Does repeating a mantra in my head work?
>>34334462This is just like neurological programming. I do believe in mindfulness and meditation and shepherding your emotions and stuff. The corporate version is trying to program you to be a certain specific way that suits it, but you can program yourself to be anything if you learn who your true self is.
>>34334462Oh, every time you get effortlessly perfect at something, try to add a way to make it more complicated or harder.
>>34334502Indeed. It is being pushed by alot of celebrities and tech entrepeneurs.>>34334508Ok, thank you.
>>34334462I'd been very suspicious of it for a while too. Never had any idea about it.
>>34330422I forgot the question
student teacher here and today was the first time that i was really tested. it was the first time i taught completely by myself and one eighth grade class i had was just so awful. constantly interrupting, mocking me, just not listening, shutting off the lights. we hardly got any work done. the other classes were rowdy but not as bad--they know it's my first time doing it alone and are trying to grill me i think. it's expected and i didn't lose my cool at all, i just reminded them about rules. it's not that i had a freak out, it's just that is this what i'll be expecting to be regular treatment if i want to be a teacher? all i see are burnt out drones at the school who bitch about students every time they're in the teacher's lounge, and i don't want to end up like that in a couple years. there's a lot about teaching that i like but so much of it doesn't help with growing pessimism i have about the world i'm in. literacy rates are terrible, attention spans are shit, idk it seems people are getting dumber and that's not just the kids. should i do a potential teaching career, or do i hop off ship? graduating uni soon and am scared about what my life's gonna be
>>34334205it's true, they're really not that bad. even if i've gotten annoyed by them i do remember they are kids, who can be pretty kind to me personally even when acting rowdy. other teachers have told me that the kids all do really like me so it could amount to a pretty rewarding experience. today was a less interactive lesson so that should've been expected. idk i'm thinking of teaching at least for a few years then seeing where my life takes me. maybe not forever but i do like what i do most of the time.
>>34334105>there's a lot about teaching that i like but so much of it doesn't help with growing pessimism i have about the world i'm in. literacy rates are terrible, attention spans are shit, idk it seems people are getting dumber and that's not just the kids.that should be all the more motivation to become an effective teacheralso, try to treat it as a game each day you go in, where the goal is to get their attentiontreat them as NPCsthey may be terrible kids but that's not the point really, just try to hold their attention & treat it as a game each dayif those things both sound impossible, then yeah, it might not be a good career & you might end up like those burnt out people in the teachers lounge
>>34334248>other teachers have told me that the kids all do really like me so it could amount to a pretty rewarding experience.ah, that's good, if it's truethere might be a way to get them to focus, at least>idk i'm thinking of teaching at least for a few years then seeing where my life takes me. maybe not forever but i do like what i do most of the time.it seems like hard work, so i would definitely give it some further thoughtit could be very rewarding though, like you said
>>34334105Public school? Remember public school teachers are scum, look for something private or in religious schools. If you can't hack that, give up and just become a tradie. If you're considering being a teacher that's the height of what you're mentally equipped for, and you'll make at least twice as much.
>>34334105Don't you remember being a kid? We ALWAYS gave hell to substitutes and student teachers, even when we were angels with our regular teachers
During lockdown 2021 I spent nearly $4k on Onlyfans girlsI am no longer a coomer, and got into therapy but I feel immense guilt for being such a wimp loser back then. Even tho I have gf now, and blocked those sites I still feel immense shame for spending that much, given it was only picsIs it even possible to move on & not be so hard on myself
>>34332781Its normal to feel like and idiot after doing idiotic things. So the shame is normal and correct. Just be sure you don't do that anymore and treat it as a retarded moment in your past.
>>34332781>Is it even possible to move onyes
just stop being a pussyive fucked troons and sucked off like 3 guys in my twenties (not gay, just a dark period) and i dont even dwell on it anymore
>>34332781 1 Corinthians 13:11 "When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things"
So erm why do they spend money on porn when there's infinite free shit out thereDo they want to feel special that bad that they'd pay money just to pretend for a whileDid they get click baited or something How does the business of selling something where infinite free variations of it exist work
My cope mechanisms are finally failing, I can't deal with my life anymore. I really thought that when my brain matured it would trigger a switch in my head, but it didn't. My thought process is still the same as when I was a teen: Let's see how it turns out, if it's too much, just kill yourself. I'm too close to the second part, and I at least realize that I need to do something.Any books or mentality I should adopt?
>>34335267Not sure what issues plague you, but I personally found my public speaking class' book to be helpful for making conversation and just getting some ideas. It's called Speech Craft. As for when life is giving you the business, setting little goals with time limits help me get me towards what my end goal is.
Hello! I’m a 20 year old woman, and I’ve never had a boyfriend, I’ve never kissed someone, and I’m still a virgin. Im literally a loser girl help.The thing is, I don’t think I’m unattractive. I actually get told I’m pretty quite often. I have a nice body, I put effort into my appearance, I make sure I always smell good, and I generally take care of myself. But for some reason, it just hasn’t happened for me yet.I’ve realized I have a very specific "type." I’m really into guys who are cute, sweet, and nerdy the shy types. But in today’s world, I feel like I have no idea where they are hiding or how to even approach them. Since they’re shy and I’m inexperienced idk what to do I’m starting to feel a bit lost. Is it "weird" to be my age with zero experience in this dating climate? To the girls who like the same kind of guys, or to the guys who fit that description:* Where do you guys actually hang out (besides your smelly rooms)?* How do I approach a shy guy without scaring him?* What can I do to make myself more approachable to that specific "nerdy/shy" crowd? (Like actually tell me what you guys like in appearance and behavior) To be more specific about the dynamic I'm looking for: I’ve realized I naturally lean toward being the more assertive person. I’m really into guys who are a bit more submissive or shy, and I actually enjoy taking the lead and being the dominant one. I love the feeling of making a guy a little nervous in a cute way, but since I’m still new to this, I’m worried about coming on too strong and accidentally scaring them off. I'm pretty chronically online myself, I really want to find someone who gets that world, but I'm also just ready to finally feel what it's like to actually have someone of my own.I’d love some advice on this please helppppp
you could take a community college class and probably find someone. i met my wife in medical school
>>34333144>>34333166>>34333177these sequential digits and no replies?todays generation is hopeless
>>34333289The projection here is crazy lmao. Just because you’ve spent so much time in your own bubble that you’ve convinced yourself women are a different species, doesn’t mean I’m a 'LARP’ It’s honestly funny how you to claim we don't exist just because girls like me aren't interested in you. I don't need to ask anons to date me because I’m not looking for a sea of bitter guys who get aggressive the second a girl describes her type and it happens to not be them.And yeah yeah I know this is just some low tier rage bait, and it’s honestly kind of cute how much effort you put into it. Since you went through all that trouble just to get my attention, I’ll give you a reply. And honestly I don't care if you want to believe I'm a guy if anything, it just proves I have more character than you ever will. But keep writing those little essays, it's actually pretty adorable. Stay mad and cope harder cutie.
>>34334509Haha honestly, the library/hills vibe is a massive win. And I appreciate the actual advice. The bit about not making it too obvious is a gold mine. It’s refreshing to find someone here who actually knows how to talk to a woman without having a total meltdown. You definitely seem like the type I’d actually enjoy crossing paths with. Thank youu king <3
In obscurity and shame, craning their necks, looking as screens offering no connection to reality.
how do i meet women?It seems pretty much impossible.
maybe get a fucking life and off 4chan otherwise your only hope is sexdolls or femboys
>>34334159Yeah the only way is going back to uni. Also women are less likely to speak to you than men are. So either have an established presence on a forum and approach them or nothing.
>>343341271) why would you even want that?2) There is a whole thread on how to get women that you can consult instead
Less irl and online places thnt in the past. Too many women have exaggerated bullshit standards which they require else you can fuck right off. Men are checking out, self-deleting, and pining for better days that may never happen.
>>34334127Sign up to a dance class. Worked for me.
Is it normal to want attention from other women while in a relationship?Honestly I just want to feel handsome and wanted.
>>34335850goon bait
Sounds like >>34334859 you two could get a room
I thought I was going to leave last night. I was in bed watching my favourite lets play. cozied up and giggling.I made so many cuts my forearms turned red. I had a hot towel to stop the clotting. I wished my dead dog a happy birthday. I felt peace.I JUST FEEL ASLEEPAAAAAAAAA
>>34333473Use a VPN anon? It's that simple, just use Tor and put in your IP address, the sign up page has everything.
>>34333473How old is this dumbass?
Okay this past few years after covid I have been wanting an unobtainable GF, mostly online flirting stuff except for my current thing that has been an in person thing, I talked to 2 prostitutes in two different occasions and yesterday I asked one for her number, I want to date her or something. What can I do, why do I want unrealistic GFs. Any advice so I can stop being like this.My record-Wanted a 4chan GF 22-24 4chan-Wanted a Tranny GF 24 4chan-Wanted a Cunni GF 24-26 other site-currently want a prostitute GF 26 - 2Xin person
>>34334553I liked your advice specially the second one. I'll try to do something about it but things are more difficult to me because I basically lack some basic things. Also my discipline is so bad.
>>34334525Thanks, this is good advice, I'll remember this. I quit the tranny stuff because it was gay.
You’re a fucking retard.
Don't reproduce.
I dont care if you are mad at me. I don't care if you know this is me.
I shit my pants at a party with 50+ people present. I just couldn't hold it in. Everybody saw, and smelt, my fat brown load. How the fuck do I get over the shame?
>>34335380Shit Even Harder
Do you work with those people, will you see them again?Just ignore it.
>>34335380Quit your job, move to a new state. You will never live it down.
>>34335380Kill you for making up a fake story and kill the guy in your OP for being a politician in Shitgland
Say you’re. Bottom gay and you have bad retainment of butt it just comes out easily bcuz yo boyfriend make you loose just say that and they pretrending to be good person. So they won’t laugh at gay
Why do women try to make men feel bad for wanting to have sex?
>>34335497Explain how you get into this situation
i wont read passive aggressive wonderings on the advice board
>>34335497Are you talking about a specific woman in your life or “women” in general as a concept?
>>34335497They are afraid of being fucked without a romantic relationship developing from that. Something like that.Men should be afraid of having a friendship or a sexless romantic relationship with a woman.
They grew up more with a desire to live life to the fullest, so they hung out more with mature things and made their parents proud with honor roll and a high gpa. Most of us guys here on a computer were the opposite, distancing from all of that sticking to a computer with its stuff. What pisses most women about this off, is she wants to fulfill her intellectual pursuits. With us around we distract it too much to the point of her wishing to be a lesbian, or desperately trying. All I got to say the way you can solve this is not by shoving it down or being openly about it, but rather being gentle and light-hearted about it. Do that, but without expecting her to be happy about it, but the ability to walk away from you with a sense of peacefulness that they are alright.
https://voca.ro/1a9K7NEbuQmJIt seems useless yet i have hope why do i?summer is coming up, but in the back of my head i think the nightmare is going to continue. I thought that only happens during the winter it was just all the time i just lied to myself. Anyways happy time happy time :-) this is satire im sane happy and healthy ^-^ b
>>34331236also here a little something about me like a ero scene from a vn you get a little fun fact!!!! one time i was scared to ask my gym teacher to go the bathroom so i thought it would be better to just piss like hella so my pants are all wet so no one would notice. It worked after gym class was done it was already dried and only had one girl mentioned i didnt really care
>>34331236>feel like i cant do anythingHow do you feel about meds? Like anti-depressants and stuff? I usually don't recommend them since they... bleh, make you lose your entire character/personality BUT maybe the pros will outweigh the cons for you :^) >people around me arent the bestWhat do you mean? Why don't you just leave them if you can't rely on them?>therapist have sex with their patients heheheIdk, the female ones probably do, kek. I think that's a breach of conduct tho>brother goes to therapy and it worked for him so this is why i wanna tryWhat happens if it doesn't work for you?>fucking sucks right now but thats how life goes waiting for this "high"True, I get that. Vidya and shit like that makes it better for me though>thought it would be better to just piss like hella so my pants are all wet so no one would noticeKekw sorry, I don't want to be mean but that's slightly retarded. Would have been stinky af ;_;
>>34331317Idk it seems the path forward is gonna take a lot of my person and i really cherish my person, so i really hate it.>Why don't you just leave them if you can't rely on them?They are my family and i live with them so i dont know. i feel like if i leave ,when i come back they would resemble a horrible image I really have nothing else so i rely on them
>>34331493>my family and i live with themYou're a uni student rite? Are you broke? You can technically get a part time job and save up, try to leave your family if they're weirdos like that. My dad left and my mom was insane so I left too.
>>34333535nah im dropped out at 14 mental issues and got my diploma at 18 ang got a job at 19 and like a broken car finally on the road, i was prone to breaking down so i shut myself in for the whole year and im just now trying to get shit together. So thats the main goal but i really want to help my family because i feel like if i dont im never going to see them again even if its terrible. But i know deep down i dont know why im really here still, if i could i would leave.
Hello frens I have a technical question. I want to make a database of some kind where you can link traits to an item and have it simultaneously do the reverse. I realize this is vague but think of it like a wiki where you have a page for a movie and you tag the movie with a certain actor. I want the actor's page to be automatically tagged with the movie at the same time without me having to do it manually. That's just an example but yeah something like that. Is this what database software is for? I've never used it. Please help my autism needs your help
>>34334586>I have a technical questionYou don't, actually, because you don't even know enough about the subject yet. You're just expressing some vague wish in the hopes that somebody will read your mind and magically deduce what you don't know yourself, and point you in a useful direction.
>>34334586>Is this what database software is for?Yes.
>>34334586Claude code could easily do this if you could sit down and focus for a few hours
>>34334586Yes, database software is good for this.Also, up front, please see: >>>/g/For something simple, I recommend a typical relational database software like SQLite. This database language is called "SQL".You'll also see things like MySQL/MariaDB, PostreSQL, and more, which are all basically the same underlying technology, but those all require running a server that you have your client connect to, and is a pain, especially for a complete beginner, and they're also unnecessary for your relatively simple task.SQLite has the advantage of running completely locally, no server required, since all it does and read and write to single database files on disk.You can also explore graphing databases! These are the new cool kids on the block, especially for loose lists of items and their traits, and being able to find paths between multiple items. These databses are how services like Netflix analyze your watching preferences to recommend you more content; graph DBs are used very often for recommendation engines.The software that most casual people use is called Neo4j. This database language is called "Cypher".Hope this helps.
>>34335360It does, thank you
I wanna join the US military but I have a lot of self harm scars. The cutting scars on my arm are too blatantly SH to lie about, so I'm hoping they'll give me a waiver for that, but I have some more recent stab wounds on my right foot and leg from a year and a half ago that I wanna lie about. What's a good way to explain like 4 minor stab wounds between my foot and my knee?
>>34332060If you've got a history of mental health issues, I get that you want to fix your life, but the military will make it worse. I mean besides the fact you'll be defending the interests of a pedo banking cabal, the army is deliberately organized to create dysfunction, make soldiers borderline crippled from all the exercise, and neglected if they have service-related issues. It's just a bad environment dude, all the channels telling you to join are people who happened to manage through it, it is otherwise a big risk. Just get a chill job in retail, tough it out for a bit, then pay for some schooling, like HVAC training, an insurance license, etc.
>>34333382I am a straight white male.>>34334331I'm tired of retail I need a change. I'm a NEET now but I can't go back to that. I actually want to be a slave because I don't like making decisions.
>>34333220Nice. Do you know anything about the current state of the FFL? Just wondering. Always thought that was cool as a ouiaboo.
Update: Navy recruiter said "I cut myself because I was bored" makes me sound crazy and is bad. He told me a girl was molested and cut and they let it pass. So I should lie and say I was molested? Really? We found my bicycle accident story for my leg to be sufficient, so that answers the OP. I can say the foot was something else.
do you really want to be sacrificed unto moloch? i mean this literally not figuratively.you literally, unironicly are signing away your free will, your very essence, your soul away, to be passed through the fire (which is called holocaust) as a burned offering to the anti-deity>>34334530>I am a straight white male.of course you are. the best (most yummy) souls for molekh, only. again, not memeing
>be me>25>extreme anxiety since middle school>nothing worked for 10 years, even meditation, exercising...>no money for therapy and i think it's a scam anyway>found xanax/benzos + kratom>they helped me tremendous with anxiety, general tiredness due to overthinking>4 years now and nothing has aided me more than benzos and kratom>people all over the world saying it's the worst addiction ever, worse than heroin...etc>literally life saver for me, never had to up the dosage, just makes me feel like a normal human being>social butterfly on benzos, relaxed on kratomam i doing it right by self medicating?
>>34331043Forgot to mention, also Holy Basil (Rama) works good.
>>34331037>Did you guzzle a handle of vodka every day, or how did you drop your IQ low enough to make such retarded statements? Your brain does need time to regenerate having all kinds of receptors firing on max after doing it, but occasional MDMA is not a problem at all. Continued use can do some damage, but not as long as you only do it as an occasional party drugYou're a retarded idiot who drank the koolaid
>>34330671You're lucky the benzos are working for you. They worked for me great for 5 years, but eventually I developed an addiction and was taking up to 6mg of xanax/day. I had my wakeup call last week. I don't know what my solution is going to be, but it's back to social anxiety for now at least. Please be careful you don't get addicted. Although, I was mixing them with alcohol to intentionally induce amnesia so I could forget my shitty life.
>>34330671I've never done stuff like that but I've suffered with anxiety too for a long time as well. It's made me an old neet. :(
>>34330794>Medical studentpls do tell how fast exit the serotonin syndrome, ty
