I am a naturalized US citizen and I'm brown.Is it possible for ICE to detain me and then strip me of my citizenship and deport me even if I didn't do anything wrong?
>>34323246Why are you bullshitting him? It happened to that Garcia guy already, he had permission from a judge to remain in the US. ICE does not care about your legal status nor the law. ICE sets quotas for deportation and they will pick up random people if they don’t happen to have paperwork on them just to meet quota.
>>34323246ICE deported a 2-year-old US citizen in April 2025.
>>34323184A mexican tourist with a tourist visa was deported by ICE because his brother drove him in the job van, and that was interpreted as "working".
>>34323211Your loss. Once they identify you, and with Palantir they already have, they can seize everything you own. You’ll be going home with the shirt on your back, and they’ll get bonuses by selling your stuff. Even if you somehow don’t get deported they don’t have to give anything back. Happens all the time.
>>34323260The "Maryland dad" had a criminal record and was wanted in his home country for questioning OP has a clean record. No MS13 tattoos. OP may have even avoided beating his wife or dealing drugs
Men are checking out of society at an alarming rate
>>34323280Yeah, and? Woman are mens equal so they can pick up the slack and provide for men.
The last one hit the bump limit, so I made a new one.
>>34323039>>34323117Current generations have it so much worse than I had back then.90s were so hopeful as a kid with so much new technology & discovery each and every year.
I wonder what she's up to
Everytime something great happens to me, I sabotage it.I almost immediately start thinking of how it will end. My first job that wasn't retail, I got hired at a really cool job, and all I could do all day was wish for the company to go out of business.I even made a management position at a newer company for myself, making 3x the salary I'd usually make at other jobs and although I was there for 3 years, took on opportunities to grow, traveled the world on the companies dime, I still ended up shitting it all away, playing video games instead of doing anything useful for them.Recently I even had a great girlfriend whose family accepted me, offered to support me while looking for a job and I left her for another girl.This new girl was the best woman I ever met, and although I had plans to marry this new one, we were in a difficult situation where she had to return to her country. I found many ways to see how she was doing things wrong despite being an amazing woman. I often experience deep bouts of depression where I just start crying uncontrollably or I yell very loudly. I watched my mom die about 4 years ago from a slow death from cancer, that's probably the source of my grief, but I remember feeling liek this before that.
My heart is only for you and I'm keeping my promises to you.
Why am I so prone to becoming ungreatful and bitter? It's so stupid. I hurt myself and probably others in subtle ways when I do. Love does not sprout from a lack of humble gratitude, but when love is present all if forgiven. You can't argue against love.
Is it worth it to have kids with a dumb, pretty nice girl?
Yes it is. It especially is if she is very nice. I personally don't like smart women as they tend to be too goal oriented to the point of lacking compassion or feelings usually with the tendency to be rigid. Women who are nice I love a lot and I love being around hot women too. I just wish this dream woman would appear in my life. However after witnessing Jesus and all things holy, I am fine without that.
>>34323110You kidding me? I'd raise a goth kid who is quieter and more compassionate than myself who'd be able to handle the world and program minecraft worlds.
>>34323128Selfish shit. Kiss Your Sister
>>34323170Are you okay?
>>34321087If you're also nice and dumb, sure, if you're smart no. You'll end up with a dumb child that may or may not be attractive, and you'll hate them for being inferior.
I don’t know if it’s the same for both genders, but have you noticed that a man may truly love only ONCE? After that, the rest of the women in his life are often just attempts to forget or hurt the one he truly loved, an escape for lust, or simply a baby incubator to kickstart a family so he end up alone? Of course if the love of your life leaves you or dissapoints you, you may keep dating other women as a a sexual escape, but you wont open your heart again.
>>34317697>but have you noticed that a man may truly love only ONCE?No. This is a thing that only really young people think. Life is not a contiguous experience in which you are the same person with the same values, knowledge and perspective throughout. What is "true" at one point in your life will not necessarily be "true" a month, a year or decade later. Of course there are times when people will lose a DESIRE to pursue another experience after the loss of a previous one but that's not the same thing as being incapable.
>>34321775>This is a thing that only really young people thinkI think that and i am im my 30s
>>34321820>I think that and i am im my 30sWell, if you're a typical 4chan autist with very little relationship experience then you're likely still mentally pretty young.
>>34317697No, it might be true for some men, but it isn’t a universal one. I’ve had two great loves in my life, and the more powerful or impactful one came after the first, but I loved that first one completely. I haven’t since the second found any love to match it, though I have had girlfriends since, and I don’t know if I’ll ever find someone to match it, but I’ve definitely “truly loved” more than once. The second was arguably a greater match than the first, but I assume I could truly love again if the third was equal too or greater quality of match then the second.
It's only ever been her for me
Anons of 4chan, lend me your power.I need all the advice I can get I'm turning 27 soon and feel like I wasted opportunities to be earning in my age. In the these final years of my 20's I want to really run it.>I've been in the gym and while my body doesn't look great, I have the foundations to build a top 20% or even 10% physique within the next few years. >I'm broke never had a long term job but im doing a grad school course that will lead to six figures in like a decade though :/>I rarely cut my hair and it sucks right now. My style is mid to lacking since im so broke. I've realised that I want to maxx out a bunch of my stats. I want to compete with the men who are the killers of the world who are my age:>The Wall Street banker >The ivy league lawyer at a US firm >The Software engineer at FAANG Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34321700No, you have to write it.You have to do it in order to create your future. There is a physical psychological process. You need to clarify your own thoughts. It’s hard but it’s as easy as that.
>>34321442ngmi go bother retards on looksmax dot org
>>34321442Without a stable job, much of what you desire is not possible since you will be broke.Regarding what that other guy said, I don’t think you’ll be able to have a top tier job if you are too lazy to even write down your daily routine.
>>34321442>How do I ascend ?Have actual structure goals. "I want to be rich" is not a structured goal. Avoid goyslop and bad habits. Get off 4chan.
>>34322358I'll write them down, I pretty much did just had chatgpt pull it all together. I can get a "top tier" job but have to complete the grad degree first
will i get bullied in europe THOUGH
>>34323198Bro is a group project
Should I just go to a prostitute?I am a 31 year old virgin. I have always felt that buying my first time would be the most pathetic thing I could do and be me admitting to myself that it can never happen any other way.I want to believe that I am not inherently unlovable and that I can someday convince a woman to not be physically repulsed by me.But I also really want to have sex.
>>34323219Ok anon next time don’t respond to a question that isn’t directed to you as if it is.
>>34323232You replied to my post, fuck face
>>34323236I replied to the OP and you inserted yourself into the conversation mate
>>34323175Just do it, it's a non-issue. You'll realize it's not as big a deal as you or anyone else on this site has made it out to be for the last 15 years. Oh but what if someone finds out? They won't, and nobody cares. And if they do care you should slap them down with a dose of reality because it's a big nothing. I did it, twice. Afterwards you'll think, oh was that it? Literally less meaningful event than getting a flat tyre. It won't change your life, it won't change your outlook, you'll forget about it in 12 months time. Just make sure you pay for an hour so you can play 2 rounds.
>>34323231Because it's more common to find that kind of woman in that country, some countries have laws against prostitution.Dubai is one of those places filled with ukrainian hotties, it's getting bombed right now and prostitution is illegal so you take risks. Europe is full of colombians and venezuelans rather than slav girls. Russia is a hostile country, you can't just go there. Girls escaping shitholes wouldn't go to other shitholes for a better life, I don't know if Thailand is a good place for finding slav girls for that matter, maybe germany.
I don't feel merit in trying things and failing.Hearing the constant rhetoric that you're not entitled to anything and that you should not expect help or reward from anybody else has gotten to me. After a bad episode of burnout I kept feeling extreme frustration at anything I try. Failure never feels like training, it always feels like punishment and never as progress. It doesn't help being 30 and never holding a real job. Parents didn't teach me to use money either, I just hoarded it, pirated things instead and used money as cold utility tools.Now if I do nothing, I may feel relaxed with the off feeling that I'm not doing anything productive with life, but trying something and stopping in my tracks makes me feel distracting despair, I don't have headspace for learning at those times.It happens when reviewing medicine topics, It happens when trying to learn to code and model something, it happens even when trying to play an instrument and realizing I don't really know the play of connecting one sound with the other.Filling an activity chart feels like homework rather than brainstorm.How do you deal with the stress, how do you deal with frustration, and how do you reward yourself?
Question for those who poop later in the day, like evening or nighttime:do you ever poop out what you ate in breakfast/lunch earlier that same day?How often does this happen to you when you poop at that time?I ask because I’ve found I tend to poop out lunch if I poop in the evening or night.That means it comes through me in 5-10 hours sometimes
>>34320068>>34320190That's not normal at all it's way too fast, are YOU new to pooping?
>>34320068I leave a big dump in my boss’s toilet 5 hours after lunch but it’s a whole day’s work
>>34320068Good job OP, your digestive system is functioning great!You are supposed to poop out the food you eat 3-5 hours later. If you eat three times a day you should be pooping 2-3 times per day. For dinner this may mean holding it overnight and pooping first thing in the morning."Doctors" will tell you once a day is fine, but it's not fine. That is mild constipation. Popping once per day (or less) for extended periods of time is chronic constipation.Most westerners are completely backed up and FULL OF SHIT.We should be pooping more often, and we should celebrate every time we poop twice or more in one day!
>>34321797sometimes people have digestive issues and don't have a frame of reference for what's normal.
>>34321954There's no way you are supposed to shit out your food 3 hours later.
From slim and curvy and always looking her best to extremely overweight and messy buns that haven't been washed in like 3 weeks I feel like I've pretty much lost all attraction to my wife. Like in the beginning she did like to eat a lot and had some lazy days but she had an overall balanced lifestyle. Then gradually though she began to eat more and exercise less, stay inside instead of going on walks with me, fart and burp loudly all the time even when trying to cuddle and have sex, always shit with the door open, and the list goes on. At first I thought depression could be the issue but she's apparently very happy this way and even brags about it. Even making posts on social media saying shit like "being married is when you can truly give up and let yourself go and be happy." I tried paying for her therapy but she refused to go. I tried cooking her healthier meals but all she wanted to eat was fried chicken and ice cream. We're both in our mid to late 30s so not that old and I'm in much better shape than her and people always say I look great for my age. I always put effort into my appearance, you won't ever catch with in uncombed hair or in shit like cargo shorts. I exercise and eat healthy constantly. And then there she is always in dirty pajamas and eating nothing but junk. And I have brought all this stuff up to her but she just brushes it off saying that "this is her true self she's been waiting to reveal all her life and if I don't like it then I don't deserve her and that all her closest friends are just like her."Meanwhile there's this nice younger woman at work (late 20s) who looks very similar to my wife when she was pretty and didn't let herself go, she's slim and curvy, her hair is always on point, always smells fantastic, looks amazing in her suits and skirts, is affectionate, good at making conversation, etc...and then I have to come home to my fat wife who now weighs more than me despite being way shorter,
>>34319946Go to your Imam and say "divorce divorce divorce"Allah will take care of the rest.
>>34321913Easier, you don't even have to go to the imam. Just say divorce three times to her face and she is no longer your wife kek.
This is why you don't get married - women get too comfortable, they know that you are locked into a relationship with them for life.Gotta keep women on their toes. She should always be thinking - oh shit, he might leave me for a younger, fitter girl.
>>34319946This shit is exactly why I only stick to one night stands. Young and hot forever since you only see them once. They don't have time to get old and fat. Win win.
>>34321991yeah. marriage is honestly overrated. kids even more so. imagine raising a child for 20 something years only for them to end up a psychopath or a lazy bum. even worse if you've raised several kids and they all turn out this way
this dumbass stomach pain i've had since i was 16 has ruined my life. I get a dull pain after i do any sort of exercise involving my core that lasts for at least 8 hours. The gym was my life and it was how I coped with things, and ever since i havent been able to lift my love for being alive and experiencing things just drained. not just the gym but everything in my life since i cant even run without being in pain the entire day. all doctors are dumbasses and cant tell me anything and if i wanna see anyone i have to get 3 different referrals before they can even condescendingly tell me they couldnt find anything wrong. thanks for reading my blog
It sounds like a hernia. Where on your body is the pain?
Are there any tricks to lasting longer during sex that actually work
>>34319366Oh shit I didn't even realize somebody replied to this.>I’ve been doing exercises that target the pelvic floor muscles all week, like hip thrusts, hollow body holds, lunges, squats, and more. The pelvic floor is a vast and complex set of muscles that does different things for different purposes. Unless you have a specific diagnosed condition of your pelvic floor, these exercises are completely useless. For the purposes of orgasm control that is.>What do people mean when they say use your pelvic floor? During sex, during the orgasm, you use your pelvic floor muscles, so you can control it.>Are you just supposed to tense up your asshole like you’re holding in shit?No that would be the wrong area of the pelvic floor. These are the muscles that you use to stop the flow of urine when you're peeing.The ones that contract when you are ejaculating.Before the ejaculation there is the orgasm. You have to recognize when the orgasm is beginning to happen, then you hold the orgasm in place while it is happening. As long as you hold the orgasm in place, the ejaculation will not happen.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34309400Weed numbs my shit a lot so i last longer but makes the orgasms 100x more intense. You do need the cardio for it though.
couple beers
>>34309400This might be a dumb question but couldn't you last longer in bed via putting your dick in her and not moving it while you gently rub her clit with your hand? Obviously I'm extremely inexperienced (hence why I'm in this thread) but wouldn't that work?What I mean is, you have sex, but then take a break and just stimulate the clitoral whilst your penis is deep inside her but unmoving (obviously this requires great self control)My apologies for being a brainlet but would this theoretically work for lasting longer?
>>34309400Stop jerking off
Tell me anything alcohol related stories or advice
>>34317691I have no idea. He seemed kind of irritated, maybe it was shift change and he didn't want to deal with waiting for a tow and everything else. Maybe he had a more important call, its a rural place so the cops are spread thin enough.
I like drinking. But I only do it once a week or so. Roughly 6-10 beers when I do. Am I in trouble? I already ruined all my friendships so that's non-issue.
>>34318335Your alcoholic profile would be of the binge variety. I used to be like this up until March 2020, the lockdowns and then I went heavy every day. until maybe 2022 but I'm still pretty bad with it whenever I do. All it will take anon is one bad even or trigger and your binge patterns could escalate to everyday drinking.
>>34310966started drinking regularly back around 2019 during my 5th year of college. I found myself outside a college friend group. I was so exhausted from college, classes were boring as hell as an econ major not to mention you weren't graded on hardly anything other than a 8 assignments and a couple of tests. Meaning, you constantly had to give a shit about school. It was like this since junior year. All I had was a macbook pro and a couple of books to get me by during my time in undergrad. Thankfully Washington was only a few miles away so I zone out for 6 or so years being high constantly. I thought I was getting ahead in life while being truthfully miserable mentally. I lost myself, isolated, lived alone, and could only watch motivational Jordan Peterson videos to get by. I went to the gym every so often but didn't have much direction with that either. Life gets better when you try, my advice drink beer and ditch liquor.
>>34310966I've been sober for 4 years. Wish I did it sooner
How did going through meeting someone, dating them, loving them enough to get married, having a family life and then losing it all change you as a person?How did you cope after the fact or move on?Did you ever date again or try to? How did your prior experience change your perspective on and reaction to things the opposite sex does?
>>34321334Cheaper to keep her.
>>34321334>How did going through meeting someone, dating them, loving them enough to get married, having a family life and then losing it all change you as a person?I can't trust anyone anymore 100%. In fact it is hard for me to even want to socialize anymore. I enjoy my peace now. I dwell on that pain and it is not easy to forget what happened>How did you cope after the fact or move on?I still have the scars. I tried to focus on myself and do the things I enjoy. You can try to let go but you'll be reminded daily of the pain you suffered. It's very hard to overcome the person you trusted most backstabbing you. No matter how hard you tried to appease them and were a good person, their mental illness ruined the relationship>Did you ever date again or try to? How did your prior experience change your perspective on and reaction to things the opposite sex does?I've tried to date, I know what I'm looking for now. I don't tolerate bullshit. Not afraid to let girls go quickly. I think I'm just gonna stay single at this point. Just easier to hit it and quit it. If the right person comes into my life and is available, I'll consider it, but I'm not going to go out of my way anymore. I'm a Chad and have everything a woman would want so I get to be picky
