Okay, so to make a long story short my father died which left me with roughly 10 million euros in assets, but its pretty much all tied up in a 150k euro apartment, 1 million euro house and the rest in large plots of land (I can easily find buyers for this so it's not like it's completely illiquid)If I were to sell a portion of that land, or even all of it, what would you invest the money into? Are there any resources/books you can recommend for learning how to maintain and manage wealth?
>>34064248idk. i have no money.i can tell you how rich people usually think:"How can I help as many people as possible?"and then they make a business out of it.just note that i know of a case where they sold their house to buy two more. Lost the money during the black friday and were able to afford socks for it.Selling the real estate comes at a risk and i myself have the idea of settling it all in precious metals. in real value.but as i said: you are asking advice from someone who has no money.
>>34064271another thing: i mean: you had it coming and you knew you would get 10 Million €.but usually when people win a lot of money in the lottery, they spend it on stupid stuff.let it sit for a while. the way it is invested, it does not lose its value. you can wait for a few years and then act.there are many cases where people win and then end up worse than before.also many will like you for your money. don't show too many. and don't show the wrong people.
>>34064271for clarification: the black friday was a financial buuble that burst like about 100 years ago. bankers jumped to their death because of some charts on a piece of paper.
>>34063879Most of that should be in stock and bond index funds. Put a little in bitcoin, gold, silver. You can keep the land. It's safer than even the index fund of gold.
>>34064361if the value of all the stocks and gold in europe gets completely fucked no one is going to care who owns what land that's all bets are off mode.
Yes I am scum, I am worthless, heartless, and should kill myself. Thank you.I cheat. I have cheated multiple times on multiple men and I want to stop it. I want to stay faithful to the man I have now.When do I feel like cheating?>RevengeIf he monkeybranched or talks about his exes a lot, I feel a strong need to settle the score. >It’s overWhenever I feel like he’s not opening up to me and vaguely dooms about the relationship I start to think it’s over and need confirmation that I still “got it” and can bag a next bf>fightsEvery time he makes me cry or barrages me all day with his bullshit or anxiety I just go to bed feeling all miserable, browsing dating app in the hope someone is all over me. I don’t speak up often out of fear the relationship might end over it. Where is this coming from? I grew up without a dad and my mom is a sex worker btw
>>34064397Never met anyone who would act like you, anon. Especially in relationships. Have you ever felt an urge to hurt your partner(s) because of what they’ve done?
>>34064397>>34064367Bring me to OP:If OP can make a sort-of friend out of their own inner-demon, that urge of wanting to cheat and sabotage, then what OP can do is allow it to continue operating in their life. But with the important caveat to harness that energy and urge and releasing it in a way that isn't cheating. A common and simple trick to accommodate that for example would be introducing cosplay into sex. Scratches the same itch of having sex with "someone else" yet it's rewired to bolster the sexual relationship to the person you actually love. Or any other ways, doesn't have to be sexual or involve another person either. Therapy and counselling is a common way, exercise is one way, throwing yourself at a career or a hobby another way, or even something far out like paying for a 'break room' where you are given a room for breakable items and appliance, 30 mins and a baseball bat to let it out. Point is to allow the chaotic urges and temptations in and finding them a new job, one that isn't cheating. That way you get to stop fighting yourself & find a way to cope differently
>>34064445>Never met anyone who would act like you, anon. Especially in relationships. Have you ever felt an urge to hurt your partner(s) because of what they’ve done?Yes, all the time. Never followed through. in my lowest I'd act on them on myself through fucking my life up on drugs and booze. Since then I've learned to act on them in better ways as previously mentioned.
>>34064468Idk, something is fucked up about it. Your opinion on turning real cheating into cosplay.. Why would you even fantasise about cheating on your loved one? And btw you’re not scared that one day your partner will push you too hard and too far and you’re gonna use violence against them?
>>34062088It seems like you anticipate the fear of souring a relationship so you act first to justify why it ended or went bad. I suggest working on why something serious, with the good and bad, scares you
I had a really bad relapse on porn and I need to quit it but I'm a NEET so I'm being realstic that I can't get a girl to take care of needs so jerking off will be necesary. Will using tame stuff be better for my brain?
>>34061731>ED with a chickThis has also happened for me a couple times. Honestly I just wanna quit hardcore stuff. Ideally I’d like to stop it all entirely, but 1 step at a time I suppose. The thing that scares me is just generally hardcore stuff and how easy it is to get wrapped up into. If you really just stop and think about it; it can be very disturbing and disgusting the stuff that’s out there on your everyday porn site’s front page.
>>34056960The problem is that you’re a NEET. You don’t have shit going on so you have all the time and energy to devote to your dick. Get a reason to get out of the house and find something better than jerking off. Film yourself jerking it and i bet you’ll stop, especially you watch your goon session before you goon. Limit yourself to one wank a week on Sunday to reset yourself and that’s it. No girl on your life, no release. You can channel that energy into something that makes you someone worth fucking.
>>34056960>OP webmWhat the fuck is this bro -_-
What about getting a GF and fucking her? What's the downsides of that? Also I'm speaking as a person without a GF, so yeah.
>>34064182That's why I don't watch it. I used to watch hardcore shit but after awhile I realized it was just a fantasy. I was never going to fuck a bitch in the ass on a bang bus or gangbang rape some innocent teen so it just became a turn off, not to mention vicariously living through another man's achievements sexually is kinda gay so now it's either solo female stuff, or shit that can realistically happen like seeing a chicks thong in public or just a hot bitch in general and letting your mind fill in the rest.
How do you overcome social defeat and CPTSD more generally?
>>34062597>have fake disorder like "PTSD" or "CPTSD">get big bonk on the noggin>acquire amnesia>no longer able to remember past>don't have C/PTSDidk nigga sounds like a fake disorder caused by efixating on the past to me.
>>34062539There's a 3rd option: you just end up killing yourself
>>34062720>idk nigga sounds like a fake disorder caused by efixating on the past to me.It's a real process, but I agree the labelling and designating it a 'disorder' is bullshit. The only reason it's considered a 'disorder' is because it gets in the way of the modern idealistic idea of a 'good life', y'know the life with family, friends, wife, kids, 9-5 job, house and pet dog and white picket fence? That's what it can get in the way of so they call it a disorder or whatever. In reality though it's not a disorder, it's just a reaction to suffering and an adaptation to it. The only reason people suffer from it is because they keep trying to fight it and refuse to accept it in their attempts to be 'normal'. The fix is to just accept it and in trauma therapy that's exactly what the goal is.So funnily enough your advice of>By not giving a fuck. It's all fake bullshit that ceases to exist when you decide to not care about itIs more or less the correct route to take lol>>34062773>There's a 3rd option: you just end up killing yourselfTrue, but that'd be wasteful. People who are able to reconcile their own PTSD and live to tell the tale have a got a fuck ton of very useful insights to share and a lot of capability to unleash. Why waste it?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
BPD cunts got upset that people correctly associate BPD with cartoonishly psychotic cunts so they demanded the mental health industry come up with a new disease to be diagnosed with so these demon cunts can skinwalk as humans. Those two new things are CPTSD and rampant inaccurate autism and ADHD diagnoses in women.
>>34063182Tf is unc talkin bout?
How do you level yourself up to a point where you can meet the standart of modern women?
>>34055848I've never seen an attractive woman make a video like this. It's always some unpleasant looking pig-esque creature with masculine features. What this woman wants are the benefits of being a man without any of the expectations and responsibility. She talks about how women have evolved but the majority of young women like this work pointless HR jobs that only exist to generate revenue. She probably spends her freetime watching netflix and getting dug out by desperate simps. There's no way she has anything of value to offer the world. If she was a man she would be the exact demographic she targets in this video. But women like this are soulless and incapable of putting themselves in the shoes of those that they dislike. They don't select for survivability or any of the bullshit that she spouts in this vid, they select for things that make them feel tingly, i.e. height and face. "Emotional fluidity", kek give me a fucking break. Women haven't done shit to evolve, they've only raised their standards to an impossibly high degree that favors innate qualities that men are unable to control. If a man is tall and handsome he could possess all of the negative traits she listed and it wouldn't be an issue. The world is a fucking joke.
Most of the men ITT would have been able to get women in the days women were not allowed to open bank accounts. Problem is women’s rights.
>>34063641Holy fucking based. Truke dropped.
>>34063641>If she was a man she would be the exact demographic she targets in this video.thats the funniest part about your post lol
Thing is men have also risen their standardsI'm in a class where the guys think the girls are ugly, despite them just lookig average. It' not just a "modern women" thing, it's a "modern human" thing in general.
Get it off your chest - gioyc.
I'm about to go on hiatus from 4chan, I think.
>>34064395Rumspringanon
I want to get this off my chest for the last time, if you type "Amber" into the archive, I've clearly tried so many times and for once, I truly want this to be the last.I'm realising that I am my own prisoner and my own guard, my own ball and my own chain, I am locked and under key that has been in my hands reach this entire time.I've been punishing myself for 3 years. Every day you have been in my mind without exaggeration. It's been an obsession, a guilty conscience trying to make sense of the last few weeks if not last few months of our relationship and I've been trying to find all my flaws, all my mistakes, of which there are so many among the shattered memories listing them would take up half the page.But I think I was, despite all the flaws, always trying to find my Amber again. The girl that even now when I think about makes me smile, the girl who'd wrap herself up into a little bed burrito and smile so happily at the thought of being besides her Bri*ish boyfriend. Who she'd tease and joke and mess about with me.I miss her, I miss you, the memes, the in-jokes, the banter, the love, the smiles, the laughs, the competition, the joys of future little Abigail waddling in the snow... ahhhh... My dream girl, my darling, everything I wanted and needed it was you. Promising to chase each others souls, all those little things made me my heart feel so true.I wish I could have said goodbye to her, I wish I could have loved and held her forever. Amber, the you that is you now, I wish... I wish I could have found a way to be the man you still loved.I wish I could have been a better man in every way, I wish most of all I was a man who was physically there for you, I wish I could have held you, comforted you, kissed you, wrapped you up and made all those fears and doubts disappear hearing my heart play away, to know how much love I had for youI hope in the next life it turns out better, for all our flaws, I hope our spirits keep track, I love you so so much,AB
>>34064410Are you trying to identify me? I'm DB Anon. And Big Anon.
>>34064418No. I meant like a rumspringa for anons. To see the world and take time to consider if they want to be Chanish.
When I first had my son I was hoping he'd be the opposite of me in every way. I was always a very shy unathletic nerd who got bullied daily (both verbally and physically) by my stronger more assertive peers and because of that I'm now an adult with really severe depression as well as massive anxiety and distrust of people. I was hoping my son would be the opposite of me. I was hoping he'd be the one DOING the bullying if anything. But he's now in the second grade after having completed first grade and kindergarten and unfortunately he's a carbon copy of me. At first we thought it was just his kindergarten class but then the same thing happened in first and second grade and transferring schools didn't work either because he was bullied in the new school as well. Whenever I tried bringing it up to the teachers they basically didn't give a shit and just used the boys will be boys excuse. Even when he had several bruises and shit. I tried to get my son more into sports but he prefers drawing and writing stories. I tried to tell him that when bullies attack him fight back I don't care if he gets in trouble for standing up for himself but he just doesn't have it in him and lets them beat him up. I also tried contacting the parents of the bullies but the parents are also bullies themselves.So far my son is EXACTLY the way I was when I was his age. It's like I'm a father to my younger self. And I worry he'll end up just like me, depressed, full of anxiety, and very distrusting of people. My wife has no idea what to do either because as a girl growing up no one bullied her. So I'm at a loss here. Practically the only difference between my son and me at his age is he's slightly smarter and doesn't make as many stupid mistakes.
>>34021074Boxing, Judo or Muay Thai. The cure to all bullying is standing up to the bully and fucking him up>>34021315Agree
>>34021074>I was hoping he'd be the opposite of me in every way.Thank God I'm not a father but I myself do relate to your sentiment. I'm nothing but a sad depressed alcoholic bore who has nothing going on in his life. I didn't even finish high school then did fast food work for 20 something years and then lost my home because i kept spending it on drugs and i had to move back in my parents who are massive assholes by the way but it's still better than being homeless. I would hate for my son to end up like me.
>>34021234I hope people like you and your son get karma
>>34062716Nta but while no one should have to suffer bullying I'd rather be at the top of the food chain than the bottom of it. Sorry bro. *Shrugs* Plus it's easier to teach a bully son to simmer down or else he'll get grounded for 2 months than to tell my bullied son to stand up to his several bullies, many of which perhaps are bigger and stronger than him so even all the training in the world might not help enough especially if the bullies gang on him all at once, to spend money on therapy to deal with the depression and anxiety his bullies are causing him, to see him grow into a depressed teen and an ever more depressed adult, etc. I'd much rather just be like "hey son stop being a massive dick towards the other kids at school or else you're grounded for 2 months." And that's that. Simple. *Shrugs*
>>34064441while i kinda do hate the way you think at the same time i can see where you're coming from
guy i'm hooking up with sent me a shirtless gym selfie. complimented him obviously, but what would you send in return? boobs out seems a bit much, so i'm thinking of sending back a gym mirror pic in some tight workout clothes. don't really take a lot of pics (don't do old or social media) so not sure what he might like lol
>>34061700only person in this thread who doesn't have sex
>>34059145A bikini pic at the beach.
>>34062340I hope that's true but with how many oddly specific details he gave I'm unfortunately inclined to believe him. Like the details sound so oddly specific to the point where it's hard to make up. Especially all the quirky little dialogue banter that gives insight into the girlfriend loving to take the piss out of others.
>>34059145so youre already having sex with each other (aka hooking up)but you have trouble posting tits?
>>34064461i mean if you try and think for a bit you can make up a similar story. it's not hard...unless you're a fucking retard
>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmamhttps://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34063801>Ur a heckin coward that won't do anything to make a change in women but some big men from my dreams are coming to kill you to put women in line like I want hehWhat an embarrassing little faggot
>>34064149>he's still lurking
>>34064362You're still lurking yourself you stupid ass fetus
>>34064426>shouting insults into the void to soothe your ego because you couldn't handle being wrongYou Will Always Be a Woman
>>34064435Who was wrong here? You're the one who talked a big game about getting things done yourself and taking responsibility for everything only to say you'll hope and pray for other men to do it instead so you look less deranged for wanting someone dead because they hurt your feelings.
>34>NEET for basically entire life>no high school or college education>dropped out of school in 9th grade>never worked>have left house maybe 6times in past 15 years>0 social skills>never had a face to face interaction with someone my own age throughout my teens and 20s>ginger>never had a job>can't drive>never had friends>parents are broke so I won't inherit anything>no skills>tinnitusComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Bum
You're too old to join the military in a meaningful way. Why not try jail?
>>34059927>bi
guys how fucked am i32 nearly 33neet for like idk 6 years, but work in construction since 29leave house a lotsocial skilsl goodidk bad childhood cos abusenot ginger5'8 manlethave jobberino that pays okayishcan driveexercise but need to lose 6kg maybe lessparents have money but divorced
>>34062856Op is finished, you’re just fuckedYou can still unfuck
How do I get a trashy slut gf?
>>34061962(Huh? It's family. Did they really make f*m senpai?)
Trevon energy also is cool, but not desperate cool. If you're desperately cool, women don't like you, it gives off this vibe that feels like you're a 12 year old. But if you have the right vibe to it, it can work. Just can't be Eugene shit.
>>34061966NewfagHowever there is nothing I can find to dispute in your posts, so you're forgiven
>>34061797Detroit
>>34061797Just date any feminist. It's not like they're exactly rare rn due to jew programming
Is sex worth a toxic wife?
Femanon here. I have the sweetest bf ever and its my first relationship and first time doing anything with a man irl. But before i knew my bf i talked to a couple of guys online and sent nudes. I feel bad about it. Should i tell my bf about it or is it weird to tell him because he hasnt asked? I told him i kissed a couple of girls and he was okay with that so am i overreacting to this, it just bothers me a lot. I want him to still care about me even after i may tell him about this
>>34062429it think it is not too important.if you set the setting to casual, it might end up neutral. but still... there is some risk.as long as you did not, and indeed not(!) have previous relationships with other men, i would not consider it too bad.men care more for the physical, not too much for the metaphysical. for the fantasies. i know... fantasies can feel very real. but they are not.so... no need to tell him. and if you tell him, don't make it out to be a big thing.in fact... just forget it actively.
>>34062429hes probably furiously jerked his dick to anal nigger gang bang porn for hours to orgasm and youre asking if its bad if you send nudes?
>>34062429My gf told me about her past in detail even though I never asked to know and now it all lives rent free in my head. I know the places she's done it at with ONS and I feel anger just walking past them.Never tell him, dumbass.The only exception is if he asks you. Then he can only blame himself if he gets mad.
>>34064393imagine being a cuck like yourself though who would prefer being lied to and living in denial lmao, your gf truly is still more based than you, cuckincel, only reason in fact you stayed with her after she told you that is bc you fear your lonesome incel existence even more kekkk
>>34063891Roast beef flesh curtains typed this post
>Have $1500>Want a gaming PC>Also unemployed receiving unemployment benefits>Literally the only $1500 I have to my nameSo I should save it right? Because not spending only on essentials would make me poorer in the long run. However I literally can't get a job so why shouldn't I just spend my money immediately?
>>34064011If you're still hereI've been unemployed for 4 years, I am basically unemployable. I made the $1500 doing online survey sites. I make about $1000 a month doing it, sometimes it's only like $100 a week though.That's basically how I have lived since May. I am mentally ill.
>>34064024What if I do have panic attacks then whatI'll never own a house, I'll never get married and have kids, what's the point?
Buy a steam deck used.
>>34064077>What if I do have panic attacks then whatAlcohol and deal with it like a normie, or get an online brain doctor to give you a script for some ativan or a beta blocker some shit idk man. You sound young and retarded so good luck I guess
>>34063970It's a fucking ferret
I am considering going back to university to finish a bachelor's degree, and while I do have an associate's, the degree is from something to the order of 10 years old now. Would those credits normally recognized by a university? Or would I have to completely start from scratch?Maybe my search terms suck, but I haven't been able to find anything about this online. I'm not sure where else to ask other than calling up the admissions office.
