I used to use /soc/ and the nsfwtwt tag on twitter to find girls to sext with. It was fairly effective a couple years ago, but it seems to me like /soc/ is even more male-dominated these days, while nsfwtwt has gone downhill since Musk took over; I've decided to stop using it entirely since they ask for age verification to view nsfw stuff now. Just wondering if anyone knows of any alternatives for today's world.
>>34336369a lot of the women have been scared off or discouraged from posting due to mostly bad experiences
>>34336374Yeah that figures, I wouldn't want to mess around with the average channer either. Although for any girls reading this, I'm totally a cool and normal guy who just happens to be a pervert, heh
>>34336374This. Every single woman I've spoken too that posted themselves and was sane enough for me to speak to for more then 5 minutes universally complains that they get flooded with adds, most of which are just dick pic spammers. Most of them just lurk so it's just men posting and hoping a woman adds them and isn't a seller or a catfish.
>>34336434Unluckily the truth, it Just sucks that it has come this way, and it sucks even more Being a 'normal' Person Just looking for a Chat, havent been Here for Long, but from what i've Seen i can agree
Real ewhores or catfishes? For money or for free? Over 18 or under 18?leddit still has ewhores last I checked.
>>34336369There's a few on here
>>34336434Yeah that's always been the dynamic, it's just that I used to get adds somewhat regularly when I would post, but recently I've posted several times and gotten nothing>>34336514Guess my wording was ambiguous. I meant real, not for pay, and of course over 18
I think this is my boyfriend
>>34337349I can assure you it's not lol, I don't have a gf. I feel bad for the guy though, you seem very paranoid
>>34336374>>34336406>>34336434>>34337347Almost all the female posters I've spoken to here over the years have horrid, entitled personalities and clearly expect you to a perfect hypermasculine caricature before they'll even talk to you normally. It doesn't justify outright harassment or mean they need to respond to everyone who adds them (which in fairness, is indeed impossible) but a lot of guys here are only abusive to femanons with provocation
>>34337497what is your explanation to the ones outside of "almost all" then?
>>34337510Sometimes if you share mutual interests you can establish common ground fast, but that kind of shitty, entitled mentality is still usually lurking in the background and that kills any real desire for me to put in more effort or "prove myself" (which is clearly what they expect in almost every case).Basically female posters here sexually objectify themselves in advance and treat every male who adds them as a "success" object, never understanding that their own mentality and behaviour is preventing them from getting into a satisfying relationship. The ones who add you are usually normal though, because there's none of the insufferable pretence that they don't want to talk to you lmao
>>34337553what do you mean by "proving" yourself?i will agree that it's better for women here to add men who post rather than post themselves, but exceptions can always be made
>>34337553maybe you just have an insufferable personality that puts off women like a bad odor
>>34337590There's usually an expectation that you meet some arbitrary criteria of physical attractiveness, intellectual prowess and economic security before they'll interact with you normally. I can forgive that to some degree if you're serious about finding a life partner but... it's a fucking Discord DM!>>34337622I assure you it's always the foids who start shit with me first, even when I'm perfectly polite and respectful.
>>34337630>it's always their fault, not mine Most people will just disengage. Clearly you are doing something to rile them for that to be commonplace.
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>>34338911>Most people will just disengage.I'm specifically referring to the ones who don't.>Clearly you are doing something to rile them for that to be commonplace.I assure you I'm not, most (not all) female posters I've spoken to here are just worthless, entitled narcissists. That's a shame but it's not my fault.
>>34338945>worthless, entitled narcissists. That's a shame but it's not my fault.i'm wary of people who call all the other people around them narcs
i quit posting because even in sfw threads you just get added by psychos that stalk and harass you from alts then they post your username in other places. if i ever want to experience 'sorry i forgot where i added you from' again i'll come back to posting tho
>>34339186so do you just lurk or
Chickn is a very nice e-girl, she VCs with me and I want to marry her, she even has a whole server of fans. Contact her at chickn3@proton.me to join us.
>>34339243i check in every now and then out of habit but don't really interact with anyone anymore
>>34339345oh wellnice interacting with you
>>34339183I specifically wrote that not all of them are narcissists.>>34339186You could try posting without a contact and ask others to leave their ones instead
>>34337358sounds like something her boyfriend would say
>>34340409someone leaves their contact, i add them, they now have my username, they stalk + spam it in other placesi've tried it all before, no thanks. weirdos can sit on their dead gay sissy board
>>34341487Why do you think you in particular are targetted for harassment
>>34341514any woman who posts contact info on this website will be harassed by the same 3 unemployed freaks
>>34341533Uh huh
>>34336369The only girls stupid enough to come to 4chan to sext without money has to be underaged
>>34341533I've learned this the hard way.
>>34336369Yeah, it really blows. I really missed out by being born too late lol, can't use tinder, can't use /soc/, can't find anyone cool anywhere because other men are fucking subhuman retards and burned out all the goodwill women have, so now I'm stuck having to be hypersocial IRL and having to hit the gym to have a fighting chance with a normie chick that has next to nothing in common with me. Ah well, maybe the next woman that'll add me will be the right one....
>>34342171>because other men are fucking subhuman retards and burned out all the goodwill women haveLmao stop with this bullshit narrative, women act that way towards men now they're pampered brats.
>>34342218Nigga if every time you opened up for connection you had 10 arabs 30 indians and 25 white cunts fighting each other for your attention/sending you their cock/calling you a whore and projecting their insecurities, no shit you'd get defensive and arrogant. Grow up.
>>34342222Your pathetic simping is not going to impress any woman ITT.(nice quads though)
>>34336369dead internet
>>34342227thanks for checkin emthat aside i'm not simping and I don't intend to post my discord, that's my genuine opinion. it's just definitely obvious that this is the issue here, men are just animals who both overfed women attention, making it worthless, and also made it that rejecting a man becomes dangerous and a hassle, greatly increasing barrier to entry. it's simple economics at this point
>>34342242>men are just animals who both overfed women attention, making it worthless,I'll give you that one actually, men shouldn't gas up the egos of inferior women any more than we already have>and also made it that rejecting a man becomes dangerous and a hassle,Again, generally only with provocation. Foids here love pushing the buttons of their lonely male equivalents then playing the victim when they lash out (often taking it way too far but whatever, from my standpoint it's hard to feel any sympathy)
>>34342264if you've any worth as a man you should know better than to lash out, even when provoked. you're not some kind of shitskin tribal subhuman.if a woman is acting up in a way that makes you want to post all her pictures on 4chan, simply disengage, punch a wall or something, and don't let it get to your head.
>>34342271I don't do any of that stuff anyway, it just annoys me that there's no way to hold cunts like that to account. I obviously feel sorry for the ones who get harassed undeservedly, but I've here long enough to know that so many femanons play these games and they almost never own up to it kek
I’d love to find a female friend I could talk about lewd stuff with, in addition to non-horny discussion about common interests. But that seems rarer nowadays.