>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmamhttps://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>33870177it could be many reasonsbut for the next time, wait a day before texting againgirls require space to think and process their emotionsby being a little to eager and texting right away to make plans could be seen as not attractive
I've never approached a woman with the intention to date her, and the reason is I don't really know how to do it. Do I just say "Hey, I think you're pretty, here's my number"? Do I have to do something to build up to that? I really don't know. It's even worse if I know the girl beforehand, because I don't know how to segway from a friendship to a relationship. I would really appreciate some help
>>33871238Something long term. What you described is pretty much word for word my experience at concerts and raves. Problem is it's never lead to anything longer or meaningful.
>>33873015This guy knows what he's talking about.
new thread>>33874509>>33874509>>33874509
If I've been searching for years for a girlfriend, desperate to find one, and then I finally find one that's willing to be with me, does that make me a loser?
>>33872635i'm just shitposting.
>>33872673lol ohhhh okay lmao
>>33869147How desperate?
>>33869147Where did you meet her?
>>33872682Willing to eat dog shit desperate.>>33872693If.
if a girl hinted or told me outright she liked mei don't think it would register nor would i believe itwhy am i like this?
>>33873123Because other women don't like you. Getting women is just feast or famine. Either they all like you or none of them do.
i love sleeping with the balcony open, however i live in an apartment and my window is kinda reachable from the ground because theres bricks in the walls that make it climbable. i live in a bad place in a big city, so i wanna get a sensor that i can bring up at nights on the window frame that shoots out a laser, if anyone crosses it, it shoots an alarm.i looked a little on youtube, but its all just "smart home" crap that i dont need. what am i supposed to search for and any brand advices?
That is how you get yourself killed>alarm starts ringing>nigga turn it off or we shoot you>we saw your face now we have to shoot you anywayThe best security system is a sticker ("beware of dog", "gun club member", "security by prosegur, last maintenance XXX")
I started doing amateur porn a year and a half ago with my ex after I lost my job.desu it doesn't earn much, not as much as an avg part-time, but with my reduced costs from social benefits it's liveable.I want out, man. I'm so sick of this, it's gross.I just don't know how. The "disability" stamp precludes me from most jobs by default...I'm HoH. I talked to others in the society and most of the guys are some combination of:>Much older>Retired>Supported by their spouse
>>33868491Faste 20 hours a day
oh wait I thought you meant quitting masturbating. Sorry. Uh, yeah basically you have to become a nurse or politician or youtuber or cashier or housewife or something.
>>33868746A lot of reasons all on top of each other.I have to do it with my ex, we broke up for a reason.In fact, this "job" is dependent on her as my "employer".I've had to do it with her trashy camgirl friends too.I hate messaging my "fans", ugh.The pay isn't even that good so I can't make much savings.Despite the fact I'm considered defunct, I still want my dignity.I can never be in a relationship with this sort of workRight now the only thing earning me money is my dick and body, the way I see it there's no future in any of these things
>>33868491last bump before bed
>>33868491Jesus loves you and he cares about you, he wants a relationship with you, but you must turn away and repent of your sins to receive his grace, I invite you to repent and turn to jesus today
hello guys im 20 . what advice do you give me , i started my journey on 4chan just yesterday ... im bored .. i have nothing on my phone anymore , no apps ... nothing . just the gmail and whatsapp to talk with my family once a week ... im typing this on my x220 thinkpad , nothing on it too ... i just lay in my armchair? , hearing my tinitus , its late night ... never had any friends .. what is your advice 4chan
and math*
>>33868274Get plant identification app, go on a plant hunt, start a herbarium and try to catch them all.
Exercise/work outStop going on social mediaStart studying something (languages for example)Read booksTry drawing/sketchingLearn an instrumentWatch long movies without distractionsEmbrace the boredom and do boring stuff. You'll be rewareded.
>>33872915always saw this image but never readed it . thank you
>>33872915thank you so much
Has anyone professionally diagnosed with AvPD been able to have a better life? How?
>>33869578true narcs like mike love avoidants and would never want them to get better because they are so easy to isolate and pull away from people around them.
>>33872291Not true at all. Fuck off with your manipulative lies.
Can your agenda get any more clear? Nightmare of a person
>>33872291>avoidants>ever interacting with people>not becoming isolated hermits
>be avoidant>person makes eye contactis this a threat?
Due to limitations of human existence/optics, I can't have sex at any time and place that I desire, with any woman that is within my vicinity and that I desire.This troubles me greatly and is the leading cause of my depression/pointlessness of life/dissatisfaction. My want is to take whatever woman in my vicinity that I desire and have sex with them, and leave them pregnant if possible. Without the ability to do so, I find little reason to do anything in life really.Any advice? I have an interest in fitness, longevity and the gracious, to increase my chances of simply taking women and having sex with them, for as long as possible, into my 90s or even past 100 if possible.For the record I have had some success, I am married and I'm having sex with my wife whenever possible but it's obviously not enough for me.
>>33868498I wish to get women pregnant and then go out and get milk and cigarettes
>>33868574but the Bible anonGod literally told us to get with 1 woman only
>>33868574>>33871371you guys seem stuck in the pre-mahomet textsrevert to islam, discover allah, and get married as many times as you can afford. a bunch of young faithful muslim wives is what any sane man should strive for
>>33871791why would i choose to whore myself next to chimpanzees women , ugly , fat and brown when i can marry to a blonde aryan godness ? your god is an impostor , get the fuck out of here you retarded npc and go live in the desert you absolute nigger . kill yourself and your ''pride'' or whatever the fuck you call hope nowadays . fucking kill yourself nigger
>>33868498You could get a VR headset, but you'll quickly find that cooming nonstop isn't a way to life.
basically what it says
>>33871458yeah i have no idea what the fuck are you talking about i just saw this thread the other day and i screenshoted itthe original dissapearedi just keep posting the same thread because i find the girl in it pretty hot
>>33871642chudthough I agree she's hot as fuck did you save the pic? can you resend the pic in Its full quality? god I love those like beginning of a six pack you can see under her core. ough.>>33871349ill reply to this anyway cuz It's an interesting thing that I also experienceI avoid watching movies exactly for this reasonit feels like a big commitment and then a waste of time, like a huge waste of time.I also don't finish games sometimes because I don't want it to end I guess, subconsciously.I play infinite games nowadys like games that don't end, I also watch youtube vid from people who won't ever stop uploading. I'm a true chud
>>33871360https://youtu.be/0dX75e9LS60
>>33871349are you collecting BAT rewards?
>>33872299what are BAT rewards ?>>33872285nah thats the whole picture she sent. you could try some AI enhanched editor but i think thats alllook at allat tho blonde , melons , abs , my godhere s the picture again if that makes you happy
Will dressing smarter as a neet give me false confidence
Fix your cognition. You are dressing well and grooming because you care about yourself. Self-care is the foundation of confidence and taking care of yourself will boost your confidence for real, it's not an illusion.
>>33871542This show could have been so good if it wasn't for the constant simping and cuckery.A poor dude, mentally broke because his whorish mother, scale in society and triumphs in life while enjoying good old literature and rejecting modernity.It could have been so kino.
>>33871555Good advice here, op. Dress smart because you respect yourself.
I have never had a girlfriend at age 21 and I have not had friends since the age of 8. I am ugly, fat, balding, short, poor, weak, aggressive and dumb. It is all on me, really, there is no denying that. No Jews or black or women involved, just plain old me.I just want to know how I can best live with myself. I do not want self improvement, as I do not have much of a desire in life to have a girlfriend or even a friend, or anything apart from work and sleep. I just want something that helps me know that someplace, somewhere, somebody thinks that I am useful.Any advice on finding a way to make sure that I know that someone is appreciative of me? Imagine you are trying to make a downie feel useful. I am not a downie just a tard who spent his childhood and adolescence as a sped.
>>33872489Not really, I just want better observation skills, that is about it. I do not care about anything else aside from that. It might sound like I am giving up, but I do not really want a girlfriend or friends. I just want to know if I am pleasing the people who I do work for.
>>33872539>I just want to know if I am pleasing the people who I do work for.so you have a job? you could literally just ask them, see if they smile when you get there. do they say thanks to you for stuff? do you have some small talk? do you joke with each other?
>>33871316charity work and carer type work
>>33871316Get a dog. As long as you take care of them, they will love you until the very end
>>33872599More than I could think of, thanks.>>33872603I might look into volunteering in addition to what I do. Any recommendations? So far, I am thinking of doing a library, hospital or food bank.>>33872775I would, but I am allergic to cats and dogs. I would love myself a beagle, Jack Russell or collie, though. (Thinking about rats as an alternative pet, I just like pictures of them cuddling).
No I don't care if it's bad for you. My limit is 1000 cal/day.
>>33872216Cocaine.
you will care eventually. help that part of yourself that doesn't care
>>33872216I must procreate with a female of similar body proportions or my life will be considered a failure!
>>33872216Carrots and celery are basically no calorie snacks so you can feel like you are eating more without actually eating more. Strawberries are also surprisingly low calorie.
>>33872763Cucumber too. You can eat unlimited pickles. :>
How do i leave 4chin for good
>>33872614Stop thinking negatively, start thinking positively.Don't think>how do I leave?think>where will I go?
>>33872614Read a Bible
I think the realization is that there are people in their 30s-40s who browse here since they were teenagers/young adults.
>>33872614Same as porn, just stop looking at it and do something else instead. I've gone 2 months at a time without even thinking about this shit hole once. Don't let this shit hole website and it's crooneys have any control over you, they're very weak and spiteful imps who've wasted their lives and want to drag you into their misery at any cost. Run and enjoy the life that God has given you, make the most of it, you can reclaim and make up for lost time,that's the beauty of life, you could make up for 20 years of wasted life in 2 years. It's truly beautiful, God is all forgiving.
>>33872717:^)
Be me 550lb 33 years old. I spend most of my time whenever possible in front of my Ryzen Rig Gaming and that brings lots of enjoyment, however due to My large size it has been 4+years since I have been able to achieve climax thru manual stimulation anymore. Initially I solicited sex workers to resolve the matter but that gets expensive. but recently I have been considering prostate stimulation, Have any of you heard of Aneros prostate Massager? They look like a good practical solution moving forward I'm past the "I'm not putting anything in there" phase I'm fine inserting non-sentient inanimate objects. What are your thoughts on a prostate massager? Has anyone here tried one? what other solutions should I consider?
>>33871742This picrel should help you understand.
>>33871762>My identity cant bare another man's cock in me plus his breath intensifying and what all that implies about me. perhaps live penetration has something to offer that a machine cant offer.this man is completely straight
>AI image>AI story
>>33872509duh! of course its an AI image I wont put a real picture of myself to then conclude the story is AI is a brainless conclusion
>>33872659cool story bro
Why do normale boomers think they re entitled to my time?Like they pretend i smile their way and play their stupid social rituals or they get uppity
>>33872592Ego + powerplays
