compulsively browsing this board for hours every day in hopes of finding my soulmate is just self harm at this point. i met a girl on a meetup server posted here a couple years ago and dated her for a year, am i delusional for thinking if it can happen once it can happen again?
>>35170556What else is there to do nowadays. If a better option presented itself I would take it.
>>35170556Why the fuck would you want to talk to the nutcases from this board, let alone try to date them? No one from this shithole is worth intetacting with. They are all mentally ill, and not in a good way. You'll find more passion and care talking to a literal wall.
>>35170577Well it's just hard when you're not in a great situation with your surrounding environment. The people outside are not exactly intelligent or kind either, and at least online we can set boundaries. We don't have to breathe the same air and live in close proximity. We don't have to get actually hurt, which is a totally justified fear of the social landscape you're navigating is genuinely volatile and dishonest.
>>35170577It’s very simple>Humans are social animals>Average men are emotionally and sexually starved>Getting a gf is basically impossible for said average male in 2026>Except for this one website where women will very occassionally acknowledge our existence if we type in the correct magic incantations The women here are aware of their overwhelmingly gigantic leverage. Of course they are insufferable for the same reason, but at the very least they are available. The same can’t be said about women who are outside, who can be just as insane, but also completely inaccessible and very unfamiliar with the obscure vocaloid music and rpgmaker games we love. Until we can turn off our desire to mate (this is more difficult than even finding a partner) there’s not much to be done.
>>35170604> >Except for this one website where women will very occasionally acknowledge our existence if we type in the correct magic incantationsHoping this is a joke the way it sounds. Because it doesn’t work that way. The women here are the same as anywhere else, they’re just edgy and maybe have an interest in being e-girls/neet roleplayers. Sure they’ll be willing to use you for attention along with 50 other men on this board if you're willing to jester enough, but at the end of the day, they still only want Chad. You’re delusional if you think the women here are any more accessible. If anything, they’re even less accessible than a normal girl, since a normal girl only meets people at school/work/through friends if she isn’t the dating app type, whereas every woman here has a roster of countless internet men. Ultimately, it’s still all about your(innate, not improved upon) physical appearance. If you can successfully land a girl online, you were always able to get one irl.
>>35170636I got a gf here. It took one single post, my first try actually. I spent years trying just about every other method and it never worked.Was she horrible? Yes. But it was by far the closest I ever got and will likely remain that way until I die.
>>35170636false, i've recieved lots of adds from this board and lots of intros on duolicious as a man and irl i have been on 16 first dates but i have never EVER been able to have a real actual relationship. some of us anons are truly doomed due to social skills rather than looks
>>35170654Then in person is probably your best bet. Looks are entirely removed here, we don't see each other. That alone transfers strain to your social skills.
>>35170676Looks don’t matter irl unless you’re like an objective 9 or 10/10 + tall. Being a moderately attractive man still makes you NPC tier to any average woman outside so seeing dudes squabble about minor point differences in the rate threads is laughable to me.
>>35170676this is me if you want context, id say im a 6 maybe a 7 facially
>>35170639>>35170654>>35170686and here we have retards with decent looks saying “looks don’t matter brah” while completely missing the point entirely. It was never your “‘magic incantation”, you utter fucking dipshits, you just looked good enough and they gave you a shot. What you said was irrelevant. Thank you for justifying what I said
>>35170705Ok thanks I’m looking forward to drowning in pussy tomorrow because I’m a 6/10 instead of a 5/10.
>>35170705no seriously to get a gf irl idk what it is ive seen fat ugly dudes have multiple gfs and they'll be short and unfunny too its crazy maybe it is some magic incantation ive went viral twice for my looks and still have never kissed a womanattached is the time i went viral in japan
>>35170745Seconding the fat short dude thing as well they really are everywhere nowadays, I went to a con and I swear to god not a single dude with a gf was above 6 foot. Where they are getting gfs I have absolutely no fucking clue because I’m as blackpilled on the standard hypergamy theories as everyone else.
>>35170752nah im blackpilled too but have conflicting feelings on myself cause my homies will say im chadlite and shit and i get female attention irl but it never EVER transforms into anything, it makes me feel like im cursed i even flew out to meet a girl i texted off this board but she blocked me WHEN I LANDED, only an hour flight but still
>>35170763I do think you’re fairly attractive for what it’s worth but yes women have their own bizarre criteria and no matter how much it’s studied it all feels at least partially wrong. Nor would I say it’s random enough to be actually random either.
>>35170745>>35170752Some women like fat dudes. This might come as a shock to you, but women can also have types, kinks, and fetishes like men.
>>35170786Why can’t they have a fetish for a 6/10 man then. Guess I better bulk up.
>>35170636Retards like you can never explain the very real ugly bastard phenomenon. you wrote a lot of words but all of them are worthless.
>>35170556>am i delusional for thinking if it can happen once it can happen again?Except for one person in high school, everyone I've dated was someone I met through the internet.Two of my Top 3 longest relationships were with people from 4chan.My most favorite person was someone from /b/.
>>35171712>Except for one person in high school, everyone I've dated was someone I met through the internet.>Two of my Top 3 longest relationships were with people from 4chan.how? can you go through all of them on how you met them?
