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Men, would you be disappointed if your gf did not do something elaborate and big for your birthday?
Men if I left you on read or didn't open or messages yet on a dating app what's the best way for me to damage control trying to talk to you??I have ptsd and anxiety and worry I will be making a fool of myself for trying to go out and date againTimeline anywhere from a couple days to a few years
>>31131917I'd prefer if she didn't do anything big, as long as she didn't forget it>>31131920A couple of days is fine, a few years is an ended relationship. A lot of people ghost others out of pure anxiety, so just messaging me would be a relief.
Femanons... why?
I'm a 25 year old khvHow sexy am I ladies
>>31131912>28yo neet>in 2019 asked for my social security card and passport from parent>they lost it somehow>look online how to get replacements>need ID>in order to get ID you need your birth certificate>get birth certificate>realize there's a mistake with my name (mother's maiden name is put as my middle name and my middle name for some reason is in the same line as my first)>this mistake has been on my birth certificate since the day I was born and has halted me from securing my sensitive vital documents for years>wading through brain fog every day and pushing this further back and never getting it doneI can't believe my passport and social security card were lost . How do you lose that keeping it for someone else? You put it in a place where it never moves and leave it there. What's there to lose?
>>31131929What are you blaming us for now?>>31131934Did they lose it or did they "lose" it (not even look for it)
>>31131920Leaving them on read isn't that bad depending on how longNot opening isn't as bad unless they have a way of seeing when you were last active online.>Timeline anywhere from a couple of days to a few yearsI wouldn't message a person after a few years unless I had real interest in them. At that point cut them loose if you aren't pursuing them
>>31131920a day or two without an explanation is susyears? its over bro
I think they are going to draft women for the army next time.
>>31131936I think they simply just lost it lost it. Which makes no sense because I'm pretty sure back then they had all our social security cards in a drawer. How does one lose such a sensitive document that doesn't need to go anywhere because it isn't your's? Just stick it in a filing cabinet and leave it there.Anyway, I have to get pretty much every sensitive document required to live sometime this year and stop literally procrastinating for several years.
>>31131917I don't like my birthday to be celebrated instead I want every day to be special because it is. But I also would prefer a silly meaningful gift over an event and the like.
>>31131925>>31131938>>31131940I want to go over my matches and do a mass delete on some of them. if I have a real interest in one/a few should I keep them if they pass the new vibe check or let them go.they can't see when I read messages but might have an active status if i pop online. I'm trying to upload diff pics now and articulate what I am looking for (srs stuff)
>>31131943Would you appreciate her cooking your favorite food for you?
>>31131929Luteal phase
>>31131942>lost it lost itWell fuck. I empathize because I thought my social security card and birth certificate were lost for about a year. I tore apart my mom's house to find them rather than deal with getting new documents. I don't envy you.
>>31131929Most of the stupid shit I've done in my life was because I was stupid and horny.
>>31131930Pretty sexy
>>31131954That would be absolutely divine actually. These kind of things show love and it's a blessing whenever it happens.
>>31131971What if she invited you to your favorite restaurant for dinner?
I do not want an average looking manIt's so over
>>31131943Nta. I appreciate this attitude in a person. A meaningful gift is better than a big party.
Why is it embarrasing to admit to people that I want kids in the future? Where does that come from?
I'm okay with an average looking man but I do not want a man with an average personalityYou're right it's over
>>31131978You might do when you're older
Should I text the single mother again? We had a bad first date but I'm pretty lonely and her daughter is cute.
>>31131978>I do not want a woman who is poor>It's so over
Can you guess which of these anime girls are virgins and which are not?
>>31131917I hate my birthday. If she isn't going to do something so special that it undoes years of bad experiences, I'd prefer she didn't even mention it.
>>31131973I personally would prefer something more private but I am an introvert so that's always the case. Though I believe this option would also mean spending more time together which is the real gift
>>31131912Can femanons please look at my Instagram profile and tell me what's wrong about it? Not sure if I'm imagining it but girls seem less interested in me after seeing it.
I'm fully ignoring the important details in my life that so desperately need my attentionYou get nowhere in life when you do not confront reality. I'm 9-10 years in this hole and I see no end in sight unless I stop procrastinating but simultaneously hate living with family members and would abandon them the first chance I got where I'm financially stable and capable of moving out.
>>31131963What's so sexy about it
>>31131999They're all drawings, so none are or aren't virgins.
>>31131994>her daughter is cute
>>31131920Men simply assume that you were talking to other men. Don't expect redemption.
>>311319997 is the virgin, everyone else has a high body count
>>31131917Not at all. In fact I'd prefer if she doesn't talk to me at all that day. I'll go see my family.
>>31132008Don't make it weird, anon.
>>311319991 3 4 5 6
>>31132004you squish kittens bro what do you expect
>>31131917Woman, would you be disappointed if your bf did not do something expensive and interesting for your birthday, Women's day, Valentine's day, your relationship's monthly anniversary, the weekly fine dining escapade, your promotion at work, a Twitter celebration and the Black History month?
>>31132002What if she does not have the time to cook something elaborate ok that day? Would ordering your favorite take out be an option too?
alright girls listen, there is a girl i talk to pretty often, she is in same city as me, we talk a lot on text, SHE IS THE ONE ALWAYS TEXT ME FIRST, but when i ask to hangout IRL, she gives excuses yes, i know i am in friendzone, but even if i ignore her, SHE STILL MESSAGE ME FIRST, DOUBLE/TRIPPLE TEXTS ME i lovebombed her, 6 months ago, are these the results of it?
>>31132023No, i hate being the center of attention and a change in routine. I would prefer if he just pretend like those days do not exist.
>>31132023I think I'd be really happy with just valentines day. My ex didn't do anything special at all for valentines day and I thought I was OK with it but now I realise maybe I wasn't
>>31132027Oh, I have no idea about this one, I'm sorrh
>>31132027Does she go outside or have any real friends?
>>31132023Nah. While my bf often goes above and beyond for special occasions, I've never felt particularly disappointed when he didn't. As long as he acknowledges it and does something special for it, I'm cool.
>>31132025>ordering your favorite take outHell yeah tandoori chicken time! As for lack of time I think it's okay to mark the occasion on another day
>>31132023I don't appreciate your mocking tone but fine.Extravagant celebrations for me make me uncomfortable and like I owe a debt. Just buy me dinner.
>>31131960>Most of the stupid shit I've done in my life was because I was stupidya dont say
>>31131987Anon I am dangerously old at 30 now>>31131995I want a do over from the past like 15 years. When I die and can unlock the time travel achievement that's what I'm doing.
>>31132019Are you pointing the virgins or the used goods?In both cases that's wrong
I like large labia. Women, why are you so insecure about it
>>31132053Oh, I'm 30 too and find I'm generally getting attracted to a larger variety of guys. What's all that about
Girlsare men who have had sex only while wearing condoms still virgins? They don't know what a pussy actually feels like.
>>31132058Because you are a minority.
>>31132065Does this mean women under these circumstances are virgins too?
>>31132065No, that's silly.
>>31132027What excuses? How often have you asked?
>>31132066But I'm 100% of people who matter
>>31132065Wow didn't knew I was a virgin
>>31131917No, that’s just business as usual. The thought of an elaborate birthday celebration fills me with anxiety and dread
>>31132045Alright, thank you.
>>31132074>didn't knewBut I know you're an ESL.
>>31131920Just continue like normal. The less you explain the less there is to complain about
>>31132075And you are certain you do not just say that to not make people feel like they have to do something elaborate then secretly you wish they did anyways and then are a bit disappointed if they do not.
>>31131978I am either above average or below average depending on your preferences
>>31132061What how? What kind of guys were you attracted to before compared to the more types now? Like what has changed. I seriously need to stop relying on dating apps though.
>>31132027She's bored and whenever there is no one to talk to this is where you come in. People tripple double texting you doesn't mean they love you or want to fuck you.
>>31131982Shame and feelings of inadequacy
My ex left me with very high standards in men. I don't think I'll date anyone anymore. Never.
>>31132014nta but you had zero reason to mention her daughter
>>31132094Moid hands.
>>31132069Your hymen is shattered
>>31132094Hahaaha same anon. Welcome to the club.
>>31132069Yes, also of he had a small dick.
>>31132069no, because its different. If a man is wearing a condom, the woman is still getting the friction from the penis going in and out. The man wearing the condom is not experiencing friction. It's like wearing a glove on your hand, sensitivity is severely decreased because of the barrier moving with your hand when you touch objects.
>>31132085Yes I am positive I do not harbor secret wishes of something extravagant. Being the center of attention in that way makes me incredibly uncomfortable. Birthdays are just another day to me
>>31132094Time to reroll
>>31132094That would be me if my husband died or broke up with me. It'd just be straight up unfair to date anyone else.
>>31132114A good wife
>>31132071>>31132074nta but once i fucked a loose girl with a very wet pussy while wearing a condom, and i felt absolutely nothing. I mean nothing. It actually felt like thrusting into a void. There was 0 resistance or sensation
>>31132119You're still not a virgin. Most women would be virgins if only good sex counted as losing your virginity.
>>31132087I only liked twinks when I was younger. Though they are still the preference now I can now see the appeal of bigger guys. Not a phenomenal difference I know I do think there's a big difference between online dating and meeting people irl though. You can be so picky online, but irl I can fall in love with a man's flaws simply because I've already fallen for him if that makes sense
>>31132131women can feel it tho, that same girl with the loose wet pussy had a great time. She felt it, because my cock was still rubbing on the walls of her pussy. But i couldn't feel it, because there was 0 friction for me.
>>31132131How can a man not be a virgin if he's never felt a pussy before?
Fucking is ok for the first 10 minutes. Pussies get way too wet and loose after it feels like nothing.
>>31132135>women can feel it thoIt's not uncommon for women to not feel anything from penetration, several of my friends said so.>>31132138From having sex with a woman. Just because the sex is bad it doesn't mean it didn't exist.
>>31132143Stop having sex then and go do something better with your time
>>31132131>Most women would be virgins if only good sex counted as losing your virginity.hard to believe that they don't ever have good sex from all the dicking appointments they set up with hot men...
>>31132143This is a hot take, insane even
>>31132149Nah. I lost my virginity at 16 and didn't have an orgasm until my mid 20s, and I'm not an exception among the women I know.
>had friend who was a girl>gf becomes overcome with jealousy and paranoia at the fact that I was ever friends with her>had to stop being friends with her early on because of this>gf knows friend who was girl and was even friends at one point too leading to much confusion on my end because nothing has ever happened between us two, still brings it up thoughI feel guilty for dropping this friend without explanation, but I cant bring it up with gf because its the one thing that literally flips a switch in her brain so ive just given up. Women what do you think, am I in the wrong and this is normal behavior? apparently my ex felt the same about my friend but I never knew of this until months afterwards. we also were never super close either, just standard friend shit like go to a gig, get a coffee once in a blue moon but this just seems to boil womens piss and sends them crazy. I'm also autistic so am a bit shit at determining what is socially acceptable and whats not so maybe i am wrong.
>>31132156Oh, same
>>31132110Nta but you're stupid if you don't think the condom effects friction on both sides. It's the same as you. We still get the pressure but don't get the friction. Condoms make no one happy they're just for safety.
>>31132156dating apps can't be used by minors but during college the fun times start.
>>31132166It’s like you’ve never lied about your age while signing up online before
>>31132166Nah. I was out of college and had a full time job the first time a man made me come. Most sex women have is kind of unremarkable.
>>31132159To me it's weird. I wouldn't be too concerned with my bf having friends who happen to be girls
>>31132156Wow bummer. I first started having sex when I was almost 19 and had one pretty quickly. 7 inch dick though.
>>31132177Moid hands
>>31132159Red flag if I’ve ever seen one, good luck
>>31132173don't they require ID now?>>31132174>Most sex women have is kind of unremarkablehow can this be if the men are hot?
>early 20s almost over>main priority is getting the youth social life experience I missed out on>want to move to student city in my country and make friends there>also want to travel Asiafuck which one do I do?Really want to travel Asia but I'm not gonna be able to make as deep a friendship with those guys because of language barrier, maybe I should travel when I'm like 25/26 or something
>>31132147>From having sex with a woman. Just because the sex is bad it doesn't mean it didn't exist.but he's never felt a pussy. Sex with a condom and without is night and day different.
>>31132186Hot men can be shit at sex, it's not that hard to understand
>>31132181If that's what you'd like to believe go for it. Not like I could be using a flippant tone because I'm telling the truth but still trying to get a rise out of anons right?
>>31132186You don’t know how bad it really is
>>31132148I need to fill a bitch up at least 5 times before I have something better to do.>>31132153It's the truth anon.
>>31132175well its not like I made this friend after the relationship, it was pre established. I had a friend group, in this friend group gf was in it (before she became my gf) and my past friend so they mingled often and I just assumed it would be okay. Its also led me to feel like I cant really hang out with that group anymore.
>>31132187Travel later, important to establish a "base" first if that makes sense
>>31132186Sex requires action, not just looking good.
>>31132187The only reason anyone travels Asia is to fuck prostitutes.
>>31132165>Nta but you're stupid if you don't think the condom effects friction on both sidethats complete bullshit. Go put a latex glove on one hand right now. Take the gloved hand and rub your non-gloved hand. Your non-gloved hand will feel friction. Then take your non-gloved hand and rub the same spot of your gloved hand. Your gloved hand won't feel shit.
>>31132191surely the solution is to just keep trying hot men? I don't understand how you can't find one hot man on the apps to make you come>>31132199are those men just not interested in sex despite being after hook ups and good at luring you into hooking up with them?
>>31132159honestly sounds abusive and I'm sorry you were in that situation and weren't able to stand up for yourselfLike if I'm dating a girl and she mentions male friends then I get insecure too because I know what simps can be like but I know that's not necessarily what's happening and hopefully I'd trust my girl to respect our commitmentI have female friends that I have no interest in dating/hooking up with and I wouldn't tolerate my girl trying to cut them out of my life
>>31132188>Sex with a condom and without is night and day different.So? It's still sex.>>31132186>how can this be if the men are hot?Hot men can be bad in bed.>>31132177I lost my virginity to a guy with a rather big dick, still never made me come. Doesn't matter as much as I thought.
>>31132188The woman also never felt a dick though?
>>31132201If my non gloved hand is covered in LUBE it won't. Smh. You sure you know what vaginas are like?
>>31132206>Hot men can be bad in bed.how can the female intuition spot them before it's too late and you're naked?
Men, will you get a vasectomy?
>>31132206>So? It's still sex.it's hardly still sex.
>>31132198yeah that's true, due to visa shit the odds of me staying in Asia long term are low, sucks because that part of the world looks amazing but it is what it isMight go Thailand and Japan for a couple months though as a holiday>>31132200stfu coomer
>>31132194Why though? What's the point?
>>31132204>are those men just not interested in sex despite being after hook ups and good at luring you into hooking up with them?What? No I mean sex requires action and some of them are bad at that action. Or selfish, lazy, and inattentive partners.
>>31132195Yeah this is why it's weird to me. Both girls were there and you chose your gf so why is she insecure about the girl you didn't chose? Only thing I can think of is that she doesn't trust you, which is bad
>>31132209based on your logic, then sex would never feel like anything for women. Because regardless if its a rubber dildo, a condomed penis, or a bare penis. It should feel all the same for you.
>>31132211>Men, will you get a vasectomy?Yes, probably this year.
Is 25-28 that different from 23?Getting my mental health fixed is gonna take a couple years and I'm worried that by the time I'm sorted I won't have the same opportunities that I'd have now if I was mentally sound
>>31132212It is still sex, you just didn't find it enjoyable.>>31132210I clearly am not very good at spotting them lolI'm glad I ended up with a guy who is good in bed tho.
>>31132206>Doesn't matter as much as I thought.I keep hearing this and the only conclusion I can come to is that I'm more sensitive to PIV than 90% of women. I really am sorry.
>>31132204This may shock you, but I don't care about hot men
>>31132206NTA but fucking a pussy with a condom feels like nothing>Hot men can be bad in bed.Lies you can't be hot if you aren't good in bed charisma and flirt carry over to bed.>I lost my virginity to a guy with a rather big dick, still never made me come. Doesn't matter as much as I thought.Making women cum is never about dick size its about knowing what to say and do to her while the dick is in.
>>31132206>I lost my virginity to a guy with a rather big dick, still never made me comebesides not cumming. It probably still felt better overall to have a big cock in you then a small cock.
>>31132217>Or selfish, lazy, and inattentive partnersthat's retarded, those men have sex a lot, they can't be that bad
>>31132227>Making women cum is never about dick size its about knowing what to say and do to her while the dick is in.such as?
>>3113222325 no, 28 yes a little.
>>31132214Because I'm a hypersexual freak.
>>31132226what are your physical standards for hotness?
>>31132219Feel dick skin then feel a condom. One is much smoother than the other right?It makes a difference and we can tell when it comes off. I'm not arguing that it effects anyone's experience more or less than the other, I am simply telling you it effects both.
Women would you be willing to date someone with ASPD ( psychopathy) if he was honest about it and in therapy. Assuming the person has other positive qualities and you're physically attracted
>>31132183can you make me understand why it is a red flag? this seems to be the consensus and even the past friend said that if the friendship had to end because of future gfs she would understand as women hate this. >>31132205I didn't have many friends before this and now I kinda dont hang out with anyone as my other one friend who is a guy has a family hes busy with and i only see him in uni, I dont have any family outside of parents that are miles away either so I just exist mostly on my own. Not sure how to make new friends.
>>31132223Only real difference is you are now older than the younger people. >I won't have the same opportunitiesThere's no point worrying about it since time only goes one way and you have no alternative
>>31132213If you can working holiday visa I think that's like 9 months in Japan
>>31132229>Have sex a lotHow often are those repeat performances though?
>>31132235No shlick material for the gooners lol.
>>31132223It will never be fixed fully. Best doing what you can now and keep working on you're mental health. It's not a linear recovery line
>>31132239so you're saying a condomed penis feels like absolutely nothing for a woman? Like you can't even tell there is a penis in you?When I fucked the loose wet pussy while wearing a condom, it literally felt like nothing. I mean nothing at all. It's like if i was thrusting into a pool of water, only my penis wasn't feeling the wet sensation. I didn't come and I actually lost my erection after a little while because it just felt like nothing
State genderHave you ever taken a bath with someone else? Who?It counts even if they are the same gender as you.It doesn't count if you weren't old enough to grow pubes.
>>31132247WHV is one year in Japan and South Korea/Taiwan do the same thing tooThailand don't have that but you can just pay $700 for one year's worth of language school and do it that way on a student visa
>>31132225Nta but I'm sensitive to piv too and size doesn't really make much of a difference
>>31132218oh I misread, thought you were saying its weird on my behalf. No I dont think she does but she says she does eventhough ive never abused any trust. Its just frustrating but i have no idea how to bring it up without her either crying or getting pissed off and mildly insane over it so I cant even be bothered.
>>31132250allegedly they are having sex with many different women
>>31132237What's the point if its not even fun or good though? I don't get it
>>31132255It feels like a slippery dildo. Like it's missing the good part. You feel something but not even close to what you should.Again I'm not comparing I'm saying that condoms suck for everybody. Women aren't forcing you to wear them because condoms don't bother them they're forcing you to wear them because they don't want herpes.
>>31132256I had plenty of baths with my exs.One of the more memorable ones was when I dressed her up in fishnets tied her hands and legs put her in the bath and started to drip hot wax on her.
>>31132225Doesn't match with my experience personally. My bf and my ex don't have a substantial size difference, sex with one has been exceptional from the first time and with the other it was mediocre.>>31132228>fucking a pussy with a condom feels like nothingSo does sex with some men.>Lies you can't be hot if you aren't good in bed Being best friends with a pretty slutty girl, I can promise you that you're very wrong lolA lot of the hot guys she dated were bad lays.>>31132228>It probably still felt better overall to have a big cock in you then a small cockI doubt, literally never felt good.
>>31132238I was gonna reply with a smartass comment but now I think about it I'm not sure
>>31132263It sure as hell beats looking at porn and jerking off.
>>31132259>size doesn't make much of a differenceTo each her own I guess. It makes a big difference for me, pun intended.>>31132261So he's not good at it he just looks good. People often make the mistake of assuming a very attractive person must get a lot of sex, and if they get a lot of sex they must be good at it. And it's not true.
how do i get a gf with a big clapper?
>>31132256>Have you ever taken a bath with someone else? Who?F. My mom and a childhood friend as babies, my husband as an adult.
>>31132256I went onsen-ing with my ex, it was lovely
>>31132149That is for the validation, enduring the sex and pretending to enjoy it is the price they pay.
how are you supposed to win when women have so many options?
>>31132260I think...that's why the other anon said its a red flag
>>31132267>My bf and my ex don't have a substantial size difference, sex with one has been exceptional from the first time and with the other it was mediocre.Did I make it sound like I don't think that can be the case? Of course 2 guys with the same size dick can give vastly different experiences. All I'm saying is that for me, a big dick helps.
>>31132277By being the best fit for her.
>>31132267Who is better the ex or the current one?>So does sex with some men.foid got offended here wow>Lies you can't be hot if you aren't good in bedI know this one friend anon like she like guys like she said like
>>31132256FI lost my virginity in my shower but curiously I never had shower sex ever again.Does my mom count?
>>31132256F. Probably an ex boyfriend but I'm not sure t b h
>>31132269You just said it feels like nothing though?? Is there something else to it? Sorry for the questions I'm really confused
>>31132268how is this guy in your opinion? for reference his height is 5'11"
>>31132271It probably is just one of those individual differences like the sensitive nips thing
>>31132291Yes which is why you use her mouth till it dries up and shuts up and you go back in again.
>>31132294Ah true, I did not luck out in that department.
>>31132296You know you can just ask us to wipe up some of the excess lube and squeeze harder right?
>>31132267this foid comparing her bf to her ex and since she didnt tell us who fucked better its probably the ex poor bf
>>31132298Neither did I lol
>>31132304>has been>it wasShe did. You guys just have shit comprehension.
>>31132303Squeezes don't last forever and are only good during cowgirl. >wipe up some of the excess lubeHow do you wipe the inside of the pussy lmao.I never use lube I just know how to press the right buttons to make her drip.
>>31132292I'm not sure, he looks like a guy. Sorry
>>31132277Be the best option.
>>31132308That's half this thread to be honest
>>31132281>>31132317Nta but I knew I was right in operating this way, thanks for the confirmation
>>31132313>only good during cowgirlSo it being tighter only matters in cowgirl and yet you're complaining about it in all positions? Where's the logic? What was the point of all those kegels?I never need lube it's all me and it's not hard to clean up a significant amount of it.
>>31132133Ooohh same here I definitely prefer pretty men. I'm talking to one now in a different state but I need to feel him out more because he said he likes to move fast eep! I've been in a relationship with a bigger guy before but he was always sweaty and thus kinda stinky neckbeard. So I will pass unless it's only like lil love handles on kinda average size guys. Yeah there is a certain magic in real life where life can play out wonderfully. It's sort of why I am thinking of applying for college classes but I am kind of fucked up and also fighting for disability rn so I need to keep multiple sides of my life in order but I still want to entertain dating again lol. I really wish balding wasn't so prevalent though and I'm not big on tattoos either.
>>31132327>eep!Nta and no shade but I think it's funny that this outs you as a millennial.
>>31132283>Who is better the ex or the current one?Are you retarded? My boyfriend.>foid got offended here No? It never happened to me, but I know several girls who asked men "is it in yet?" lol>>31132304I'm sorry elementary school failed you.
>>31132324Squeezes don't work that much during doggy kinda work during missionary and they do not work at all from sidefuck.How in the fuck do you clean up I need to know this so my dick doesn't feel like im thrusting into the abyss after just 10 minutes.
>>31132327I recommend classes if you can do it. I'm back in classes and I've met a really cute guy. One thing I'll say about smell is that if you like them enough you kinda grow to like the smell which is weird. I'm not big on tattoo's either and I'm the same with the balding thing, it's such a shame but whatever
>>31132337Do you tell the girls this? They'd be really sad to hear that
>>31132337Unless people have been lying to me I'd say they more than "kinda" work during missionary.It's very undignified. Panties slightly in the hole.
>>31132277Wait until they age and have less options
>>31132337This is definitely a you problem
>>31132343No I always hit them with the you have the tightest pussy lmao. I'm trynna fuck not make enemies.>>31132344Yeah we tend to overexaggerate shit so you feel better about yourselves.>It's very undignified. Panties slightly in the hole.Ok never thought of that one. I just did that to one ex because I would cum on her panties and make her shove them in.How did you figure this one out or did someone ask you to do it?
>>31132323I just wanted to add something - my husband is not a perfect man, he struggled with a lot of things during our time together and has his flaws. He is, and always was, perfect for me.It's not a matter of being "the best" or maxing out each stat, it's a matter of being the best fit for a specific person.
>>31132038yes, she has dentist job i don't know about her friends
>>31132358>tend to over exaggerateI'm sure this happens to a degree but I think you might have a deathgrip problem.>did you figure this one outIt just made sense. Too much lube is a problem for me too.
>>31132358If men are always lying to us about how are bodies are, how am I ever supposed to trust them? This is always what I'm freaking out about during sex and I just can't relax or take my mind off of it. It feels good? Really? Do you really mean it?
>>31132367We have an advantage over men in that respect. They give us physical proof.
>females in their 30s>trying out datingOh man, this place keeps on giving.
>>31132332Where did it come from if anything? Lol.>>31132339Good luck with the cute guy! Yeah I wonder how my classes will be if I go, and how to rationalize and execute making friends and possible bf/husband. Oh no no no. The guy I was with then had terrible body odor. We weren't a great fit in the end so I'm not sad about it though. I think if I did date a guy with a tattoo/tattoos I just hope they aren't super huge and like eeverywhere. Peopl have told me to become a tattoo artist because they can make bank but I just dunno. Like I hope I don't get taken the wrong way but I absolutely hope gene editing becomes more popular. I hope the guy I get in the future if so, is also adamant on keeping his hair by way of transplant or hair meds. I want a guy in decent shape who can go on walks me with sometimes or carry me. Which isn't hard because I'm petite lol.
>>31131912Any Way to Troll a Video Game Online Againhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yEHiTjViicE
>>31132372Well you've gotta start at some point
>>31132365>deathgrip problemI dont do porn or stroke my shit. The best part about the whole thing is when I get to stretch her out. After that it all goes downhill. I've realistically had only one girl that never went loose and she gripped so damn much. It was so tight to a point it hurt to go in her. Ik tightness has nothing to do with age but she was 18.>It just made sense. Too much lube is a problem for me too.Ok thank you so much for this I will make sure to incorporate it when the time comes.
>>31132377When you're too old to have children?
>>31132380Hm. You might just be getting duds then. I'm sure it's a spectrum>Ok thank you so much for this I will make sure to incorporate it when the time comesOf course. Only use it for good lol.
>>31132367You do not want the truth. Anytime I told the truth I ended up next to someone having a mental breakdown trying to calm them down. Sometimes lying saves us both some time and pain.You guys do it too though. Women always hit you with that "nobody has done this to me or has made me feel like this".
>>31132278how do I bring this up, im sick of not having any social life
>>31132384It was already something that turns me on now I even get to have practical use for it.
What would you think of a person if you saw a pepe pin on their backpack/jacket/hat?
>>31132383Hey man I got like 10 yearsThere was an anon posting about his friend's wife and they had a baby later in life. :]
>>31132393Actually really hard to say. There are a bunch of VERY different reasons they might.
>>31132393You have your own thread what are you doing
Is this day ever gonna fucking end?
>>31132393Men what if I have this pic in my dating profile?
>>31132386I may be too autistic ro understand this, everything I say to a guy I mean. Thanks for explaining though
>>31132400It's 9 am. Are you okay?
>>31132397Not the same person, just curious about the answers here
>>31132393I would avoid them. Regardless of why they have it they have to know what that signifies to normies.
>>31132373Good luck it'll be fine, I made friends just fine. I do like a guy with long lovely hair but if he loses it when we're together I'd still love him. I like it but it's not essential for me you know. Now if I lost my hair I'd consider gene editing lol
Femanons, why do women get jealous when their boyfriends talk to other women? Do you know how hard it is to get one girlfriend? The chances of him bagging a second is pretty low.
>>31132401Cute, would want to get to know you instead of just activating horny response
>>31131917No, I don't do anything for my birthday anyway.
>>31132400FELLOW 4S4KI POSTER??https://youtu.be/ShNhdQotONo?si=0SBNrgTKe6fS523T
>>31132401I would assume you are trans
>>31132403Nta but you know they aren’t and I feel that
>>31132411I think it's dumb too. But also, my ex cheated on men so what do I fucking know lol
>>31132411this, please stop making our lives more difficult, I live with this daily from an overly jeleous and paranoid gf. No babe, the cashier that said have a nice day didn't want to fuck me based on her tone and no she wasn't looking at me, please please please stop it
>>31131920Literally, just explain why you stopped talking to us for that period of time. Most of us will be understanding and compassionate the first time but if you make it a habit then you'll most likely get dropped.
>>31132411I liked him. Why wouldn't someone else?And I wouldn't say I get jealous. I get nervous.
>>31132402Its ok no worries. Hope you have a good day autist anon.
>>31132393I would think they are chronically online. I have one myself but i never wear it.
>>31132416Are you okay/what's the matter, whatever it's the same sentiment.
>>31132424>I liked him. Why wouldn't someone else?Because it's not that simple for guys, we aren't really pined after, we're the reachers most of the time, women are settlers.
>>31132424A Chad in 2024 doesn't have a gf, he keeps bitches as fwbs.
>>31132411Because he's mine reeeeeI've never lashed out over it but I hate when women pay attention to him lol
>>31132424because women dont go after guys unless they are weirdly dominant, it just doesn't happen and all u do is give me a headache and make me like you less temporarily >>31132430the ones who do lash out are terrible, I cant fucking help it stop being insane reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
>>31132430Hearing about women loving and desiring guys as much as guys do women is so crazy to me. The same goes for women having crushes on guys, it just doesn't seem like a thing that should happen.
>>31132428>Because it's not that simple for guysFrom my perspective it was. If I liked him enough to date him it stands to reason someone else would to. I don't do anything weird or nag him I just...hover. I'm not worried about him necessarily but I feel the need to defend my territory.
>>31132411this, how are men supposed to keep their options open if they can't even look in the general direction of other women??
>>31132437Weak bait.
I broke up with my ex around 5 months ago, due to uncovering her multiple lies and affairs. Safe to say, she's probably cluster B due to the lack of empathy shown in the end.Thing is, I still feel so pathetic and broken, the whole charade lasted for 3 years, and here I am still miserable even after 1/6 of our entire time together has come and went. Why is this so?I used to be the type of guy who always had 5 women on call before I met her, now I actively avoid women and sexcapades.Apparently, she has moved on and is on the hunt again, not even the guy she cheated on me with managed to last more than a few months.Am I lame for wanting to be alone so long? A part of me yearns to go out and find someone, but the rest of me just wants to lay down and turn into jelly.I got cucked before, but at least the rest jad the decency to tell me or at least break up shortly before the act, this cunt actively used me and lied to my face for years, then made me think I was crazy for properly reacting to her shifty shenanigans.
>>31132441>3 years>5 monthsSounds normal. Especially for a shitty breakup.
>>31132434I can't even stand when my friends/coworker compliment me for having a hot husband. Had a photo of my wedding as my screensaver and a colleague told me "oh your husband is cute" and I wanted to murder her.So hard.
>>31132441>1/6 of our entire time together has come and went>sexcapades>on the hunt>shenanigansIdk, maybe she would not have cheated on you if you did not talk like a cringe gen xer that tried to be hip with the kids.
>>31132440Shouldn't it be even? Women have a lot of options, men have a lot of options, everyone is happy?
>>31132447He's just white leave him alone
Which way /atoga/?
>>31132451Truth is nobody has any options because there is maybe 150 actually decent human beings worth breeding in the whole world.
>>31132447I'm an ESL, also eat shit
>>31132441You need time to get used to being alone and fill in the time you spent with her with something else. I was in the same boat. Dated for 7 years on the verge of marriage and kids.Took me like a year to get over her.
>>31132434They don't, men love females way more. Females develop feelings after time when the guy has 'proved' himself.
>>31132456there are a lot of women who are worth breeding to make offspring but not necessarily to have as partners... Still as men we are compelled to reproduce and the options should not be hindered by jealousy!
>>31132455The left but I want him to stay dorky
>>31132460Just because nobody loves you, it doesn't mean we're incapable of love.
>>31132459We were trying for kids for like a year and a half, but nothing ever came of it. I suspect she probably did birth control behind my back.
>>31132455I am literally the guy on the right minus the trad fem. Only one girl has gotten me to calm down and become less of a degenerate.
>>31132455>normie x alt girlNot even a competition. The other couple she just slowly shamed him into stopping any form of self expression. Look at her embarassed facial expressions. If she did not like it then why did she even date him in the first place? In the other couple he was enthusiastic about her and slowly learned to give less of a shit about fitting in and following social norms. And look how much more in love they still seem.
>>31132455Right. He definitely cleaned himself up after we met.
>>31132462Are you actually retarded? If someone does not make a good partner then they sure as hell should not be raising kids. Men really do not think any further than the breeding stage.
>>31132462That sounds like it would get expensive fast. Have fun paying $20,000 a year for each offspring.
>>31132465Yeah that hurts bad anon I understand.What I learned from the whole ordeal is to never invest into the other person as if they are a deep part of your life. Just need to look at them as one of the many people that come and pass during your life. If they stay thats ok and if they dont that also ok.
>>31132470>>31132471Highly desirable men don't have this problem and they aren't expected to raise their children.
>>31132473It's 2024 even Chad has to pay child support.
>>31132455>>31132463This and the 2nd change too. I dress a bit diff than that tho and i am le tan exotic type. Also I want a baby.>>31132409Thanks anon. I just wonder if it makes me an asshole fo having prefs but I know a lot of guys wanna keep the hair too. I think with the right guy I could maybe date someone who balds later but I'd prefer not to. Lol, I used to date a guy who wanted me to shave all my head hair off. He said I'd be hot like Sinead O'Conner. I think deathhawks are kind of cool though. Picrel.>>31132411I've been cheated on from personal experiences so it us always kind of scary dating again when you don't really know a person. I also know of an ex's female friends secretly not liking me and/o wanting to cheat with me or him to mess our relationship up. Sucks ass.>>31132412How would you expect me to be based off it? Yay.>>31132415NOOOO
>>31132455I want the left because I am that guy
>>31132473Oh god the idiot has listened to mr taty again. Good men care about the quality of their offspring and their upbringing, not their quantity. Actually pathetic mindset you have there.
>>31132472it just sucks, for the longest time I was made out to be the angry narcissist, when all I did was give give give, and gained nothing in return.She even isolated me from our friends and family because she hated the fact that I shared our relationship issues with my own mother.But whenever I raised my voice, her entire workplace knew what how and why.
>>31132475Yeah but he can afford it. women rely on that when they select for wealth, it's a non issue>>31132479Obviously not every woman will be bred, it depends on her genes.
>>31132483>So pornbrained he thinks shelling out $60,000 a year for kids he doesn't even care to know is fine.
>>31132483>genes Genes mean little if the character sucks since that is what determines what kind of adults the kids become and women that let themselves be bred by absent fathers do not have the character a good mother should have.
>>31132455Left guy with right girl
>>31132476>how would you expect me to beSomeone terminally online with niche interests I would want to learn about. A different sense of humor than the rest of the pack.
>>31132489Again, 6 figures and above men don't have this issue. Elon Musk is one of them, he has 11 children and women love him>the tech mogul Elon Musk quietly had twins last November with one of his top executives, Shivon Zilis. Musk, who has been an outspoken advocate of bringing more babies into the world>>31132490Men have had to bright themselves up and compete for the right to breed. if the father could do that then so can his children even if he is not present
>>31132455Me on the right, but I would still have the neck tat.
>>31132503So your goal is just to produce kids that will be capable of producing more kids and nothing more? Damn. I hope you never actually have any kids. You are a literal cattle breeder.
>>31132503>and women love himElon's autistic ass isn't loved lol
>>31132515This. They know they are set for life with alimony and publicity if they let him breed them but this has absolutely nothing to do with love. In fact i would assume they all actually hate his guts.
Imagine being millionaire and not marrying a virgin
>go to work>proceed to get bullied by every female colleague for not wearing the new t shirt we got last week>"Anon, you failed us">"Anon, that's such a guy thing to do">"Anon, did you not get the memo"
>>31132455The left picThough I want him the be the end part from the beginning. Not enough guys actually have a sense of fashionThe dorky look is adorable too though but changing someone for me is not my style
>>31132518That is what they buy little girls for.
>>31132523They don't marry them
>>31132503>and women love himLmfao>>31132521Do you honestly feel bullied by their joking?
>>31132511That's how humanity works, anon>>31132515Women prove that relationships are transactional by doing stuff like this. He's not forcing them to bear his children, they willingly volunteer and they also have sex with him. not hard to do so, he even fixed his hair and isn't that fat.
>>31132526They do not need to if they can continuously harvest their virgin essence.
>>31132530>humanityNo, that is how producing bodies for canon fodder works, not how you produce valuable human beings.
>>31132530We're not livestock dude
>>31131917Just fuck me
>>31132530not all of them are. all of this is coping by rich ugly old men who think they can buy a 1/100th of the genuine passion, dedication and love that a handsome (young) man gets for free
>>31132535>>31132536>>31132538Would you say no to millions of dollars? are you not after money too?
>>31132542I'd much rather have a middle income life with a partner who's genuinely in love with me, dedicated to me, gives her life to me only for who I am ( physically/mentally) than buy a wife who's only attracted to my wealth that's for sure
>>31132528>Do you honestly feel bullied by their joking?Yes because I hate all of them.
>>31132546femoid hands
>>31132548>such a bitch he can't handle the lamest banter in existence
>>31132551I'm a man. I'd rather be a handsome poor young man than an ugly old rich one. the first gets you real love and dedication, the kind of devotion that I've seen those kind of men get is not someting money can buy, a woman who keeps you in her heart forever, the other is just transactional coping by desperately try to recreate something they've never experienced
>>31132542Why would I willingly become a single mother
>>31132546>>31132536>We're not livestock dude>>31132562>Why would I willingly become a single motherYou say these things but a high value man is the most likely kind of man to change your priorities and you're already looking for him so when he finds you at last...
>>31132554Is it too late to say I was joking?
>>31132567>change your prioritiesPretty much my number one priority is "do not become a single mother" so I think you're talking to the wrong person here.
>>31132411Because he's MY boyfriend
>>31132567high value is a codeword for genes ( looks/height/intelligence), not money. the money thing is a result and not even necessary. prime women would fall in love with a 9/10 charming chad bartender, not an average dorky millionaire. most men really don't understand anything about women it's funny
>>31132574>my number one priority is "do not become a single mother"Foid moment
>>31132573Yes.
>>31132494Is an interest in puppetmaking niche?
>>31132577High value is up to interpretation, every woman has her own preferences, that's why the men who are successful with women are so varied and diverse
>>31132585It's over.
>>31132582Am I wrong in having that priority?
>>31132587it's not really, only if you don't differentiate between buying and getting for free. that's the point. money buys you an actress who plays the role of 'loving' wife untill it runs out, being actually wanted by women gets you everything for free and more. love, devotion, genuine passionate sex, care etc etc
Personally I don’t think condom sex is that bad. I would say fingering, blowjobs, cunnilingus, and tit sucking also count as sex.
>>31132586Is that a serious question?
>>31132593Arguably only as long as you have the money and looks and show the world your intelligence by being successful in all aspects of life. Otherwise almost any woman will leave and won't look back. Free? Maybe not.
>>31132586Are we talking muppets or marionettes?
Women, how many cows are you worth?
I just changed my dating pref to 20-35should I go out on the prowl for younger guys or will a 35 yo be morelikely to be down bad>>31132597is whatever you wanna beI like barnaby dixon's stuff
>>31132586That's kind of interesting as long as you don't use them to express your mental illness.
>>31132430Kek you're insecure he'll cheat on you with a mulatto
>>31132607Beef or milk?
>>31132601I think marionettes would be cool but I like muppet tier too, and hand puppets. would be cool to make some fantasy and scifi stuff, historical mythological stuff and random OCs and animals.
>>31131960Women aren't horny
>>31132607A whole cow is worth about $3k ($5/lb x 600 lbs). So I'm worth about 60 cows a year. I usually buy half cows.
>>31132615I'm partial to the muppet types because they feel like the best of both worlds. Simplicity of a hand puppet but with some extra pizzazz and functionality.Have you made anything yet or did you just fall down a YouTube rabbit hole like me?
>>31132616I mean not right now. It's 10:30 in the morning and I have to poop.
>>31132607At least two.
>>31132607According to the african dowry calculator, pic rel
Virgin male here.My and my gf had our first date two weeks ago but after that we rarely text and talk to each other.Is it over before we even start?
>>31132639Basically
>>31132639Did you go on dates before she became your gf?
>>31132641Nyooo...>>31132643Nope
>>31132607>>31132638According to this, 5.
>>31132586>leftI was right, please tell me more about the puppets
State genderI am 24 and about to become a NEET again and don't know what to do. All my applications and interviews are rejected, and I don't know what I would go back to school for. I have no boyfriend and live at home. I feel like I have nothing to live for. How do I deal with my feelings of self hatred and insecurity while I figure it out?
>>31132650I actually lied to see how high of a score i could get. This is my honest result. Shameful.
>>31132638>>31132650Also can we talk about the fact that "likes soccer" is one of the questions lmao
>>31132658Huh? Where? Did you take the same test? Mine just asked about education, how good i am in bed and if i will ask for hair money, lmao
>>31132657I just assumed you were a virgin with a PhD who likes soccer and wears heels lol.
>>31132656reroll
>>31132665Does that mean kill myself?
>>31132664I wish. But i do not drink and i do not go clubbing and i cut my own hair. So that is something. I also have a car. Very high value.
>>31132656So young women are catching up on the falling out of society thing?
>>31132657where tf is this calculator? it doesn't work, none of them work
>>31132656Calculate your dowry here to see how well you would fare in the meat market so we can determine if you should kys or not. http://www.lobolo.co.za/
>>31132656MaleAt least you’re not a dude (even a man in your situation is young enough to turn things around with reasonable effort). As long as you’re responsible and of good character, you can still find a guy who would be happy to start a family with you. Most of the things you listed aren’t as important to men as they are to women.
>>31132673>http://www.lobolo.co.za/this piece of shit doesn't work, I click the tabs and nothing happensn reeeeeeeeeeeeee
>>31132672See>>31132673
>>31132677Are you on your phone
>>31132667Yes.Now that thats out of the way the only advice I can give is keep the grind up, life is suffering and we can only hope to escape Dukkha
>>31132677You have to click next in the bottom right >>31132680No it works on the phone i also did it on mobile
>>31132682>You have to click next in the bottom rightNot her but it didn't work for me either
>>31132680no>>31132682I am and nothing is happening
im not even a girl, i just wanna know how many cows I would be worth if I was
>>31132684>>31132686Have you answered all the questions in the first tab by selecting an option? That is weird. It worked three times now for me.
How do I get my platonic female friend to let me do this to her?
>>31132676Yeah, it takes more effort to fail as a female than as a man. If a man has a bad childhood and comes from a poor family, he is fucked before he graduates high school and nobody cares.
>>31132691>all the questionsThe tabs don't open. Nothing happens.
>>31132673I put in what I’d prefer my future wife to be, and I got 42
>>31132688I want to know your results too.
>>31132696well, none of us will ever know
>>31132694Weird. Does it not look like this for you if you follow this link? http://www.lobolo.co.za/
>>31132673NTA but is this in roubles?
>>31132657>only 8 cowsGet your shit together, I'm a guy and I got 11.
>>31132700Lemme post screenshots of the tabs and answer it for you then.Do the first and give me your answers to this>>31132701
>>31132701Nope. Incognito so can't post images. Under "let's begin" it just saysStep 1Step 2Etc
>>31132702South African Rand
>>31132701>http://www.lobolo.co.za/clicking everything does nothing
>>31132670I guess>>31132673I got 42 >>31132676But I'm not meeting anyone >>31132681What is Dukkha
>>31132701above degreenot a virgin no children
>>31132701Yeah this >>31132707 is what I'm getting too. Weird. Oh well.
>>31132702I suppose it is rand since it is an african website >>31132703I am married with kids, that kind of ruins the dating market value, lmao
>heard female colleagues today talk about how the hottest part of a man is the back Is this a thing? Or are they some kind of weird... back fetishists?
>>31132708>What is Dukkhasuffering, pain, or unhappiness
>>31132707I had to go on incognito for it to work, I think my ad blocker fucked with it
>>31132711Got it. Next one.
>>31132694>>31132705>>31132707>>31132712Your browser redirects you to the HTTPS version of the site which loads partially but doesn't work. You have to edit the URL and ensure it's with HTTP instead:>http://www.lobolo.co.za/And press enter again.
>>31132712>>31132707>>31132705Uh, maybe try it on mobile. Very suspicious.
>>31132714Men's backs can be very nice, they're not weird
>>31132714My ex liked to watch me do climber's pull ups with my shirt off so I think it's a thing.
>>31132716weird it worksi am worth 39 whole cows, wow, slightly disappointing
>>31132656Therapy
>>31132726I cannot afford therapy right now
>>31132717Forgot pic gosh darn>>31132725No you got 39 points which is 11 cows. 10 now for lack of reading comprehension.
>>31132708>But I'm not meeting anyoneYou can change that, though. I’m just saying that the things you feel bad about won’t hold you back as much in the eyes of men. Especially not the kinds of men who want marriage.They can still be challenges to you, personally, but they’re not as impactful to other areas of your life. For a guy in your position, not only would he have to face similar feelings of inadequacy, but he’d also be a much less attractive partner. You don’t face that hurdle.
>>31132719>HTTP insteadOh. No. >>31132721I was on mobile
>>31132728>No you got 39 points which is 11 cows. 10 now for lack of reading comprehension.How if I got 42 points and I got 11 cows
>>31132729I have nothing to offer to a man though. No one wants a burden for a partner even if I could be a good wife. How am I supposed to entice them to date me? I am not interesting, I am not driven or successful, I am not good looking
>>31132731I got 48 points as a dude, also 11 cows
>>31132727Read Learned Optimism.Do you have eyebags? Are you pasty? Overweight?
>>31132731Idk maybe one cow is worth between 1-10 points or so before it goes up. See the first pic i posted, there it is more cows.
I spent 500 bucks on shoes today Thoughts?
>>31132736This would suggest that a single cow is worth at least 6 points, but that can't be true if 42= 11 cows. The math ain't mathing.
What would be the best way to take a coworker on a date? Dont give me the dont shit where you eat. I am specifically asking because going for drinks after a long work day is not a thing where I work and we live about 2 hours away from each other so it’s not like we can easily casually meet up in the weekend
>>31132744How many pairs is that?
>>31132744Post pics
>>31132744Are they red and made from toddler skin? >>31132746It is an african calculator after all.
>>31132744Bimbo moment
>>31132744Are you spiralling emotionally or were they just really cool?
>>31132742No. I guess I am pasty but I can tan
>>31132748Then why exactly would you want to take them on a date? Sounds pointless. >>31132754Pretty sure that is the cowboy boots anon.
>>31132748>so it’s not like we can easily casually meet up in the weekendSo why bother?
>>31132734>How am I supposed to entice them to date me?Can you cook?
It is my moms bday tomorrow and i wanted to make a strawberry cake. She had a doctors appointment today and is scheduled for a colonoscopy on monday and can not eat anything with seeds until then. This blows. Wtf do i do now? Change it to vanilla? Is that seeds too? Chocolate? What if i blend the strawberries and sift them? I already bought all the ingredients.
What is the most expensive pair of shoes you own? I have an $80 pair of Sperries that were a gift and I already got them muddy trying to pull my nephew out of a puddle
>>31132734You seem to be judging yourself by the same standards you’d have for a man. I’m not looking to date a man. Supporting my wife and the mother of my children isn’t a burden; it’s an honor, and one of the highest purposes I could have in life. There isn’t any contest between marrying a good, moral woman I get along with vs. a superficially attractive girlboss. >am not interestingLow self-esteem. This is fixable, and should be your priority before you sell yourself short.>I am not driven or successfulMost men don’t care beyond a minimum level of personal responsibility (not living beyond your means, following through on your commitments, etc.).>I am not good lookingLow self-esteem again. It is very rare for a woman to be ugly without being overweight. You might not be a model, and you might need to put in more effort to getting noticed at first, but it’s not going to be that much of a hindrance.
>>31132773Red Wings. ~$250
>>31132773I suppose my hiking boots. I think they were like 150 bucks or so.
>>31132758>>31132765I mean it’s possible to meet up but I meant it more in a way of how could I ask her out without specifically asking her on a date. The distance is relevant because otherwise I couldve just said I was in the neighborhood that day and if she wanted to grab a drink or whatever
>>31132784this
>>31132773I have never paid more than 50 bucks for shoes and even then begrudginglyMost of the shoes I've owned have been $10 things from Target
>>31132785Yeah but the distance begs the question why tf you would even want to date her? Sounds annoying. Or do you just want to pump and dump her? In which case maybe a coworker is not your best option.
>>31132772Eat the strawberries you bought and buy more on Monday and do it then. Easy.>>31132773Right now my trail runners. $120 I think? But I got them on sale for cheaper. Don't be fooled though if I had $500 to blow on really cool shoes I might.
>>31132779I don't think your mindset is common where I am. I'd be called a gold digger if I just tried to sell myself as "potentially good wife" And if I were truly attractive, I would be approached at this point. I'm not locked in my room or anything and I socialize, but men are not interested in me
Ooh now that's a debate.Hiking boots or trail runners?
>>31132793>do it on mondayBut her birthday is tomorrow. That makes little sense. Or are you suggesting i wait to make a cake till after her colonoscopy? Meh, i rather adapt the cake so she has one tomorrow.
>>31132797Boots make me feel more protected but the ability to easily dry trail runners seems nice
>>31132797Trail runners. Lighter, faster to dry.
>>31132797Hiking boots, no competition. >>31132799I got one of those uv light shoe drying things that i use every day on whatever shoes i wore that day. Best thing ever.
*picks you up**plaps you down*
>>31132805stfu virgin
>>31132798Yeah just wait. I haven't had a celebration on my birthday every time and she's an adult I think it'll be okay lmao. Or better yet ask her what she wants you to do.
womenis it true you get horny when ovulating?
>>31132624those types are big on nostalgia too. can't go wrong! ah no not yet I used to make paper dolls though. what ypurube rabbit holes, any li KS to get me started? I've always like character eSignal and wanted to be a cartoonist growing up and I have animated some. Seems natural I would like to see creation "come to life" with puppets too :)>>31132610They just seem cute and comforting like a plushie. Would be fun to mess with my cat sometimes to play. >>31132654They just seem fun and it would be cool to learn more and sort of think of it like robotics wit some hidden nifty tricks built it.
>>31132805I wish. I haven't been tossed around in the bedroom in years and years.
I asked my coworker what plans she had for her birthday weekend and I think she thought I was asking her out
>>31132799>>31132803>>31132804Thoughts on the ankle support vs ankle strength argument?
>>31132809I get horny all the time.
>>31132807But she has a birthday party tomorrow and everyone is invited for coffee and cake. And i said i will bring a cake, so she counts on it for the guests. I think i will go with vanilla extract and i will just make strawberry jelly from the berries to put on top.
>>31132811Too heavy?
>>31132814I am for ankle support because i also like the added tick protection.
>>31132814In my experience ankle support is a meme. The boots don't help.
>>31132772I'd forget the strawberries, just make her vanilla or chocolate, whichever she prefers
>>31132811probably shouldntve dated a women then
>>31132816>partyWhy would you not mention that in the original post s m h it's like you guys try to be difficultI would double check and make sure they're ok still because they're red.
>>31132819I just haven't been with a guy in general in a while. I'm actually the lightest I've ever been as an adult.>>31132825To be fair, being tossed into bed is something you only miss when you realize it's gone.
>>31132827Yeah sorry, it was so obvious for me i forgot it is not actually. >redWhat now? Can people not eat red things before a colonoscopy??
>>31132814Minimal thoughts. Boots just feel safer
What is "woke"?
>>31132795Unless you live in the middle of a big city or are in a hyper liberal country like Iceland, it’s not going to be that rare, let alone impossible.> And if I were truly attractive, I would be approached at this pointIf that’s all it takes, why would you want to be with a guy who only cares about looks?Also, in many places, men are less willing to approach than in the past, and this is unfortunately more the case with men who aren’t interested in casual flings. Try letting men learn a little bit about you if you aren’t already, then give a guy you’re interested in some openings to approach/signals that he won’t be shot down.
>>31132823You think i could still put some on top for decorating because i got nothing else really otherwise and that would look kind of sad. I mean, i guess i could dust it with cocoa power or something.
>>31132821>added tick protectionToo cool for gaiters or high socks or just more convenient that it's all in one?>>31132822I'm with you, I feel like they make me clumsy. >>31132833Well I respect the simplicity
>>31132811How do you like to be tossed?
>>31132821Uh oh, stinky!
>>31132835The saddest time of the day
>>31132832Blood is red, they kinda like to be able to differentiate is all. It's probably fine because the procedure is on Monday but I would review her paperwork really carefully before you make anything.
>>31132840>Too cool for gaiters or high socks or just more convenient that it's all in one?No i also wear high socks and long pants but i am a bit paranoid since i already got me da good ole lyme disease and i wish to avoid an encephalitis if possible.
>>31132841Scooped up and let go all in one motion. It's terrifying and sudden and fun as fuck. Alternatively, thrown into a pool. I don't like being held up for periods of time, though. That's when I have time to think and the fear of heights kicks in.
>>31132846Use permethrin.
>>31132845Hm i see. Well she will have to not eat on sunday and monday and obviously drink the flushy slushy so i thought that would be enough but maybe you are right. I think i will switch to chocolate and put some strawberry on top so she can take them off.
>>31132846>da good ole lyme diseaseThat sucks dude I'm sorry. I'm glad you still get out there with a healthy amount of caution.
>>31132851Is that special or is that just the active ingredient in most tick sprays?
>>31132849Have you had sex in a pool?
>>31132856No, I've only masturbated in pools.
>>31132860that seems awful for your ph balance...
>>31132852She can have broth and certain color jellos for part of sunday I think. She should have gotten something from the doctor with a detailed list of what she can and can't have each day. You really should check it just to be sure.
>>31132855It's different than a typical bug spray. You treat your clothes with it. Kills ticks within seconds of contact.
>>31132839Why risk it? Keep the cake completely free of seeds and serve the strawberries on the side. If you really want to decorate the cake, get some colourful candy
>>31132854I got it when i was 17, and i am doing comparably fine so far although it is annoying because everything from chronic fatigue to bells palsy i once had could be that or not and nobody will ever really know. And i had to get a lumbar puncture once to check if it is in my brain fluid and it was, so that explains a few things, kekI always get loads of ticks anyways, probably like ten a year at least. For some reason they want to eat me up, no matter what i wear and spray on. Maybe i should not crawl around in the meadow that often.
>>31132724I thought you were a homo
I can confirm that Neuro aka Crazy Bird has moved to Canada and has likely gotten impregnated already.
>>31132855>>31132866Don't touch any fish or amphibians while using it please.
>>31132864Aw man. Alright i will text her and ask if she got a detailed list. Thanks, i was not aware it is that serious. >>31132866Huh, i might have to check it out. >>31132867Fine, no strawberries :(
>>31132873Why is she posting in the 3rd person though
>>31132863Not penetrative, just clit stuff.
Is it or is it not accurate to call clitoral stimulation frotting?
>>31132874Yeah i was wondering. That sounds highly toxic. Probably should not get on the skin either. Idk if i want to mess with that.
>>31132875Yeah if she eats something she isn't supposed to they might have to reschedule.
>>31132879It doesn't affect people to my understanding. It is poisonous to cats though.
>>31132879I feel you I've never messed with it. I don't think it's a bad idea in the peak of tick season but I generally don't feel a need and just dress right and check often.
>>31132878I actually looked into this recently. Everything I found indicated that frotting is exclusively male on male.
>>31132877>in waterWHY
>>31132880I see. That would be really inconvenient for everyone involved.
>>31132891>I actually looked into this recentlyexplain yourself
>>31132892The jets are crazy and doing it secretly was my fetish for a while. Also the first time I ever orgasmed was in a pool, so it's nostalgic.
>>31132883>>31132888I mean, i already got the lymes and the encephalitis is treatable so i think i will stick to less risky strategies but thanks for the tip.
>>31131917I barely care about my birthday. I'd want some (non-alcoholic) drink and maybe a session of sex and that's it. not even gifts, no need to spend money on dumb celebrations
>>31131912>/htgwg/ OP imagePatriots are in control.
>>31132870Damn that's a lot to deal with. You seem very chill though, and you must be delicious lol.
>>31132895>jetsOkay this makes more sense
>>31132870Are you British?
>>31132905Plus friction against a bathing suit is uniquely hot in water, too.
Women, describe the man who you gave away your flower to.
>>31132894Someone ITT asked if there was a term for rubbing the clit with the head of your dick. Apparently there isn't.
Women, is this true?
Are you passionate about something?
>>31132912Titties.
>>31132912Gardening, baking, and toys.
>>31131917> would you be disappointedno. My birthday doesn't really matter to me.
>>31132903Yeah, mosquitoes also go to town on me. Guess they were right about the sugar and spice, lmao>>31132906No. Why?
>>31132911msounds like some bullshit larp from someone who read about the reforms during the French Revolution
>>31132907Eugh. Speak for yourself lol.>>31132909Beefy, mixed, glasses, obsessed with me since second grade, anger issues, played bass, played dark souls too much>>31132911wut
>>31132912Doing what i can so the next generation has a future worth living in.
>>31132922No accounting for bad taste, I guess.
>>31131920>what's the best way for me to damage controlNothing. You're already blocked and forgotten..
>>31132920Just something about that paragraph seemed very British. I didn't know they did lumbar punctures like that in America.
>>31132925Inexperienced people can often unknowingly make poor choices. Now staying with him for 2 years? That one I should have been able to correct sooner lol.
>>31132922Mixed with what?
>>31132934It means he's a ditsoon.
>>31132838I am in a liberal city Clearly my personality isn't attracting anyone either though, so maybe a superficial guy is all I can get. People meet me and feel nothing other than neutral about me
>>31132909Two years older than me, bosnian, was the guy everyone wanted to hang out with at school, longish dark blonde hair, very blue eyes, sometimes smoked weed, had a fast moped he was obsessed with, had been flirting with me for two years before we started hanging out one on one, i can still vividly recall his laugh. Yeah, i would say he was based.
>find a female NSFW artist>draws SS artDo women really?
>>31132932I meant more the pool masturbating thing. I dated a Dark Souls guy and he sucked, too.
>>31132912Yes, sometimes at least. But when I wake up on days like today that I don't have work to distract me, I get really bummed and I don't even want to eat.
>>31132938It pays the bills
>>31132937>bosnianWhat's it like being a zoophile?
>>31132927I am in european, so maybe that is why. Yeah they did that to find out if my bells palsy was from the lymes or if they have to check for tumors. It was a bit scary to get a needle up my spine. Not my favorite moment.
>>31131917Guys are usually supposed to do planning, so we usually don’t expect other people to plan our birthdays. We def expect a gift, so get a thoughtful one. If I was given a surprise birthday party, I’d love that, but I def don’t expect it. If the gf wants to make plans that aren’t a surprise, as long as the bf is in the loop, he’ll be ok. But he’s not expecting for him to wake up on his birthday and be like, so, what are we going to do today?
>>31132937moid hands self insert
>>31132944>t. seething Slovene
>>31131978:(
>>31132912law, video games, needlework
>>31132944To be fair, i had absolutely no knowledge about the political situation there at that time. I guess his parents fled during the war or so.
>>31132911FIt is true that throughout the menstrual cycle, your body needs more of certain nutrients during different times of the cycle For example, during menstruation you want more antioxidants, and during the follicular phase you want more pro+prebiotics, ovulation more vitamin c and fiber, luteal phase magnesium, etc
>>31132949That makes zero sense.
>>31132909FHaven't met him yet
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IMgWnCMAigwGirls is this what Crystal cafe is like?
>have gf>not super serious, just someone I hang out and make out with>start new job>trainer is a 40 yr old gym hag>she gets easily frustrated with me because I'm retarded>start having sexual fantasies about her>even though I prefer my gf's personality, still can't help but feel hung up on this woman>begin to think she's unlocked some previously unknown mommy dommy fetish>every time I talk to her, I am constantly overanalyzing what I said and feel like a whimpering child >feel like if I even so much as mention this to my gf she might have a breakdownWhat do? Just stifle these feelings and hope to not make a fool of myself at work?
>>31132967No idea, i never go there. I get all my femcel content from within.
>>31132211no. never.
>>31132969Jerk off i guess.
>>31132217Women take absolutely no responsibility for their own orgasms.
>>31132211>condoms suck>gf uses birth control, loses sex drive and becomes a distressed bitchyeah, vasectomy seems pretty good
>>31132911The last part about having diffrent needs depending on where in the cycle is true, yes. It affects appetite, sleep, skin health, mood, libido, even spatial awarenessUnsurprising given half the hormones involved also affect things in pregnancy, which causes all sorts of crazy changes
Should i have cinnamon milk rice with apple sauce for dinner or fried rice with chicken?
>>31132984You should go without
>>31132976
>>31132987
>>31132909haven’t been with a guy yet. only women so far
>>31132984You should probably have the meal with protein
>>31132211Once my wife and I have enough kids, sure
>>31132974I do that on my lunch break while my gf is at work. It doesn't help because I just keep thinking about this woman's tight toned ass
>>31132984>cinnamon milk rice with apple saucesounds too sweet>or fried rice with chicken?sounds too oilygun to my head though I'd choose option 2 unless you already had a high protein lunch or something
>>31132996Milk has protein.
>>31132991>One retarded man is representative of himself>One retarded woman is representative of her sex
>>31132984I love rice pudding, but apple sauce would ruin it for me. Eat chicken and then rice. No fried tho, unless you have tallow.
>>31132984The former.Animals are frens, not food. And milk rice sounds good.
>>31132967Fheehee cute this is what everskies coudlve been like if they hadn't banned me for being racist
>>31133002Dont be dense, you know what he meant
>>31133001I am making it myself so i can make it as non sweet and non oily as i want. I already had chicken for lunch but i have some leftover, so.
>>31132992Fine, then eat both ya fat bastard
women whats good in the neighborhood?
Girls, is 3.8 inches a good size?
>>31133003The incel science consortium has conclusively determined that all females are the same. It’s right there in the jpeg.
>>31133009Use your left overs and make white rice instead of fried rice
>>31132277You win by picking the ones you like. If they don't like you, there are millions more to pick from next.
>>31133004Huh? Why? I love how it is a bit sour to go with the sweet. >>31133006I see. >>31133008Fine
Today I have chose pain.
I miss cracking my ex's back
>>31133006Why do humans have this moral superiority? Animals ARE food, that's how it's always been.
>>31133013The (married) headmaster of the local school is having an affair with a (married) mother of a girl that goes to the school and he is apparently posting in his WhatsApp status about how she is his eternal love. It is very cringe and very entertaining. What is the gossip in your area?
>>31133007>banned for racismIm in love
women, what was the name of your sonic oc?
>>31133021Dukkha is the natural state of the world, you have chosen nothing
>>31133017Why not? Last time i did not consume any oil for a year i got bad blood works back. Not risking that again. >>31133011Maybe i will to spite you mrs ana.
>>31133019I don’t like applesauce, never have. Eat what you want, babe. Sneed oils are my only real objection here
>>31133025I wasn;t even being forreal racist. Still pissed I lost all my outfits
>>31133030There will be no sneed oils in my fried rice, no worries.
How do I call the act of me and my moid licking each other's tongues but without joining our lips? Is it still kissing or is there some name for it?
>>31133029white rice tastes better than fried rice simple asidgaf about your oil intake
>>31132211if the wife doesnt want kids, yea def.
I'm not a man with a plan, but friday after I come home from work is mow day. I don't need to mow with the loader and just leave the cut grass on the grass itself as manure. The grass looks so green. I love my lawn.
>>31133037Yes, acting like an animal.
>>31133034I thought we were having rice pudding with cinnamon tho..
Is there a female version of Negative XP
>>31133042Rude
>>31133038But fried rice is white rice? I don‘t get it. Or do you just prefer it to be totally plain and not mixed with the veggies and protein?
>>31133024Cheaters deserve to be whipped though>What is the gossip in your area?A TA in our uni told us how the about the "Dr." clique, and how they treat everyone in the department without a PHD like shit. So petty lol
>>31132401I'd assume you're ugly.Your profile description would have to be good.
>>31132393best to avoid them as close friends
>>31133044I am still undecided. Maybe i will have the sweet rice for breakfast tomorrow instead. It is true i should use up the leftovers. Decisions decisions.
>>31133045Taylor Swift
girlsHave you ever seen a really hot guy in public and wished that your boyfriend had a body like his?
>>31133037Disgusting
>foids wear the most attention grabbing stuff>complain about male gazeshould I ever trust anything a woman says
>>31133056You're right but I wasn't expecting this
>>31133061You would eyefuck me even if I was dressed like a nun
>>31132411Anon. It's much easier to get a 2nd girlfriend when you have the first.The pre-selection thing is stupidly true.
>>31133050Just like in middle school. Humans never change.
>>31133037Im sure the japanese or koreans have a term for this, I forgot what they called it when they licked each others eyeballs but they had a name for that so this can't be out of the realm of possibility for them
>>31133065Depends on your face and hip/waist
>>31133055Chicken with a side of greens (brussel sprouts are a personal fave), then rice pudding for desert. That would be a 10/10 meal for me
>>31133059No, he is the one with the hot body.
I wish I had a Kim Kardashian gf, she is a 10/10 woman.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QlBI5Q1Vn14
>>31133065correction, i'd eyefuck you harder if you were dressed like a nun
Women is it immoral to look at you?
>>31133072Good point. I could make two portions out of the rice pudding and save one for tomorrow. This way i get both and i can use up the leftovers.
>>31132656Im pretty much in a similar position as you. Feel like an empty shell rn.Im trying to go back to school. You dont know what you would go back for, so take some time to really, really, really think about it. Maybe work on a certificate or exam or wtv too if u got time.Idk
>>31133078Yes
>>31132441>5 monthsTook me 18 months to get over my ex.It was good in the end though. reassessed everything, changed my life.
>>31132772MELONS, DUHur def not asian lol
>>31133075stfu shill
>>31133083It tastes even better when it gets to coagulate in the fridge overnight
>>31133084Yea I can't think of anything else other than continuing to apply for jobs. Might just spin a wheel to pick a school subject Good luck to you too hope it gets better
>>31133091I never made a melon cake but i was considering it since i actually have a water melon at home. It does sound yummy but it is also red and anon said red is no no.
>>31132797Honestly, if you have the money, both. Both are used for diff situations. I realized a while ago that shoes really are a luxury. When i get more money, imma have a lot of more shoes. I already got running and a casual walking, but hiking, and more casuals are real nice.
>>31133089):
>>31133093True. I will do that. Thanks for helping me make mundane decisions that one should do in a matter of thirty seconds and without help. But here we are.
>>31132912Yes. Women and writing, although with alarmingly decreasing intensity recently.
>>31132950>flexing on anyone that you had your throat widened by a horse dickNot really something you should be proud of
>>31133098cantaloupe or hondeydew is what they were talking about
>>31133089Guess i'm going to hell >:]
>>31133105Oh
>foids dating a guy with 15 pairs of shoes and 25 hats who'll spend a day at the mall to buy a pocket knifefoids why do you do this
>>31133098lol, ew no not watermelon, wth. I mean canteloupe and honeydew. Just pick out the strawberries and replace em with these. Real easy fixAsian cakes are the best cakes, def go to ur local chinatown or asiantown to get one.
>>31133111The fuck are you talking about anon? kek
>>31133107Yes
>>31132455Both.Actually the guy on the left who pretended to be the guy on the right so my girlfriend could "change me" back into husband material.
>>31133107The bible suggests putting out your eyes if they cause you to sin so you can try that
>>31133111Because he needs money to sustain this lifestyle and this is what matters to foids in the end
>>31132815WYA
>>31132835word that gets righties riled up
>>31133074there is always better
>>31132470>Men really do not think any further than the breeding stage.We do.
>>31132811shit like this is legit is like half the motivation for working out - just to lift girls
>>31133112Ah i see. I can not go to the grocery store anymore before i have to make it. But i might give this a try next time. It does sound yummy. But why no water melon? I could see it work.
>>31133111You're just jealous of my hats.
>paranoid and jeleous gf who keeps getting progressively worse has just made a list of the women on my instagram and ancient facebook account and is now being insane over them>says if they are important and I say no (previous uni housemates, random co workers etc no one i talk to)>wants to message them all to tell them to stop following me >told her not to because thats really not healthy...i dont even know what the fuuuuck atoga, im actually shocked. Yesterday I came back from a trip to do my dissertation site visit and she unbeknownst to me waited in the station for me and followed me around for a bit before saying hi. Somewhat shocked right now ngl.
>>31133121Some certainly do but not the anon i was talking to.
no lube, no protection, all night, all day, from the kitchen floor to the toilet seat, from the dining table to the bedroom, from the bathroom sink to the shower, from the front porch to the balcony, vertically, horizontally, quadratic, exponential, logarithmic, while I gasp for air, scream and see the light, missionary, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, doggy, backwards, sideways, upside down, on the floor, in the bed, on the couch, on a chair, being carried against the wall, outside, in a train, on a plane, in the car, on a motorcycle, the the bed of a truck, on a trampoline, in a bounce house, in the pool, bent over, in the basement, against the window, have the most toe curling, back arching, leg shaking, dick throbbing, fist clenching, ear ringing, mouth drooling, ass clenching, nose sniffling, eye watering, eye rolling, hip thrusting, earthquaking, sheet gripping, knuckles cracking, jaw dropping, hair pulling, teeth jitterbug, mind boggling, soul snatching, overstimulating, vile, sloppy, moan inducing, heart wrenching, spine tingling, back breaking, atrocious, gushy, creamy, beastly, lip biting, gravity defying, nail biting, sweaty, feet kicking, mind blowing, bone breaking, world ending, black hole creating, universe destroying, head nodding, soul evaporating, volcano erupting, trembling, sheets soaked, hair drenched, flabbergasting, lip locking, skin peeling, eyelash removing, eye widening, pussy popping, nail scratching, back cuts, spectacular, brain cell desolving, hair ripping, mouth foaming, heavenly, awakening, devils tango ever bro could cause a nuclear bomb inside me and I'd still ride
>>31132969Unravel why you like what you like.Imagine scenarios like the work situation but change things until you're not turned on. Then figure out why that piece matters to you.For example, imagine your gf dressed and comported herself exactly like your trainer and was your trainer at work. What if it was at home? What if she was just herself but acted similar?What elements are activating your almonds?And don't do anything at work. You're clueless and dumb.
>>31132538>who think they can buy a 1/100th of the genuine passionThey don't care about your passion.
>>31133126That's hot.
>>31133037mutual tongue kissing?
>>31133120No>>31133128Wtf why is this actually hot? Delete.
>cute friend is having a hard time at work>goes to the doctor for something unrelated >hear her talking to other office girls that she got put on Lexapro Looks like we lost another one, men. I wonder if her going zombie mode will make her no longer care for my friendship.
>>31133114>>31133116You misunderstand my statement. Let me rephrase. I rather go to hell than stop looking at women
Femanons, How many times do you want to come during sex ideally?
>>31132811That sounds fun but I'm 5'10 and built stocky so unless the guy is Hafthor Bj>>31132814ornson it probably aint happening :(
>>31133135I saw this pin yesterday. Maybe you should get it for her.
>>31133138Three. More than that is just overindulgence.
>>31133126Gasai Yuno vibes, Im sure the pussy is immaculate. Congratulations anon, sleep with one eye open though. Might catch strays.
>>31133138Once but really good so i need a nap right after.
>>31133132no its fucking psychotic, the other day she started crying because a cashier made a sentence of smalltalk to me, ive had to cut out multiple friends because of her too, this is a new one though like im genuinely shocked right now
>>31133147How should he give you these orgasms
>>31133135Lexapro didn't do anything for me but make it really hard to cum. Therapy did much more for my depression than pills ever could.
How does one get over relationship grief that stayed dormant for over a decade until recently
>>31133150Just stoic through it. If you don't act like her emotional handler she'll toughen up
>>31133148shes literally a hello kitty girl as well, bought me a hello kitty steel necklace that reads ''i <3 my gf). Recently though I talked all of this out with her and she was alright now shes gone right back to being legitimately insane. Shes said before too im too pretty to be walking around in public, part of me is like where is this going to end...
>>31133126Tell her you could have fucked each and everyone of them but you are addicted to her and you keep them in your socials so you can post pics of her and make them jealous.
>>31133150It should have ended at the first friend anon, wtf are you doing?
femanons, why do women hate bi men so much?
Women, what makes a man boring?
>>31133124Texture mostly. Someone could def say something about the taste difference and sweetness, which does exist, but it's mostly the texture. If you could tightly pack watermelon into the density of a cantaloupe, I actually could see it maybe working. But otherwise, no, I wouldn't even try it out.
>>31133158I am, told her just now to get a grip of her brain and that im not playing into her episode. Told her its the equivalent of me thinking im being gangstalked and barricading up my house, needs to get a grip.
>>31133155I cum fairly easily, so if we've got enough time for a full sex session, then ideally once from foreplay, once from oral, and the last from sex. It's also easier to cum from penetration alone after I've already had an orgasm or two.
>>31133162Wdym? I only like men that are bi.
>>31133162Because women like manly men, not thinking about their man getting ass blasted by another man.
>>31133163No interests / curiosity / spontaneity / ambitions / risk takingBasically autopiloting through their existence
>>31133163Not being bi.
>>31133168like a three course meal, easy enough to follow
>>31132773Hanwags. About $300
>>31133167Why do you need to talk to women anyway?
>>31133166Yeah i can see how it is not firm enough and too watery but the idea would have been to blend it and then make watermelon jello to put as a top layer. In that case i would have put a lemon quark layer underneath because i do not think watermelon would go well with vanilla. It would need to be something more fresh.
>>31133171yeah but just because a guy is bi doesn't make him faggot who likes taking it up the ass
>>31133167that's not being stoic
>>31133171I like my men a bit androgynous and cutie patootie. But they should have top energy in their biness, that is true.
>>31133149Does that mean PIV or oral for you?
>>31133188PIV and using hands. Oral is not intense enough for me. Too wet.
>>31133171What about sweatily rubbing their penises together in a giant meaty fist?
>>31133168>>31133191Women continue to surprise me!
>>31133156I'm on Lexapro and can't go off it without offing myself. It just adjusts my anxiety baseline to a manageable level to where I don't need therapy and can live a normal life. I still drink daily though, because it's fun and helps me be my best self.
>>31132734Women have no idea what men want though. Most don't care.> I am not interestingNot necessary.> I am not driven or successfulGod forbid. This is pure female projection.> I am not good lookingmen are a lot more forgiving about looks than women are.
>>31133157By reactivating and finally processing the pain....I think.
>>31132811lose some weight.
>>31132813Did you get a surprise date then?Or a surprise rejection?
State gender. Are you establishing a family? How close are you to that goal?
>>31133214F1980s
>>31133214Why did the 2000s get skipped?
>>31133183what would being stoic mean in this situation? I need to guide her into some form of direction. Shes now saying shes not crazy and hopes I dont think that about her, ahhhh fuck.
>>31133205Is it going to be like working through it ten fold since it was hidden for so long? I feel like taking a long nap. I feel depleted.
>>31133181Ok, but like you could take blend some Captain Crunch, dissolve it in a little water, and make a jello out of it and it still would be divine. A simple cake with whole fruit preserves the integrity of the fruit's original design, which was what I was going for here >https://www.siftandsimmer.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/IMG_2204-featured.jpgNothing wrong with quarks, creams, or jellos. Im just talking about a simple cake with fruit and asian-style-incredibly-light frosting.
>>31133134Because I’m too #real
>>31133213The latter, she was like "oh I'm doing stuff with my family this weekend, sorry" and it took me a second to figure out why she was apologizingIt was awkward and I feel like our friendship is ruined
>>31133218Computers crashed due to 00 and there is no data left.
>>31133218Lapse of sanity. It's more and more common.
>>31133214A family of four needs $238,000 income to be functional in my area.People don't realize how OVER everything is. Or maybe they do, but the reality is just too harsh to face.
>>31132838>some openings to approach/signals that he won’t be shot down.This isn't going to cut it any more.Women have made themselves into risks.
>>31133222>I need to guide her into some form of direction.this is how you've attracted this kind of nutjob
state gender, thoughts on asexuals? shouldnt they be the most hated? they'll never give you what you need.
>>31133237Respectable because they will tell you upfront that they wont fuck unlike some people
me rn
>>31133226Ah yes, but i have to process the fruits somehow because no whole fruits with skin on. So i thought blending and jello-ing might be an idea. I also would not put any frosting, i feel like that goes better with multi layer cakes. The quark filling might not be good for that. What kind of frosting do japanese cakes have? Here we usually just use whipped cream. I have never really looked into japanese cakes. Which is odd because i love baking and i love japanese cuisine. I might have to do that, they look beautiful.
>>31133232Maybe they do, people seem to be giving up. There's nothing to work towards because every year is rug pull after rug pull.
>>31133214F. I live in a house by myself that my family paid for. I just have a cat but no human lover to cuddle me. Feels bad. I am disenchanted with suitors due to being "blackpilled" now.
>>31133237FI want to be in an asexual relationship one day. It just sounds so wholesome, peaceful and comfy. But i am probably delusional.
>>31133237>they never give you what you needThey arent asking for sex, so if anything, they're asking less from people. And you think you have the right to demand more? People who only see other people as tools or something the be used are to be avoided
>>31133251how are you F and blackpilled, that's reserved for male incels
>>31133251Blackpilled how?
>>31133172what if he has boring interests?
Inspired by pregnant anon (Godspeed to you) from last thread, women who’ve had birth, was it worth it? Not counting whether you love your child obviously but I mean the stresses of having one
Women are so disgusting holy shit
>>31132936>I am in a liberal cityYou realise that in most liberal cities, the single women outnumber the single men?Once you account for all the paired up couples, single women can outnumber men 3 - 4 to 1.You go to the conservative midwest, it's the opposite. Marriage happens in the midwest, because women can demand it. But not in the cities because men want sex not relationships.
>>31133237I'm somewhat sceptical whether that's a thing. In my experience asexual men are just incels trying to make excuses and asexual women are just Chadsexual and the men they can realistically get aren't hot enough to them.
You know what. I would be a good girlfriend. Why does nobody want me. I get t accused of being insecure but I truly do not even hate myself and think I would be good. Am I a narcissist am I conceited? I could be a baddie idk
>>31133263Idk I think they smell nice
>>31133237I think they're a bit misguided letting themselves be lumped in on the sexuality spectrum nonsense but a person who just says up front they aren't interested in any sex at all is respectable.
>>31133253People have a right to fulfilling sex just like they have a right to eat. Its a basic human need. That's not saying anyone's entitled to it anymore than your entitled to walk up to strangers and steal their bentos, but eating is still a need and if you can't fufill your partner's needs then its a pointless relationship. I don't get why asexuals would even need to be in a relationship anyway. Friendship should be enough to satisfy them.
ok ladies. just give it to me straight. will she text me like she said she would?
>>31133235well I wasn't aware she was like this, to this extent. I was friends with her for a year prior to this and she never gave off craziness to this extent, she was a little bit at first but only slightly and I thought it was manageable and was just standard woman being jeleous and insecure behavior but now its just snowballing at a rate idk if I can keep up with. She has now apologised for this recent strange behavior and hasn't done anything retarded but Its getting harder to see past this im ngl, part of me is coping by thinking maybe I can sort of get her to control her brain and to get a grip but im not sure if I can.
>>31133274I think so, yes.
>>31133214maleI can't even establish a friendship, let alone get a girl to consider having kids with meIt's never happening
>>31133214MI wouldn't inflict this tedium on anyone
>>31133264So I have to go to the Midwest?
>>31133242My wife waited until 5 years into our marriage to tell me.>>31133253You absolutely have the right to demand more especially if you're seeking a long term partner. If you're in a relationship with someone who is asexual and that doesn't work for you, you have zero obligation to stick around just as they have zero obligation to give you any.
>>31133251Omg same. I wound up attracting fuck boys every time I mentioned my house so I just don’t anymore. But otherwise I’ve only gotten Gen Xers. It’s just I don’t have the time to step up my game bc I have a lot of other things to take care of household wise. It’s a very particular situation.
>>31133275you feed her behavior as you keep giving her attention and consoling her over it. if you could understand how to just be stoic about it would have just gone awayYou both sound like retards, so whatever, I guess it's a perfect match
>>31133214MI am 1970s mode. Does this mean I made it? My children are the light of my life.
>>31133269They factually do not.
>>31133288youre not being very stoic bro, you sound very emotional rn. So what? ignore her
>>31133292Got news for you. Sit down for this one
>>31133297Okay. Be forewarned that I’m shitting while I’m sitting.
How can you guys be racist? Africans (from Africa) are so nice and wholesome
>>31133271Asexuals in relationships are almost 100% women and they do it because they want to secure the status and resources of the relationship without giving anything in kind. Asexuality is a shield to hide behind so they can dismiss their romantic partner's inclinations as intrusive trespasses against their wishes. Women are naturally less sexual than men, and some even less than the average woman. In this way, they claim asexuality as their status once in a relationship because it's a tool to use against their partner if they should ask.If I get in a relationship with a girl and become a-house-cleaning or a-going-out-on-dates, does that free me of my partner obligations? No. You can't just slap a magic word on yourself and use it as a get out of jail free card on your partner's wants. That's just called being a shitty partner.
>>31133259If he's passionate about it and doesn't expect me to also adopt all of them that's fine. I'm not the kind of person who wants to be attached at the hip the whole time anyway
>>31133315Women lose their libido if they are with a shitty partner.
>>31133214M, yesI'm far from my goals, one more year to finish my degree and hopefully with 3-5 years of work my economic situation will be stable enough to have a kid.I will have to break up with my gf to find someone who wants kids tho...
girlsI act like a completely different person when I play video games on mic. Totally different personality from how i am IRL, What would you do if you observed this behavior from your bf?
>>31133313They are not. Have you been smoking crack?
>>31133271If you don't eat you die, if you don't fuck the worst you get is blueballs
>>31133252>It just sounds so wholesome, peaceful and comfy.and pointless
>>31133315>>31133271ASEXUALITY is not a real thing in humans. Stop with this nonsense. It is not possible for a human to be "asexual"
>>31133321Are you saying you start shouting sexist and racist shit?
Why do I look like shit on selfies but pretty cute in mirror pics? I have tested it with others too without priming them, they see a selfie and they are like “you dont look like yourself at all”
>>31133313I'm mixed (black Latina) and I hate Arabs and Indians
>>31133282Not that guy, but the one who originally responded to you.It depends what you want out of life/a guy. If you want a stable family, then cities have a high density of people to meet, but low probability that they’re both available and compatible. Rural areas have better odds (per available guy) for young women, but are a very mixed bag depending on region. Lots of the guys aren’t making a lot, and addictions to alcohol and drugs are a big problem in many places. And there is a far smaller dating pool.I might recommend moving regions, not necessarily surroundings. If you live in San Francisco or NYC, for example, moving to Boise or Raleigh would put you closer towards less hyper-urban ‘types’ without making you too isolated or alienated by such a huge shift in surroundings.
>>31133246I'd say it's more chinese but all the other asian copy em so I bet the japs do it to. Asian cakes just use a really light cream, as opposed to a denser western creams. They just take the fruit and use a melon baller or wtv. But you cant use whole fruit in ur cake? I was basing what strawberry cake you were trying to make based on the pictures u posted. Idrk what kinda strawberry cake u were going for if u say ur not doing a multi layer cake with whole fruit. You seem to firm on a fruit/vanilla/chocolate jello on top with a lemon quark cream below? And i assume one layer of cake at the bottom? Idk why u cant just strain out the solids after blending the strawberries - that's how u get the nicest looking liquids from fruit. Using a cantaloupe jello would also be really fucking good too, and at least then u woulndt need to care bout seeds.
>>31133313In certain places you are either racist, or stupid
>>31133271>People have a right to fulfilling sex just like they have a right to eat.They don't have a right to either.
>>31133313Africa is a big place with many cultures. Why are you grouping them all together?
>>31133326Yes. And talk in different voices and role play as the characters being played.
>>31133324Only if all you care about is breeding and fucking. Which is kind of how animals behave.
Do you think bad reviews kill companies?
>>31133266Have you, left the house the meet people? The vast majority of people who have healthy social lives can get dates.
>>31133339He cute
If I took another 5 years off from dating do you thinking finding true love might be easier when one is 35If it's not in my cards I will probably kms or something and if I have another life maybe try again but not sure about it
>>31133339Most review sites take bribes to take reviews down so depends on how far the review gets
>>31133315>>31133283>>31133271>>31133265>>31133253>>31133242>"Honey, I need you to do this arduous yard labor for me because you're a strong man and it will please me if you do.">"Absolutely, babe. I shall toil in the hot sun for you to no reward but the smile on your face. Oh, and, babe, can you do me a favor?">"Of course, love, what?">"I have been observing your radiant beauty and it has kindled desire in me. Tonight, may we make love until we lay together in pleasured bliss? I will do all of the work and see to your every need.">"NO YOU GROSS FUCK. It takes thirty minutes and I'll be sweaty and need a shower! You FUCKING MEN never consider what we want. JESUS CHRIST."
>>31133336So, you show your true colors? No thanks. One can play vidja without turning into an asshole. I have a gamer bf and he can play online with others and still behave like a decent human being. This is just a lame excuse.
>>31133339FNo, bad products do.
>>31133341He a toober
>>31133339No, i think most people do not care that much about reviews anymore since everyone knows that they are usually either karens that got butthurt or bought sliming.
>>31133347>I have a gamer bf and he can play online with others and still behave like a decent human beinglame and gay
>>31133237MaleI think they’re either traumatized and avoid sex as a coping mechanism, or autistic enough to slap a label on themselves when they don’t exactly identify with their interpretation of others’ feelings towards sex.I don’t hate them, I just am wary of them, since it’s very rare for them to share my values.
I have decided that I look like a guy who has a gf, even a short chubby one. So I'm just going to start acting like I have a gf and say fuck all this simping I do for thankless women I know IRL.
>>31133346Its because the fucker still needs to be asked after all these years onstead of just doing it. Is he an adult or a child?Also he hasn't done the work yet so he's making it a trade and insulting her as a whore of low worth
>>31133339fucking hope so
>>31133347How did you clock that so fast. I assumed he meant he became more confident or smth
>>31133351Well thats kind of what the video is about. He gave a bad review to a start up and people got angry that he has too much power as a reviewer.
>>31133266The dating market is ass. Its mostly done through apps, which I find demeaning, and friends, where if you are with a friend group that doesnt have anyone to hook you up with you are shit out of luck. I know exactly how you feel.
>>31133237Its not real. It's a fad. Its just a trend. There is a reason why every single person who identified as sexual dresses in a certain way, has dyed hair, and tats. Its just a fucking trend.
>>31133340Yes but no one asks me out
>>31133357Do you suppose he has a weak jawline
>>31133341men aren't cute
>>31133282If you want men clamouring for your hand in marriage yes you do.There's a web site:https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/male-to-female-ratio-by-stateMen who want a 10:1 single woman to single man ratio go to Washington DC.Women who want a 10:1 single man to single woman ratio go to ... alaska, or north dakota.Thing is, the politics will obviously be different. The single guys in north dakota are likely to be conservative, it wouldn't work for most women.
>>31133325I don't disagree. Asexuals are just sexuals with unmeltable standards.>>31133324Yep." It sure is awesome having this live in roommate who uses me to take care of half of everything and as a sounding board for their problems, but at the end of the day doesn't think of me as being anything more than a friend.">>31133318Women constantly move the goalposts on what a good partner should be until they finally get out of his reach, so then they can start eyeing the horizon again. Women are incapable of actual love because they're always viewing their partner through a critical eye.
>>31133214MI have a career, a house and an apartment. I dont plan on having a family, I am full of self-hatred and sense of inferiority
>>31133341Yeah but he's a ni-
Black lady who took my blood fucked my arm up
>>31133332Yeah the pic was what i was going for before i knew about the dietary restrictions but google said no whole fruits before colonoscopy, so. I also had a phone call with my sister and she will bring a simple lemon cake my mom can eat, so theoretically i could go with my initial plan but i guess i will make one she can eat too. It is her bday after all. I have only seen those fruit sandwiches they make and have tried those once. There they also just use whipped cream and whole fruits. It was very yummy. Maybe their cakes are similar just with sponge cake instead if bread.
>>31133214>State gender. Male>Are you establishing a family? Hopefully yes, probably no>How close are you to that goal?Still on the starting point
>>31133266>Why does nobody want me.Too much of a risk.Not enough of a reward.
>>31133370do it yourself, then
>>31133346Lol, fucking >>31133358. >Babe, if I exercise today, can you jack me off after?>Babe, if I do my laundry, can you give me a blowjob?>Babe, if I eat all my veggies, can we do anal tonight?
>>31133358Fine. Add the detail where he did it purely out of altruism because she'd mentioned it once, and his sexual needs still go unmet. She doesn't care about him because men are just expendable tools to women.
>>31133355Mhm>>31133362If that was the case he would not ask about it. He asked because he knew exactly that he was being insufferable.
>>31133381-ce black gentleman, yes, exactly
>>31133375Lel how picky are the women in washington
MEGAN (23F) lives with her two cats and has realized that adulting sucks, so now she is looking for a NEW DAD. She's only had sex with 7 different men, but she isn't willing to do anything she did with them again.Are you the perfect match for MEGAN? Are you ready to pay the bills and fuck off after she slams the door when you ask her where she's been all night? If so, she's looking for YOU.
>>31133313They don’t stay nice and wholesome when they go into someone else’s country. The second generation assimilates to the extent of no longer having deep connections to their community, and gets raised in the typical culture of isolation and resentment that multicultural societies encourage. This happens to all races, though. I’m racist to the extent of thinking that multiple distinct, cohesive societies are far better than a shapeless global monoculture whose only purpose is eliminating purpose.
>>31133370Describe ur weekly social habits
>>31133375Anytime I visit those kinds of places everyone is paired up. I can’t just show up to some small town and expect men to be begging for me when they already have wives and friends they met in high school
>>31133390You can bet he doesn't make her cum too
>>31133374;(
Uhh
Anyone else miss lock down? It was so quiet and nice. Barely any cars around
>>31133405Just like in your hentai.
>>31133390>>31133358>Woman asks for thing she needs"YOU GO GIRL. DAT BOY BETTA GIVE IT TO YA OR YOU KISS ASS TO DA CURB">Man asks for thing he needs"So you didn't really love her after all and you're just an overgrown child."I love how you both add details here to suit you. Perhaps the yard work was something she wanted that is unnecessary like a rose garden? Perhaps it's something she could equally do. No, the onus is on the man to give his woman everything, deliver it without complaint, and step off to the sidelines and be ignored because men aren't allowed to have needs themselves.
>>31133389They say no >>31133397Gym 3 times a week, bar with friends two to one times a week, work daily
>>31133405I absolutely would. I dont even care anymore
>>31133406I do. Finally i did not have to come up with lame excuses as to why i do not want to go anywhere.
>>31133384yea yea, i think ur right. Congrats on her birthday, im sure ur cake will be great
>>31133406Yeah, 100%And everyone was turning into me - shut in weirdo. Normies were losing their minds because they hadnt fucked a mew person in 2 weeks.
>>31133409Boohoo, If the man is so hard done by he can leave.
>>31133406There was about 6 weeks where all the rule-followers fucked off and it was just beautiful living for people like me. There was also that Saudi Oil price war going on so gas was like $1.50 a gallon. It was an amazing time, went to "closed" outdoor parks and raced through empty streets
>>31133318Women's libido naturally drops after she has an assurance of commitment.1 year in, it halves and keeps dropping.
>>31133406Lockdown turned me into a hermit. I didn’t realize I hated going out so much until that happened. I love that I did but I don’t miss trying to blend in
>>31133395Will I be able to film MEGAN's gangbangs?
>>31133337humans are animals anon. We can just talk about our individual experiences.
>>31133402P R O J E C T I N GJust because you gotta be choked while playing the star spangled banner with a bulge up your ass doesn't mean that's standard operating procedure. Again, you are adding details to a made up human to suit your own view. Imagine he makes her cum. She still says no because he's expendable in her eyes the same way he only carries value in yours if the whole household is on his shoulders while he's performing the above sex act and asks for nothing in return.
>>31133423So maybe humans were not meant for monogamy after all, eh? What exactly is the point of forcing a woman to keep fucking a man she does not want to fuck longer than a year for the rest of her life?
>>31133381Marquees gets a pass
>>31133419>I OWE MEN NOTHING AND IF THEY DON'T LIKE IT THEY CAN LEAVE>WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MEN GOING
>>31133411NTA but have you tried getting some social hobbies?
Are the incels on their period again?
>>31133344>finding true loveYou wont. You have the wrong attitude.> easier when one is 35Why do you think the next 5 years will be any different from the last 10?
>>31133438I'm not paying attention to the arguing. Just asking silly billy questions
>>31133395perfect match for some late 20s/early 30s gamer who is really into politics and investing. He is only starting to date now because he was too busy with studying and/or focusing on his career (he was actually playing videogames and watching porn). Now he is putting his friendless ass out there and is looking for a “traditional” (inexperienced) woman despite he himself not being traditionally masculine at all!
>>31133423It rly depends on the women. I find no guy can keep up w me and if they can they have some kinda paraphilia and want to increase the risks which is not something I want. So now I just hope.
>>31133440Like what?
>>31133438>Can you please go quietly into that goodnight?
>>31133444like my lockdown question
>>31133446Rage, rage against the dying of the bloodline.
>>31133438They have a period about once a day instead of about once a month
>>31133438I am on mine but it just gets me moody and sad instead of aggro
>>31133430Jesus christ you're such a drama cuck lolI wasn't even that invested in this convo, I was snarking at you because it's funny how you're acting like not getting laid is a warcrimeAlso don't act like women don't work and do all sorts of shit around the house too, do you know the closest to thanks I've ever gotten for cooking and cleaning? "Yeah it's alright"But that's ok because I also don't need adulation to do basic adult shit - the result is its own reward
>>31133447Ah yes. Cute. >>31133451True. The male hormonal cycle is 24h. Poor things. Wait a minute - maybe THAT is why they are such coomers. Cooming is their period. The more you know.
>>31133436Like what?
>>31133407Exactly what I was thinking of >>31133412Get your shit together
>>31133406Lockdown brought a lot of femanons to 4chan so that was an upside
>>31133453I realized too late that i should have said PMSing since that would have made more sense.
>>31133411>gymGuys dont really ask other people out at the gym, when they're there to work out. If you want to meet gym guys, find a guy u think is cute, exercise near him, make some small talk, ASK HIM FOR HELP on something, find out when he works out, see if he's single and be flattering. Ask for his insta/snap.>workIf you don't have a good rapport with work people, it aint gonna work. Also, lots of guys wont shit where they eat, tho some will with some flirting. If there's a guy u like and want to ask out, do the same as above. If there's no one, then there's no one, and dont look here anymore.>barIf you're the sit down at a secluded table, guys aren't gonna find u. If ur trapped with ur friends, guys arent gonna find you. At a bar, you need to be "near" ur friends, but enough that a guy finds u approachable. Like, go to the bartender alone and ask for drinks. Make small talk with a guy, he'll prob buy u something and banter.If ur down to go to bars, go to clubs too.
>>31133451Kek
>>31133438They have to throw regular tantrums so the sad reality of their lives doesn't start to sink in again
>>31133433>MarqueesWhat do you mean
>>31133292Man I was working with this woman who just returned from giving birth recently and it was driving me nuts. She reeked of milk. It was so hot.
>>31133467I mean, i have to give them props for expressing their feelings instead of bottling them up. They are using their words.
State genderWhat race is your least favorite in terms of dating?
Women come into men's houses to live rent free and they start doing all this work that nobody really asks for, then afterwards they complain that they get no help as an excuse to lower their libido, find flaws in the current partner and justify seeking a new one with a bigger house that requires more stuff to be done, leading to bigger induced outrage and even more cheatingIs this the housewife dream?
>>31133475FThe manle- i mean shetland pony.
Has the /atoga/ divide ever been larger?
>>31133406>just me and my dad in the middle of bumfuck nowhere Northern California>go out hiking in different, beautiful mountainous scenery every day>university lab was closed for 4 months and I didn't bring anything to work on for spring break so I was effectively a NEET and could just play WoW Classic all dayPeople don't understand just how fucking GOOD smalltown lockdown was.
>>31133457Yeah if women do have sex they don't have their period cuz they pregers and if they don't have sex they have their period if men have sex they don't get a wet dream and if they don't have sex or fap then they do get a wet dream
>>31133475Every race has cute girls, so none are undatable. But, for ur question whichever has the least amount of cute girls
>>31133471My friend was literally spraying it every hour when her milk came in. Said she had to constantly soak things in vinegar water and launder them.Pissed her off cos she had enough to deal with and baby was getting practically waterboarded rather than fed
>>31133458Idk, men have the same question
>>31133474And I just do it on the internet while being the kindest soul IRL. Get the physical frustrations out in the gym and the emotional ones on 4chan. Whatever works
>>31133482So wet dreams are male periods? It makes sense since it is a cyclical cleansing of the system, a release of stagnant energy and renewal.
>>31133378>Asexuals are just sexuals with unmeltable standards.no. It doesn't exist. The word "a" in the word literally means "absent". There are only a few asexual creatures on earth, and none of them are mammals.
>>31133490I think so but most men either have sex or masturbate constantly and consistently so they never realize it
>>31133475F. Only dated whites but I hear indian and some other asian cultures expect you to live with your MILFuck. That. Shit
>>31133382Black lady phlebotomists are either the best or worst. Never in between.
>>31133489Actually quiet mature. I do that too when i have my femcel phase. If i get the frustration out of my system asap then it is over again much sooner than if i would just repress it and silently be fucking angry and stressed for months and ruin my physical, mental and emotional health even further.
>>31133469His name is Marquees Brownlee. Him and Linus Techtip are the two biggest names in tech youtube, I think
>>31133492Huh, fascinating. Is that what they mean by blue balls? The stagnant energy? I mean, it is not exactly healthy for women to go for a long time without a period either.
>>31133475FI would never, under any circumstances, even if my life depended on it, date or fuck a pajeet.
My mom and stepdad asked me what I wanted for my birthday so I asked for a book and it’s been a couple weeks since then and I still don’t have said book, am I safe to just buy it myself at this point? I feel like there is no polite way to ask “hey are you guys gonna get me that book you said you’d get me” but I’m also worried about buying it in case it’s just taking a really long time to arrive in the mail or something
Women what do you think of men who love Christmas?
>>31133504Have they gotten you something else?
>>31133502why is that sir?
>>31133475MaleNot interested in dating other races
>>31133497Yeah, eventually it will result in me being mad for no reason at my colleagues (all are women) or my family when I am visiting, no reason to do that. Its not their fault I am temporarily emotionally dysregulated
>>31133505What do these men love about it?
>>31133469De Sade
>>31133507No, I have received nothing thus far, and to be clear that doesn’t really bother me, it’s just the whole issue of “I want this thing and can afford it but don’t want to buy it in case they bought it for me already and just haven’t told me yet”
>>31133511nta but I like gift giving
>>31133497Well if that’s the case I’m fucking mad because I haven’t gotten any in ages. And from someone who I love and who loves me back. It makes me mad at everything except my dog. Idk how to climb out of this hole I’m so damn rusty now. There I said it
>>31133511I just like the vibe. Its so cozy!
>>31133502Such stupid ignorant women say this
>>31133496I can barely move my arm
>>31133521>t. left-wing leaning parasite
>>31133511Yui's retarded pussy
>>31133510I feel like i can usually go a while with zero rage or frustration but ofc things still happen or come to my attention that bug me but they do not bug me terribly in the moment and then some day it kind of switches and i get really pissed and need to have an outlet for that. Kind of like a backlog of frustration that all gets released in one go. But then i am perfectly fine again for a while. If it works. I feel like there would be worse ways to handle this.
>>31133501Blue balls is when you are fantasizing about sex or being teased and getting really aroused and hard but not ejaculating. If you're not focusing on sex at all you won't get it even if you haven't ejaculated in a long time
>>31133521Brown, diarrhea stained hands wrote this
>>31133128FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK
>>31133515Uh, well that is odd then. Where do they usually buy books? Can you check if it is in stock there and how long delivery would take? Personally i probably would buy it and if they then give it at a later time just return the one you got.
>manwhores aren't real because of lock and key theory>being called a fuckboy is a badge of honourWhy do these two facts drive women mad?
Do pajeets actually get mad when white girls don't want to date them? Is it because indian girls don't want them either
>>31133516>>31133520Cute>>31133525Not so cute
>>31133134>>31133529No way people are falling for this instagram/tiktok copy pasta
>>31133475>>31133502MI've known some cute weeb pajeetas, but even then the thought of having pajeet in-laws is so distasteful that I don't think I could ever commit. I've worked with too many pajeets and as a university TA in STEM I've caught so many pajeets cheating that I've grown to hate them. Or I'll get random ass emails from Sindh Granghalawalanar asking me for a letter of recommendation so they can get out of their shitty pajeet uni and into America.Gradually I began to hate them.
>>31133527Then i guess my analogy does not fit perfectly.
>>31133536Im talking about picrel caption is just a funny addition
>>31133530I’m not sure where they usually go but I did send my mom an Amazon link, I showed her the Amazon listing in-person when she asked me and she and my stepdad went “yeah we can do that” I will probably just do what you said, I’m fine not reading it for a while just to make sure anyway since I’ve read it before, it’s just the Invincible hardcover vol. 1, I guess I could also just sell the hypothetical extra copy to my local comic shop for store credit or something if it comes down to it
>>31133519Good good, let the frustration flow trough you. I can imagine that the touch starvation is really getting to you. I am glad you at least got your dog to keep you company. This reminds me of this pin.
>>31133521You don’t need every white person to like you. They’re allowed to like who they like too.
>>31133533This image makes me sad. What brings women to do this to themselves? :(
>>31133552Humiliation ritual.
State genderWould you date a person who never shaves anywhere. Assuming that they love you and both share similar values.
>>31133533Those aren’t facts, you’re just a degenerate
>>31133554maleYes, but I'm desperate
>>31133554FYes. I hate shaving so i do not do any of that myself so it would be hypocritical.
>>31133554FYes
>>31133554Yes
>>31133554Shaving our hair is literally removing our connections to nature and god and one of the reasons modernity is killing our souls
>>31133533They try to hurt us but don’t realize they are doing it wrong
>>31133561Holy based and true.
>>31133554MI used to sleep with a girl that didn't shave her legs and I think I'd have to pass
>>31133554I'm not into bestiality so I don't fuck things with fur.
>>31133554MaleNoI shave under my arms and keep my pubes and legs trimmed as I find body hair repulsiveAs Shrek 2 teaches us, sometimes you have to change for the people you love and if you’re unwilling to do that then maybe your love isn’t as strong as you think it is
>>31133564IM ALWAYS RIGHT
>>31133533What’s the code anons, I know atleast one of you has to know
>>31133554MaleAssuming she had normal female-pattern body hair (no wacky stuff like unovrows, beards, back hair, etc.), sure. If she shares my values, then she wouldn’t be doing it as a political statement, which is why I otherwise treat it as a red flag.
>>31133552idk manWhen I watched Mayli's facial abuse videos the thing that made it enjoyable for me was how much she clearly loved doing it in the moment. I can't watch porn if the girl isn't happy.
Women what makes a man "cute"?
>>31133554Not shaving is fine but they have to trim. Don't want to fish a 5 inch pube out my throat ever again
>>31133561This my excuse for having long hair as a guy, it’s a sensory organ
>>31133575Doing wholesome things.
>>31133554MCan I shave her myself?
What would you do with $4,000 in play money. Assume investments are already made and bills are paid off. 4k to spend on whatever. What would you buy?
>>31133575When hes just a little pookie bear
>>31133579It is not an excuse, it is very true.
>>31133554No. Modern hygiene as a standard is pretty low
>>31133583Put it in my mattress
>>31133583FGo on two vacations
>>31133583Probably go on vacation.
>>31133583go to the dentist
>>31133554>State gender>Would you date a person who never shaves anywhere. Assuming that they love you and both share similar values.Sure but can I ask them if they want help shaving?
>>31133556Probs an uggo one at that
>>31133590He said never shaves, not never bathes.
>matched with interesting looking but kinda fat girl on tinder last night>texted her for a lil bit then she disappears around 9>whatever>send her a good morning text today>still no reply hours laterYeah, I'm thinking it's over
>>31133600Wait till the evening. Likely she just goes on the dating apps when winding down before bed.
>>31133571>From 480 yen to 4990 yenHoly shit, what a price hike
>>31133583Fancy 3d printer.
>>31133581Looking for a bf who will pluck them out woth tweezers, how bout that?
>>31133581No >>31133577No>>31133595No
>>31133610if you are otherwise attractive and can handle the pain, I like long detail work like that
>>31133552Some do it for long money, others just want to see the world burn>>31133571Believe it or not there are these girls called prostitutes
>>31133610I used to pluck my pubes. Good times.
>>31133603Ah I thought this was jav, I’m disappointed
>>31133571>>31133603Huh, its actually not JAV. She's a voice actor Saori Goto. Seems like some kinda weird asmr thing
Is Ralph literally a Viking or is he speaking metaphorically?
>>31133615>otherwise attractiveDamn, the search continues
Men who say they don't mind unshaved women are probably virgins. Hairy legs are one of the few things I can't stomach, and I don't want to imagine how would it feel to kiss an hairy stach.
>>31133266>Why does nobody want meBecause u see only top 10% of man like a "man"
>>31133610I always wanted to adopt you for myself, neuro
>>31133604What can i do with it? Seems like i will use it 3 times
>>31133622Women's hair is very soft compared to men'sAre you sure you're not the virgin
>>31133622some hair is fine, its natural and reminds me that they're a woman and not a child. but yeah, if they get those wispy face hair things and don't take care of it I'm out
>>31133611>NoIn that case, no thanks, I don't have many actual turn-offs but hairy legs register as male to me
>>31133622Well i am a virgin, but hairy legs don't affect me at all. I may or may not have a tiny crush on one of my female friends, and i've seen her with unshaven legs lol. Armpit hair on the other hand is pretty gross.
All night, play me like a video all nightRide you like a stallion, so niceSippin' on Bacardi all night, oohAll night, we can go, we can go all nightFiddle my body 'til moonlightSippin' on Bacardi all nightFeels like I've been gettin' anointedEver since the day that I met youBless me if I'm bein' too forwardI'm just never tryna forget youI feel you, and I think you know itDon't care if the time or the mood's rightWe've gotta get it on You wanna whisk me to the stars, yeah, without no warningI never liked to, but I guess I will for you (you, you, you)You resurrect my body six o'clock in the morning Want you to pick me like a flower that's in your garden
>>31133600
>>31133628If you learn to do your own modeling you can make a lot of stuff. If you're willing to do additional assembly work you can make even more.
>>31133622Idk, pic rel is as hairy as my legs get if i do not shave them at all. If you can not stomach that then maybe you are the problem.
>>31133619Wait no, im wrong. Its literally an album lmao
I want to lightly run the tips of my fingers on the back of a woman's neck and give them goosebumps
>>31133638mine too. but if men find them so nasty maybe i'll shave
>>31133644Same, but with the tip of my dick heh
>>31133646Nah, i rather just only date men that are not that weird about bodies.
I like when older ladies call me “hun” This has happened twice in the past 24 hours.Is it indicative of mommy issues?
>>31133650I'm having a hard time dating so maybe I have to get less picky. shaving seems like an easy thing to change
>>31133651I love how the internet has convinced people they have mommy/daddy issues just for liking affection lol
>>31133651You get a half chub baby boy?
>>31133650What is weird about not liking excessively hairy women?
>>31133654If a man only dates you because you started shaving your legs then that seems like a rather unstable relationship. But i mean, you can try. You can always just let it grow back again if you change your mind.
>>31133634So I did am experiment where I left hair on the left armpit and relived it all from the right. There really wasnt much difference in sweatiness/smell
>>31133658There is no such thing as excessively because whatever body hair a womans body naturally grows is the right amount for her body. You saying that her bodies naturally state is unacceptable and disgusting is pretty weird to be honest.
>>31133656True >>31133657Yes ma’am
>>31133664For the sake of my own sanity, I'm just gonna assume this is bait
Woman cry foul about shaving but never have to deal with balls baka
>>31133662Huh, i never thought about doing that. Now i want to try. But whenever i shave i feel like i smell more and worse.
>>31133646Idk, it only takes like 3 minutes of a shower to get like 90% of it
>>31133662Might be different for each person. Shaving my armpits absolutely reduces the smell. I'm a dude though
>>31133668Nobody asks you to shave your balls except gay men and then you kind of asked for being humiliated and inconvenienced.
>>31133669To be fair I am 1/4 asian so I am naturally less hairy and may have less stinky genes
>>31133650You are alone posting on a doomer board so maybe you shouldn't be so picky. Men go to the gym on a regular basis to take care of their bodies, so they expect the same of their gf. If you have a trashy body the only people who will date you are men with trashy bodies.
>>31133673Nta but women don't like shaved balls? I thought hairy balls would be more gross
>>31133667There is absolutely nothing baity about it. >>31133670Spoken like a man that has no idea how much effort goes into constantly smooth shaved legs.
>>31133664The absolute state of femcels itt
>>31133679You can trim a little bit if they are very hairy and have very long hairs but shaved? Ewww no. That just turns them into cacti.
>>31133678I would rather date a man with a natural body than one that has to force his body in unnatural ways on a daily basis just to look like a failed science experiment.
>>31133646Shave. Everyone takes care of their bodies, both men and women. Don't listen to bitter femcels.
>>31133682I have zero interest in men that do not agree.
Women, from the multiple questions regarding cleavage I have come to the conclusion that it is okay to look as long as we aren’t being weird about it and that you do notice when we look. I have to ask though, what about your pits? I can’t help myself.
>>31133687How is it bitter to want to only be around a man that appreciates my body without me altering it?
>>31133686>would rather date a man with a natural body than one that has to force his body in unnatural ways on a daily basis just to look like a failed science experiment.I don't think you know what you're asking for femanon...
>>31133511I like watching shitty christmas movies on my couch with a blanket onAlso despite the blatant consumerism, the christmas time just feels more magical, it's more comfy and everyone around just kinda accepts it
>>31133669>>31133672>>31133676Seems lile we need more data. How many atoga users are willing to have asymmetrical pits for science?
>>31133583two chicks at the same time
>>31133698FI've done it and noticed no difference
>>31133695Lol can you imagine being 60 and still having to deal with that bullshit, no thanks
>>31133686Good, most men aren't interested in dating you anyway
Women realise that men have to shave too right?
>>31133670I just hate the way it grows back>>31133687I am a bitter femcel lol
>>31133706Are you a virgin? What's to be bitter about?
>>31133696Still better than whatever the fuck this is.
>>31133708I am and I'm bitter that I'm alone
women: what would you think about your bf if he worked from home and actually did nothing most of the time?
>>31133698I will do it tomorrow.
>>31133709He looks artificial, gives me the heebies
>>31133475>>31133491So the girl that's saying she's asexual. Is she just too nervous to get into a relationship, never been impressed, or is she sneaking around for some reason?
>>31133711Well, not taking care of yourself won't help you with that
>>31133713>worked from home>did nothingUh, is he pretending to work and actually playing games?
I like hairy trad ladies
>>31133709I admit that this doesn't look great either, but no way in hell is it worse than >>31133696 lol
women, which ones of these do you think men should always shave?- pubic hair around the dick and balls- armpits- face>>31133713>>31133722assume his job is just not too demanding
>>31133720I take care of myself I just don't shave
I will never forgive middle school bitches for bullying me into shaving my light blonde hairs. I should have never touched them now they are dark and long
Women would you let your bf idly play with your pubes?
>>31133735CUTE YES
>>31133734they didn't make the color change, your age did
>>31133711join the club
>>31133741I disagree. I never shaved my thighs and they stayed the same but my shins changed
>>31133735no foid will ever say yes to this>>31133740moid hands
>>31133705No they do not.
>>31133729It would be nice if he could do small things like put on a load of laundry but as long as he pulls his weight in general I dont expect him to do much during work hours.
>>31133745that's cool you disagree with well understood biology. you're wrong
>>31133716Same>>31133728It actually does. >>31133729None of those. Trimming is fine but shaving is a
>>31133750Biology doesn't know what I know
>>31133745That is just how leg hair works anon… hormones change hair color. Shaving does not do that at all.
>>31133709Why does his forehead have a sharp point
>>31133755Probably a pimple.
Women its rainy rn. Why aren't you under my blankets with me drinking hot coco?
I don't get femcel'ism. like, women have an easier time having sex than men. femcels can literally offer themselves to some guys and they WILL fuck you, no matter how ugly, fat or annoying you are. like, literally, just ask a few guys you like.are they femcels because of entitlement?
>>31133760Meaningless sex is one of the most disgusting thing in the world.
>>31133729>pubic hair around the dick and ballsPubic hair is fine unless it gets too long. The problem genital hair, unless you don't care about oral sex.>armpitsNot ideal but not a big deal either.>faceDepends on your bone structure and the length of the beard. The "male feminist" beard isn't attractive at all.
>>31133753So hormones changed the parts of my legs that shaved but not the parts I didn't shave just by coincidence
>>31133760MYou have to meet one irl to really get it.>are they femcels because of entitlementThe opposite, they're extremely low self-esteem and think they aren't worthy of anything. If a guy asks her out, it must be a prank or out of pity and she'll start arguing with you about why you shouldn't date her and why she's unworthy of any compliments you or anyone else has given her.
>>31133763yet lots of people (I'd guess most) are having sex only for fun. how come?
>>31133760I'm a femcel because I want an unachievable true love not because I want randos to fuck me
>>31133767No, not coincidence but all humans have more, darker and coarser hair on their lower legs compared to their thighs regardless of wether they have ever shaved them or not. That is just the natural adult body hair pattern.
>>31133760I can probably get sex but not good or safe sex. Better use of energy to wank to witcher fanfiction
>>31133730I depends, if no one is seeing your hair the it's not a problem. Otherwise you yeah, you may be scaring possible suitors.
>>31133740i wanna do the comb thing with my fingers
>>31133771Lots of people are retarded?
>>31133773WHYYYY
>>31133779Idk ask evolution. Probably for insulation because there is less body fat in the lower legs in comparison.
>>31133775Probably
>>31133763I think it'd be nice to know there's at least one person who's sort of attracted to you
Women do you have one of these?
>>31133783Probably you should not listen to the advice of someone that calls people suitors.
>>31133782Why do men want me to be cold then. The rest of my leg looks clear
>>31133770>The opposite, they're extremely low self-esteem... many of these women get picked up by manipulators. how come femcels aren't?>>31133778>retardedlmao, have you tried looking at a mirror?
>>31133772You can have sex with a random person and find love
>>31133689BumpNo really if you catch me looking at your armpits is it over for me, is it recoverable
>>31133788Nta but why not?
>>31133784You can get the validation without the fucking. Just flirt a little. >>31133789
>>31133792Or I'll have sex with a random guy and he'll never speak to me again
>>31133717She's a normal woman with a low libido and high standards who has been taught by society that a relationship means satisfying her needs without obligation to your partner's.
>>31133789Because they want you to look like a prepubescent girl and they do not give a damn about how that is for you. >>31133796Because they see people as objects to be owned and obtained.
>>31133798There's always a chance of failing, however I've had sex with random women and fallen in love just for them not to speak with me again
>>31133797Swamp trolls like me can't flirt, it's just sexual harassment
>>31133785I want foids to know that picture gave me a serious desire to masturbate and I'm struggling to think of a single reason why I shouldn't
>>31133785Yeah
>>31133749It starts this way and spirals. My wife tries to get me to do a laundry list of things every day and is pissed when they aren't done.
>>31133801And was the sex worth it
>>31133803I wish i could show you. It can be very easy and lots of fun.
>>31133760Thats like saying incels should just get a prostitute.It's not really just about sex, it's about feeling undesired. If men will fuck anything then getting sex from them isn't exactly a self esteem boost
Thoughts on hetero men that shave their legs?
>>31133800>Because they see people as objects to be owned and obtained.That is a very strange assumption to make.
>>31133810hot
>>31133760Why do incels exist if they can fuck a whore?Those random men on tinder will fuck anyone they can. There is no chemistry or attraction involved, just sex. They also don't have the confidence or social skills to meet new people, just like incels. And finding someone who legit loves them is hard even for hot outgoing women.
>>31133792Not without fundamentally altering the meaning of love. People who do that have no sense of intimacy.
I love melons. I love melon season.Women, eat melons.
>>31133817>>31133824I always thought that celibate was about sex. guess my definition is wrong. google translate says>abstaining from marriage and sexual relations, typically for religious reasons.so yeah, anyone can get sex, but that's besides the point.
>>31133819Rather strange how it basically means applying for a business deal. No thanks.
>>31133760Incel problem>I am not worthy of a relationship in the modern worldFemcel problem>The modern world's relationships are not worthy of me
>>31133814Yes.>>31133828Not true. One girl had candles and pink lightning around the bed, plus nice music. People put effort into these things
>>31133832Don't incels just see women as sex objects though? All they talk about is sex, they dont give a fuck about a girl's personality
>>31133778Based
>>31133835They are both equally limiting and thus equally valid.
>>31132211My brother told me he wanted one once and it pissed me offBig no from me
>>31133836I just think I would kill myself If I had sex with a guy I liked and he never spoke to me again
>>31133840Many are but not all of them. There is also many, if sadly not more, men in relationships that have that mindset about women.
>>31133818Unless you’re a swimmer I don’t see why
>>31133842My intention was not to belittle either perspective but to state them simply. Incels have been found wanting by relationships and femcels have found relationships wanting
>>31133844People like sex anon.... The danger of that is pretty low
How can i stop being obsessed with the female body?
sex with randos isn't worth it. 90% of randos just starfish and you have to do way too much work and it doesn't even feel good and another 8% of randos try to do things but they're terrible at it.the only hope for a good time is like the 3rd through 10th time with the same one or so where they're learning and adapting and trying while they still have interest in making an effort
>>31133431Another explanation.People fuck a lot when they meet, with the original purpose of making babies.That would, pre 1965 have taken not more than about a year.
>>31132211Not if I have less than two kids.
>>31133853an onahole and some good porn is the enlightened way, eh?
>>31133850I guess I'm jsut not a sex person, I've never had the urge to have sex just to have sex. It's always been something I wanted to do with someone I was comfortable with only
>>31133840I'd guess most men are/feel like that until they find the one they want
From talking with men and women irl about relationships I got the conclusion that men are honest with themselves but not so much with their partners while women are honest with their partners but lie to themselves.
>33 yo career woman whose eggs are pruning up fast. Makes more than you. Spoils you. Drags you wherever her job takes her. Stubbornly refuses to have kids.>28 yo ex lesbian communist. Baby fever has set in but her job at starbucks isnt enough to raise a family. You must support her but her mental illness causes her to attack you for your perceived patriarchal role. Twists everything you say to frame you as sexist, racist, ableist and start arguments.>30 yo single mom. Has lots of exes and an onlyfans. She makes bank at the cost of her dignity. Perfectly willing to let you put a baby in her because her lack of long term planning has somehow never harmed her in the past.Men its time to settle down. Who do you pick?
>>31133860This will sound cringey but I always appreciated girls personalities from a young age and it makes me sad to see how many girls stop developing their personalities once their breasts grow in
>>31133854Exactly. And then they would part ways because one woman having multiple babies from the same man is not in the interest of genetic evolution. It would be much more beneficial if he then went on to have more babies with other women and she had more babies with other men to make as many genetic pairings as possible to broaden the spectrum, which increases the chance of optimal and rapid adaptation to a species changing environment.
>>31133863First one by far but none of them are my type.
>>31133863The most attractive here is option 1. But i kinda want kids...
>>31132256MaleYes, with two of my exes. Love that shit. Nothing beats washing soapy boobs and butts while getting your dick stroked gently by a girl you love.
>>31133852I felt this way before, but after premed I decided to double down and become an OB/GYN
>>31133863option one. I feel like this survey is rigged an dishonest, nobody in their right mind will pick option 2 and option 3 will only be picked by betas who think they can win the game by losing
>>31133852Interact with women and be genuinely interested in the person that is inside those body parts.
>Her breasts and areoles are growing~!Women why are you perfect
>>3113386330 yo single mom, put a baby in her, lock her down with marriage if she's a millionaire.
>>31132256Myes. My ex. was very nice
>>31133872Aaand this is why i would never go to a male OB/GYN
>>31133866I guess you are a good person. most of us kinda aren't, as >>31133862 says. I'm not bad either, but I think women are kind of retarded, even the smart ones.>>31133863first one I guess.
>>31133875But i already do...
>>31133813You could do them all and then tell her you have to work late because you spent 130 minutes on her list. See how she takes it
>>31133881Because he might post on 4chan?
>>31133867Nta but what a depressing worldview to have
>>31133881
>>31133884But then you should start to be more interested in the person inside the body parts than the parts themselves. Maybe you do not interact with girls that have a personality that captures you enough to catch your attention more than her boobs.
>>31133863Is death an option?
>>31133881But we have female nurses touching our balls and sticking fingers in our ass all the time
>>31133890Natural selection is not for the faint of heart.
>>31133881Can I trust a female proctologist?
>>31133867Makes sense if your environment is dynamic, but not in a static environment
>>31133892No no, i think you misunderstood. I like women as people too. They're great/ But im still obsessed with their bodies
>>31133897>proctologistWhy are you gay?
>>31133895Yeah but there is a 99% chance they will not masturbate to the thought of doing that later that day. Also, i doubt most men have to get that done once a year.
>>31133888Because of the predisposition
>>31133897I went to one
>>31133881There isn't always a choice. Mine is fine except he's like 80 so a bit hard of hearing. Very respectful, informed consent etc
>>31133898Our environment is constantly changing.
>>31133881What about a lesbian or a bi gyno?
>>31133896So you really think people arent meant to be monogamous huh? So like if I married my crush one day he or I would just lose interest in each other? Damn
>>31133883Nikola Tesla said this about women:>He once said in earlier years that he felt he could never be worthy enough for a woman, considering women superior in every way. His opinion had started to sway in later years when he felt that women were trying to outdo men and make themselves more dominant. This "new woman" was met with much indignation from Tesla, who felt that women were losing their femininity by trying to be in power. In an interview with the Galveston Daily News on 10 August 1924 he stated, "In place of the soft-voiced, a gentlewoman of my reverent worship, has come the woman who thinks that her chief success in life lies in making herself as much as possible like man—in dress, voice and actions, in sports and achievements of every kind ... The tendency of women to push aside man, supplanting the old spirit of cooperation with him in all the affairs of life, is very disappointing to me."Women aren't as smart or as powerful as men, but they're more likeable, they're softer, nicer, pleasant to be around, and should fill us with optimism. Girls are naturally like this as children, but after puberty they normally grow cynical because 90%+ of men treat them like walking vaginas. One function of marriage was to try and prevent this. Obviously a big portion of men will treat girls like shit no matter what, but I really like the ideal of spoiling girls and letting them live comfy lives, so they never become cynical or pessimistic like men and always have a positive take on things. I think this is how it used to be.
>>31133910No you don't get it. Men horny and evil!
do you people think a person that was bullied as a kid can be narcissistic?honestly, I hate thinking of myself as a narcissist and deny being one, but I love when women give me attention, particularly good looking ones and foreigners. oddly enough, I get more attention from them than from the local fatty mutt latam women...according to my mom, I'd try to get attention from random people ever since I was a kid, by signing songs loudly when walking down streets in the big city.but I suffered a lot in the town I live right now... and these fuckers destroyed my personality and self-esteem
>>31133908I am sure there is exceptions but i would always avoid it if at all possible.
>>31133867that's not how it worksif the first pairing works, then repeat pairings are also likely to work, which makes future successes less costly. also, there's genetic variety between siblings so it makes it very unlikely for one event to end everything
>>31133909Is it.
>>31133905A predilection, even
>>31133881Based
>>31133554Sure.It'll just cut down on the enthusiasm for oral though.
>>31133922A predestination, if you really think about it
>>31133917The fun thing about modernity is everything has a review site nowadays. So if you ever need one and the women are all booked up, see what the reviews say
>>31133891Considering gyns don't just see healthy women this is a good way to get oral thrush, or perhaps an STD :)
I can't stop watching that CYBERGIRLZ video one of you posted
I cant deal with chest acne and I have tried a bunch of stuff. Help. It ruins my pecs’ aesthetics
>>31133937Faith in Jesus Christ cured my chest acne.
Has anyone here had a ONS before? How was it?
Women who're in something casual or a situationship with guy often expect to get taken out on dates despite not wanting commitment or anything long-term in the future with said guy. He's just there to provide occasional sex and outings in a label-less relationship that can end on a whim at the drop of a dime once she finds someone better or someone she's more interested in.So why am I considered an asshole for not wanting to go on dates with fuck buddies?
>>31133944Why don’t you hang out with her family and pitch in groceries (cooking saves on $)
>>31133937Salicylic acid body wash, serum, and wear a clean t shirt to bed every night, only wear cotton or wool, shower after sweating
>>31133937put some bleach in ya bathwater
>>31133912I do not think that it is in our animalistic nature to live like that, no. But i also think that we have consciousness and a desire to further our humanity which leads us away from instinct and towards civilization. There is monogamous animals and ofc it has its benefits. Mainly in focusing on the quality of how you can raise that offspring. I would argue that once a society goes over to value quality of their offspring over quantity is when monogamy starts to make sense. But since that is a process that is not happening for all people at the same time and is more about communities/families there will always be social circles in which monogamy is the natural state of relationships and ones where it is not. I would say that it might be likely that the higher class a social circle is the more monogamy makes sense since there people can focus a lot of resources on promote and support their kids and there is also high expectations on carrying on the legacy of the family on them. In lower classes it is more of a cattle breeding system where it is about pumping out as many uniform wage slaves with no personality of their own and no well established intellect, so monogamy would actually be counterproductive because it would have the tendency to lead to adults that feel like they are worth the loving and supportive attention of both a mother and a father and so they also will want to be treated with dignity and respect by an employer, which causes big issues. I think this is part of why as a society we are where we are right now. We have made the high class way the morally right way (which it would be if we see every life as worthy of respect and dignity) forced it on the cattle class by shaming non monogamy and now we have the problem tjaz the class that was supposed to breed the next generation of canon fodder has instead produced a generation of a whole hoard of young adults that demand fair pay, a healthy relationship and dignified housing.
why are there women who cozy up to gays and keep them as friends?
>>31133954clout
>>31133943I haven't but from what my friends have said they mostly involved alcohol so there was a chance if whiskey dick, puking, passing out partway and occasionally loss of bladder/anus control
>>31133954Nonthreatning males
Women is Mario or Luigi more attractive?
Cooking is such an intimate part of the relationship since you get to create together
>>31133961Luigi
>>31133960how are gays not threatening? its not like homosxual men cant molest women
>>31133961Luigi, he's taller/thinner and I wouldn't be homewrecking a princess
>>31133965God damn even in the mushroom kingdom manlets cant get any pussyits beyond over
>>31133966They can but they don't want to
>>31133963Very true. Cooking is alchemy and it is magic. You are literally making life extension and health increasing potions.
>>31133968Luigi has Daisy, you Jezebel!
>>31133943I did it once with an ex-friend, don't know if that counts as ONS. It wasn't worth it. The sex itself wasn't bad but I felt kind of used by him.
I can't catch a break today>on phone with client>supervisor walks down hallway yelling for us to go to break room >pesters me to hurry up>probably sound retarded to the client>finally get off the phone>walk into break room >everyone is on picture pose waiting for me>one of the old ladies makes a comment about my face turning red because of surprise>get served snacks>see qt coworker smelling cookie>ask her if it smells good>she gives me a sassy "well maybe I'm weird but I like to sniff things before putting them in my mouth!">reply "I don't think that's THAT weird">suddenly a couple of the office hags burst out laughing >I didn't really register what was going on>go back to office>qt friend comes by>says they really embarrassed her and that their minds were in the gutter>still takes me a second to figure out what she's talking about >she gives me this expectant look then takes offWomen.
>>31133966Some often do, either cos they're not actually 100% homo or because they think "it doesn't mean qnything" means they can honk some tits for a laugh
>>31133969How tall are you
>>31133953What do you think should be done then?also at the end of the day I don't care about any outside stuff and I can give or take kids, I just want my crush, forever and ever.. T_T
>>31133961women would pick bowser if they could, but you're lucky if you find one that would admit it
>>31133978Mario's height is 5'1" or 155 cm
>>31133976I need an office job so bad. How did you get so lucky
>>31133978167cm
>>31133984I don't think you heard me. How tall are YOU
>>31133981I guess your best bet then is to try and cultivate your civilized side as much as you possibly can.
>>31133990We're talking about the mushroom kingdom dumbass
>>31133977what? a guy can be 100% homo and still rape and assault a woman. why are women so protective of gays and fetishize the gays for?
Should I move to Switzerland or Lichtenstein ?
>>31133982Nah, Im not /that/ into bondage and he's a fat ginger
>>31133994I mean, you have to live in lichtenstein for 30 years before you can apply for citizenship and then you have to give up your other citizenships. That sounds a bit extreme to me.
>>31133993All I'm saying is a "gay" guy tried to get me to sit on his lap then came out as bi within the year
>>31133987>167cmIm taller than you but you are taller than most women>>31133992Not me faggot
>>31133991Yeah.. I was being kind of lighthearted at first here but I'm genuinely feeling a bit down now, I've never felt such a feeling from a guy before, I know he's my perfect match..my angel lol haha..
>>31133992>mushroom kingdomIs that a gay club?
>>31133985Both accounting-adjacent jobs I've had have been full of women. I didn't even have the right degree for this shit either, I'm just proficient with Excel.
>>31133976So did you actually reply or just stare at her like a deer in the headlights until she walked off?
Femanons describe your nipples
>>31134011No
>>31134011Turgid
>>31134003I feel like humans have to make the decisions between going back to monke and ascending further into civilization in every moment. They lead to different destinations and both have their pros and their cons. I think if not being able to have a lifelong partnership breaks your heart then it is pretty obvious in what direction your soul wants you to go. So just start to chose civilized whenever you have to decide and it should lead you where you want to go. So, instead of eating chips out of the bag in bed, get up and cook a healthy and aesthetically pleasing dinner and then eat it at the table. Little decisions slowly accumulate and lead you to where you want to go. Good luck and i hope it works out well for you.
>>31134007I am a woman and not proficient do you think I could convince them to hire me. As long as there is one boy there I'd be fine
>>31133840Cute girls deserve sex. Nice personality girls do too.idk, kinda love personality
>>31134011Pass
>>31134009I didn't know how to reply so I'm sure I just said "oh yeah haha" which is why she took off. I'm sure she's more worried about being made fun of by other women than she is about the retarded office dork.
>>31134000are all bisexuals this rapey?
>>31134015there isn't a foid in the world who would have the same insight
>>31134016>As long as there is one boy there I'd be fineHuh? Why?
>>31134025Wdym?
>>31134026I'd socialize with him
>>31134029Have fun being known as the new office hoe
>>31134024I have made out with three very gay men in my life, so i think gayness can be rathe situational.
>>31133863Nothing wrong with the first one except you have to constantly move around. Ruins your social life.Second is bad because she always argues and calls you names.Third is fine except for the potential that she only wants you to have a family, which means she doesnt like you for you. If it were assured this werent the case, this aint bad. Dunno anything about the child tho.
Women:Have you ever had sex with a man who was drunk while you were not?
>>31134032I'd be employed and people would think I'm sociable. Thats a win in my books
>>31134037No
>>31133863The first is the only one who seems to actually like me, so her
>>31134023Either she wanted you to be like "yeah, that was awkward" and back her up that they suck, or it gave her ideas. Probably the first one
>>31133916male version of a "pick me" girl. Find ur own self worth
>>31133891Why is this hot? Am I becoming degenerate?
>>31134048Too late for you. Close your eyes, it will be over soon.
>>31133975shouldve used him too
>let people accumulate a dept of small to moderate infractions towards me >let them get away with blaming me for them>actually have all the receipts and use them to get away from a real stinker down the line by showing a pattern of them scapegoating me in the pastDone it several times and people dont think anything of it until it happens to them. Should I stop doing it or am I morally in the right?
I wish cute single virgin girls were real
>>31134015That actually sounds like fitting advice for me lolAnd thank you anon, I appreciate it..
>>31134056Idk if I'm cute but i am most definitely single and a virgin
>>31134056My mom thinks they are and keeps calling me to remind me to find one.
>>31134057Just go at your own pace. Trying to be civilized always can overwhelm the system, lead to burnout and then achieve the opposite. You got this :)
>>31134038>people would think I'm sociableWhy do you want that
I wish sexy single slutty girls were real
>>31134056There's lots of things out there that are more real than you think, anon.. *X-Files theme starts up..*
>>31134063Uhm… hi!
I wish girls were real
>>31134075Boo
I wish soulmates were real
>>31134056In the post-modern age, the female has disappeared. All that's left are traces and images. We are all trannies now.
I wish I was real
I wish magic was real.
>>31134066I'm literally brushing tears away here, just crybaby things, amiright? Solid advice, thanks anon..
I wish Stands were real
>>31134065I just ignore my bitch mother when she texts me.
I wish The Winds of Winter was real and coming out this year
I wish kayfabe was real.
>>31134063Age and weight? :3
>>31134091My mom is great. Love me dad, too.
>>31134088>sometimes hopes and dreams sneak out of my eyes and roll down my cheeks <3
>>31134070To make friends
>>31134074hi>>3113409824 .. 110
>>31134097it's time to let go, CornyThe business has changed
>>31134104Yes..=)
I wish anime was real
>>31134109confirmed cute
>>31134112No Goddammit, you can't say that to me!!!
>>31133760>and they WILL fuck you,Mistaken understanding about what a femcel is anon...Femcels are not, involuntarily celibate. Most of them are not celibate at all. So femcelism has nothing to do with the word celibacy. Yes, I know... Woman thing...Femcels can't get what they want though, which is a stable fulfilling and wholesome relationship with a man. They get pumped and dumped, they get abused and they blame men for this.
>>31134118Based on what
>>31134109>24>female>virgin??
>>31134109But why are you single and why is your flower untouched?
>>31134126I had a friend who was a virgin til 25, and another who waited until her wedding when she was 23.It's not that uncommon.
>>31134109If I knew you IRL Id ask you out for coffee (unironically)
>>31134106And you're going to use a poor male co-worker to do that?
Do women like male smiles as much as we like their smiles?
>>31134124>young woman>not obeseAssuming you're not a heroin addict or something, you're pretty
>>31134126Whats not clicking>>31134130Because im crazy im insane >>31134133Thanks
>>31134140Yes, a genuine smile is very cute and a genuine laugh is very hot. Forced smiles however…
>>31134140Yes
>>31134141male standards at an all time low
>>31134140This woman I work with wrote on a note that my smile brightens her day. I think she might have been being manipulative though
tfw i'm a cute single virgin guy
>>31134137Yes
>>31134142How are you crazy? How are you insane?
>>31134145As a butterface, I can adsure you that irl men still have standards
>>3113414560% of young men are single, we cant be choosers
>>31134147Only male fags would ever like a body like this. Women who like this kind of thing have shit taste.
>>31134141You have never met ugly skinny girls? If she's on 4chan as a female, I have doubts about her prettyness.
>>31134147WHATS UR NUMBER!
women do you like when the pp head is kinda shiny?
Women, how wet would you be if you saw a man with an Amex black card?
tfw I'm a hideous single virgin guy
>>31133772>true love>>31133774>witcherngmi
>>31134159My phone is off, bill is too expensive
>>31134150Unethical. What if he falls in love with you?
I dont even know what I am. My identity is completely malleable based in who I interact withAt home I just doomscroll and shitpostI have no real personality
>>31134158>You have never met ugly skinny girls?NoWell, yes, I guess, but I found them attractive anyway.Frankly, I like odd looking skinny girls more than Stacies, but that's just me.
>>31134156amen >>31134153rip
>>31133789I think the thing most guys dislike is getting leg stubble rubbed up against them.Kind of a turn off. Honestly better to leave them unshaven than stubble.
>>31134164Eskel is twice the man you'll ever be
>>31134153Would you say this is a butterface girl?
>>31134168Then I marry him :3
Women do you plan on race mixing to make a child with different hair or skin than you?Do you prefer BWC or BBC
state gender, what sex acts do you think are immoral and wrong?
Ah another lonely friday night. State genderWhat are you doing this evening?
>>31134141>you're prettyYou're funny>>31134152I'm nuts>>31134167Turn it on for me
>>31134184MYour mom
>>31134184FI am already laying in bed and i will probably just be on my phone until i am tired enough to fall asleep.
>>31134179Aaaawww!
>>31134184FDrinking
>>31134094Ugh don't talk about it>>31134140Of course>>31134160Ye>>31134162I get the feeling I'm too poor to understand what this is>>31134170>I like odd looking skinny girlsThank you for your service>>31134184It's Friday?
>>31134178I'm not going to be mean about other women's look, glass houses and all
>>31134184FNOOOOTHINGG!!!!!!
>>31133836Candles? Who cares? I’m talking about the nature of your relationships. Superficial and disposable. It’s disgusting.
>>31134184Mreading about bisexuals
>>31134028Foids would never be so introspective. Therefore, they will always default to going back to monke. Unfortunately, lifelong partnership requires a member of each sex, not just him. Men can work all their life towards being civilized, but at the end of the day, there's no partner for you there, just an animal in your bed.
>>31134186Nah no one uses text in 2024 thats boomer stuff
>>31134186I'm nuts, baby, I'm madThe craziest friend that you've ever hadYou think I'm psycho, you think I'm goneTell the psychiatrist something is wrongOver the bend, entirely bonkersYou like me best when I'm off my rockerTell you a secret, I'm not alarmedSo what if I'm crazy? The best people areAll the best people are crazyAll the best people are
>>31134184MI ate pizza for the first time in 3 months I feel like I am gonna burstIt was delicious though. Gonna shitpost and go to bed.
>>31134192nta but thats wild
>>31134188>I am already laying in bed and i will probably just be on my phone until i am tired enough to fall asleep.Cuddling with your bf?>>31134190>DrinkingAlone?>>31134191>It's Friday?It's 2024?>>31134193>NOOOOTHINGG!!!!!!LIIIIIAAAR!!!!!!>>31134198Only reading about them?
>>31134170I can't settle for an ugly practice girl anymore. I deserve to be with a cute girl at least once before I die. If some of the guys I've seen pulled hotties, there must be a way for me too. God must help me fulfill it.
>>31134200Don't piss me off>>31134201melanie....
>>31134184MMy sense of time is shattered beyond repair, days blur into one another. I have no plans
>>31133840Some might.Most have horrible self image and put women on massive pedestals, which destroys their self confidence further.Then they blame women for their own inadequacy, just the same way femcels blame men. Both groups are entirely self absorbed and fail to understand that you have to give to get.
>>31134209>Only reading about them?Yeah, why? I got nothing else to do and I'm tired of reading about trannies (nonfiction of course).
>>31134214I'm close to leveling up and you look like just enough XP
>>31134209Alone, I'm sad
>6’1 girl with kinda crooked nose and bad posture in the office>always walks around like she is anxious >be nice to her and ask her about her day twice>she is now super sweet and relaxed and a joy to be aroundBe nice to people :)
>>31134181FAnything involving children, animals or relatives, Bdsm, cnc- anything rough and violent really, anything with waste material, anal and fisting
>>31134212Post the ugliest girl you would get with
>>31133852castration.
>>31134181MWhen the woman gives head but doesnt kiss it
>>31134209>LIIIIIAAAR!!!!!!WHY WOULD I LIE. GIVE ME ONE GOOD REASON WHY I WOULD FOOKIN LIE
>>31134199I am a foid. But yeah, you have a point. What if we need those polarities to keep balance? Because overcivilization is not ideal either. It leads to stagnant and lifeless, soulless societies where everything goes smooth but there is no spark to be felt anymore. And if you go back to monke too much then it becomes total chaos and anarchy. Neither is ideal. What if we need both to keep each other in check so we do not get too chaotic or too autistic? Some order, but also some soul.
>>31134224You had me in the first half
>>31134226
>>31134180Yes I want to make more green-eyed ginger babies with my crush
>>31134184Mpost on 4chan
>>31134209>Cuddling with your bf?Uh, no
MPeople invite me to drinking/parties and often call me hot but I turn them down because the party life never seemed appealing and the people seem fakeYou think it's worth taking them up on it? Is it really that great?
>>31134235This is my thirteenth reason. Bye
>>31134235Nta what a pretty mirror
>>31134240>Is it really that great?No but you have to keep up appearances in this clown world.>You think it's worth taking them up on it?Yeah, kinda
>>31134240That whole "normies are fake" is something they sold us during the 2000sThey aren't being "fake", they are genuine hedonistsIf you think you'd enjoy it, go for it
>>31134214I'm peeling the skin off my face'Cause I really hate being safeThe normals, they make me afraidThe crazies, they make me feel saneAh yes, good times :)
>>31134240FIt's worth it to go a few times but then I stopped going because it got old quick
>>31134234Are you OP?
>>31134226Why? And are you asking for the ugliest girl I would fuck or the ugliest girl I would be in a relationship with? Because I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone ugly.
>>31134248Would cry ot pity party as a 12 year old lol
>>31134247Real. Don’t think they’ve ever been alone w their thoughts. All they do is do
>>31134247Honestly the easy drugs and sex may be worth itIf you're just getting wasted it seems like a shitty time
>>31134252Nah
Just met a black guy named Chad, lmao.Cool dude
>>31134255Your heart's too big for your bodyIt's why you won't fit insideYou pour it outWhere everyone can seeHey, crying is cathartic
>>31134181MaleSex outside of marriage.Sex that is intrinsically degrading and/or unhygienic (sodomy, bdsm, etc.)And the marriage has to be legitimate. Incest, pedophilia, faggotry, and forced marriages, among others, are not legitimate marriages.Lastly, sex should be private. Nobody but the couple should be made aware of it.
>>31134231NTA, cuuuute! I'll remember this whenever I finally have sex =)
>>31134264its so over
>>31134267I really don't understand you no sex out of marriage people. Why do you believe this?
>>31134268It fills my heart with love when it happens and when it doesn't I feel like an empty husk
Pretty funny to imagine there could be a white guy out there named Chad Black
>>31134200small girl ask for a guys number online and he says no, lol.
State GenderWhen couples say "We've been trying for a baby" Thoughts?
>>31134285If you want it so bad i'll give you my discord sheesh
>>31134281
>>31134274NTA, come on, it's not hard to understand..
>>31134291Holy fuck
>>31134289FDONT CARE DIDNT ASK!
>>31134233>I am a foid.Doubt, and here's why. If you were a foid, and you thought like that, why is it that you can only be found here and not anywhere else in the world?
>>31134289He should get a paternity test if she somehow ever does get pregnant
>>31134291it's him... our savior
>>31134278Absolutely adorable, I'll remember to give many kissies
>>31134289M-yay, not all hope is lost. -Also a million other thoughts
>>31134298Tell me you want kids but haven't had any without telling me
A cute girl doesn't wonder if she's cute, she knows. Therefore, the 110 pound girl is ugly.
>>31134289Thanks for telling us youve just been nutting raw for weeks, I guess
>>31134310No guy, girls like it when guys reassure them of their positive traits. It's like, they're giving you a chance to flirt with them. Always a positive, actaully
>>31134310Dont talk like this about my girlfriend, bucko
>>31133867>And then they would part waysNo... because if they did that, both the mother and child would die over the winter and neither the man's nor woman's genes would propagate.Instead, what happens is males become fixated on the mothers of their offspring and essentially give them everything they demand aka "love". For the first couple of years, about the time it would take an infant to become mobile.This is the "honeymoon period" and it usually lasts about 2 years, maybe 3.If you look, you'll find that lots of relationships only last for the 2-3 years that these pairbonding hormones ("true love") are active. However today, these are usually unproductive pairings after which, yes the couple usually splits up (about 95% by year 3)If there is a child though, the likelihood of splitting up at 3 years is much lower. Instead the next peak in breakups is closer to 7 - 8 years.We like to believe we're consciously in control of our behaviour, but much of it is driven by deep biological processes which override the conscious mind. Then we rationalise what we "decided".
>>31134291>he works where I went to college Holy fuck holy fuck holy fuck hilduycifuck
>>31134319casually doxxing yourself like that....
Do women pee from where you put your penis in them
What do women do after they coom? for me, i immediately go listen to sad music
>>31134320Come kill me big boy
>>31134314Yeah, only as a pic caption because they know they're cute. Doing that anonymously is worthless.
Why are dates like job interviews now?
>>31134329They arent (Job interviews are easier)
>>31134300Maybe because i keep these thoughts to myself irl.
>>31133863fuuuuukkkkkThe ex lesbo commie.no other guys kidswants kidsunder 30will bitch at me, but what's new?Maybe we can arrange a 3some with one of her exes.
>>31134015Actually great advice. Its the same about being a moral person - make small decisions that show kindness and care for others instead of selfishness and step by step you will accumulate a character. Sometimes we fuck up but whats important is persisting.
>>31134308LOL Are you talking to me or the fictional couple
Femanons, how often does you bf tie you up?Do you wish he would do it more?
>>31134310I already said I'm ugly bro
>>31134346Everytime there's a full moon and I have to be restrained before I transform into my wolf self.
>>31133863Is the communist not just regular femanons?
Women if you actually loved a guy and was confident you could trust him, would you move to another country for him?
>>31134317>My parents got divorced right at the 7-8 year mark>I get sick of people after 3 years or lessHe might be on to something guys
>>31134329It's worse.Women have the same attitude as employers.>What can you offer me. >How much have you spent on yourself to be worthy of working for me.>It doesn't matter how badly I need this positioned to be filled, my expectation is that you've already exceeded qualification for this position. >I offer no job training. I will expend nothing to turn you into a good employee for us.and finally>We won't discuss pay until I'm satisfied that you'd be a worthwhile employee. Also the pay is always minimum wage (aka the minimum amount of sex for your commitment)>You're paying for everything btw
>>31134274It’s the opposite. From almost any angle, waiting until marriage is objectively better than not waiting. The only reasons I can think of to avoid waiting are if someone is deathly afraid of their spouse being deformed/dysfunctional, or if they intrinsically value immediate gratification above anything else. So unless someone has a clinical phobia of sexual problems or an irrepressibly high sex drive, there’s no good reason not to wait.If they value a long lasting marriage? Waiting is better, even controlling for religion.If they value a happy marriage? Same story.Even if they value sexual satisfaction, waiting is better.And there no contest whatsoever when it comes to monogamy. Waiting is by far the best and most consistent way to ensure intimacy is truly exclusive, not just in space but over time. To make sure your first partner is your last, you only get intimate after committing to be each others’ last.
Women what is your go to lipstick color?
>>31133863The lesbo commie is like... the default in my experience
>>31134321Different hole, but it's in the penis hole sort of.>>31134322wash my hands>>31134355I can't imagine the scenario well enough to say
>>31134317I agree. I went with one year for the sake of the argument because anon claimed that was when the female sex drive takes a dive. I also think it is more around three years because that is when a toddler starts to become a small child. I can imagine that if there is no baby the phase might be shorter since the body thinks there is infertility and the pairing is a dead end. It does not understand birth control. I also think this is why most sibling age gaps are around two years. It is like renewing the bonding. But yeah, in the end i think that this dynamic is more pronounced the less, idk what the right word would really be but maybe conscious the people involved are. So i think it is easy to dismiss this or see it as a rule set in stone based on personal experience and observations but the truth is that it is the default setting that makes sense biologically but we do have the capacity to overcome that animal behavior but forcing it on someone tjat is not conscious enough to not follow that pattern on their own will always lead to lots of issues, rebellion and resentment because you ask too much of the person, you demand of them to act more evolved than they are. Like trying to teach a monkey grammar.
>>31134355Literally neuro
>>31134360L'avenue by Merit mixed with a clear gloss
>>31134360A slightly pinker/darker nude than my actual lips
>>31134321Yes. You can tell if a woman is a virgin when pee comes out like a sprinkler
>>31134359I feel like dating should ideally be more like marriage. Problem with religious folks is they idolize permanant long term relationships which is just uncomfortable. Who wants to chain themselves to a person forever? Especially in today's fucked up world.
JUST APPLIED FOR A DREAM JOB https://youtu.be/-dVEsuqBpC4?feature=shared
Reminder that these are your peak years and you're wasting them away in front of a screen.
>>31133539I am from a diff race whose parents immigrated to the US and the identity crisis is strong. My parents are so much to handle, I can’t even imagine how that will affect the stability of a potential connection. They got worse over the last few years too because lockdown made them needier. I’ve since put communications w them on ice but now I’m without family. Why immigrate at all if you’re not going to assimilate and expect your kids to not be influenced by their surroundings similar to how they became the messes they are and pressure us to carry on the characteristics of said culture which made it a priority for them to jump ship in the first place. I don’t think it’s productive to hate anybody but I rly don’t like my parents. They will likely always be a pain point for me
>>31133863I will stay single, but the first one isn’t completely detestable
>>31134341Very true. And i think morality and kindness are part of being civilized. So making those choices will lead into that direction too. The same goes for cleanliness and many other aspects that ultimately make up a civilized and finished person.
Women keep breaking my heart. What do?
>>31134373NTA, but try not having such a pessimistic outlook, anon..
>>31134375I'm waiting for paint to dry
>>31134374https://youtu.be/J9gKyRmic20?si=QVcjqkYUDlGzyGkO
>>31134375okay. and what do you want me to do about that. also im going to be one of those grandmas throwing it back in cancun just you wait
>>31134355Depends on the country.
>>31134389i sat my white ass down and listened
When girls kiss guys with lipstick, does the lipstick not rub off on the guy's lips?
>>311343854chan has a near total lack of nice positive boards. Its all negativity here. The sole exception is s4s which is just a mess lets face it. How do I not be so negative? atoga has made me more pessimistic about relationships than anything else. I will devote myself to celibacy,
>>31134395It does
>>31134373Marriage is voluntary. If you see commitment as ‘chaining yourself down’, then don’t do it. That’s your absolute right.But you can’t have it both ways: you can’t claim to value commitment as much if you think staying loyal for life is oppressive.
>>31134141basically this.
>>31134393One time, many years ago, I played Hold The Line by Toto and I asked my friend if he had ever heard it before and he said “bro, I’m white.”
>>31134184MPlay videogames -> Practice Mindgasm -> Go to sleep because I'm working tomorrow
>>31134405What if I have a religious only marriage that's not a civil marriage? That way I don't have to register or get a house or feel tied down and suffocated. Long term exclusive monogamy is best but legal marriage scares me. All my friends are now married. It feels weird.
Your bf/gf wants to take you out: what is the perfect date?
>>31134397This is sad..
>>31134174>EskelOnly in your head.
>>31134399How do you get it off?
>>31134413I am in no state to go in public. Can we stay home and make some food together instead?
>>31134413Playing vidya with me and then sex
>>31134390My post was more aimed at guys. You females are only wasting time by choice.
Give me one reason why I shouldnt just jerk off and play vidya after work
>>31134181Anything non consensual.
>>31134427Hold the vision, trust the process.
>>31134413We roleplay Species where she's a crazed alien female hybrid who's trying to mate with me
>>31134413
>>31134184MFixing the bed.
>>31134412If breaking the marriage has no consequences, then you're missing the point of marriage.I could understand it in a religious community that wanted to keep its affairs as far from the government as possible, because those communities don't take kindly to people breaking their vows. They have a means to impose consequences without relying on the state.But if the express purpose of not having a legal marriage is just to avoid potential consequences for doing wrong, to avoid the obligation of loyalty? That's not a marriage at all. You don't have to get married. Just don't call whatever arrangement you prefer identical to marriage, because it isn't the same.
>>31134212>I deservemeh
>>31134417You wash it
>>31134413Staying inside and playing with guinea pigs
>>31134289mmaking babies is easy. why is it so hard for you
>>31134444>le nobody deserves anythingYou should be dead.
>>31134458You should be dad.
>>31134413Morning sex after everyone's brushed their teeth and peed, hike to something neat, late lunch/early dinner of Chinese or Mexican, end day with mid sci fi or horror movie.
>>31134443Can you personalize vows? Like making specific promises to each other. Like I said, long term stable monogamy feels best but the idea of legal divorce scares me. What's good about dating is people can break up without going through divorce hell and relationships are easier to establish even if they are way more unstable because there is zero loyalty. Also, if your a no sex before marriage guy, how do you meet a woman to marry? Do you have it arranged or do you nosex date? And avoding sex/waiting for marriage practically makes you undatable these days.
>>31134413Hiking to a nice sunny spot on a top of the nearby hill for a picnic and to enjoy the views, then descending to the nearby spa to relax a bit
>>31134423If I went out I'd still be ignored might as well stay at home and be left alone
>>31134413We go shopping/thrifting and I pick out an outfit for them which is on me. Then I show them how to do their nails and I give them an updo. I pick out my outfit and we chat while my curated playlist plays in the bg. We then go to a local live show which is on them. Am I looking for a codependent yes
Do smug girls exist irl?
>>31134413We go to a hockey game, get some food, and laugh our assess off in the car while making up silly stories about people we see in the parking lot.>>31134360I don't really wear make up much. I have a blush by Milk, I use it on my lips sometimes. Color is called "Werk".
>>31131912>unironically considered spending money on a gacha game because I want this character really bad and I’m stressing out about it Should I get professional help or something
>>31134355Only after marriage, but yes.>>31134329You're old lol
>>31134480There is no help for you to be had. Accept your slow decline.
How do I convince a girl I want to bang that I'm looking for long term (not)
>>31134329>now
State gender,what's a good way to release sexual tension that isn't sex?I'm too insecure about my dick size to actually bring a girl back to my place, but I don't want to make girls feel bad by saying I'm not interested and make them think they're ugly or something.
>>31134482I fucking hate short haired women in suits they’re ruining my life I’m actually trying to learn the mechanics to grind for rolls and pulling out a calculator to see if it’s possible for me to do it
>>31134465>Can you personalize vows? Legally speaking, not to my knowledge (with minor exceptions depending on the jurisdiction). Morally, I'd say yes, but only in one direction. Vows that add responsibilities are generally okay. Vows that remove responsibility aren't. I'm not telling you what to do, dude. If you're antsy about marriage, just don't get married. I don't control your life.>What's good about dating is people can break up without going through divorce hell Well, yes, that's why I say I'm waiting until marriage. Dating is what I do while waiting. If I don't want to spend my life with the woman I'm dating, or she feels that about me, we can break up and repeat the process while saving ourselves for the person we do want to commit to.>Do you have it arranged or do you nosex date?The latter. I don't approve of arranged marriages.>And avoding sex/waiting for marriage practically makes you undatable these days.Not really, and the only people who do consider it a dealbreaker, I also consider incompatible. We can both recognize that incompatibility a lot faster if I wait than if I hide my beliefs out of desperation.
>>31134184>What are you doing this evening?F. Finishing up some work, watching the playoffs, eating ice cream.
>>31134490Depends. What do you think constitutes sex? Does oral count? Is it anything lewd? If your conservative and say only anal and vaginal intercourse is sex then you can just do oral, outercourse, mutual masturbation etc. but not wanting to show your dick limits your options. If your insecure about your penis size just realize most people are and your probably more average sized than you think. If you do have a small penis then just study sex positions and techniques that give dicklets an advantage e.g. anal from behind.
Can I eat this pasta from saturday it looks fine
>>31134413If the date can span multiple days then rent out a lakeside cabin in a beautiful remote location with lots of nature and have hot, sweaty, passionate sex with breaks in between where we go out on the lake, or go hiking or make a fire or something and go back to sex.
I’m interested in someone but he has major anger issues. Like he’ll start fights w randos at parties. Never women always creeps but who typically mind their own business so nevertheless. Red flag?
>>31134503>BREAKING: anon gets ass cancer and ebola from stale pasta, more at 11
>>31134508okay funny boy
>>31134503>>31134508More like botulism
>>31134329Dating has always sucked.However it's because you don't know each other. You are meeting people you have never met before.Pre internet, you would have met and interacted with them socially several times before asking someone you already felt some mutual chemistry with out.Choices would also have been more limited so everyone took more time with each other. Now people think they need to get on to their next candidate quickly if you don't meet their checklist.Honestly I recommend just not dating.
>>31134506Girl... don do it
>>31134506Big one
>>31134509>>31134514One of my friends almost caught The Gay from eating expired food. Be safe, anons.
Do women like quiet guys?
>>31134522I'm not kidding though, people have died. It's cents worth of pasta, toss it.
>>31134518>Honestly I recommend just not dating.SAY LESS!
>>31134476yes, theyre the cutest fucking thing, esp if they're short. Biggest damn tease
>>31134375>these are your peak yearslol no
>>31134493>Vows that remove responsibility aren'tWhy? What sorts of basic vows are necessary beyond monogamy and being faithful anyway? Catholics believe in no divorce/seperation till death.
>>31134502Ideally she wouldn't see/touch my dick at all. It's a little less than 5 inches and fairly thin, I don't know where that would fall under, but the thought of compensating for it with sex positions or having to do anal, would make me feel even shittier I think.Maybe I can tease her? Like say that she isn't allowed to touch my dick and keep her waiting in anticipation while getting her off?I'd even eat her out.
>>31134375what do you want me to do instead?
>>31134478>making up silly storiesi feel only smaller subset of people who are fun enough will do this
>>31134523I'm good looking, but very quiet and reserved and most conversations with women end after like 5 minutes.
>>31134523As a quiet guy, yes. They don’t stop bothering me
>>31134523From personal experience, no
>>31134413> what is the perfect date?She can go out and do whatever.I'll stay and read.
>>31134523I try to be quiet and mysterious but I come off as shy and autistic >>31134541Are you hot
Women, do you wear wigs?
>>31134519>>31134521Damn okay. That was the only holdup too
>>31134523Quiet yes, timid no
>>31134552Will I ever wear wigs?
>>31134531You can perform oral on her, fingering, masturbate her, breast play etc. but the hard part is getting her to understand why you don't want her to see your dick. She'll probably think you have STDs if you keep avoiding it. I mean some girls need a dick in them to orgasm too so you'd have to be one hell of a pussy eater to make it work. >5 inches and fairly thinNormal. >the thought of compensating for it with sex positions or having to do anal, would make me feel even shittier I think.Why? That's what technique is for. You make the most of what God has given you. Do you think fighter pilots refuse to make up for the inherent drawbacks of their aircraft by feeling shitty and refusing to improve their technique and strategy? And unless you have a religious prohibition against it, I don't see why anal is a problem for you unless she's against it.
>>31134506To me the answer is obvious, but some girls like these types of guys - it's the guy's version of girls who are "emotional".
she colored the TK and TS in pinkhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-FkV0EM_CUI love this song. gives me hope love can be super magical even in early-mid 30s and still feel "so high school"how does it make you feel?
>>31134551My self esteem is shot, I don’t think so but I am told otherwise
>>31134559when will you wear wigs?
>>31134572I do not understand this reference
>>31134572lol meant for >>31134562
>>31134506> Red flag?very
>>31134046well, I have a well paid job so I guess that's somethingalso, I have a hard time talking to good looking women. I once stuttered in front of a girl I approached at a bus, and she wasn't even that good looking. she rejected me, of course.I've had young and/or good looking women or women I like sit at my side at bus stops, terminals, in school. I've had them talk to friends to talk to me, practically throw themselves at me and so on, and I couldn't do shit because I feared becoming a retard (which I was sometimes...).
Why does atoga insist male pickmes are narcissists?
>>31134575>>31134572
men literally disgusting
>>31134523no.You're going to have to fake it somewhat. This generalises to life also.
>>31134593*are
>>31134535I don't know if that's true, it is for sure one of our favorite things. We drove across the country making up stories about other drivers for hours at a time. Every vanity plate equals a 15 minute story about the person's life lol
how to get a Brasilian gf?
>>31134523I like quiet, don't really care for shy.>>31134506Bright red.
>>31134564I mean given how most women talk about dicks, I don't think she'd be so eager to touch it anyway.>That's what technique is forIt feels bad knowing I have to compensate and put up a performance for something that comes naturally to most people. I've had sex before, doing it with my size just seems not worth it for both parties.Also, an aircraft pilot is going to be on high alert by default, you don't fly fighter jets to unwind and enjoy yourself, they go home and have sex with their gfs to do that.
>>31134593I recommend not fucking men who fuck animals anon.
>>31134593>>31134597low quality ragebait
>>31134602I once saw a female brazilian tourist and she was so fucking pretty, I couldn't believe it. she looked at me so I just couldn't not talk to her... I approached her and we talked for a bit, then she left with a group of tourists..sadly, I was poor and retarded at the time. obviously I should have invited her to stay with me for a few days and do tourism in the city together.
>>31134615Does fucking black girls count, or am I going to jail for beastiality?
>>31134593>White womenPretty sure we know who was fucking the animals
>>31134624kekthat's a man, though.
>>31134624Still would
>>31134629The dog is cute, imagine the knot
>>31134593You can’t convince me this shit wouldn’t feel fantastic
>>31134611Its not compensation. Everyone needs good technique. An average dick with good technique will be better than a guy with a huge dick who only know how to jackhammer. Improvement isn't a bad thing and it will make your sex life more pleasurable for you and her. Its like saying "I feel shitty that I need technique to be a good guitar player" I mean everybody need technique. Its just some losers can get away with never getting good because they think they are big.
>>31134621>obviously I should have invited her to stay with me for a few daysAnon, i'm retarded and even i know any woman will be weirded out by this. No one is going to stay by some guy they just met for a few days lol
>>31134647I mean, that would have been my suggestion after talking for a while and walking through the city.also, you don't know tourists. they literally become a little schiizo... and they absolutely love latinost.latino
>>31134642Losers are the guys who care about pleasing females. Big dick guys don't need to do anything.
>>31134642I get what you're trying to say, I also have small hands and play piano, so I know that technique is vital, but playing an instrument is a solitary endeavor. Yeah, you can play with others, but it's still just you and the instrument.And there's no disappointment or frustration that I would cause another human being by simply existing.Also, being big is sometimes all there is to it. I've seen enough women gush about big dicks and heard stories of women staying with assholes simply because they had a big dick to know that they're inherently attractive.
>>31134559>timid noBut why?>>31134610>don't really care for shy.But why?
>>31134674It just tires me. It's not a deal breaker but in general I prefer guys who are not too shy.
>>31134686sighs, okay
>>31133223It felt more like it was more difficult to get to than difficult to get through. But it's taking a while. But mine wasn't l just ten years ago, it was also throughout the years to a lesser degree.So...I don't think so?
>>31134670What's the alternative? Just do nothing? Wallow in sadness? Sure you might not be able to compete with the guys with the big guns but there's always guerrilla warfare other wise just stay celibate all your life or go faggot.
>Chad can murder his pregnant wife and two 4-5 year old daughters and still get women fawning over himYeah but it's non-chad's fault somehow.What the hell is wrong with you, women
>>31134710>ChadChris Watts is a pretty average looking dude, he's even bald.
>>31134704>fight for scrapsNo thanks.And that anon is saying that pleasing her sexually won't matter when a guy with a big dick shows up and she fawns over him immediately.
>>31134704Honestly being celibate or paying an escort doesn't sound nearly as bad as dating a girl and her secretly wishing I was bigger, or worst case cheat on me or something.Sure, being alone sucks, but is the hit to the ego worth going out and be a walking disappointment just to get laid?
>>31134710you could say the same thing about giga stacies.
Do you think boobs and balls feel the same in terms of sensitivity?
>>31134727Why are you fixated on getting laid? If its just the sex that bothers you than just get a prostitute to help you out. Love doesn't have to involve sex either so dating a girl romantically and having sex with a hooker is doable.
>>31134745No.
>>31134704Imagine having to play catch-up in the most rudimentary part of life that others don't even have to think twice about.I hate dicklets so god damn much.
>>31134736Men still love non-Stacies, but you foids don't love non-Chads.
>>31134746I don't have a problem getting laid, it's the quality of sex I'm worried about. There's no point in dating a girl if the sex is going to be bad and she'll leave.
>>31134753Dicklets, autistics, the socially awkawrd, BPD girls, schizophrenics, short guys, tall girls, flat chested women, ugly girls, ugly guys, slightly fat but not overweight people etc. we're all doomed in this thread. Celibacy is our only salvation.
>>31134763>guise we all have it badNope, men have it way worse. Those females you listed can still find a loving partner easily.
>>31134763Alternatively, git gud
>>31134763Which ones are you, atoga?Im>Dicklets>autistics>socially awkawrd>ugly guys
thought the missus was a bit of a cunt, think she might unironically be a narcissist or something now after looking into it, drinking cider now cba. Dunno what to do anymore.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1-WTB61bL8
>>31134763flat chested women, BPD girls, and schizophrenics still have a chance assuming there is nothing else wrong with them.
>>31134763Yeah nah women can be incredibly low quality and still join some fag way out of their league's harem, and they're happy to do so, whatever claims you make
>>31134746he's fixated on being genuinely attractive to a girl instead of her looking through his size flawhe thinks that if it is on that path, he would rather it be fully transactional with a hooker
>>31134776Unironically I'm a schizo chad
>>31134776Schizo dicklet. I've been told I'm handsome, but Self hatred makes it hard to take people who like you seriously.
>tempted to text girl who I know will do lewd things (online)>after 'clarity' hits I know its a waste of time since I don't actually want to lead her onhow does one escape the loop
>>31134789Indulge and enjoy it while it lasts. My hookups for online lewd stuff never last more than a few months... and often much less.
>>31134763>flat chested womenActually not that big a deal. I don't know why you guys make it out to be a huge thing. Is like us guys with dick size.
>>31134793I don't get it either. I actually prefer small ones to big ones. The thing is, they don't contribute all that much to sex, whereas dick size is detrimental.And I've never seen a woman say she preferred small dicks to bigger ones.
>>31134777Here come the rooster, brother.
>>31134552yeah got many
Prayed to Aphrodite for the first time and she played lay all your love on me during it, what does it all mean. Love her sm
>>31134776I'm>autistics>socially awkward>short guys
To womenIs the way women conduct themselves nature or nurture? Like I know a girl on Discord who writes "Cute!!!!" when someone posts a cute picture. That kind of writing style is common for women for some reason
>>31134819This might be shocking to you but... the English language is not a natural phenomena
Desiring foid's opinion: Szechuan chicken or chinese chicken curry?
>>31134375nah I got so much going on this is to relax and have some fun
Women why do you want a bf?
>>31134776Kind of a dickletKind of autisticIncredibly socially awkwardA bit shortUglySlightly overweightNone of this sort of thing impedes women.
>>31134824Idk, both sound equally good. I'm so fucking hungry, but my roommate is in the living room, so I'm trapped here until he goes to sleep.
>>31134823this way of expression are more common in women in other languages too
>>31134776I'm a "formerly cripplingly socially retarded" weirdo.
>>31134832>None of this sort of thing impedes women.Uh, yeah? Women hate socially awkward men
>>31134834I wonder why
>>31134824foid is.. women? I always forget the incel speak
>>31134832the women in question
>>31134833Let's sneak out together real fast for some food then.
>>31134839I meant women having these types of problems doesn't affect them at all>>31134842Yeah, look at her unwarranted self confidence. Do you really think she struggles at all despite being THAT?
>>31134776Autistic, socially awkward, slightly fat. Yup I'm doomed. Time to become a monk.
>>31134829they are strong and have a dick
Do women like to play 3rd person games with jacked good looking dudes the same way guys will play Nier Automata to look at 2B's ass?
>>31134842The weight is bad, but the face is unironically better than most Tinder dates I get.
Idk yall, ill take an A cup girl anyday
>>31134850Nah. Remember women prefer looking at lesbian porn than dicks. Men aren't visually sexy to women like that
>>31134355no, I got my life and future here
>>31134841Yes, foid means woman. Women use "moid" for men. Not everything can be blamed on incels, mean-spirited women ruined these threads far more than incels ever did.
>>31134842I would put her in the friendzone until she lost weight>>31134846>Yeah, look at her unwarranted self confidence. Do you really think she struggles at all despite being THAT?yep, this guy is right. people like me let women get away with too much.
>>31134846>Do you really think she struggles at all despite being THAT?No. I'm saying that given the choice between putting my dick in a wood chipper and having sex with her, I'd rather cripple myself.If these are the "women" that wouldn't get impeded by all the flaws you mentioned then I'm staying celibate.
>be bombed by "she wants to be approached go shoot your shot bro!" content both in youtube, here etc. by 3 months>text to a new girl after months of not doing it after being rejected enough>she blocked me as soon as I shared pics
>>31134674It gets grating after a while if your partner is a vastly different level of social than you. And I like confidence.
>>31134850nah we play Nier Automata for the same reason. but we cosplay as her too
>>31134856Nice try incel
>>31134854Why do so many women gush over Jujutsu Kaisen characters then?
>>31134873you've confused weird girls who like anime with adult women
>>31134865I bet you do
>>31134877I'm sure there are male actors or models that well adjusted women would lose their minds over.
>>31134850I want to get immersed in the game and choose someone I want to be
>>31134884lol yep, is that you?
>Shy women dont like shy men>Out going women dont like shy menWhat do we do?Stop being shy?
GirlsCan condom sex be Great sex? Or is it always not good?
>>31134890No, I wish I could pull off a cosplay like these women.
>>31134895It's good, but not great.
>>31134894eugenesic suicide
>>31134900What’s the difference between good and great
>>31134907Really hard to describe
>>31134898>>31134884Shieeeet, 9S, watchu doin cuz? I told yo ass u don't have to call me ma'am no more
>>31134913Well, try because I’ve only had condom sex. I don’t know anything different
>>31134863>he forgot rules 1 and 2 Serves you right
How good do you think you are at sex?
MI've never had sex sober. Am I missing out on anything?I can't talk to women when I'm not drunk, but after a few drinks my charisma shoots through the roof.
>>3113492190% of people ITT have never had sex
>>31134921Bad
>>31134921M Virgin, so pretty bad i guess
>>31134921with women, really goodwith guys, don’t know yet
>>31134920but women are angelic and they told me it doesn't matter and that they have broad tastes!
>>31134925And?Some have big dicks and think they can be good at it.
>>31134921If I wasn't a dicklet, I would be great. A girl told me I was the only one that could make her cum and she looked like I performed an exorcism on her, shit was wild.
>>31134921I believe I'm great at it, I just happened to not have had the opportunity yet.
>>31134936Men have way broader tastes Also you are probably retarded and not playing in your own league, aim lower and lower until one bites
>>31134941How did you pull that off?
>>31134944I aimed low, and I was sarcastic
I dont think I like women much anymore :/ Way too many of them have been rude to me
>>31134948A few years ago I looked up how to eat pussy and I watched that one video with Nina Hartley where she explains it in detail. Never looked back since, it's pretty much a cheat code.
>>31134957it works
I like it when women are a little rude.
I thought I was able to resist the primate brain, but then a coworker came to work with jeans that made her thigh gap very obvious and now my neurons have been activated again
>>31134969Posts like these make me wish it was socially acceptable to just bend women over and plap them on the spot.
Is 5’8” too tall for a girl?
>>31134976No
>>31134976nope
>>31134976No. a little short for my tastes actually. I'm 6'3, so I like it more when the girl I'm with would be closer to like 5'10 - 6'0
A New Thread is now available.>>31134982>>31134982>>31134982>>31134982>>31134982
>>31134976Why would you ever think it is?
>>31134958Yeah I don't watch porn can you summarize it?
>>31134985Yeah I feel like I’m at an annoying height. Either supermodel heights are preferred or shorter women. When I date guys of the latter they get insecure when I wear boots or heels or whatev>>31134981>>31134979But good to know.
>>31134993See >>31135009I think I would’ve been better off shorter or taller. Middle of the road has its probs. Not quite petite but not quite what you picture when you hear tall either
>>31135009>>31135025A guy getting insecure because you're wearing boots is his problem, not yours. If you were shorter then he would still be filled with all sorts of insecurities, and you would just discover them in other ways instead of through this way.How young are you that your peers haven't grown out of most of their insecurity by now?
>>31134853:3
>>31131917No that wouldn't disappoint me.Really all I want from my wife on my birthday is something cute/thoughtful, and passionate sex with some cuddling after.
>>31135035Well there’s a pretty diverse age range in my surrounding peer community between mid 20s to mid 30s. The last dude I was with moaned about how he wanted to pick me up and it not being easy. It could be insecurities or could just be preference and I can’t do anything about that. I am branching out but just wanted to ask on here. Also I couldn’t figure out how to respond to you in the new thread so meep
>>31135104The right man will appreciate you at any size. If he struggles to pick you up then he won't pin the blame on you, and instead he'll use you as motivation to lift and squat until he becomes fit enough to pick you up with ease. All people have insecurities, but everyone chooses differently how they want to react to those insecurities. You didn't choose to be tall, and you don't have to feel guilty about a man choosing to complain to you that you're tall, because he's the only one making a choice in this situation, and he chose poorly. Your choice is to accept that you live in this reality, you don't live in a different reality where you're taller or shorter, and so you shouldn't give up on finding someone in this reality who'll treat you right.Good luck, I think you're gonna make it.
>>31131912How would /atoga/ feel if your partner had to kiss someone in a movie, show, advertisement, or stage play?Could you deal with it, or would you give them an ultimatum?Are there any factors that could influence your decision?Type or length of the kiss, the sex of the other person (or your partner's sex if you're bi), race, attractiveness level, how much your partner is getting paid, something else?
>>31135154I could deal with it if they don't become friends and hang out outside of rehearsals and the performance. If it's kept strictly professional then I can deal with it.
>>31135104Also I know there’s no one left for an after but inb4! I have a fast metabolism and he lifted. I think it was dealbreaker stuff for him since he went with someone shorter. All his past gfs were on the petite side as well.