A thread for those who miss someone. Whether you got ghosted, fumbled a relationship/friendship, or just want to anonymously yearn for someone, this thread is for you.
I did miss the idea of someone from here but in the end we never really got to know each other because, well, I just don't think they were over their ex and were trying to find them in me and once that illusion wore off the relationship ended. As for people from real life, sometimes I wonder what life would be like if me and you got married at 22 Emily.
>>35074698idk, i think if you lose touch with someone on soc that isn't accidental (they can't log into their account or something) it's for the best to not remain connected. so many people here are deeply unwell or just not emotionally mature enough for connections. or even basic shit like asking someone questions to get to know them lmfao
>>35074722Prying is rude, and you don’t get to know people based off questions lmaoYou’re just projecting at this point rofl
I saw you writing that you missed me in another thread some months ago. You shouldn't.
>>35074728thank you for your input hate
Olivia, I doubt you’ll see this, but if you do, please just tell me what happened. It’s killing me. If it’s what I thought, that’s horrible, fine, I can move on and just hate your fucking guts. But if it was my fault and I was just being insane and paranoid, I’m genuinely sorry.
>>35074730Why
mo you abandoned me. theres no other way to put it.
I have avpd so I'm trying to be better about maintaining connections. But genuinely, it does feel like most people I talk to don't even seem to actually like me or really "see" me. Can you blame me for cutting them loose? Just doing us both a favor.
To this day, I still miss that Korean girl; she meant the world to me, but our relationship ended when she came out, she’s asexual now (Probably lesbian, idk) she’d been deceiving me all along, and I had a really tough time in 2025.
>>35074806Because I think I was using them as validation, to prove that I was still desirable, after being told over and over that I wasn't. That I couldn't have actually been with them, and that the more I learned about them, the more that was proved to myself. So I lied about why I couldn't continue speaking to them and essentially ghosted.
>>35074890This is vague enough you got me fucked up, gratz.
>>35074722this is true>>35074728autistic retard>>35074730>>35074890typical female
>>35074916I'm sorry. I should have been honest.
I miss Wren
>>35074928Okay for my sake name one specific thing only we'd know so I can just write this all off as vagueposting
I'm honestly glad you actually took the advice I gave you years ago and actually blocked me, lol. I hope it turned off the "I hope I dont hurt their feelings" part of your brain so that you can block and delete more people instead of just ignoring them until they go away like some absolute coward.A part of me thinks it would've been nice to catch up after all this time, but it's probably best that we don't. Anyways, hope all is well, lil nigga. See ya around, probably.
>>35074936Music and freemasons.
>>35074941Ah, no not me lol nvm
>>35074698I miss the girl I spent months doing daily vcs with. She made me realize that I'm not as much of a retard as a think even if I let myself believe that our friendship meant as much to her as I
I met this really nice ftm person here and after a week I just got no reply and 0 contact for 3 days with no explanation and then they came back like nothing happened. I thought I really hit it off this time and they said they really enjoyed talking to me aswell. I felt really betrayed. Everyone treats me the same no matter what I guess I should get used to it.
i miss my friend alan.
>>35074971I had a friend named Alan when I was 6 years old, for some reason he was the only kid in school who was nice and kind to my autistic ass. Here's to Alans.
>>35074810when did mo abandon you?
>>35074938i am sorry to you and feel bad. thank you for being my friend when i had nobody (lol). i agree it’s for the best. hope you’re okay
>>35074698I still miss you sometimes Bo
The interactions you people have with eachother from this board are so generic that the vagueposts made in these threads make you think at least 3 people in them are talking about you specifically
To the guy who jerked off on cam for me, I still think abt u sometimes, your moans were very cute.
>>35075026nah this guy just completely just disappeared, and deleted months worth of messages. hes a freaking weirdo, fuck him. still miss him though.
I miss her. She's the only girl who genuinely love me but I was too young to realize it. She was the only girl who accepted my disease without being disgusted by and with whom I could genuinely laugh or talk about. I fumbled, it's 100% my fault, I've been awful to her and no girl ever liked me since. 8 years later and I still think about her everyday
>>35075183I’ll gladly do it again
can someone give me some advice? id prefer to talk it over discord: meandmycar
>>35074971Is it the soc girl Alan? I miss her too.
>>35075090Don't feel bad. There's nothing to feel bad about. Spending time with you was a great experience because it taught me ALOT about myself and it opened my eyes to alot of bullshit, so I thank you for that. And unlike most of my other short-term friendships, ours at least ended on a somewhat positive note... kind of?I'm doing great, by the way. I managed to finally make friends again (all thanks to a serial ghoster, not you btw), and I've also killed off the part of me that was a clingly little doormat. I'm honestly a completely different person now and it's all (mostly) thanks to you, so yeah.. don't feel bad. If you do for whatever reason want to reach out again, you know where to find me. o7
>>35075563She and I had a fun week. Miss that girl. Clearly mentally off though.
>>35075563>>35075603that bitch was evil why would you miss herhot, but still, evil
>>35075563idk who tf that is. im talking about a man.
>>35075675She drained me for a week is why I miss her
>>35075603>>35075697She draines your bank account or balls?
I miss myself.
>>35074698Not a single day goes by without me thinking of a very special someone I met from here who will always be the most important person in the world to me. I am constantly replaying memories of us together in my head and dream about them almost every night. Nobody can replace the void they left behind and I will never stop loving them.
>>35075961Yeah, I have that effect on people.
>>35074849>most people I talk to don't even seem to actually like me or really "see" meHow can they see you if you insist on hiding away? People get tired of the chase eventually if you don't also put the effort in.
>>35075564yeah there’s just too much baggage. if only there was a reset button ya know? did you watch the last of us season 2? lol just curious
>>35074791Olivia is a BPDemon. She was good while I had her though, just move on man, better out there.
I do miss the good fake version of you. Not the lying degenerate faggot you actually are. I made mistakes but you outright lied about who you were. I really would’ve preferred if you had died and I could’ve just mourned you as a misunderstood and pained woman rather than a demon.
cotton i miss you
>>35075961Same man. Same. Met her when I was 14. Spent every day with her. We were like siblings. Then one day, she was gone. Far too soon My mind always drifts to her at night. Wondering what she'd think of the person I've become.
Dear R, I miss you a lot. I often think about how you are, and whether you are smiling again. So many things remind me of you and I don't think I will ever forget how special you made me feel. I wish we could have been happy together, I really wanted to hold you at least once in my life. I think we could have been together. You will always be my favorite person.
>>35078227can you do one of these for every letter of the alphabet
>>35077770I mean at this point we might as well just add eachother again lol. We can just wipe our dms again and start fresh. Things wont be as cringe and gay as last time since you wouldnt be the only friend I'd be talking to :^). And to answer your question, I think I watched most of it. I remember seeing the two characters get gay with eachother and like just got sick of seeing the potato girls face so I stopped watching.. so I've got like 3 or 4 more episodes left to watch?But yeah, just add me back fool. No bullshit this time around. You can find a tag you added before in the sfw thread.
>>35078051damn at first i thought that said colton and i was shocked that anyone would have this reaction for him
>>35074698>"Loved your ad, looking forward to chat!">Ghosted>"That scene sounds great, excited to play it out.">Ghosted>"Wow that was a lot of fun, can't wait for the next one.">GhostedI don't think people actually want a roleplay partner.
I think about you literally almost every day. Even when I’m with him I will think of you. I feel awful but I can’t help but miss your smell, your voice, and more than anything your hands and how they held me. I’m reminded of you constantly, you exist in every corner of my brain and every crevice of my body aches for your touch again. I’ve come so close to calling or emailing, and then I get mad at you, or feel cringe about some of the things I did for your validation, or scared because what if you don’t miss me? Maybe you never noticed my absense these last four years and what if you’re happy with someone else, and maybe worst of all what if our relationship is what it seemed like from the outside? How could I of ever introduced you to my friends or family without them looking at us and thinking the same thing? if I did talk to you again how could you forgive me? I wish you wouldve made good on your pretty promises, and we could’ve done all those things, if you had delivered even once I would’ve never looked back and put it all in on you. I hope you’re not so sad anymore and selfishly I hope you’re alone. I day dream about the life I would’ve had with you, and I listen to all the songs you showed me. You genuinely probably don’t think of me at all, I was probably a blip in your life and just a girl you never took seriously or even wanted in any real kind of way. But goddamnit It sure felt that way and I don’t know if anyone will ever be able to make me feel like you did. One day I want to tell you that but I’m fucking coward who is too scared to go after what I really want.
>>35078472quit worrying and thinking so much retard, life is what you make it. Who gives a shit what other people think
>>35078500Gonna make this my monthly affirmation
>>35075961i would have left you too if i knew i was talking to a jojo faggot lol
i really miss this guy i talked to for awhile who was a furry... he was extremely cute and i was very in love with him but i'm so bpd and i didnt think i deserved to talk to him so i was really horrible to him and drove him away. i hope you are happy now andrew i still think about you lots :(
>>35074698I miss Vandelay, hope you're doing okay out there buddy>>35074722Depends on what kind of deeply unwell, sometimes people just need others to be patient with whatever they're going though. I've been there myself so I like to give others benefit of the doubt
>>35078716why not just get back in contact with this Vandelay person?i don't mean like, avoidant and pushing away non-maliciously. but there are some downright cruel people on here, maybe that's how they naturally are even without mental illness
I think it's best to move on. Better to know a door is closed than to hope It's ajar even a little. I straight up got my passport for a gal on here. She always went on about what we'd do if I was local. Even talked about marriage and kids. Truth is lotta people just wanna play make believe. You're like a toy to them. Planning your future together. She's playing The Sims with probably five other dudes. Don't ever let yourself give up real opportunities for ideas. If someone wants to be in your life they'll put in the effort. Quit putting yourself on a silver platter for people that won't even leave bones afterward.
You walked into a bar in Yokohama the first time I saw you. Eurasian, half gaijin, long-hipped and fluid in a Chinese knock-off of some Tokyo designer's original. Dark European eyes, Asian cheekbones. I remember you dumping your purse out on the bed, later, in some hotel room, pawing through your makeup. A crumpled wad of new yen, dilapidated address book held together with rubber bands, a Mitsubishi bank chip, Japanese passportwith a gold chrysanthemum stamped on the cover, and the Chinese .22. You told me your story. Your father had been an executive in Tokyo, but now he was disgraced, disowned, cast down by Hosaka, the biggest zaibatsu of all. That night your mother was Dutch, and I listened as you spun out those summers in Amsterdam for me, the pigeons in Dam Square like a soft, brown carpet. I never asked what your father might have done to earn his disgrace. I watched you dress; watched the swing of your dark, straight hair, how it cut the air. Now Hosaka hunts me.
>>35075107If you got my phone you can message me at any time, if not then you are the wrong person so nvm
Hi J,I don’t think just words can describe how much I miss you. I hope your mom is in good health. I miss hanging out with you. I miss feeling your hands on my body and feeling your lips on mine and feeling you inside of me. I miss running my hands through your long brown hair as you ate me out and gave me the best orgasms of my life. I miss being in your car late ay night, with you driving me around to our favorite songs. I miss watching you play your guitar and talk about one day wanting to make music. You were simultaneously the best and worst thing to ever happen to me. I wonder if we could’ve been more than just fwbs. I wish we were more, but you probably didn’t want that and that’s okay. There’s a huge age gap in between us anyway. But I really do miss you and I want to reconnect eventually. I messaged you, but you haven’t replied in 2 months. I hope you’re okay. Please don’t forget me.- S
>>35078740He wasn't doing great and hasn't replied in like a week. I generally avoid /soc/ but figured I'd check the archives and a few threads to if he's been back here but looks like he hasn't>downright cruel peopleI don't think anyone will miss those sorta mentally ill folks or post about them in this thread
>>35078904i hope you hear back from him>I don't think anyone will miss those sorta mentally ill folks or post about them in this threadyou'd be surprised sadly
I miss my Strawberry/Miu-chan...
Decchan, are you still here? I haven't forgotten about you, and I doubt I will for a long time. You were absolutely perfect to me and I really wanted to be your girlfriend, more than anything. Maybe things that seem too good to be true always are, but I still wouldn't take back the "I love you". If it was all real it's worth every risk of looking like a fool, even now.
>>35079527whats the story if you dont mind me asking?
>>35074966did this person's name begin with S? I used to know someone who was a lot like this. She'd complain that she was the one being ghosted, I'd ask for a screenshot of the convo, and the last message would be from the other person asking a question or something, I'd have to convince S that she was the one doing the ghosting, and that she should reply.
>>35075744the latter
I'm looking for people who know a person called Krista who used to post on this board. Especially if you had bad experiences with her
>>35080082She was a lesbian right?
My Little Moo disappeared almost 3 months ago, and its killing me.We've been friends for years, and get along great, so I don't see any reason why she'd ghost me. Im worried about her, and I pray that whatever is going on that shes ok.
