a relationship, but please let us know how many dicks you've taken or sucked so that we can get the full context here. Thanks.
>>84887579Btw (im >>84888349) and most of the time I've had women interested in me is when I made them laugh and heavily flirted with them and turned them on, usually online. Maybe it's just me but for the life of me I can't find a woman that doesn't want to do sexual shit ASAP I think it's just me, I highly doubt that any serious woman would really want to be with me in the long run, and so I'm left with cheap sluts that just want to get off (unless I decide to become an ATM for an old washed up foid who also wouldn't love me) I'm whining here yeah but I genuinely don't know where the fuck to find a decent woman I can get in a relationship with
>>84887390Women like that are real you're just too ugly to be the prize.
this, our only hope is a certain type of bpdemon.
>>84887780>>84888717yeah, Chad gets this kind of treatment, I am sure. Betabuxx Jimmy doesn't
>>84887529>How is cheating creating a spark?the build up, the betrayal, the disillusionment the spiral then the reconciliation and resignation, that would spark a relationship
>>84887418>no one took this baitSome of you guys are finally learning
>>84887579Females are always so confused."men only think about sex they have no personalit--"They only think about sex with YOOOOU! Understand?Every man sees you as a hole. Anyone who pretends to treat you as a person is pretending to have sex with you. When men talk with each other it's about whatever, but if a man is talking to a woman, it's because he wants to have sex with her. Get over it.And the reason men only care about sex when they are talking to women is because women themselves are nothing but that, they are not interesting otherwise. Shut up.
>>84889848It would've been perfect if you didn't give the tranny a (You)
>>84889787idk men, I think the spark is more just about showing care and passion from both sides, not your NTR cuck fantasies
>>84889889Let me guess, you never felt the touch of a woman?
