How tf do people abstain from any sort of sexual activities in 2026 especially with social media and the internet? I'm trying to abstain from any sort of sexual activity for at least a year and not voluntary search up and look at whores on the internet or meet anyone in person, though the latter part isn't an issue since I'm a KV. The most I've gone without looking at whores voluntary on the internet was 2 weeks but I was constantly dreaming and thinking about the whores that I previously looked at. The longest I didn't touch my dick for was 7 weeks but I was constantly looking at social media whores after a week. How do you fucking stop?!! I'm a 26 year old male btw.
>>34549997Best way to quit porn and gooning is to have your needs met in healtheri ways, aka by havign sex.So that is what you should do. Quit goonign and channel that energy into chasing chicks.>I'm trying to abstain from any sort of sexual activity>I'm a KV.Doesn't compute. You have been abstaining for 26 years, why the fuck would you do even more of it. Go get laid
>>34549997Meditate every day on the undeniable fact that pleasure can't exist without pain. Pleasure is always sandwiched between two pains. Beforehand, there's the pain of desire and wanting. Afterwards, there's either the pain of self-restraint if you intend to be moderate or there's the pain of regret if you chose to be immoderate. You cannot have pleasure without pain, and when you realize this, truly internalize it, and remind yourself of it often you'll eventually realize that it's better to have neither than both. At that point, sex just isn't interesting anymore.
>>34549997If you are not sexually active, keep looking at the whores.
>>34550005Are you retarded? I just said no sexual activities.>>34550010No. Meditation is for weirdos and don't have time to sit and think about nothing.
>>34550043If you have time to sit around and look at porn, you have time to spend on introspection and self mastery. If you don't want to spend time mastering yourself, then you'll never be the master of yourself and you'll stay a slave to your animal impulses.
>>34550043why do you want to be a monk in the first place? seems like you browsed to many nofap semen retention threads and now think you are special for not touching your weener, when its mostly cope for literal coping incels aka (you)chad doesnt give a fuck
>>34550046I'm trying to replace that time with productive things, including spending a lot less time on this website. So far you're wasting my time with dogshit advice.>>34550122I don't want to be a slave to my sexual desires. That's how you become a man, by taking responsibility. Also if I were to find a woman that I could potentially see as my future wife I would totally have to abstain from porn and casual sex. This is common sense. You sound like you're still 13. Are you even 21?
>>34549997Just keep busy. If the internet is an issue then outsidemaxx.
>>34550140>I don't want to be a slave to my sexual desires.Yep, coping incel confirmed. You're simplytrying to kill a desire that you are convinced can not be fulfilled anyways.>That's how you become a man>by turning yourself into an Eunuch with a perpetually limp penislmao.>that I could potentially see as my future wifeOr just a nice girl you can fuck and spend some time with. Can't plan these things in advance. You'll make a fine Buxin' Beta soon enough.
>>34550005I'm with a girl who has a higher libido than me and yet I can't quit porn...
Idle hands are the devils playground
>>34550140Learning how to master your own mind is the only productive thing. Even if you worked hard and earned a million dollars, that would be absolutely worthless and nothing but time wasted if you still can't control yourself. You may as well be asking "How can I add 2 and 2 together? And no, don't waste my time with a dogshit answer like 4".