I will go entire weeks at a time without getting in the shower or bath. If I start smelling too much like shit, I’ll just put deodorant on my body. This isn’t because I like doing, I actually hate it. But I will do anything, absolutely anything, except bathe myself because I cannot bring myself to force my ass into that fucking tub. It’s the last thing I’m ever motivated to do, every single day. Same with brushing my teeth, by the way, although the shower thing is worse. Is there any way to get myself to stop being such a disgusting unkempt retard?
>>34069945This is only a problem worth fixing if you actually have stuff going on in your life. I used to only shower once every couple of months years ago, but I was an isolated shut-in NEET at the time, so it didn't really matter at all. If you're anything like that, there's no problem with you being a disgusting unkempt retard.
>>34069945Sink shower. I do it all the time, I don't have running water.Just wet a rag, scrub a little soap on there, hit the pits, neck, and ass (in that order), chuck the rag in the wash, repeat without the soap so your skin isn't irritated, and do your arms and face normal. That'll clear most of the spots where noticeable grime or body order comes from.
>>34070495>goes from pits to neckBro why are you moving pit stank onto your neck?
>>34069945Do you never feel cold or smth?
>>34069945You can buy a kind of dry soap - powder you sprinkle on yourself, let sit, and then brush off. Made for campers and the like
I'm in my early 20s and have my first real relationship. I love my girl and am very attracted to her, but there is one problem: she's slim and I almost exclusively jerk off to women who are hundreds of pounds overweight (like thread pic but sometimes even bigger). We connect on so many levels but in the back of my head I worry about missing out with not pursuing SSBBWs. How can I stop these nagging thoughts and appreciate what I have?
>>34072571stop gooning
>>34072577I'll try. Only problem is this persists outside of porn. I see big women at school or out in public and fantasize. Thin women rarely inspire me to do the same without knowing them.
>>34072571Look Pierce, I know its difficult your woman isnt fatter, but cant you just be happy with what youve got and quit your architecture?
Where are you supposed to meet women if not through school/work or some arrangement from a third person?>he's a guy on the look out for a gfew what a creep lol 1M+ likes
Modern life of jealousy is the most disheartening thing ever. There are literally so many available women. This toxic culture makes them mentally ill and unapproachable. Do you know how many miserable people that will literally sit there and ruin you reputation for an itchy foot.Now you have to deal with the lgbt calling people a pedophile because they can’t same sex them. It’s just so repugnant. Getting older will not make someone settle for what they did not want when they were younger, it only increases their hatred.
>>34069133I absolutely despise LGBT mostly for this. They absolutely are the ones calling white males pedophiles because we are attracted to females. The word pedophile is mostly used to attack and ruin individuals reputation, when it used to be justified. Now they use it falsely just to attempt to ruin someone’s life. Also pay attention to their ethnicity because its usually jews.
>>34065958Woman here. When I was 19, I met a guy at the library because I was working there and he came up and started a conversation. I'll write this out because it's fun to remember but also I'll point out what he did that got my attention and I think would work on other chicks:1) He had arrived at the library by bike, not car. He didn't have a car and biked long distances to get around DC region. So when I met him first and all the times after that he was freshly sweaty and I'm convinced that's important for primal attraction. 2) He asked when my break is and invited to meet him outside then. All I remember now is that he showed me candles that he made and sold for a little extra cash. It was an interesting ice breaker.3) Based on our conversation at step 2 going well, he asked if I wanted to meet up with him after work. He invited my female coworker also, asked if we wanted to go hang out. She said no and I agreed.I'm so glad he talked to me because I became madly attracted to him and it's so much fun to remember now many years later. If he hadn't talked to me, he would've been just another person visiting the library and I wouldn't have even paid any attention except to my job.He was short, probably 5'6. I couldn't care less because that's still taller than me and also because he was so fit and freshly sweaty that his height really didn't matter, attraction too primal.Also he was broke, sold candles and other odd jobs for money. Wandered around and did his own thing. Also lived at home with his mom.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34065681I 22 years old. I've been in dozens of hobby groups and group activites in my life, since my teenage years. I was in the local livrary book club for 6 years, i was in the church choir, i volunteered at the homeless shelter and church food drives, volunteered for animal shelters, spent an hour or two at the library 3 times a week, went to language classes, BJJ, judo, MMA classes... The few women i met in ALL of these hobbies have been 30+. The book club is a few autistic guys and older 45+ year old women exclusively. 0 women in martial arts clubs though that's expected. Church activities have plenty of guys my age (who are all also virgins with no girlfriend lol) and exclusively older women. Volunteering also. I don't get what century you're living in, but i specifically see people here recommending libraries as places to meet women. Huh? Have you been to a library in the past 15 years? They're empty 90% of the time, and 99% of the people that do go there are there for a few minutes, pick out a book, borrow it and leave.I am genuinely at a loss when it comes to where i should meet young women. It seems to me that all they do is scroll on their phones at home until it's time to go get drunk at a nightclub or something.
>posts clip from my wife is a highschool girlOP....
I already want to start sexting a guy I known for 4 days because I am lonely but I can't cause I actually want a relationship
Why are the jannies deleting all the replies?
>>34071779Even if you had known him for 18 months, sexting him because you're lonely would be a terrible idea. If you want to a sext him because it's *hot*, that would be a much better reason. But do bear in mind he will probably post your nudes on the internet somewhere where thousands of strangers will look at them and call you a slut; so don't send them unless you're okay with that.
>>34071779it won't fix your loneliness and you'll never be able to find a relationship forever for the rest of your life bc you'll be permanently marked as the desensitized whore who sexts strangers
>>34071779Is he hot? Why wouldn't you sext him?
How fast does food digest for you? If you poop in the morning do you poop out dinner from last night?If you poop at evening/night Do you ever see a meal coming out the same day you ate it? And what did you eat when these situations happens.If you eat meals with meat and meals without meat, how fast does you digest each compared to the other? What about days where you don’t eat meat at all.I’m vegetarian and can’t make that comparison. But I’ve noticed that if I poop at evening/night time I’ll end up shitting out what I ate for breakfast and lunch. This is annoying because Sometimes lunch is not fully digested(?) , like a mix between 5 and 6 on the chart.The consistency of stool for me seems to affected by fiber intake, but the exit time doesn’t (or at least not as much).I suspect I have digestive issues unrelated to my diet, but that’s not confirmed.
>>34065056That seems about right. If you wanna change it, just put your shits on a schedule to change your metabolism. FYI, not to talk about myself but I have shit medicine (pills) so fast that they are perfectly recognisable, in the toilet, after about five minutes. There are no limits on how fast your guts can move.
>>34065056Fucking finally, a scat thread!
>>34069851You recognize the pills in your poop after 5 minutes? What pills are that and why do you need it?
About once every 3 days, a 2-3, mostly 3 on that glorious chart.I don't worry much about my stool, but I also cook all my food myself and it's pretty decent.This was also drastically different before, then not, then again.I did party.And drink.Still alive.
>>34071111pooping every 3 days sounds like constipation. how hard is it for you to shit?
What websites can I use someone’s phone number & name to screw with them? Only those things, I don’t have an email and stuff. >”Be the bigger person”Nah, that’s what pussies say.
>>34070002I’m not acting like Rambo, I’d wanna be more of a Miyagi or wise old chink or something. I’m trying to get you to see that you are being stupid because like you said, there’s a huge chance of being sued or them coming back for revenge. You don’t get to fuck with people behind the scenes anymore in this day and age. All internet service providers, cellphone networks, and everything else is fully accessible for the police and partially accessible to regulars. You’ll get busted same as you would if you had confronted 1 on 1. And thats fucking stupid because you are supposed to respect your own time and freedom more than settling some shit score with some nobody. Why risk your own quality of life for someone you dont even like? Thats backwards as fuck. What did they even do to you to make you so angry?
>>34070020Look dumbass, I don’t know want movies you have been watching but being punched in the face can lead to serious injuries much bigger than bruises. You can act like you are a big ass kicker but I am going to be honest and say I rather not get curb stomped.If you aren’t willing to answer then get out
>>34069934pussy
>>34069934>>34069958>>34070002>>34070047strong pussy energy in these posts
>>34070065>>34070123>.t Poser
How do you stop hating yourself when you're ACTUALLY a bad person and 99% of people would agree that you're correct in your self-assessment? Self-hate is unproductive and leads to nothing, I know that. It's still almost impossible to get rid of it unless you own the things you did and embrace them, which isn't the path I want to take. No religious salvation bs, please. I feel like most "unlearning self-hatred" things are directed towards absolute OCD pussies who never did anything wrong in their lives, or if they did, it was very minor. But there's nothing out there for trademark bad people with legitimate reasons for their self-hatred. Except for religious groups trying to groom and blackmail you.
>>34069331>It's still almost impossible to get rid of it unless you own the things you did and embrace them, which isn't the path I want to take.Why? Who says that owning the things you did and embracing them that it must somehow mean you will double-down on doing wrong or evil? Because truth is when you embrace that’s part of who you are, you don’t double-down on being bad, you dial it back and stop being bad so much. You take control over the negative shit instead of having it take control over (you). That’s how it’s done, OP. You can’t hope to control your inner demons if you don’t first own them and put them on a leash.
>>34069331Make restitution for your past evil acts, resolve to never do them again and to do better in the future, and accept that you're gonna carry that weight.
>>34069590>The whole point is that I already made the effort and changed.(NTA) I have to agree with the other anon: based on your conduct in this thread so far, you come across as a rude, obnoxious, aggressive piece of shit. Maybe if you stopped being so angry and so unpleasant to people all the time, you'd feel better about yourself? You're also making it difficult for people to help you by constantly talking in abstracts. It would be a lot easier if you told us what, precisely you actually did in the past that made you dislike yourself so much, what you have done to try to change, in what ways you feel it hasn't worked (other than that you're still rude and aggressive to people who are trying to help you), and in what ways you are trying to atone. Right now we're just guessing.
>>34070510>Who says that owning the things you did and embracing them that it must somehow mean you will double-down on doing wrong or evil?Yes, who says that? Because I didn't.
>>34070437>why hold yourself to moral standards if it's just gonna hold you back?That's the thing about morals, you can't just turn them on and off as you please. Thanks for linking the book, I'm going to read it.
I find that I am particularly unkind to myself and I believe its making my life way harder than it is. Most mornings when I get up, my first thought is usually something like "You are such a fucking idiot" or retard etc. I was reading that if you say things like that to yourself, what can help is fighting back and saying "No, that isn't true." So I have been trying that and I think it helps but not that much. I find it just impossible to be kind to myself because I truly feel like a failure in many facets. 35 and no kids, no house etc. Never had a girlfriend, never traveled, never explored much of anything. I feel honestly like garbage. The only thing I have going for me is that I am physically healthy. Just not mentally or emotionally healthy. How can I learn to be more kind to myself? I truly feel this holds me back because I feel so stupid for even just trying to help myself. What do you do when you are your own worst enemy?
>>34071682I like to journal because it forces me to organize my ideas in a more logical manner, then I can list the issues that I have, and make small steps to improve. I track my goals with a planner. But, in general, I think the key is to try as much as I can to let go of the past. I don't look through my old journals, I throw them away. I've done and thought so many stupid and embarassing things. I try my best to live each day on its own, not in the shadow of my past. I always like what old jordan peterson had to say, try to talk to yourself like you would to a friend, sometimes i go full schizo and talk to myself (one voice is unreasonable and self hating) the other voice is friendly and kind, then i usually work it out
>>34071682What would you say to your 25 year old self?
>>34071906"We will move mountains"
>>34071837thanks
Up until a few years ago I really enjoyed my life. I was extremely athletic and all my passions and goals were athletic or physical. Three and a half years ago I got a lifechanging injury (I did bad damage to one of my legs) and spent a long time under medical care, they took really good care of me and I got the best care but my life is different now. It's not a bad life, but I absolutely cannot do what I used to be able to do, and unless medical science makes some big leaps, I won't ever. In all this time I never have adjusted. I'm so much more depressed, my baseline is so much worse, I sometimes just sit and wonder why anybody bothers being alive. I'm at the point now that I had a recent health "scare" and the only thought I had about it was, "Well, at least I'll be back in the hospital." And that's so pathetic. But at least when I was in the hospital I didn't have to pretend that everything was great. I could just sit there and be like a baby being coddled or whatever. Now I'm supposed to be in a good mood about life or else I'm just fucking everything up. Oh try therapy. Yeah I tried therapy. What are they going to do? Nothing that helped, that's for sure. Oh, but you'll find a new purpose in life. What could that possibly be?? I'm not good at anything else and I don't care about any of these gay ass hobbies. What is the point?? How do I find something else to live for?? What is the use, who cares???
>>34071305You possibly can still compete then or again pick a different sport if it is actually impossible, as I said. I won't pretend I wouldn't freak out a lot but I would keep just developing myself. I have a poorly healed broken thumb (from skiing) and practice piano, for instance.
>>34071012op is a feral nigger who found out kekimagine the only purpose of your life is being a monke
>>34071397It's true, only black people are in shape, or compete in sports. You're quite wise
>>34071305Have you thought about coaching?
>>34072565To be honest, I can't really bear to see other people enjoy these things. It makes me angry. I prefer not to engage with it. And, I'm also quite young. Maybe one day, but not now.
So I guess I'm just fucked. I really want to be a nurse after having been a programmer for 6 years, but with my GPA (in the USA it would be the equivalent to a 3.3, I graduated with a bachelor's in compsci) my chances for admittance are slim. Anyone have any advice on what to do to boost my chances? Other pathways I could explore? If it helps at all I'm based in Ontario, Canada.
>>34060589>in the USA it would be the equivalent to a 3.3,They don't background immigrants when they apply for doctors licenses, you can't seriously claim they're going to do some deep background check on a college application where you "forget" to include your BSCS?Just tell them you worked at Amazon in the warehouse or delivering packages or something as long at the tuition bill gets paid they DGAF around here.
>>34067201Here in Canada (or at least Ontario) there's a centralized system where they can see all that shit.
>>34067550sounds fucking stupid
Nurses aren't doctors, the process is not that selective so stop worrying about nothing
>>34070917Nah it's hyper selective, you have no chance OP, kys.
why do i find john wayne gacy's paintings comfy? have i lost my mind?
ice cream truck vibes
Dwarfs, famous for being taller than trees
When the Kite Strings Pop...
>>34068201They’re saplings
I'm working a remote IT analyst job making £50,000/y (which I think is great for an average bong without a degree), and I have £100,000 in savings and investments (because I live with my parents and own nothing).>My problemI'm nearly 29 and my life is incredibly boring, never found love and worried I'm at risk of missing out on having children with a woman of child bearing age. I was going to buy a house but I realised the only things I can afford are just really crap, and I'm losing interest in that whole idea, and maybe I should use my money to do something else. >What I wantI think I've played life too safe, and I want to take more risks and expose myself to more randomness that might be able to solve my unsatisfied desires. I think I've got good opportunities, but not sure where to start. I don't want to throw away what I've already done for myself, I just want to take a different path from here.>My questionWhat would you do if you were me? Extra background:>Wasted 18-22 by being a retarded and badly misguided hermit. >Finally got a good career path at 22Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34069308>I'm working a remote IT analyst job making £50,000/y (which I think is great for an average bong without a degree)I'm 39 and homeless in the USA. How the fuck do I achieve this job of yours?
>>34069565When I was 22 I managed to land an apprenticeship (government subsidised on-job training scheme) at a large telecom company in the IT department. It was 2 years long, and when I finished it was during the reopening economy, and the job market was really good, and I managed to get an offer from a company that deals directly with the one I was working for, and they liked my experience and enthusiasm.I heavily leveraged my youth and enthusiasm to make up for my shortcoming in academic qualification and combined it with my short experience at a big name company and I turned the questioning onto the interviewers by asking them how they could help me develop my own skills. I worked out this is the best strategy for a young person lacking experience, not to pretend to be a know-it-all. I know your position is a lot different, but you probably just need to be honest about your strengths and weaknesses, and try to frame it in the best way you can. Play the cards you were dealt.
>>34069943I guess it takes years of experience to get remote work huh
>>34071387I had none when I got my apprenticeship, which became remote after about 3 months because of covid, and after 2 years I got my current job.
>>34069308Honestly, I'm in pretty much the same position (years wasted partially from my own failure and partially from lockdowns). My plan is to buy land (houses are expensive but land is cheap where I live for some reason) and build a house from cheap materials. I know it could backfire massively if I'm a retard and can't build for shit, but I'm an American so my pioneer ancestors did it so why can't I?So basically I'm bumping in case anyone has a less retarded idea for me to do.
It’s difficult because I’m a woman and most femboys are into dudes.. which makes sense. Though if I go searching for someone under the pretenses of my fetish(?) for androgyny adjacent people then I feel like it’s disingenuous and objectifying which it isWhat should I do
>>34068841I’m 18, too young for most
>>34068845im not a sweaty 38yo man but im easily older than you, but i have the feeling young girls dont experience displeasure looking at me.either way im european so anyways was funny you are a tallish girl thats into stuff like me kek i really have a thing for tallish girls :o, hope i meet one i like soon
This thread is gay but at least you're both not AI for sure because this level of retardation can only be achieved by humans xddddd
>>34068855Good luck twin
>>34068677I'm a femboy. I just like looking pretty. I guess I like the attention but it gets old quick sometimes
I wish I had the courage to tell people that are doing annoying things to fuck off but I'm too afraid of getting my ass kicked.How do people do it?
>>34068046You're welcome :D
>>34065997What helped me with this is the realization that others are also limited by the environment they're in(and their self-image, etc). At that point it becomes a test of patience and boundaries, a lot of people will let you walk over them if you try, because just like you, they're trying to preserve harmony. Like the other anon said, there's some tards out there without self-control. You just have to spot em. They're too retarded to consider the consequences, so they'll lash out etc.
>>34067973IT'S A TOOMAHH
>>34066011I don't agree to fucking around with knives but the paper tiger thing is right. Most people just fold if you come at them assertive enough, most people want to avoid drama or being in the way, besides the initiator has advantage, the defender is not prepared for the confrontation and just wants it to go away.It's pretty much all fake and OP when you understand it. You just gather up the courage and put on a performance for 10 seconds to get what you want. If you pussyfoot around all scared, you'll look weak, they think they can get away without giving it up. Or if you act nervous and uncontrolled, the fakeness will get exposed. It's a skill. What you want to happen, you should act like the universe has already decided it's how things should be.
>>34065997Get a weapon (like a knife) and decide if they throw fists you're going to end them. It's not wrong to protect yourself so if they put you in that situation it's their own fault what happens next.
Give me real advice. My pain tolerance is very low, I need to increase it.
>>34067136get exposed to it, duh
>>34067136Some eastern martial artist would practice gently whipping each other with a thick fabric belt to create calluses all over their body and decrease the mental shock response arising from pain.Also, I once knew a carpenter who would burn up a tiny piece of coal and toss it around in his hands to "kill" the neurons in his palms and fingertips so that they would become numb to pressure or vibration coming from the electric saws and powertools he uses daily. Obviously, such extreme training methods have to be done gradually over the course of several years.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Supercompensation
>>34067136No pain mo gain
>>34069273Agreed, once an efficient painless approach is identified, more gains can be made
