>be me>lonely and autistic fembot>join a server>add a short bio>guy slides in my dms>he's interesting, everything's okay so far>eventually he asks for nudes>i send them>he asks for more, for me to take them in the moment, and for me to send him videos, praising, and rushing me in between sending them>he didn't finish, and he felt the need to tell me he couldn't even stay hard because i was taking so long to send them>i'm super disappointed by this, because i put so much effort in, but i write it off>"better luck next time i guess">nearly every conversation after this is him asking me for nudes even in the middle of the day>i tell him that i prefer to only do that stuff at night so that i can be fully into it, and not paranoid about being walked in on during the day>he tries to convince me anyway>he tells me to just sneak a pic in the bathroom>i don't take the pic, but maybe i entertain him more than i should, because he keeps trying to convince me>sometimes he'll say things like "do what i told you to" or "take the pic now">nearly every interaction we have for days is just this>i'm a people pleaser, and this guy, in my opinion is careless and inconsiderate>i didn't like that, so i broke up with him>i tried to explain myself, that i didn't hate him, i just didn't know him well, and didn't know if he even saw me as a person and not just my body>he was too busy taking things personally to care about how i felt>i've been feeling lonely ever since>and there's more
>>85163694>>eventually he asks for nudes>>i send themyou deserve all your problems, whore.
>>85163694This is a LARP and you are a tranny. Tharja is a character enjoyed by men in a franchise played by men, and your credulity is nil.Someone will take the bait and let you carry out your social experiment, but I to call out the obvious. You are a man.
>>85163694>he asks for nudesfembot, that is when you block the moid...
>>85163708this actually happened to me, i was so bothered by it that i literally came back to r9k to post this>>85163706usually the guys i talk to are less demanding and more considerate, and i was coming out of my femcel phase
>>85163694>asks for nudesDo you have anything else to offer
>>85163694what kind of server was it, was it a vidya server, do you like vidya, if so which?
>>85163727>and i was coming out of my femcel phaseStfu
>>85163727It is noted that you only addressed the veracity of the story.
>>85163694>discuck serverthere's your problem. I have never once met any man who goes into discord servers and is actually a good or nice person, like I'm a guy and I can't even be friends with those faggots.
>>85163694girl, no moid like that is worth pandering todont bother with guys who ask for nudes and initiate sexual shit so early into the connection, theyre just using you>didn't know if he even saw me as a person and not just my bodyclearly youre just a toy to him.imo go for kinky but shy inhibited guys. those are scared to be inappropriate so you need to reassure them a bit but atleast they respect you and want to get to know you first. seeking instant validation from manwhores will just damage your self worth in the longterm. if youre adamant about turning on absolute randoms post yourself on /soc/ atleast there men will worship you instead of being unthankful greedy bastards.
>>85163731Used to play lol until discord became mandatory for competitive play. I'd rather not having everything with a cock trying to rizz me up.
>>85163694ok but how thick are you?
>be me>still share a server with this guy>i joined it to meet new people>now i have to watch this guy flirt with other women and act like he's a normal person>he's rarely in the chat, but for a moment he was the life of it>i'm avoiding him in chat so things don't get awkward>the thought of him finding someone else and treating them nicely made me jealous>i don't even really like him>he hates me after the breakup, he even unfriended me>seeing him is a reminder of how maybe it didn't have to be that way, maybe he didn't have to be inconsiderate, maybe i didn't have to be alone>how am i supposed to face him normally, even just in passing now that he hates me?
>>85163763what rank were you, i soloq and no one uses voice in randoms, i mean even 2 moids would probably use voice if they are duo
>>85163767does the op pic look thick to you? if i was thick i would have posted camilla>>85163729i don't even know, but i did try to talk to him about normal things, although to him it probably read more like an obstacle to getting what he really wanted, usually i don't even know what to talk about, but i was more talkative than i normally am with him
>>85163694why do you identify with tharja
>>85163763And yet here you are, making this thread with a focus on your relationship, which will like blood to wolves or sharks, draw out people like >>85163767 posting their kawaii-uguu~ girls hoping you look like them and mind-broken simps like >>85163761 yaass-queening you on some reverse psych shit.I hate this fucking planet. You made a mistake trying to have fun and be open. Sorry that happened to you. Some new nigga will be up to bat in record time, though, as they are ever.
>>85163793you said you sent nudes and that was where i stopped reading but i only like thick girls
>>85163768>treating them nicelyhe wont lol that bastard shitmoid only knows how to use women for pleasure>maybe it didn't have to be that wayit was always going to be that way, he is human garbagedont lament someone like that. he is uncapable of love.youre not unloveable and youre not unwanted, stop giving yourself away for free to men who dont even see you as human just to feel something. youre just destroying yourself if you continue
Look I'm a male but that guy is just a loser who wanted to use for his wexuak gratification. He didn't care about you at all. You owed him no explanation for "breaking up" (you should have just blocked him way earlier). You should get some self esteem and stop giving a shit about some random guy. Dick is cheap and plentiful.
>>85163694Y'all retards are being unhelpful as hell, this is clearly a case of porn addiction. It's like weed, If you jack off too many times too often (like almost everyday 24/7, which sounds like what he's dealing with), eventually you're gonna get used to the feeling and therefore it's not as pleasurable when you do it, which leads to you trying to find more and more stuff to jack off to, sometimes to the point of pulling shit like this, but it's never enough. He's practically built up such a strong tolerance to orgasms that he no longer can tell if he's having one anymore.Nona, try convincing him to take a break from the gooning for a little bit, and if it works, the problem will go away on it's own.
And that new nigga is me, hey OP. Can I have your discord under the presumption that you're a female only to be surprised that you're a fat brown indian male?
>>85163803im not a simp lol im a man hating woman trying to save other women from the grubby disgusting hands of dickbrained moids.
>>85163761>>85163694>imo go for kinky but shy inhibited guys. those are scared to be inappropriate so you need to reassure them a bit but atleast they respect you and want to get to know you first.this, they are very polite and take thing slow so you have some sort of real relationship
>>85163761yeah, it was a trap, i just assumed we would get to know eachother and it'd be worthwhile, but it was a gamble>>85163794i've been playing fire emblem awakening recently and tharja seems relatable, she's my second self insert after fem robin>>85163803the person you're replying to isn't me>>85163814good for you i guess>>85163817probably, it even shows in the way he talks, it's easy to mistake it for confidence, but it's more like arrogance and one-track mindedness>>85163761you're rightit'd be easier to just forget and ignore him if i didn't have to worry about seeing him again>>85163850i don't really know how to make a connection with people, especially when it's what i'm looking for, i don't see how one goes from "hi, how are you" to strangers to, actually liking eachother in a friendly, romantic and sexual way
>>85163694>he's interesting, everything's okay so farThis is the part where I always fail. Femcels always tell me I'm boring/passive/submissive and that it stresses them out. How do I become interesting like those abusechads? I don't care about nudes but I want to feel loved.
You gonna post the fuckin nudes or what???
>>85163881at first he was direct enough that i knew i could go for it, and restrained enough that i didn't feel pressured, and it was the first day we talked, all of this went down in like a week>>85163899on 4chan? no lmao
>>85163833Keep fighting the good fight. I want these fools to feel shame. If you cannot get someone in your general vicinity to like you, then you should not take to the internet where you get to obfuscate and misrepresent shit to try finding someone.>>85163879I am >>85163803 and my bad for replying to the wrong person.
>>85163879How're you liking Awakening? Was pretty big into fire emblem in middle school. I could be your friend if you like, femanon.
>>85163879>mistake it for confidence, but it's more like arrogance and one-track mindednesscorrect. it's easy to confuse those two if you're not as experienced, don't blame yourself too much. you know better for the future now>"hi, how are you" to strangers to, actually liking eachother in a friendly, romantic and sexual wayusually people start with trying to find similarities, shared interests or experiences for example. media and games you like, hobbies, life goals, childhood, general view on life etc etc. intimacy is built by feeling understood and safe, this requires you being knowledgable about each other.if you feel like you got the basics down (shared interests and experiences) you can move on to general view on certain topics, sending memes, spending time together by watching shows or playing games (ofc these activities can be done in earlier stages as well).think about what traits you like in people and what you *dont* want for yourself. at first you might not even know what those traits are but with spending more time with different kinds of people you'll know.dont rush things, make sure you feel safe and know the person youre talking to is a proper human being before you lean into romance and sexual things. im not going to police you if youre looking for quick fun but i dont think thats your goal anyway.if you need any more information feel free to ask, i am very dedicated to this topic since ive had to figure out all of this myself and got hurt several times. if i can prevent even a small amount of hurt with the information i provide, im happy to do so
>>85163916Sftu white nighting queer
>>85163881confidence and expressing what you wantwant to spend more time with her? suggest activitieswant to get to know her better? ask interesting questionswant to stop being boring? sell yourself as interesting, know your passions and talk about themcant do any of that? then get to work and research/brainstorm on how to do these things.
>>85163981You might try spelling a word right if you want me to feel insulted for myself and not pity for some casualty of the public education system. You are dregs, rat fuck.
>>85164010Still beat the filter newfag
>>85163997You have never been in a relationship your entire life. Queer
>>85164020All things considered, yeah, you deserve credit. Pretty original, not going to lie.>>85164033nice dubz
>>85163694Sorry to hear that happened to you, but genuinely that sounds very abusive. If he was at least thankful for them, but just demanding them and then saying "wtf you aren't making porn of yourself fast enough for me on demand" is just cruel.You gotta filter out who you talk to, don't be afraid to just block or no-contact leave people, it's the internet, it's the aspect of it that's easier, i imagine. Don't really know i never really had any social interactions in my life except for 1 that ended up horribly, but yeah. Stay safe.
>>85163915>>85163997I see. Thanks for the answers. So basically it's all about being confident, proactive and having low inhibition. Shy introverted guys really are at the biggest disadvantage when it comes to flirting with women huh.
>>85164087>shy introvert guysGenuinely just stop being a dork and larp yourself into being fun to talk to. Life is super fucking easy if you can just pretend to be chill.
>>85164104Well, I'm not good at larping but I'll try my best.
>>85164087>Shy introverted guys really are at the biggest disadvantage when it comes to flirting with women huh.i mean, you asked about how to be less boring/passive/submissive.you can be shy and introverted but still interesting and somewhat proactive. But yeah if youre not gonna get the ball rolling you'll need to find a woman who takes over that job
>>85164139Makes sense, yeah.>you'll need to find a woman who takes over that jobProbably never gonna happen, I've noticed women heavily dislike taking the initiative. I'll try a few more times to larp and if it still doesn't work I think I'll just give up on relationships, it's just way too complicated
>>85163938the game is fun, i accidentally married chrom, i was moving in that direction, but checking out supports with other guys too, apparently the game just does that lol>>85163973that makes sense, the person i felt the most understood and safe with was my best friend, and that dynamic was created by happenstance>>85164087the thing is i'm shy too, i'm not going to just assume i can directly flirt with a guy, and the last few times i had a crush it didn't work out well>>85164085i vented about this guy while the situation was happening and somebody told me to ghost him, it helps that other people can see it more clearly
>>85164420>the game is fun, i accidentally married chrom, i was moving in that direction, but checking out supports with other guys too, apparently the game just does that lolOh yeah. Yeah Chrom's the only one who does that though, for story reasons he needs to marry lol. Think he married Sumia on my first playthrough
