How come not a single girl on Tinder swipes right on me?
>>32149133Fuck no
>>32149160No one goes on an app explicitly for one night stands and casual sex, to not have those things. Sometimes women want a thing, but don't want to be seen as wanting it. So they pretend they don't want it. Every woman on a hook up app, is there to get ploughed by some amazing hot stranger she'll never see again. That's the entire point.
I think women are getting more passive. they won't lift a finger (or swipe one) to make a relationship happen, you have to hunt them down. beg them, and they'll think about it. if you don't, someone else will. society is degrading.Also dating app companies are getting desperate and will shadowban you or limit your visibility until you prove profitable for them.
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>>32149543>> I think women are getting more passiveNo they aren't. This has always been what women are. >> Also dating app companiesTinder isn't a dating app. It's a casual sex app. I can't think of any apps that are for dating. An app that focuses on how you look and has you swipe or similar a photo isn't for dating. It's for casual sex. Genuine dating websites like eharmony or christian mingle have you complete very in-depth profiles which are the focus, not your photo.
I want to learn French, but I want you to tell me how I can do it quickly.
>>32147356Pimsleurs. The technique was refined to teach people to speak the most common 2,000 words quickly.
Move to France.
>>32147356get a calendar, do it everyday and mark it for an agreed upon minimum of time/quantity. don't quit. you can list french words you already have by way of english like renaissance revenue, gauche, fashion, cuisine, genre, entendre, menu or at least they sound french enough.I know this because i'm still struggling to get esperanto also flashcards
>>32147356get Deepl, translate everything you read into french. Spend one day per week just on verb tenses. read an entire French thesaurus 10 times and lastly read 100 french books in one year. This should get you 70% - 90% of the way there in a year.
>>32147356pimsleur
Is it unreasonable to hope that some white woman would find me... a black man... attractive?
>>32141686>I'm IrishUnironically I know way too many white guys who will do a black woman like her.The average/pol/tard will fuck skinny black girls.
>>32149157Um.... wtf did I just watch?
>>32149131>obesity is sexyYeah, I'm black and even though I like whites, asians and indians, no way in fucking hell do I think a 400 pound whale is attractive. That is just a meme.
>>32149157Interracial breeding is hot nomatawot the gender or race. black with white, white with asian, indian with black, man or woman, it's all fucking hot.
>>32141634The chubby ones seem to like bbc
How do I tell my wife that I want to see her getting f*cked by another man?I can't get the thought out of my head, but I'm just too scared to bring it up.
>>32147759I won't read kinky cuck curious threads.
>>32147759i can tell this is a yamcha thread
>>32147759the absolute state of gokeks bejitabro btw
>>32147865>she's a very modest woman, so we don't talk about sex. Then abandoned your silly fantasy or leave her for someone else will indulge in it. /Thread
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Posting here because /r9k/ is straight-up unusable in 2014+10>be me>grad school student in STEM>/fit/, average height, average face, good hygiene, not fat/ugly, dress well, no obvious deformities, etc>seems like everyone knows my name and I generally get a positive reaction from people when I speak with them>but nobody ever invites me to study with them>nobody ever invites me to do anything outside of school either>when I go to the gym, I lift alone, nobody speaks to me>when I go out to eat, I eat alone, nobody speaks to me>don't even have a social media account on any platform, no one to talk toSome more context>grew up in fucking insane household with violent (and neglectful) father and neglectful mother>wasn't allowed to play sports>wasn't allowed to invite classmates over>wasn't allowed to play or make noiseComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>32148397I'm glad that you were able to learn social skills quickly and never had to struggle with interactions.
Step one - start doing interesting things without inviting anyone you know to come along. This could be ANYTHING as long as it is cool. Driving 3 hours to see a music show thing, going out at 2am to do graffiti, going hiking, going to harvest apples renegade-style on sidewalks & then mak8ng cider in your driveway, going hunting for buried treasures. Anything as long as it is cool.Step 1 sub a: stop thinking someone wants to study with you, that is boring and lame. Nobody *wants* to study, you just have to in order to succeed. Asking someone to study with you is like asking someone to hold your hand while you pass a kidney stone. I know you probably watched alot of anime, where it's like a coy sexy thing, but that ain't real life. Step 2: talk about these cool things you do, on your own, without needing someone else to do them with you, around all your acquaintances without *directly* inviting anyone to join you.Step 3: Wait.Step 4: someone will want to join & will probably communicate this. But sometimes you may have to invite directly... but a low percentage of the time. Like, maybe 1 in 5 people needs the push of being asked to go. Most will just tell you.
>>32150336When i was in college i fucked one of my study partners.
>>32150336>don't ask people to study with me, which takes up most of my time>do subtly hint that I do interesting shit in my spare time (I do)There's no way this is effective. This sounds like some delusional Elliot Rodger shit. I guess I could benefit from being more vocal about my hobbies and interests though.>>32150382Kek nice
Why do you even want friends? I actually got diagnosed with autism in my 20s, and come to accept that I'm pretty much asocial, except for being very heterosexual.
Do all women expect you to be a leader? I am and have always been more of a follower and i dont really see the problem in that. Not all are supposed to be leaders.
>>32148905>Do all women expect you to be a leader?No. But I’d make the bold claim that decent women expect the man to lead. Insufferable women who try to lead the man are bad wife material. Leadership requires an ability to put emotions aside during critical moments, to be able to act during hard moments and to assert what you feel is the correct course of action. Not out of self-serving egotism, but to genuinely protect and support others around you.And women aren’t able to put their emotions away during critical moments, they often make decisions based on their emotions and this happens as often as every month at the least due to menstruation and hormonal peaks. They aren’t able to lead that well. So they defer to the man to do that for them, out of trust and confidence in her man. Women’s emotional role has strengths in other areas, like being emotionally intuitive and empathic towards their children and recognising their emotional needs easily. Men suck at this and thats why they demand women spell their needs out to them etc. Different strengths between sexes, and its mens strengths that lend itself toward leadership. Leadership isn’t brutally hard or macho, it doesnt require sadism or domineering. Look into healthy leadership skills
>>32149057Are there any decent women left? Do you know any? I don’t, so the whole thing doesn’t exist to me. All they want is your money.
>>32149089>I don’t, so the whole thing doesn’t exist to me. All they want is your money.That’s the consequence when you date the type of girl who wants to lead the relationship.
bump
How do I catch up on 10 years of socialization?Keep in mind, I've been legitimately diagnosed by a doctor to have autism and I'm in my early 20's.I have no friends or social life or gf. How do I even try to make friends or find a partner?I've pretty much isolated myself since middle school. I done living like this. But it might be over.
>>32150714Do you have any D&D/board game clubs in your town? That's the best place to go if you're a nerdy or neurodivergent
My mind is whirring with all sorts of emotions as I type this out. Forgive me if this is nonsensical and a blogpost.I believe I'm having some sort of panic attack. For the past year I've been passively suicidal because I've realized how predictable my life has become. I've had issues of self-sabotage since the time I was around 8. I genuinely fear happiness since with every success I have a subsequent failure or trauma that puts back into a state of equilibrium. I turn 25 in two weeks. I've never had a long term girlfriend. My parents got divorced because they had a shit relationship that only got worse when my mom snooped on his phone sometime later and found that he was sexting with another women and he was leaving her for another women. Every friend I had has either stabbed me in the back and left or drifted off their own path without bothering to keep in touch. I still have one friend I'm close to but they're in the same situation as me. I recently got hired at a place that pays 60K total which is probably the one thing I have good going for me. You can imagine I'm pretty stressed about that though.
Cont.There have been chances were I could have gotten/slept with a girl but I didn't because I didn't notice/was too nice/didn't like them back. Looking back I'm not so sure if I made a right choice there, but atleast I know I'm not buttugly. I wish I was normal. I wish I could talk to women instead of being weary of them like I'm weary of rabid dogs, I wish I was a normal person instead of a degenerate that jacks off to cartoons. I wish I didn't self-sabotage too much and ruin my opportunities when I had them, I wish my mother wasn't mentally ill and in deep denial, I wish my father didn't have intense anger issues and break furniture and computers infront of me, he got better since than but It didn't help me from still being traumatized. I wish I was more confident, I wish I wasn't so scared of sex because of this stupid feeling that I'll go to Hell if I do, or that I'm a bad person for wanting to fuck women. I'm sorry for being a bad older brother. I've had frequent suicidal thoughts in my life and tried killing myself at 19, but I made a pact to stay alive for my younger brother. I don't want him to suffer the same fate as me. Inb4 someone asks "How does this have to do anything with advice!?", my question would be, "How does one become normal? How could I rewire my brain synapses so I can fix myself from suffering as a retarded man child?".Once again I apologize for the blogpost. Just needed to get this off my chest. God Bless you all. Have a good night.
>let the wicked forsake his ways, and the evildoer his thoughts, and let him return to the lord, and he will have compassion on him, and pardon abundantly>resist the devil and he will flee from you>if we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.the lord bless YOU and keep YOU and make his face shine upon YOU
>>32150614Thank you genuinely for your kind words anon. I've calmed down now since posting this thankfully but I'll still take your words to heart regardless. Take care.
Girl I know says she's still a virgin bit did try to have sex before but stopped because her ex was hurting her trying to get inside her.She's not really a virgin right?
If posters on this board are to be believed, there isn't a single genuine honest person on face of the Earth.
Just get her to blow you, it feels nicer. Tell her that way she can stay a virgin.
>>32148310Do honestly believe a blowjob feels better than actually penetrative sex?
Virgin is someone who hasn't had a blowjob either
>>32139694I will not read humble brag threads.
How to deal with a girlfriend farting all the time? First time (in 30 years) having a gf and i dont know if its normal for couples to fart near each other. Is it?
>>32142731It is normal, but I hate it. I think it's reasonable to ask your girlfriend to not fart around you all the time. I can not be asked to find someone attractive when they are literally constantly spewing their poop air right next to me. If you want me to see you as a lady, please act like one.If she just has a little toot every now and then though it's fine, she is entitled to have a functioning body.
What is her diet like and is she fat?
>>32142731You do in bed and put the blanket over her head. Dutch oven her.
>>32142731You ungrateful bastard. Why haven't you demanded her to fart on your face until you pass out? Are you a faggot?
>>32142731change her diet
I'm 24 and all I've done since I graduated from high school is wasting my time by being a neet. What can I do to get out of this depressing lifestyle?
>>32132733You can get a "job" or work on your career. Jobs can be fun but once it gets boring or dull it's good to start working on your actual career
>>32146653I'll try this. I'll just take a walk in that hour and I'll jot down some of the things I thought about in that period.>>32147406>>32147920What about school? College graduates generally make more money than high school graduates so wouldn't getting a degree in a field where the jobs are pretty be a better idea? Should I just work up until the winter semester starts?
>>32148530>College grads make more than non graduates Eh. Depends. Yeah, you need a degree to be a doctor or shit like that, but a lot of jobs like jobs in sales offer "on the job training". If you're curious about going to trade school you'll definitely make more money than the average Joe. Go online and Google "Occupational Outlook Handbook", you can explore jobs and learn what the median income is, how fast the demand for that job is growing (or shrinking), and it'll tell you what degree or licensing you'll need. For someone with almost no work experience, a 2 year degree or a license in something can help open doors for jobs, but not all of those doors lead to "better opportunities", if that makes sense. Some jobs will help pay for your licensing or college degree. If you really do have Jack shit for work experience, going to a head hunter (employment agency) can help get your foot in the door somewhere, and a lot of times the "temp job" you got will turn into a full time offer, of you do well and the management likes you.
As long as you can use a computer and you've got a good attitude and you're willing to learn, you can get a job almost anywhere. I sell furniture for a living and it's pretty good money for the work. Literally just had to learn a bunch of shit about the different products-- Having a good attitude and being able to use the computer system is what got me hired-- O had no experience with sales or furniture coming into it
>>32148770I never knew about all this stuff, thanks! Do internships count towards something? I have a friend in computer engineering who did an internship at an airport company, he can use this as this as proof of experience when applying for a full time job right?
Anyone suffered mentally and emotionally because of a car accident? I used to be a really good driver. I would drive on cross country road trips by myself. Heck I used to be a former truck driver. Last December I got into a car accident. After that, driving down the street gets my body into panic mode. My hear rate rises, my body loses control. I have to pull over to calm down. If things couldn't get any worse I got into another car accident August.Has anyone else gone through this? Are these symptoms temporary, do they go away by themselves over time, or is there something I have to do?
>>32145571Bump
>>32148037Maybe because your vehicle and footwear camouflage in with the road.
>>32145571hit somebody else for a change.
>>32145571Maybe racing games to build confidence? No idea man.
>>321455712022 was probably the closest I felt to being a young child again in terms of happiness, that all changed when I got into a car accident on my way to work at my wagie job at Costco the day before Christmas. Roads were fucked from the snow storm but I was young and dumb and thought I could make the distance in my van. Totaled my damn car by accidentally rear-ending a guy after I skated 2 meters into him because my brakes didn't work. Called in work to tell my boss I couldn't come because of my accident and she sounded like she couldn't care less. Quit the same day.
why do I feel so awkward in conversation? how do I stop?Im perfectly capable of, maybe not great conversation, but passable small talk, but I am so sure Im coming off as an autist that I get even more fidgety and awkward
>>32150516Just remember that everyone is just as awkward as you. All you need to do to be better than 90% of people in communicating is ask easy questions like:How are you?What's your name?Do you live near by?Is your family from around here?What do you do for work?Do you travel?What hobbies do you have?What interests do you have?Just ask dumb easy questions and you are better than 90% of people.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>32150516Also just listen to people talk about themselves and they will automatically like you and think you are really smart and charismatic.You barely have to say anything
I touched boobs for the first time in my life today and literally coomed. How the hell will I ever last with a penis in a vagina if just touching boobs me finish?
>>32150298idk get drunk or something
>>32150298Opposite happened to me I had the chance to have sex with a woman but I couldn't get hard
>>32150298>How the hell will I ever last with a penis in a vagina if just touching boobs me finishyou don't, and if you try, they will say something really slutty to make you instantly shoot. unless you have 8 thick inches and can pound for an hour they will do anything in their power to discover your weakness and tell every other woman about it. if you didn't learn to stop shooting fast by 17 y/o you can never develop stamina as an adult, your brain figures you have a very low chance to breed and will lock you on premature mode for the rest of your life
Anon, don't worry about it. You'll probably be surprised. I cum in my pants the first time someone made out with me, not even while it was happening but like 20 minutes later as i drove her home. I was rock-hard the whole entire time & thinking about her asking me to come inside her parents house and fuck, or pull over somewhere and fuck, and i was thinking about her pussy which i had never seen, and then blammo, cum. And so, I was also concerned about this particular thing.But the first time I actually had sex it took me like 45 minutes or maybe an hour... I was surprised. The awkward self-awareness while naked and vulnerable isn't something you are prepared for. Maybe you can rub one out in 3 minutes - but in an actual sexual encounter everything is different. I recommend not worrying about it at all. And if you are really worries, watch some instructional videos on vaginal massage so that you can make *something* happen for her if you do bust instantly.
how do I wash my cotton gloves without them shrinking?
>>32145432Handwash, and hang dry.Or get preshrunk cotton gloves.Did you murder someone with these or something?
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>>32145432Use cold.
