>I've listened to a bunch of redpill videos on youtube, so I understand women better than all of /r9k/
Sure, but have you talked to a woman for more than 20 minutes in person in this past decade?
>>84433201I cannot recall.
>>84431954>>84432934The implication that women should seek out men, and not the reverse, for instance, provides a deep misunderstanding of human socialization.
>>84433185What do women want? Seriously.
>>84433523self reliant guy ("who cares" *laughter*)>emotionally reliant (which is why the more you're interested in women the less they like you)>socially reliant (not retarded= can succeed in society, has a social circle, good relationship with family)>financially reliant (self evident why this is necessary) Basically unreliable and needy men don't fulfil the natural male's purpose (protector and provider (being weak but still a provider makes you a cuck, not good because you won't be able to protect her, she has to look elsewhere for someone to fulfil the protector role)), nasty whores don't fulfil the natural woman's purpose (chaste and pleasant homemaker), so each alternative is disliked by the other sex, the same way the average person will dislike troons instinctively. Basically women want a complete package they can graft themselves onto. Which is why different advice might be ("get money" "be strong" "just personality maxx"). You only need to hit the average of each, and be well known in a community (social proof). The reason r9k doesn't just float into a relationship a lot of the time, is if they're visibly lacking in one of these categories, or they meet this level, and just aren't around women their age regularly (avoidant type). It's probably the latter in most cases, because everyone here prefers socializing through a computer instead (normal for modern day gens, covid particularly impacted this, even if we were still avoidant before).
>>84433559Overly attractive guys ("chad") don't require social proof, but they're the exception in society. r9k hyperfixates on this, when they should just try to meet passable standards for a male partner, and socialize more. Moreover, younger women notoriously have lower standards, while being more attractive, which leads to them being well more sought out. Even though they're sought out, you shouldn't ignore them.
>>84430072caring about too much stuff is feminine, who cares what Koreans do?
