would getting a girlfriend actually solve any of your problems?
>>84891247I have no problems so I would have to help her with hers had she have any which is something I do not want so I am chilling enjoying this part of my life until I want to settle down and create something with someone that will last
>>84891255>I have no problemsYou don't? Your life is perfect?
>>84891247Depends. One cheated on me and got me ostracized and bullied so that sucked. The other one took everything i told her and everything I felt, and disregarded it, used me, and abandoned me. So honestly, if your sub5, unlucky, and its just your fate to be a loner. Than avoid dating.
>>84891247i only want the sex, thats all i need her for
>>84891247all my problems are caused by women. replacing women with sexbots and baby incubators would solve all my problems.
>>84891260Weird to actually admit for the first time but yeah I do not have any problems and I think my life is a consistent state of peace and happiness
>>84891247i just want to feel like i'm doing my personal best as a human being. i don't need a gf and don't deserve one. i have broken more than one girl actually by being an incurable sad sack.
>>84891247Yes, 100%I would quit porn, go to sleep early,, exercise, go out more, take care of my health and be able to work on my passion projectsThe fact that im 32 and still single with no kids has been a big weight on my shouldersI want to be the provider for a woman who trusts her life and future to me, i wouldnt let her downI already got a decent career and no debt so the hard part is doneThe fact that im posting this at 3 am on a weekday is proof that the thought of being single keeps me up at night
>>84891247I'm pretty sure she would cause more problems than solve them.
>>84891247A lot of them I think.
>>84891373>I would quit porn, go to sleep early,, exercise, go out more, take care of my health and be able to work on my passion projectswhy not do this stuff without a gf
absolutely. it would've fixed everything. however, everyone already has someone. i will die alone, and i will see sure of it.
>>84891247No. No, but it helped. Now in my 40s and want one last shot at this before my actual last (buck)shot. Making a list of stupid shows and games I wouldn't otherwise be interested in because they were experiences to share with a pretty girl who loved me and let me cum inside her was at least *some* purpose. A purpose I had for years. Now it's gone. I'm merely passing time and searching every digital avenue for this again instead of living. I have a house and the means to take care of a young waifu, but nobody wants this gay shit I guess, lol. I'm following my cat when he dies.
>>84891247No, they make your problems worse. You have to handle your problems AND hers.In ancient times, only chads had gfs because they were so strong, they could create enough resources for themselves, plus a lot extra. And the women would come over for some free extra and exchange her butt for some food and shelter, and then kids would happen.If you're the gf your life gets easier, if you're the bf your life gets harder but you're so chad you can just handle it like it's nothing.
>>84891247My main issues are absolute lack of self worth and downward spiral caused by lack of motivation caused by everything always going wrong no matter how much I try.I feel like having a person that values me and shows it for the first time in my life might help me get the motivation to not give up on everything, it's not a guarantee but the only things I haven't tried to fix my life yet were things that are 100% outside of my control like getting a gf so maybe.
This is a great thread, thanks for making this thread. Unironically.
>>84891247No but it would make me happy and give me strength
>>84891247no, because my problems are currently with love itself, I'm too hurt of a soul. I could get a girlfriend no problem, but I know other than sexually, I'd be distant, neglectful, and wouldn't treat them right. I'm too much of these towards myself to begin with.
>>84891247Well she's not exactly my gf yet, but I started talking to a girl I met on a dating app, and I think it's going well. Anyway, it has motivated me to work towards getting a job more than before, so I can move out and be near her. But it has also made me wayyy more anxious at all times cuz idk if she's been talking to other ppl or not, and it's still too early to ask. And I can't stop thinking about it. And it would totally destroy me if she was. So I guess it solves some problems and creates others. Although I do think that particular problem would go away eventually if we became official and I got enough reassurance to feel secure in the relationship. I've just never gotten that far before.
>>84891827>idk if she's been talking to other ppl or notonce you really internalize that there's literally nothing you can do to prevent this from happening, but that it's also not an inevitably and shouldn't be treated as such, worrying about this literally becomes an afterthought.
>>84891849Yeah, I mean logically i know that. But still, easier said than done. Thx tho
it would give me an outlet for socialization, but that's not something only a gf could do.
>>84891247Unironically yes: I'm fucking sure that most of my mental problems would banish if a good woman loved me, gave me warmth and intimacy for a month or two.I just need to know that a woman can feel something for me, that I have at least some worth/appeal. And yes, having sex would also do wonders for my self esteem.
>>84891247Nope, I would still be miserable but with a girlfriend. I would probably end up dragging her down with me. Happiness is not for me.
>>84891247Yes it would. It would solve so many problems and be the catalyst for solving other problems as well.
>>84891247It would solve a lot but would still have to endure wagecucking.
Yes literally every problem I have, and when I had semi reliable access to female attention that appeared to care about me my life was infinitely better than it is now.
>>84891667Why do this stuff without a gf? In fact, why not just kill yourself without a gf? Life cannot just be hedonism, without human connections and obligations theres no reason to live, every year you get older, weaker, dumber, and life becomes less novel. Its our relation to other people, or for a select few god, that makes life worth living.
i think i find it very hard to be myself around men because i grew up in a household with a father i didn't see often and only a sister and mother. this made me not have a strong masculine gender role and i grew up physically weak and emotionally sensitive. the thing i am lacking is a female friend who thinks my childish behavior is funny. i could probably achieve this somehow. easier than getting a gf.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EX5JbuZi0lA
>>84891247Considering my only problem is not having a girlfriend, yes. I think by definition.
>>84891373multi line posting attention seeking retard, you don't get a girlfriend because you're constantly consuming porn like a good goy, that's what none of you fucking retards on here get
>>84891247Cuddling Pomni would solve many prollems.
