>>84810401
I do blame myself, because my actions are well within my control. It's not going to stop me even though I'm completely self aware. AS LONG AS I LIVE THESE WALLS WILL STAND TALL.

>>84810401
you are 100% right but the only way out is delusion maxxing. other poster is a teenager doing it instinctively but you need to induce delusional optimism somehow, i recommend drugs.

>>84810491
Such a cunt that you feel the need to attack me for no reason. Pull the stick out of your ass and grow the fuck up, claiming I'm immature while attacking me for saying nothing wrong.

>>84810401
Fixing it is not the only option. I decided to leave it behind and enjoy the flexibility that comes with not having to coordinate schedules or be there for people.

>>84810501
>no reason
damn you project blame but i thought your actions were in your control? why did you choose to act like a faggot then?

>>84810475
>>84810491
>>84810505
Missing information. I need race and height from you all so i can which one is not a volcel

>>84810401
i'll be damned if i let the people who failed me win

>>84810509
I didn't, that'd be you talking shit like a child because you're insecure. You had no reason to comment on me. You are an obsessed faggot, be real dude.

>>84810401
>>84810501
>>84810514
kwab
i think it's not just loneliness in your case anon

>>84810526
really all i said was that you were being delusional, which you are. and if you parse through the subtext of my post i didnt even say that was a bad thing. i think youre the child here and you need to get real, dude.

>>84810401
Pretty much. Most advice you hear, from any source on any topic, is hugely tainted by survivorship bias. People are blind to how much of a role luck and other people play in their success.

>>84810537
Have you ever heard of minding your own business, fucktard? I didn't ask for your asinine high school psychology analysis. Clearly you don't know what the fuck you're talking about in regards to my situation, so kindly put a hole straight through your malformed autistic skull you derivative fucking lead poisoned millennial cunt.

>>84810401
there is no hope for us. we have grown to be people who cannot help ourselves, and because we are this way, nobody will ever reach out to help us.

>>84810552
all right tough guy i get it, highschools hard i know. just know that your actions are 100% in your control and to blame yourself for everything. its a healthy mentality and will get you far in life, up until the day you die.

>>84810560
Once again, pop psych troon: I didn't ask for your input. Sorry you're such an insecure faggot you can't take responsibility for your "boohoo mental illness". Kek. Sissy fucking liberal. Be a man.

>>84810577
its hard to imagine you know what youre talking about as you throw buzzwords at me.

>>84810583
It's hard to imagine you could even read half the words I chose.

>>84810593
no? its not high conversation, troon, sissy, boohoo, really paints a mental image of who you are as a person.

>>84810597
Because high conversation is... Insulting me because you're insecure about your own shit. Grow up fucking faggot. Heed my advice. You're not better than anyone else, no matter what you tell yourself in your head

Just go to a bar and sit behind the counter. Have a few drinks, in the 3 hours you will be sitting there you will get a chance to meet a couple of people or at least the bar tender.
Go do something you like, something that interests you, you will meet people who are into the same stuff, like a sport or some faggy workshop.
Thats how ordinary normal people create their social circles. Theres no social rejections in some hobby enthusiast environment, you all just spend your time doing something you like, unless you're a total jerk.

>>84810622
Damn really seemed to have struck a nerve

>>84810644
Normiecore advice. We did it Reddit!

>>84810661
How else do you think these things happen?
Just one reply and i know you're an insufferable cunt. Good luck Elliot Rodger

>>84810780
what, did i point out an inconvenient truth? you sit there proclaiming advice that people have been spewing on this board for years, basically "show up and dont be weird." it doesnt work for plenty of people and they end up getting burned over and over. you dont want to help people you want to give condescending "advice" to feel better about yourself.

>>84810875
you literally just want to sit here and bitch out anyone who says anything other than life sucks and it is never your fault. seriously, why have you not killed yourself already then? at least fuck off to be alone and happy since you seem to like it so much. you do not deserve a thread anymore.

>>84810661
This board is the foundation of Reddit. Reddit culture was created after moot deleted the original /r9k/ and they all fled there to talk as the rest of 4chan hated their whiny livejournal shit. Know your history.

>>84810644
>sit behind the counter of the bar
what? do your bars have double sided counters?

>>84810644
Most people sitting at a bar getting drunk are only there to fuck, anon. Where are you meeting these hobby enthusiasts? What hobbies are they discussing at the bar?

>>84810875
I see why you are mysteriously being rejected from every social group you encounter.

>>84810597
i take it these terms displease you for personal reasons?

>>84810560
I hope you kill yourself really soon.
>>84810577
I also hope you kill yourself really soon.

I hope we all kill ourselves really soon. Thank god my Heaven will not have you two schmucks in it. Enjoy burning in Hell.

>>84810892
i always find it funny how normies complain endlessly about me being weird, school shooter-y, or how you would probably describe me as, "a total jerk," but cant handle my complaints on the way you operate. everything is just so simple to you huh?

>>84810537
>its delusional to have an internal locus of control. i know this because i failed a pop psychology 101 class i was auditing despite it being both pass/fail and ungraded per auditing standards
>>84810552
okay but something is wrong with you to get this heated though

>>84810916
he said those words first

>>84810930
why are you replying to everything with your thoughts? I know its just one guy. do you not like feeling a lack of control?

>>84810927
what stereotype of a respondent have you constructed your arguments against already? you are not interesting enough to qualify as a school shooter. your self-centeredness is passe and your total inability to handle disagreement is the zeitgeist. spill more information about yourself for others to insult if you want attention.

>>84810932
your point here being?

>>84810932
>he said the bad word first
are you 5

>>84810937
why are you replying to everything with your thoughts? do you not like feeling a lack of control?

>>84810937
Why are people replying with their thoughts in a 4chan thread?

>>84810937
i find a lack of control to be quite an erotic feeling personally

>>84810941
>what stereotype of a respondent have you constructed your arguments against already?
i said normie so i would assume that one? and yes people have called me a school shooter. why is it so hard for you to believe that others can be needlessly cruel? thats like 90% of human history. we eat animals to survive. im not above being humiliated, life is humiliation, i just dont like your double standards and bad advice.

>>84810932
Mommy says to shut the fuck up so she can jerk off Daddy in peace already. Who cares who called whom a tranny troon troon zoom zoom first? You are both going in the corner while we make a new brother. Maybe one who is not such a disappointment this time.

>>84810932
i think the implication was that you were trans anonymous

>>84810973
what an elaborate scenario youve just come up with

>>84810964
sorry to have to compound your humiliation further then but no, i was not one of the anons replying with advice. i read the thread and chimed in because you are fucking annoying in every reply. it seems to be the entire purpose of your bit just to enrage the others. it seems to be working well. i find it irritating because i find all whiny people to be irritating. you know exactly what control you have over your life. if it is so little, you have one final act of self-determination. i am not unaware of what others can do, and the fact you immediately assume that anyone disagreeing with you must be an idiotic normie with a charmed, thoughtless life is likely why others find you as repulsive as you insist they apparently do. this woe-is-me act is where you blame everyone else for your own life is deeply insulting and repellant to most people. it trivializes anything they may have suffered by making it a competition where your lack of inability to shut the fuck up is framed as the ultimate crime others are committing against you. when others say you come off as a school shooter, they are telling you to your face that they want you to put a bullet in your head. this is the polite normie way of telling you to kill yourself. hope this translation helps!

>>84811009
i think there is a distinct possibility that 80% of this thread is one guy.

>>84811009
i mean tell me what i dont know? you're just being condescending again. i really doubt you even have many friends irl cause you do all the things youre accusing me of.

>>84810977
I know, isnt it so much fun to use your words? You can come up with so many fun mental images this way. For instance right now I am picturing myself fondling a heavy set of hairy, engorged, sweaty testicles. I think they are a bit tanner than you would typically imagine, but not so tan as to make the skintone a shade of questionable appropriateness. Now I am tossing the balls between my hands like I am juggling bowling pins while I bend my head forward to blow a raspberry on his equally hairy belly, followed by a kiss. Have you ever tasted multiple days worth of accumulated crotch sweat before? Once you get to day four the wet, dry, and dry-wet testicular perspiration calcification takes on a delightful crunch when you nibble on it. By day seven you can swirl it around with your tongue as you would sticking it in a jar of chili crisp. But be careful! One wrong bite and you have only one ball left to suck.

>>84811030
oh no, the guy claiming everyone around him avoids him because he gives off school shooter vibes thinks i have no friends.
>tell me what i dont know
like the fact i never replied with advice like you assumed? you are immediately projecting your own condescension back as if i cannot scroll up and immediately refer to it. my point was to condescend to and insult you. i have made it plain i dislike you and would find this thread more pleasant if you exited it by whichever means you infer. you have no interest in anyone attempting to provide advice or any sort of positive suggestion, so why should i coddle you and not just take your own logic to its conclusion? i am not trying to be your friend here. your appeals at emotion or popularity have no sway. it is incredibly normie of you to assume they even would. how ironic. thought you disliked those.

>>84811014
Nobody goes on 4chan to simulate arguments against themselves for (You)s. That would be against the law!

>>84811030
>YOU DONT HAVE FRIENDS
God I fucking hate failed normalfag tourists

>>84811030
How can you not tell that you are not talking to the person who was offering you advice? Learn to read zoom zoom

>>84811063
again more condescending normie core talk. why do you even care so much about me if im such a non factor and so annoying? do you really think i act the same way on here in the real world?

>>84810927
>i always find it funny how normies complain endlessly about me being weird, school shooter-y, or how you would probably describe me as, "a total jerk," but cant handle my complaints on the way you operate. everything is just so simple to you huh?

23 minutes later

>>84811030
>i mean tell me what i dont know? you're just being condescending again. i really doubt you even have many friends irl cause you do all the things youre accusing me of.

normie

>>84811090
if you remove context from everything what you say does make alot of sense.

>>84811085
yes, i think you are just as pathetic there as you are here. you certainly are as self-centered and unable to take a hint. i like every deflection you are trying, but it is textbook. incels would try a little bit harder or be a bit more unhinged. this is just typical normie whining. you lack even the balls to do anything other than respond by mirroring everything i say or dismiss it outright, as if that was not incredibly transparent. are you this uncreative? no wonder you sit here and clutter up the board with anonymous bitching when you could do anything else with your lexical freedom. your only fallback is to ask why someone is so obsessed with you. a broom sure is obsessed with grime on the floor. maybe taking this as an exercise in finding new ways to experiment in insultation would be more amusing. you provide no pushback, so i might as well treat you as a piece of paper as blank as you are.

>>84811096
The context of you continuing to insist everyone replying to you is the same anon? Get better at pattern recognition.

>>84811085
>why do you even care so much about me if im such a non factor and so annoying?
What kind of question is this? You pull out splinters.

>>84810977
>>84811030
>>84811085
>>84811096

Who let this attention-seeking cunt in? (You) were supposed to bar the door to foid and foid imitators.

>>84811085
normiecore is a fashion style anon

>i really doubt you even have many friends irl

funniest possible shit to say on /r9k/ ngl

>>84811110
ya but this doesnt really explain anything, again its condescending for the sake of being condescending. i didnt enter this thread for creative writing practice, and i didnt reply to you cause i thought you had anything interesting to say, which you dont no matter how much you try to convince me you do. i was hoping to see if there was any advice beyond the usual normie shit and there wasnt. sorry for calling that out i guess.

Everybody shut up theres no time for this, we have quints

>>84811111

>>84811126
yeah that seems about right for a quinted reddit9k post

>>84811125
Really do not think anyone here is attempting to convince you of anything. Or trying to entertain you. You are not the main character.

>>84811133
>You are not the main character.
not a single person on the internet understands this anymore
you think they would on the ANONYMOUS website known for ANONYMITY and EPHEMERALITY but somehow it is even worse

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>>84811133
>not the main character
of this thread?

>>84811133
mommy said i was her specialist bestest boy who knew all the smartest words ever, of course i am the mainest character to ever exist

>>84811138
Did you seriously just try to flex how many (you)s you have to prove you are the main character of a 4chan thread? My god, I was cutting you some slack seeing as the others anons were being so vicious, but now I really do think we need a lurk ban. Your behavior thus far is antithetical to the entire ethos of 4chan. Lurk the fuck moar.

>>84811125
why are you so bitchy and passive aggressive, are you a foid? kys if so and kys if not
>>84811138
kys for this too holy fuck

>>84811138
anon, was this supposed to impress me?

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my power grows

>>84810401
Truthnuke
And you cant just fix your personality either, whats done is done, you will never be normal no matter how hard you try

>>84811140
But Mommy said I was her specialest goodest little man? Did Mommy lie to me? Is Mommy a two-timing cheating slag like every other woman? Grrrr this makes me so angry I might *huff* *huff* I might need to *huff* *huff* I might need to *keels over and dies from penile engorgement syndrome*

>anons itt are posting their number of yous to brag
just nuke this website already

>>84811160
Your personality is literally you. You can completely alter it at will.

>>84811165
I seriously think it is a foid. This is why women should be banned from this board. We should do sniff checks for any bloody cunts at the door.

>>84811160
idk i just dont agree with this at all
like you can just choose to be nice or mean one day so idrs how you cant change your personality

>>84811170
You cannot change your personality.
You can fake it but it will never be real.

>>84811165
Zoomer mentality. This will only get worse with time.

>>84811176
those are more actions based on personality. changing your personality entirely is more subtle and takes time. also most people are unreliable narrators

>>84811165
anon was backed into a corner and is playing it off like they wanted the attention
>all according to keikaku
>this was just a social experiment
>haha i wanted everyone to laugh at my small penis and cuckold nature
tale as old as time itself

>>84811173
Sniffing only bloody cunts will allow others a three week window to sneak in. We need to train sniffer dogs on panties monthround so they can catch a foid no matter her menses.

>>84810401
Yep
>make sure you drink lots of milk and brush your teeth so you don't regret not doing so in adulthood, son
>btw you're not allowed to have friends, go outside, any privacy, or develop a sense of independence, that's for when you're an adult

>>84811170
Literally. A lot of other stuff about changing yourself is bullshit but personality is entirely up to you based on what you do and who you choose to be. This argument makes 0 sense.

>>84811179
*you* have no *real personality* because *you* do not exist
embrace drugs and spirituality + learn what ego death is

>>84811181
i think gen alpha might swing back, but millennials were not immune.

there is this weird sense of self-important cynicism that has taken over all corners of the world. even self-abnegation is something to proclaim for your followers. everything has turned into a performance. a revolving circus of human identity. nothing is ever action anymore, but that is the only thing you can define a person by.

>>84811200
>*
are you trying to use markdown formatting on 4chan?

>>84811191
those sound like abusive parents anon
unfortunately most parents are abusive
nobody should breed ever and if they do they should be heavily vetted, required to take child psychology and development classes as well as anger management, and need constant third party auditing and intervention if found wanting
parents should have nearly no rights

*i* am not giving *you* another (you) because you are too stupid to understand that people use flourishes for emphasis. you were told to kill yourself earlier. repeatedly. hurry up.

>>84811210
are *you* retarded or just pretending to be
either way you are a failure

>>84811200
You are a retarded druggie and you missed the point.
Your personality is everything you experienced in crucial years, you will never be able to change that.
Your values, anxiety, feelings and thoughts etc will always be the same.

>>84811207
I wonder what it was that shifted Gen Z so hard into nihilistic cynicism compared to aggressive Millennial optimism. Millennials are almost delusional about this as a whole. Have you compared a conversation between the two groups? They are night and day.

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>>84811220
either I fail to see something, or you're a schizo who sees something that is not here

>>84811225
*you* are a failure because you choose to blame others for your life instead of taking it on the chin and learning from your mistakes
a suggestion of spirituality and drugs was facetious. i thought you might be too stupid to look up what ego death was without explicit pointers.
i was correct but in ways i could have never even imagined
>Your personality is everything you experienced in crucial years
>Your values, anxiety, feelings and thoughts etc will always be the same
this is complete nonsense
you want to blame mummy and daddy for how hard your life is, are they here with you now? fuck a hooker, swallow a bullet, invest in a 401k, learn the zither, grow basil plants
literally everything *you* choose to do is under your complete control

>>84811227
zooms are defined as the generation which grew up on social media and the social media (the public ones) have this strange property that you'll always find at least one guy who can convince you that your beliefs are stupid, or at least cringe

>>84811242 (You)
>inb4 a long-ass argument because two retards have different understanding of "personality"

>>84811229
your binary thinking is idiotic, i already said what i was doing
why the fuck would that be trying to use markdown, are you daft?
*+<what am i doing now>+*
<=={[|(~*~oh my god what is this~*~)|]}==>
#what_does_this_button_do.mp4

~@{^_^}@~ <= this is my new friend, i am naming him pablo. you can also build a pablo, or perhaps a genevieve, rupert, or lafondra of your own!

>>84811256
There is no understanding of personality that is
>your experiences in middle and high school and middle and high school ONLY
Cmon, no need to be disingenuous

>>84811256
what is the manual (You) about

>>84811272
a joke
>>84811267
apparently there is if two people can build an argument based on a misunderstanding like this

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>>84810401
>Bullied loner as a child
>Dedicate my entire teenage years into trying to compensate for isolated childhood
>Lose my first small friend group due to being inexperienced socially, get held back on purpose so I could try again with new people
>After half a year with new friends, they stop talking to me or acknowledging me for seemingly no reason, eventually forced to give up on trying to salvage it.
>Transfer schools so I could try again a third time
>Really carefully manage what I say and what I do so I don't end up doing something "wrong" on accident
>Manage to maintain friendships for a year before inevitably losing them all again.

"You can't skip developmental milestones" is what I had to learn the hard way, I'm a hikikomori now and I really wish I just studied instead of chasing normalfag approval.
The worst part about this "trial and error" horseshit you have to go through is that normalfags won't tell YOU what you did wrong or how you offended them (even if you directly ask) but they'll tell everyone else.
If there's any advice I'd give to you OP, You can "try" to learn social skills, but you'll burn out trying to live how normal people do, even if you manage to craft a "tolerable" personality and maintain that act well enough to have friends wherever you're at, that act is exhausting to maintain, and if you drop the mask even slightly, you'll lose it all.

>>84811365
ya i actually saw alot of people become successful by focusing on studying growing up, normies just like to espouse their way of life and dont really take no for an answer. social skills can be learned sure, but socializing is based on alot of woowoo, almost magical crap like vibes, and if you want to take it a step further, physiognomy, intuition, symbols, rules of engagement, hierarchies, etc, but these are much more instinctual for those who are socially inclined. its like a sorcerer immediately casting fireball on you when you ask him to teach you sorcery, then blames you for having the gall to ask, you cant really blame them its just in their nature.