Literally nothing feels interesting anymore. There are no books I want to read, no movies I want to watch, no music I want to listen to, no games I want to play.I don't know if this is depression, I don't even feel sad. I feel nothing. Just emptiness. Maybe ADHD has something to do with it.I'd give everything to feel like I did when I was young when the world was mysterious and everything was impressive. There's just no magic in anything anymore.I'm in my late 20's. Don't know if this is a phase, or this is how I'm going to be for the rest of my life or if it's going to get worse.
>>34078088>Literally nothing feels interesting anymore.Low key depression. It's the winter solstice. The sun is hiding behind the earth and making you sad. You need vitamine D and exercise. A sun lamp could also help.
>>34078088>I'd give everything to feel like I did when I was young when the world was mysterious and everything was impressive. There's just no magic in anything anymore.Have children, I am dead serious. Because thats what is supposed to happen next, life stops being magic, so you make the magic happen instead, you make a life. New life, literally, by making a kid. And then you make magic for that kid to be amazed by. You watch the kids awe and wonder and shit you stopped caring about and it reminds you of the magic, and you feel it again. Have some kids.
>>34078088The only thing you can do is embrace the absurd.>>34078816This shit sandwich is starting to get stale. I have to give it to other people.
>>34078134I feel like this even during the summer.
>>34078088You say that and yet you continue doing your habits addictively I bet. Yes things lose their lustre like a decade ago and somehow you're just realising now, overgrown child. But that doesn't mean there are no good/bad things left, they're just more graspable and easier for you to create
Matched with an Indian woman on CMB and we've been on 3 dates and seem to be hitting it off. She's separated and has 2 kids. She said "I love you" to me during sex and that made me wonder if I can date this woman long term. Any advice or input on what dating an Indian would be like would be appreciated. She's from Chennai. Thanks!
I’m marrying an Asian girl (Thai). I can say culture differences aren’t important if they aren’t radically different than your own. Things like food, etc are completely fine and something you get used to. Families will always pick their own’s side. That has nothing to do with culture differences.All of that being said, I think Indians have one of the worst and wildest cultural norms. However she is a single mother and Indian society itself is extremely patriarchal. A man marrying an Indian woman will likely not have many problems dealing with the culture and her family will afford you a lot of respect because you’re marrying their single mother daughter.Don’t listen to the perma virgins complaining about how you can only have kids with a white woman. It’s drivel.
>>34078446bro is JDmaxxing
>>34078446I hope you're ready for the god-awful smell.
be really, REALLY careful anon. have dated an Indian chick before and they are really clingy. even her friends too. theyre SUPER intense. separate occasion had a one night stand with an Indian girl in an interstate trip, and she literally started thinking we were perfect soulmates and wouldnt let go - even when I kindly told her i'm sorry and that I can't do long distance, she kept messaging and calling even when I was at work. literally had to get a friend to step in and tell her to leave me alone. they're super desperate for dick and can be really intense. if you're up for that, and really really sure you can handle it, then go for it. they're usually super sweet girls,and very driven to do good things and/or get what they want, but, comes at a cost. i used to be able to handle overattached white chicks, but indian chicks are a whole another level, man. good luck!
Shoulda be ez street cuz ethnicel white fever
How do i meditate on a question in life? Ask myself the hows and whys of questions that run deeper than just being able to use common sense or logic to figure out? I know how to transcendental meditate and clear my mind but not how to focus my unconscious mind on an issue.
I’m sick & I think it’s covid but I want a beer should I go get one?
>>34074807Yeah, sure why not
>>34074807Have it delivered?
>>34074830I got it hehe>>34075297Waste of money
>>34074807DRINK BEER
Is the reason I have so much wrong with me because my mom had me in her mid-30's?
>>34078197my mom had me at 24 and i still got an aspergers diagnosis. it has more to do with the age of the father (mine was sadly 30 y/o, that's the age the dad's age starts affecting you likely getting autism)
>>34078197>Is the reason I have so much wrong with me because my mom had me in her mid-30's?Short answer : noLonger answer : the reasons your mom had a child in her mid 30's might be the symptoms of something that she's passed to you, either genetic or through trauma.
>>34078197Depends on what's wrong with you, but most likely not.
>>34078197Judging by this post I’d say most of your problems stem from the fact that you refuse to take ownership of your life and are looking for any possible insane reason to excuse the shitty person you are rather than reflect and grow as a person.My mom had me at 36 and I turned out fine. My wife’s mom had her at 36 as well, and she is the most well rounded person I know.
Every show, book, song, conversation, game, sport, story, product, video, advertisment, Holliday. It's all the same. I've seen it a million times and I'm sick of it. Like take drastic measures sick of it. I can't take seeing/hearing the same shit over and over and over again for the next 60 years till I die. I can't bring myself to do anything that isn't for basic survival (job, workout, clean, make food). When there is extra time I will sit and stare at a wall and sometime watch YouTube (because I'm so addicted to it's it's literally the last thing I'm doing) and have this same crisis on how it's all the same. I don't even talk to people anymore because I know exactly what they are going to say. I have seen everything this world has to offer and am sick of it. Does it get any better from here?
>>34077092>having any skills besides being a TV slugoid is "being the best at everything"Okay it's over for you, now lament the parents that put you in this position
>>34076750I play piano, I read 30 minutes of origins history of consciousness everyday on my break at work. I am doing all the things normies wish they could do. I don't watch TV or fiction at all anymore because I'm sick of it. I watch some YouTube for less than an hour a day when time permits it. I am extremely productive but who cares how hard you try when your just a fast food manager.
>>34077120My point is that I could keep doing things I don't enjoy, suceed at them and again get told I'm just not trying hard enough because I didn't do some other thing. Not everyone cares to learn other languages, it's pretty useless if you live in a nice country.
>>34077139It sounds like what you’re really upset about is being a fast food manager. You’re so upset by it that it has drained all of the enjoyment out of doing anything fun.
>>34078657Not really. It's only been a few weeks. I'm a lot more mad about being disabled but I can't do anything about that.
How do you deal with depressive episodes
I cut myself of course!No… i usually just try and meet new people during them so i can get over it by talking/distracting myself
>>34078841I just suffer
Why is “just ignore bullies” mostly bullshit advice? It doesn’t seem to effect them
>>34074746There’s no good advice for bullies because they’re relentless and they know your weak spot.All you can do is try to ignore them and hope they get bored and their wounds didn’t cut too deep. Hopefully they go on to live shitty lives as some sort of karmic retribution. I occasionally check in on the people that bullied me when I was young. Most of them turned out poorly, which makes me feel better.
>>34076134If their lives are poorly why are some of them still happy still behaving like bullies
>>34076116High iq comment listen to this op
>>34076116Great advice.
>>34076562One of my bullies killed himself. Another one is a serial violent criminal. Another one is just a complete loser fuckup that accomplished nothing.One of my other bullies okay and living a normal life. I ran into him a few years ago and he acted like we were best friends growing up, didn’t remember the bullying. Such is life.So to answer your question, I’m not sure they are happy people. Some of them are, maybe like the popular type bullies, and they go on to live successful lives. But I also find they’re also the least likely to relentlessly torment you. If you ignore them they get bored easily and move onto something else. The ones that relentlessly bother you for no reason are the ones that go on to be total fuckups and are bullying you simply because you’re available and they need a channel for their evil shittiness.
Perfection editionPrevious: >>34075791
Women,Would it be weird for a guy to spit on your pussy while eating you out?
>>34081136I need a trainer
>>34081137100% the first optionGive me a horny mid girl pleeeaaasseee
>>34081137The former so we can have threesomes with the latterYour question was not well considered:)
I have a big cock and I'm never going to use it, what did god mean by this?
There's a group of friends I found within church. Initially I liked them, and decided to "join" them. However, it's been a year, and I'm getting thoughts about leaving the group due to them not being the best "fit" for me. I always feel anxious and dread before hanging out with them, but I do feel better after we hangout.Why do I feel anxious to hang out with people? Shouldn't it be something I look forward to?
>>34078937I think it's just performance anxiety and you're sabotaging because you're afraid of failure. Usually problems aren't this straight forward.
when trying to make girl friends on the internet (i'm f as well and not a tranny ok) i always feel like i'm the more desperate one and they always act colder than me. should i just give up and search for the needle in the haystack that is an internet male friend who isn't a simp/just wants to be friends? i'm into good vidya and i just want friends.
Why would anyone want to be friends with you? Stay where you are, where people are kind of like you. The world will hurt you a lot if you don't. Take it from m
>>34077669because everyone has friends, people who are better and those who are worse than me. everyone but me.
>>34077627You're better off meeting real people at a club or social thing like college and playing games with themDon't befriend anyone from this thread either they will just be a simp
>>34077677>i'm into good vidya and i just want friends.what vidya are we talking about?>everyone but me.is a suboptimal mindset. i have no friends, for example. but im also a rather different character and born in the wrong century. also if you are strong yourself, you dont need friends. are you strong? and i dont mean strong physically dummyall my former friends took the clot shot and i didnt. if i did it like them, id be mentally done for this spin of the wheel or worse, deadyou should not look at others, but look at yourself. better yourself, make yourself better, capable. if you are better, people will see or feel that and try to be your friend instead/search contact w you.>just wants to be friends>over the internetyou should find ppl irl. actual friends are made irl.contacts, are made online.
It would be nice to have a friend to vidja with. I'm down if you want to chillDis is Ravencordance
What's it called when someone touches you casually/randomly, and you have a lingering uncomfortable feeling in that spot for a while, like you're hyper-aware of the spot they touched? Like a phantom sensation i guess... I'm trying to gauge how normal it is. Someone touched my hand over an hour ago, and I'm still like "ick, get it off me".It's not a germ thing at all. Although i do get a very strong urge to wash the part of my body they touched when this happens. It's literally just fucking cooties, I can't explain. I'm still annoyed by this an hour later, and it still feels like they just touched my skin a minute ago. How common is this shit??
i am my scares!
Have you ever considered you just dont like them
If I had a penny for every time a woman complained about a guy who did not come off as gay, I'd be richer than Elon Musk.
>>34077867I know what you mean but idk.
Hypervigilance
>35>NEET for basically entire life>no high school or college education>dropped out of school in 9th grade>never worked>have left house maybe 6times in past 15 years>0 social skills>obese >never had a face to face interaction with someone my own age throughout my teens and 20s>ginger>never had a job>can't drive>never had friends>KHHV>parents are broke so I won't inherit anythingComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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>>34075711>>34073419hey op are you real?
>>34078902Why wouldn't I be real
>>34078310heres the op samefagging her shitty b8 thread
>>34078930why are you uploading the same thread repeatedly and not doing anything?
Moved out, went no contact, but they found my address, now what?
>>34078373You are an asshole. Neat.
>>34078373Restraining order
>>34078373Guns
>>34078373Now what!
Should I really revisit my family ? >be me >argue with family >leave >holidays >emotional guilt >whatdo.pngI wrote them off a long time ago but could I net NEETDOM through it ?
>toxic?yes >NEETDOMI could leverage the guilt trip, if I'm not too bothered to and become a NEET for the holidays.
>>34078113you realize NEET means Not in Education, Employment, or Training, right?It connotes one who is either coasting on disability or unemployment benefits, or living in your mom's basement playing vidya for 16 hours a day and usually with a diet that comes out of bags, boxes or cans.What do you MEAN?
>>34078155Meaning I can quit trying.As I am doing all of those things currently. I am in all aspects doing all of them at all times. Should I let go of the wheel and cave in to the demands of an annoying fucking family ?!
>>34078163Ok, so you just meant stay at home..You have your own place?How long have you been on "outs" with them?Yes, you can quit trying.You can go full no contact, provided that you aren't being supported by them in any way.What you need to determine is, will what you got/get from them, ALL the good AND bad, outweigh the good it may do you if you never saw them again.Would you care if they all died in a fiery car crash?Would you shed a tear, or be relieved?Keep in mind, if you are just doing it out of selfish spitefulness, that's a far different thing than doing it for your well-being.
>>34078003I wouldn't if you already made it this far, picking a scab like this is worse than being alone even if the jolly visit stays jolly. NEETDOM in situations like these shouldn't even rhyme with the word freedom
