i might be hypersexual or at least i have a strong sex drive and since i was like 12 I've been really into gross hentai and i can only make myself orgasm when watching that stuff, like when watching vanilla, i just don't get off. i think it's because of my low self-esteem, so i want something degrading for me. now that i have a boyfriend (we both were each others' first, so we're inexperienced), he's been trying to make me cum but i don't think i can if I'm not watching gross hentai and I'm not telling my bf that bc i know the stuff he likes is vanilla and i don't think he'd be accepting of what i like bc it's too much for him. also I've started to get disgusted of myself whenever i watch anything too weirdhow do i become normal so my boyfriend makes me finish?
>>33828996no.
>>33828999thank you maybe I'll try to ask him to be more assertive but also yeah idk if it'll work. and yeah obvs im not gonna go too far
>tomokoniggerkill yourself
>>33828722Genuinely, let him fuck you in the ass.
How do I work in politics as a fresh graduate with a math major and no connections?
>>33830493buh
>>33830493You run for office
>>33830493join the youth socialist party, or the other wing party
>Be Me>Got horny randomly>Opened a porn site to jerk off>Found nothing interesting to turn me on>Got really bored>Closed my pc and stood in balcony for fresh air>Saw my neighbor woman hanging her clothes in her lawn to dry them>A sudden urge of gooning while rubbing her panty over my dick hit me>I sneaked into her lawn and stole her panties when no one was looking>I gooned hard to her panties and it felt so good >Days passed but now I need more fresh panties>My neighbor woman stopped putting her clothes out side for drying as last time someone stole her panties>Nowdays I just wanders around in paid Laundries just to steal some hot women panties >I really love sniffing panties and rubbing them over my dick to goon>God I seriously need help
>>33831233You obviously need help, got that, but in terms of just not stealing any more, would it also be acceptable for you to buy panties. Because girls sell them online
Kissles hugless incel here, Ive been thinking about traveling for sex for a couple of years now, I wake up up every day with pussy on my mind and start browsing for trips but end up failing to just pull the trigger and actually go. Money is not the isssue but theres some self imposed limitations or fears that hold me back. I'm scared that I show up in a foreign country and the hotel declines my card or it wont work at the ATM. These type of fears keep me paralyzed at home, how to stop being a pathetic pussy?
>>33831167>Nearly women in those places are traffickedObjectively false.
>>33830663pretty rare seeing someone like her. Most in my country look like bimbos, and most look way different irl so I stopped even bothering searching. I missed that site when I was in Amsterdam. The issue is that there you have to do research with whatever room your renting as most have strict rules against house "guests" and they will have cams in the entry. I think it's an issue with most Airbnbs anyway.
>>33831170Because I lived next to one for years and also barkeeped at several brotherls. Also, you know this if you are actually from here and not some p*ritan amerimutt who unironically thinks in larp categories like "White" instead of nationalities. >>33831195Cope. Its ok to save money and go for the cheap hookers, its however gay as fuck to delude yourself about what kind of business you are engaging in.
>>33831170They have a choice to stay poor at home. But they are tricked into having to give ridiculous high amount for "rent" and other dumb shit from their income and paying 5k for transportation from romania to the netherlands. But only after they arrived.
>>33830417>women anything>sex anythingHave you considered transcending to higher planes existence?
I don't know where to look, whom to ask, or what to do anymore. I beg you for some advice. I have severe issues with my sexuality, that is, with my libido. As far as I can tell, it's been like this forever. As a boy, very early on, probably at the age of 4 or 5, I started experimenting. But not only with myself, also with other girls. I remember putting it in (or at least trying to do so), at the age of 5 or so. I consider that too early; it also got me into trouble a couple of times. This continued until puberty, which is when I got pretty shy. I started masturbating properly, but always kept it to myself. It wasn't until early adulthood, probably around the age of 17/18, that I started doing more deprived shit. I started recording myself gooning, video chatting with other perverts, sending nudes to chicks from our friends groups. I am a lucky bastard that nothing ever leaked (at least no one has ever called me out on anything). My behavior changed whenever I found partners and I could actually get my shit together. But it always seemed as if it slowly creeped back to me. Now, in my late 20s, I realize that this deprived behavior and perverted thoughts will probably never leave on their own. I am conscious enough to understand that this is damaging; not only to myself but especially to others. Girls. They start hating me after a couple of months because I am too shallow and like them for their physical traits. The person itself is important to me, but it always leads to sex in the end. No proper relationships. Currently, I have it under control most of the time. But when I have a bad day, sleep too little, lack something... I start gooning heavily. Sending nudes. Video chatting with strangers. Oh please, does anyone have experience with this? I tried everything but it's always as if there's another personality in me, an evil one, that takes over when things are bad. And everything I worked on vanishes.
>>33827577>gooningOnly love matters bro, it's over.
Is buying a 4chan pass worth it? The fact that it increased to $60 got me pondering.
>>33830683It was ok for $20, especially when we had those 10 minute captchas. Nowadays it's not worth it, even for $20. Unless you life in a bigger city with shared IPs and you are constantly range banned. But $60 is too much.
>>33830683>>33831210It's 30 per year, 60 for three. It's only slightly worth it, because you tend to be less banned for dumb stuff like posting in offtopic threads on /tv/. In theory you can spam better, and that's why bots use the pass.
I just got promoted to captain extremely quickly and I’ve flown with my wife (first officer) 2 times so far. We’re young but luckily we both lost our virginities to ourselves and we live a very trad lifestyle (except for the fact that she works lol) but it’s very clear I’m the leader in our marriage and she doesn’t have authority over me, except that’s what I thought. Yesterday we flew together and because of SOP (standard operating procedure) she was the pilot flying and I was the pilot monitoring. I know it’s pure procedure but I absolutely hated when she was telling me what to do. I got angry at her and told her “I know what to do stop telling me” she was about to reply and I snapped at her and yelled at her and she started crying. I told her I’m flying and I didn’t need her help. I went completely against procedures but it’s fine. I realize I don’t want her to work anymore. What do I do? Why do I feel this way? Picrel
>>33830623Why is every pilot fucked up like this? Every time I read a thread by a pilot it's about how he hates his wife or something.
>>33830713SO MUCH THIS.
>>33830910It is literally the one same guy making all of them. He is a 36 year old virgin neet.
>pilot. >"Don't tell me what to do!" Most pilots are like this. Just count yourself lucky she works and help train her. I wish my wife worked. When she did I showed her the books and she was costing us money.
>>3383091060% of /adv/ is schizo spam, pilot threads are just one of those. At least he writes new text, instead just spamming the same shit
TLDR: Fucked a friend and I want more sex, FWB thing but now she is not interested anymore..What do?Last year I met a girl in my friend circle, I was not interested at first as I found out she is a bit of a hoe. She was interested in me and made lots of remarks that she would like to come to my place etc.. I even was there for her when she was on pills and going though some shit and I didn't take advantage of herFast forward a year later I now have not had sex in ages so I decide it's time to dip it.We go for a walk, I tell her she is cute, we make out, we both turn each other on. She is busy the next few days so she come over to my place after maybe 2 weeks.Here is where it gets fucked up.We are making out on my bed and I get ED when we are about to fuck... ruining the passionate vibe, I manage to get it in but cum in 3 strokes. She stays the night and we make cake 3 more times with each getting better IMOThe morning I have prepared breakfast, we talk, go for a walk, etc.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>33826538That's just how hoes are. They show interest until you fuck them, and then get bored and move on. The male equivalent of a fuckboi, basically. It's about the hunt, putting another notch in their headboard.I wouldn't take it personally. Just don't get attached when you plug a chick like this. You get what you get, and you don't get upset.FWB isn't really a thing. The reality of those situations is that two people hook up, one gets attached and the other doesn't. They'll keep fucking for as long as it's convenient for the unattached party; but usually the attached party's desperation to lock them down spoils things fast.
>>33829525only a faggot would stop fucking a girl like that after a round or two... Obviously I was going to ravage that pussy as much as I can>>33830907..yeah, that makes sense, had a fat chick in the past which after a while texted me she wanted more than just to meet and fuck and I cut her off... it was a matter of timeShould I bring the question to her or should I just never talk with her about it? I do think in the future there might be more options to smash again if we get fucked up at a party or something but I just want a conclusion to this bs
>>33831128Just leave it. If she comes back, cool. If not, whatever. You don't get closure from chicks like this. Just doesn't happen.If you try to talk to her about your feelings, you'll turn her off forever. Fucking around for them is like a fatty eating away their feelings. They don't engage with emotions. Ever.If your need for closure is what's driving you, you're going to crash and burn. Tbh it sounds like that's what's going on here. You got burned, and now you want her back so you can be the one to walk first. That's a bottomless pit. With hoes and thots, the ambiguity is neverending.
>>33831137Thank you for the rational advice bruhOk, Im going to stop resing this thread nowHave a great life guys and don't forget to take your Creatine, DMT and go to the Gym
Man, I wish I could have these problems. I’d love to have a mixed-sex friend group of people who aren’t fat, ugly retards. I’m attractive, I have had several handfuls of women throw themselves at me in the pst but in my ripe old age of 24 years old, I’ve become a recluse. I spend the majority of my time indoors and refuse to leave for I have creative and intellectual pursuits that I think of constantly but in the back of my mind, I’m always thinking about the social experiences that I’m missing out on
I have an ego problem. When I meet new people I automatically expect them to worship me and treat me like i'm their best friend and if they don't i lose interest fast. I'm like this with women too. If i feel even slightly rejected or the other person doesnt show much interest i also lose interest fast and give up on them almost entirely. I used to burn bridges a lot but now i only fantasize about it while enjoying solitude. Maybe im bad at pacing things because its like i want to rush 0 to 100 fast. This is probably due to having an extremely narcissistic father. Any advice? How do you keep the flame going in a relationship when it starts to get cold? I still miss one of the worst toxic exs ive ever had because she became obsessed with me and gave me attention all the time.
>>33826220Take a martial art, you will be forcibly humbled for a long time before you get any good. It is physically/emotionally painful but probably the best thing you can do.
>>33826419fpbpOP's father is very likely a narcissist also of course, but OP learned all the wrong lessons from it.
>>33826419My mom divorced my dad because of his narcissism.
>>33827626I've taken up boxing recently and it is helping me.
>>33826220So, like avoiding being around people who don't like you is narcissistic now? Is this like the new term for force teaming people?
How do I stop being disgusted at men liking me? Too many friendships went south, too many men I trusted confessed they were homosI can't function in the world without allies, women are not reliable. What do I do?
>>33826090Used to be church or school, now its bars and work. It's normal social skills to be somewhat receptive and open to people trying to meet you but you start to pick up on bad cues over time
>>33827467I don't really see the issue. I've had women attracted to me and after rejecting them I'm still friends with them. If anything, those probably make the best friendships as long as you don't lead them on.>what the fuck am I doing with my lifeI think the real problem here is this warped idea that you're supposed to "do something" with your life. Which again, could be a byproduct of low self-esteem urging to latch onto something to give you a sense of self-worth. Most normal people don't think like this for a reason (or lack of a reason). Like all animals, we're just here on this Earth to be ourselves
>>33827516>warped idea that you're supposed to "do something" with your lifeHave fun man
>>33823839thanks Anon. I definitely have to change my attitude towards getting women.Being strong minded is no problem towards other men, but for women I turned soft and bent my personality a little bit. This will be an interesting task.
>>33820712>too many men I trusted confessed they were homohuhthis happened to me twice recentlyfucking infuriatingone of them is married with young childrengl anon
I feel like my sovl was a lot deeper at some point and now it is much less so. How do I soulmaxx? My best guess is maybe to read some books. What are the best soulmaxxing books? Is there anything else I should be thinking about other than maintaining optimal physical health and reading and sleeping good?
>>33831145>What are the best soulmaxxing books?The RA MAterial, End of your world by Adyashanti, I Am The Word chanelled by Paul Sellig.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0dgKaz7VX_s
How do I get my 8 year old nephew to stop bullying me for never having a gf?
>>33820541tell his mom
lmao op has no gf
>>33820541Just tell him he's never gonna have a good economy
>>33824895Yes actually
>>33820572Children can sniff out undesirables and people with low social hierarchy
>Had a crush on this girl from my university for over a year>She's very attractive and pretty goofy and funny>She's a popular cheerleader type. She liked athletic guys>Even though I was nerdy I gradually changed myself to become more athletic and confident>I was talking to her, flirting without being too obvious, working on my smile, etc>We became friends, or casual friends at least>Not quite sure where I stood with her but I got the vibe of me being her nice male friend>After more than a year of knowing her I was about to confess to her>She suddenly appears with this guy at least a decade older than her, he looks like he's homeless, his clothes are all dirty and torn, his hair looks filthy, his beard was like a foot long and dirty, he's missing several teeth, he has shitty tattoos all over his face, lots of facial piercings that look infected, he smelled really bad, etc>She starts kissing him in front of everyone and calling him darling>Oh brother if I had a gun right now I'd kill myself>When I confronted her about how I liked her over a year and now she appears with this loser, she says she likes a bad boy who's genuine rather than a goody two shoes like me>Since this happened I've already gained over 100 pounds, stopped washing myself or my clothes, stopped exercising, etc>What should I do? Why should I work hard only to lose to a homeless loser?
>>33825790Ngl, a month is way too long. But I guess it depends on how often you see the chick. If you see her multiple times a week, then 2 weeks max. But if it's once a week or something I could see 1 month making sense.
>>33825845That's why I said max. Ideally it should be way less than a month but if you're the type of dude who really likes to take his time then a month is the absolute maximum, even though it's still pretty ridiculous. Otherwise you're shit out of luck.
>>33815655your story teaches me to never trust a thing women say. they act like they have super high unattainable standards for men and then pull off shit like this
>>33815655Okay dude. The solution here is simple. Basically do the exact opposite of everything you did. Like just do a complete 180. Ask her out quick, don't try to be her friend, don't act desperate, and be ready to handle rejection.
>>33815655I wonder if the guy in the picrel is legitimately a homeless guy or just simply playing the role of a homeless guy because holy shit he looks rough. If he's not actually homeless he plays the role perfectly.
After my girlfriend left me rather blindsidedly, I have sought closure from her. What exactly made her hate me? At what point did she stop loving me?She never told me. She just decided to totally ignore me after the breakup.This has broke something in my brain. Due to not receiving the closure, due to not knowing exactly what I did wrong and why, I have developed fantasies of her sending me a lengthy message where she tells me how much of a pathetic retard loser I am and why I deserve to die alone and why I'm a horrible human being, and such things. It's getting unhealthy. I try to bait her into giving me such a rant, but obviously it doesn't work when she's totally ignoring me.Why am I like this?Why do I want to hear her say all these horrible things?Why am I so mindbroken?
It's called a broken heart. Your mind is grieving and thinks the best way to resolve this problem is to know the answers. You're actually thinking too logically here. Human interaction is sadly not a trial and error thing like mathematics, it's a bunch of vague feelings and shit. You definitely won't get a logical answer from a woman. You might think the next best thing is just to hate everything about yourself to cover the bases, but that's just hurting your ability to move on.Trust me, if there are any reasons, you will learn them over time with introspection. It doesn't have to be fast, she's already left. You'll learn to see the cracks in the hull once your ship stops being tossed in the storm. For now just do whatever you can to heal and give up on that bitch.
>>33831111I thank you for your words. Also checked.Since it has been well over a month since the breakup, I can only now look at this somewhat logically--it even took until today to finally take down the pictures I have of her on my walls and such.Time will... repair my mind, I suppose.
how?
Be 10 years older, from the streets, life of the party, ability to problem solve everyday situations, and the most non-autistic person in the room.
>>33830673There's lots of people with gfs who don't meet that criteria, tell me the real way
>>33830698Oh yeah sure, be a guy who has the ability to be congratulated for saying fuck you to everyone.
>>33830548By writing and speaking standard English instead of pidgin.
Find out what most girls want. Make changes to be that. Bottle bottom glasses? I got contacts. Chubby? Lose the weight and do sit ups. Poverty? Get a better degree and job.balding? Get a decent hat. Stop treating women excessively nicely. If you do that, they think you're desperate. Be a little rude from time to time... I was surprised how well that worked. About then, I became a hot item. I didn't even have to upgrade by car.
