Why does everyone want to be humiliated, pissed on, slapped around, treated as disposable?Whatever happened to "I'm a bit lonely and want someone to hold me at night?"
>>34655364Many users here have extremely low self esteem and warped views on sex and love
a gentleman wants all of that minus being disposable
>>34655364The same that happened to the feels and ylyl threads, incels and faggots have taken over.
>>34655364>Whatever happened to "I'm a bit lonely and want someone to hold me at night?"That's what I want from women. But women only want chads most of the time, and the few who will settle for non chads tend to want really warped stuff
You can have both. Some people want to be treated like a pathetic piece of shit by someone they trust then, treated sweetly after they've been used and degraded.
>>34655364because it's all men
>>34655434Women are here, they just stick to lurking.
>>34655364i'm trash so i should be treated as such and i dont just want to be slapped i want to be seriously beaten regularly
>>34655478You're a starving artist, your starvation can handle you just that
>>34655406>and the few who will settle for non chads tend to want really warped stuffYeah, I don't fucking understand that either. Like you have to like their twisted idea of what a relationship is and if you don't like their extremely EXTREMELY specific sexual interests they next you. There's no compromise, no in between. Really don't fucking understand that shit.
>>34655464A difference without distinction.
>>34655364I'm a bit lonely and want someone to hold me at night. I am not memeing.
>>34655364its weird how pissing on people is so mainstream now. I'm not into it myself but it seems every girl wants you to piss on them now so I've pissed on a bunch of girls. I preferred the good old days when a girl thought it was taboo and forbidden to want a black eye
why is it so hard to get an authentic beating from a stranger? like nobody threatens me anymore :(
>>34655364Porn addiction.
>>34655364Piss fetish is cool...
>>34655364Basicall>experience rejection as a child>retreat into an online world at your computer>discover porn>fall into a downward spiral of porn addiction and numbing>by age 18 you have consumed so much degenerate porn your brain is basically mutilated>you are now unable to form normal relationships so return to the normal world is almost impossible and may not even be desirable>you log into a mongolian underwater tennis forum to seek someone to fulfill your degeneracies for you
>>34664129ive been on the internet & watching anime since i was SEVEN years old, and ive been exposed to everything there is here for a very long time, and i am not sexually deviant at all. i thank god that i got so lucky, and lament what's happened to so many of my online friends. i know so many that trooned out
>>34664183I think there's a massive difference between being exposed to things and actively consuming and masturbating to it. The latter literally conditions your mind to seek novelty and that's how the degeneracy spirals. People can argue and defend their habits all they'd like, but we're just going to sit here and pretend that the body's most powerful reward circuit known as the orgasm can't condition your brain? Most people on this god forsaken site are literally pavlov'd with how impulsively they get triggered to consoom porn.
>>34664232well, i think i started masturbating when i was 11-13. and it was to hentai, which people always say fucks you up. nowadays my favorite porn is solo female masturbating, but i try not to watch any anymore.
I just want a girl with a lil bit of hair on the cat that I can eat out all day every day.
>>34664235Hm, that's fair. I suppose it isn't really about the masturbating, as it is forming an addiction. Addictions generally form as a result of wanting to regulate or escape an internal state that is intolerable. Masturbation and pornography are just really low hanging fruits with very high reward for little effort. It's why masturbation isn't bad, we're all human, but when it begins to be used as a crutch it can spiral into degeneracy since you begin to mindlessly consume it without being aware of why you're even doing it. I'd venture to say most people on 4chan are just very lonely people and that's why most boards are infested with porn. It's their way of escaping. I'm not going to sit here and play armchair psychologist and pretend all degens are addicts, some people are truly just degen, but there is certainly a mechanism behind why some people find themselves developing degenerate tastes after prolonged coping and avoidance.
>>34655364bdsm as a whole is a result of mental illness and/or trauma. it is glorified fetishized abuse and nothing else. perpetuated by abusers and their victims.anyway to answer your question, porn addiction and untreated mental illness
>>34664088i kinda enjoy being pissed on and in
I’ve been using this site regularly for the past couple years in search of love, and I’ve never succeeded. Whenever I meet someone and we start talking, they end up ghosting me. That, or I end up forgotten about and unadded.I was talking to a cute guy not long ago, and I thought he could be the one. After a day of talking, he suddenly lost interest and whenever I brought up what was going on, he’d tell me that he’s hanging out with his friends or some shit. I didn’t think of it much at first, but then I thought, “why does he need alone time when he’s hanging out with other people?”Romantic encounters on this site are genuinely pointless because most people don’t give a fuck. You could give them the world and somehow it’s not enough. It’s better to exchange nudes than be lead on by someone who ain’t shit.
>>34665864True, online seems to be worth it only for some quickies. Never had the same relationships as irl.
>>34665864>Looking on 4chan dot org forward slash soc forward slash for love
>>34665926I live in a rural area where dating is impossible. What am I supposed to do, date my family members or some shit? At this point, the only thing I can really do is have a waifu. I have a dakimakura anyway, and it’s probably the only love I’ll ever get.
>>34665993what like siberia
>>34666019No he’s a gay, they kill those over there.
>>34666191thats foul
>>34666191“a gay”You worded that as if I’m an animal or something.
>>34655364I dunno anon, I'm still a romantic and would still like someone to love, even though I'm also a kinkster and enjoy all the stuff you mentioned too. It's like 99.9% of people's feels have completely died. So now I just keep mine on the DL and go with the flow.
