Does only one company make a fan? I always see that fan in every laptop.

No, they just made fun of me and my games (it worked and I got good grades because of it)

>>736576527
my dad threatened to do this a lot when I was a kid. all it really taught me to do was to tell him as little as possible about my life and minimally comply to avoid the worst punishments

No but my parents have also never bought me any consoles or computers to do that to. If they did they wouldn't break my shit either though. This is some American culture shit.

>>736576527
Now if only their parents would also sledgehammer their phone.
Correction, his parents should take a sledgehammer to (you) for posting yet another shitass twitter screenshot thread.

>>736576667
>American culture shit
>tweet is from Japanese poster

>>736576527
No but my stepfather stole the Xbox 360 my grandparents got me for Christmas and sold it for drug money.

>>736576667
>Translated from Japanese
>This is some American culture
Brown thirdies are sending their best, and this is it.

>>736576739
>>736576765
Ego that fragile?

>>736576603
it's the perfect laptop fan design
>small
>flat
>noisy, because more noise = more cooling
>gets clogged with dust and shit so that the system melts down within 6 months of the warranty expiring unless you dust them yourself (which almost nobody ever does)

>>736576527
holy attention seeking

>>736576831
Hands that brown?

>>736576527
no my dad just beat my ass in the games instead
fuck you dad stop SHOOTING THE FUCKING MAGIC WE NEED THAT FOR WHEN DEATH POPS OUT OF A FUCKING CHEST
i miss him

>>736576527
what's the context here, caught by his parents doing what?

>>736576527
I'm too white to do stuff like this to my kids unfortunately

>>736576937
No. Post hand to compare.

>>736576658
>tell him as little as possible about my life and minimally comply to avoid the worst punishments
This might not have been a bad lesson desu, so many people get themselves into trouble talking to much and being to honest

>>736576973
he dropped his switch in the pool or something and then decided to shash it and post some fake story on the internet for free twitter follows

>>736577112
*too
*too

>>736576527
No my dad and mom used to brutally hit me with belts and shoes.

>>736576973
Gay secs

>>736576652
They ruined your life then. Good grades is a sign of a worthless mind.

Well, not as a punishment, but my mother threw all my boxes away, for her it was "just cardboard", but they mostly ignored me.

my parents confiscated my ps2 for a month after I kicked my older sister's door down in an autistic rage
Never broke it though, why would you break your own expensive things?

Parents weren't retards, so they simply confiscated the power supply for a while

>>736576658
The worst kind of worthless parents
Almost as bad as physically abusive ones

>>736576658
My dad also often threatened to nail our Game Boy to the wall with "six inch iron nail". Don't know why six inch, he probably just thought it sounded cool.

>>736577283
>after I kicked my older sister's door down in an autistic rage

Based. I've done that too.

>>736576739
>>736576765
Seethe amerishits

>>736576527
My mom gave away my favorites toys to charity when I was a kid.

No. My parents tried multiple times to set time-limits, boundaries, groundings, etc. related to videogames and eventually they just gave up.

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>>736577110
k
If I don't see yours in about 10 minutes I will know White Jesus is looking down on me.

>>736577310
My grandpa used to turn the power in the entire house, so I couldn't use the PC, because he was a retard and couldn't just take the power cord.

>>736576527
No, but my dad sold my Gameboy so he could buy heroin. To be fair, heroin is pretty rockin.

>>736577283
>why would you break your own expensive things?
Because the goal is getting back at you under the guise of good parenting

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>>736577358

>>736577247
>Good grades is a sign of a worthless mind.
This kek

>>736577358
Jeets seething
Love to see it

>>736577395
Autistic reddit hand. I win automatically.

>>736576957
Playing dark legacy with my step dad is one of the only positive memories I have of him. Drugs really are terrible anons.

one time when I was maybe 7 years old, maybe 6, my dad caught me trying to take my gameboy to school so he grabbed it and slammed it into the carpeted floor. bounced and landed directly in my hands so i turned it on to check if it was fine, it was, so i just set it down and then nothing happened after that

>>736577442
>>736577446
Post hands negroe mutts

>>736577408
Uhhh how do you know, have you tried it?

>>736577343
I love how they are just sitting on the system menu, it's obviously staged but it just makes the PS4 having no games even funnier

>>736577467
And then everyone clapped

>>736577343
if my son was a snoy I'd do this too and then kick him out and remove him from my will

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>>736577526
>>736577506

>>736577343
based, snoys must die

>>736577549
it's not that deep

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>>736577112
He's on 4 chan, his dad taught him to be anti social and that its more rewarding not to open up to people.
People who blab about their crimes are retards.
People who are honest and can talk a lot are rewarded by their charisma alone.

>>736577280
Oh, also not a punishment eithet but my father gave away my(his actually) NES with tons of carts to a poor kid right after I bought a Play Station.

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>>736577454
>Sars, I'm White too

>>736577283
>>736577327
Are doors in thirdie countries really that weak?

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The worst thing was just my mom thinking that it's still the 50s or something.
>"get off the computer, you've been on for an hour!"
>I'm learning programming, mom
>"go outside and play with the other kids!"
>Nobody my age lives within a two hour walk from here. Will you drive me to my friend's house?
>"noooooo!!"
>Well if I'm stuck just hanging out outside, can I have a skateboard or a basketball or something?
>"no!"
So I just spent a lot of time sitting outside not really doing anything, super tedious. I could have started my software developer career years earlier but no, computers = bad, doing nothing outside = good. That delay really fucked up my life. But if that's the extent that I can bitch, then it wasn't that bad.

>>736577602
Based dad saving his son from tendietis

>>736576973
spongebob porn on the tablet

>>736576527
yes, father broke my NES

>>736577395
>obese
>autistic nails
>goofy curving to your fingers
>index nearly as long as middle
>hairs trying to grow but hand

Absolutely terrible hand.

>>736577320
probably because a regular nail wouldn't even make it through lol

>>736577504
nah bruh

>>736577647
me as going outside at moms request and getting hit by an SUV on my local congested 4 lane stroad

>>736577647
#justsuburbthings

>>736577638
No I'm just super duper strong. Not sure about anon. He could be American with the cardboard doors.

my parents just beat me whenever i misbehaved, in a way i'm kind of glad since my stuff was spared but on the other the trauma left was far worse.

>>736577703
>Talks shit
>Doesn't post his
Brown.

>>736577454
kek

>>736576527
No my parents weren't insane.

>>736577517
so smart

>>736577343
really shit acting compared to the american ones, guy can't contain his grin and is just dicking about on the menu instead of playing something

>>736576527
If they had they would be dead and I'd probably would've done a years in juvi.

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>>736577615
>¨¨white¨¨
>posts a jew lover

>>736577768
This isn't the hand posting thread. You fell for it. Super low IQ on you.

>>736577454
>>736577703
god damn, you genuinely got destroyed

>>736577395
Stop biting your nails anon

>>736577845
Why?

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>>736577343
Based dad kickstarting his son's manga writing career

>>736577870
It looks bad

>>736577845
Can't. I'm hungry all the time and I weigh 240 at 5'4. It's difficult.

>>736577893
Looks are for women.

>>736576658
The worst part is that these kinds of people are too retarded to realize why they're alone later in life. They sit there stewing in their misery feeling like the world treated them unfairly when they're actually just getting everything they deserve.

>>736576527
When I was 14 my sister had a 12 year old sister and her six female friends were having a sleepover and I stole her DS and stabbed the screen with the stylus until it broke and her friends kicked me in the balls and dragged me into my sister's room and they stripped me naked and took turns kicking me in the balls and spanking me.

>>736577709
haha yeah
*crack* ssiiiiip
Yep, they sure don't make them like they used to.

>>736577742
Gotta love it. That and having parents who have you too late in life, that sucks too

>>736577901
same. i could literally eat non stop, the only limit is money. i end up eating 1 to 2 lbs of food every night and realize if i keep going its going to be like 30 dollars worth of food and im probably good in terms of protein ect already

I cut my parents from my life the moment I was an adult. Complete radio silence ever since.

>>736577924
and men who fuck women

>>736576658
my dad would constantly threaten to beat me up if did straighten out, he def should have then i wouldn't have become a fag

>>736577343
>Son, this is a NINTENDO HOUSE!

>>736577395
Based Aryan Chad

>>736576667
lol lil brownoid never got to play games during his childhood

>>736577954
haha oh no i bet they made you smell their stinky feet and put you in a diaper afterwards haha

>>736577395
>somebody saved my hand from 3 years ago and saved it to post in random threads to bypass jeet verification
What the fuck did I walk into?

No, my parents weren't so retarded as to destroy valuable electronics for no good reason
Taking away stuff was always temporary, and I'm sure if they'd wanted to take something forever, they'd have at least sold it. This is just wasteful.

>>736577980
Remember, you are literally your parents.

>>736577638
It just depends on how it's built. I have horrible night terrors, and during one of them I pushed my door through the frame which took off the door stop on the jamb, and then in the process I ended up tearing the whole door down. I put the door back up but not the door stop, figuring I'd be really careful not to push it through, but I had another night terror where I ripped off the door and HALF THE FUCKING FRAME. So I rebuilt the frame myself instead of buying a premade frame + door, and I made sure to reinforce the door stop like crazy, aswell as using a much stronger door and door hinges. Haven't had any issues since.

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>>736577901
>>736577975
You can't make this stuff up.

>>736576527
why did this kids parents destroy his switch

>>736578018
Him beating you might've made you a bigger degenerate than you already are, sounds like you dodged a bullet if you ask me.

>>736577901
>I weigh 240 at 5'4
based fellow manlet

>>736578135
You are literally what you eat. The parents are just a spawn point.

>>736578135
I am indeed my own parent

>>736578054
I played a shit ton of games retard. My grandma bought me a PC and a NES and a Mega Drive and I bought myself a PS2.

>>736577901
just be hungry bro, it's not gonna kill you

>>736578142
least obvious samefag

>>736576603
No, its a standard fan design that is patent free, it comes in multiple shapes and size.

>>736578136
You randomly hulk out during nights?

>>736578185
It fucking sucks tho, constantly nagging your thoughts.

>>736576658
This. I only remember being afraid of my parents. When dad died, I felt nothing but relief.

>>736578185
>>736578154
Baited. I'm 6'3 150 lbs.

>>736577602
I had almost the same story with my Genesis in a yard sale when I got a PlayStation.
I did get the PlayStation from an uncle who couldn't use it anymore because he got in an accident that caused him to suffer from epilepsy, but giving away something I occasionally used because I got something else doesn't make it okay.

>>736578135
I'm nothing like them

>>736577343
I can still hear him screaming YAMERO in my head.

nah
I mean when I was young I got my ps2 and shit taken away a couple times but other than that I was a pretty good kid
my parents used to make me and my sister write sentences when we did something bad
I always thought that was weird and ineffective

>>736578229
Yeah, not something I'm really proud of. I'm almost 30 and I've had night terrors for like 8 or 9 years. I'll wake up in the middle of the night seeing things and thinking something is going to kill me or something. It's basically the equivalent of sleepwalking. I have no control over my body and it normally takes me 5-10 minutes to come back to reality. It's why I don't sleep with my cats, I don't want to accidentally hurt them.

>>736576973
he is a jap, so probably watching the most degenerated thing one can imagine

>>736578270
Genesis sucked ass thought really. No reason to play it if you had a PSX. The moment I got something else I never touched mine, even if I played it all day prior.

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>>736578090
>Now he's pretending that it's someone else's hand because I used my old picture
>He also got triggered being called a nigger and reported everyone calling him one (see >>736577561)
Absolutely pathetic and brown.

>>736578185
Some peoples brains work different when it comes to food. Some people do and others don't get food noise.

>>736578342
HOLY SHIT THAT REDDIT TIER THUMB LMAOOOOOOOO

>>736576658
>I said you're grounded, hand over the game
>nu uh
How else are you supposed to discipline a kid without resorting to a little bit of physical assertion?

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>>736578342
That you are. Have a (you), chubster.

One time my dad ripped up my Sonic the Hedgehog comic. I never got that issue again (this was 1998).

>>736578342
You're still brown

>>736576527
Mom used to hide my computer peripherals and cables when I was like 10-13 because I wouldn't go out

>>736578405
>>736578446
>>736578480
>Brown malding
Love to see it :D

>>736577343
JAV code?

>trauma this
>trauma that
holy fuck, grow up. your parents tried their best to stop you from becoming a socially inept "gamer" in a time where the phenomena of gaming was unprecedented. clearly they didn't go far enough if you ended up here

>>736578405
Oh! I thought that was a naked mole-rat.

>>736578429
...just take away the game?
You don't have to spank your kid to teach him discipline.

>>736578532
Overall would you say you had a W or an L mom?

>>736578536
Post face

>>736578548
Quiet woman. Men are trading stories.

>>736576973
Tranny wanted sympathy points for dropping his switch

>>736578569
she was XXL

>>736577980
I should have done the same. I feel for the trad consverative memes of how important family is and they drove me to almost kill myself.

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>>736578536
>m-muh browns
Sad, dude. Stop sperging out about nothing.
And lose weight.

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>>736577768
>retard got baited into exposing his obese downy hands
where's you're wrangler son?

>>736578597
This isn't a Hidamari thread bro.

>>736578597
>>736578616
>No pictures
Brown

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>>736578597
Fine! Here:

>>736578569
She def a W frfr

But in truth I'm sure she was being told what to do by my counselor or something. Of course it didn't help.

>>736578614
>was
sorry ;_;

>>736577283
>I kicked my older sister's door down in an autistic rage
Why?

>>736578640
>No picture
Brown

>>736578674
>Race
Eh, kinda explain american's obsession with it

>>736576527
i wonder who bought the switch

>>736578663
>>736578674
>>736578712
Post face NOW

>>736578691
Fucking Americans man. Can't imagine having a god damn counselor. Jeez Louise.

>>736577283
> why would you break your own expensive things?
>kicks door down in autistic rage
Hmmm

>friend used to come to my house pretty often
>we obviously just want to play videogames all day
>his mom insists we should go outside to the part that's literally across the street from my house to play a bit so we aren't holed up inside all day
>we comply and actually stop playing in the middle of the afternoon to go outside and play in the park
>start going less and less out
>eventually realize we can just say we did even though we didn't
>eventually she just stops bothering

Thanks for reading my blog post

>>736576527
Great way to start a fire

>>736577597
Bullshit.
The lesson I learned after 37 years of being honest is that if you want people to have a high opinion of your you have to lie your way to it, if you are honest people will appreciate it and will think lower of you.
>>736577112
True.

>>736578757
Kicking a door is a display of strength and unpredictability. Proving you as a true maverick. Breaking a PS2 is an infinite aura deduction. Best console of all time plus it's too easy of a feat. Only a weakling would break a PS2.

All I've learned from this thread is that /v/ is infested with non-Whites lmao

>>736578342
What a sack of shit

>>736578816
>Proving you as a true maverick
More like proving you as a true animal, rather than a man fully in control of himself.

>>736578835
Cap. You have a learning disability. You haven't learned that.

>>736578548
>BUT I WAS DOING MY BEST!

No excuse. Take accountability for your actions you narsasistc cunt. You had more than enough chances to change and you looked at the right path and said "lol nope!"

>>736578835
there's whites, americans, europeans, jews, japanese, latinos that believe they are whites and non nigger albinos.

>>736578773
What?

>>736578548
>clearly they didn't go far enough if you ended up here

Exactly. They didn't do enough. It's THEIR job to raise THEIR kids properly. You think an 8 year old is fucking accountable for their actions?

>>736578885
Animal more like MANIMAL. The true alpha of the premises. Others see your impressive action and fear strikes their hearts. Immediate respect gained. You see someone breaking a PS2 you just think they're a lameass.

>>736576527
One time my mom threw my TV in the trash, I don't remember why. It actually might've been something I did since I was a little asshole as a teenager but sometimes she just did crazy shit. Other than that I got the standard "your games gave the computer a virus" as my parents click on any dumbass thing online.

>>736576973
Dude modded his Switch and pirated games. That brings dishonor to the entire family. The console had to go and the son had to commit sudoku.

>>736578342
anon is 250 pounds, minimum

>>736578949
I have no respect for people with the self-control of a literal gorilla. Absolute nigger tier behaviour.

this the blog thread?
>mom shelters me from everything, can't play games as much as i want, can't play outside, can't hang with friends
>dad broke down my self-esteem, the worst insults i've ever gotten were from him over petty shit like wanting to play on the computer in my free time
>stepdad controlled everything i ever did, couldn't properly learn independence until college, missed out on a lot of teenage experiences, and couldn't even play games
now i'm a self-sabotaging asocial autist with an uncurable vitriol for everyone (including myself)

>>736578996
I pray nothing in your life ever goes so horribly wrong that you're brought to the brink of blind anger.

>>736578794
Just be good. It's that easy.

>>736578340
I also inherited a lot of games and already had a N64, but I'm not the type of person to stop playing a console just because I have something newer. Hell, I still have my Wii U set up and the controller isn't even covered in a layer of dust.

It's so weird coming from a loving and well adjusted family. The entire rest of the world seems utterly insane. Like how could you screw up loving your biological family? You're literally programmed to love them. Sure no ones perfect, but Jesus the stories I hear from you people.

>>736579073
The answer in many cases is (sadly) poverty. The ones who are rich with bad families are even sadder.

>>736579073
Do NOT mess with my videogames!

>>736579045
Good doesn't mean anything. If you're good you should be anti-abortion considering it's factually murder. See how appreciative people are of your opinions on that and report back.

>>736577247
>t. 'culinary facilitator' at McD's.

>>736578996
Nobody asked for your respect. You're a mouse. We are lions.
>>736579053
>N64
>Wii U
Maybe you're just a type of person that has absolute dogshit taste and is a retard. Understandable if you said SNES and Godcube. Twin said N64 and Wii U lmao.

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>>736576527
Not yet
I can feel it, i feel the sense of danger tingling. While i've never laid a hand on them, i'm fully willing to retaliate if they ever lay a hand on my pc.

>>736579037
not an excuse. you just can't.

>>736576527
This but with my magic the gathering cards.
I had cards from old sets that are worth a lot of money (over 50$)

>>736576658
My dad also
>threatened
to do it a lot, but I knew that he's the cheapest mother fucker in the entire Netherlands so I knew he'd never actually do it. And he never did.

>>736579174
What if being good is being pro-abortion, because the people that are most likely to get aborted are also the most likely to steal Gameboys in the future from the people least likely to get aborted?

>>736576527
>got caught
there's more to this

>>736576527
Nah, my dad never smashed my stuff. He gave out a lot of lengthy groundings for random offenses that he couldn't remember beyond an hour or two because he was drunk at the time. He also would never admit that he had forgotten, so you had to wait until he got bored of the routine and decided you had served your time to get ungrounded.

His other go-to were multi-hour long lectures he would give between the hours of 8PM and 4AM. He couldn't stay on topic while drunk but would fly off the handle if you pointed that out, so you just had endure the rambling until he got tired.

He threatened violence some, but it was mostly a lot of petty insults that he would dish out over weird OCD fixations that triggered him.

>>736579196
>not an excuse. you just can't.
Come again? Blind anger is not something you can control, that's what makes it, um, blind.

>>736579220
Are you a super duper huge gamer? Would make sense that you people are either big gamers or big weebs, considering all you get is rain 24/7 and you have to stay inside and enjoy virtual hobbies while eating bread with sprinkles on it.

>>736579073
>>736579114
Check out "attachment styles".
It's mostly dysfunctional relationships from the way people were treated as infants and kids. That carries over and the cycle continues.
I feel resentment towards my parents, it's hard to let go and just love them even if I wanted to. People rarely change.

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>>736578835
Yeah yeah, Mr Hotchpotch Gonzales Goldberg.

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>>736576527
my parents are extremely lenient and pretty much let me do whatever i want as long my grades are good
i wish they would be more strict and forced me to do sports or something because now im a khhv friendless loser with too much time and money to spare

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>>736576658
my dad broke the Twinsen's Oddysey CD that came bundled with our Creative Sound Blaster system and I never really forgot that. i didn't have a legit, non-pirated game CD until like, 2010, being a poorfag thirdie.

>>736579407
>too much time and money to spare
And you're complaining?

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>>736579031
>mom was scared of me getting molested so I couldn't go to any of my friends' houses
>only other house I could go to was my aunt's house and play with my older cousins
>except my cousins didn't like me since I was an annoying kid who always wanted to play with them
>they'd ignore me and sometimes lock themselves in their rooms so I couldn't come in
>couldn't bring my gameboy advance because my dad had a hateboner for games and wouldn't let me bring it anywhere
>every time it ended up with me drifting to sleep on my aunt's couch while watching nick-at-nite
The George Lopez theme is forever embedded into my brain.

>>736576527
No I did it to my own shit. Regretted it at least and now I take care of my items.
>>736576658
I've developed this as well, simply, "they are never wrong, I am just lazy, I was given everything" and also "what is that dumb shit you are playing/watching?". I had to hide all my interests from everyone and I still do it decades later, and it's not even monster cock futa anime or something gross, just regular ass videogames, music or cartoons (back then) that were commented like that.

Parents don't seem to realize how little it takes to create a traumatic event or a lifelong issue for a kid. This is why we'll never be a type 2 civilisation, breeding is not controlled and supervised, such an important irreplaceable resource that is humans, are given to those with absolutely no skills to handle. There can't ever be an impartial and reliable form of supervision either. So we are just fucked in that regard.
I told them they won't get grandkids from me, I got nothing else to get back for screwing up my life. Like talking to an animal, how do you teach geometry to a dog? It just bounces off from them.

video games

>>736576973
99% on his math test, very dishonorable

>>736579451
>couldn't bring my gameboy advance
This pisses me the fuck off. Literally the whole point of the gadamn GBA is to bring it places.

>>736576527
Why don't my kids ever call or visit?

>>736579302
what is this woman mentality?
a lot of men live their entire life controlling themselves. the fact that I can punch retards on the face the second I get angry at them doesn't mean I'm allowed to do it.

this is just behavior that was allowed. pretty much all spoiled kids, kids with no siblings. ore ones that had shit parents. there were never consequences to said actions.

you can even, look away, stomp the ground, yell at the sky or do some other thing. nothing can uncontrollably make you behave like a gorilla and destroy things. there's no situation where you don't have seconds to think.

>>736579407
Don't worry Anon, my parents forced me to do stuff and I'm still a virgin friendless loser.

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>>736579451
>>except my cousins didn't like me since I was an annoying kid who always wanted to play with them
Very likely due to having a miserable home life and getting overly excited when hanging out with other people your age because you're actually able to have fun and be yourself for once
I know the exact feeling, it caused me to shut myself in as a kid and never really came back out

>>736579387
I don't entirely believe in that simply because it's a bit too close to the idea of the Almighty Social Construct, AKA the idea that all of our problems in society are socially driven rather than mechanicallydriven.
It is in the nature of every human being to nurture children and if this is disrupted it is due to many, many, many more factors than childhood traumas that resurface later in life.
I'm in favour of a more holistic approach.

>>736579387
I forgave my dad once I had kids. He was (and kind of still is) an asshole when I was a kid, but I recognize enough of him in me to know that he was mostly dealing with anxiety and addiction. And to his credit, he has done more for me than a lot of deadbeat dads. I just don't let my kids hang out with him unsupervised. He needs to be tard wrangled.

>>736578018
I became a fag unapologetically, my family severed all communications with me, but I'm still having the time of my life.

>>736579387
I don't really know what my parents did that caused me to resent them. Even now I still feel frequently trapped by them. Doing more so I don't have to depend on them is probably necessary before our relationship can heal, but that'll be hard because I'm still a mess.

>>736579073
For me it was weird seeing parents loving their kids, they stopped abruptly after I stopped being a little kid(around 6), compared to other kids and the overall ways kids were treated I wasn't abused that much, at least physically, they had a very weird way of showing concern by comparing me to more achieving and normal kids, they'd only talk to me to criticize me and how I behaved, I guess the way I was didn't help but it took them a lot to get over that I was unable to change, up to this day they'd rather ignore me than talk to me.

>>736578835
post hand with timestamp

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>>736577280
>but my mother threw all my boxes away, for her it was "just cardboard", but they mostly ignored me.
I notice this appears to be a burger thing. Burger parents seem to love to throw away their kids' stuff without asking when cleaning. I've read so many sad and pure horror stories about this shit. My parents would never throw away or give away any of my stuff without asking me first.

>>736577310
My parents would often do the same when they wanted to punish me.
Especially when I skipped school or wanted to call in sick. They were part of the "IF YOU'RE TOO SICK TO GO TO SCHOOL THEN YOU'RE TOO SICK TO PLAY VIDEO GAMES!" crowd.
Until I started purchasing spare power cords and power supplies for all my stuff using my allowance money, and I'd keep them hidden among my stuff. They never found out kek

>>736579387
this is why i don't want to have kids, i really don't feel like i have anything positive to pass on

i like video games

>>736579239
There are two types of people that are against murder.
The first kind is practical and believes that murder should be illegal because if it wasn't there would be chaos and that would be bad for him. This person is self-centered.
The second kind thinks life is sacred and should not be taken without good reason. This person is compassionate and virtuous.

You don't solve a problem by creating another one.

>>736579615
I gave up trying to explain it years ago. In short, if you don't get it, it's impossible to explain. You need to grow up in the gutter and live life wading through the filth to understand the nature of true anger. I'm sure one other anon here knows what I'm talking about.
You clearly come from a good background and it's not your fault that you don't get it, but it's not a mentality issue, that's a misconception by people who don't understand what it's like to basically be operating at a high tension anger for their entire life, because they never developed the mechanism.
That's what it is, in a word, it's a mechanism.

>>736579387
I grew up poor with divorced parents and while my relationship with my mom was always good as she took care of 3 kids by herself, there was this odd thing where even though she never hit me and rarely yelled, I was piss scared of her
Now im the only one of my siblings who doesnt spew vitriol about her, not sure what happened to my brother and sister but they turned into really rotten people

>>736579754
>>but my mother threw all my boxes away, for her it was "just cardboard", but they mostly ignored me.
>I notice this appears to be a burger thing. Burger parents seem to love to throw away their kids' stuff without asking when cleaning. I've read so many sad and pure horror stories about this shit. My parents would never throw away or give away any of my stuff without asking me first.
Not a burger
I moved a lot in my childhood and my mom would joke that my toys fell into "the black hole", aka were lost while moving
But i figured out she was just getting rid of all my stuff so it would be easier to pack next time
I don't think she was selling them, most likely just giving them away or throwing them out

>>736579754
>I notice this appears to be a burger thing.
That would check out. Burger parents buy too much cheap shit they don't use, so they feel stressed that there's too much shit in the house, and then start throwing it out, including their children's stuff, only to repeat the cycle next time they happen to see some gadget that intrigues them. There's a reason so many burgers rent storage garages.

>>736576658
>why don't my kids ever come visit me?

>>736579370
Not that much. I do work in video games now, but I'm old so we actually played outside a lot when I was a kid. Because the weather is pretty shit as you say, it seems people appreciate the sunny days a lot more. People do also watch insane amounts of television though, and it's all terrible.

>>736576667
>is on a gaming board yet says parents didn't buy them games
>oddly mentions america in the post
So, Your an American this happened to

>>736576527
No, they weren't narcissistic nor sociopaths. They would confiscate shit for a while at worst, or forbid its usage, like a normal parent grounding a kid would.

>be a little shit always playing vidya and getting bad grades at school
>parents take away your vidya
>It's somehow their fault
Is it because they introduced you to vidya in the first place?

>>736579905
What?
>>736579894
Bro also when I was in the Netherlands I'd just walk places and people would live in apartments right on the damn sidewalk and have their curtains and blinds open all the time. I'd just walk down the street and see people just playing PS4 and whatever in their living room 1 meter away from me.

>>736576973
Knowing it's Japan? Playing that switch when he should have been studying for exams

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Going to join in on the parent bitching just because why not, who else would I ever tell this to? Though I can't really blame my parents, obviously what happened to my dad wasn't his fault and my mom was losing her mind because of it
>turn eighteen, dad is diagnosed with parkinsons
>spend early 20s juggling university, work, and taking shifts taking care of my dad
>mid 20s spent between work and taking care of him
>somehow get a girlfriend, I was really good looking in my early to mid twenties (ugly now), enough to outweigh my awkwardness, caring enough to be understandable about my other obligations
>for some reason, my mother doesn't think my girlfriend is good enough for me, never elaborates, but frequently would harass her when I was at work
>keep telling my mom to fucking stop but she won't
>girlfriend eventually has had enough and gives ultimatum, either we move farther away from my parents or we have to break up
>tell her I'm very sorry but I can't abandon my dad like this
>break up
>a few years later, dad dies
Feels like I largely missed out on having my 20s which sucks but it could be worse

>not just deleting their save files instead

That'll teach them to disobey.

>>736579652
You don't believe in what, attachment styles? It's not later, it's always present until solved.

>>736579894
>People do also watch insane amounts of television though, and it's all terrible.
damn is that a real thing kek, that was always such a funny thing i noticed with the aunties, i thought it was just my area
god i miss the netherlands, wish id learnt dutch but i was in the middle of a horrible work transition followed by my god awful fucking divorce there and i was in no state to learn :(
havent been back in fifteen years even though its literally just a few hours away
maybe i should visit in the summer

>>736579819
>victim mentality.
no nigger. stop. channel anger into something else. even kids can plan shoot the school why can't you?

>>736580007
You should find comfort in the fact you did the right thing, anon
I had a shitty dad, it makes me happy to see people appreciate theirs when they're actually good

>>736580012
devious

>>736576658
I had a similar thing but it was over-protectiveness more than the fear of punishment, "dont do this" "dont do that" to EVERYTHING just turned into me sneaking around doing it instead.
it used to shit me that they'd tell stories about their childhood where they'd wander off into the bush and light fires all day and do essentially whatever they wanted but I wasn't allowed to leave the driveway.
boomers are gay, pulled the ladder up behind them when it was my turn to have a boundless free adventure childhood.

>>736580012
>that father that deleted his kid's minecraft world
What a bitch desu

>>736579819
sounds like mental illness

>>736576973
not working hard enough

>>736580032
>It's not later, it's always present until solved.
Yeah, this is where I split. This is Emperor's New Clothes nonsense.
It's such an easy thing to disprove too. If it's always present then there are always issues, but there aren't, are there?
It's too convenient, reality is rarely that simple.

>so many people ITT blaming the parent when it was the kid who was neglecting their studies and responsibilities by playing too much video games
I can tell the age group of people posting here and also that they'll never appreciate their parents let alone become parents.

>>736576527
No. It's weird if the parents bought that then destroyed it later, even weirder if he bought it himself.

I wish I was a dad
I want to be a cool dad who cares about his kids
Everytime I see the neighbor ignore or tell off his clearly unwanted kid I die a little inside, though to be fair I hate the guy for other reasons as well

>>736576527
HOW DARE YOU RAPE YOUR 12 YEAR OLD SISTER FOR THE LAST 6 YEARS

Or more like

HOWU DARU YUW LAPE YOUL TWELVU ORD SISTAL RAST 6 YOULZ

>>736576527
>my parents finally caught me
Doing wut?

>>736580256
You're a good boy huh?

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more parents needs to beat their kids when they act up

>>736580012
They'll just learn how to offload their saves to a different cloud or storage then.

>>736577358
>>736576667
Stop thinking about how much better the USA is. Calm down. You can go a few days without thinking about better countries. I know you can.

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Lowkey kids entertainment (toys, books, tv, vidya) only started to get real good during the 90s & 00s. Most parents lashing out at video games and other kids media stimmed from them not having anything cool to play with growing up. It is just pure jealousy. It was blatantly obvious in any religious household who hated stuff like Harry Potter, using the bible as an excuse to ban their kids from enjoying things.

>>736580107
Yeah, he was a pretty good dad. The shitty part of taking care of someone with a degenerative condition like that for years is that it's really easy to forget the person they were though. I know he was good but I can't really remember many specific moments. I'm really sorry that yours was shitty, everyone deserves a good dad and it's really not fair that some people don't get that at minimum.

>>736578018
you would have simply developed actual mental illness and not just been gay

>>736576973
He's in Japan, which means he likely got caught getting a B+ in math. His seppuku ceremony is scheduled for Saturday.

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>>736576527
my dad did that when I was a kid. I kind of deserved it but I think he went to far.

>be me, little kid doing bad at school, bullied the fuck out for being fat with a retarded name that people used to make fun of.
>parents would argue all the time, lots of financial difficulties going on back then.
>my modded PS2 was my only solace so I would obviously play it a lot
>parents find out I was not doing too well at school during teacher and parents meeting
>mom curses me all the way home
>tells my dad and he beats the shit out of me
>tells me to shower and he actually beats the fuck out of me while I shower
>I think I peed blood that day but I don't really remember
>he gets my phat ps2 and smashes it into the ground, the top part actually cracks, he also steps on it and make me pick up the pieces and store it into his bedroom
>he grounds me for a whole year, I can't play with my friends outside my apartment complex or do anything else besides studying
>it was literally from my bedroom to school and vice versa and literally nothing else, not even during the weekends
>had to take all my meals in my room as well, couldn't even be at the kitchen or living room at all.

Eventually my grades did get back up and i got better at studying but from that day forward I never looked at my dad the same way. I can see in the way he treats my sister that he knows he went too far because our relationship is basically fucking dead. I don't do anything with him, I don't even like to be in the room with the guy and live locked in my room. Things will finally change soon because after years of retarded ass financial decisions by my family Ill finally be able to move out.
I also still have my fat ps2 and fixed it years later.
Thanks for reading my blogpost.

>>736580384
Harry Potter is ass tho

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>>736577280
>2010
>In college
>Visit my parents
>Mom says she sold my Pokemon cards
>Hands me 2 quarters
I was always lucky with Pokemon, YGO, etc. and those cards would probably be worth the rest of my mortgage today

>no you shouldn't destroy it that's bad parenting!
>okay
>restrict it
>kid find a way to sneak time in like for instance at night
>take it away
>kid finds a way to take it back when you're at work
>take it physically away
>kid find another way to sneak it back like with the help of a friend
>educate the kid
>he nods and says okay but really just so you shut up and he can play more vidya again
>reprimand the kid
>grows to resent you
>discipline the kid
>grows to resent you AND learns violence
So /v/, what now?

>>736578706
I don't even remember, my older sisters always used to work me up in to a seething rage and then would lock themselves in their rooms laughing while I banged and screamed impotently at the door. That day I tried a running flying kick and I smashed one of the hinges off (and also broke my foot)

>>736580384
anon, the bible is the best book ever written.
says the person that has only read the bible...
well actually not, just listen to some parts of it.

how you dare consoome something other than the bible?

>>736580254
>but there aren't, are there?
There are. For example, I was always resistant to the idea of hugging people, I have to force myself. Hugging my parents is almost a titanic endeavour, I don't remember the last time I did it.
I never talked to them about how I felt, I could never bring myself to even when I was deeply suffering. I basically raised myself even though they were present.

>>736580356
I'm not a US hater. It's literally just a fact that it's American culture to kick your kid out at 18 or charge them rent. Breaking their video games. Doing humiliation rituals like filming them walk home from school while slowly driving behind them "to protect them still" because they got bullied at school and they hit back. I can acknowledge how great the US is without ignoring some major cultural flaws.

Don't be so insecure.

>>736576831
>having common sense and reading two words means you have a big ego

>>736576527
>make agreement with my parents to buy the car(low mileage Toyota shitbox) my mother inherited after her mothers passing
>have to make "car payments" of around 150-200 per pay period
>work retail and this is like a decade ago so thats pretty steep but worth it to have a car and hey no interest like an actual loan
>save up some extra cash over the course of the year and buy a switch on sale
>genuinely stoked because this is the first console i've bought myself, and its the first real (lol tendie thinks its real haha i know) console i've had since the ps2 so I can finally play a bunch of games i've wanted to play
>keep it successfully hidden for about a week
>one day wake up for work to find my car left open with everything dumped out and left on the pavement including my switch
>not as bad as OPs pic but the screen is spiderwebbed pretty bad and one of the joy cons is fucked
>scoop everything up and go through workday
>come home to confirm my suspicions that my mother had done one of her patented "random searches" and basically threw a tantrum that I bought something expensive
>her reasoning is since I hadn't fully payed off my loan from her I had no right to spend any extra money on a switch
>keep in mind, I had already payed the agreed upon payment for that pay period and that's not how loans work
>get yelled at for a few hours
>switch technically functions but one joycon just kinda connects when it wants to and the screen is annoying while cracked
thank god I don't live there anymore, got kinda sad thinking about it again

>>736580256
What good are (((studies))) for anyways? He's probably smarter than his dad.

>>736580503
the kicking your kids out at 18 thing is true but what the fuck is that humiliation ritual you're talking about? do europeans actually believe everything they see on the internet?

>>736580479
Disown

>>736580007
I legit missed out on my 20ths and now I am missing out on my thirties because of my family's retarded as financial decisions.

Hopefully thing will change this year.

>>736580106
It's not a mentality, you're not even listening to what I'm saying. Would you accuse a burn victim of having a "victim mentality" when they explain why they'll forever have sudden sharp bouts of pain? Or are they just acknowledging their reality and explaining it to (You), someone who is not burned and thus would not understand?
You may say, "That's ridiculous, you're not a burn victim, what an insensitive comparison", but again, you're not me. There are acts so heinous that they inflict mental burns on the same level. You clearly have no idea how fucked up the world is for so many children. I hate having to explain what was done to me because it's horrible and has impacted my psyche irrevocably.
It's not an excuse, it's not a mentality, it's not whatever kind of word you'll use to dismiss, rationalize, or explain away this reality. If this makes you uncomfortable, I'm sorry, but it's my reality and I feel obligated to correct these kinds of rampant misconceptions.
>>736580227
Of course it is, but I'm not disputing that. I'm saying it's not a choice.

>>736577927
>deserve
want*
I would much rather sit by myself doing what I want than make smalltalk with normies

>>736576527
Last October I told my ten year old son to clean his room because it was a mess and I couldn't even see the floor. Last December I stepped on a thumb tack in his room and, as punishment, I took away his Switch until he fully cleaned his room. It took him until March to get his Switch back. He got to see his brothers get and play new video games for Christmas, and his brother's birthday in February. Video games are a privilege, not a right. You have to do your chores.

>>736580479
First get irrefutable proof of him sneaking vidya. Then confront him in a non angry but sad and disappointed tone and ask him why he has to sneak vidya? the evidence will make him flush with embarrassment being caught red handed with no out and he'll be forced to open up

>>736580451
Damn bro the fat PS2s are the best ones too. The 3000 and 5000 series.

>>736580597
Fuck you shit dad. Maybe you should have watched where you were going instead?

>>736580475
Your cards were probably featured in those youtube videos where some retard goes to a garage sale and lucks out buying a bunch of cool shit from some auntie for 3 bucks.

>>736580634
I got a slim ps2 and a gamecube as well now.
In fact I was able to snatch a copy of eternal darkness. gonna find a crt tv that is good enough to enjoy some gamecube games later

>>736580479
Buy a lock.

>>736576658
He taught you well. You shouldn't be opening up to authority figures, that's how you get fucked.

Sounds like a lot of these parents were shit at parenting and decide to only do something when their child does something they don't like. If they were good parents, they would have never gotten to that point.

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>>736576658
My dad never threatened anything, he just did the immediate destructive decision when getting conflicted, snapped my GameBoy in half when I tried to sneak it into school
But I don't really hold it against him, he was of the generation which valued school and education, mainly because he himself was a dropout, and wanted better for his kids. Not that the education has given me any help in my day to day life, everything that I've wanted to do, wanted to learn and really needed to know, I've done and learned on my own.

Your parents are the ones who buy that stuff for you in the first place, it's their perogative to break them if they want to, it's merely a display of short sighted anger with shitty consequences. For every 10 good things your parents ever did to you, you only remember the 1 bad thing. I remember every positive and negative interaction, and the good always outweighs the bad, think on it deeply if you feel like your parents somehow wronged you. Not saying that there aren't truly horrible parents out there, but you are your own entity who can turn that boat around.
Even if your genetic predisposition is a short temper, you can overcome that with intelligence and mindfulness.
You'll quickly learn in life that breaking your own stuff is not fun, so why do it in the first place.
Now, if they're breaking stuff you spent YOUR money on, then it'd be an actual issue.
Video games are a luxury, something which isn't a vital need, and you'd probably be better off in life if you never got to taste this specific forbidden fruit, video games are way too intoxicating and placating, many a lives have been and will be ruined if the people playing games start preferring it over their real lives.

Being angry at your parents for being the way they are is stupid. they're just flawed human beings. See their shortcomings and apply the opposite in your own life and with your kids. Don't repeat their mistakes to create a similar ball of hate in your offspring.

>>736579754
>buying spare cords
based, my pc was given a password, I figured out twice by listening and counting the key presses (I had to turn away, and also ask for the password to be entered). Used it to play vidya on sick days and if I got home early from school, but I had to hide it, and plan around mom coming home early. Lots of after-school friend making was sacrificed for bideo bames desu.
>>736579991
Yeah that's ome thing I recall from my brief visit in Amsterdam, I walked the sidewalk and we gaan & co were having dinner right there, a meter away with only the glass between us. That's crazy, like americans having no fence around their yard and not locking their doors. Unreal stuff
>>736580206
I had to learn sneaking too, not in the literal sense. Just doing whatever I wanted anyway without being explicitly found out. Somehow I still have a moral block as an adult so I don't steal or do amything illegal, but I resent stupid unnecessary rules and overbearing authority ever since.

Bible is pretty gud ngl 2 u famalam

>>736579758
really the only thing that makes a good parent is giving a shit and trying to not fail.
bad parents are just the ones that check-out or dont empathize, that can take the form of active abuse or over-protectiveness etc. where they aren't thinking "Is this good for the kid?" and instead just trying to get through it.
that thought is 80% of good parenting, that's what I've learned anyway from talking to all my friends having well adjusted kids now.
I had similar worries to you originally but seeing them has convinced me I think I could do it.

>>736580479
Maybe don't breed with a bitchy woman next time? Or if he takes after you, look in the mirror.

I think of my own future parenting in relation to what I did as a child to my parents. They weren't born here like I was so they didn't understand much and as a result I had nearly free unrestricted access to and purchases of vidya, toys, cards, games, etc etc and really was completely free by like my preteens especially as money rolled in from various means and I didn't know the value of a dollar except to buy the newest atomic purple Gameboy color!
30 years later I'm now still on 4chan.
Lesson learned. I hope you all reflect on this too.

I've mentioned it in another thread but
>be me at 18
>have to move out
>mom says that anything I leave behind will just be put into storage until I pick it up
>alright, sounds good, I leave behind my retro consoles and take my newer ones
>NES, Master System, Genesis, N64, Playstation, Gamecube, GBA, and all their games and peripherals
>move out, call her a few days later to see about picking some of it up
>"oh we threw it all away, it went out in the dumpster as soon as you left"
>"if you wanted it you'd have taken it with you"
>"you shouldn't have been too lazy to take it with you"

yes

our family went through financial struggles and when it turned out I needed glasses (thanks for the genetics) my mom took my N64 and beat the shit out of it or drowned it in water

years later I mentioned I wanted to play video games, she said she knew someone who was giving it away. it was my N64 with the same colored cartridges with the game labels peeled off. the games didn't work and she wasn't surprised

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>parents divorce after dad cheats on mom
>they get into weekly arguments over the phone which always ends up with my mom crying
>mom slaved away at three jobs to support us
>sister hates my mom for divorcing him
>every few weeks they'd get into an argument
>she would say the most vile things to her like how she's a horrible mom, wishes that she lived in a foster home instead, or that her friends' parents are better
>also ended up with my mom crying every time
>ffw to today
>sister is an lesbian drug addict
>I'm a despressed KV college dropout
My mom didn't deserve any of this.

>>736580715
Effective parenting is about setting boundaries and expectations before they're crossed. Any punishment carried out on impulse is a fuck up.

>>736580569
Good luck. I don't know how much their situation affects your life, but losing years of your life without much to show for it is really difficult because most people just don't get it.

>>736580561
It's a popular video of some retard parent following their kid around walking home from school on the side of the street, because you guys don't have sidewalks, for the most minor offense ever. Americans are literally known for this shit. Getting internet good boy points for posting embarrassing videos of your kids under the guise of good parenting and discipline. Shaving their heads. Breaking their PS2 and forcing them to pick the pieces up while they're crying. All sorts of shit. That's classic American. Yes we believe things that literally happen and are on video.
>>736580509
Having common sense is knowing that this is rare in Japan and common in the US.

>>736577343
DISHONORABU
DIS IS A PIU CEE HOUSUHOOLDU
GET DISU GHEY CONSORU SHITTO OUT

>>736580772
If your mom is still alive, go and hug her

>>736580703
Then he and his friends jimmy open your lock?
>>736580754
Wife isn't bitchy at all though?
>look in the mirror
I mean I also played video games a lot as a kid but that isn't scientifically genetic.

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>>736580728
>he was of the generation which valued school and education
So did he take up arms against integration? Or was he just a retarded faggot?

>>736576527
They should've gave it to me. Why they have to break it.

>>736580503
>It's literally just a fact that it's American culture to kick your kid out at 18 or charge them rent.
Does that really happen? I thought it was just a stereotype in Hollywood movies to add tension where there otherwise wouldn't be any

>>736580840
1. Buy a real lock, not a masterlock.
2. Don't let him hang out with those friends anymore and don't allow them into your home.

>>736578018
you would've developed a real mental illness instead retard

>>736580772
I know how it is to have divorced parents, an overworked mom, and a crazy sister that only causes trouble, ours are very similar families lmao
The best thing you can do is really just be her one solace, if you can manage to make something out of yourself, even if you just wage for a simple life, that can go a long way for her, just make sure you thank her for being there for you

>>736580690
The slim PS2 is trash though. Good luck finding a CRT. Youtubers ruined the hobby.
>>736580772
L sister. W you. You're still untarnished.
>>736580878
Happened multiple times in this thread already.

>>736580763
my mum sold me n64 and sega megadrive to an autistic man for like $20 without even asking me.
they're not poor or anything, they just wanted the clutter gone I guess.

>>736576527
yes. it ended the bloodline essentially. Fathers think they can do that without a problem, but then they suffer for the next 30 years.

>>736580878
It happens, but it didn't happen to me or anyone I know.

>>736580757
>They weren't born here like I was so they didn't understand much and as a result I had nearly free unrestricted access to and purchases of vidya, toys, cards, games, etc etc and really was completely free by like my preteens especially as money rolled in from various means and I didn't know the value of a dollar except to buy the newest atomic purple Gameboy color!
But that sounds like a dream childhood? What went wrong?

>>736580650
Yeah I'll just inspect the hundreds of legos, books, action figures, and just general garbage and make sure there's no literal caltrops. How silly of me to not realize I need to do that in my own house and my son doesn't need to bother keeping his room clean. I forgot, have to cuck out to your children. My mistake. I'll even buy him some empty bottles, so he can start keeping piss bottles in there, as penance for taking his Switch away for four months.

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>>736580878
Source: his ass!

If your parents kicked you out of their house, it's because they always hated you because you're a waste of space!

>>736580479
let it get to the stage of taking it away, then if they steal it back they get another chance to adhere to the punishment since its not physically violent or harmful to themselves or others while also stating that the vidya will be sold if the punishment is not adhered to, then if they steal it again it gets sold to gamestop along with the games and I pocket the money if I bought the console and games or they'll get the money after they're not grounded if they bought the console or games, online games are refunded/profiles deleted where possible and again whoever payed for them gets the money following the rules above

>>736580867
I don't know what that means, my country is as distanced from the rest of the world as any, the country fought off russians, became independent and gave its citizens highest quality living standards even to this day

>>736580956
Any lock can still be picked
And obviously he'll just sneak around to be with his friends
What are you going to set up 24/7 surveillance?

>>736580584
nigga shut up lmao

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>>736576658
How is your relation with him now?

>>736581037
You're being sarcastic fuckface but yes you're a bad parent according to the brats on /v/. And no they won't give you what alternative you should have done.

>>736580878
>Does that really happen?
Sometimes, sure. Is it a cultural norm and not something the average person would consider a dick move? Hell no.

>>736581050
Ultimately that's still taking away their vidya and they'll hate you for it.
Kids don't understand warnings, they just want to play vidya.
Even if you sit them down and explain to them they need to go to school and listen to their teachers and get an education they'll still just want to play vidya.

I still live with my horrible parents
they still fight and scream every day
I'm almost 30 years old
I don't even a driver's license so I can't escape to go anywhere else
I'm too scared to do anything
they don't even have any money so I have been dreading going hungry and homeless my entire life
I got made fun of in elementary school for having debt collectors constantly calling the home phone

>>736576658
you teach people how to treat you

All of this talk about people cutting their fathers out when they grew up is making me doubt myself. My dad was an alcoholic and would constantly torment my mom. He would either not pick me up from kindergarten, when he was the only one available, because my mom had to work two jobs because of him, or would pick me up and take me to the bar to get wasted and cheat on my mom. Taking me to the bar included having to be around his friend P, who is a massive cringe retard. If I didn't get picked up I'd have to just stay there and wait hours in the lobby by myself until my mom got me or my grandparents took the bus from an hour away to come take me home. When I was 14 I was strong enough to start physically fighting with him until he stopped beating my mom at least. I've never messed with him since.

My brother is telling me that I'm in the wrong and his life is much better now after reconciling with our dad, but I think he's just a bitch. No way I'm in the wrong.

>>736577247
No, it's the sign of basic learning skills. Low IQ retards who can't solve the basic problem of getting good grades cope with the classic "I'm smart but lazy".

>>736581051
Finnish?

In a child's mind they don't understand what they did wrong to get punished. They're just playing video games. All their friends and classmates do it. Why the fuck are you so adamant about it? Break the game, take it away, delete it, they'll think they did no wrong and then lash back at you.

>>736581189
You should have beaten him up more for hurting your mom
If he doesnt come home fearing you you haven't beaten him enough
Oh and go hug your mom

>>736580878
oh no, its real. truly pathetic
i grew up in an extremely family orientated environment here in eu, my brother was still living with my parents until he was 35 and there was never an expectation that he would have to leave
thats not to say he was sitting on his ass, he worked hard doing bum jobs and contributing what he could but the attitude of my father was that dad always helps his children out and men who do not do this are moral failures
wonder what he would say to stories of people kicking out their boys at 18. i expect strong language
god i miss him

>>736580763
My parents stopped doing that after thrifting became popular and old stuff shoot up in price, they went from throwing everything away to even actively look up valuable stuff in pawn shops and thrift stores.

>>736581189
Your brother got roped back in and is rationalizing. You got to this point on your own, you don't need him. Being an adult with more things just means you have more resources for him to leach off of.

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There's been a slew of weddings in the family these last few years and my mum keeps insisting that I show up with a brand new suit for each one. Is it normal to have an endless supply of new suits or is she fucking insane?

>>736580757
Fuck.

>>736577343
ARE YOU HAPPY YOU PIECE OF SHIT?

>>736580384
>only started to get real good during the 90s & 00s
>toys, books, tv
I don’t agree with these

>>736581189
There's not really a right or wrong
Your dad took something you'll never, ever get back (a normal childhood), and will permanently influence the way you are
It's 100% up to you to want to forgive him, even if it could work out, even if your brother has done it
You reap what you sow, you get the children you raise

>>736577647
>go outside!
>"no one's around"
>I saw all your friends at the park playing baseball!
>go to the park across the street with the ball field
>its a ghost town
Fucking bitch.

>>736581059
They're children, not locksmiths. Get one that's a moderately difficult pick and they won't be able to do anything.
There's limits to how you can restrict how a kid spends their time, especially at school, but not letting those friends into your home and contacting the parents of those friends should be more than enough for this situation. Even if those parents are terrible, it should be enough ensure your kid isn't visiting their home.

>>736580791
>Having common sense is knowing that this is rare in Japan and common in the US.
Is this what the ebin social media taught you, which totally reflects the consensus of entire countries?
Seriously, why do third worlder retards insist that they know anything about America because they saw some deranged freak on twitter?

>>736578374
Food disgusts me for the most part. I only eat because I don't want to die.

>>736581189
I feel sorry for anyone who falls to alcoholism, but there are lines you don't cross. As someone who frequently had to drag alcoholic uncles out of the house as a kid, you are right to maintain your distance. Good for your brother if he's getting something out of it, but what connection would YOU have with your dad again, truly?

>>736578548
Tits or GTFO

>>736581189
If you're confident you're not wrong then you're not wrong. If you have some doubts, can't hurt to talk about it.

>>736581137
if my kid hates me for being clear about punishments and sticking to my word when they are required then I failed to raise them properly and we have bigger problems

>>736581398
that sounds like an eating disorder desu
you dont enjoy any foods? none at all? you only live to sustain?
food is one of my great joys, i only enjoy sex and video games more

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>>736581167
I currently live in a group home and I earn NEET bucks.

I'm set for life.

Right now, my parents are actually begging their daughters to give them money to pay the bills. I'm so glad I don't live with them anymore.

>>736581348
Suburbia really fucked things up. I wonder how different things would be if there were places I could go to do things with friends in walking distance. Too late to change it now. Suburbia is the pod, and I don't want to force my kids to grow up in the pod.

>>736580528
What a fucking bitch

>>736581259
>Oh and go hug your mom
No. I didn't grow up mentally ill or a faggot or an addict or a neet, but I can't express emotion or gratitude towards people. I also don't understand how he got bitches at the bar, considering how much of a loser he was, but he somehow did every time. Now I'm a bit of an incel too and can't comprehend how some dudes have girlfriends, when they're lame as fuck, but I don't.
>>736581323
To be fair my brother lived with our grandparents, because we didn't have space. He didn't get to see our mom walking in my room at 2 AM to escape our dad, while he was beating her for no reason at all, like I was going to be able to help as a little kid.

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>dad randomly breaks my gameboy sp as well as my younger sister's gameboy sp because he was mad for some reason when I was 13 and she was 10
>feels guilty about it because we didnt do anything to deserve that
>I didn't even know until he came into my room and told me
>buys the both of us nintendo DS's to replace them
>we both got animal crossing and played together
>my other sister who was 12 didnt get jack shit
>she asks to borrow my ds one day
>she has it for 30 minutes and there's gouges all along the bottom of it
Fucking bitch

>>736581489
Untrue. That's just how kids are.

>>736581392
>because they saw some deranged freak on twitter?
Because it happens all the time retard. Stop being an insecure little bitch and accept your country's flaws.

>>736581526
Go hug your mom right now you colossal faggot

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>>736581496
>group home
>set for life