Should I pay a prostitute if I'm 31 years old and a virgin?
>>32621904no, that'd be gross.
>>32621904>Should I pay a prostitute if I'm 31 years old and a virgin?If you want to, sure. Banging hookers is great fun. It's also expensive and doesn't last very long. But it's important to understand that, two days later, you will feel 100% identical to the way you feel now. If you're expecting it to be some kind of transformative experience, it won't be. It's just short-lived, expensive fun, and absolutely nothing else.
>>32621904Do you just want to have sex? If so, a prostitute is a fine solution to that problem.
>>32621904You could but it's not going to solve any of your problems.
>>32621904Depends on why you're considering having sex with a prostitute. If you just wanna know what sex on it's own feels like this sure go nuts. Prostitutes are at least okay to know what it feels like to be inside a pussy.Just bear in mind it's not gonna compare to having sex with someone who actually likes you and the prostitute is most likely just gonna focus on finishing you off fast and kicking you to the curb, you have to be mentally prepared for that reality.If you think it's gonna be a life changing experience than DON'T DO IT because you're gonna hate yourseslf and feel mad at yourself that you wasted money on just a emotionless experience and it's gonna make you apathetic about sex overall because of a crappy paid experience with it.Again just understand the prostitutes are not having sex with YOU they're having sex with you because you're paying them, they don't care about you, you're just another loser who had to resort to directly paying for it because you don't have a woman who likes you enough to want to have sex with YOU.
I always get a headache after washing my hair. Am I the only one? Is there something wrong with me?
I need to pay rent. I can't. I'm okay with overdrawing my account and nuking it. Work slowed down. I don't have the hours. I'm kinda fucked. But I just need time. I can't get a loan. But if I can force my bank to go into the negative for a little while thats good enough. So how do I do it?
An overdraft isn't something you can manually trigger. It happens on external drawings and it's at the discretion of your bank if they'll allow it.
>>32624908Pay your rent and you will simply be in overdraft if your bank allows it. If you’re not even sure how to overdraft I doubt you understand the consequences of doing so. Look at your policy or call your bank. Are you paying rent in Jan? Or Feb? If it’s for next month see if you can run uber eats or find an odd job to do to cover yourself. Also be aware of how late you are allowed to be on your rent. In my state for eg. Paying on the 4th is “on time”
>>32625019For example, I tried paypal and it worked for a littl while but it took 15 days and then they just reversed it. But a few days ago 30 brough my account negative. It was a charge from my phone company.
>>32625043I'm late. I'm working for Feb, but I still need to figure out Jan. Can't do uber in my town
I'm constantly enraged over how unfair my life is, how ridiculous society is, how stupid everyone around me is. I don't know how to vent all this anger, it wells up inside me and eventually I start tweaking the fuck out. It doesn't matter if I'm in public or even at work, I'll start shaking and even crying just because of how angry I am. I want to smash shit, throw shit, stomp, kick, crush, punch, like a toddler throwing a tantrum.But I can't help it, no matter how shameful it feels. My body feels physically uncontrollable, like I'm literally being possessed by my own demons. What makes it worse is nobody cares, nobody gives a fuck that I'm having a bad time or that I'm upset. They're just like, "Chill out man, what's your problem" I can't even explain it to them. Nobody else gets mad over the shit I do. Which just makes me even angrier.How do I handle this shit? I'm going to ruin my own life if I don't figure something out. I've already alienated all my friends and isolated myself.
>>32625643What do you do with your time? Usually when people who care this much about things external to them that they have no control over it means they have very little going on in their life. Usually no job, no friends, no hobbies, etc. The more interesting and varied life you have, the less you tend to care about all this external stuff.
>>32625662I don't really do anything except work my dead-end job. I have no friends, I rarely spend time with family. I used to do a bunch of neet hobbies like vidya and reading, but nowadays I just don't feel like doing anything. I lay in bed and lurk on 4chan. What should I do? I mean I don't even know where to go or what to do with my time.
>>32625643>have problem>don't care>have no problemit's literally so easy
>>32625643Have you thought about going to church and finding God to deal with the unfairness of life?
>>32625643Physical exertion. Join a sports club and wear yourself out. It will release endorphins and you'll be too tired/happy to care about living in a soulless society of retards
i got on a dating app. whales and fat black womenthe only somewhat attractive women only exist on social media and they are getting ugly to me too sexual degenerates lacking in dimorphism .PICREL is the only attractive woman is it possible to find an exact replica of her?
>>32624689YouTube make-up transformations are a massive blackpill. Some of those transformations turn a 1/10 face into a 10/10 face. I don't trust my eyes anymore.
>>32624689If all you’re getting on dating apps is far ugly women then it’s bc you’re in the same league uggo I get fine ass shyt and my roster’s so filled up I can’t even keep up anymore. Legit talking to 10 girls at once rn
>>32624689You’re telling me you’ve never seen a hot woman in person?
>>32624689>i got on a dating app. whales and fat black womenyou know why that is right? it's because you're not attractive either. i suggest you take a slice of humble pie and recalibrate your prospects
>>32624689Stop watching porn, meet women in real life and you'll like people you would never rate on the internet
How much will I (28m) be bullied for dining alone? Recently realized I hadn't been to a non-bar/fastfood sitdown restaurant in years. Last time, I was cosplaying in a suit as a businessman at a nice family-owned greek restaurant, but I feel like I'll be sniffed out by waitstaff at chain restaurants, which is what they only seem to have in my new area. I really don't want to get dressed up for Applebee's or Olive Garden, but I'm getting sick of Arby's and Taco Bell when I don't feel like cooking. The last time I went to a TGI Friday solo, they just sat me at the bar and I could feel the "pathetic" looks, so I just quietly ate my sandwich and went home. Would a "Oh, looks like my imaginary date ghosted me" also be sleuthed? Would it backfire and really make me an object of ridicule? I just want some chicken gnocchi and a salad...
You're not unique OP. Solo dining is very common.https://www.cnn.com/2024/08/31/business/solo-dining-restaurants-reservations/index.htmlhttps://apnews.com/article/restaurants-solo-dining-trend-e1a4d5259007c5831d1ad0a955875a2fhttps://nypost.com/2024/09/03/us-news/solo-dining-in-us-spikes-29-as-restaurants-cater-to-trend-report/
>>32625969I'm 33 and I still regularly go to half-decent restaurants with nothing unusual to report. Nobody cares, ESPECIALLY the waitstaff. I also don't particularly "dress up" specifically because nobody cares. I'm not a slob, but I'm not about to put on a suit and tie. I just wear whatever pants, a button up shirt/polo (untucked unless it's extra long), a belt, and whatever shoes.Just go in, eat your food, don't stare at other customers, and nobody will fuck with you.
>>32625807People don't care about strangers unless the strangers piss them off. Don't be a shitty customer/diner and you'll be ignored.
>>32625807I traveled a lot on business in my 20s. If you comment you're here on business and have no idea what food is good here what do you suggest? they will look at you like you're a retard if its a nationwide chain but small restaurants are cool and you'll probably get to try interesting, possibly strange, local food.Unless you're the main character in a legacy TV network show, nobody cares about someone eating dinner. I honestly can't remember anyone interesting I've ever seen at a restaurant. I remember a few waitresses being hot, that's about it.
>>32625969>general interactionI think OP is confusing candle-lit romantic valentines day dinner and Hooters and wedding receptions with normal life.I live in a stereotypically "friendly" part of the country and nobody generally interacts, whatever that means.In the old days bars used to be friendlier but now too many people playing on their phones.
I'm constantly hungry. It's 10 am where I live and I'm thinking about having lunch already. I'm not fat or anything but I don't think it's normal to feel so hungry all the time, how do I stop this
>>32625320>anxious Yeah, food releases a lot of dopamine. If you are always stressed, your body will crave it.
>>32625320>no!! expensive!!eat real food and varied then. 90+% organic or at the very least compared by taste. not just the cheapest shit like GMO grains with Bovaer milk.
>>32625313Keto diet. (Genuinely).
>>32625313idk
>>32625313whenever you feel hungry just drink teai drink tea 6 times a day (i still have the usual meals)>>32625647based.
How does one gain and develop self confidence/self esteem? As I work on my social skills and get exposure (which hasn't been working that well) this is a glaring issue and its affecting my ability to be social and connect with others. I don't have any close friends and have never asked a girl out (been asked out by girls, didn't work out because I'm retarded). In fact, I've drifted away from all my friends except for work friends (not real friends according to some on here, we don't hang out or text/talk outside of work). I think my issues stem from a combination of factors from my upbringing to lack of socialization (especially early on, and peer rejection) and insecurity about it. I possibly have social anxiety as well. I am 27 years old, just feel life slipping by as I sit in my bedroom on the computer. I find myself paralyzed by inaction at times when I try to be plan things such as going on a trip or getting involved in more activities such as going to church, going /out/, learning more about /o/ and seeking out people with these interests. In fact I don't even know where to start. I have a good job and work out regularly (although I do struggle with self discipline and lethargy in the mornings too and miss gym days). Any advice for me? I know there have been similar threads before, but I feel my situations a little different than others because I'm not a NEET and did have prior experience but still found myself isolated like this (possibly depression? Autism? I don't know). I still have close family, they're all I really have. I just tend to alienate people for some reason and I don't know why
contemplate death
>>32624020I decided to just enjoy being shit/trash, as well as being mid or goodThat worked. Try that
>>32624463>>32624658Guys come on now>>32624664I desire to be more
>>32624668contemplate death, relinquish desire, realize all of reality is precisely now, filtered through your limited perceptions. The minds of men and women are islands unto themselves, only united by a metaphysical sea.you do not need to be ""socialized."" you do not need carnal knowledge of another woman. you have been fed lies about what it means to have a good life, and what it means to be a man. confidence will come when you see beyond the bounds of your insignificant life, and realize all that which you strive for, all those who judge you, is destined for rot and decay.Embrace what you have; your family will not live forever. If you truly wanted something different more than what you have right now, you would make the sacrifices to get there.
>>32624785What sacrifices?
>Be me, 23, male>Very autistic, very neurotic, very ugly and kind of a wuss>Always fat, terrible at sports>Basically, that classic hollywood nerd stereotype>Lonely and isolated since early childhood>Mom was overcaring, overprotective and always treated me like a baby>Dad was emotionally absent even tho we always lived together>Older sister was condescending and also Infantilized me just like mom>Had no friends until I was like 16 years old>Being chronically alone for so much time gave me a ton of anxiety and low self-esteem>Flashbacks of me spending my "greatest years" completely isolated all by myself keep replaying in my head 24/7>At family gatherings, I would spend all day alone while having to watch all my older cousins playing together without me >In school, the same thing would happen, all kids would have their own groups of friends while I would always be alone>Even when I am invited to social occasions, I always feel left out and like the odd one out.>Can't fit within any group, and I don't identify with anythingComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>32619126Father Garcia :)
>>32620603What if we keep failing until we die?
>>32623485I know how that feels. It's scary. You can try a different one but you probably will just need to be brave
>>32623478there will always be better people, what you need to compare against is your past self
>>32625056I'm waay less cringe than I was before, and I'm also a little bit more sociable. But when it comes to looks I'm basically the same I was at 14. I feel like I still look (and think) like a teenager in middle school.
how do I get over a girl I made out in a trip who I will likely never meet again because of distance? I have her social, but there's no sense keep contacting her if there's no opportunity to go physical.she was so fucking attracted to me it was insane, but on the other hand I can't even ignore the fact she probably hooked up with more guys for the rest of her tripit's been almost 1 month already and she's still living rent free on my mind
>>32620730we both weren't from the country we were visiting and she lives an ocean away from me, so...
bump
>>32620724By meeting other women
>>32620724>I went on an overseas trip and had an amazing time, how do I cope?Go do it again. Obviously. Or stay in your room and mope and buy me the tickets
>>32625463sir I can only travel once a year what would be a cope for the rest of the 11 months?
I can’t find a new job. I can’t afford my rent. All of my friends are ghosting me. I can’t find a girlfriend. Why am I going through so much pain right now? When will my suffering finally end? What’s the point of my life?
>>32625874Live in your car and drive from city to city until you find something worth staying for.
>>32625874>Why am I going through so much pain right now?You're not responding well to your situation.>When will my suffering finally end?It can end now if you don't allow yourself to suffer.>What’s the point of my life?No one knows that.
>>32625874The point of your life is to make a bunch of money and use those resources to reproduce and provide a good life for your children Have you tried getting a high paying job?
>Too anti-social for normies>Too normie to be a true schizoid>IQ high enough to realize how retarded I am>IQ not high enough to do anything meaningful with myselfI have not clue what I want to do with myself. Getting a normie job with a normie wife sounds nice on the surface (sex, financial stability), but I don't want to have to deal with a woman 24/7 and work with retards. But on the other hand if I try and do something high IQ like say, graduate school, there's a good chance I won't be able to make it work and feel inadequate all while being alone and poor.
I was semi-normie when I was ike 17/18 but 15 years of isolation turned me into a schizoid. I'm still dumb as fuck too
>>32624354I've idolized schizoids ever since I was a kid that I'm starting to meme myself into becoming one. But I think at my core I'm still just a failed normie
>>32624329IQ not high enough to know what anti-social means either.Convenient excuses nothing more. It’s so much easier to do nothing when you write yourself off as fundamentally different. Which you aren’t.Find what makes you happy and do it. Or die.
>>32624800i love you do you have a wife
>>32624800This, you're not special OP. No one likes work and very few get to spend what they enjoy doing outside of it being a hobby
Girl that was my gf and I told to fuck off after defending her brother sexually abusing her one day and the next one considering to date him when he asked her to is messaging me to ask how I was after a week, I told her what did she want to tell me after what she did to me and left me on read,what should I do
>>32617822stay vigilant and keep her at arm's length, possibly just go no contact
>>32617822are you that schizo that posts about family members dating or somethingtake your meds
>>32623659no im not your boogeyman im literally asking for help
>>32623725your thread reads very similar to a thread that gest posted with some regularity here about a dude wanting to intervene in someone they know dating a family memberyou just changed friend to gf so people don't tell you to mind your business
>>32623778NTA but if you are friends with anyone and they're fucking their family member you obviously should call them out you retard
How do I get a FWB? I think I have the body for it (6 feet tall, 7" dick, fit), but I have never been in a relationship, let alone something like fuckbuddies
>>32623847Fun fact, many dating apps have an MMR system. Meaning you get paired with women that have a proportional amount of likes to you.
>>32625739Women have various reasons for wanting an FWB but none of those reasons include having their FWB bad-mouthing them, spreading terrible stories about them and so on. Likewise, they do not want an emotional relationship so they need the man to not be clingy or needy but independent. Hell, not needing women's approval is what 90% of people actually mean when they say 'be self-confident'.
>>32625666OP here, might try doing this on Bumble since it's functionally the same as Tinder these days. Any tips for making my profile look more FWB friendly? I guess you'd want to put body pics in your profile, but what else?
>>32626073Use as few words as possible in your profile, over 2 sentences you look too serious and not fun Shirtless pic is appreciated Let her ask for dick pic
>>326238377 inches is too big. It hurts the cervix
As a man there are literally 0 benefits to ever crying. So I'd like to know how to prevent this from ever happening
Men crying over pathetic bullshit is my fetish. The way they humiliate themselves by being so fucking weak just gets to me.
>>32624501>crying in front of anyone just makes you seem like a massive pussyYou only believe this because you've tricked yourself into believing it. No rational person believes this. Please, get off the internet and go communicate with real people.
>>32624483why do you not want to cry? feeling real genuine emotion feels good, faggot
>>32624899Mind broken
>>32624899touch some grass
