I haven't gotten a romantic relationship thanks to /soc/.

I miss him so much

I miss her so much

>>34728726
Crazy stupid bitch. Neediest tranny in the history of trannies. I couldn't go a single day without texting her without her popping off on me for "abandoning" her or whateverthefuck.

Ffs trannies are hot but jesus fuck are they mentally insane and retarded.

>>34729419
How long were you two together?

i'll get back to you champ

>>34729441
About a month and a bit. It started off great, but over time her constant need for attention wore me down. Then one day I was too tired to talk after work and she blew up on me for it, turning all the things I told her in confidence against me.

got catfished by a trannie, she larped as a cisfemale. fell kinda in love with her.
damn she was so pathetic.

>>34729465
>couldn't even hit her with a "Hey, things have been really rough today and I'm exhausted. I miss you and I'll get back to you tomorrow."
It's over
>>34729474
I'm sorry you had to go through that, anon

>>34729474
mine is kind of similar but i didnt fall in love with them, i just was desperate for sex. They lived in london and called themselves Toni, but his real name was Niel or Nigel or something, maybe something else idk. maybe he will even read this, and if you do, i hope you know that i reported you to the police and they know what you do and your address. they wanted me to show up and give official statments to move whatever forwards but i couldn't be bothered. anyway, maybe i'll be in london one day again and i'll pay you a visit. i think you should kill yourself and join your parents in hell.

>>34728726
I have been constantly let down by men on soc. I have been here for years (16 years). All men here do is lead women on and then run away. They'll spend forever chasing you, be in calls with you for hours, jerk off with you and then just dip when they find another pussy to spend time with. It doesn't matter how much we have in common. Men here just suck. I have spoken to too many to count.

I'm not going to listen to 'the common denominator must be you' it isn't. I spent a long time analyzing myself. I am a healthy minded person who only ever wanted a connection here and just looked in the wrong place. I thought men here wanted the same thing as me.

Now that I have stopped looking for men on here I have found that I get a lot of attention elsewhere and long term relationships outside of this shit hole.

Men here aren't worth it and they don't care about you. They will drop you like you're nothing and sometimes regret it and try to claw their way back (Don't let them, they are using you as a spare part until they find something better)

>>34729479
I can't really recall the full circumstances of what happened on that particular day, other than me being completely exhausted, and her blowing up my phone the next day.

So yeah, it was definitely over.

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I met a trans person that was into feederism n stuff in nyc. she was super nice and loving and warm like me but unfortunately she was poly and i was not, still think of her fondly and the times we were together

>>34729558
you're gutter trash at pickibg men and the common denominator IS you lol

>>34729558
Sorry to hear that, I wish I could've been with you because I'm not that kind of guy.

>>34729558
if you have plenty of attention elsewhere including long term relationships why are you still spending time bitching about it on /soc/? What's with specific women refusing accountability anyways? If some dude told me he's been led on for 16 years by multiple women I would also say he's at least partially at fault. That being said the women aren't exactly anything to write home about they either have extreme mental illness, ghost you or are complete thots with absolutely no intention of doing anything serious.

>>34729684
Thanks, trust me I would have loved to be proven wrong but I never have been. If you actually are a sweet and good person just looking for a connection I wish you all the best in finding it.

>>34729679
Nope, you're just proving my point that the men here are disgusting and terrible people.

>>34729689
Because I was a socially awkward teen who never went outside and found it hard to relate to anybody so I would come here. I had come here for years ever since still holding hope that a nice guy would come around and we would eventually make something beautiful together but I only ever met people who toyed with me, funnily enough it's the ones that pretend to be the nicest, sweetest and have a victim mentality that made me want to take care of them and be there for them that turned out to be the very worst. I choose for the right reasons of just wanting to care for someone and it doesn't work. I have come here since I was a teenager, it's been a habit of mine to come back here and post from time to time. I will probably post here forever since it's a part of me, despite getting attention and love outside of soc. The reason I am posting this now is to hopefully let young women here know that people here just suck and they will be able to find someone that truly appreciates and loves them outside of this place.

I miss her so much

i recently had a brief crush on a guy and was planning on fucking him but he was mean to me so the plans fell apart. that's probably for the best though.

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>>34728726
Best: Meet up with 20 year old, eat her pussy, she tells me she's been cyberstalking me since she was 16.
Worst: Dated for 3 years.

>>34729558
Women are equally as callous. Let's not pretend this is a trait exclusive to men sweeheart. As a matter of fact, the amount of women who come here specifically to farm attention, validation and money from men because in their eyes they see them as pathetic spineless orbiters far outnumbers the amount of men that women would actually feel used and abused by.

>>34729779
Sometimes men willingly give their money to women on here and some women take advantage of that. If someone thinks they can win a relationship with a girl for buying her things then they are sorely mistaken, it never works like this if they want a legit/healthy relationship.

There are definitely also women on here that don't have good intentions, however, 'sweetheart' I am talking about my own experience and the scale of what I have had to dealt with over the many years as someone who has good intentions and only wanting a connection. I don't have mental health issues, I don't ask for money. I simply wanted to be happy with someone nice.

I am fortunate to have gotten away from this place to find what I needed because I had a deep bitterness in me after the 20th time I got ghosted or used by someone that led me on from here. Now I know it's not all men, it's just this place and men here that have terrible communication skills or issues finding any consideration or care for someone that they know loves them.

>>34729837
you sound corpulent

>>34729837
I'd call you naive, but if you've been on here as long as you say you have and didn't realize after the first few months that people on here are terrible, but you've been on here for 16 years. That's almost as long as I've been alive. Clearly there's something on your end that's making you look for pearls in the gutter, whether it's out of necessity, desire, or more likely, the, I can fix them mentality, people like you are destined for heartbreak and pain. As a matter of fact, I think you just share the same mentality as many of the men on here who get repeatedly heartbroken and hurt by women. This isn't a matter of sex, it's a matter of personality and people like you are like moths drawn to a flame.

>>34729735
Asl of you or the guy? Sounds familiar

>>34728726
Never got into a relationship with someone from /soc/, but best one was (and still is) a 2 year friendship, with some benefits.

Worst: Girl who was probably my perfect kink match, and lived relatively close, but I was too much of a freak for her, so she blocked me.

>>34728726
So far all the women I've talked to have been awful. They ghost you after exchanging 2 messages over the most trivial shit. The expectation for perfection is just so delusional. You can be good looking, make a good amount of money, be interesting, worldly, educated... None of it seems enough and they'll cast you aside if you don't constantly meet their demands. Dating apps aren't much better though and I'm starting to think women are just like this nowadays.

>>34729890
you're not him so it doesn't matter

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>>34729558
>we investigated ourselves and found no wrongdoing
retard

>>34728726
Nkt really a relationship, more of a prolonged sexting session. Dude catfished me (I was an idiot) pretending to be a woman. Controlled my orgasms for a couple weeks before I realized. Made me do a few embarrassing things for her (him).

>>34729479
>>couldn't even hit her with a "Hey, things have been really rough today and I'm exhausted. I miss you and I'll get back to you tomorrow."
this doesn't work with BPD niggas, they'd hold it against you for at least a month.

>>34729727
> it's the ones that pretend to be the nicest, sweetest and have a victim mentality that that turned out to be the very worst.


Yeah people with a victim mentality can be the worst. If I picked poorly 16 times I'd certainly think on it. But then again I'm not a woman who dodges accountability. There's just something hilariously ironic about lamenting other people with victim mentalities turning out to be the worst with absolute no sense of self reflection on the fact that you also have the exact same victim mentality. You're just too on your high horse to notice.

>>34729419
>dates a mentally ill person who believes they can be a woman
>is surprised they are mentally ill
yeah I think you might be just as retarded anon.

>>34730075
>>34730075
The thing is, I am always happy to own up when I make mistakes but I was actually really good to them. It's interesting that everyone jumps to this conclusion and can't face the fact that the majority of 4chan men are just shitty. Just look at how funny you find this and you can't possibly fathom my point of view being reality. If I was so bad to them then many of them wouldn't have tried to reach out to me again and again telling me they regretted it and that they missed how sweet I was to them.

I actively tried to communicate healthily with them when they seemed distant, I didn't even overreact emotionally.

I have managed to have healthy and happy relationships outside of this place and I'm really glad I gave up on men here. I held out way too much hope in this place.

You can keep laughing at me or telling me I'm the problem but I know the truth of my situations.

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>>34730122
Your story is pretty relatable.
Super curious though as you said you've had more luck with men in other places: what are the other places?

>>34729727
>hopefully let young women here know that people here just suck
At the very least that means you are just not being fair. I have had the exact same experiences as you just as the opposite sex. I still wouldn't tell people to just give up.
>>34730122
>telling me I'm the problem but I know the truth of my situations
Have you even considered that at least some of the men who've treated you poorly have done so because of the exact attitude you have now. Being burned over and over again leads people to become selfish because they lose all faith that others are being genuine in their kindness. Women tend to be much worse to men here. Just look at tall the attention you are getting just because you might be a femanon. This gives them an absurd sense of entitlement. There is no such privilege for men. They are ignored and tossed aside with ease and cruelty you will never experience.
You complain that men have returned to you with regret for how they have treated you. Know that the chance of a women even regretting poor behavior towards men is abysmally low and I've not had one return to me with regret no matter how obviously atrocious her behavior was.

>>34730122
almost all men go here because they have issues that prevents them from talking to women irl, being mental illness or insecurities or autism or whatever. why the fuck would you intentionally go here as a woman for a long term relationship when you can immediately get an actual relationship in person with a normal guy, which sounds exactly what happened to you. youre not some type of truthteller or prophet for saying the incel anime otaku degenerate racist internet forum isnt a 5 course restaurant to pick out your perfect husband. and for 16 years? im sorry but you are just retarded

M25 here

Looking for trans, shemal, ladyboy.

come and pretend to be a woman

Come and trap me, show yourself, come and convince me that you are a woman
Or

Come feed me

Or

We can roleplay (u play the f role)
Kik: Miloq3

Telegram: @mcghonaghan

Teleguard: WTJ3DCY28

Zangi: 69-5643-4579

>>34728726
worst: 6.5 relationship that started long distance and we lived together.
best: does not exist, i'm never dating anyone from here again

a few years ago I stupidly started chatting with / fell in love with some guy i met off a frieren thread in /a/ , he ended up finding out where i lived, drove to me, and when my dad answered the door to ask him who tf he is, the guy punched him in the face and left...lol

I’m F for context. Started off great, we had good chemistry. Only thing I didn’t really like is that he was 10+ years older than me and I’m not really looking for that. But I gave it a chance. Unfortunately he turned out to be stupid. I mean genuinely dumb. He called me one night so I could help him fill out a w2 form because he hadn’t filled one out in a long time, and he didn’t know what anything meant. I helped him, but I kept thinking “wtf am I doing right now”

And I don’t claim to be a genius or anything. But if you’re that much older than me and this much dumber I don’t think it’s gonna work out. I broke it off after 3-4 months. I also got the sense that he was being untruthful about some things. For example he told me he was going to jail for a few weeks?? Because of a car wreck he got into. But he told me the wreck was a 1 car accident because he crashed into a tree. (He got hurt pretty bad too) I suspect he might’ve gotten a DUI because I do know he’s a borderline alcoholic.

Best relationship? Hasn’t happened yet and probably will not happen

best and worst relationship when I cuddled in a hotel room bed with someone who lives 30 minutes away from me from soc. He ended up blocking me and we got into discord drama and I ended up being blacklisted from a whole bunch of online communities. best because I did fall in love with him and wanted to marry him but bad because he hated me deeply and wanted nothing to do with me.

>>34730383
>we got into discord drama and I ended up being blacklisted from a whole bunch of online communities
What the hell did you do

>>34730388
Basically I cyberstalked him and joined mutual discord servers from info I already had before he blocked me. (we both had mutual interests in the same things) I won't elaborate further since I want to move on after years of yearning for him. I don't think what I did was so bad because I had the same interests as him before I ever met him but apparently he wanted me gone from those communities so he got me banned (his friend spoke up for him)

>>34730400
That's not that bad I was expecting something crazier. Good luck with moving on

>>34730400
What did you do that made them hate you? Other than be a creep stalker, what made them stop wanting to associate with you before that

>>34729419
Lucky

Tied between the one with delusions of grandeur and the avoidant. I'll call them learning experiences.

>>34729558
i feel the same and even though i havent been on 4cuck THAT long its depressing. no one here is seeking an actual relationship. gone are the golden days of 4chan, now u can cross ur fingers and hope you get at least a days worth of a conversation before getting ghosted. Oh well :p.

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>>34728726
I won't say it was a relationship, it really only lasted for like two days.
A rando from soc added me and wanted to goon and stuff. At first I refused, but I found myself drifting into it anyway. We ended up roleplaying and I kind of fell in love with it and liked it. He then ended up blocking me because I sent a panel of shota hentai.
I feel really empty and sad now that he’s gone :(
I was stalking him here for a bit, he still posts.

>>34730842
Mine is kinda similar. A couple months ago I added a guy off a sfw thread because he had posted a vocaroo with it and he sounded cute. He was kinda awkward, we started watching shows n sharing music n stuff and he grew on me. Then he just randomly stopped talking to me. It wasn't really a relationship but it felt like it could've become one if we kept talking. It kills me inside because he still posts his voice on here every once in a while and I can recognize his stupid drawings

never had one, because i'm too scared to add people xD
the chances of adding someone that's gonna creep me out are too high

>>34729727
>If you actually are a sweet and good person just looking for a connection I wish you all the best in finding it.
He won't find it because you women don't actually want a man like that.

>>34730122
Except I never said it was JUST your fault. What I said was that you aren't taking ANY accountability. You hand waved it because you were a young teen and men bad. I've also seeked toxic women in my life even back in HS but I owned it and am much more thorough on who I pursue anything with. I'm not on here saying women are all mentally ill ghosting retards even though that's mostly my experience here. Again if you were a dude I'd be saying this exact shit to you regardless.

>>34728726
met a multimillionaire, got a lot of gifts. but his personality sucks

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>>34730911
>we started watching shows n sharing music n stuff and he grew on me. Then he just randomly stopped talking to me
He literally fucking tossed me like I'm some sort of a slut after finishing what he had with me
It feels so fucking empty and just cannot stop thinking about him you know
> It wasn't really a relationship but it felt like it could've become one if we kept talking
Sad it could be the same with me and him but apparently he's a fucking weirdo fuck him

Actually it's not just him many did the same thing different people I added from different boards they straight up vanish and never come back or just ghost me and eventually end up unfriending me not even want to text it always have to be to the one that always initiate it

>>34730944
What kind of people are you adding? Like, what draws you to them to make you want to add them

>>34730930
what kind of gifts

>>34730944
I'm sorry :< i just tell myself the ppl on here are all broken individuals otherwise they wouldn't be on here

Soc is full of people, male and female (mostly male because theres more male than female) that are dark triad in some way. The victims usually leave and don't come back for more and that's why this board is in the state its in. If relationships bloomed here and it just really was outcasted people down on their luck looking for love/friendship, it would be a revolving door of success. But instead it's the same pool of people more or less and new ones every so often that instantly go for being lolcows.

You have to question what's wrong with someone that posts a lot when you look them up on archives but they claim to you they are successful and have made good friends and/or relationships from here. Those are the ones harming people

>>34730965
p much anything ive wanted but its been a lot of luxury clothes, electronics (new computer, phone, consoles), flight tickets, etc

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>>34730961
>Like, what draws you to them to make you want to add them
I just want people who are nice and loving and he would listen to me yap about dumb shit and say dumb shit and will at the same time someone who be 24/7 online with me and talk to me and text me all the time and say nice stuff I had a friend like that before but not anymore finding a guy who is like that is really hard
i didn't really add anyone it's mostly them adding me I made thread here before but specify anything about me cause there is literally nothing interesting about me... I know it's weird but whatever
oh yeah I forget to mention many didn't have same timezone as me so i had a hard time talking to them cause most of them had jobs I was expecting everyone here to be weirdos and neets but not the case at all 4chan is so fucking fake

>>34730967
> the ppl on here are all broken individuals otherwise they wouldn't be on here
I only met one so far who is a degen which is the same guy I was talking about but other than that all of them are just normal
I'm the one who seems so retarded not them
I actually came here cause I was thinking maybe I will get along but apparently no :(

>>34730995
i think a lot of ppl on here r more broken than they're willing to admit. At least that's what I was catching glimpses of with the person I was talking to. Maybe that's why they ghosted idk. I hope u find someone that makes u happy anon

>>34730995
There aren't a ton of nice and loving people here. Most of us are maladjusted and that leads to many anons being bitter. It is very difficult to make friends on this site, especially ones that stick around longer than a few weeks.
How is there nothing interesting about you? Even if you don't find yourself interesting, you must have things you enjoy, hobbies, interests, favorite music/movies/books/whatever. That counts as interesting.
In the past there were way more neets and hikkis but it seems there are more people with mostly normal lives other than being socially outcasts.

>>34730981
You will notice how many lie about their age

>>34729558
I spent almost two years getting to know a foid here. She was going to move in with me once she graduated. Two years, she just dips and ghosts.

Everyone here is trash, including you. You're not special.

>>34731010
And for the ones that aren't malicious but still cause harm, they didn't anticipate finding someone that liked them. So instead of doing the adult thing, they get cold feet and ghost because it's easier. They typically aren't repeat offenders but become dark triad if they post after that.

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>>34731006
>At least that's what I was catching glimpses of with the person I was talking to
i don't know but it seemed that all of them are way better than me in literally and not broken by any means yeah whatever
>Maybe that's why they ghosted idk
I really don't understand I tried to rethink what I did to make them upset now I'm very scared of talking to a new person and he gets upset at me
>I hope u find someone that makes u happy anon
Thank you nonny <3
>>34731007
>Most of us are maladjusted and that leads to many anons being bitter.
I mean yeah but I'm kinda picky who I talk to so I can filter who sounds the most optimal out of them it's like 99% of the people here are like you said
>It is very difficult to make friends on this site, especially ones that stick around longer than a few weeks.
Figured I added many
I feel really bad for them leaving like that I hate being hurt and losing people like this I lost many nice people online and I want people I meet now and feel nice around to stay
>re nothing interesting about you? Even if you don't find yourself interesting, you must have things you enjoy, hobbies, interests, favorite music/movies/books/whatever
I have no interests or hobbies and I'm not good at anything
>you must have things you enjoy,
I enjoy stuff but that doesn't mean it's a hobby or anything
> That counts as interesting.
Those stuff are so generic who isn't into movies/books/music now days it's not really an interests at this point I see people all the time go to so many hobbies they do shit all the time they have interests who are the same age as me but me it's all nothing
>In the past there were way more neets and hikkis but it seems there are more people with mostly normal lives other than being socially outcasts.
probably most of them were people who were visitng this board when they were young but they are not young anymore

>>34731041
>I hate being hurt and losing people like this
So do I. It's very painful when people leave. I keep trying because I'm extremely lonely but I wish it was easier.
>I have no interests
Interests don't have to be extraordinary. If you like a certain kind of music or movie that counts. It's interesting because it's something someone can talk to you about and learn about from you. You probably like things that the person you're talking to hasn't heard of or hasn't gotten into. So, when you talk to them you can share that with them and it's a way to bond. I've really enjoyed talking to people just about the media they like and I've found it interesting to learn their opinions on things or have them recommend things to me. You don't have to be in skydiving or underwater basket weaving to be interesting. You're a human being with your own unique life and experiences. That's interesting in itself.
>probably most of them were people who were visitng this board when they were young but they are not young anymore
That's probably it but I remember more permaNEETs back in the day. I'm still neet and I feel so out of place here now.

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>>34731061
>I keep trying because I'm extremely lonely but I wish it was easier.
you are so me anon
I met so many nice people but many just vanish and get busy :(
>Interests don't have to be extraordinary. If you like a certain kind of music or movie that counts. It's interesting because it's something someone can talk to you about and learn about from you
hahaha my friends always said I hate everything and same with my parents
everyone who actually met always told me that everything
But I do like some stuff I like music and movies and some other stuff but I still feel they are very generic and not much to talk about you know only thing I probably wanted to talk about games for example is the techincal side but it's for help and learning about it not for conversing you know if someone is intreseted in those stuff I feel like they gonna just get run out of things to talk about I'm not scared of not talking about anything just someone being with me and just say random shit I won't be upset at all
> You probably like things that the person you're talking to hasn't heard of or hasn't gotten into. So, when you talk to them you can share that with them and it's a way to bond
I don't like to share stuff that I like anymore i remember I used to chat on some discord servers and always all the time whenever I share something they always just tell me they are not interested or straight up don't care even with my friends I just hate to share whatever I like cause they always just don't care or just share their stuff and want me to be interested on it while they don't care about anything I like
>So, when you talk to themyoucan sharethatwiththemandit'sawaytobond
I had a online friend he was da best and he always forced stuff he liked on me and always forced me to do stuff with him and talk to him about any stuff he liked it actually worked I always been in a bad where I do literally nothing all day and can't do anything, from watching to playing games but he forced me into it

>>34729419
>"I couldn't go a single day without texting"
I'd ghost you after not sending a message for 2 hours tops

>>34731107
you just sound insane for that anon. People go to work and school. lol

>>34731061
he's actually only nice guy who somehow understand me and liked me but I blocked me cause he was generally being weird and just flips from being nice to extremly angry who shits on me and be really mean and rude
>You're a human being with your own unique life and experiences.
I have no unique expereinces I never got anything to tlak about myself it's always been lik ethis I never done anything in my life unlike other people my age they do so much they travel do this, do coding, music they go crazy and always got shit to talk about but me it's just nothing all cringy shit and complaining about it
>That's interesting in itself.
It's really not anon maybe if you talked to me maybe you will understand I guess
> I'm still neet and I feel so out of place here now.
Really how old are you?

>Meet girl on /soc/
>She lives in my area
>Go to meet her
>Bring a case of white claws at her request
>She won't let me in her house, she makes me instead drive her to the park to "walk around" in the dead of winter at night
>I say no to that, so we just sit in my car and drink
>I had 2 seltzers, she had 10
>She tried to sell me pills, she didn't even know what they were
>I went outside to piss and she ran out after me demanding to hold my dick, I let her and she got my piss all over my leg
>At one point she put my hand in her mouth and bit down so hard it drew blood
>Took her home after that then blocked her
Never again with 4chan women

>>34731106
>you are so me anon
It's a bad feel but at least we're in the same boat. It's too easy to disappear online. There are still people I look for to see if they'll come back but of course they never do
>hahaha my friends always said I hate everything
That's kind of like an interest in a way kek
>but I still feel they are very generic and not much to talk about
Maybe, maybe not. It's still something where someone might be able to say "oh I liked that, have you tried this it's similar" and you get an exchange of ideas. Same with games, helping someone can make the bond grow a little stronger and both people will feel closer to each other.
>I feel like they gonna just get run out of things to talk about
I worry about finding things to talk about a lot. I'm not good at starting conversations usually so I try to find people who talk a lot. Most of the people I've really connected with have been ones who say random stuff to me. It's nice to talk about random stuff I'm just no good at coming up with the random topics
>all the time whenever I share something they always just tell me they are not interested or straight up don't care even with my friends I just hate to share whatever I like
I never liked discord servers, it feels so competitive and aggressive to talk there. Your friends don't sound like they're very nice to you. They should put more effort in to make you feel welcomed. I'm sorry that people treat you like that, but if you meet someone nice you should try to share stuff with them. It's fun and helps them learn about you.
>always forced me to do stuff with him
Forced makes it sound bad but if you liked it that's good. Sometimes a friend like that can help you do things and not languish away but it sounds really one-sided to me. Did he ever take an interest in what you liked or anything like that?

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>>34731127
LMAO
It sounded just like picrel aren't you anons into this shit

>>34731121
>nice guy
It's too bad you had to block him but it was the right choice if he was treating you like that. It sounds like he had some issues he had to work through.
>I have no unique expereinces
I think you're selling yourself short. It doesn't have be cool stuff. You must have some good memories of things, or even bad ones. Cringy shit is still something, complaining is still something too. Not everything has to be good and happy.
>It's really not anon
I've talked to a lot of people and the only ones I've ever felt were boring were the ones that gave me one word replies to everything. I don't think you'd be the exception to that
>Really how old are you?
33, how old are you?

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>>34728726
I don't know who was best or who was the worst. It's usually one of the three types adding me.
Someone who is not much social like me but finds my misanthropic/homicidal ideation to be too extreme, or more rarely, someone who likes my misanthropic/homicidal ideation, but paradoxically ends up having a lot of contacts despite claiming misanthropy.
The worst is when it's some masochist that is 10 years younger.
It just never seems to work out in the end.

>>34730930
>>34730965
there's a few of us always lurking. we work a lot, are good at our jobs, have a lot of irons in a lot of different fires, but it makes us pretty boring. i admit i'm pretty bland as well.
> there is also the egomaniac variety, i am not that but i know they exist

>>34731132
>It's too easy to disappear online
That's the thing I do disappear but I got nobody in need for me so it's kinda good
I sometimes unfriend people not out of hate just because I don't them to be hurt or being hurt
>There are still people I look for to see if they'll come back but of course they never do
this is so sad
>That's kind of like an interest in a way kek
it gets them really annoyed don't know why hahaha
>and you get an exchange of ideas. Same with games, helping someone can make the bond grow a little stronger and both people will feel closer to each other.
I don't know anon I feel like life is so meaningless and retarded I don't really want to talk about games I like desu I kinda want to have them for myself I remember I always fighted with me online friend because of this he always gets upset for me not liking stuff and he always wants to me explain to him why I don't like it but I just don't like it that's why I hate talking about games or movies or anything like that
I don't to fight about if this thing is good and this one is not
>I worry about finding things to talk about a lot.
I don't really worry about that much cause I'm very random person I say weird and random shit all the time I came up with random non sense that somehow get people in vc talk and engage hehe
> It's nice to talk about random stuff I'm just no good at coming up with the random topics
that's very normal thing anon being not random is actually a good thing
> so I try to find people who talk a lot
It's still doesn't help you have to get the courage to say shit I get scared sometimes and anxious but in my mind I say fuck it and just say whatever is on my mind it does work sometime sit doesn't and put me in really embarrassing moments

>>34731132
>I never liked discord servers, it feels so competitive and aggressive to talk there.
True they made me feel really bad about myself so i ended up disappearing and deleting all of my accounts it feels like my life got locked to those shitty servers and it's always drama and people hating on each other and everybody hated me there and were so mean and rude
>Your friends don't sound like they're very nice to you
Maybe it's not really about niceness it's kinda hard for them to be nice it feels kinda gay and many of them got no interests or anything going with their lifes most just scroll up on insta and do nothing and always on phone only one who actually play stuff and got bit of intrests but still he's annoying and addicted to war thunder and that's all he talks about and doesn't give a fuck about anything I share or like only he cares about stuff he likes and share I literally started to not like them anymore that's why I'm trying looking for better people online everyone who are the same age as me are just way better I don't get it even if they were somehow not they still better
> I'm sorry that people treat you like that, but if you meet someone nice you should try to share stuff with them.
I don't know people I added don't seem to share anything about themseleves or anything they like so I end up not doing the same and it feels weird sharing stuff I like cause it will probably end up in the mnot linking and not caring the first place people are selfish and always want to take but never give
>Forced makes it sound bad but if you liked it that's good
I mean not force force but is in like being really annoying about it and trying to push me into doing
>Sometimes a friend like that can help you do things and not languish away
hell yeah he did

>>34730383
If that guy was me you'd be married with children by now.
Where do I find girls like you to do things like these with me?

>>34731164
>That's the thing I do disappear
I do that sometimes but I try to warn people first. I get these moods where I can't talk to anyone, they don't last too long but they're hard to fight
>I don't them to be hurt or being hurt
Someone did that to me once and I went and found them (on here) again and started talking again but they left me a few days after that lel. I understand why you do it but I wish people would let me decide whether I want to risk being hurt or not. Completely understandable if you're doing it to prevent yourself from being hurt tho
>it gets them really annoyed don't know why hahaha
People take things way too seriously you say you don't like a thing they like and they feel insulted. It's so weird
>that's why I hate talking about games or movies or anything like that
I get it, people like that would make not want to talk about that stuff either. It's exhausting. Life is too short to spend time arguing about that.
>I say weird and random shit all the time
I really like that, talking to people who can do that is so easy
>vc
VC is terrifying to me lel. I've only routinely vc'd with one person and that was over a decade ago. Don't you get anxious? It feels so much more vulnerable to talk to people like that
>being not random is actually a good thing
I don't think it's good or bad but I appreciate random people
>but in my mind I say fuck it and just say whatever is on my mind
Mostly I don't say what's on my mind unless I'm prompted to, I do get a lot of anxiety talking to people especially if I don't know them well. If you can just say whatever is on your mind that's great, it's a really good quality to have

>>34731132
>but it sounds really one-sided to me
could be he always talked more than me it's a little bit hard to communicate with him in english cause my english is not so good as you can tell I don't really understand what you meant by one-sided but he always the one who share stuff I rarely share stuff he is the one who introduced me into many genres in music, movies and so on
>Did he ever take an interest in what you liked or anything like that?
I mean he's older than me and he's literally an encyclopedia of pop culture who knows every anime, movie, game, music, talk show anything you could think of not 4chan and the weird obscure shit but generally knows and watched and played everything so I literally got nothing to talk about cause he already know it we mostly discuss politics or religion matters other than that not much
>>34731141
>ut it was the right choice if he was treating you like that. It sounds like he had some issues he had to work through.
I never understood what happened he sometimes hate on me and call me names and be really hurtful and say that I'm such horrible and piece of shit loser and blocked for like 15 times maybe more and always comes back th enext day made me very sad that I cried myself to sleep at times
>I think you're selling yourself short. It doesn't have be cool stuff.
people don't like the normal stuff you know
>You must have some good memories of things, or even bad ones.
I don't like anything that happened to me when I was a kid or happened in the past I hate it I hate it being a kid
> Cringy shit is still something
talking about that will make other people cringe they don't want that
>complaining is still something too.
that's what I always did not with my friends only with him and strangers I met and few friends I added from 4chan
cause being open with my friend is just weird and not good
> Not everything has to be good and happy.
true
>33, how old are you?
that's so cool big brother I'm 19

>>34731186
>True they made me feel really bad about myself
I don't understand the constant negativity that some people have. They're always putting each other down. It's tedious. Deleting your accounts and getting out of there is good, life is too short to spend time on them.
>I literally started to not like them anymore
If they're not treating you how you want to be treated or if they're not fun to be around that's the right response I think. You don't have to be friends with people who aren't good for you. It sounds like they're all more interested in themselves than in being friends anyway. It's hard to be alone though so I can understand why you're still friends with them
>I don't know people I added don't seem to share anything about themseleves or anything they like
I've noticed this recently and it feels so weird to me. It used to be everyone I talked to would want to share things at first to break the ice but now no one does. It's like a cultural shift
>but is in like being really annoying about it and trying to push me into doing
People like that stress me out desu but if it worked for you that's cool
>cause my english is not so good as you can tell
It's better than some native English anons lol
>but he always the one who share stuff
That's what I meant by one-sided yeah
>I mean he's older than me and he's literally an encyclopedia of pop culture who knows every anime, movie, game, music, talk show
Dang some people just know stuff I guess. I always try to avoid politics and religion as discussion points it seems to make people too heated

>>34731152
> there is also the egomaniac variety, i am not that but i know they exist
yea then youve got the ideal personality

>>34731210
>I never understood what happened he sometimes hate on me and call me names
He could have been bipolar or something similar. Those people can be very erratic and get set off by little things. It's hard to manage their moods especially if they're not open about what triggers them to overreact
>people don't like the normal stuff you know
Maybe not, I'm probably weird in being fine with that
>I don't like anything that happened to me when I was a kid
Same for me mostly, but even bad memories can be something to talk about
>talking about that will make other people cringe they don't want that
I've noticed that, no one wants to talk about cringe shit anymore. I don't get it at all. Cringe shit can be fun.
>cause being open with my friend is just weird and not good
I don't usually consider people friends until I can be open with them, but then I rarely have friends so what do I know lol
>that's so cool big brother I'm 19
I'm too old to exist I need to die lel

>>34731201
>I try to warn people first
those are just randos you can say like people who would you know from you a place for example and just say and so small talks that's the same people I sometimes have added that's why I hate adding people who are not willing to be my friends you know what i mean so i Just cut out
>I understand why you do it but I wish people would let me decide whether I want to risk being hurt or not. Completely understandable if you're doing it to prevent yourself from being hurt tho
the people you were talking too are probably bunch of weirdos don't overthink it
>People take things way too seriously you say you don't like a thing they like and they feel insulted. It's so weird
I don't know they just say I hate everything I do hate stuff but I do like stuff at the same time
>I get it, people like that would make not want to talk about that stuff either.
exactly
> It's exhausting. Life is too short to spend time arguing about that.
I think life is just overrated at this point and just retarded everything so meaningless and pointless
I should just kms and meet my creator instead
>I really like that, talking to people who can do that is so easy
Most people are just high asf or very slow and not engertic everyone always said I'm energetic i don't if it's a bad thing or a good thing but i'm always like this even if i was sad or anything like that
>VC is terrifying to me lel
I got used to it i talked to many people in the past in team speak where you are kinda forced to use a mic texting wasn't really an option i'm anxious but I can manage it's just depends on the people too some people straight up make fun of me so I just can't take it so i leave
> Don't you get anxious?
I do
>It feels so much more vulnerable to talk to people like that
Not really you are not doxxing yourself you are just talking there is no difference between texting and voice with me cause I will still sound the same

>meet girl
>shes awful
>plan to meet
>meet
>her pussy stinks
>do nothing with her because her pussy stinks
>speak every now and then afterwards

>>34731234
>I don't understand the constant negativity that some people have
I'm very negative person but I'm not trying to put anyone down cause that's just very selfish and dumb almost 90% of the people in my country are just like that always hate on each other and try to put each other down and very arrogant and only think about themselves
>If they're not treating you how you want to be treated or if they're not fun to be around that's the right response I think
Thing is most of them are just talking to other people and most of those other people are just way worst and too retarded like I'm literally here why not talking to me bruh I mean I talk to other people online other than them but I never actually thought of them are not my friends or like they don't deserve my time or anything and it's true they are very not fun to talk to I mean we still joke around and stuff but idoesn't feel the same they are fucking on their phones 24/7 and always just ignore me or don't want to talk really or just text somebody else while I'm litereally infront of them like wtf I fucking hate phones so much and social media they are so retarded and me people even more stupid with their shit
>You don't have to be friends with people who aren't good for you
I'm gonna endup all alone if that's so I already cut all of the bad ones who weren't really friends who were generally being really bad and hurtful and didn't help I don't mind being alone but it's I don't know weird I always been in my home playing vidya all by myself and always had fun doing it but not anymore nothing makes me happy anymore

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I really miss a guy I talked to on here for a couple of months. My good boy. :( I always check to see if he has posted here again. I don’t think he will. My life feels hollow now and I’m being beat down by health issues, and I keep asking why I’m even still alive. I would’ve traveled to meet him. I’d say, “I care about you so much.” Essentially said “I love you” without saying it.

>>34731121
>only nice guy who somehow understand me and liked me but I blocked me cause he was generally being weird and just flips from being nice to extremly angry who shits on me and be really mean and rude
This happened to me too. He had untreated bipolar disorder. He was so sweet and tender with me when he was well. He got very sick.
>>34731132
>There are still people I look for to see if they'll come back but of course they never do
Me too. I would forgive him.
>>34731201
>I get these moods where I can't talk to anyone
Same same, social burnout. Though, with the person I miss, I never got sick of him. I felt energized hearing from him.

v3nalv3p and IpWofLq0, you guys are cool. :)

>>34731234
> but now no one does. It's like a cultural shift
I don't think so I feel like people are in same situation as me like I told you before they can't really share what's on their mind they get scared they might get judged or generally gets in meaningless convos at the end so they just keep it to themsleves and don't forget we are talking about people online so most of their interests are just online stuff so it's very generic and not very intresting I added people from here who straight up told me those things are boring and generally not considered intrests at all now and they are right who isn't a weebo, gamer or whatever this days everybody is I feel like it's just a form of entertainment it's not an obscure thing anymore or a interest
>People like that stress me out desu but if it worked for you that's cool
Isn't how friends should be like? I don't think if that one friend of mine forced to play stuff and watched movies with him I will prorbably be stuck in the same loop and haven't change at all
he introducde me to many genres and teached me a lot about story telling and how things work in movies and games
having people who forces to do stuff is kinda nice for you own good of course
>It's better than some native English anons lol
Oh nah that's impossible hehe my english is horrible
I'm trying to improve it and fix my accent to make it sound more athentic probably american even though I don't like the ameircan accent
> I always try to avoid politics and religion as discussion points it seems to make people too heated
He's same religion as me and he's a friend it's not really heated you're right for doing that won't blame you

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>ASL
19/F/USA

>Looking for
lately ive been feeling like something is missing in my life & i think having someone i can truly bond with will heal my soul. my ultimate goal is to form a serious relationship. i want a lifelong partner (aka a husband) that i can eventually meetup with irl. i will get to know you first and see where things take us. please dont add me just to immediately sext me, not interested in that until we've established that sort of relationship. being able to vc sometimes is a plus.

>Not looking for
ghosters, unironically rude people, people immediately interested in sex, doesnt contribute to conversation, consistently taking forever to respond, people who do not live in the USA, people not looking for a serious long-term relationship, people who dont want to have children, NEETS

>Interests
singing, video games, cooking, tv shows, voice acting, fashion, food, doomscrolling, hiking, animals, just started getting into jigsaw puzzles and i love it

>Discord
clevercassie

>>34731249
>He could have been bipolar or something similar. Those people can be very erratic and get set off by little things. It's hard to manage their moods especially if they're not open about what triggers them to overreact
it's fucking weird anon I never understood wtf is wrong with him he's only like this with me he always he got a tamper but that doesn't justify it
>It's hard to manage their moods especially if they're not open about what triggers them to overreact
It actually get to a point where I get scared to talk so I just stay silent and he noticed i was being weirdly silent and I did cause I was scared of saying something wrong that will upset him and make him go crazy on me that's how bad it was until one day I couldn't take it
and just lbocked him
>Maybe not, I'm probably weird in being fine with that
I mean some people do like normal stuff but majority are into the crazy cool shit you know what i mean people who are into normal stuff are rare those usually are the nicest and the most humble
>Same for me mostly, but even bad memories can be something to talk about
there is nothing good happening in my life so I just talk about depressing and bad stuff hehe
>I can be open with them, but then I rarely have friends so what do I know l
I can't be open with my friends who I know irl and know me cause it's just weird and we are not the type to open up you know i tihkn it's just a culture thingy with us nobody likes anybody to complain so we just eat it up all men do that
>I'm too old to exist I need to die lel
NOO I'm too old and I'm cooked and i have no future
i'm the one who needs to die not you don't kys I will kms if you kys i'm gonna be really jealous

>>34731317
>I really miss a guy I talked to on here for a couple of months. My good boy. :( I always check to see if he has posted here again. I don’t think he will. My life feels hollow now and I’m being beat down by health issues, and I keep asking why I’m even still alive. I would’ve traveled to meet him. I’d say, “I care about you so much.” Essentially said “I love you” without saying it.

Are you feel bad for you anon it seems we are all alike here very sad
wish each one of us gets to meet their favorite one at somepoint
>This happened to me too. He had untreated bipolar disorder. He was so sweet and tender with me when he was well. He got very sick.
if you don't mind me asking is he still around? I mean if he is sick he could treated and gets back to you, you know
>v3nalv3p and IpWofLq0, you guys are cool. :)
meh it's whatever I'm not cool

>>34731352
>I'm not cool
You’re so freaking cool anon don’t worry :)
>is he still around?
I don’t have any of his contact info. I’m sure he’s alive. I have no way to reach him. I also would have no way of predicting how he would respond if I did, if he’d be “safe” again. Because of his bipolar.

>>34731369
>I don’t have any of his contact info. I’m sure he’s alive. I have no way to reach him. I also would have no way of predicting how he would respond if I did, if he’d be “safe” again. Because of his bipolar.
You should do a bit of digging and stalking to get him back hehe
but seriously why don't you just try to do some digging maybe you will get a contact info and try at least to talk to him and ask about how he's down remind me of that ending of cry of fear how sophie kept visiting simon on his mental hospital it was really nice and cute
You should probably check on him whenever you get the time
>You’re so freaking cool anon don’t worry :)
I'M NOT OK!! hmph stop I'm not cool I'm piece of shit

I got no internet I'll go to sleep now
I'll reply to your posts when I get internet back tomorrow hope the theard won't get archive by then gn everyone

>>34731378
>You should do a bit of digging and stalking to get him back hehe
Haha. I do check the archives. He used a pretty specific, obscure app to msg with me so I search the keyword. I have never played Cry of Fear. You should watch Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.
>>34731390
Gn <3

>>34731394
>I do check the archives. He used a pretty specific, obscure app to msg with me so I search the keyword
that's great get in touch with him then if you can or family preferably
>Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.
Oh dear another romance movie
those type of movies always make me cry all the time
blue valentine
la la land
sigh I will watch it looks like a great movie
anyways I gotta go
bye

>>34730096
No, not surprised. More like annoyed at the specific brand of mental illness. I don't mind the clinginess or the daddy issues, but I can't handle bitches with that severe abandonment fuckery. Especially those that have zero friends and actively sabotage any attempts by me to introduce them to new people.

>>34728726
They tend to say one horrendous thing or another, directly to and about me. This is after I've been trying to meetup irl. Why would they expect me to stay and want more of that? It's clear they aren't interested and are trying to sabotage any relationship, and blame me, instead of being direct and just saying no.

I'm not ghosting, they are aborting it.

>>34731314
>90% of the people in my country are just like that always hate on each other
I think that's people everywhere. It's incentivized on the internet and it bleeds over into real life
>I fucking hate phones so much
I do too and I think there's a sense of impermanence to relationships now because of them. There's always someone else you can talk to because of how we're all connected now, so investing anything into anyone feels like a waste. Talk to someone awhile, ignore them, get a new person. Everything stays shiny and new. It's extremely disconcerting and dehumanizing but it seems to be how people are now. Attention economy or something like that.
>I don't mind being alone
I'm alone more often than not and I go through long periods of not having any friends. I'd rather have no friends than bad ones, but I've always been ok with being completely alone. Mostly. My loneliness doesn't go away just from talking to people, I need to feel a real connection. I feel a lot better with one person in my life that I know well than a dozen people that aren't that close to me.

> I would forgive him
I think we've talked on here before about that guy, I hope he comes back too
>I never got sick of him
There was someone like that for me too and I miss them dearly. It's rare to find anyone I can talk to any amount of time without burning out.
Thank you and you're cool too

>>34731322
>they can't really share what's on their mind they get scared they might get judged
That's sort of what I meant by the cultural shift. There was less fear of judgement in the past maybe back in the early 2010s. Or that's my experience at least. I've had plenty of good conversations about gaming or weeb stuff and found it to be interesting. It's learning about the person for me, what they like and why. I always find that interesting. As much of a misanthrope and recluse as I am, I do love people.
>Isn't how friends should be like?
Well, maybe the way he was was good for you. I prefer lower intensity, sitting and talking. Deciding to watch the same movie but doing it at different times. I need a lot of space and feeling like I'm being forced into something makes me uncomfortable.
>hehe my english is horrible
It's understandable which is more than I can say for some people I've run into here lol

Oops messed up my backlink
>>34731661
>>34731317
Meant to reply to you there

>>34731334
>he's only like this with me
That's odd. Maybe he was more comfortable with you and was able to let himself slip. Some people hide their negative traits from other people but let them out with the ones closest to them. It's not good behavior of course but that could be it.
>I get scared to talk so I just stay silent
For the best that you blocked him then. That's really awful. Even if he couldn't control it that's no way to treat a person
>majority are into the crazy cool shit
I don't meet those people very often. Most of the people I talk to have similar interests and lifestyles as me. Maybe I've been lucky or maybe I'm subconsciously selecting for that kind of person
>so I just talk about depressing and bad stuff hehe
That's not necessarily a bad thing but I hope you can try to find good things in your life too. Even if it feels like there aren't any I'm sure if you looked you could find something, even if it was small
>it's just weird and we are not the type to open up you know i tihkn it's just a culture thingy
I've noticed that men in general are hesitant to open up. I am a man, but I've really only been friends with women over the last however many years. I have a hard time talking to men, it feels uncomfortable to have to repress so much and not display any real warmth towards each other. Then again, I would probably be uncomfortable talking to a guy like I talk to a woman so I'm being a little hypocritical in my judgement
>NOO I'm too old and I'm cooked
You're just a babby life has only just begun for you. You'll be fine, just keep on keeping on and things will work out. I wasn't being serious, mostly, but everything gets easier as you get older
>>34731390
Goodnight anon

>>34731661
>I think we've talked on here before about that guy
Lmao I am a broken record yeah, I have talked about him on a few /soc/ threads and also /r9k/. And I WILL do it again!
>There was someone like that for me too and I miss them dearly.
Did they also just vanish one day?

>>34731673
We might have talked on r9k too actually, I don't have the best memory at my advanced age
>And I WILL do it again!
As long as it helps you keep doing it. Writing helps a lot for me to work out feelings. Whether that's here or writing nonsense in a notepad. Has it gotten any easier for you over time?
>Did they also just vanish one day?
No it was complicated and mutual but that hasn't made it much better for me. It's probably for the best like this but I wish things were different
My next reply will be late again, should have said that last time sorry to the other anon

>>34731699
>We might have talked on r9k too
I don’t think we have. Theres a guy on there who always posts pics of seals and talks about a girl who ghosted him, but last time we interacted it seemed like he was doing better. It hasn’t gotten much easier. It basically is the 1 month anniversary since I received any messages from him. So maybe its too soon.

>>34728726
Thanks to /soc/? None.

Thanks to /d/ though, that shit was wild.

>>34729558
hey cutie, the common denominator is you, you've been on 4chan for 16 years

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only had one. it was with a bpd man who I basically gave everything to only to be discarded and monkey branched after 7 years. his monkey branch is ugly, unintelligent, has no hobbies, works a shit dead-end job, peaked in high school, promiscuous pickme, genuinely has no redeeming qualities. which makes it hurt even worse. it was my first relationship and his as well. relationshit as they call em. never again, will die alone I suppose.

>>34731030
did you even try to meet her in real life in those two years?

>>34731877
why did you lose that much time? were you married?

men never love the girl that does everything for them, they do not think like us.

>>34731716
I see that guy sometimes. I thought he was someone else at first because of the seal pictures. It's around the 1 month anniversary for me too actually. I think it takes longer than a month to really get over someone. It'll happen, it just takes time

>>34729558
I’m not going to refute you because people like you rarely listen but to everyone else here just know someone like this steps on the rake with a smile as they do it.

I learned this the hard way befriending & even dating “victims” of domestic abuse & over time just parsed these were individuals consciously or subconsciously gravitating to people they know aren’t fit for a healthy relationship of any kind.

I've never had an actual relationship result from /soc/. I could tell you my best and worst romantic relationships, I've got *one* that resulted from /b/ but that was before /soc/ even existed.

The closest *from* /soc/ are servers I joined from here. They're all nearly as awful as the girls here. 90% of the ones I've joined from soc I have to leave immediately because they turn out to be full of pedos. I guess I could recount horror stories from the 10% that weren't.

>>34731309
Just stop talking to her if you're not attracted instead of leading her on.

>>34731309
Oh man, I did this once but instead it went like

>Meet girl
>Not attracted to her at all but she's smart and we have great conversations so agree to date her.
>She wants to have sex.
>Oh man she's even uglier naked.
>Holy shit her pussy stinks.
>HOLY SHIT I can't even breathe through my nose with her legs open what the fuck, is this normal? I'm breathing through my mouth and trying to filter with my teeth and I STILL smell it.
>It's like something out of a Lovecraft story.
>I'm not eating that shit.
>In the bathroom practically in tears an hour later. The smell won't come off my hands and my junk.
>Am I tarnished for life now? Is this shit going to be what my dick smells like from now on?
>Kept dating her for two years because I thought it would be mean to tell her "I want to break up with you because you're ugly and your pussy smells like one of those zombie fish in that one junji ito story."

>>34729558
Your story has a few problems. I mean, the women here are terrible so it wouldn't surprise me if the men were too, but if as you describe the exact same thing keeps happening to you that would indicate you're at least part of the problem. Also, more specifically:

>I get a lot of attention elsewhere and long term relationships outside of this shit hole.
Relationships, plural, no ring on that finger. Also you're still here on /soc/, so it doesn't sound like you're doing any better irl.

>I thought men here wanted the same thing as me.
This is the most retarded sentence in your entire post. You can't assume this even about people who are the same sex as you in general, but to assume it about the opposite sex who has a completely different set of goals and way of thinking is silly.

>>34732339
>>34731309
Anyway, smelly pussy can be due to a yeast infection. Otherwise if she was fat, I don't know the mechanism for this but it also results in stinky pussy (without an infection). In the latter case it's fine so long as she showers every time before you have sex. Soap can't be used on pussies without nuking everything and guaranteeing infections, but special vagina soap exists and if she just uses that when she showers daily, that might fix it as well.

And for all the virgins out there who might find a girl like that and might end up being scared of giving her up: you're just wasting her time and yours. One day she'll hit the wall and might not have been able to find the right man because you wasted her time like that. And you get to suffer the whole time. Might be hard emotionally, but just end it.

>>34729558
This but replace 'men' with 'women'.
I pursue one woman at a time to the end by the way.

>>34731877
>>34732084
Some of us do love and appreciate that. I'd cherish something like that greatly if I ever found it...Neither of us should die alone, we deserve true love and real happiness..

>>34731877
Literally me except gender-swapped and she was BD rather than BPD.

Pretty, new to /soc/ but is it common to meet up and stuff? I'm guessing location is pretty important, so where are the majority of people located on this board?

>>34732451
It used to be what the board was more or less about and there used to be lots of meetup threads. Nowadays it's basically an /r9k/ sister board though.
I'm in Sweden but most people are in the US, with a pretty big crowd throughout the UK. There is a healthy enough central Europe population, and as far as I saw, not too many eastern europeans, asians, or global southerners.

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>>34732477
We know who to thank for that.

>>34732477
>not too many eastern europeans
really?? feel like slavs and balkans are second only to UK (if we're counting it) in commonality for euro posters here, I've talked to assorted slavs and brits the most

>>34732619
It could obviously be selection bias. I've also talked to a lot of brits but otherwise it's been mostly central europeans. Quite a few frogs around, some spaniards and shitalians in particular.

during lockdowns in 2020 i made threads where people got together and talked about blowjob centric relationships. i guess kind of just an "oral enthusiast" thread. some people would come to drop contact and look to hook up, some would just tell stories. There was a thread regular girl who would post stories and hang out talking to people, who seemed nice and chill. we talked in the threads a bit and then exchanged contact. it was playful flirting at first but then just became a genuine friendship. we would watch anime together in call and talk a lot most days. we didnt live close to each other but we talked about taking trips together and stuff, imagined traveling to new lands and kicking around. a few years into it she happened to be on a layover about five hours north of me, so i drove up overnight so i could meet her in person. we ended up only having about a half hour before her next flight after all that but it was really sweet. about a year after that we planned and traveled to south america together, driving all over and getting into all sorts of hijinks for about three weeks. i guess this is off topic ish because this is asking about relationships and what im describing isnt really that, but we share a complex kind of bond. I think we're gonna try to travel again together this year :)

>>34731240
as i mentioned i'm quite bland. i'm quite content going to dinner, coming home making myself a drink, and being in bed in by 11. i guess my red flag is "high sex drive" but its 4chan, everyone has that at times. i had my clingy stint a couple years ago with someone from /soc/ because i thought they were generally into me, had a couple meetups but it didn't pan out.
> spoiler, they weren't into me and just wanted money
> i get it, but that one stung a bit

i don't ever mind helping with rent, the occasional gift, buying groceries etc. but i'm more than cashpoint.

these days if i pursue someone online in general (dating apps, /soc/, whatever), i usually delay bringing up i'm worth 2 commas after some time unless i'm in a "looking to fly you out for a fun weekend, nothing more" mood.

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>>34732359
Oh yeah, I know all that now. Her hormones were way out of wack. For starters, she told me people had complained she smelled bad her whole life. She also had bad breath and B.O., I was just the first person to catch a whiff of the swampcat.

She was morbidly obese before she met me. She'd lost 185 pounds. By the time I met her she was just fat, but with all that mass removed she looked like a deflated michelin man. You know the big babies from Nothing But Trouble? Either one would have been a massive improvement.

I learned all about the effect of soap on her pussy the hard way. Did you know yeast infections are communicable? The skin peeled on my dick.

I think part of it was just that I wasn't physically attracted to her so I rejected her on a chemical level, because I was later with plenty of girls I was into and even when they stank, they stank *good*.

>>34732796
>I think part of it was just that I wasn't physically attracted to her so I rejected her on a chemical level, because I was later with plenty of girls I was into and even when they stank, they stank *good*.
Yes, that is correct. Of course the same works backward as well. It's not just smell but taste as well (notably cum). It's a good way to tell if someone is suddenly attracted or not attracted to you when these things change.

>>34731661
>I think that's people everywhere. It's incentivized on the internet and it bleeds over into real life
yeah true many people are straight up evil
>There's always someone else you can talk to because of how we're all connected now
No matter where you go, everyone's connected
hehe I'm sorry I had to say it
>Talk to someone awhile, ignore them, get a new perso
I hate that so much that's why I said I'm very picky about people I add cause many of them are just like you mentioned they just bounce from a person to another wasting effort and enegry of others who are actually looking for something genuine many of people here on /soc/ esp in this thread had the same issue they just get ghosted by people they like and end up finding those people posting here and talking to other people it's areally annoying
> Everything stays shiny and new. It's extremely disconcerting and dehumanizing but it seems to be how people are now. Attention economy or something like that.
That's straight up evil and disgusting behavior anyone like that should be dead
joking but it's just not nice and dumb
>I'm alone more often than not and I go through long periods of not having any friends. I'd rather have no friends than bad ones, but I've always been ok with being completely alone. Mostly. My loneliness doesn't go away just from talking to people, I need to feel a real connection. I feel a lot better with one person in my life that I know well than a dozen people that aren't that close to me.
YOU ARE LITERALLY ME ANON :(
I relate to this it's just the same with me i hate having people who are not close to me i hate that like I said before I enjoyed lonliness when I was a kid but always got jealous of people who played with their friends online and always wanted to do the same but sadly it did happen but i only got approached by pedos and grommers
I did go through periods of being alone cause I hated all of my friends and I just deleted everything it was nice

>>34731665
>That's sort of what I meant by the cultural shift. There was less fear of judgement in the past maybe back in the early 2010s. Or that's my experience at least. I've had plenty of good conversations about gaming or weeb stuff and found it to be interesting. It's learning about the person for me, what they like and why. I always find that interesting. As much of a misanthrope and recluse as I am, I do love people.
You know something anon I feel like all people are alike at this point all are retarded and just very few who actually worth time and effort into making an actual good relationship
>I need a lot of space and feeling like I'm being forced into something makes me uncomfortable.
he was forcing me cause I was being really boring and just doing nothing all day which made him sad and wanted me to work on myself and at least change my mindset and try to work myself and stuff I really don't how to explain it but I appreciate he did that
maybe if he didn't probably nothing will change
>Well, maybe the way he was was good for you. I prefer lower intensity, sitting and talking. Deciding to watch the same movie but doing it at different times.
Tbh despite him being busy he's in med school and doctor and everything but somehow always been online with me 24/7 esp in summer we were always online it's was nice
>It's understandable
phew I'm glad you actually understand what I'm trying to say I always gets scared to say something wrong that will cause other people to be really upset at me

>>34731668
>That's odd. Maybe he was more comfortable with you and was able to let himself slip.
I mean he said he gets angry at people all the time but somehow everybody likes him and don't show any haterd towards him or anything despite him snapping at them I remember he was asking how to download mutiple parts of an archive file I told to use idm for it cause it downloads stuff simultaneously but he kept aruging with me about how it's not while it's literally written there on the software itself then I raised my voice a bit and he yelled at me so loud and told me to shut the fuck up and left and came up after like few hours he didn't say much when he came back just started to be light and make small talks he sometimes apologizes
I don't really get it I feel it's all my fault cause I met many people and many hated me few days ago somebody said I was an insufferable I can't understand myself and why people hate it tried to reflect but nothing i don't get it
>That's really awful. Even if he couldn't control it that's no way to treat a person
fr he sensed that something is wrong I tried to get the courage to speak a bit but we ended up fighting again that day
>Most of the people I talk to have similar interests and lifestyles as me. Maybe I've been lucky or maybe I'm subconsciously selecting for that kind of person
I don't get it maybe it's just me who think that way cause I always wanted to go crazy but I can't really go crazy cause it's not morally good like partying, taking drugs, fucking bitches whatever is all that people always said I'm too innocent for that stuff and no matter how much I try to get myself into it it just doesn't work for me
I mean i still feel music and those stuff are very generic so I'm literally nobody
many from soc adds me and ask for hobbies and intrests and I just can't tell them anything intrestsing about they get really bored very quickly they always into hiking, outdoors, fishing, science but me it's nothing

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>>34731668
Like I said before I feel like music, games and all the pop culture is just a form of entertainment other than actual hobbies or intersts unless it was on a techincal side
>That's not necessarily a bad thing but I hope you can try to find good things in your life too. Even if it feels like there aren't any I'm sure if you looked you could find something, even if it was small
I'm trying but nothing so far
>I have a hard time talking to men, it feels uncomfortable to have to repress so much and not display any real warmth towards each other
I have many females on our house so I know how women are like and I don't enjoy talking to them that much I always try to avoid to talk to my sisters and mom a lot cause it's weird and makes me kinda feminine in a way
it's really hard find a man who is understandble and nice cause most men are just violent and will be like you pathetic cuck why don't you just do whatever the fuck you want a very glow up or something they will be just like that but sometimes that just destroy you more than it helps you know what I mean
I hope you understand what I tried to say and at the same time talking to women who are not family is just way worst cause you can't really be free when you are talk you always to watch out for any sus thing you might say that's why I always avoid women online and just look for males instead
>You're just a babby life has only just begun for you. You'll be fine, just keep on keeping on and things will work out. I wasn't being serious, mostly, but everything gets easier as you get older
I Have no future nothing is getting easier anon it's all fucked there is no hope it may feel like being 19 is young but no each year matters and all yeares of my life are just gone to waste

>>34732084
he had an engagement ring picked out and we were already living together but going to get a house and start a family. or so he said. then shortly after deciding on an engagement ring boom discard and monkey branch, went chernobyl. he was my only support system so now I am alone left to pick up the pieces. I will never make the mistake of falling in love again.
>>34732408
sorry that happened anon, this is something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy it's so painful.

I've gotten into one long term relationship on /soc/ but for the most part I find what seems like mutual interest and enthusiasm for a few days, only to get randomly blocked out of nowhere. Why do men on here have so much time to just pretend to be into you for days? I genuinely don't get it.

OP your image makes me so sad. It reminds me of my first serious relationship. Literally captures the essence down to the appearances and personalities. :(

cute h0meschooled girl could use some genuine friends, I feel she can use longterm friends who make her feel loved +++ Her TG is YGE3ZL2XK

>>34729419
>>34729465
>>34729559
>her
>she
you mean him, he? you realize that you were talking to a mentally ill man that thinks we live in a world where you can change genders? no shit that nigga was mentally ill and crazy... how fucking retarded are you lil bro?

>>34730995
hey, don't get all sad now... I'm nice and loving and I think we could get along! I'd love to listen to you yap about literally anything, and I'm online almost all the time!!! I'll text you a lot and say nice things! so you should talk to me...

>>34734578
>hey, don't get all sad now... I'm nice and loving and I think we could get along! I'd love to listen to you yap about literally anything, and I'm online almost all the time!!! I'll text you a lot and say nice things! so you should talk to me...
really will you do that??
you sound nice gimme your tag I'll add you

>>34734594
yes!!! my tag is whuhhuhwhathuh on discord!!

>>34734620
done added you hehe

Only relationship I've had on here was a woman that checked pretty much most of my specific but important boxes, but what doomed it was that we moved too quick and she wasn't quite clear on if she was gonna settle in my area eventually. I think I messed up too but its a shame. We got along great and I wish we made more of an effort on each other.

Anyways, dating in here is pretty much like any other dating avenue at this point. You are extremely lucky if you find your person on here, but at the end of the day don't put your eggs in one basket. And be ESPECIALLY careful before committing.

>>34728726
I've had exactly one relationship from 4chan, so it ties for best and worst.
Spent over 10k on plane tickets and other travel expenses to get cucked and have nudes leaked.
I still like crazy loser girls but I'm going to be less naive if I ever meet someone else from here.

>>34736339
sounds like a interesting story lol
wanna share more? where did you fly to and what happened then?

>>34736339
It's not that interesting really.
We met in some loser Discord server like it usually goes.
Crushed on her because I had never met an approachable terminally online woman before.
Flew to the US a couple of times and also paid for her to visit me in Europe.
Things were good for a while but then she started talking about sexual fantasies involving other men.
Eventually she had a BPD episode and cut contact for a few days.
When she came back she casually told me she had just been fucking some other guy at a hotel the whole time.

>>34736422
Meant to reply to >>34736360