>man wants to date me>not really physically attracted to him not even sure if I would want to have sex with him>Can't force myself to leave him because I am attached to his personality
>>33675208If you are attracted to the person inside the packaging, you come to find the packaging attractive. If the packaging is a deal-breaker, there can't be much real attraction to the person inside.
>>33675335I think she likes his behavior.
>>33675208Ask him to go to the gym with you and tell him you should both get plastic surgy. Him for his face, and you for your tits. Men, unlike women, are more likely to view such "deals" as a plus. Especially if you explain the fact, you love his personality and how he is in bed, but you don't see anything above the hips as sexy.
>>33675208kill yourselfyou dont love his personality, only the attention he gives you, thats all.
well, if you really like his character, then you can use your "womanhood" to "charm" him and as >>33679237 said in a way, try to influence him in a way, so he might consider going to the gym or in general exercise his body. like a lil nudging him in the direction, giving him a signal.NOT plastic surgery about the face. the face is the window/makeuop of the soul. one cant really exercise that by force idekthats a bad idea to saythe question rather is if that really is what you think is the/your problem and when hes more muscular or lean or whatever, if that really changes the attraction
People say women become more slutty than usual around Halloween, where do you go to meet them if you're a virgin in your 30s and don't have friends?
>>33679290I went to club one time and one milf was a bit touchy with me, so maybe that's the solution. Could have been a fluke though, she approached me outside the club
>>33679280>where do you go to meet them if you're a virgin in your 30s and don't have friends?You don't. If you're a virgin in your 30s it's time to give up.
>>33679427NEVER!!
>>33679280>People say women become more slutty than usual around Halloweenno they don't. they dress more provocatively for one night but they don't change their demeanor at all
>>33679455They do because they are more drunk.Halloween in the USA is one of a handful of holidays where people who don't usually drink drink A LOT. New Years, St Paddys day, The night before thanksgiving, 4th of July, Spring Break. If their costume is slutty they will get into character.
I have a retarded female cousin who's autistic/adhd/bipolar/dyslexic/tourettes and part of the LGBTQ+ community she just can't stop discussing about leftist politics, contastly fighting with on her Xitter and Tiktok and talks about fucking stupid characters like Hazbin Hotel, Digital Circus, Roger Rabbit, Homestuck, Bill Cipher, Mr Game and Watch, Shadow the Hedgehog, Invader Zim, Ren and Stimpy, Rocko's Modern Life and motherfucking videogame mascots like Bubsy, Daxter, Earthworm Jim, Rayman and Parappa and it's fucking exhausting. I'm seriously considering cutting her off completely. It's almost as if they got infected by mind aids brainworms that sometimes spasm and makes them go on multi day insufferable autistic tranny leftist rampages, She cannot interact with anyone socially because of all the slang that he is using infected his brain or at least that's what I think.I wish I could permanently delete all of her social media accounts, destroy all of her mobile devices and consoles and sell the fucking TV that is been shitting up my parents' mind with news garbage enough to buy a car to get away from my family.I have cutoff my parents for turning them into psycho left wing disney adults who believe in Christianity, BLM and vegan pro-life rights and personally attacking me severely because i criticized Disney and PETA very badly online for making shit products, grooming, wokeness, scams and killing animals in the past. None of them knows how atheist, mentally sane,racist and antisemitic I am, and I won't bother revealing my power level to them
>>33673201>I won't bother revealing my power level to themI can't lie man you both sound incredubly obnoxious, you are possibly even worse though
>>33673201No, I don't care about social media obsessed people and was never that close to my cousins to begin with. Tldr.
>>33673201You sound like a bit of an unlikable faggot I'm not gonna lie
>>33673201How old is she?
>>33673201sounds made up, autistic people that get into those things don't get into ALL of those things, they wouldn't have time, you have to understand that when they get into a thing they explore every nook and cranny of that interestbetter bait next time.
I know I’d be a great husband and father if given the chance. All I need and want is just one opportunity to prove myself, why won’t anybody let me?
>>33678507because women superficial value over deeper value, lack of critical and long term thinking anon, its not very complex so dont suffer about it
>>33679147I’m a pretty normal everyday guy and do all of those things.
>>33679262Obviously not.>But I do X and YNot good enough.I’ll use myself for comparison because I’ve been in a number of fulfilling relationships that youve only dreamed of>dream = your post I go to Meijers each week and the cashiers call me Daddy when I buy beer. Another scrambled to bag my groceries after tailing me through the store.>Im balding and 5’ 8”At no point in my encounters with these women did I encourage this behavior. If you are not getting these types of reactions, then you are severely blind to something. Or, you just frequent shit areas - which is also your fault. I purposely go where the women are and let them fantasize.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>I know I’d be a great husband and father if given the chance.If you had a father figure who modeled good behavior you wouldn't be begging for the opportunity here.
>>33678507Forget women, 80% don't care. Try this instead. https://completesurrogacy.com/surrogacy-options-for-single-men-in-usa/
We've been together since highschool and I practically raise our twins while she works. I make about 20k doing at my government job, only kept it because of all the health insurance and benefits as a gubbmint employee.She makes about 150k after tax and has said that I can keep the twins because she can support them from afar./adv/ it's practically over right? She's already over me?
>She's already over me?>I can keep the twinsAnd apparently, the same could be said for her disposition towards your children.
>>33675835>yourwhy are you assuming that they're actually OP's kids?
>>33675826>20k doing at my government jobYou a crossing guard, OP? I'm not sure how that works that there's ajob only paying $20K. Part time summer lifeguard?
>>33675826Bro you're about to leave a trash woman and take half her shit. you should be celebrating.
i make more than $20k a year on disability lmaothat is not a job worth working
>25>not manlet>pretty leanHow hard is it to get Indian gf with my stats? And is it doable in Australia?
>>33676285Half chinkIncredibly average
>>33676361You do realize they don't wear deodorant right?
>>33676529
>>33676361Probably doable
Why would you want that
Women don't like me
>x don't like methis means you don't like someone and people are making you experience it back
>>33673802It's not just women
>>33675811>It's not just womenThis. I don't like OP either for using this advice board as a blog.
>>33673802You don't need women to be happy.
How do I acquire a gf that I can just be myself and cringe with?
>>33670697/adv/ was literally created because people on /r9k/ were complaining that the board had too many threads asking for relationship advice.
>>33674573read popular porn books and talk to girls on booktok about them in a non-creepy way. if you don't know how to do that, basically, pretend that it's the most captivating writing you've ever read, and talk to girls about it with no expectation of having sex with them. eventually one of them will probably fall in love with you due to proximity, closeness, and shared interest. then dick her down with all the force of an alien horse cocked demon or whatever the fuck those books are about
>>33670594Get a dog for a gf. They tend to be down for whatever weird thing as long as it's not uncomfortable.
>wasting a good cake for tiktok shit
it's not like that, but having a genuine best friend i can legitimate be as cringe as possible is really great man. she and i are pretty open with how goofy and retarded we can be and it's freeing. hoping you find someone, whether girlfriend of best friend, who can let you be proud and openly autistic with.
How do I cope with the fact that everything fucking sucks nowadays, and that it gets worse every year? I'm struggling to maintain optimism and happiness in this age of collapse and disintegration.
It's not the end of the world, just the end of the world as we know it. I think we all have very bright futures ahead of us.Spend more time outside. It sucks that people have memed "touch grass" into a meaningless catchphrase. Spend time in the sun and the fresh air. Visit a park. Go hiking or camping. If you aren't into any of that, at least try to get out of town or even just out of the neighborhood. Just go look at something that isn't that stuff around you that kind of sucks.There is so much beauty everywhere, but you have to go look at it. It isn't here on this screen.
>>33673625Everybody of every generation has been exactly like you. Every human mind is limited to the context of its own lifespan. Its easy for silly things to suck because we have no other frame of reference. I don't know about you but for me, personally, it helps to remember that my existence in and of itself is nothing less than a statistical miracle. Don't get so wrapped up in your melodramatics that you forget your consciousness is a gift given to almost nothing in our endless universe. Simply to be alive and aware that you exist is a thing so unlikely to happen that, to our knowledge, it happens nowhere else in a billion light years in any direction. If you can't squeeze any enjoyment out of this life then you were destined to fail regardless of your circumstances. Compounding and breeding future generations of young people who have absolutely no resiliency or ability to bounce back from any adversities whatsoever will be the end of the human experience. Knock it off.
>>33673625Reconcile with the fact your happiness is uncorrelated with your situation or the state of the world. The single most difficult thing one can do. Even I can only do it like 40% of the time. Get off social media and don't watch news either.
>>33673625>everything sucksThat is not true, and the problem is in you.
>>33673625Get a mare you can love and cherish.
37 years old. marriage going nowhere, fighting over the smallest things. 2 kids in the kindergarten. should I divorce and fulfil my dream of moving to Japan? Will still have around 200k in assets after divorce. Wish I could still be around my older son, but she will probably take the kids back to her home country anyway and I see no point in staying a miserable fuck.
>>33678986>That's it! I've had it up to here with all these mindless sheeple falling in line and doing nonsense for the "greater good"! I'm still traumatized from having to wear masks during covid! Capitalism is ruining people's lives to the point where they're not even interested in dating each other and starting families, cheap indian immigrants are flooded into the country, fuckin morons are glued to their phones watching anime and vtubers - I'm moving to Tokyo where none of this happens!!!!!yeah man best of luck, Japan is essentially a Western society. They're like 20 years ahead of us in a lot of ways, like how we're only now seeing how zoomers are internet-addicted sexless incels obsessed with Girlfriend Simulators and the girls have their own Boyfriend Simulators when they've been dealing with that in Japan for decades.
>>33679022Look, I would rather be completely apolitical and bond with people over nerd shit rather than wasting my nerves on serious arguments over things beyond my control. Even if Japan has their own version of left and right, at least those are THEIR politics, not affecting MY country. I will never be japanese and I never intend to be, I just want to be a guest for a while.
>>33679061but you would still be on the internet on twitter or youtube comments or even on 4chan being mad at the latest whatever.
>>33679022Do you live there? Ever spend any significant amounts of time there?
>>33678586Do not abandon your children.
Do most male friendships consist of banter? When does it cross the line?
>>33676300Girls are much worse, they are manipulative, backstabbing, they're mean/evil bitches
>>33676318Some are yes, but I guess I can see through the ones that are backstabby. The women I'm friends with are great
>>33676327>The women I'm friends with are greatThats what you think anon, they probably talk shit about you. Dont always trust your women friends.
When they insult you with no context or it being funny. And they dont apologize if they offended you
>>33671733Most dudes slowly ease into figuring out what the other guy's comfortable with, by the time they know each other well they know what winds him up and what makes him seriously mad and don't stray beyond the winding up bit.
how do you start a family if you're a 24 year old incel male about to graduate university?i meet females at work but 90 % of them are older than me. should i just ask every potential partner out?
meet females at uni
>>33676277im doing that right now. built my own distinct style, got a haircut and few perfumes.>Join a salsa class and an art class.sounds like dumb bullshit, but i have to consider this if i can find a wife there>>33676279i never went to any events i go tinvited because i rather spend time on myself
>>33676307Then go now
>>33676307also working out and counting macros and calories and whatnot to go from skinny-fat to something better
>>33676255>how do you start a familyhttps://completesurrogacy.com/surrogacy-options-for-single-men-in-usa/
How the FUCK are you supposed to know what you look like? Like, I see myself in a mirror, in photos, and I just cant really SEE myself you know?
>>33675867true same>>33674319k how do i get better?>>33674310yeah people seem nice but not exceptionally nice or anything idk not sure if I look nice and approachable or if I just look happy which people react to or idk
>>33674282You're not and you don't look the same to everyone who meets you anyways. Every single person you have ever met has a slightly different interpretation of you.
>>33674282You look different to everyone else who looks at you too. A thousand things to focus on and take into account and everyones radio tuned slightly differently.
>>33674319Define "skill issue"Zoomers love using phrases and words they cannot understand the etymology of
>>33678815>>33678822I see. That makes sense. Thanks
At this point I've accepted that I will almost certainly never know what being the recipient of romantic or sexual feelings feels like.But I feel like thats just life. Have to take the good with the badDo you think this is a bad mentality?
There's still people stupid enough to think romantic love exists? LOL Enjoy your autistic delusions.
>>33676257Get a unfixed dog dummy.
last episode: >>33675331be nice and have fun!
>>33681882thanks anon!
>>33681876>no matter what i doBecause you are always attention whoring and do absolutely nothing positive for the general.
>>33681888wahhh wahhh i hate nice things wahhh
>>33681893You never did anything nice for the general, professional victim.
>>33681157Cute!
