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I've been striking out a lot. The last two femanons who added me both ghosted after one day, and the last one before that only lasted a week at most. I don't know if I'm just boring or move too slowly or what.

How about you?
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>>35127987
/soc/ is not a blog
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>>35128015
It's a meta thread you dip
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It's really changed over the past 2 years. There are in fact more girls now, but the quality has declined incredibly.
In the same way how they're all into the most niche crazy shit from 2015/16 but it's all bullshit and LARPing and not real and lived.
It's all so very hollowed out and 2d. I don't know what to make of it. They're also much easier than girls on here from a few years back, but it feels so dead and mechanical with them and there's nothing sexy or erotic about it.
On the whole the quantity has increased but the quality's just sank thru the bottom into hell. I miss the 2015-19 whores an awful lot. That type of crazy was at least engaging.
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>>35127987
seems more or less the same for me

getting harder to land dates with 18-21 year olds though now that i'm in my mid 30s
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>>35127987
Hardly anyone is even worth adding from posts. I think the older you are on here, the more glaring your issues are.
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>>35128023
yea i remember in the early to mid 2010s things were super easy now it's a slog

gotta learn to vet and filter out and hold out for only the women with super high interest levels instead of wasting your time chasing women with lukewarm interest.
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>>35128023
>There are in fact more girls now, but the quality has declined incredibly.
Women really do ruin everything
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>>35127987
Lifelong trauma and absurd sexual addiction to my abusive ex-girlfriend from here who I basically worship as a pseudo-deity at this point, aside from that doing fine I guess.
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>>35127987
Haven't been using /soc/ for very long, but it really doesn't seem to be a worthwhile endeavor. No matter how well a conversation seems to be going, the other party will just stop responding one day, and I'll quietly remove them from my list after a month of silence. Luckily for me, I touch grass on a regular basis and don't actually need /soc/ to meet people; I just thought it might be cool to connect with some anons.
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>>35127987
All of the "women" here are either autistic, bipolar, or anti social, or a mix of all 3. They are not worth interacting with. This is coming from someone who has unfortunately added many of these lower lifeforms. All they will do is waste your time and potentially ruin your mental.
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>>35127987
It's alright I suppose. I use /soc/ because I'd like to select against people who are too mentally healthy (you know it to be true), I can't be surprised when the people I get aren't mentally healthy. Out of 20+ people that contacted me (including ghosters and obvious mismatches), I've gotten 2 people who I enjoy talking with a lot.
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I have 7 women i can sext with and actually get pics back or fap together, smoke weed naked, or just be socially nude with on vid call.

I have never got more out of /soc/ than right now.

Tbh im decently entertaining conversationalist and tall and handsome so im not saying the average user will achieve this.

Probably sounds like bragging but im just curious if other men are finding it better than ever the past year or so
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>>35133412
it's much easier but they're also all soulless. if you genuinely enjoy their company i gotta question your ensoulment too
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>>35133497
He's bragging about having access to whores and smoking weed. He's trashy
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>>35133497
>>35133510
Relying on a "perfect connection" with a woman is pretty lame. Work on yourself to find that happiness or you will be depressed for the rest of your life. My happiness comes from within and women can tell I dont pine for them or need them. Funny enough that actually attracts them harder.
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>>35133571
Where did anyone say anything about a perfect connection? You're trashy and immoral. 7 whores and all you have to show for it is dude, weed, lmao and getting nudes. Worthless
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>>35133577
Who said anything about having anything to show for soc connections?
Nothing the OP has said implies marriage or anything long term.
If youre looking for that on soc you're actually fucked in the head or just old.
Its genuinely more sad to trawl the threads here adding every "f" expecting true love.
Youre wasting hundreds of hours of your life and im at least busting a nut with a real human being.
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Not only femanons, regular anons suck too. Like, I'm not interested in you cunt if I'm the only one who moves the conversation forward, or see you making posts here even though you're supposedly "found the one" (plenty of folks here will tell you that you're the one and keep posting anyway).
Ghosters are so common that I just automatically unadd everyone who hasn't replied in 3 days. Oh, and if they will come back, it's not worthy adding them again, because, well, they'll still ghost you, lol. I guess they just need someone to be a part of their gay network who will tolerate their bullshit or smth
The amount of boring people without soul and interests here is high, just like on every website
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>>35133571
I never said anything about that. I'm also no moralfag. By soul I mean depth and intensity and vitality and creativity and all those things.
I ger more nudes and cyber more with girls from here than any year before, that's why I agreed on them being easier than ever. But there's absolutely no substance to them. And that used to be different. The bpd whores of yore were at least fascinating for a few weeks or months. Now it's all samey.
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You mean on /soc/? This board is a lost cause. It's been completely taken over by faggots and trannies.
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>>35133645
Fair enough. I have only the expectation of casual friendship with added benefits. If you want all this inspiration go talk to dudes women are inherently vapid as they get attention regardless because of their tits. Lead the conversational charge by being witty.
To be fair
I havent been on here that long (past 3 years), so it seems fine to me. That coupled with internet frenships being largely based out of convenience and no responsibility to show up irl means its inherently less real and strongly connected.
Couple that witht he fact with age on 4chan comes jadedness and youre kinda doomed if you put stock in this place.
May you find that connection with a femanon at your local game shop or something wholesome like that.
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>>35127987
Pretty good anon. I'm lucky to be alive. Life is fleeting and death awaits me. I'm thinking, I'm gonna sit under the shade of the tree soon, before the sun sets. Can only enjoy the tree while the suns out and my legs are tired from standing here and asking why is tree. Why doth life anon? Well, it doth Lu le la li lo
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>>35127987
Three ghosts from roleplay partners I felt like I had great compatibility with, a dozen contacts of people who can't string a sentence together, and four consecutive adds that went nowhere. I have never felt more alone in my life.
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Over the past 4ish years, I've met literally one person worth talking to, and naturally she went away (she said goodbye at least).Other people have been just barely distinguishable from decade old chatbots.
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>>35127987
Oh I know I'm boring and move slow. I can keep conversations rolling once they get started, but I am terrible at reaching out.
I try to only add people that seem good at kicking things off. But as soon as they stop my paranoia and apd kick in.
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>>35127987
Just played mvm and got the worst fucking KS kit ever so pretty shitty desu
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Alright. I seem to be awful at getting back to people who seem well. But want to text people who has similar issues to me. But of course its never a good idea, im just drawn to those people but I dont add people like that anymore. Doing better as a whole. Graduated college, close to a job and found a great person in real life
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I miss the gay boys.



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