Hey /adv, I'm a bankruptcy paralegal at a corporate lawfirm and unfortunately autistic as fuck. I've got ADHD and am trying to focus as hard as I can and can't fucking do an entire proof of claim without needing a rest. I keep finding them mentally exhausting. Combined with my other tasks, I can whip up about 10 POCs a day, max. I need to get to 20 POCs FAST and stay there. What can I do to get computer tasks done without feeling exhausted in between? I wanna belong at this job but god I feel not good enough and already sunk money into this degree. Might just give up and start doing HVAC training on the side until they fire me.
>>34851600if you're capable of doing so and haven't done so yet, get yourself medicated. ADHD meds generally work quite well. you could also try taking magnesium and vitamin d supplements, i'm under the impression that they help me decrease my brain fog, though i don't know if it'll help you actually perform more.
>>34851600Sounds like a shitty job understaffed or sthn
First week as a wagie. It sucks. The job itself is relatively simple (warehouse work), but it eats up all my time, somewhat forcing me to live to work and do nothing else (slavery 2.0). I've tried my best to optimize my commute since I have to use public transportation, but I live in a big city, and by 5 p.m., the roads are all clogged with goydrones heading back to their cages at the same time, making me waste about an hour and a half every day. ... I used to be a depressed NEET with all the time in the world to exercise, take long walks, or just waste my time on the internet. Now I've signed a contract that says I have to waste my time for my employer's benefit. ... How the fuck do normies do it? For decades, even? Is it because they have social lives and relationships, so it makes their lives more enjoyable? If I weren't such a pussy, I probably would've killed myself by now.
>>34851626Tr4uth is most people hate it. Having a partner makes it so you can commiserate about your job. The fear of landing on the street with degens and drug addicts keeps most people in line.
>>34851626Familial responsibilityOtherwise just get a different job and work less and live more minimal n shiet and half neet
Moving to a big city sometime soon. I want to meet people specifically to go to the movies together. I love going but i have no one to go with. Where could i look? >Make friends firstI just want it to be casual enjoying movies together thing, then maybe progress into hanging out in more spots etc A whole ass friendship first is a big deal
>>34851313I thought about doing this but i feel like it'd seem too weird
>>34851582it might, but you'd be surprised how receptive people can be to random friend-style approaches in places like the cinema. but if you're not social enough don't force it, i think trying to force stuff is when people get a weird vibe from you.
>>34851221go to the nearest bars to the theatre and ask someone if they want to go
>>34851221Why don't you be the harbinger of your own social life, anon? As others have said, you can join a film club that is established, or you can make your own club.
>>34851221If you happen to sit next to someone or be in close physical proximity to someone for a while, you can say something. Idk. Online too. Then friend of friend of friend. Etc. and yes works better on other lonesome people as that other said
ok so a few months back i pressed charges on my ex for DV, 2x counts for shit he did when he was drunknow my ex has one thing in life that he truly loves more than his own life, his caryou see we are both 19 and last year he got his first car (a shitty altima) and he basically manipulated me (yes ik foids are dumb stfu) that i needed to help him get his dream car. so low and behold he is abusive and all that and he ends up using money he stole from me to get a downpayment on a 13k thousand-dollar car after he breaks up with me, now after he broke up, i pressed DV charges on him, and he lost his job at a gas station for it.now without a job he is fucked as his family is section 8 and poor as shit however he might get a bailout or something from his grandma however i wanna make sure he doesnt have any chance of getting any money so he loses the car and gets his credit ruinednow heres the thing, this idiot sent me an email anonymously admitting he leaked my nudes for pressing charges on him, now this fucker is smart and ik he used his fancy cyber skills to make sure it cant be traced however, heres the thingthe image attached to the email is an image he took on his and only he has. HIS FUCKING DICK IS IN THE IMAGEi wanna figure out a way to get him charged with extortion or revenge porn or some shit or just do whatever i can to fuck up his life, Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34848631Just report him to the police for the revenge porn.
bait thread
You need to let him go and move on with your life. All of that anger you’re carrying around is poisonous. You’re very young. You have a lot to learn about how this fucked up world actually works.
>>34848631If he admitted to revenge porn in an email you have proof. Send it to the police.
>>34848631You already got him charged and all that, what more is there to do, maybe just another charge on leaking without consent then you're maxxed out on chargesShould've just got your money back
Where can I get GLP-1 medication in EU? Here in Germany I cannot get Wegovy or anything else unless I raise my BMI from 27 to 30. I am taking strong blood pressure medication for 10 years and sleep only 6 hours a day (because of the blood pressure rising when pills wear off). The doctors do not care at all, the government mandated rule is 30+ BMI. Eating is definitely the problem for me, I have more the than enough daily exercise, I just eat too much and every single diet attempt over the years backfired when I had a period of problems in my life like a broken foot or stress at work and got back to bad eating habits.
don't take that stuff, it kills your kidneys
>>34851296Fix stress thing eat less
So.. I'm gay. I think my country is homophobic. Idk what to do an di need advice
>>34848945Just live your life, man, why you think you have a mission?Your country has no opinion. It is not your duty to change your country.As long as you don't do buttsex on the open street, nobody cares.
>>34851267>As long as you don't do buttsex on the open street, nobody cares.it really depends on the country
>>>/lgbt/
Stop being gay
>>34848945Have gay sex and make it your life mission to do gay sex acts and let everyone know you do gay sex acts
For context: I'm a birthright US citizen who just graduated a really good university and am about to start a really well-paying corpo job. Yet I'm still absolutely depressed about the state of the world, and am seeing it harder and harder to continue.Here are some specific things I feel UNHAPPY about.>UK censoring internet, banning SM/phones, etc., rest of world likely joining in>Love & Deepspace scandal>Google banning sideloading>recent HiAnime arrest>I fucking hate both US parties - one is full of self-hating whites and brown supremacists, the other is full of self-hating browns and white supremacists - but "doing nothing" and being a drone is cuckery too; my politics would prob. better align w/ "Dems 20 years ago" than "GOP any stage of their recent history", but even outside a US context many countries nowadays have cucked uniparties>car-dependent suburbs and their consequences (and I'm not even going to pretend that's an American-only thing)>the impossibility of affording anything for anyone, esp. relative to even our parents or even MILLENNIALS>goals becoming unrealizable, like the fucked up dating market makes it impossible to date anyone (and "return to tradition" to like courting, etc. I disdain for the same reason I disdain the anti-phone movement), or travel feeling increasingly unmotivating>the realization that the Chinese race is so superior to the White race despite the latter's obvious dominance in arts etc.>the climate getting worse (lmao ik)>the US declining, and actually fr rather than as some larper fantasyComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>chinese superiorif you look at it from a bugman work perspective yesif you look at it from literally any other perspective noyou would not want to live there despite what you're sayinghave fun studying 10-16 hours a day as a student, working long hours, living in a soulless society and huffing in industrial fumes or whateverhowever what makes whites great is ironically also what fucks them up (high awareness / empathy) which thus makes them lack power they could otherwise haveif you're a soulless roboticon you will see this as the only indicator of superiority
Unless climate change wrecks all if the infrastructure, yeah we are pretty much screwed privacy-wise. Honestly I think the real pill we all need to take is that nobody has their shit together. My suggestion is to find a hobby and stick with it to stay off the government radar.Also move your porn offline and get it turned into physical media for when the government decides cartoons and furry porn are not art but obscenity worthy of the death penalty.
>>34692908At least you still have access to local and international news sources.
>>34848321ChinanonWhat food do you like? I don't mean to be the American fatass stereotype, but if it means saving a life I'll put all the "My 1000 lb life actors" on notice. I find alot of peace in life from being able to eat good food. Comparing myself to Cats, Dogs, or Food-insecure Anons or Prison Anons, I'm living a pretty good life. Cats, Dogs and Prisoners regularly eat the same food day in, day out every day for the restof there lives. Prison Anons or Anons in Senior/ Hospital care cant have any hard food that could cause them to choke or anything that is cooked medium rare or under. All of their food has to be "well done" "soft" and cut up into small portions to prevent any possibility of foodborne illness.Seniorcare / Hospital Anons usually get better food but its not by much since its made on mass for multiple people. Prison food is literally meant to make you suffer/reflect upon your crimes.I try to be thankful of all the good food that I'm able to eat. Whenever I get the possibility to have Ice Cream or other tasty treats I take it. I may not get pussy, but I'm gonna make sure like hell I at least eat better than prison food so I can stay happy and healthy. Try to make sure you get enough Exercise, Vitamins and Fiber. Cut back on Sugar and Carbs when you can. The more Natural or Fresh a food is, the better it is for you. The less food you eat that isn't made in a Factory the better. I always look at the ingredients of what I eat and I try to make sure that they are short and simple.
Food for thought
How do I find out if my girlfriend has ever had a black bf, or hooked up with a black guy before, or hung with black guys? Or even if she has a crush on black guys or watches BBC porn? This would be a dealbreaker for me but its hard to ask i a way where I can be certain the answet is honest, and without coming across as an insecure little bitch.
>>34850171Faggot
>>34850525Are you an american?
>>34850837Midwit
>>34850171But enough about your mother
>>34850103You can never know
how do I stop being a picky eater, Im sick of the same 5 meals that I actually can eat. I feel like as years go by my diet is worse and Id rather stay hungry than eat food that I dont like
>Im sick of the same 5 meals that I actually can eat>Try food which has at least one thing from those mealsExamples:>Im so sick of eating only spaghetti waaahh!>>Hmm maybe i can add shrimps to it ?>>Didn’t like it? What about giving a try to instant noodles? What about eating tacos with spaghetti in it?>What iI’m trying to say is that you can taste different kind of food which contains something that you got used to eat
>>34849793Wait until the gagging subsides and try again
https://youtu.be/X_V1OGMEvwwthis you, OP?
>>34847499Cook a good nutritious meal with veggies and so on.Then, throw it all in the blender until it is drinkable.Then drink it. A little at a time, slowly. It is much easier not to gag when you can swallow something instantly without having to chew it.Hold your nose while you do it if you have to.There, problem solved forever.
>>34847499Just add seasonings that make it taste like something else
I used to have old accounts tied to an old email address that I no longer use. I started removing all accounts where I posted stupid things as a teenager. I have changed my email address and now use email aliases and unique usernames everywhere. I don't have a social media presence of any kind, and when I search for my names (generic ones I must add), I only get results of people who aren't me. I always have this fear of someone calling me out for the stupid things I said. Is this fear unreasonable? How can I move on?
>>34845659I'm not OP but it still is there forever. I dislike that if I ever get doxxed, whoever finds the facebook now has my face, family, friends, etc.
>>34845673I don’t think the internet is forever desu. People always say that but I think they’re wrong. The internet is actually a pretty poor way to store data. Something like 25% of all web pages from a decade ago no longer exist. Facebook is only popular with boomers. Once they’re gone it will go the way of MySpace or Vine. I think the bigger problem is that we have put too much data online instead of in books and all of that information stands to be lost over the next few decades.
>>34845355by using today's sponsor, incogni>>34845370what field do you work in?
>>34845355No-one cares ur not that important
>>34845355Shut up
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>>34853570bcuz shy nerdy guy is fifty fifty. shy nerdy guy roster is either he really is sweet and husband material or he is a self hating type who gets angry if you say no to him cuz he thinks he is a loser and wants to prove something to himself exactly the type to be abusive. not saying all are this way shy nerdy guy is a very attractive type but that coin toss is a nightmare
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When approximately is society bringing oppression of women back
>>34853555Why do you type like a 12yo?
>>34853581Oh look, it's the early shitting attention whoring incel.I really don't understand why you hate atoga so fucking much.
I met some people at an event last night (we were all strangers beforehand). They seemed chill and I got their phone numbers. What do I do now?
>>34848372on the weekend. with time in advance, i'd say less than a week, especially if the mood of meeting is still fresh. if you give it too much time people are more likely to find an excuse to dip then the mood sours and everyone flees.usually if the group is still new you just plan to go for drinks at a bar or something lighter until everyone figures out interests they may all like.i'd just be casual and short when you ask. don't over explain. just ask if they'd like to go out for drinks friday/saturday night @ whatever location you picked.
>>34848617So if I met them on Wednesday, asking them to get drinks on Friday night isn't too early?
>>34848372Alternatively you can message them individually and get to know them one on one. Send a message every so often, say something you liked, then create a group chat later.
If I haven't talked to them since I met them the other night, would it be weird to ask all of them if they'd like to hang out? Are we supposed to talk via text for a few days before getting together again?I have no social skills, if you haven't noticed.
>>34848046Meet more and get more contacts. Unless you really want to hang with them again, then go arrange another meet up
I just turned 20, what should I do with my freetime?
>>34848053go for a walk
>>34848053Build legos
bitches dont know shit bout my belly dick
Is it realistic to want a gf like Sydney Sweeney when I'm 27 and balding?
>>34848033>>34848294Not going to lie, though I'm pretty much in the same boat.How exactly do you get a reasonably beautiful woman to be your GF or FWB?>"cold approaching" seems retarded because you just met her right then and there: obviously she's not going to trust and fall for you instantly.Would you honestly recommend joining yoga/dance classes?Is it smarter to chase wealth and status first, maybe making this a priority will reduce the times of getting rejected due to wearing better/top brand clothing, having a nice watch and car, house, ring?Just naming a few examples that this anon mentioned.
>>34849827>Would you honestly recommend joining yoga/dance classes?>t. dancerIf and only if you enjoy yoga or dance, yes. It's not hard for a guy to thrive in these spaces romantically if you actually like yoga or dance. By way of example, my studio's ratio past the trash-tier intro level is about 4-to-1 women to men on bad days or up to 24 to 1 on good days.The catch is that men get filtered extremely quickly because they>1. don't want to look gay, so they don't put their heart into it and follow instructions to get better, an>2. men are extremely shy about looking bad around women in general, and you're going to look bad around women for your first 50 or so dance hours before you get good, because dance is a skill and it's actually really hardso the average newcomer gives up after 2 classes when you need to be doing 2+ classes a week for six months to get anywhere another dancer would recognize as fuckably impressive at it.
>>34850511Good evening Anon, I appreciate your advice.Not going to lie, deep down, I don't want to attend a yoga class (maybe, possibly a dance class instead) because I personally don't see it as fun.Though like I admitted: I'm willing to attend those kind of classes and convince women that I'm having a great time.It's possible to attend 2+ classes like you mentioned (eventually become a regular) with have a ''fake it till you make it'' approach to this.For honesty's sake:Admittedly, I'm genuinely tired of still not having a reasonably attractive girlfriend or even a FWB who looks fairly similar lookswise to this.Just to be clear, I'm not look for the perfect woman.I'm cool with her even if she MIGHT have emotional and/or mental problems.As long as the attraction is mutual and she's willing to work on her problems together, then I'm fine with that.I admit this isn't the worst thing in the world, though living alone and always doing everything for myself for years:>hit the gym religiously/frequently>go to lectures, study for exams, etc>go to work, pay bills,>go for walks at various parks to clear my head, cookComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34850651>It's possible to attend 2+ classes like you mentioned (eventually become a regular) with have a ''fake it till you make it'' approach to this.this is incorrect, unless during the fake it period you actually start to like it because dance is a lot of fun (it can happen)>I'm willing to attend those kind of classes and convince women that I'm having a great time.If you find this is happening, don't dance, they'll know. It's unironically as obvious as when you watch a traveling food critic show: you can always tell when the host doesn't actually like the food. It's just painfully obvious in how they act and what they say that they're just being polite.It's just as obvious among dancers, there's something about how a disinterested dancer moves and involuntarily grimace at their mistakes and their dejected stare of failure that tells you "this one is having no fun, this one won't be back."
>>34846728Sure maybe a flat version
I feel pleasure and feel like my stress is gone when I choke myself with a hangman rope until I feel like blacking out. I know this isn't normal but are there any other people like this?
>>34843739>r9kNever fucking ever go thereThat place is addictive to the neurotic self loathing mind. There is nothing to gain from ever looking at that board
>>34843693ouh man... you try to trigger my suicide jokes...i really try not to openly laugh about suicide too much. but it is just too stupid if people kill themselfes.just too hiliarious. not to confuse with hillary clinton. she is a criminal who pays to kill political opponents. suicides them.i think i will not give you the pleasure of laughing about you. you are different. you do not kill yourself on purpose. you do it by stupid accident. your case is actually sad.
>>34843693Self harmers yeah, just more creative ways like idk punching knuckles til ouc h
>>34849783this actually has benefits:OP, go to a gym and practice MMA.
>>34843693you should just do computer duster instead, it's the same effect but there's no risk of accidentally becoming an hero.
