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I still don't know why you would delete your account. If you still lurk /soc/, I kinda miss you, you were nice. My disc is still trm.11
Do reach out
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I think I talked with her as well was she from the uk?
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>>34377671
>I still don't know why you would delete your account.
Possibly to get away from you and other anons. Sorry, you got ghosted.
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>>34377690
afaik yes
>>34377694
still don't get why women will tell you they're coming over then do that
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>>34377713
>still don't get why women will tell you they're coming over then do that
kek.
I'm guessing they didn't want to make things awkward by refusing or slowing things down, and as the idea slowly became that they would visit, they ghost instead of telling you it was all a lie. Or he was a tranny and the reality was that a meeting would be disaster. Ghosting is just a way of saying "no."
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>>34377983
Cowardice, then
not surprising coming from the English
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>>34377671
>>34377690
Lol I think I talked to her too. What letter does her name start with?
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>>34378419
T and it is based of a welsh name. The fact that she did talk with so many men is just disgusting.
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>>34379315
Lmao retarded schizoid finds it strange that a woman on 4chan is a whore. Or why a woman would ghost him when all he does is make soc threads with hitler reaction pics kek
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>>34377671
all foids on 4chan are ghoster attention whores quit trying
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>>34379338
I am not op, I think you are projecting hard with your post if you can't even check the id.
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>>34379315
Every foid on /soc/ is like that
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>>34379338
bait used to be believable
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I've been here for a while so I empathise with the pain of chatting with a seemingly compatible femanon then being ghosted by them, but:

Does it never occur to you guys how creepy this looks? Why would they be more likely to contact people they consciously decided to stop talking to after you shame them for it in front of everyone using this board? I just can't understand this mentality or what you're trying to accomplish.
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>>34379418
how is
>hey you were nice, where have you gone? here's my contact info back
shaming? it's not even like "she" was some microcelebrity people would recognize by "her" username or something
(she'd deserve to be shamed anyway but whatever)
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>>34379418
She lead multiple guys on only to ghost them I don't think a good person would do something like that. And she will never ever contact anyone who she talked with again. I am simply shocked that a woman who larped as a good christian girl did something like that nothing more.
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>>34379424
>still believes women (especially on /soc/) have morals in 2025
ngmi
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>>34379426
If I lose faith in all women then I can give them up completely. Not every woman is like that they are just rare.
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>>34379315
On /soc/, any F is talking to many, many males/orbiters at once. The only chance that you have that she's only talking to maybe 5-20 at a time is if she messages you directly and hasn't posted her account before.

Looking at it from a female perspective, it is easy to understand; by talking to many men at once, she keeps her options open, and it allows her to much more quickly go through all available candidates. The problem with this strategy is obvious: Her attention will be divided, ensuring a low level of investment in any particular male, and it ensures that only men who are very charismatic and persuasive at the start will receive attention from her, even if they are not, in actuality, the best. The men who are less charismatic or introverted are passed over, eliminated, or ghosted for every minor perceived mistake or flaw before she has the opportunity to determine if they really are a good candidate. If you make a single mistake, why should she invest more time when there is a guy who has not yet done so.

This is the same problem found on all dating platforms, and in dating in general.
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>>34378147
You are basically playing the lottery with hours/days/weeks instead of your one buck or whatever. There's like a 1 in 10 mil chance someone from disc is actually gonna follow through with meeting up with you. Literally magnitudes better luck going to a boomer bar unironically
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>>34379408
Its just common sense, retard. Go outside
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>>34379430
This super paranoid/autistic attitude towards talking to women is exactly why you none of you can find partners lmao. Stop overthinking it, Jesus fucking Christ
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>>34379437
But it's entirely accurate. I'm just telling anon how it works.
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>>34379454
It's "entirely accurate" in your experience, sure
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>>34379458
You think females do not have lots of available options and are not trying to find the best option? I guess if you're disconnected from reality maybe so. It's not some big esoteric truth.
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>>34379458
>>34379437
>Reality is autistic and paranoid
Kek bluepilled cuck or cuntoid, I wonder which
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>>34379434
>human connection is a commodity i'm quantifying and comparing to gambling
like yeah okay i don't see why it would ABSOLUTELY be impossible to find someone decent on here, and it doesn't mean i have to prevent myself from approaching people outside if i feel like it. /soc/ just filters out the normies
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>>34379430
Found the guy who was bullied in high school
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>>34379516
And? Second post with no argument. Not like you have to offer one on a malaysian mixtape making market, but no one cares about a pointless
>unm.. ur dumb!!
just stick with the trusty "faggot."
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>>34379516
I'll never understand how anyone can use this board with such an entitled attitude and be shocked when they encounter disappointment over and over. Is it that hard to just chat with someone without any expectations or racist/sexist baggage?
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>>34379542
Why are you projecting so much? OP's post was just very kindly reaching out with no assumptions. He only claimed it was cowardice to ghost, which is not a controversial belief at all. And the fact that women have far more options and matches in dating isn't offensive or aggressive, it's just the plain facts.

Why are you so touchy and offended? And where does the racism/sexism come in? You are paranoid, ironically.
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>>34379536
not trying to make an argument, not everything is your incel twitter debates, you're just a loser and forever will be lol
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>>34379569
Um, okay? that's kind of why I said you didn't have to make an argument but if you can't read that's also okay.
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>>34379572
schizo babble, pray the police end up catching you before you hurt someone in public lol
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>>34379578
Erm... wat the sigma.
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who knew a thread with an Adolf Hitler OP image could turn out so poorly
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i like to watch retards have a meltdown
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>>34379437
>>34379516
nta but this is easily verifiable by posting your tag and pretending to be a girl, you will get at the minimum 50 friend requests
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Same shit happened with me
"meowssi" AKA April, if you're out there, hi. It was nice talking to you for months before you fucking disappeared for no reason right when we we were gonna hang out
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okay but how many girls here have been ghosted by guys? I got ghosted by someone off the msa thread
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I had a girl ghost me because the convo got dry, and then she added me back a week later because she missed me

And yet it's never been so over
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