Anyone here deal with erectile dysfunction and have tips?>25, good health>kinky/unusual porn addict (jacking off twice a day usually)>tried to have sex for the first time, unable to maintain erection after putting on a condom long enough to even penetrate (condom didn't fit terribly well either, working on that), so didn't have penetrative sex>starting to develop some anxiety around the whole thing, also I was definitely at least partially anxious/nervous beforehand so I'm sure that had some effect>discover that my dad had ED issues even in his 20'sThankfully she's supportive but this sucks. I got a 10mg cialis prescription and tried jacking off with it, I was able to at least maintain a half chub with a condom on but it wasn't a magic fix all for me.
>>34919675>porn addict and 2x a day fapThere's your problem. Quit porn entirely, and fap less. You'll see results in a few months. Unless you're like a decade into your addiction, then it will take longer. But you can recover. It will be difficult, but stay strong.
>>34919675Sex takes a little practice. It will be okay. Millennials are the only generation to have a bigger left arm.
>>34919675same for me. Used to jack off about once per day, not to anything weird, just vanilla porn or often even just nudes. Tried to have sex for the first time, she blew me for a long time but I didn't get fully hard and couldn't penetrate her. Tried two more times, same story. The third time I rubbed and licked her pussy at least, but still no penetrative sex. I think she may break things off now.>>34919761hoping that helps.
>>34919675The porn is your main problem. Quit that completely and permanently and you'll probably be fine. A condom that fits well helps a bit too.
>>34919675cuz the break to put the condom on puts your mind out of the game. you gotta fix that.masturbation isnt a big deal. where your head is during sex is tho
>>34919761I've already started doing this, hopefully it helps.
>>34919855>Millennials are the only generation to have a bigger left arm.Because they use the right one to operate the mouse, leaving the left for their cock? I'm just trying to understand your figure of speech.
You trained your body into thinking that sex is your hand clenching your dick while you look at sex on your phone. Gotta quit that shit (pot calling the kettle black here, starting to suffer the same problems).
I had this same problem the first couple times I tried. I think anxiety played a factor too. I ended up just getting a hims viagra perscription and it works great then I got it out of my head and didnt need it again
First learn how to properly put on a condom. I know it sounds silly but properly putting a condom on is a game changer. Second probably gonna have to stop being a coomer. If you trust the women you are with you can try and introduce your kinks into sex. I did this and it is incredibly beneficial. Consider working out to boost T.
>>34919675put lube inside the condom and also try not to think too much whilst your doing things...if you're fine watching pron then it's maybe more of a mental thing. Relax, nobody looks good whilst their fucking, you don't need to be perfect every moment or time. Enjoy stimulating her and enjoy the ride. Be in the moment
>>34919675I am 24 and still dealing with the same problem as you despite losing my virginity three years ago. I currently have a similar thread as yours: https://boards.4chan.org/adv/thread/34922629/walked-out-of-a-hookup-update-from-last-night#topJust out of curiosity, why did your dad get ED when he was in his 20s? Was he a coomer as well?
