Should I tell girls I have a small dick to filter out size queens?
>>35020737>Having a small dick is that serious?Having a small dick is not that serious. Being insecure about having a small dick is that serious.
>>35018132She didn't actually say this.
>>35021259Stop dude...
I think most guys with small dicks depend on the girl catching feelings first and investing to the point of having sex, if any girl knew a dude had a small dick before getting to know him she'd avoid him.
>>35018132Only if she expressly asks about the size. The only times I've said anything about the size of my penis to a woman it was when we were right at the point of taking our clothes off or when she's asked to touch it for the first time, and the response I've gotten every time is "i don't care"
I'm either going to be fired or quit my supermarket job in the next 1 - 2 months due to the manager being replaced with a shithead who expects me to do 6 hours of work in 3. What jobs can I even get other than retail and fast food? I'm 19 and 250pounds. I'm in college and need at least $2,000 a month so my options feel limited.
Unless you get creative it's gonna be retail or fast food man. No magic bullet. Check Indeed and whatnot, maybe look into security positions (easy work), but Wendy's, Safeway, Home Depot are always gonna be options
>>35022977Pick one that has a union like Safeway, so there's less of a chance for shitheads to ruin it. I think yokes might have a union, but I don't know for sure, just that they do exist in supermarkets.
I'm 35. Am I insane for wanting to start a PhD?pic related
Add more info, nigger, what do you think we are? People can start PhDs at any age if they are really interested or motivated by a topic. Given your ability to convey context and useful information, you're probably not very smart or socially apt either, so yes, a PhD is the perfect place for you.
No you're insane for starting a dumb ass /adv/ thread with so little information that it's impossible to give you advice.
>Be me, 18, male>Met a really pretty girl a few weeks ago>Has minimal social media presence, great relationship with her dad, is respectful, doesn’t have any male friends >We become friends>She trusts me heavy stuff about her life and I do too>Start hanging out and texting almost daily>Im now getting annoyed by herHey anons, what should I do? This girl is really sweet and genuinely beautiful, but her mere presence is starting to annoy the fuck out of me. The only thing that doesn’t annoy me about her is her dog, and ngl I’m starting to hate that fucker too. This is not the first time that something similar has happened to me. Usually, when I meet a girl and form a connection with her, I get annoyed and end up blocking them and avoiding them irl, I don’t want to do the same with this girl, but you tell me.
>>35019651Is she in therapy and/or on medication?It also seems like clingy or affectionate girls are just not your type. It's not really that big of a deal.
>>35019274You sure you're not BPD or some mentally ill fuck? What's the reason for this anyway?
>>35019274If you're meeting pretty girls and after you form a meaningful connection with them you don't take the next step because they 'annoy' you, that's probably because you're gay, anon.
>>35019274yo i can feel you man, i am in the same position my girl is so annoying and boring but i am lazy to break up with her. i am thinking about breaking up after one day after my birthday so i could get gifts from her lol.
>>35019274Since it's not the first time then you are the problem dude,bro even the dog is annoying the living shit out of you so it's defenitely not a 100% clingy/ obssessive girl situation. You probably do not know how to manage your time nor your energy around women. Hanging out and texting daily is almost unnatural such accessibility is not normal it'll eventually bore you out and annoy you. Take a break for now, dont force shit and it's ok to be awkward to a certain point at that age desu
My girl and I have been dating for a year now. She's been friends with this dude for a couple of years, even before we started dating. He gives me orbiter vibes. According to her, he's willing to do anything for her. Whenever she needs help with anything, he'll drop his plans and help her out. When we start dating, she refuses to tell him that she's gotten in a relationship for the longest time because "it'll make him feel betrayed". I keep telling her to tell him, but her excuse is, "We've been dating for weeks now, and he'd feel bad because I hid it from him." When I ask her, "If that was the case, why didn't you just tell him in the beginning? Why would you hide it from a friend?" she isn't able to answer me.After enough nagging, she finally tells him. He acts kinda passive-aggressive towards her on chat. Few days later, he asks to hang out. While talking to her, he starts crying because "you haven't been texting me these days, we rarely meet too" and "so you have enough time to get in a relationship but not enough to spend with me". That felt really manipulative to me. What kind of friend does that?I tell her, "This dude does things for you that no normal friend would do, he hasn't ever been in a relationship either, I'm like 99% sure that he likes you". She denies it. She says that she had doubts about that too, but that's not the case.I tell her that I'm not comfortable with her hanging out with this dude one-on-one. It's fine if there's another mutual friend present. She agrees to it, but she doesn't ever stick to her word.This one time, she was supposed to go on a 2-week vacation with her family. The day before she leaves, I ask her to meet up, but she refuses because "I have something planned with that dude". I get pissed at her and leave her on read. She panics and leaves him midway to see me.
>>35022298>>35022878This and this, OP. Both see the reality. >t. 40 oldfag seen too much shit
>>35022298>>35022878Facts. I used to think I had a girlfriend. She had an esimp who would pay for her shit. We ate on his money a few times. I tried to get her to cut that crap out, set an example and explained why it was wrong. She ends up using me for sex and emotional support until she got bored, and still went to see her ex behind my back. Who even knows how many other online orbiters she had. And she was fat. But every woman is like this now. Take what you can get, or get out. But don't be calling this girl your girlfriend, OP. She ain't yours. In fact it sounds like you're just another guy whose strings she knows how to pull. Words like "boyfriend" are just convenient tools for women to avoid giving pussy to simps. It doesn't mean shit and it doesn't stop her from cheating on you with the guy you DON'T know about, lol. Kick the hoe to the curb. Once these stressors start and it's only on your end, you wind up in a miserable one-sided relationship. You can't change a hoe
>>35020789Men and women cannot be platonic friends unless both are already in committed relationships with other people. He has feelings for her, he will eventually snatch her out from under you, they will go out for a while and then she will dump him too because she's a stupid whore, yes it happened to me and yes, I am speaking from experience.
>>35020789Hey OP, I'm an oldfag with exp under my belt. This won't end well, I suggest you dump her. I've seen the pattern play out before and have had it happen to me and seen it many times before with other couples. Your GF is a people-pleaser, a female doormat. She is neurotic and she feels everyone needs to have positive opinions about her. She hasn't learned that it is impossible to appease everyone. And by trying to please everyone, she appeals to no-one. She has no idea how to form and stick to priorities. She most likely doesn't even know what those are or how to apply them. She has no boundaries, if she had them she would tell the clingy orbiter to back off when he was trying to guilt trip her. Judging by her behaviours that you cited I don't think she is attracted to him. He is weak, needy, and comes off as effeminate which is natural pussy repellant. However because your GF is most likely a neurotic people pleasing doormat she is still going to feel compelled to placate him because she feels responsible for other people's feelings to the point she's a bit mentally unsound. I don't think she is going to fuck him. But she is most likely going to do something stupid like get drunk and reciprocate something forced onto her like a kiss from the needy simp who may take a opportunity to fire his shot into her.If you insist on keeping this girl, which I highly suggest you don't, you need to escalate into vague aggression where you confront this guy and tell him that him bothering your relationship is not in the best interests of his physical safety. You politely tell him you will beat the shit out him if he doesn't fuck off and get his own life. I highly doubt not recommend it because Simp orbiters are the type to cry to the cops.Your GF isn't wife material or mother material. If you had kids with her, and a pervert tried to get in her good graces to molest your kids, your GF is the type to turn a blind eye in case she offends the predator. I'd dump.
>>35022990>ContinuedAnd if you dump, you need to make it cold and clean and give her no room to talk it out. She has proven to you time and again that you cannot take her at her word. Trust was already violated when she agreed to abide by your concerns and she went ahead and broke them anyway. Which tells you that your confidence in her means less to her than the opinions of outsiders. She also opens the door to the relationship to outsiders, such as telling the orbiter what you had confided in her. Your relationship is no longer you + her. It is now you + her + the feelings of the orbiter. And it was she who dragged them into the relationship. And she was able to skirt around your complaints by agreeing with you (people pleasing you) and then her actions do the opposite of what she said she would honor.Meaning she cannot even be trusted to have a goodbye talk, because she will undoubtedly try to make more empty superficial promises that she will break later. So dump her, and dump her in a flash.
>>35025901no, you need something better to be depressed abouttry torpedoing friendships and finding out people you care about died without you knowing and being completely broke and getting on your boss’s boss’s bad side and having your bills go up through no fault of your own and knowing that as soon as your aging mother can’t work you won’t be able to keep a roof over the family’s heads alone and losing your ability to taste you’re so depressed and having absolutely no prospects socially or romantically
Today I failed
>>35026527Tomorrow is a brand new day
can't even do high school mathjust kill me at this point
>>35026527How so?
How do I (gently) tell a woman I don't want to sleep with her anymore? Long story short. The sex is bad. And I think I'm just not all that attracted to her.
>>35022679I'm not dating her. It's like a friends with benefits thing.
>>35022676Can you post the pics here as well?
>>35022687Sure. I'll even post 'em on my instagram to really send home the message.
>>35022681Okay, but do you want to keep being friends without benefits, or do you want to stop seeing her entirely?
>>35022947No. We can be friends.
Anyone else who wasted a big part of their youth doing something they regret? I spent from my teens to late 20s addicted to mmorpg gaming and online chatting/drama. I quit those things now and replaced them with things like cooking, learning, travel, anime, movies, music, but I wish I'd started so much sooner
>>35022730Shut up you subversive kike
>>35022734
>>35022704I spent from ~23-29 as a suicidally depressed NEET doing nothing but reading and playing vidya all day. I'm 31 and have a job and my own place now, so I've graduated into being a regular mildly depressed wagie. Still no social life outside of work but it's progress.
>>35022765>progress
>>35022808My low was very low indeed. Doing stuff (alone) on the weekends, getting into cooking and exercise, and going months without being distracted by suicidal ideation is the best I've been since before my life exploded to begin with. It's still not good though, I do admit. Even at work people to out of their way to talk to me but nobody's asking for my Instagram or anything.
what kinds of silly things come to mind when you heard the phrase "chores for chuds?"
the first thing that popped into my head was the n-word (niggers)
>>35022825sex unironically? like some gentle mommy femdom type shit
I turned 27 a couple of months ago and I realized I am just a loser. I did do a few things in attempts to find my path but I ultimately failedI did have jobs and I travelled to many different countries and worked there too but it doesn't matter where I go, everything just repeats itselfI'm from Europe and things are getting increasingly worse tooI want to have a family one day but I really can't picture a woman wanting to be with me, I need to change but I don't know how
Are you fat or ugly?
>>35019640You are just whining and shit.
>>35019641Just ugly, I'm really skinny. I wouldn't say my face is ugly but my hair loss made me unattractive
Bump
>>35019640I will not read another "I am a loser" post.
is there any unpatched method to get a cute shorter boyfriend? And by short i mean like, 5 to 12cm shorter than me. I’m not that tall either. i’m 164cm tall. And since i live in a country where the average height for men is 180>, it’s practically impossible to find one.
>>35018061im a short guy barely touching 5'4. like what 162 cm? a dude thats like that short, fucking hell that's honestly pretty fucking rare. i wont deny i have seen shorter men than me in my life but they're usually in areas in which shorter men are the average height. places with below average height being the norm is your best bet. see the problem after that is finding a dude who is that short and cute. i hit the genetics jackpot on that but i dont fit your ideal height. gotta passport bro for it OP.
>>35018061I only replied to this because it was the last one and about to fall off the page and I felt sorry for it.
>>35018061Short men are so undesirable that if you see literally any man shorter than you in public, chances are he's single and will jump at the chance of a date. So just look around
>>35018061Do you prefer pajeets or chinks?
I've been having these reoccurring dreams where my best friend, that I don't talk to anymore, is a woman. He was my friend from jr. high to mid 20s (in my mid 30s now) and we just drifted apart. Looking back at it, I slept over at his house a lot, and we shared a bed. So, it sounds gay I guess but we were never doing any of that. Into our early 20s we hung out. We'd just usually get a pizza. Play video games. Watch anime. For some reason, he's in my mind more as of late, and I have dreams where he's a woman, but he doesn't wanna do anything sexual with me, but he looks fucking hot. He never told me he was trans, but I think, in retrospect, we would've wanted to be a lesbian couple. I think it goes back to his infatuation with yuri. I've had this sort of dream about lots of different guys in my life. Co-workers. Sometimes, they're still a man, but I'm a woman and I'm giving them a blowjob or I'm getting plowed up my vagina. I used to wish I could just become a girl, cause I thought I would be more comfortable. What should I make of this all?Admittedly, I wanted to be a woman for the longest time, in my early teens to 20s. When It would've probably been more feasible in terms of appearance. Is it just an infatuation with the opposite sex? I've never wanted to suck a guy off or get plowed by a man, but I do find some men to be attractive. In terms of personality too. They're must be a dash of the gay in me. Idk. I'm not ashamed of it. Anyone else commiserate with any of this?
Shut the fuck up faggot
>>35022569idk anon, sounds pretty gay to me
How can I compensate for being a white man when it comes to attracting white women?
Be your casual self instead of trying too hard.
>>35020324nigga this is 4chan, he can't be his casual self
>>35018607your race anxiety is unbecoming. try learning to be less bigoted.
>35>zero social life and haven't had any friends or acquaintances since school, even through university, where I had zero social experiences>never had girlfriend or been on a date and no woman has ever shown any interest in me>ugly nerdy shitskin living in Britain>boring work from home job>no social hobbiesSo is this just life? Being a totally discarded slave that has huge pieces of life missing that others take totally for granted?
>>35020223>Never make it seem like you're desperate to have a conversation or to be heard, normies sense that shit from a mile away.I fucking hate reality and normies so much
>>35018790Go back or stop complaining
Might kill myself soon. Sick of not having friends.
My father and mother have been harrassing me to get a girlfriend for years. I'm 29. When I was 26 I finished my college course and began applying for jobs and then my mother was diagnosed with cancer. I had €7000 in savings and i stupidly spent the money on her and she took advantage of me feeling sorry for her having cancer and kept asking for more money. After my mother died, my father began asking me when I will be getting a girlfriend and I said I have no plans on dating ever and he flew into a rage. He said "NOBODY WOULD FUCKING HIRE YOU. I WOULDN'T HIRE YOU." when I started looking for a job. He said you don't need money to date and he started demanding I start dating and have kids while on €254 social welfare payment. He also threatens the neighbours and punches walls while screaming. One day he started screaming " I HAVE A SEX LIFE. YOU DON'T HAVE A SEX LIFE" and he admitted his sex life is from fucking asian and african prostitutes.
>>35018790>no social hobbies>zero social life and haven't had any friends or acquaintances since schoolThese two overlap, go try out hobbies.Also find local community events and places.Here in my city (~skandinavia) there are open 'living rooms' where you can hang, play boardgames, talk, participate in events etc.Also several community groups have places you can go to. Church has good stuff and I go bowling, hiking, movies etc. with our priest and a few others, I also volunteer for stuff to do and get 'freebies' like cabin trips and food.Its important to feel included and also to take part for your mental wellbeing.>ugly nerdy shitskin living in BritainI doubt your ugliness is not fixable by exercise, diet, shave/haircut and clothes.Nerdyness is not a problem and being a 'shitskin' is not a problem in the UK lol.
I've seen them twice. I really want to double date them with my gf. How do I find them again to make this happen?
>>35022309Why not both?
>>35022370If there is any amount of this that includes wanting to fuck them then the approach is entirely different because there is an eventuality. Whether you’re upfront or get to know them for a long time, “you guys wanna fuck?” is never going to get any more normal. You could spent months getting to know them and then that comes up and they’ll wonder what the actual fuck is going on.Observe everyone’s relative attractiveness beforehand. Zero people are willing to take an L just so the other person gets something cool. I’ve had this happen because I guess a bunch of swingers live at the end of our neighborhood and we’re having a fire in the pit out front. They weren’t ridiculously forward about it but I still couldn’t help but interpret it like>Okay so what I am hearing is that you definitely want to fuck my wife (which you have no particular reason to believe she wants to do in the first place) and what I’m getting in return is the opportunity to fuck your uppity, dumpy wife. This is an insult to both me and my wife and you don’t even care.
>>35022383I'm pretty sure on what to say but idk how to find them again.
>>35022409If you’ve seen them twice in the normal course of events, then there’s a good chance you’ll see them again. What were you guys up to when you saw them?
>>35022417I was at a coffee shop and once on the side of the road.
