Why do women treat me like shit my entire life by not having sex with me?
>>34635489stop posting that guy's retarded face on here you faggot spammer.sage
>>34645638What’s retarded about his face?
>>34635489Because you're a shit person who only wants sex, not a relationship. You don't truly love women, you love them pleasuring you.
Meditate upon the Enneads, connect your incoherent appetites with your rationality, become passionate instead of emotional
>>34648743>>34648769Fuck off, cunts.
I am 37 years old and a khhv.If i would end up meeting someone and got asked about my last relationship or how many sexual partners i had, what i should say?
Hello,I am a Woman and I wanted to tell you my thoughts. If someone loves you they won’t care about any of that so dont lie to the women you meet with. If she does care it’s because of insecurity (eg; “He wont know how real women look since he has never been with one and he will expect me to look like a pornstar/model) but those fears will go away if you treat her right and are nice to her.
>>34646104>never having had a serious relationship is weirdIf someone fails a serious relationship then what his new woman is expecting from him? Isn't this a "red flag"?>>34649596>If someone loves you they won’t careBefore someone will fall in love with me i would have to pass the initial filter and being a virgin is a tough one.
>>34649625When someone likes you for who you are none of that matters. Im speaking from personal experience here.
>>34649625If she loves you she would be happy to lead and help you lose your virginity in a comfortable way. Dont overthink
>>34649596do no trust her even if she's saying the truth, she is not the majoritydo not state you're a 37 year old virgin to a woman you're trying to date
Anybody know what it takes to make a successful PMV? I've been trying for years to make one that people like, but I only ever manage to get like 1K views on them while other PMV creators get like 10K or 30K views on theirs.
>>34645374Let's celebrate by giving OP a blowjob
>>346458335.7K views and apparently it now has this squiggly arrow icon over the top of it. I guess that means it's on some kind of trending list.
>>346289905.1 with 109 votes>>346484266.0K views
>>34641887So this is my score report for the pmv games of 2026. It's how they do it based on their judging criteria.>https://www.worldpmvgames.com/judgingThis was the preliminary round and the reason I didn't make it to the finals. But they did include feedback. So I guess there were 4 judges. Their names were>skerrako>Mandy>posty0398>mstc You get up to 10 points, 5 hot, 5 cold. The more points, the better your score.The hot points count more than the cold points, cause it's all about being positive. My average score was 2.23
>>34650443Here's what each of the judges scored me and their individual feedback of my video >skerrako>Hot Score = 1>Cold Score = 3>Total Score = 0.70>Finalist Nomination = No>Comment>Wel isnt this a love letter tot he legendary Nastya Ness!. As far as a PMV, pretty basic, unforutnately the cuts arent always synced wand tightly, but this edit does have great source material. I do that you used all of the alotted time, but it feels a little more like a compilation than a pmv - try adding different types of cuts and transitions to give the edit some depth. Thanks for your entry! >Mandy>Hot Score = 2>Cold Score = 3>Total Score = 1.70Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>spend most of my time bored and listless>even small goals seem too far out of reach>proven immune to every depression treatment on earth>can't even kill myself because I have people dependant on mewhat the fuck do I even do with my time?
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How do I learn to stop being so misanthropic and angry when I'm constantly reminded of being an autistic creep? I dont feel like talking or hanging out with friends and when I do, I feel like I'm annoying or boring them. I work two wagie jobs and only get one day off a week where I ruminate and try to clean before I have to go back to work. I also get ignored and disrespected at one of them for being a security guard that has to check people's belongings and ask them to fill out paperwork. I set boundaries at this job where I don't speak beyond what's necessary for the job but it's gotten to the point where people laugh and give me attitude for doing the job "too seriously". but I don't want to socialize with people who are disrespectful to me but cool with other guards. Looking forfeedback
How do you even get back the trust of an IRL close friend after saying something that hurt her feelings and now she’s blocked you everywhere?We used to talk every day and she even said I was one of her few friends. One night we were joking around insulting each other where it hurts, but she took it seriously and ended up blocking me everywhere. I tried apologizing but she didn’t respond. It’s been a month since then and I still feel really bad about it :(
>>34649686(2/2)However, this has made me think about everything again. I don't want to show up and have it turn into this awkward thing when we inevitably run into each other, but it probably will be. I guess part of me wants closure and part of me wants to be friends again. I also have a morbid curiosity to know if she has been seething anywhere close to me (I suspect this is a possibility) but that line of thought is unproductive, so I'll let that one go.I also left her a voicemail the other day. First time reaching out in, again, over 2 and a half years. Since it went directly to voicemail I know I'm still blocked, so it's a long shot that she'll even think to check her blocked voicemails (that's how it works on iPhone). She tends to be pretty immediately reactive to calls and texts, so that's another point towards "definitely blocked" I still have several mutual friends with her, but the ones that are mine have a pretty dim view of her after everything, and reaching out by proxy feels weird to me.I guess I'm just ranting now. I miss my friend.
>>34649661Damn, that's actually solid advice. If she wanted to talk to me, she would've reached out by now. Maybe I should just stop checking her messages. Thanks, anon.
>>34649691Bro, if she hasn't tried to contact you, she may have simply moved on with her life. If you two had a good friendship, she probably misses those moments too, but if she still hasn't come back by now, there's a chance that when you meet again she won't want to fix anything.If she tries to start a conversation with you at the event you're going to, just act casual. Don't overthink it. In the best-case scenario, she'll see that you've changed, and you'll see that she's changed too. And maybe (JUST MAYBE) you can rebuild the friendship as different people.Don't get discouraged, but if nothing happens, then you'll just have to accept it.
>>34650110keep in mind women are not usually the ones that reach out first in situations like that.t. been in that situation, met up in person through a mutual reintroducing us, and got married.
>>34650312Never really thought about it like that. Women are pretty complex. Maybe if he doesn’t come in all aggressive, things might just play out naturally without forcing anything. Though he’s still kind of hoping it works out, so he should probably relax a bit.
If I never got a single match on Tinder in the entire year I used it, is that a good sign to give up dating?
how about you give up posting abhorrent threads?
>>34649203No
>>34649203He’s been at it for ten years, he probably will rope if he had to stop
>>34650292would be nice if he did
Anybody ever have cramps in your diaphragm? Those hurt like a bitch.Y'all know how to minimize the pain when they happen?Shit feels like a heart attack man
>>34648900Why not like massage the diaphragm?
>>34648918Oh right:Gently press two fingers into the sore spot just under your ribcage while exhaling slowly. This can help manually release the tension
>>34648935Excruciating painful. And it's at the core of your body too. The most vulnerable of all the vulnerable places.
You just made me remember I suffered from these all the time growing up. They just started going away. By college, I hadn't had them for years. Shit's awful. Can't even breathe in or else you feel like your chest is being stabbed. I actually wish I could help you, OP.
>>34650170Thanks man. It's probably due to some vitamin deficiency. My doctor said I am severely deficient in vitamin D, and you need D to properly process calcium and a host of other stuff.She gave me a mega dose 50K IU prescription of vitamin D to be taking weekly, so we'll see where that goes.
can someone with people skills audit this and tell me what she meant>take the train to work every week for the past 4 years>sit in same spot, same car, same train every week of those 4 years>cute girl sits across from my spot each time>my age (context: usually the only person my age on that train, live in suburbs so few 20's here)>catch her stealing glances at me here and there, but otherwise never spoke to/interacted, but visually acknowledge each other>train's "culture" is basically never acknowledge anyone else unless you know them, especially on quiet car where we sit>train ride is like an hour btw, we look at each other every so often>this goes on for 2 years (how long she's been taking the same train)>one day, only time this ever happened, she gets up from her spot (we sit on the 2nd level separated by railings on opposite rows facing each other) and walks over to sit on my side, like a few seats over>Completely unprompted, the train wasn't half as crowded that day as usually is, she had like a dozen seats on her side and 1st level>Train arrives, everyone gets up beforehand to stand in line to exit (we both usually get up before the train stops)>she keeps sitting, waits for me to start walking towards the stairs down, past where she's sittingComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34648936Weird that you've set across from her for 2 years and haven't even said hi. Id at least try to get familiar with her just to break the ice. "Morning, seems kinda weird that we've been sitting across from eachother and haven't ever talked, lol, im anon."
>>34649768Wouldn't it be kinda weird after 2 years? To suddenly go from vaguely acknowledging each other to talking?And the train car we usually take is mostly the same people each time (I can recognize at least 8 of them by face) but I've never seen anyone speak on the train/platform ig it's just the way things are here>>34649041How? Like, as a socially inexperienced person, what do I even say? That the morning is nice? Serious question here. I see her reading on some days (idk the books or authors tho) so should I ask about that or would that be creepy?
>>34649860>That the morning is nice?A neutral theme like the weather is always a good thing. Or maybe talk about the local sports-ball team. If she has ear buds in, you could talk about music. I don't know your culture, so maybe talk about weekend drinking or some TV event.If you want to be more personal, if you know anything about clothing. You could comment on your shoes or her coat. Maybe she just got her nails or hair done.If you want to be very personal, you could say how seeing her on the morning train is proof you are awake and not just dreaming about the commute. Or something goofy like that.
>>34650054How should I say it though? Like do I need to say my name, followed by the weather? Or like "Hey, the weather is cloudy today, I hope it doesn't rain. I'm anon btw"And like if she gives a one-word response do I just keep talking or back off? Do I need to say "sorry" or "see you" or something? I don't want to weird her out and make her feel uncomfortable siting in the same train
>>34649860>Wouldn't it be kinda weird after 2 years? To suddenly go from vaguely acknowledging each other to talking?I mean a little, but you have to get over that hump if you wanna talk to her. You're really just talking to her to see if she wants to talk to you. You'll sense from how she responds to you if she wants to talk to you or get to know you at all. If she seems happy to talk, asks questions or talks about herself willingly. And hell if she doesn't seem like she wants to talk then at least now you know, you wont have to wonder what could have been if you talked to her.
Why are women so obsessed with confidence in men?
>>34643562Because men who don't have it are insufferable
>>34647916That didn't answer my question
>>34647947And douchebags are so good
>>34648819The douchebag will at least protect her
>>34648819Douchebags are overconfident.They overstate their abilities and importance. You can be confident without being pompous.
By being the most self aware as possible (I'll only take advice from people that understand that their motivations and actions are influenced by complex mechanisms like hormones, social standards etc... I'm not into evopsych but one must admit that what we say we are is not very accurate)What kind of men, in terms of attitude do women like? Is it tony soprano, the strong silent type?The happy loyal man? The disdainful cat-like man? The warm but distant mentor figure?I understand that many have different tastes, and it changes with time. But I'd like to use behaviour modification to be more like what people like while still respecting my own goals and values
>>34644965Still its better than no source or trust my anxiety bro
>>34639364And how to be confident? Or appear to be so?
literally just bee yourself (the good parts of yourself) and make them laugh
>>34644955He’s good looking and it still wasn’t enough, most guys should just give up on dating in general. Just fuck hookers once in a while
>>34644955Clav is an insecure narcissist man baby, it really shouldn't be a surprise he struggles with relationships even if he's pretty.
I talked to some random retard "architect" for a simple job, to fix a house plan I gave him for a 1 floor construction and to do the paperwork. I paid him half of what he had asked, as is custom in my country.The guy told me he'd give me a proposal for a 2-floor construction in a week. Three weeks later, he sent me some retarded shit that missed some rather obvious stuff, like the office I included in the blueprint I gave him.The question is: should I tell this retard to give me (all or most of) my money back and tell him to fuck off, or should I just tell him to do what I had asked for originally? First option is the most painful one, since I'd have to look for someone else that might be as retarded as this one, plus I'm not even sure I'll ever get my money back.2nd one is the sunken cost one, I guess.
>>34645218you have to do it yourself. 'Professional' means professional fuck up who thinks of your job as an obstacle in the way of money that just needs to go away. See if you can get the money back, and then spend a week or so learning what you'll need to know to make your own design
>>34645606Already did design some shitty plans and gave it to him. The guy wanted to display his creativity... Something I never asked him to do but I stupidly assumed could be of help, and so I let him waste time on that.I don't know shit about construction codes, so I'll just have him do whatever else is needed. I'm tired of wasting time on this shit.
>>34642289Whatever you do, make sure you keep up this smug I know better than the professionals thing you have going on.
>>34650059>make sure you keep up this smug I know better than the professionals thing you have going onThat's what you call asking to stick with one floor construction you originally agreed upon instead of 2 floor construction which doesn't have what you need in the first place, huh? Mommy and daddy really kept themselves in the family bloodline it seems.
>>34650059??? Missing a fucking room when I specified it in my original plans is retarded, esp. considering we had talked about a potential second floor and told him that *maybe* I'd build it in the future. Just MAYBE.There are other things to consider that I haven't explained bc it'd make this shit too long, but the thing is that I gave him something as a reference, and he gave me something completely different.
I'm 23 years old vitgin and honestly, this is starting to take a toll on me. Should I just go with a whore at this point, or will it make things worse?
>>34644773They need to believe so. The fact that men and women are messed up while they were boys and girls is too much. I have a working memory, incels/female failures today weren't the popular kids with great families back in school
>>34643604>Go talk to women ffs. You aren't approaching enough. You aren't interacting with them enoughI don't understand this. You're supposed to just go up to random women and start hitting on them? What on earth would you even say? I have no idea
>>34642233this isn't true at all, i lost my virginity normally with a girl but i really remember the second chick i had sex with because i liked her more
>>34642396>there's more important things than sex.I'm informed that if I never procreate, I have failed as a human being.
>>34650206Idk man, the last guy to get arrested in your city probably has kids, meanwhile Nikola Tesla died a virgin. People that are doing well don't really care about people who aren't. The people that routinely mock incels are people who are barely not incels. Like fat redditors with their fat dog wife
Why is speech silver and silence golden?Previous thread: >>34646600
>>34651569Some women are into that. Find one who smokes.
>>34651568I never claimed any if that, fatty plus more adult men are fat than adult womenthe point is that what counts as effort depends on what your challenges are, if you're someone that loses weight when stressed and turns into a spooky scary skeleton then you don't have the right to count not being fat as putting in effort, then you'd have to build some muscles to be able to get effort points, if you struggle with hygiene then showering every day and learning how to do your hair and investing the money to get your teeth fixed counts, if you still wear the washed out graphic shirts your mom bought you in highschool then getting some nice clothes counts
>>34651571>Find one who smokes.I don't like those.
>>34651572Again with the extreme examples of every non-Chad being some anime watching fat neckbeard who wears graphic shirts. You're so out of touch as a female creature. Just shut the fuck up, moron.
>>34651575the point is to always invest your efforts into the areas you're lacking the most and that you have to overcome the most, there's no point in a fatty spending money on nice clothes to ploish a turd just because ordering a bunch of outfits is less effort than tackling your disordered eating but if you have an issue with spending money on yourself and never get anything nice to wear then you'd won't be able to make up for that by starving yourself despite not being fat learn to use your brain and stop seething because you can't get pussy, it's not a cute look
I have been wracking my brain over wanting to pump and dump college chicks.I manage to attract a decent number of younger girls, but I don’t know how to actually go about just fucking and then never seeing them again. I don’t want them texting me or following up on social media or some shit. Any advice?
>>34649096If you tried something called honesty instead of being a spiritual snake Jew rat bastard, you could just say "let's be friends with benefits" or "I'm short term kinda guy, nothing serious but looking for fun." Which is codeword for "let us fuck but neither of us commit."You don't need to lure people in with false expectations. Not only cuz it sucks for them but it sucks for you long term because then you just earn a reputation you can't wash off. If you're gonna be a coomer dickhead, at least be an honest one. That's respectable. No one respects a two faced lying dickhead.
>>34649150Yeah I agree, you'd be surprised how many women just want dick, gotta just own it. Doesn't mean act like a lust obsessed faggot, but telling a chick "hey I just wanna mess around a bit, nothing serious" is A ok and lots of them are looking for that arrangement too.
>>34649157>lots of them are looking for that arrangement too.It's true. I'd say only some are. Only some women look for that arrangement. The rest of them just accept it. The ones who settle for it are the chicks that try to win your love later, only pretending to be casually attached in order to mirror your values (or lack thereof depending on who you ask). And after you act out the arrangement with the girl she starts trying to chain you down emotionally to keep you forever. And not in a pleasant way, in a controlling and borderline psychotic way.
>>34649169That’s my main concern. Don’t want to take the gamble.
>>34649096just ask them for money after or something
