How do I stop being angry and annoyed by everything? For example I live by a relatively busy road. Every time a car passes by blasting loud ghetto bass or revving their engine I clench my jaw subconsciously and tense my head. I can feel myself raising my blood pressure. Or if my wife keeps interrupting me and I have to talk over her. Things like that. It's not healthy to raise my blood pressure like this over minor things. How do I stop being angry and annoyed all the time?
>>34712439Stop being a douche. Accept that not one person has to cater to your expectations and give them the respect to live their lives the way they want.
>>34712490They are actually in the wrong by forcing me to listen to loud ghetto bass.
>>34712439Talk to a doctor and/or therapist about misophonia. It sounds like you have it.
>>34712439Tell your wife it's annoying how she's interrupting you. And take zoloft. I was annoyed all the time and it chilled me out
>>34715557What am I going to do at the doctor other than get prescribed drugs I don't want? >>34715874They put my wife on zoloft and she tried to quit but it permanently rewired her brain so she literally can't quit zoloft
Have any UK anons faked a job reference before? How did you do it? Should I ask family or friends to pretend to be a former employer? Should I make up a fake business that recently shut down? Will any jobs I apply to accept gmail or hotmail emails as job references? I was thinking of making up a window cleaning company, a small company of 4 or 5 employees that recently shut down, will reference checkers be suspicious that such a company doesn't have an online presence and can I just claim that we recently shut down and closed down our website as an excuse?
>>34712778even if they do reverse search it the worst that will happen is that they give you a rejection email or dont respond to your application in which you just move on
>>34712786I see, but I want to quickly know if my lie doesn't work so I can change my CV before applying to other jobs
bump
I'm looking into trying casual hookups with men and I need some help as someone with no sexual experience. For context, I've realized that I have to lose my virginity before I turn 25 in just a few short months. I've heard that gay men are "easier" but still I'm afraid of my inexperience being a turn off and preventing me from achieving my goal. I apologize if this is a broad question but how do I go about doing all this? How do I initiate and what can I do to make my inexperience less obvious (or at least hide it enough so I can still get laid)? Are there any particulars I should know about? Can I achieve all of this before the year's end at the latest? Sorry if this is the wrong board I originally asked on /lgbt/ but they told me to kick rocks. I'm not really attracted to men but no woman will ever love me so this is my only hope.Thank you for reading
>>34714850That stupid, being in the norm is nothing worth suffering and getting MST over.
>>34713286>I have to lose my virginity before I turn 25 iWhere is that the law?
>>34715181It's not the law but it's nearly impossible to form relationships with women as a 25 year old virgin. Most women can sense if a man's a virgin and no one wants an old virgin as a partner. Many will be diplomatic and say something like your first time should be "special" but it comes down to the fact that being a virgin past your early 20's for reasons other than religion or physical disability signals some kind of mental problem.I'll admit that I probably come across as deranged ITT but still I just want to experience love like anybody else and I won't be able to until I jump over this hurdle and shake off this scent of sexlessness
>>34715271It cannot be that strange to be a virgin above 25 I mean just because most have had sex by that age doesn't mean they aren't awkward insecure and/or desperate when it comes to women. Just be normal (=/= gay)
>>34714850Lmfao.
Why do women love to nag you about your health?
>>34715525They care about you.
>>34715731Yeah I think this is one of those things people take for granted never had a mom who really loved me or anyone in my life to check on me. But maybe I'm just envious, everyone is different after all. Some drown, some die of thirst.
>>34715525Because women are very annoying. If I want to eat taco bell everyday then let me eat it everyday, dumb bitch!
>>34715525because a man’s health affects his sperm. Sperm affects a woman’s health throughout pregnancy. If you produce shitty sperm she will suffer in pregnancy. And you will likely have a premature death with a declining health.
>>34715932>Sperm affects a woman’s health throughout pregnancyHave you had a kid? That's not true at all, at least not what me and my wife learned with the medical info we got before during and after our first kid lol. Men's health effects his sperm yes, it can make his sperm either slower (or faster) or deformed (large head, small tail. Small head, two tails). But all this effects is virility, his odds of firing a successful sperm into the egg. Once that sperm is in the egg, baby and mother isn't effected at all. Even if a deformed sperm makes it in, there's no deformed baby, no extra odds of disease. Because the only information a sperm carries is either an X chromosome or a Y chromosome. There's been some studies that tried to link it to an increase of miscarriage or pre-eclampsia odds but nothing conclusive was found. Miscarriage is 20% odds for every woman, and pre-eclampsia is mostly increased if the woman is overweight
I've completely given up on life. What are some LONG term projects I can do?
hand poke body suit
>>34703644There is nothing better in this world right now than weed, vidya and shitposting.
>>34707448So you want OP to reinvent Reddit?
>>34708480I would suggest you make the forum either something you like or something that's normie-bait.I would say the best normie-bait is: TV shows, celebrities, or politics.
>>34703930Better idea. He should build a plane. They sell kits you build in a garage and it takes like a years worth of hours to build the damn thing. Knew of a guy who got one and it took him over a decade to finish.
Every male here needs this slap across his faggot face.There's my /adv/ - Advice.
>>34713538women lost.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FgxacX72snA&ra=m
>>34713538would be better if every man here went on a killing spree against whores and faggot bottom simps like u
>>34713538I'm just here to offer bad advice to women
>>34714937he will NEVER accept this, he'd rather larp as andrew tate than actually learn to express himself
>>34715405Probably true. I feel bad for whoever has to clean his room when he decides today is a good day to suck start a shotgun.
not in a figurative way, but more literal, it has been eating away at me for years and i feel like i'm losing my sanity.i basically can't trust my own senses and brain, if i close a faucet i keep thinking maybe i didn't actually close it, so i keep looking at it to see if water is leaking, sometimes i keep looking for like 5 minutes.if i change a setting in a videogame i keep look at the screen to make double and triple sure that it's the actual setting, if i change the resolution i keep reading the resolution aloud multiple times to make sure i didn't mess up.i feel like i'm going insane and couldn't find similar situations by googling, it's so tiring because something as simple as closing a door at night becomes challenging since i can't trust that i actually close it and i often take pictures to calm down.
I'm no doctor but you may have obsessive compulsive disorder. I recommend watching a couple of documentaries on Youtube about this to get a feel for what it's about and where you could be headed if you don't get a grip on it. Then get medical assistance, which means psychotherapy and maybe meds. I hope you get better anon!
>>34715487>>34715547Anon pls respond with your thoughts. Don't just make threads and disappear.
>>34715487Keep that and add discipline in some area of your liking, that will make you great
Hello, good evening.My name is Juan and I'm new here. Greetings to everyone reading this post.Could someone please explain how 4chan works? I'm honestly a bit confused and don't really understand how to use this site.I'd appreciate any tips for a beginner. Thank you!
>>34710598>Could someone please explain how 4chan works?Act as stupid and childish as possible and you'll fit in.
>>34710598Read the FAQ. It has the best info. Read the rules and sticky of whatever board you're posting on.Also, search the catalog before making new threads so the board doesn't get littered with redundant threads.Last but not least, call every user either a retard or a faggot, and spam every thread with your favorite porn.
>>34710598call everyone a fag that's it
>>34710598GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN!
>>34715803"Don't forget, you're here for life!"
Remember: it's harassment if she doesnt like youIf she does like you: you're just funny
>>34713052Sorry, your mother was blowing me again and I had to smack that dumb bitch in the mouth know what I mean man?
that's the thing with these people, you have to insult their mothers before they actually start to take you seriously.
>>34712754>When does it end? If a bird shits on you from the sky are you going to call the police and say the bird harassed you?>If you get diagnosed with cancer are you going to say god is harassing you?no that's stupid. there's no laws where agents of the state will intervene against birds or god for harassing you like there are for humans. there'd be no point
>>34713105You are a spoilt brat and small minded. Enjoy getting your hands dirty when you have to take responsibility for all of the shit you don't understand.
OHHHHHH ELDEN RING
how do I avoid ending up becoming the monster that society wants me to become?
>>34712816I usually act like my own monster and just do everything for my own gain instead of others
>>34712816Society is the monster, the world is the monster, you're supposed to reject the entire world and bow to no-one except God. The Earth is good, nature is good, forests are cool, oceans are nice. Sometimes on rare occasions there are kind humans who will see you as human, but altogether the world is what's monstrous, not you.
>>34712816Society doesn’t want you to become a monster, this is something your delirious brain made up. It doesn’t care about you. At all. 0. Only I care about you, anon :3 . Tell me more
I've exhausted the dopamine hits that used to hit the spot.I was addicted to take out food and coffee but now I'm over itSame with sports bettingSame with pornSame with video gamesSame with musicSame with movies sort of (I still like horror flicks at the cinema)
>>34715472Do a non-consumption based activity or at least one that gives less dopamine. Reading would be a good start but going outside is also good. It's pretty much what >>34715537 says.
>>34715608I don't like reading at all. But going outside sounds good with the right excuse. I still like energy drinks so I guess that's my excuse to go out and grab one from the store and walk a bit around the neighborhood
>>34715472People like us were never meant to be domesticated. Society is a cage, I don't want to do 9 - 5 I don't want to stare at a screen I don't want to live in boxes, I don't want to wait in lines I don't want to lay my taxes I don't even want money, man, I don't want this societal enterprise it's all fake it's just play pretend for adults, I want to go back to the fucking jungle I want a forest I want a cabin in the woods or a lodge in a mountain fucking hate society man
I would try video essays. If you don't like to read these might be nice, some of them are quite interesting. I also usually play a simple mobile game while watching a video essay if I'm feeling extra bored
>>34715689Made a camp couple days ago at the outskirts of my town (at the coastline) I have totally forgotten how fucking peaceful it is to sleep out in the wilderness. This fucking secularism/satanic slave system is a grotesque nightmare. May the One who is infinite and above all things help us all...
having month expired milk in the fridge definitely means that there's something fundamentally fucked in one's life, right?
>>34713477Make béchamel sauce
>>34713599>throw it outThat's the thing. OP won't throw it out because that would involve being proactive in his life. OP has spent the last 15 years perfecting the art of passively avoiding life.
>>34713477You have milk in your fridge, you are doing better than me.
>month? i have food items that are years over the date. some are fine some are going to be a weird art project and some, well better not talk about it.
>>34714462>that would involve being proactivewhat? throwing out spoiled milk is extremely reactive
How do I stop being in love with a girl? The story is quite long and I don’t want to bore you with all the details, but the fact is that she made it clear to me, in no uncertain terms, that she is not romantically attracted to me. Fair enough. The thing is, I still like her.For about two months, I had managed not to see her anymore, and my feelings had started to fade a little. But last week I happened to run into her by chance. She stopped me to say hello and ask where I had disappeared to, and that alone was enough to undo the progress I had made over those two months.I don’t want to keep having these feelings for someone who doesn’t feel the same way and with whom I have no chance of having a romantic relationship. I would like to forget about her and move on with my life, but I can’t seem to do it.Do you have any advice?
>>34715609That's why they say don't shit where you eat. You might have to leave that group.
>>34715609Then hang out with group 1 and forget about group 2
Have a huge fight with her that permanently alters the way you see her forever... At least that's what worked for me when I had an FP.Otherwise, try to find things that you disagree on fundamentally. Could be small stupid petty shit but you need to get your brain used to thinking of her in a non-perfect light. If I had to guess, you have really bad limerence.
>>34715641>>34715679I can’t and I don’t want to leave that group. I’d rather feel bad every time I see her >>34715683>If I had to guess, you have really bad limerenceYes, I guess so. I’ll try to put effort into seeing her flaws and not idealizing her
>>34715697>I can’t and I don’t want to leave that group. I’d rather feel bad every time I see herYou have no choice but to cope.
Is it stupid that I don't feel attracted to a woman if she doesn't have good taste in music (good in my eyes)?
>>34715355I listen to old stuff too including some of those. I think normgroid women think anything below the most basic surface level new music from radio or an algorithm is some fucking weirdo shit. I'm completely alone so I won't attempt to give you advice but sympathy.
>stupid>attractedstupidity isn't at play here, attraction works mostly on emotions, and emotions are irrational so you do you, search your ideal girl with good taste in music for youalso, you should have written "good in my ears", it would have been funnier
>>34715328Yep
>>34715355Unfortunately most people won't even know what half the genres you mentioned are. If you want to find women who listen to those kinds of music, your best bet would be going to concerts and getting involved in your local music scene.Whether or not it's stupid is debatable, but it's still a valid criteria if you absolutely cannot stand it. If you force yourself while knowing it's an absolute deal breaker for you, you're just wasting everyone's time.
No. You should like how the woman you're around is.
Would people give me shirt if I wore this shirt in public? I live in California btw
>>34712487On the beach, no. In church, yes.
>>34712487It is really lame 2013 Redditor hipster shit anon. The only cool graphic Tees are band shirts, fashion brand logos, and the ones that just say bullshit nobody reads anyway (OHIO BULL RACING CLUB EST 1978)
>>34712487Kek. That's funny.
>>34712930Not quite. Idk if young mothers would appreciate it, especially since they would not get the joke.
Best shirt ever:YOU'RE JUST JEALOUS BECAUSE THE LITTLE VOICES WON'T TALK TO YOU
