I'm white with a south asian gf and recently she's been really into racist dirty talk during sex. We're both pretty based, so it doesn't surprise me but she loves it so much and I'm struggling to be as racist and degrading as possible for her. Genuinely not a joke or troll post. I need assistance bros
have you tried using racial slurs and dominant sexual positions like choking her
>>32340495I just don't know which slurs to call her is the thing. I guess it's just kind of difficult because I can't just call her the N word.
Maybe throw in some big indian swears, but say them with a British accentRoleplay as some sort of official from the east india company, say you're there to civilize her (with your dick) then steal her tea (with your hands).
Self improvement has never resonated with me. Self improvement content is a fucking joke your laypersons idea of Self improvement is beyond parody the juice isn't worth the squeeze whitepillers can just jump up on the internet and lie "oh let me type this monologue about how I totally turned my life around" how the fuck are we supposed to know that? anyone can lie and post feelgood bullshit like that. The hopium doesn't work I've never felt inspired or motivated because nobody is persuasive I need to be SOLD on the shit I'm being told but I've never met anyone who knew how to use persuasion (here's an idea for all you Self improvement faggots why don't you brush up on your RHETORIC)tldr WHAT EXACTLY am I supposed to be self improving on? don't FUCKING say shit like the gym or le career NONE of that SHIT aligns with MY VALUES I'm not SOME FAGGOT looking to increase my standing among other men I DONT GIVE A FUCK about STATUS and I don't have time your WAGEKEKERY either
>>32340364>Self-improvement is masturbationit's just not that exciting it's boring as shit to tell you the truth I've only ever felt motivated when the opposite sex gives me a crumb of attention. When I see my oneitis (don't even say a word just glance at her) that's enough to put me in a manic state of euphoria for days. Pussy is the ultimate motivator it's biology that's just a fact nothing comes close you can cope all you want about doing self improvement for it's own sake but at the end of the day your doing it because you want to get laid
>>32340220Just find something - anything - that you can work on and improve on over time. Could be art, could be lifting weights. Anyways, do something CONSISTENTLY and track your progress in it over time - weight lifting is super great for seeing progress because all you have to do is lift heavier and heavier barbells over time, barbells which are conveninetly numbered. Or you could drawfag like me and compare where you started to where you're at now.But a caveat - progress is not always linear, you'll have set backs. But if you do something, ANYTHING EVERY DAY you WILL improve at it eventually
>>32340480Oh weight LOSS is also something great to do if you're a fat fuck - do it for your health. With weight loss all that is is NUMBER GO DOWN instead of wanting NUMBER GO UP
>>32340480yay more stuff I have to pretend to care about
>>32340500Eventually you'll care when you discover you have an aptitude for something. But you'll never discover that if you don't try
Get it off your chest
>>32339676>>32339925But what's to be done? You feel yourself to be the loser through and through. And while you're stewing in your juices he's busy plucking the rose without a care, busy going balls deep in her as he once did with you. A sacred and intimate act which you once shared with him now thoroughly defiled. But worst off all, you know you can't compete with his new lover in the way which would satisfy your ego. To feel as if you are the winner once again you'll have to beat the rose at her own game, your ego won't be satisified with anything less.Now you can go ahead and try, but I wouldn't recommend it. To do so would be to walk right into a double bind, a no-win game. And such a thing can drive one crazy once you cross the point of no return. Have faith in your nature, it will provide you that which you need to heal from this. But if you can't do that then remember this instead: While it's ok to let your ego protect you from injury, don't let it lead you into a war which can't be won.
Everywhere I got I feel upset that people constantly are obsessed about getting booty-calls, getting high, stealing, shooting guns, and leaving people to die.On the flip side there are people who are obnoxious, elitist, above it all, unforgiving, and outright smartasses.Is there a world where none of these two exist? I get irritated by people who just can't play by the rules in a civil and polite way ever. I've never been able to have a real conversation on what I learned in college with anyone in a true manner. It's always "Anon is retarded and doesn't know anything" or "WOW ANON YOU ARE A GENIUS".My God the way I live my life is extremely discouraging when everything has just been how much of a black person can you be without getting caught.
IT STILL HURTS THE SAME and it is not getting any better. I shold have the guy I was fcking for 2 years just to move on lol
On the one hand>Want a sincere, loving woman with a youthful spirit to compliment and assist my cynical bastard natureOn the other>Want a ruthless, borderline psychopathic woman who is seductive and that I can hatefuck into a shivering messI fucking hate my psycheThe real reason I've never married is because my past suicidal ideations and head injuries have me convinced that if my theoretical wife ever cheated on me I would have a psychotic break, kill her, the other man, and then myself in that order.
I wanna see what shawty can doPut the perc in her butt, make her get loose.
Bullet points.I used to run and do mma every day. Those sports brought me life and kept me from depression and low self esteem, but then:>Torn tendon in leg and can't run anymore.>Dislocated shoulder 5 times. Finally got surgery but will never be normal.>Every time I want to do physical activity, my body gives out before my soul does.>Now I have no cardio either and get winded from shit that would have been no problem to me years ago.It's miserable. I hate living in this body the way it is. It ALL happened at 25 and I'm just going to be in pain for the rest of my life all because of one fall and one kick. It's just unfair man. I am 30 now. I never got back on my feet and feel a major part of who I am is missing because I can't run or box anymore. I study Japanese now. Self taught. But it doesn't fill the void. Just fills the time.
>>32340468Can't you jump rope and do calisthenics?
>>32340468You sound based man. Sorry that happened. I'm not a specialist in torn tendons, dislocated shoulders, or any of that. Just wanna say that sounds unfair and I'm sorry, and good luck.
>>32340477>Can't you jump ropeThis I can do.>and do calisthenics?My left leg gives out before the right and I am not certain about pull ups anymore due to the shoulder instability. Pushups also give pain as the right shoulder gets tired/pain before anything else.Really though, its the depression caused by the injuries that really gets me. And any time I do exercises that aren't expressly dedicated to strengthening the damaged parts of my body, it seems like all I am doing is indulging in fantasy because I can't actually do them.>>32340487Thanks.
>>32340497That sucks. Maybe try focusing on the jump rope, learn to do cool tricks with it and push yourself when doing it.
Seriously be real with me and no misogyny allowed 1. Do I need a degree to get a degree educated husband since I don't think they date minimum wage women?Inb4 oh they don't care. Bitch they do they see you as not ambitious and retarded therefore they will brake up with you 2. What degree can I get that I don't have to pretend I am passionate on the subject, last time I quit college cause I hate tards pressuring me to lie about being passionate?3. What degree can I get that it requires the least amount of socialising?4. How can I get it without having to talk to younger people since I am old and hate them. Preferably getting the degree online?
Lady, the very thing you're afraid of is what you're going to have to do.I want you to honestly sit down look through all those college majors without the mindset of someone who hates bullshit and has OCD, and just ask yourself what can I honestly do, what do I like to do, and what will give me the most opportunity. That's how I found out I'm doing Business Analytics since it's more accomodating to the fact I just crunch numbers and data and only have to deal with a select few executives, which I don't mind as I get along well with teachers and professors. I used to be passionate about film but found out it was a bit too lucrative.
>>32336436Men care less about your earning potential than you could possibly imagine. Men want a 50s tradwife with a hot body. Become that and you'll be engaged very soon.
>>32339175Based incel
>>32336436Your post is either excellent bait or mentally ill trash.>Seriously be real with me and no misogyny allowedPeople calling you a BPD tard aren't misogynist, since they're calling you specifically a BPD tard.>1. Do I need a degree to get a degree educated husband since I don't think they date minimum wage women?You need to be nice to him and supportive of him. You also need to be attractive and to enjoy intimacy with him.A degree is of low (but not 0) importance.>they see you as not ambitious and retardedThat isn't because you're uneducated.>2. What degree can I get that I don't have to pretend I am passionate on the subjectLiterally all of them, just don't lie.>last time I quit college cause I hate tards pressuring me to lie about being passionate?Did you try simply not giving a shit?>3. What degree can I get that it requires the least amount of socialising?Probably theoretical mathComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>32336436If you're hot enough and not annoying, most men genuinely won't care.
How do i make myself smell better?
I mean you're basically gonna have to talk to a doctor if showering and hygiene doesn't do it for you
>>32338987but how do you know if you smell okay or not?
>>32338997your house is clean and you wash your clothes
>>32338981is that hawaii?
>>32339228Northern Ireland
I've been searching for a life goal all of my life and I can't find it, Can you help me find it?
Most people get married and have children. I think the only answer is to be responsible for as many things as you can so you don't have time to contemplate the meaninglessness of it all.
>>32338930What if I don't find anyone compatible and hot enough to marry? Or what if she's from another culture and country?
>>32338728Make your goal more life, regardless of what anyone else thinks.
>>32338728I chose to value what I was already doing, which was memeing and video gamesIt worked
>>32338728More information needed. Please take the time to provide further details.
>meet girl long distance>really like her>she shows me a pic>she doesn't look great>say shes cute because I like her personality and don't want her to feel bad>if she lost weight she would be cute easilyKinda blows, I'm not attracted to her physically but don't want to let her go.Am I doing her a disservice here?
Ever since I was a kid, I’ve loved Dixie. I don’t know what it is, but the melody has always made me happy. I have autism, and I listen to Dixie at least 50+ times a day. At work, I usually have different versions of Dixie playing on loop. As a result, I see everything connected to the South, Confederacy, etc. with a positive note. The ironic part is I have no familial or otherwise connection to the South. I’m wondering if autistic obsessions with songs is common and if it’s caused problems with others.
>>32340387>I’m wondering if autistic obsessions with songs is common and if it’s caused problems with others.Obsessions are normal for autists. The obsession itself is rarely the problem.
>>32340393I worry people might think I have some kind of racial ideology.
>>32340407Then stop talking about your obsession and stop displaying Confederate imagery. You're clearly self aware, so you know this, autist or not.
>>32340387holy fucking shit my sister has autism and plays that same song on repeat whenever she gets the chance to it is so embarrassing .. good lord
Why am I like this? Am I a simp? Is it oneitis? I've been with other women and dated other women, but nothing compares to how she made me feel. Feels as if my life is over.
>>32339984Feelings don't change if you don't change them.Keep doing the same feelings over and over and you'll have the same feelings over and over
>>32340419>Feelings don't change if you don't change them.You can't change feelings. Feelings and emotions are primal things. It's laughable that there are people who actually think this way.
>>32340451>I refuse to believe I can fix my problem Ok.Don't fix it then.
>>32340451Also wait why do you believe this stuff when it's A. not true and B. stressing you?To me that seems counterproductive. Much comfier to change unwanted feelings than to be like "I can't help it"
>>32340466>>32340470You can change actions, you can't change your feelings. How stupid are you? Do you think a murderer who gets off to killing people can turn that feeling "off?"Not OP btw.
Almost every girl is either already taken or they’re fat or ugly. There are also some other disqualifying factors like they’re some years older than me, too tall, if they’ve had previous boyfriends. I really don’t think I’m being too picky but maybe I am. Maybe a little immature but is just an innocent girl who is like a 6/10 too much to ask for?>inb4 “Your standards are too high”They’re not. Im probably like a ~6/10 (maybe 7/10 but I’m short) so my standards in terms of looks are reasonable. I literally just want a plain Jane girl. And not Hollywood-tier “plain girls” (where it’s just a really attractive girl wearing glasses bc that supposedly makes her ugly). I don’t even think I want a hot girl because I’d feel insecure about not being good enough as a looksmatch and always thinking she could do better.Maybe I just need to TALK to more girls to get to know their actual personalities and go from there? Maybe then I’ll be/feel less shallow?I WANT a gf, I want someone to give meaning to my life so I don’t just doomscroll and goon all day long. Because I legit feel like I have no purpose to life I therefore feel zero motivation to do coursework, to improve myself physically, to not sleep in till almost noon. >inb4“you’re being selfish. No girl wants to date a guy with your mindset. You need to be the right guy before you can get the right girl.”Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>32340414Recommend one of:WaifuGayAsexual
>>32340414Also>I WANT a gf, I want someone to give meaning to my life so I don’t just doomscroll and goon all day long. Because I legit feel like I have no purpose to life I therefore feel zero motivation to do coursework, to improve myself physically, to not sleep in till almost noonThat's mentally illA gf doesn't fix thatFix it before getting gf
>>32340414Plus the obvious easy solution is to want the girls who are available You aren't doing that so you probably don't want a gfYou just want to blame your lack of motivation on somethingSelf-made problem.
>>32340414You're unironically too picky. Ruling out anyone with a previous bf rules out the majority of women you'd otherwise get along with
>>32340414>Maybe I just need to TALK to more girls to get to know their actual personalities and go from there?Yes. The more people you meet and get to know, the more likely you'll find people you like. This goes for friends and potential relationships.
How do you deal with evil when you can't opt for either fight or flight? Picture yourself strapped to a chair, defenseless and weakened. What is left to do?
>>32339071Then your problem isn't how to deal with evil, but how to better cultivate discerning, and for the most part the only recipe for this is life experience and being humble.
>>32339079Ok. On my way
>>32338996I won't read hypotheticals on an advice board.
>>32338996Get rekt then get over itEz
>>32339026I think anon means:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUQ1Y8nPz0Q
How do you even make friends on this app? Seems really hard.
>>32339352They're still humans on the other end; you don't act differently to them because they're on Discord specifically.
>>32339352maybe cause it's not made for making friends. go join a club or sport or something
>>32339352I be horny with other horny degenerates
>>32339394>Tell them you're trans and ask them where they keep the 12 year oldsFor the love of fuck stay away from the transtrending tweenagers. You can't fix them and mentally ill bussy is not worth it. Plus it's illegal.
>>32339352Join a server that's about your interests (bonus if it's voice chat is constantly active)Participate in chat and interact with people regularlyThat along with patience is all you really need.
Socialising isn’t easy, women are complicated, there’s a reason they call having sex ‘getting lucky’. It’s crapshoot and the only way to keep going.> I just can’t take the rejection and looking like an idiot.No one tells anyone that this is part of the journey. Unfortunately your ego is going to get the shit beaten out of it and you’ll have some nights or months where it feels like all women hate you. And the rejection is never going to leave, it’s there before and after relationships/hook ups. Very few people have broad appeal.It’s a part of life for a lot of us. Getting in shape, dressing nice and a career help your chances but you’re still going to get rejected. But you’ll figure out what works for you, it’s just not going to be pretty getting there.You guys are protecting your egos while your dicks shrivel up and die. Stop being afraid of making mistakes and get out there. Only warning I’d give about rejection is don’t immediately go for someone who just saw you get rejected. No one wants to feel like a concession- even if they know they are deep down. Move to another part of the room, do it another time.There’s plenty of threads here that can give you specific things to do, but accept that rejection is a major part of a sex life- for most of us there’s no getting around it… unless we pay for it.
>>32340424>No one tells anyone that this is part of the journeyI doBut I don't call it rejection since I'm not a fag. I call it testing interest (and getting a null result).Rejection implies you failed or lost something, but you didn't. It's not like you're shooting at targets but you missed and wasted a bullet.It's more like "I know the money's in one of these vases so I gotta break open the vases" and then so you go crack 'em open. No payday in one? Keep bustin'.
>>32340424I have nothing to offer to anyone so I don't ask women out.
>Be me at work>Have things I want to do when I get home>Get home>can’t do them>Not tired or sad or anything just literally can’t do them>No other way of describing it’s just not something I can do>I wanna watch anime and read a VN in Japanese but just can’t >End up literally just doing nothing refreshing random sitesWhy seriously I don’t get I know I just have to hit play or just have to open a software but can’t, maybe it’s a willpower thing or something else
>>32335280This is likely a symptom of anxiety or stress. Do some basic relaxation exercises like square breathing or something when you get home, you sweet honey child.
>>32337912Bro my hobbies are on my pcGuess I will just like avoid the internet until then lol
>>32335280>I wanna watch anime and read a VN in JapaneseI won't read subhuman weebo mental health ramblings. Another one for the gas cubicle.
>>32339642Anon please stop being so performative it’s cringe and no one cares
>>32335280Idk, that's never happened to me.So you intend to enjoy a VN, but the brain you're in just doesn't do what you intend?Sounds rough.
