Making out in public and other sex things is disgusting

>>34825710
You cant. If u arent 6'0

>>34832296
i'm 6 foot with solid looks and have been ghosted at least five times this year. never been in a relationship before

>>34825710
Go to a lot of these parties, as much as you can find, ones where alcohol is a common fixture, talk to all girl groups, at some point bump into a sluttier than usual girl who enables stuff like that to happen, I guess? Then congrats I guess? You made out with 4 foids in quick 2.5 second spurt succession? Was that supposed to accomplish anything or lead to something else? Am I missing something?

>>34825710
a lot of speculating, not a lot of grounded advice lol

>>34831846
Do you mean that no individuals are able to be in healthy ENM relationships or that more people than I am saying are in healthy ENM relationships?

>>34830449
Not a single word of this is accurate. Go and troll somewhere else.

>>34832136
Fascinating, that your experience. If you would like to share with the class, please do. I have found plenty of individuals who have had similar experiences to mine and my partners, and have heard of several people who have had even worse experiences.

>>34831004
/thread

>community sucks, avoid it at all costs
>muh community
>muh community
>muh community
>muh community
why aren't you following your own advice?

>>34833113
>soulless
Bro im from a ver rural majority white area and one time at trade school some of the boys went to the zooshop and bought some live mice and brutally killed them in the shop machines, like sending them trhough the planer.

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>>34833030
>Waifu
Do you actually talk like that unironically? Mate, you need to sort yourself out.

Also, you're forgetting how easily suggestable women are. All it takes is her feeling safe around you and some positive reinforcement.

Your statements about white women are glowing. Stop being retarded and leave the house before you ruin your bloodline, if this is even a real situation at all.

>>34833249
Sometimes I read something as retarded as this and think "this must be a bot or fed post", but then I remember that Amerimutts exist.

>>34833030
>the issue of my kids not looking like me that bother me too
That can go both way.
I married a blasian. Both of our kids somehow got out as pale as me with straight hairs.
She is constantly having complex about being confused for their babysitter/stepmother.

>>34832735
Fake a doxx against her and advise her to take down the account.

Get her to agree on making a more anonymous account.

>>34832999
Immoral life hacks. I'd do this

>>34829421
I hope this is a larp. If real, i feel bad for you.
Confront your mom about this. Say this is potentially destructive to your family's reputation.

>>34832999
Yeah. That will get her attention. Thanks man

>>34833233
Not a larp man. I wish it's a larp. I tried to talk her out of this shit. But didn't work. She's fucking obsessed with that fucking Reddit culture

>>34833254
>She's fucking obsessed with that fucking Reddit culture
In that case the only way is through. You need to introduce her to 4chan and explain all the ways in which it's superior.

>>34815840
>report her
lol you think that will do anything? Dating apps don't give a fuck about whores. Anything that keeps you swiping is fine in their books.

>>34815779
stay away.

unless you want financial liability, emotional turmoil, codependency, distraction from anything productive in life, and the responsibility of raising an adult child

>>34832590
I don't understand how people have time for this crap anyways

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>see thread
>op asks what a daddy is
>gets answers from someone who fills the role of a daddy
>incels immediately seethe
Saw it coming from a mile away and it was still funny. Never change, you whiny faggots.

>>34833157
>financial liability, emotional turmoil, codependency, distraction from anything productive in life, and the responsibility of raising an adult child
So, same as a regular woman, but at least she is a bit submissive?

>>34827937
>autistic nerd shit
What autistic nerd shit still exists that weren't raped to death by trannies already? Genuinely curious about what you are into OP.
I used to be a nerd too but I lost all my interest naturally when trannies arrived.

>>34831555
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>>34830300
Replaying old pokemon games on emulators mostly. That and occasionally listening to the same music I did as a teenager on my way to work in my car. I used to watch anime but I hardly rewatch anything besides Monster or Baki. Sometimes I still draw in secret on my phone but I really don't want anyone to know about that. Besides that I'm a semi normal guy mostly interested in music, podcasts and soccer

>>34832799
I asked because I too was worried about what I'm into. Now, I'm not sure how old you are, but I'm assuming probably 20s. Not that it would necessarily be an issue if you were 40 or 60, but would probably be time to focus on kids or something ig.

Liking pokemon is fine, as long as you're not one of those people that buys up a lot of the cards and whatnot meant for kids. As long as you're not making it a big part of your personality.

I mean, I know guys in their 50s with children that still play Pokemon Go.

The music thing is frankly silly - everyone does that. Even if it is older music. Most music nowadays is trash anyways.

Anime is a little weird though, I'd stay away from it. There is this sort of stereotype that guys who are really into animal are paedophiles. I would say watch some good shows instead.

Drawing doesn't seem that weird. As long as it's not porn, I wouldn't say you should be ashamed of it. I mean, look at great painters, for instance. Or architects.

I'd lean more into the football maybe if you want to seem a bit more normal, but besides that, you're overthinking it.

>>34833009
I'm 26. I think most of it stems from my parents, mostly my dad, making fun of me for enjoying nerdy shit. All I did was hide it from everyone in my family other than my brother with the music and Pokemon stuff. I listen to a lot of music from different genres but I have fond memories of Grunge stuff like Nirvana and Dinosaur Jr. I used to draw a lot as a kid but stopped sometime during highschool, I used to want to be an animator as a kid but stopped when the industry got infected with trannies and gooners. Idk I always feel embarrassed to talk about my interests and just lie about stuff or pretend I'm into shit like hiking and fishing. I've tried to go cold turkey with some stuff but I feel like I'm killing my inner child by surpresssing my creative side. Another severely autistic thing I do is write long stories and fanfiction out of boredom. I don't even post them anywhere because I'm ashamed that someway somehow somebody I know IRL will find it

OP genuinely I don't know what to tell you as someone in a similar position but possibly older.
All I gotta say is I pay the bills and I don't hurt people. I don't expect anyone to be into what I like. Sometimes I'll find something interesting that's more "normal" and latch onto that, but if I had to force myself to like soccer because it's the cultural thing over where I live (and I have to come up with excuses as why I'm not fucking interested in it) I'd rather just hang myself. Lately I've been into things like photography. It can be a waste of money, you won't make much back unless you're a legitimate professional, AI exists and people just use their phone cameras. But it's something I found after many decades that suddenly became interesting.
Maybe you can find something like that too. Something more "normal" that you don't have to force yourself into. There is something, I'm sure.

>>34832742
>My friends' advice was more in line of dating men to exploit them
Wow you sound like a horrible friend.

If your friend is a normal person giving normal advice whatever they said would be along the lines of: have fun with people as another person yourself. Broken hearts are normal and adults get over it. Use your experience with them to choose a better, more realistic partner instead of trying to get hitched to the first blimp and divorcing in rage when things don't work out.

>I don't have a lot of free time, and the time I do have I would like to spend with people I like
All the people you like will get into relationships, move on or die.

>>34824808
It's not really about being in a life-long relationship for the sake of it, it's that that's the shape to take if you're gonna be starting a family with someone. So instead of just trying to find people who are "same" as you, find people who have the same goal

>we have the same interests, the same friends, go to the same school and even work the same type of job.

None of this is significant unless those same interests actually map onto something meaningful like having the same goals of starting a family and values and plans n shit. Otherwise, who cares if you both like pizza on pineapple or some gay shit

>>34832944
I'm not sure how I'm a bad friend for not taking her bad advice. Also she is a normal person, if anything slightly shitty, but still incredibly normal for 21 yr old college girl. That's why I'm here, because my entire friend group is very "girl-boss" at times and I want different opinions.
For clarification, my friends honestly don't agree that I should even pursue marriage and told me I should wait until my mid twenties to pursue a long term relationship.
'all the people I like' was referring to my friends and family.

>>34832973
yeah honestly I have just been focusing too much on the small stuff. I've always had a plan and try to find partners based off that but I definitely did get self conscious about stupid shit like having the same music taste or wtv.
I should just focus on figuring out what I want for the future, because all I really have planned is my career and I haven't put much thought into whether I want kids or not.

>>34833135
>and I haven't put much thought into whether I want kids or not.
That doesn't have to be decided at your age.

Well, just stick to bashing the candle, and let her know you aren't interested.

>>34828227
I realized doing things by myself is more fun 90% of the time, and the 10% can be substituted with low investment online friends. I like being able to do stuff on my schedule. Every relationship has sucked my energy and individuality out, and drained passion for my hobbies. I do miss cuddling

>>34832849
It's called males who are truthful and males who lie, xer.
>>34832969
As if you already don't lol.

>>34833034
>Every relationship has sucked my energy and individuality out, and drained passion for my hobbies.
The fuck kind of shit relationships have you been in? Do people really suck at picking the right partners this badly? Wow, that's just sad.

>>34833051
I think it's my problem, doesn't matter who I pick. it's just how it is, I regret not figuring it out sooner and wasting people's time

>>34832539
Lived experience + statistics.

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>>34826497
Brother, can we at least get a pic of her or something at this point? Let the court of public opinion decide if she’s hot enough to smother your sanity here

>>34826475
Lmao dude life isn't a video game where your negative perks come with positive trade offs. Sometimes you fuck up (which you did) and you get jack diddly shit because of it. Yes. You're in a lose-lose because you actively pursued a married check. It is your fault. Get over yourself.

>>34826165
See her for the cheating piece of shit that she is and be thankful that she is out of your life. Find another woman. One who is single preferably.

>>34825953
You should follow the diagram and set up some bait that she sniffs and eats then chokes to death then you can finally get your wish and fuck her dead corpse, everyone wins

>>34825953
she wanted you to make a move, you didnt, she moved on to the next guy
you should move on too, that window closed and it'll not open up again

Don't subscribe to her. Try to meet her outside of her moneymaking platforms. Treat her as another woman instead of a of model

>>34832804
>What are the chances that I could actually somehow go from being a subscriber to BF?
A better question would be why would you even bother. She is a whore, and you fell for her.

>>34832775
Read Psycho-Cybernetics, it will make you aware of the real issue.
Then, if you still think you need some help, there are plenty of books that teach you proper social behavior.
It's just that simple.

>>34832861
Sounds interesting. I'll check it out.

I've been watching YT/books w/o improvement. This topic sounds like my issue, though. ty

What exactly do you feel you're lacking in social skills? Do you get distracted easily during conversations or get emotionally reactive in weird ways? It doesn't sound like you need to learn social skills but just practice them again if you've had public-facing work in the past.

Without getting an answer back yet, the one thing I'd say up front is that a pro for you even if it's a con for the rest of humanity is that basically everyone has turned into a more socially retarded, somewhat crueller version of themselves in the years since COVID, and a lot of people are much more socially awkward than they used to be, so you're not alone and it's also not hard if you're consciously thinking about these things to be kind of a stand-up guy in comparison with some focus.

>>34832986
>why am I like this
its a multitude of things.

most commonly is I cannot take any kind of pressure anymore. my heart races if im questioned or held accountable to anything. I feel like I get defensive and wanna flip out easily. I usually isolate when I feel this coming. even if I didn't do anything wrong.

secondly is having no idea what to talk about with people. im awkward unless I have a few beers, then I chat all night. I tend to talk way too much or too little. I can tell when it's too much I suck the air out of the room. then I get nervous and talk even more. I lose control of my tongue. I can make people laugh but I can tell they're laughing at me.

part of it also is my physical build rn. I gained about 40 lbs during this period. I look horrible physically. I used to attract women and now I dont even get looks. I think it's depression but im very tired and lethargic all the time so I struggle to consistently go to the gym and meal prep like im supposed to. caffeine gives me palpitations so that didn't help.

I also have this weird obsession with being the center of attention, but once I have it, I have no idea how to handle it. I think im starting to grow out of this one, but it still affects my self esteem when I notice people dont seem interested in talking to me. idk whats going on w that.

>covid
yeah, I see that. It's kinda scary to see how antisocial people are. I think that messes with my compass on how I'm doing in a room as well.


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>>34831765
this photo isn't of me kek

my bacne is mostly limited to my upper back, and i think that's mainly because of dirty shirts + sitting in my gayming chair + not bathing as regularly as i used to

>>34830440
Best advice in thread

>>34829777
Stop taking test injections or steroids you retard

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>>34830440
>use an exfoliating brush or cloth on your back in the shower. Do this before you use soap
Any explanation for why you should exfoliate before using soap? I usually scrub my entire body down with one of these exfoliating gloves (back included) with the bar of soap inside the glove. I've heard that exfoliants can cause acne to get worse because of the irritation, though, which is why i avoid using this thing on my face. Doesn't seem to make much difference either way on my bacne, but if there's a legitimate reason for doing it in a specific manner, I'd like some more information that can back that claim up.

>sleep without a shirt to let your back air out some
I try to wash my bed sheets at least once a week, but sometimes I end up putting it off due to the entire process being a time consuming pain in the ass. After about 2 weeks sleeping in the same sheets becomes uncomfortable enough that it becomes a priority, though. I guess I can try sleeping without a shirt on to see if it helps. I'm thinking I should just make a point to change my shirt before I sleep. I've gotten in the habit of wearing the same shirt for a day or two if I don't end up going anywhere, which is probably a major contributor to the sudden increase in bacne.

>>34832304
I'm not a /fit/izen-- got 0 interest in roids. I *do* take amphetamines, though, which definitely do fuck with hormones a bit. I've heard of some people who break out when they take adderall, and I've noticed a trend between acne and amphetamines. But I think it's mostly because of the way the drug affects behavior rather than the drug itself. Either way, quitting adderall isn't an option right now, so whatever solutions there are have to take my use of the drug into consideration.

>>34821717
Probably an easy very in-demand thing to get into. Dunno about staying in but getting in seems about easy, job-wise, always sounds like a we take anyone physically sound enough type thing

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Since I don't know which country you're in, I can only give general advice.
If you get a job as a construction labourer, that's a common and easy start. The work sucks, but because a lot of people don't want to get into it, it's usually pretty easy to find that kind of work. They'll get you doing the shit kicker work, like digging ditches, moving earth, moving supplies, clearing and sweeping where tradesmen have been, shit like that.
Aside from giving you experience on site, it will put you in contact with a lot of different building tradesmen. You can look at a lot of different work that various trades do, talk to them about how to get into that field, ask if they have jobs going, shit like that. And even if you just use it to find construction jobs online, you now have experience and a list of references from relevant tradesmen in your area.
I worked as a construction labourer for a few years, but had no real interest in getting into a building trade. But I saw a few people get further into the work that way. One young guy I worked with was really into plumbing, and when he told our supervisor, he started to get given certain jobs that would be plumbing-adjacent to give him an idea of what would be involved. Most labouring isn't like that, but most of what I said before more than likely still applies.
The part about tradies being smokers, drinkers, druggos, etc is often true. I remember seeing some concreters on site who kept going back to their work ute to pack a bong and keep smoking. A landscaper I worked with also had worked as a conreter's labourer, and a portion of his job was just keeping weed chopped up for when they wanted a smoke. Most of the plumbers I worked on site with got on the bag and took MDMA over the weekend. Don't even get me started about bricklayers. The electricians tended to be a bit cleaner, but all in all, most of them were alright.

>>34833074
Is it really tough guy work or do they just ham it up to scare away literal faggots?

>>34824965
>what industry is both well-paid, low stress and welcoming?
Software engineering 10 years ago

>>34833094
There's plenty of machismo on site, but all that shit other people were saying about tradesmen being harsh and bullying apprentices didn't really track in my experience. It was much more common 15-20 years ago, but just didn't seem to be as much of a thing.
I saw apprentices being given some of the hardest, shittiest work, but that's also to be expected when you're a first year.
One thing to be mindful of and look out for is sometimes tradesmen will hire someone on as a first year apprentice, and then just use them for unskilled labour. That way they can get them to do all their heavy lifting, and the really shit work, but they don't have to pay them as much money as a labourer would get. But building sites are basically a hotbed of gossip; so you'll find out about a lot of that pretty quickly.
>literal faggots
Also seemed to be something that nobody really cared about in my experience. You'd be surprised how progressive building sites and workshops can be these days. But you're probably not going to be told that by a terminally-online homophobe on 4chan.