Where are the KHHV autistic nerdy shut ins I've been hearing about? I don't want to date any other type of man because I don't think I can relate to anyone else on the deeper level I desire. I've made a few posts on /soc/ with my info stating this and all the replies have been variations of:>i'm 6'0 and 7/10 and a pretty confident outgoing guy and may have had a gf in the past hahaI apologise for being ungrateful but I just don't want that. I'm not attracted to it. It sounds like bait but I'm honest. Do they feel they have to impress me? If you feel like you have to be a 'normie' then we aren't compatible, sorry. I just want someone who's comfortable being an outcast and a bit of a loser but still desires a companion. Is this just a naive fantasy? I suppose it's picky in itself and I have some criteria aside from being a loser but I don't think it's that restrictive, and I'm very far from a catch myself so I know I can't demand much. If I can't have this then I'm fine with not dating even if I end up as a cat lady.
>>85681220hi, im a virgin short dude, hello
>>85681239I wish it was as easy as just talking to someone online but I'm limited by only being able to date in my country for a few reasons. Probably the biggest limit on my options.
>>85681220well youre gonna get what you want now with all the retards who will respond to this and joyfully become your orbiters
>>85681263I can't really e-date so that's not going to happen. I just wanna know where I can find someone like this somewhere nearby but if they're anything like me they're a hermit with no social media and no social life.
>>85681254where are you from, then?oregano
I am nowhere. I am an outcast even in the outcast site because I am a nonwhite thirdie. It truly is joever.
>>85681220bait aside, 4chan and r9k are full of normalfags now, big surprise.There are some actual robots left, but good luck convincing one that you are genuine.
>>85681220is this the part where I proclaim myself to be exactly what you're looking for, eagerly dropping my contact info for a brief moment of hopeful splendor, only to suffer through another cruel night of forlorn hope, praying, but ultimately knowing better, that you are a real woman who made this request in good faith?
>>85681271No, England (for better or for worse). My parents are quite emotionally dependent on me and all of my other siblings left home so I have to be there for them. I don't have much independence. >>85681280I promise I'm not baiting, I can post my arm or something.
>>85681287>I promise I'm not baiting, I can post my arm or somethingtimestamp as well
>>85681300Is this good?
>>85681287>My parents are quite emotionally dependent on me and all of my other siblings left home so I have to be there for them. I don't have much independenceLiterally me. It feels like a death sentence for having any future.If you were in my country I'd be tentatively interested, but unfortunately you are not.
>>85681336yeah good enough ig. you said local to your area of england but can you tolerate someone across the very small sea to the west side of england? not the pacific
>>85681336>Shitskin arm
losers are stacy only
sorry. the hope is gone. I don't even want women anymore.
>>85681383Yeah. I know only wanting to date local is killing my options but there's nothing I can do. As much as I want this they come first.>>85681384Ireland? >>85681387Another one
>>85681416Well that's fair. I can't blame you. Besides, on my end I am starting to think that spending most of my life only attracted to fictional characters instead of real people has warped my desires and expectations. 2D may genuinely be the way to go.
>>85681417correct countryorganlio
>>85681434I think that's still a bit out of the way unfortunately. I know I'm not making this easier for myself with such a strict location but if I could have more flexibility I would. That's why I want to try and see where I can find these types in local areas, but like I said earlier I doubt they're leaving their homes or on social media.
>>85681571>I think that's still a bit out of the way unfortunatelyshiiiiiiiiiiiiiiitso close yet so far from attaining a fembot
>>85681287how old are you? I'm from england but probably too old
>>85681220I post here every day but you wouldn't want me because I'm short and autistic.
>>85681286Online dating is retarded.
>>85681220proving I'm an autistic loser by dropping my email just in case you check this thread tomorrowkoalapepper773 @ proton.me
>>85681881I'm sorry, I wish I could make longer distance relationships work but I'm so restricted when my family are so dependent on me for their wellbeing. My mum breaks down most nights if she's on her own. I can't go far.>>85681913Almost 22. Ideally I would want someone in the same range, no older than 26ish but I could be flexible. I would just feel a bit weird about it at first if they were a bit older. >>85681918I have never cared much about height and I feel far more comfortable with autistic people than anyone else (not diagnosed but there's a very good chance I'm on the spectrum). To an extent though, a fair chunk of autistics I've met were a bit more low functioning and I felt like I was talking down to them. Height is something I never put much thought into and I don't understand why it's such a dealbreaker. I can't deny the fetishistic appeal of a man who towers over you but there's nothing that detracts from attractiveness if you are short.
>>85682036>I can't deny the fetishistic appeal of a man who towers over you but there's nothing that detracts from attractiveness if you are short.women will say this but then I will wake up as a 45 year old virgin one day
>>85681220I'm an unattractive loser man. No women want me. But also your types usually are creepy conservatives who stereotype us as alt right incels, and refuse to accept the many incels who are left wing progressives. Also it's creepy to only want KHHV men. I want to be accepted by a woman but she shouldn't be some weird virginal conservative who only wants me because I don't have a body count. Like, sure, I don't. But that shouldn't matter. Just like it shouldn't matter that I'm white. I want someone who would accept me even if I was a black or Indian man with a body count in the triple digits. Because that shit shouldn't matter. Fuck your conservatism.
>>85681220Im a schizoid kv, but I also am a deviant. You would hate me if you knew what I was aroused hu
>>85682044Well I'm saying what I truly feel and that's that height isn't factored into the equation for me nowhere near as much as other women. I care way more about body type.>>85682052I want a KHHV man because I'm a KHHV too and it would put me off a little if you had dated before because I want us to be each others firsts, and because the type of person I'm ideally looking for isn't the type to have been in a prior relationship. I'm a socially averse loner and I want that in a man, it's what I find attractive. >>85682062I don't mind deviancy, but it depends what kind. People genuinely into things like extreme physical harm or submissiveness freak me out but I do have a few Deviantart tier fetishes myself.
>>85682036>My mum breaks down most nights if she's on her own.this just sounds like emotional manipulation, if anything.
>>85682036>I can't go far.people can... come to you?
>>85681997>>85682036I do fit your criteria pretty much, apart from the age. I'm english, autistic, loner, rarely leave the house ever and wouldn't expect you to work or be a normie. My ideal life would be as far away from other people as possible.
>>85682108>it would put me off a little if you had dated before because I want us to be each others firsts, and because the type of person I'm ideally looking for isn't the type to have been in a prior relationshipThis is dumb stereotyping conservative bullshit. Just proving even more that KHHV women are nothing but conservative creeps, there's no point in dating a woman who doesn't at least have a double digit body count
>>85682121LDRs never work ever, ask the 100s of people on this site who have had them
>>85682109Well yeah she is pretty manipulative. Probably has a touch of BPD and bullies me more than I'm comfortable with but when she's breaking down every other day and calling me four times a day even when we have nothing to say it's obvious she needs an emotional crutch and I can't just leave her. She refuses to go to therapy.>>85682121I alternate between living in either of my parent's homes, neither would be happy with someone new living in. My sister had the perfect boyfriend, literally cooked dinner for the family most nights, and my mum still didn't like him staying most nights because it meant more food was being ate, more water in the showers and he was hairy. I have to pay rent too so it wouldn't be cheap for him.>>85682135Out of curiosity how old are you? I think I could extend to 30 before I think it's a little out of my league.>>85682139Retard
>>85682146I'm 31, but I understand if its too big of a gap. I'm not balding at least.
>>85682146>RetardNah, you conservatives are the real retards. A man is simply wasting his time if he's doing shit with a woman who has a body count below double digits.
>>85682159and I'd rather be friends first, I don't want to rush into anything
>>85682146my ex was irish (I know, I'm not here to be a candidate, I live way too far anyway) and she got treated pretty much the same way as you are right now. wasn't allowed to go anywhere without her mom's supervision, spamcalled at the drop of a hat, mentally abused at home, meanwhile all the siblings had already moved out. she was 24 and got treated like a child, which most definitely lead to her becoming BPD by proxy. my suggestion would be for you to simply move out, despite the inevitable explosive outburst she'll have. I can guarantee that you don't wanna carry this burden on your shoulders for the rest of your life.
>>85682146>Well yeah she is pretty manipulative. Probably has a touch of BPD and bullies me more than I'm comfortable with but when she's breaking down every other day and calling me four times a day even when we have nothing to say it's obvious she needs an emotional crutch and I can't just leave her. She refuses to go to therapy.>I alternate between living in either of my parent's homes, neither would be happy with someone new living in. My sister had the perfect boyfriend, literally cooked dinner for the family most nights, and my mum still didn't like him staying most nights because it meant more food was being ate, more water in the showers and he was hairy. I have to pay rent too so it wouldn't be cheap for him.Not any of the anons in this thread, but you need to fuck off from there YESTERDAY.Your mother is literally your enemy. She will devour your life entirely and you will never, ever, find happiness of any kind if you don't radically alter course ASAP.Feel free to ignore me. I'm just a random nobody on the mongolian basket weaving forum.My mom is like yours. I fucked off from home at age 16. My brother (age 17) hated me for it and my sister (age 15) refused to come with me. Fast forward 10 years, I'm the only of the three who is somewhat functional. My older brother finally left that hellhole last month.Please, do not let this happen to you as well. Take the personal financial disaster now at 22 (??!) rather than take the financial, personal, mental and health disaster that it's guaranteed to befall upon you in a decade or more.
>didn't add me fml I hope you find happiness femanon
>>85682159>>85682169I'm really sorry but I don't think the age gap is something I could feel comfortable with. I don't know anyone outside of family older than like 25 and I'm a bit of an irony poisoned zoomer. >>85682190>>85682222I wish I could move out but my savings are small and dwindling due to monthly rent, I got laid off at the start of the year and I've been applying for multiple jobs daily but got nothing. If I cut her off and only stayed at my dads then she would come round and demand to see me because she lives five minutes away in the same village and he lets her do what she wants when it comes to me and my siblings. I'd see her out and about. My cousins/aunts/uncles are all strangers and there's some family lore I don't know about where they dislike my family, my grandparents passed and I only have one friend. My one hope is that friend discussing us renting an apartment together when she goes full time and settles at her new job but it will be years until then. Thank you for the concern though. I wish I could leave. I'm glad you got out though anon.>>85682233>>85681997This you? Sorry I missed your reply. I'll email tomorrow I'm tired.Anyway, I'm going bed. I think I've learnt that I should sort out my home situation first. If the type of person I want is someone who is usually across the ocean then it'll have to wait until I'm ready. I just wanted to experience youthful love before it was too late.
>>85682259>savings are small and dwindling due to monthly rentRefuge. Any DV shelter. I'm serious!You are being systematically destroyed by a domestic abuser. You can't take YEARS of this abuse. I mean... you can... but the price is way bigger than you realize. Not experiencing youthful love is the least of your concerns.
>>85681997added to gay dating sites
>>85681220Same I'm only attracted to losers and want nothing to do with a normalfaggot. I temporary downloaded a dating app but deleted it because there are too many normies.I have a crush on this guy IRL, just because he was nice to me and I'm pretty sure he's a lonely shut-in, however there a few things holding me back from wanting to establish a relationship with him even though I so badly want him and dream about him.
what an asinine thread. it's obvious you don't actually intend on dating anyone
>>85682890You give me hope
>>85682890That's nice, what attracted you to him?
you cant be a loser forever bills have to be paid. sure I would love to be a neet and play league all day but once I find a gf and eventually have kids I dont want my kids or wife to live in poverty.
>>85682890What's your opinion if I used to be a shut in (gaming 50 hours a week and only leaving the house to buy groceries), but have been trying to talk to people irl more recently, with some success. Aside from that, I'm still KHHV, 20, and in England
>>85681287>No, EnglandAbsolute trash. Discarded
>>85683290Dating anyone on this board? No, I made that clear because of my situation. The intent was to ask for any places where they may be, like if that type of person goes to libraries, conventions, etc.>>85683316We would have to work yes, NEET here was meant as a descriptor. >>85683946It depends. It would completely put me off if a man started to fall in with normies and get invited to parties, holidays with the lads etc then not for me. If he has the kind of friends where they get together to play DND, I'd be happy for him. I just really resent 'normal' people and all of that behaviour.>>85683963So? I was never dating anyone outside of this country anyway so it doesn't matter what you think. I'm already trash for being like this anyway. You don't have to factor my ethnicity in to make that conclusion.
>>85681220Add wkwkwkwww on discord
A shame you don't live in Poland. Your description mirrors what I've been looking for. Given my decade of depression and self-isolation, my small-town upringing, my interests in gardening and plants and foraging, my complete lack of social and career ambitions- a normie girl just wouldn't be happy with me. I wish for a girl who's also an outcast, someone who will want long walks in the forests and fields or making pancakes with homemade jam rather than big parties or international tourism. Someone who doesn't care about the normie 'life trajectory and milestones'.
>>85684138I am actually going to play D&D for the first time this weekend.From personal experience, I almost never went outside, and even at school or uni I would go straight home after finishing my day. I'm more outgoing now, since I realised talking to people and potentially finding a date irl would make my life better.
>>85681220i used to be like that, then just got tired of everything. ive tried a bunch, had sex, etc. and now im just a jaded old fuck
>>85681220You could say there's a catch-22 in this whole situation, as soon as these supposed loners place themselves in situations where you can reach them then that means they most likely weren't the kind of person you were looking for to begin with.
borderline narcs want a lonely loser so he stays with them despite their abuse and cheating
>>85684166>discordNot using that groomer site.>>85684168That sounds lovely. I hope you can find someone like that soon anon. >>85684253I'd go straight home too. The one time I did go to the local high street to buy a book, some girls in my classes started laughing and filming. Anyway, what part of the country are you from? I'm not far from London.>>85684726I get why it comes off that way but my reasoning is I want someone who is on the same playing field. I've spent my whole life being looked down on, being unable to understand and connect with regular people, I don't want anything to do with someone who's 'above' me. I don't like their lifestyle and I can't fathom myself ever doing any of these 'normal' things like hanging out in a group or going for nights out. I want someone who is also content with not being able to be like that and is happy to just be together, spend nights in, go for dinner and not care for any social posturing, so on.
>>85681220i also just want a sweet KHHV nerdy shut in but they all seem to either have fetishes for women who look nothing like me or theyre just mean.
>>85684778where do you happen to be from, nona?
>>85684778I just cant believe someone would want someone like me
>>85684778we prefer normal average girls like pic rel!
>>85684749I'm near London as well, I can give you my (burner) email if you want to talk more, and potentially meet up, but no pressure if it doesn't go anywhere/ we don't connect. I have actually met girls from 4chan in real life before, and it did go well, though they were taken so not an option romantically.
I wish i was british or american like you guys so i could date a nice 4chan girl
>>85685139literally just a lie, maybe romantically thats what you want but men always have fetishes for women who look totally different from who theyd date for some reason
