Around two years or so ago I would come to the chans and I would find a woman and we'd be completely obsessed with each other. We'd be in contact constantly throughout the day and share good and bad moments, photos and memes, songs and moments. We would yap, and if you forgot your phone in the other room and came back you had 10 missed pings on discord. We would have our own little customs and rituals, spending time deep into the night talking about the dumbest shit and becoming embarrassed like teenagers. And we'd be inseperable.It was really nice. We even met up irl and had beautiful weeks together. Now I return to the chans, and every single girl left is either - extremely depressed but also doesn't want to lock in and fix her shit regardless of help, love and care.- pure attention-hungry low-stakes dopamine farming giving you a fun 15 minutes followed by the most boring and dry texting you've had since talking to your family about christmas, and she will never reply to your texts anymore a day later.- cptsd fawning like crazy making you think she was beaten a day after being born only to disappear for 2 weeks right after the most intimate chat you've had all week.- lolcows that have been coming and going for months or years, usually coupled with an extreme ED.- and every single one is anxious-avoidant, period.What the fuck happened to all the toxic-obsessive vampire girls, I miss you bitches.
So she didn't move in with you?
They all got married and the remains are here with you right now
>>85579858>What the fuck happened to all the toxic-obsessive vampire girlsMarried and/or dead atp. The ones still lurking here are either:>Absolute sludge bottom of the barrel, insufferable>Late Gen Z/Alpha, insufferable.
>>85579863No, we both agreed from the start that we were emotionally unavailable for anything real. It was mutual. Tragic, but a really nice kind of pain.
>>85579870It does seem like the younger gens have some serious mental and social issues. I want to go back.
How are people meeting on this hellhole of a site? I have never seen even a hint of this in the years I have been here and no I will not download discuck.
>>85579992>and no I will not download discuck.answered your own question award
>>85579858They still exist, they just each have a small simp army on their discords so they arent on here anymore other than to post bait threads that most people can see through but the simple minded incels still gobble up with a spoon, its a snake eating itsself moment
>>85579858Bat mentioned!
>>85579992>how do people meet>no not the obvious and true answer, clearly i know better>why am i still alone waaaah
>>85580032>this happens about 943255 times a day on this entire board>it will keep repeating
>>85579992Through soc I suppose. >>85580017I don't know, my obsessive girls used to be very infatuated with 1 person at a time. They don't seem like the new generation who are afraid of intimacy and only want short distractions. These summergirls use dating like tiktok.>>85580024<3
>>85579858>around two years or so ago I would come to the chans and find a man pretending to be a woman>now I return to the chans and every single girl left is a man pretending to be a woman
>>85579858And what happened to all that "obsessiveness"? If that's not pointless dopamine seeking I don't know what it
>>85580368>I don't know what itmajor spelling mistake
>>85580049>my obsessive girls used to be>plural, past tense>only want short distractions
I mean I also want a bf from here and soc is either normies or r9k men either don't add or aren't european
>>85579858Lol. This site has been on a downward trend for years now. Like we occasionally get younger people using it but a vast majority are mid 20s all the way up to like early 40s
>>85580334The trannification of 4chan should be studied.>>85580368What do you think? We burned bright and crashed into the moon. It's not just a short dopamine hit, it's all-consuming dependency that hijacks your entire neurochemistry. I love it.
>>85580388get out of here Roz, go back to being insulted in one of your 4 threads or w/e
>>85580400Hedonistic nonsense That's not true obsessiveness
>>85580382We aren't all emotionally ready for marriage, sorry.>>85580388There are enough european and UK girls, and as a fembot you have it twice as easy anyway.>>85580395Right, it's notable. The kids aren't alright.
>>85579858I had a number of cute and kind e-gfs from this board and 4chan in general over the last two decades, but I feel like most of them died from the covid vaxx or something because they all disappeared after that. Now all you get are trannies trolling as women posting bait threads, and brainrotten e-whores with giga bpd.
>>85580420I think it is obsessiveness, it's just not infinite. But what really is. It's still the kind of experience that you can get a lot more often and a lot easier online by texting than irl. I know most of you guys around here fell for a girl online after just a single evening chatting before, so don't act so god damn orthodox.>>85580454Thanks for confirming, the quality of women has really gone downhill.
>>85580437Well I haven't found that many euro anons from r9k willing to chat. Also as a woman you have to deal with people being upset when ypu reject them
>>85580471Try soc? It's the same for men. My stalker ex would only stop after around a month of creating new accounts. Ig as a women you do have to reject more guys, so it adds up.
>>85580514I understand and I am sorry anon has she stopped. Well I try soc but alot of people there are normies
>>85580469It's not That defeats the very point of it. It's all a roleplay for you.The fact that what you're more fixated on is "obsessiveness" on its own while you run through people is very telling in itself
>>85580523Yeah, that was over a year ago. I wonder where she is now. What are you even looking for?>>85580539It's not roleplay. We can call it love if you'd like. Obsession is just a catchy way to describe the type of love.
>>85580564I know people get upset when someone says high iq but yeah I want someone who is good at conversation and intellectually curious. And I am a language snob so I want someone from a country I like the language of like scadis, others aswell just scandis also act less rude and I like the phenotype
>>85580612I'm unsure how many handsome, active, intelligent, educated, well-adjusted scandiavian men roam r9k, but I feel this isn't the right hunting ground for you.
>>85580471West Euro or East Euro?
>>85580049>I don't know, my obsessive girls used to be very infatuated with 1 person at a time.they're still here they're just not obsessing over you
>>85580666Sad but true. Still, I hope so. Toxic relationships and sketchy meetups are the social drug this world needs to heal.
>>85579992I used to talk to girls from here over skype and discord but now that discuck is a fed honeypot that demands and leaks your ID I deleted my account. I had a little luck with email but it's tedious. Signal is kinda nice but hardly anyone uses it. I need to see if Fluxer has gotten better, they didn't even have a mobile app last time I messed with it a few months ago. I pretty much just gave up on talking to girls on the internet because they're all retards that don't care about privacy and are happy to let companies spy on them or steal their information.
>>85580727They grew up with instagram, snapchat and tiktok, what do you expect
>>85580636Well I just intelligent and attractive to me (skinny has hair ) is enough. but yeah I can't stand normies since even though this place is demoralising and low iq sometimes atleast there is less forced positivity. Well I choose to be optimistic and keep trying.
>>85580817It's really bizarre to me. I grew up in the pre-internet era and never posted pics of myself on any public platform. I don't even like people taking private photographs of me. The need for attention that people have these days, but especially females, is insane to me.I'm just an autist who wishes he was living alone on a wooded mountain though.
>>85580841Yeah, the raw convos you have here are something you can't find in most other places. I fit your criteria, but I doubt you fit mine, I'm just letting you know that you definitely can find someone here if you just enjoy the ride.>>85580848And now they all learn to mask online from a young age, and everyone burns out. Hope you get your cottage one day, I dream of something similar.
>>85580884>Hope you get your cottage one day, I dream of something similar.Thanks, anon. I'm wageslaving in urban hell for the next two years so I can save money and buy some land in the middle of nowhere. The last 35 years of suffering normie society was all for those couple acres on a hillside. I just want to build myself a tiny japanese style house with natural materials and my own hands. Have some sheep and goats. Live like they did 200 years ago.I hope you find your rural paradise too.
it feels like most women on this board now just post because they know the moment they mention they're a foid it gives them responses. I've already seen some of them hijack a thread about someone else and make it about themselves looking for someone to talk on discord
>>85580973One of the least interesting subgroups, yeah. It does seem like the main type of girl that's still around too. It's just hopeless, they use it like a slot machine, getting their kicks and then fucking back off.
>>85580992probably because they're scared of the reputation that the big bad ol 4chan has behind it. they larp being edgy without really understanding the point of it all.
>>85581020Maybe, but also because they compartmentalize it into this weird subspace that they won't really take serious from the start. They don't post to find people, they post to find entertainment.
>>85580884Yeah cause telling bitter truths of every aspect of life is looked down on in other places along with being anon making people want to less project a specific image of myself. Oh I thought you were another anon, are you swedish or norwegian. Yeah I understand it dw. Haha hard to enjoy it sometimes when the monotropic thinking of mine makes me a boring poster
>>85579858>extremely depressed but also doesn't want to lock in and fix her shit regardless of help, love and care>cptsd fawning like crazy making you think she was beaten a day after being born only to disappear for 2 weeks right after the most intimate chat you've had all week>and every single one is anxious-avoidant, period.Literally me.
>>85581101shut up, you vapid attention whore
>>85581119You could have just ignored me and not provided the attention you claim I am seeking.>whoreI'm a virgin and a man. Of course you only replied because you thought I was a woman, kys.
>>85580884>I doubt you fit mineWhat are they
>>85581086That's true, social media has become so vapid and performative. And no, I'm not scandinavian, Ig I don't fit that criteria after all. You're not boring though, thanks for being here.>>85581101It's not a bad description of the quintessential 18/f girl, right?
>>85581143as if you can't be a man-whore, dipshitsybau, attention whore
>>85581101Real, the last couple girls I talked to on here love bombed me for months, made plans to move in with me, eventually get married and have kids, but then ghosted me. Feels like they use people in a similar manner to AI chatbots or something just to enact a fantasy, then run away when it gets too real.
>>85581145Who knows, they seem to change from girl to girl. I do like redheads the most.>>85581166How much did you help them out financially during those months? Could've been a scam.
>>85581198>How much did you help them out financially during those months?Not at all. I don't give or spend money on girls until we've been together IRL for at least a year or two, or she gave me babies.
>>85581216Then I'll just take it as more evidence of the downhill trend of the quality of girls on 4chan, thank you.
>>85581250The quality of people online and IRL in general is getting worse.
>>85581323Or maybe we're just getting better at seeing people for who they truly are.Nope.Women on 4chan need to learn to be toxic-obsessive again. These are the kind of relationships books are written and entire empires are built on.
>>85581354what kind of toxicity would you accept, anon?
>>85581378Love is that you are the knife which I turn within myself.
>>85579858>What the fuck happened to all the toxic-obsessive vampire girlsI think I've found a good one, but I said that the last time I got love bombed into oblivion, then cut-off. So we will see
>>85581465>this girl will totally be different everyone, believe me!keep coping, brother
>>85581465Alrighty, good luck, return her back into rotation when your private universe gets swallowed up. Enjoy <3
I have a headache but maybe I can vc later in a european late twenties woman way Cannotpickanametochoose
>>85581488stop hijacking every thread, hoe
>>85581158Notice how you didn't say "you can be a whore as a man" or "you can be a man and a whore" or anything similar. No, you used "man-whore" which is what you would have used in your previous post had you thought I was a man. Kill yourself.
>>85581522well, maybe you shouldn't talk like a foid then, anon. maybe you should learn to speak like a man, anon.
