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Is sex worth a toxic wife?
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No because you aren't thinking big picture enough. Wait till they start creating an entire fake version of you they tell everyone around you and you have no idea half your city thinks you're doing X Y Z. Good luck leaving her and finding someone else when everyone has been hearing for years about the fake you, good luck finding a job or keeping one when they decide to grenade
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>>34064606
/thread
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>>34064457
nope. I wouldn't say my wife is necessarily toxic but she isn't very nice and I wish I never got married most days.
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>>34064763
Especially if you're American

Get it off your chest - gioyc.
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how was your birthday?
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>>34065470
Who are you asking? My Birthday was eventless as usual.
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Hey, man. I wasn't the one who told her to torture those poor little creatures for amusement. Neither did my cousin.

Your silent laughter speaks louder than your visibly physical actions.
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>>34065473
was it today?
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>>34065496
Nah, a few months back, just covering all bases.
>>34065490
Mmm.

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I'm 30 and obese. I decided I'm going to try and do something about it but on my own terms. Today is one month give or take a few days and I've lost between 7 and 9 kg, not sure because I didn't take my starting weight accurately. I don't exercise and I don't eat healthy. I just feel like I was able to find the space in my mind to realize that I was eating way too much volume-wise and to bring it down to a reasonable level that still makes me feel happy mentally and satisfied physically. So far I've been eating at a 1400-1500 kcal deficit daily, I've stopped snacking and I've replaced sugary soda with diet soda and some water. Yeah, I know - it's going to slow down, I'm not getting all the nutrients I need from processed food, aspartame causes cancer, whatever. I just don't have the mental capacity to be able to eat healthy or exercise but I really want to lose weight. I probably have some kind of disorder when it comes to food. Doing what I've dobe so far took a lot of effort too, but it doesn't feel like effort now, which is why I'm slightly optimistic. I'm just wondering if you think I should keep going. It feels good to see some results from something I'm actually able to get myself to do.
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>>34062784
Yes, keep going. Caloric deficit is literally all there is to do when it comes to losing weight. If you ever feel like adding in exercise, do something really basic like daily 30 minute walks to start. It won't feel like a lot, but the key to exercise is finding something you'll stick with, not intensity. You're doing good so far, keep at it. Your future health will be so drastically improved it's not even funny.
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>>34062784
>I'm just wondering if you think I should keep going. It feels good
what the fuck do you think?
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>>34062784
You obviously need to reverse course.
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>>34062806
I feel like eventually I'll become open-minded to the idea of exercising. I just need to feel better, even marginally, in my body first. Thank you.

>>34062863
>>34062992
Of course. Not caring felt good too, though. I just wanted some reassurance I was doing right by myself. I appreciate it.

/ATOGA/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything

Fishes and Dishes Edition

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>>34065497
they're not growing pains they're age pains. growing pains aren't even real it's just a thing boomers said when they crisco poisoned their kids and needed an excuse why they kid was in pain
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>>34065455
Sometimes that shark, he looks right into ya, right into your eyes. Y'know, the thing about a shark, he's got lifeless eyes
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>>34065485
I don't know what it is
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>>34065481
Pudding tits you say
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>>34065480
why shouldn't I?

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I am a baboon with the mind of a nigger. How can I find a job that will pay me $30 an hour and not $15 an hour that they pay to kids out of highschool?
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>>34053921
Trades
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>>34060526
He's gonna pop.
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>>34054086
Unironically this, or any other form of postal work. I had a friend in highschool who used to accompany her single mom on delivering mail and shit, and now she also works in mail delivery and makes mad bank. Like, her mom was able to afford a nice ass house as a single mother, and she was able to afford a house at like 20. I knew another postal driver and she said she was allowed to periodically drop in on her kids throughout her shift and she was hella chill.
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>>34063495
I don't know how to drive though...
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>>34062754
Breathe, Neo. Just breathe.

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TL;DR

(Is actually a wall of greentext but whatever, tried my best to condense it)

>Be me

>Graduate from 4 year electronics engineering trade in highschool

>End up at a supermarket & hate it bc idk if I wanna pursue my trade

>Life is practically staring at a bright screen in a dark closed in room 24/7 or stocking shelves or praying, I am quiet and do not talk to people and only have one friend

>Live in a fucked up family, have troon brother, wigga sister, bipolar menopause mother, father who grew up with no father who doesn't know how to father

>Be the only normal lad in the senpai

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>>34065332
Just because YOUR grandmother was a piece of shit doesn't mean other people's grandmothers were snakes like your one was. That's why your family members are all sorts of fucked up while other families actually build up to something lasting

>Women aren't actually loyal to men but to what they can provide
Neither are men, retard
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>>34065351
>Neither are men, retard

Yeah well, it's males who are loyal way more often than not.

Consult these charts:
https://www.theglobalstatistics.com/gay-divorce-rate/

Gay men are the least likely to divorce while women are more likely to divorce, I think that says a lot on the question of female loyalty; a Woman's brain also "gets bigger" after being impregnated.

https://www.nih.gov/news-events/nih-research-matters/brain-changes-observed-during-pregnancy?utm_source=chatgpt.com
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>>34065410
And by women divorcing, I forgot to say lesbians.

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Hello everyone, despite what the title might suggest, I am normal. But I need her to make me worse. Where do I find one of them?

Note: PLSPLSPLSPLSPLSPLSPLS
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acutally deranged women want freaky weird incels that are alluringly strange, you will not find one as a normal man.

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I don't get it. I'm 25 and never had a gf. I have no women my age in my life. Closest woman to me is my mom. How am I supposed to fare about women when I don't have one? How am I supposed to give a shit about women's issues if I don't have one? They're all getting fucked in their asses and pussies while I rot here alone? Where am I supposed to find empathy or respect for them?


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When I first had my son I was hoping he'd be the opposite of me in every way. I was always a very shy unathletic nerd who got bullied daily (both verbally and physically) by my stronger more assertive peers and because of that I'm now an adult with really severe depression as well as massive anxiety and distrust of people.

I was hoping my son would be the opposite of me. I was hoping he'd be the one DOING the bullying if anything. But he's now in the second grade after having completed first grade and kindergarten and unfortunately he's a carbon copy of me. At first we thought it was just his kindergarten class but then the same thing happened in first and second grade and transferring schools didn't work either because he was bullied in the new school as well.

Whenever I tried bringing it up to the teachers they basically didn't give a shit and just used the boys will be boys excuse. Even when he had several bruises and shit. I tried to get my son more into sports but he prefers drawing and writing stories. I tried to tell him that when bullies attack him fight back I don't care if he gets in trouble for standing up for himself but he just doesn't have it in him and lets them beat him up.

I also tried contacting the parents of the bullies but the parents are also bullies themselves.

So far my son is EXACTLY the way I was when I was his age. It's like I'm a father to my younger self. And I worry he'll end up just like me, depressed, full of anxiety, and very distrusting of people.

My wife has no idea what to do either because as a girl growing up no one bullied her.

So I'm at a loss here. Practically the only difference between my son and me at his age is he's slightly smarter and doesn't make as many stupid mistakes.
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>>34021074
>I was hoping he'd be the opposite of me in every way.
Thank God I'm not a father but I myself do relate to your sentiment. I'm nothing but a sad depressed alcoholic bore who has nothing going on in his life. I didn't even finish high school then did fast food work for 20 something years and then lost my home because i kept spending it on drugs and i had to move back in my parents who are massive assholes by the way but it's still better than being homeless. I would hate for my son to end up like me.
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>>34021234
I hope people like you and your son get karma
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>>34062716
Nta but while no one should have to suffer bullying I'd rather be at the top of the food chain than the bottom of it. Sorry bro. *Shrugs* Plus it's easier to teach a bully son to simmer down or else he'll get grounded for 2 months than to tell my bullied son to stand up to his several bullies, many of which perhaps are bigger and stronger than him so even all the training in the world might not help enough especially if the bullies gang on him all at once, to spend money on therapy to deal with the depression and anxiety his bullies are causing him, to see him grow into a depressed teen and an ever more depressed adult, etc. I'd much rather just be like "hey son stop being a massive dick towards the other kids at school or else you're grounded for 2 months." And that's that. Simple. *Shrugs*
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>>34064441
while i kinda do hate the way you think at the same time i can see where you're coming from
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>>34021074
>>parents are bullies themselves
what does that even mean?

also some of this is your fault for not teaching your son to protect himself. You should be ashamed.

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can someone explain why employers are like this
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>>34056769
>should we poke them with a stick?
>no, they look a bit feisty, go and put your gear on.
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>>34045181
That is gay.
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Only three things need to happen:
>homeownership needs to be affordable
>wages need to rise at a quicker pace
>dating scene needs to change by dating apps going away
There are some intermediate steps, but if these three things get solved society is fixed for 90% of people.
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They aren't. A lot of managers out there are stuck between a rock and a hard place, however. They have very limited power to give you a raise, even if it's on the fucking pay scale, so a business rag that focuses on trying to get them to read it will make headlines like this to capitalize on their completely normal desires to try and make their workers happy.
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>>34062614
bump

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How fast does food digest for you?
If you poop in the morning do you poop out dinner from last night?
If you poop at evening/night Do you ever see a meal coming out the same day you ate it?
And what did you eat when these situations happens.

If you eat meals with meat and meals without meat, how fast does you digest each compared to the other? What about days where you don’t eat meat at all.


I’m vegetarian and can’t make that comparison. But I’ve noticed that if I poop at evening/night time I’ll end up shitting out what I ate for breakfast and lunch. This is annoying because Sometimes lunch is not fully digested(?) , like a mix between 5 and 6 on the chart.
The consistency of stool for me seems to affected by fiber intake, but the exit time doesn’t (or at least not as much).
I suspect I have digestive issues unrelated to my diet, but that’s not confirmed.
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all out in the morning
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Also does the end of your poop log look different to the start? How different? Use the scale in OP to help describe .
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Guy who suffers from a bowel disease so I know a thing or three about digestion, the following info may be useful:
>Once chewed and swallowed, food starts leaving the stomach almost immediately, and it may take 2 to 4 hours to fully vacate the stomach depending on what was eaten.
>Then typically takes 7 +/- 1 hour for your food to transverse the small intestine and then enter your colon
>Once in your colon it usually takes 40 to 60 additional hours to pass through, but if you're experiencing forms of diarrhea it can obviously be much faster. Your colon is only like 5ft long so if food wants to get out, it can shoot out in minutes.

Sounds to me like you're having issues and you suspect that both food choice might be an issue as well as a possible underlying digestive issue?

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>tfw was just diagnosed with schiziphrenia
It's over!
Isn't it?
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>>34061018
Some people will worship you for your condition. go to >>>/x/ for example, and they will give you everything
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>>34063880
well... that is exaggeration.
we on /x/ don't worship them, but acknowledge it as normal part of life.
you see/hear other roams. so what? some have Google glasses as an overlay. it is about how you learn to deal with the condition.
pro-tipp: it is not by goyim in dependency on pharma jews.
i can really recommend alchemy. that is what gave me the advantage. some might even say the edge.
be prepared to have a very spiritual life. you will often encounter things, other people don't bother with because they can't sense them. that does not mean, they are not affected by it, necessarily. but overthinking is also shit. with your ability: do reality checks. I went huge into logic. the whole system you map out must make sense all the way down to affecting physical reality.
also as another anon put it: why did you get this diagnosis in the first place?
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>>34063930
also: reality is quite tricky: some things become real because you believe in them.
not everything you sense/see/hear/encounter is real. and anything can be changed, as anything is always changing and alive. that does not mean, it is easy, necessarily. but it asks "how?" instead of "if". which gives you an advantage.

i wonder what would have helped me...
i can tell you that demons are best to be banished. and never to be summoned, if not for banishment.
i can tell you that the major religions grew big because they helped people accomplish their goals better. and the ones considered "good" make life easier in the long run. there is a lot to choose from.
Vipassana is your tribe, maybe.
Steiner, Theosophy.
Frederick Dodson is quite good. More into success magick.
I also tried demons and shit like that. Can not recommend. Makes life miserable.
I like the Anastasia Movement from Russia (Wladimir Megre). Back to nature. Become self-sufficient. Get rid of dependencies from the state and make your own villages.
The thing with /x/... there are quite a few demonic posters there. AI and Glowniggers (FEDs) aside. Think of general 4chan, but the people know they can slap you over the internet.
I can recommend you Sufi concepts. Tawfeeq, Sabr, Mahasebe. And many more. They all support each other and are real gems.
Brian Scott on Youtube is good when I feel low.

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>>34061018
it is, indeed, over
game over, roll the credits
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>>34061018
Issn't it? Issssn't it oooveeerrrr?

I am female and have talked to this guy for two days now and I think he is being fake nice. He is being nice in a general way which is suspicious and he is already hearting messages of mine.
How do I tell if he is being fake or not?
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>>34065282
arent womans supposed to have this supernatural intuition ingrained on them?
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Consistency over time , that's it. Just give consistent time and energy , respect your time and his, and track his behaviour over time. There isn't any way to know unless they blow their cover, people can fake anything in the short term. So just protect yourself as your gather data

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Would you stay with a girl who checks all your boxes, but she is obese? You still enjoy the sex and don't mind a chubby girl but you prefer slimthick, and you're a bit embarrassed to be dating her even though you love her
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>>34064588
Yeah. Everything is better about snagging a fatty.
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>>34064588
100%
>you're a bit embarrassed to be dating her
personally, I wouldn't care.
Congrats anon.
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No, but that's because I'm young, just like I wouldn't date overweight men. I'll think about that when I'm 30, I think it's the age when people start getting fat
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>>34064588
>you're a bit embarrassed
false i don't get embarrassed
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>>34064588
Same problem but she was virgin, what should I do?


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